Worth it to lose virginity to WL/FL/Pros?

[3someking]

I'm 25 and single.
Been a virgin for my entire life.
Have been recently patrionising ktvs, exploring geylang.
Thinking of trying out with those gals.

U guys think its worth it to give ur virginity to these gals?
Or wait to give to love ones better?

preferably would like to hear to those who give virginity to working ladies.
are there any sense of regret?

Any inputs are welcume. Thanks!!

[Lindblum]

Absolutely not . The fuck you wanna give it to a WL ?? Get a girlfriend ; it's worth the wait . but I won't say the same for HJ or BJ . you 25 why so long no gf ?

[3someking]

Used to have but she's the conservative kind.
we broke up though.

maybe i got no looks bah.
Not yandao. How to have gf? Lol

[Lindblum]

Used to have but she's the conservative kind.
we broke up though.

maybe i got no looks bah.
Not yandao. How to have gf? Lol

Drop me a PM see how we can fix this

[jialatjinjin]

get bubbles to help you with your dress sense.
:)

[HeartThrow]

I am in the same situation as you. The only difference is that I never had a gf before. I don't know if it is worth it, but i am going to do so soon. I used to be conservative and believe in giving my virginity to my future wife.

[jialatjinjin]

don't do it bro....

[ahmengmeng]

Wah, why sound so similar to my case ar? Think we can buddy buddy up le lor. Lim kopi or stuff. Haha.

[Lindblum]

You need to understand one thing . I don't care about religion and conservativeness , but believe me, once you start fucking WLs , you will get the impression that sex should be like that and will definitely be disappointed with the performance of your gf or wife in the future . Honestly, no one rides better than those prostitutes , they rode me until I nearly exploded , and no gf ever came close to giving me a similar experience . Point being, you will keep visiting prostitutes and its a never ending cycle .

[crazyivan6636]

If you want to have a mind blowing screw for the first time you blast off. Get a seasoned girl to ride you till you cum or do her doggy till you unload all.

If you prefer to have it with a nice girl who knows nuts about sex and as clueless as you fumbling until you first come in her keep it for the girlfriend.

[SammyNewbie]

This is the second time asking liao. Somemore you like got xp wor ^.^

[iamunkn0wn]

I experience the same thing few years back. and i regret what i did. if you know what i mean

[iamunkn0wn]

I experience the same thing few years back. and i regret what i did. if you know what i mean

[SSOU]

I know of so many bros lost it to WL/FL/Pros ...

Let's be realistic. If you are 16, not handsome, don't have Stallone body and not from rich family where to find gf ? Let alone a gf who let you fxxk ...

So WL/FL/Pros is the only realistic outlet.

But be warned ... it is addictive ... and after that you won't want to find a gf to bonk liao ... bcos not easy to find a big boob ... mostly are airport flat flat one ... :p:D

cheers

[3someking]

I know of so many bros lost it to WL/FL/Pros ...

Let's be realistic. If you are 16, not handsome, don't have Stallone body and not from rich family where to find gf ? Let alone a gf who let you fxxk ...

So WL/FL/Pros is the only realistic outlet.

But be warned ... it is addictive ... and after that you won't want to find a gf to bonk liao ... bcos not easy to find a big boob ... mostly are airport flat flat one ... :p:D

cheers

The way u say as if primary purpose to find a gf is for sex?!?

Means treat ur gf like sex obj?

[joncheong]

The way u say as if primary purpose to find a gf is for sex?!?

Means treat ur gf like sex obj?

we don't find gfs purely for sex...but sex definitely have to be in the equation of a relationship...at least for me....

[babyonboard]

One word answer: NO.

Longer answer: Like it or not, this is supposed to be something you'll remember for the rest of your life. Even if your first time is with a GF who's done it before, it WILL stick with you.

You're not going to want to remember that WL/FL/Pros that you fucked. You'll never get into a conversation with that WL virgin-taker where you reminisce about that virgin session. Maybe you'll recall her fake name, or her fake moans (trust me, you're NOT going to be good enough to make real ones the first time round!), or probably her silly make up or where you did it and when. But what's the point of that?

