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obeyyodude
13-11-2013, 05:46 PM
Hi bros, I have a question, the past few months i noticed that my erection cannot last, after having sex for about 15-20 mins will become soft while still in the girl's cb! :eek: i didn't used to have this problem, and have looked through the forum but can't really find any specific info, is it ed? as i'm still in my early 20's i really hope its not! and most of the ed threads are mostly people selling supplements

Zeith
13-11-2013, 05:47 PM
Yes, i think is ed, maybe you will need ed treatment.

Absolute
13-11-2013, 05:56 PM
It is better for you to seek the advice of a urologist.

The non-experts who give their comments here are only speaking from experience or from what they have heard or read before.

You will end up with so many differing views from any Tom, Dick and Harry and still do not have a clear answer at the end of the day.

will88
13-11-2013, 06:00 PM
Seems like ED, under normal circumstances won't go soft one leh, especially while you are still engage in sex and have not ejaculate yet. Bro, go see a doc as you are only early 20s. Technically you should not have prob sustaining 2 or 3 shots at your age.

Good luck.

blk437
14-11-2013, 05:08 PM
There r many factors affecting. Psychologically n biologically. Is there and major changes in yr life? Or any burden ? Did u take any different kind of diet? Change in yr daily habit? All these need to be taken into consideration. Those without knowing all these and deduced that u have ed I think u can just give their advice a miss.

massage1001
14-11-2013, 11:31 PM
Eat more nuts

pleasurehobby
15-11-2013, 12:14 AM
Hi bros, I have a question, the past few months i noticed that my erection cannot last, after having sex for about 15-20 mins will become soft while still in the girl's cb! :eek: i didn't used to have this problem, and have looked through the forum but can't really find any specific info, is it ed? as i'm still in my early 20's i really hope its not! and most of the ed threads are mostly people selling supplements

Hi Bro,

If you are in your 20s, high chance it is not a biological problem. You might be cumulating stress from some areas in life, maybe work, personal and social. Our body needs to be relaxed and calm for blood to circulate well throughout, it is the source of giving a hard and long erection. All the talk about mind, body, spirit over centuries has certain truths to it.

I suggest trying to iron out the various stress which you might be encountering, can be through having more privaite moments alone to think slowly (meditate), or engaging in activities which you enjoy.

obeyyodude
17-11-2013, 06:51 AM
thanks to all bros who gave me advice, I heard juagen is supposed to help you improve your erection? Does it really work? I've had some juagen before but they didn't seem very authentic, waiting to try out this yf one that bros rate quite highly

Putin
17-11-2013, 08:12 AM
Eat more nuts

How does that help :confused:

handsomeboy888
17-11-2013, 09:14 AM
See a urologist now!

FanCheong
22-11-2013, 01:31 AM
i also encounter some problem but it happen at age 30's not 20's. My 20's still good. now already 30's when fking the erection doesnt last long need to recharge and sometimes recharge also cannot like suddenly loss.

Now i was looking any chinese tonic can help or not or maybe do more exercise

rawpenis
22-11-2013, 03:10 AM
i also encounter some problem but it happen at age 30's not 20's. My 20's still good. now already 30's when fking the erection doesnt last long need to recharge and sometimes recharge also cannot like suddenly loss.

Now i was looking any chinese tonic can help or not or maybe do more exercise

Me also same problem. Signs of growing old

leo_ng77
22-11-2013, 08:17 AM
Hi bros, I have a question, the past few months i noticed that my erection cannot last, after having sex for about 15-20 mins will become soft while still in the girl's cb! :eek: i didn't used to have this problem, and have looked through the forum but can't really find any specific info, is it ed? as i'm still in my early 20's i really hope its not! and most of the ed threads are mostly people selling supplements

Bro,

Most likely it is due to stress. Thus it would be good you could refrain from any sexual activity (including DIY) and take a break from whatever you are doing. Take a week break and see how it goes.

There are ED pills sold here but that would be the last alternative. Especially when you are still young.

lausiong
22-11-2013, 09:23 AM
1. see a urologist
2. check your cholesterol levels. High cholesterol contributes to ED too

szczesny
22-11-2013, 05:04 PM
Learn how to eject within 10min u shd b fine.:D

Tazzymercs
22-11-2013, 05:20 PM
i do have that..when im in a whore pussy..cannot erect for long..

reason...first is the condom...i FUCKING hate condom..but bo bian...once you tried raw...( NOT WITH FL/WHORES ) you will never go back

second is the atmosphere..sometimes the ladies will play music...some like it some dun...i belong to the latter...it disrupt me...distract me...

