married guy's headaches

[shadowless]

Hi all Bros n sisters of sbf.

I am married and just have a newborn in the family.
Really happy to be home everyday to be with the family.

But I have a small issue of which I haven had sex for the last 11months
Ever since my wife was diagnosed to be preg, she stopped all sexual activities. Even until now, my kid is 2mths old.

Am not trying to be an ass to be cheating on her , I have no intentions of tat.
But as a human I need some form of sexual love. I tried pcc for the past 11mths n its not the way to solve this problem.

N looking for fl is not in my list. Just dont like that idea. I dun want to get higher % of getting std.

I know I might get blasted for this tread, but I am just giving it a shot.

Looking for ladies to be friends for a start, looks and physical wont bother me, as long as we can click. But my end goal is a fwb. Short term or long term , we will decide along the way.

I am
27, chi male
168cm , 60kg
Not plumb or fit. Somewhere in btw.
Pls email me @ [email protected]

[nextview]

Hi all Bros n sisters of sbf.

I am married and just have a newborn in the family.
Really happy to be home everyday to be with the family.

But I have a small issue of which I haven had sex for the last 11months
Ever since my wife was diagnosed to be preg, she stopped all sexual activities. Even until now, my kid is 2mths old.

Am not trying to be an ass to be cheating on her , I have no intentions of tat.
But as a human I need some form of sexual love. I tried pcc for the past 11mths n its not the way to solve this problem.

N looking for fl is not in my list. Just dont like that idea. I dun want to get higher % of getting std.

I know I might get blasted for this tread, but I am just giving it a shot.

Looking for ladies to be friends for a start, looks and physical wont bother me, as long as we can click. But my end goal is a fwb. Short term or long term , we will decide along the way.

I am
27, chi male
168cm , 60kg
Not plumb or fit. Somewhere in btw.
Pls email me @ [email protected]


Bro since you are married I urge you not to do this way.

Your wife give birth a kid for you and this is not the way you treat her, I understand how hard to resist not having sex, you might want to tell your wife about it, I bet she will understand about that.

Maybe she is tired of working or taking care of baby that why she don't want to have any sexual.

Another point is she might have guy outside.

Try talk to her about it and I believe there is some way out rather then cheating behind her.

If you need anymore advise you can pm me. I'm glad if I'm able to help you over come this.

[acidicavex]

Women need time to adjust back after labour.... u expect her to ready n screwing just 2mths after her labour??....
If this prolong till your child turn 1 than u come back here n kpkb....
U are Frank but with that complaint I highly doubt u can get a respond cause u treat the woman as a cum dump.:rolleyes:
Good luck getting blast by the residences:D

[acidicavex]

Bro since you are married I urge you not to do this way.

Your wife give birth a kid for you and this is not the way you treat her, I understand how hard to resist not having sex, you might want to tell your wife about it, I bet she will understand about that.

Maybe she is tired of working or taking care of baby that why she don't want to have any sexual.

Another point is she might have guy outside.

Try talk to her about it and I believe there is some way out rather then cheating behind her.

If you need anymore advise you can pm me. I'm glad if I'm able to help you over come this.

Our in house aunt agony have spoken.:p

[shadowless]

Hey guys, thanks for the super fast replies.

I am not taking any1 for a cum dump.
Sorry for the misunderstanding.

N I will try harder to help things out at home and understand her position.
I am not looking for a screw but some kissing n intimate moments.

But still thanks for the advice

[demonhunter]

Look what marriage have done to a respectable and honest young lad .

Tsk tsk ....

TS why dont you ask your wife give you BBBJ instead of PCC ?

:D

[justl00king]

Bro, I feel your posting is an oxymoron. U dun wanna cheat but looking for fwb? :confused:

I'm not here to judge, but I sense that u r happily married with a lovely wife and newborn. Maybe u should discuss the issue with your wife and see how to improve things. By having some ECA on the side, may just complicate matters and risk family bliss.

Apologies if u feel that I'm just talking nonsense and blabbing...wish u all the best. :)

[acidicavex]

Hey guys, thanks for the super fast replies.

I am not taking any1 for a cum dump.
Sorry for the misunderstanding.

N I will try harder to help things out at home and understand her position.
I am not looking for a screw but some kissing n intimate moments.

But still thanks for the advice

Well If u have a little in your pocket there a few posts here offering companionship with gfe and other stuff feel. U might want to consider.
Too be Frank no women here in the right mind will offer such kissing n intimate moments..... Er.... I could be wrong but BTW the time u find it maybe your kid already turn 1.
Again good luck.

[nextview]

Hey guys, thanks for the super fast replies.

I am not taking any1 for a cum dump.
Sorry for the misunderstanding.

N I will try harder to help things out at home and understand her position.
I am not looking for a screw but some kissing n intimate moments.

But still thanks for the advice

Bo pian Liao.

我不入地狱 谁入地狱

If you are looking for somebody just for kissing I might b able to help.

Pm me if you need. But I need to let you know I'm a male.

[shadowless]

Thank u demonhunter for the ' honest n respectable ' term.

I still love my family, everything about it. Just thd sexual part.
Nothing sexual is happening.. not even kissing.

[acidicavex]

Look what marriage have done to a respectable and honest young lad .