One does not go through life with too many 'firsts' - don't waste them this way.

On another note: Good luck with finding a GF! Don't give up until you snag one and get to a home run!

[Lindblum]

we don't find gfs purely for sex...but sex definitely have to be in the equation of a relationship...at least for me....

well said. Sex has to be in the equation, whether its a variable or a constant, although constant is better. If I don't get to fuck her, I don't feel committed to that r/s and I will let her know that as well. Don't worry, once in a r/s, and when the girl has sufficiently fallen for you, its EASY to get sex. And once you get sex, you'll be squeezing her ass as she walks by you in public and she'll find it funny as well. It makes both of you closer.

[diabolo01012]

bro 16 legal to find FL meh?

[Thug]

I'm 25 and single.
Been a virgin for my entire life.
Have been recently patrionising ktvs, exploring geylang.
Thinking of trying out with those gals.

U guys think its worth it to give ur virginity to these gals?
Or wait to give to love ones better?

preferably would like to hear to those who give virginity to working ladies.
are there any sense of regret?

Any inputs are welcume. Thanks!!

Why do u need someone to tell you that giving them your first time is a extremely regrettable thing to do? Please think about it...u r 25 for god's sake...

[twilight13]

I'm 25 and single.
Been a virgin for my entire life.
Have been recently patrionising ktvs, exploring geylang.
Thinking of trying out with those gals.

U guys think its worth it to give ur virginity to these gals?
Or wait to give to love ones better?

preferably would like to hear to those who give virginity to working ladies.
are there any sense of regret?

Any inputs are welcume. Thanks!!

Bro, I am not going to say yes or no, but will relate my personal experience.

I am almost 50, believe it or not, I lost my virginity in my 40s. Not that I am lousy looking, fat or stupid.

I look young for my age. When I was 46 yrs old, I went for the job interview of my current job. The interview when well and when my current bosses ask me my age as they did not pay attention to that earlier look up immediately in disbelief when I told them that I was 46. Most people guess that I am mid 30s and max late 30s. As I work out very regularly, I still have that body that put many young man to shame. I am also still quite good looking as most of my colleagues still feel so.

Alot of people around me find it strange that I am still single despite that I am much better than many other guys. Some started to suspect that I am gay and even my own family had the same suspicion.

So, what is wrong? I think it had to do with my character that I am too quiet or maybe I am a little short. But most gals during my gen aren't that tall either. However I don't talk much and I definitely don't know how to sian chaobo.

My younger bro was the exact opposite of me. Everybody told me that he is below average looking and worst now that he had put on so much weight. But wait, he had tons of girls GOING AFTER him before he is married. To that extend that while he is in the pub, he just need to make a call and those gals will COME TO him no matter how late! Those gals still wants him even like they are on stand by list. I witness a gals who is with her friends in another pub left her friends and cheong to the pub where my bro is at 12am! She is like not bother about the last minute then suka suka call her out kinda feeling.

So moral of the story is, it is not looks that counts but how you make women happy with honey words! God din give my bro looks but a sweet mouth.

I have got 2 relationship before and they work out badly. I broke off with them when I realised that they only love themselves. Seems like Singkie girls had been like that long ago. They only wants to take but not give. Imagine they don't even bother to remember my birthday!

We never had sex as both are quite conservative and I never brought it up as even heavy petting is a no-no by them.

So I ended up as a virgin till my 40s. When I finally make the first step and strangely, I actually felt that real sex is no big deal! However, I kept going back to them without knowing why. I have very strong self control, but once the dyke is broken, you will never turn back.

But what is the big deal about losing your virgin to a WL? I NEVER regretted my decision and in fact I should have gone to the WL much earlier! Maybe I would learn to have a better understand of my needs.

For the first few month after losing my virginity, I keep going to WLs even when I don't find myself enjoying the sex. Maybe, deep down, I felt that it is just sex and not loving making. After 3 months the fever dead down and I only go occassionally after that.