3) sometimes maybe is because i cannot feel the tightness required...CB maybe loose or that IM NBCB small lo...but aiyah..IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT YOU ALL THINK IN THIS lol ....

and i loves being the receiving end of a BBBJ...that will set me up for an explosive encounter...BJ with condom just will dampen the mood lo..

oh and the position you are fucking with..some ppl loves to cum in doggie..some dun..some just enjoy a while then do other pattern..im the last one...cater to your pattern that you are comfortable with...coz all in all..sometimes condom does prevent you from enjoying certain things fully...

sometimes fuck halfway can get sian want lol. you must know where you stand lo lol...but fucking FLs...die die also must wear condom..own gf/wife...can no need la..just be mentally prepared lo thats all...see if you go raw that time will shrink not lo..

pleasurehobby
23-11-2013, 12:40 AM
i do have that..when im in a whore pussy..cannot erect for long..

reason...first is the condom...i FUCKING hate condom..but bo bian...once you tried raw...( NOT WITH FL/WHORES ) you will never go back

second is the atmosphere..sometimes the ladies will play music...some like it some dun...i belong to the latter...it disrupt me...distract me...

3) sometimes maybe is because i cannot feel the tightness required...CB maybe loose or that IM NBCB small lo...but aiyah..IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT YOU ALL THINK IN THIS lol ....

and i loves being the receiving end of a BBBJ...that will set me up for an explosive encounter...BJ with condom just will dampen the mood lo..

oh and the position you are fucking with..some ppl loves to cum in doggie..some dun..some just enjoy a while then do other pattern..im the last one...cater to your pattern that you are comfortable with...coz all in all..sometimes condom does prevent you from enjoying certain things fully...

sometimes fuck halfway can get sian want lol. you must know where you stand lo lol...but fucking FLs...die die also must wear condom..own gf/wife...can no need la..just be mentally prepared lo thats all...see if you go raw that time will shrink not lo..

Hi bro, just my 2 cents worth. For condoms, try those thinner one from okamoto. 003 or 002 both feels like almost not wearing. and you can feel the lady's vaginal heat too.

And for tighness, I always do doggie for the most tigh. Personally i prefer missionary more, hence if i want a tight missionary, i will push her legs up and together, to create a super tight vaginal feeling.

for atmosphere.... i like to penetrate her like a beast. Nothing less. :cool:

freezetheDB
23-11-2013, 05:04 PM
maybe bros here can try rebooting the brain (by taking a long break from porn, or sbf or anything artifical to stimulate the brain other than real women)

http://yourbrainonporn.com/reboot_your_brain

IAmReallyNotGay
29-11-2014, 04:30 AM
see if you go raw that time will shrink not lo..

Ya this happens to me as well :(

yandaodr
30-11-2014, 12:06 PM
Could be low testosterone, DHEA or other causes which can be treated. You are very young to get ED..

you can read about it at this clinic website

http://www.knightsbridgeclinic.sg/treat-ed-singapore/

(.)(.) lover
30-11-2014, 01:40 PM
Just relax and don't think too much, you will not soften unless what you are doing doesn't excited you anymore.

porscheclub
02-12-2014, 10:52 PM
Abnormal for a 20+ young man to suffer this. What kind of women are you having sex with? If commercial then possible but if it's your GF then communicate with her verbally & physically. You guys need more effective teasing & foreplay. Lastly, visit a doctor in this field.

Personally, I used to have problems with FLs occasionally especially when there's
#1: no chemistry with the girl. Fuck-up attitude, ugly, poor figure, lousy service etc.
#2: Condom
#3: loose vagina
#3: Fatigue

A good sex partner will make you a stud. Confirm+guarantee!

IwanU
06-12-2014, 12:58 AM
thanks to all bros who gave me advice, I heard juagen is supposed to help you improve your erection? Does it really work? I've had some juagen before but they didn't seem very authentic, waiting to try out this yf one that bros rate quite highly

pm me if you need some masseuse for jua gen

DrWong
06-12-2014, 01:35 AM
It sounds like early onset Erectile Dysfunction. Feel free to visit a doctor with a focus on men's health, and it is highly curable.

Notti555
06-12-2014, 07:26 AM
Reckon Pcc too much or many do too many times...

S_i_lent
14-12-2014, 10:48 AM
Maybe u r too tired tats y u cant last long...

aaronkoh
21-12-2014, 12:34 PM
Sometimes it happen to me too , my gf so happily wanna have sex with me den my bro dissapoint me. Maybe i suffer from mild ED.

Believer
04-01-2015, 05:38 AM
maybe bros here can try rebooting the brain (by taking a long break from porn, or sbf or anything artifical to stimulate the brain other than real women)

http://yourbrainonporn.com/reboot_your_brain

Nice read, thanks for sharing this

BrandAyam
15-10-2015, 03:54 AM
Maybe i suffer from mild ED.

Could be a possibility as well

outtowatch
16-10-2015, 02:13 PM
Hi I have try the oyster supplement that is good for health and also manage to keep my erection harder and longer not that it work for me I have many friend who eat this supplement all telling me how effective it is

ah rat
16-10-2015, 02:15 PM
Hi I have try the oyster supplement that is good for health and also manage to keep my erection harder and longer not that it work for me I have many friend who eat this supplement all telling me how effective it is

Bro u selling Oysters :D

fisherst
18-10-2015, 02:46 AM
Begin to hv this problem too, but i m 50s.
Usually happen to the 2nd shot of the day after many hrs rest, 1st shot normally no problem.
Funny is when dick go soft while doing it, sometimes cannot cum but sometimes can cum w a soft dick w some persistant thrusting.

septeal
18-10-2015, 10:09 AM
take arginine regularly, should have improvement

SilentReader888
18-10-2015, 10:35 AM
Bro u selling Oysters :D

I am a silent reader but after I read the comment above me, I can't help but agreed with you.!:D

davidwee
18-10-2015, 10:49 AM
Check your test and HDL levels, the older you are the more likely your natural level production is down. Even young guys sway never develop the natural amount.
Test basically close to free from doctor if you're legally prescribed, just don't expect to be arnold.