Tsk tsk ....

TS why dont you ask your wife give you BBBJ instead of PCC ?

:D

U finish watching show with syt?? :D

[demonhunter]

U finish watching show with syt?? :D

Simi show ?

I was selling handphone cover at bugis ... just knocked off .

[acidicavex]

Simi show ?

I was selling handphone cover at bugis ... just knocked off .

I tot u say u retire man si bey eng???:p:eek:

[demonhunter]

I tot u say u retire man si bey eng???:p:eek:

Semi retire , i sell things as part time ...

:D

[bbmapple]

So what's the problem with 11 months of PCC and no sex from wife???

Like that, I make sure I no give birth... If not, my husband come here to look for FwB but not a screw.... Only kissing and intimate moments.... :confused::confused::confused:

[hcg_explorer]

Hi all Bros n sisters of sbf.

I am married and just have a newborn in the family.
Really happy to be home everyday to be with the family.

But I have a small issue of which I haven had sex for the last 11months
Ever since my wife was diagnosed to be preg, she stopped all sexual activities. Even until now, my kid is 2mths old.

Am not trying to be an ass to be cheating on her , I have no intentions of tat.
But as a human I need some form of sexual love. I tried pcc for the past 11mths n its not the way to solve this problem.

N looking for fl is not in my list. Just dont like that idea. I dun want to get higher % of getting std.

I know I might get blasted for this tread, but I am just giving it a shot.

Looking for ladies to be friends for a start, looks and physical wont bother me, as long as we can click. But my end goal is a fwb. Short term or long term , we will decide along the way.

I am
27, chi male
168cm , 60kg
Not plumb or fit. Somewhere in btw.
Pls email me @ [email protected]

in the first place... if u r looking for FWB .... u no need to explain unless u wan a free fuck.

[cloudangel]

Hey guys, thanks for the super fast replies.

I am not taking any1 for a cum dump.
Sorry for the misunderstanding.

N I will try harder to help things out at home and understand her position.
I am not looking for a screw but some kissing n intimate moments.

But still thanks for the advice


Don't because you temporary sperm clog brain than do something you might regret for the rest of your life... Go pcc and think things through again.. You might be more clearer then

[ah rat]

Ts,no need to look for 1.Just talk to yr wife about yr problem first.I think yr wife will understand & will give u piak :)

[Johnbass]

Pm me if you need. But I need to let you know I'm a male.

TS, after u see doc(nextview), can come see me.
I'm also 过来人 (been through it)

Step 1- PCC
Step 2- Do housework
Step 3- If you still have strength left after step 2, go back do step 1.
Step 4- Repeat same steps everyday

Or learn to communicate with your wife.
:D

[shadowless]

Thanks guys for the advice. Will try it out. But actually after all the house hold chores and taking care . But the time have free time also really tired alrdy.

Maybe its really a xiao cong nao thing.

[Stewardess]

Everyone has 24 hours a day. It is how you schedule it. :D

[acidicavex]

Thanks guys for the advice. Will try it out. But actually after all the house hold chores and taking care . But the time have free time also really tired alrdy.

Maybe its really a xiao cong nao thing.

Have more time one suggestion bro sit beside your newborn and admire the sight..... u will realise the scene can calm your soldiers....... :)

[Johnbass]

Thanks guys for the advice. Will try it out. But actually after all the house hold chores and taking care . But the time have free time also really tired alrdy.

Maybe its really a xiao cong nao thing.

Exactly.
If u're tired, your wife will be more tired right?
Else u find helper to ease the burden... Then you guys will have time/energy for piak piak.
If you don't find a (right)solution, nobody will.
:D

[Johnbass]

Have more time one suggestion bro sit beside your newborn and admire the sight..... u will realise the scene can calm your soldiers....... :)

Can go to "Sexual Health Issues" for reading pleasure too...
Will make your KKJ shrink
:D

[Johnbass]

Everyone has 24 hours a day. It is how you schedule it. :D

24hrs can PCC how many times?
:eek:
:D

[ah rat]

Everyone has 24 hours a day. It is how you schedule it. :D

Sis,when u are free :D

[Stewardess]

24hrs can PCC how many times?
:eek:
:D

Is that all you can think about ? :D

[Johnbass]

Is that all you can think about ? :D

I help TS ask nia lah... Wah piang
:D

[shadowless]

Yes, its a matter of how we arrange time. I guess its just tat we haven gotten used to a change in lifestyle.
But I am sure glad I did post this topic up, almost every1 has been giving me solutions.

Thank you guys

[Johnbass]

Yes, its a matter of how we arrange time. I guess its just tat we haven gotten used to a change in lifestyle.
But I am sure glad I did post this topic up, almost every1 has been giving me solutions.

Thank you guys

U gek gek ask "Shall we plan for 2nd one?"
Usually the answer is NO
Then up to your TCSS skills liao...
:D

[acidicavex]

Yes, its a matter of how we arrange time. I guess its just tat we haven gotten used to a change in lifestyle.
But I am sure glad I did post this topic up, almost every1 has been giving me solutions.

Thank you guys

If there is someone looking after newborn. Bring her out for a romantic time I believe she is now shortage of it. Show her you appreciate n what she have gone thru the labour. Maybe you will slowly rekindle things.:)