Does losing your virginity to a WL rather than your GF/wives make you more noble? In fact, I respect the guy who stay away from WL when married or have GFs(except those whose wives suddenly become holy and refuse sex after marriage. I have quite a few friends in that situation) than one who lose his virginity to WL. Anyway losing your virginity to GFs does not means that the GFs is losing her virginity to you!:rolleyes:

Even losing your virginity to GF will not ensure that the relationship last and I am old enough to have seen many failed marriages and relationships. FYI, my own elder sister had divorced and my younger brother's marriage is also on the rocks. My brother is in the mist of a possible divorce as they are unable to carry on due to a bitter relationship for the last 6 years!:eek:

To me, if you must lose your virginity to your GFs/wives is a nonsense unless you are too young like below 18.

To me don't wait, because you never know how long you have to wait!:p

[Johnston]

Gentlemen

The Great Red Dragon loves to deflower virgins :)
Come come, I have guaranteed spicy fl who enjoy eating cherries :D

[SSOU]

The way u say as if primary purpose to find a gf is for sex?!?

Means treat ur gf like sex obj?

I did not say anything about primary purpose of finding a gf ... so don't make conclusion for me ...

I was just talking about having sex with WLs and having sex with gf.

Think bro joncheong above answered your question well ...

[jsss]

Like thread opener and some bros here, I have the same issue. 25, evergreen, not handsome, not rich, shy. Also very troubled about loosing first time to FL.

[SammyNewbie]

I actually didn't really want to reply seriously to this thread, but I do see a number of sincere bros here replying and also saying they have the same problem. 3someking has asked this several times, so I also have some question marks in my head or am asking if he failed the GP Essay on sex and virginity because the teacher also visits SBF :p

As many bros said before, you'll find losing your virginity is 'nothing much', after bonking your WL/FL. The main concerns I have, are the fact that

1)This will become a part of your sexual history that would not be so socially acceptable to share with future partners

2)FLs/WLs can be expensive depending on your income and who you have to support with that income.

3)Commercial sex can be quite addictive, good or bad. Bonking a gal is different from fucking yourself and our bodies know it. Alot of bros can attest to the problems of stopping after going on this route.

These are the reasons why I would reverse the choice I already made if I could. It's not to say I didn't enjoy it at all, but rather that the consequences of making this choice were rather serious in a practical sense, and it goes beyond just losing an abstract idea like 'your virginity'.

Furthermore, I believe that bros here have different motivations for getting commercial sex. Well one point is just the sex. Secondly, some of us feel lonely too beyond that biological urge. That makes us vulnerable to being taken advantage of. That's why u see so many bros here kena KC, lose their lifesavings blablabla. If the motivation for it goes beyond 'I'm feeling very horny and I need to bonk bonk bonk', I actually advise caution when doing this. Simply because as I've learnt, commercial bonks are nothing more than a quick fix for these deep seated issues.

If you do insist on going down this path, remind yourself when you visit a WL/FL that they treat you well and let you fuck them for the money and for a motive. This is not saying that all of them are bad and out to cheat you, but remember, it's a monetary transaction in the end, and them treating you well means you go back to them. It's customer service.

I do not claim to be a seasoned chiongster, but I just share my thoughts from my own experience on this matter ;)

[SSOU]

I am in the same situation as you. The only difference is that I never had a gf before. I don't know if it is worth it, but i am going to do so soon. I used to be conservative and believe in giving my virginity to my future wife.
No right or wrong ...

Just follow your heart & don't regret whatever you've decided ... virginity is after all like a balloon ... once pricked and it's all gone ...

[obeyyodude]

I lost my virginity to WL when I was 20, reason being my gf of 2-3 years very conservative and cannot even autoroam (up till now only can touch through her clothes). Personally I don't think it was a big thing, and I felt really happy about losing it, released a lot of pent up feeling. And what the other bros say about it being addictive is very true, once you start its very hard to stop.

[pussylicious12345]

I would say it doesn't really matter who you have lost your virginity to. The first time is surely more memorable, but after a while it will fade into just another fcuk.

