Something wrong or is it Normal?

[ApriliaRSV]

guys,
advice and comments needed,feel free to write but do be honest pls.

I am a smoker and is 29 years old.I consider myself to be quite a horny guy as i can have sex everyday.but the problem lies in....inconsistent performace...sometimes i can last more than 20 mins but most of the times i lasted only maybe 10 mins and i dun think 10 mins or so is considered premature ejaculation hor? but of course at times,i do come in less than 3mins which of course is premature ejaculation but hey....when i was in teens...it's always been like tat...sometimes fast to cum sometimes slow to cum.

but problem is,nowadays i can HARDLY do two times continously...let say if first time i cum in less than 5 mins,of course i would like to satisfy my partner by giving her a second shot but though i can be harden by her stimulation but the moment i wanna go into her....mine somehow become soften again....

alright...to cut to the question...is this normal for a guy my age??or is it coz i hardly exercise n i smoke too....asked three frens around my age....two of them smokers said....u think u still young huh?but the other one who dun smoke said he has no such problem.so is the problem lies in me or is it in smoking?

Please comment,honestly....

[beck8]

I would say it's quite normal. there is no difference btw 20mins or 10 mins. 2 mins is too short otherwise alright.

even though we say little head control big head our brain more or less controls all the things. if you are not in good mood that day with her, you may finish very quickly. just my 2 cts.

[DehOne]

Relax bro, there is nothing wrong with you other than being human. Watching porn sometimes gives you the impression that you should be a pumping machine who can stand on command. Nothing could be further from the truth. (Porn actors' performances are always edited to give a good impression.)

The reality is that sex is messy and inconsistent: I've lost count of the amount of times I have struggled to pull off my pants and fumbled with the condom when having sex with my GF. (Maybe there is a market for realistic, comedy porn!) Some days I'm raring to go, other days I'm not so keen.

There are so many factors at play... Work stress can put you off. You pass a gorgeous chio bu on the street and can see by her vpl that she is wearing a t-back thong on her lovely ass, and you are instantly horny. The kids are having problems doing homework and it is on your mind when you are in bed with your wife. You've had a nice relaxing dinner and glass of wine and your GF is looking very desirable...

Then what about relative experience?

Pro WLs are very good at getting you off fast - they know every trick in the trade and the faster you cum, the less work they have to do and the more customers they can service. "Amateurs" like GFs and wives lack this expertise (I would hope!) and just want to enjoy sex with you.

What about the hardcore cheonger who has spent years fucking around? He has probably tried everything - bbbj, cim, cof, tit fuck, ass fuck, 2 gals at the same time, you name it. It may be VERY hard for him to be stimulated by an 'ordinary' woman.

The important thing is not to worry too much. If you cum quickly, just make sure your GF or wife has her orgasm too, through fingering or licking. She will be very appreciative and will NOT complain, I assure you! :D

My only other piece of advice would be to ask you to consider quitting the smokes. Not because it affects your performance but simply to take better care of your health!

Hope the above helps!

[dt3305]

Take multi vitamin supplements...I recommedn Citrium...1 day 1 night...you also need to exercise regularly...smoking will affect quality of sperm...

The vitamins makes you feel more 'poweful' but won't be helpful if you have erectile dsyfunction...that one is a medical problem...meaning you can't have erection at all...or cannot maintain for more than 2 minutes...

[ApriliaRSV]

thanks for all those who posted replies.

so smoking only caused low quality sperm?it won't affect performace?if that's the case,then i dun care coz i dun really intend to procreate.

Another question....recently i realised my pubic hair seem to have some grey ones inside them...i can see them when the light emit onto them at certain angles.well,i do have grey hairs but not very jialat type so am i greying in my pubic area coz i m ageing?i am juz 29 leh.....guys....take a good look at yrs n tell me if u got them...but u really have to take a close n good look to see de lor.

[F15 Eagle]

All that I've wanted to say had been cover by senior DehOne, except the smoking portion.

I'm a smoker for about 20 years. Now trying to cut down not because it affect my sex performance but just wanted to save a bit from it. Calculated by my friend, I buy a pack at $10.50 everyday (I smoke at least a pack per day) and based on 30 days per month, its about $300 plus. If I cut down or even quit, I can save them for another 2 to 3 bonks... :D

As regarding the grey pubic hair, I noticed mine at the age of 27. Doctors normally told me that it is normal as the soap use for our bathing do affect them as these soap contains chemical, but they are harmless to most of our health.

[tittyhawk]

I gues smoking do plays a part in our sexual performance, needless to say that ciggies contains chemicals which harms our body in many ways..
:)

[ApriliaRSV]

oh?haha...so my some grey pubic hair is normal huh?that's a relief,phew....

So smoking harms sexual performance?hmmm....then maybe i will cut down on them but quitting?me not so sure....aiya...brother,i know cigarettes expensive then buy parallel import de lah....cheaper mah....