If tested to be of regular levels, either lose weight or exercise your rod. Pills tend to have nasty side effects although they affect the outliers only but that's if you're using genuine stuff.

BrandAyam
31-10-2015, 02:44 AM
take arginine regularly, should have improvement

Would agree on this as well

BlueDemon
31-10-2015, 08:02 AM
I think you need to find out the cause of the problem first. ED could be either due to mental or physical. It would be better to cure the root of the problem.

Pill is more of a short term fix.

jj_jj
31-10-2015, 10:06 AM
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Full article:

http://www.canadianpharmacyking.com/KingsBlog/index.php/2015/06/10-Natural-Remedies-to-Overcome-Erectile-Dysfunction/

TheTerminator
21-11-2015, 03:25 AM
HDL levels

Sorry what is HDL?

wondergal
21-11-2015, 12:56 PM
My FB has a similar problem. He recently at first have difficulty reaching orgasm, but more recently it seems that his erection sometimes does not last. Is it possible having work stress can cause this? He has a new job but he says it is going fine.

DrWong
21-11-2015, 05:41 PM
If the erections getting soft is just very occasionally, it could be due to the environment, not being stimulated enough , stress, tired etc.

However, if it happens most of the time (unable to get it up despite adequate stimulation or getting soft very fast upon penetration ), then it is best to visit an anti-aging doctor or an andrologist(urologist specializing in men's health issues)to diagnose if it's ED, and if it is, what's the cause.

The right treatment can then be instituted.

Pills like Viagra, Cialis, Remenefil, Levitra are just temporary stop gap measures to induce a strong erection for some time .

norigo77
21-11-2015, 10:12 PM
Sorry what is HDL?

High-density lipoprotein. The good cholesterol in our bloodstream. ;)

jonn88
22-11-2015, 07:06 AM
Begin to hv this problem too, but i m 50s.
Usually happen to the 2nd shot of the day after many hrs rest, 1st shot normally no problem.
Funny is when dick go soft while doing it, sometimes cannot cum but sometimes can cum w a soft dick w some persistant thrusting.
Try exercise regularly and eat clean, it makes a lot of different, especially if u hv high cholesterol.
I am in my 50s,I usually have two hj in less than an hour and my dick is rock hard.

wondergal
22-11-2015, 10:52 AM
If the erections getting soft is just very occasionally, it could be due to the environment, not being stimulated enough , stress, tired etc.

Pills like Viagra, Cialis, Remenefil, Levitra are just temporary stop gap measures to induce a strong erection for some time .

Thanks. I think he is affected by work because he wasn't like this before. He said his mind was sometimes blank when having sex and then he would lose the erection soon.

Sentinel_knight
22-11-2015, 11:27 PM
Used to have erection issue... Tried cialis, Tongkat Ali, etc... Short term solution with side effects.

Went back to an exercise regime over the past few months, erection issue gone. Now it's as hard and as fast as I want it to... :)

MayMassage
22-11-2015, 11:48 PM
Bro, there are many reasons to this problem. Some could be a short term issue and some could be a long term issue. I am in my 50s. Usually my first shot is very quick and the second one lasts pretty long.
Smoking, Alchoal, Stress, anxiety, worried, blood flow blockage (do a blood test and other test to see why the blood flow is affected) erection is caused only by the blood rushing to the vital part, if the blood rushing is blocked the erection cannot happen. Bro you are only in 20s and not like me in 50s, so its best you consult a specialist and get this rectified. Take lots of beetroot, pomagrenate, check your cholestral levels. Take care bro also take note it is all in mind and your mind controls everything.

zdevil13
23-11-2015, 12:02 PM
Bro, as others have mentioned, consult a specialist. exercise regularly and eat well.

BrandAyam
28-11-2015, 04:59 AM
Try exercise regularly

Would agree exercise does help

TheTerminator
30-11-2015, 04:37 AM
High-density lipoprotein. The good cholesterol in our bloodstream. ;)

Ah okays got what HDL is

Alienator
05-12-2015, 03:30 AM
I think he is affected by work because he wasn't like this before

You mean like stress at work?

LinuxUbuntu
07-12-2015, 02:41 AM
take arginine regularly, should have improvement

This is more of a supplement from GNC, but its effects is like hits and runs

calebyipkengyan
07-12-2015, 02:35 PM
Any bros can help? I have the same problem too. But like when I get hard and I put on the CD I get soft and cannot enter anymore. Is this ED too?