I think what is not worth it, is when you spent your lifetime waiting for the right girl to lose ur V, and end up losing out on all the fun you can get when u are young and strong. :-)

Life is short, have fun!

[prettymannequin]

I lost my virginity to WL when I was 20, reason being my gf of 2-3 years very conservative and cannot even autoroam (up till now only can touch through her clothes). Personally I don't think it was a big thing, and I felt really happy about losing it, released a lot of pent up feeling. And what the other bros say about it being addictive is very true, once you start its very hard to stop.

Are you my friend wtf...

Okay other then the part about having been with a WL, the rest of my friend's circumstances are exactly the same as yours. Hormones raging 20y/o kid but his girlfriend refuses to do anything too, and he's seriously considering an FL. :p

[obeyyodude]

*dramatic music* bro mannequin we go chiong together then can find out bahahaha and bro t4 conveys my thoughts, for me I didn't want to be an old virgin. My friend told me better to have more experience and be good at sex, afterall can't physically tell if guys have lost virginity, so can just tell the girl you learn from porn :cool:

[prettymannequin]

*dramatic music* bro mannequin we go chiong together then can find out bahahaha and bro t4 conveys my thoughts, for me I didn't want to be an old virgin. My friend told me better to have more experience and be good at sex, afterall can't physically tell if guys have lost virginity, so can just tell the girl you learn from porn :cool:

*dramatic music* I'm not a bro, I'm a sis. :p

Had sex before then had sex before, why must lie to the girl leh. Think girls really that stupid meh. ;)

[3someking]

Latest update.

lose my virginity to a viet ktv gal. :D

manage to tapau her back to hotel. :)

[cpcpcp91]

good going bro. imo its best to just get the thing over and done with. when you are in control of when you fuck, sneaky, cunning women lose their power over you

bonk safe :)

[MrStyleKing]

Lose it to own gf better, more memorable. :)

[HeartThrow]

I guess you have no regrets right? :D

[MrStyleKing]

I guess you have no regrets right? :D

:D.....................

[obeyyodude]

*gasp* how do you tell if the profile is a girl without snooping at their account lol and anyway good going bro 3some!

[Putin]

Keeping your virginity won't get prize one, even if lose to FL should not be an
issue

[TheEvilDoer]

For me truly i don't find that it matters at all, but this is my own personal
opinion

[nakorn]

U as a man losing your virginity to a WL is no big issue. After all is how many virgin girls you get to deflower at a later stage in life.. ;)

[tshirt]

it's not easy when your gf is conservative type.

If you are only looking for that type of girl, then they may not let you have sex. And after you have sex with them, you think you want to be devoted to them for the rest of your life - meaning, only get to fuck 1 girl in your whole life. Then, at that time you will be thinking the only way is for that relationship to break, or you cheat on her.

If you are now single, I don't see anything wrong with banging a WL. There is no reason to feel any guilt since you're free and single.

It is worse when you are in a relationship with a girl and go bang a WL, then you will be guilt stricken.

Don't worry about your virginity. Tell you what, when you find your gf later, she may not be a virgin EITHER! Also, guess what type of guys do girls prefer? Girls prefer guys who have experience in the bedroom! This is the truth.

Because girls already accepted this fact long ago: Guys who are worth getting will be popular and will of course have fucked many girls before. Girls don't want a loser who has never got a girlfriend before.

You see those handsome celebrities on tv dramas and kpop and local dramas? These guys are all not virgin. Yet girls are crazy over them, hoping to get fucked by them. LOL

[3someking]

I guess you have no regrets right? :D

No regrets.

u realise that its no big deal losing ur virginity as well.

virginity is overated nowadays. Lols

[lifeduo]

how much is 1 kg of virginity? :D

[aswon]

Putting the issue of losing virginity to WL/FL/Pros aside for a while, given the experience of you bros (and sis) out there, who is the most desirable partner to lose your virginity to (gf,wife, f buddies, ons, frens etc)? :)

[marclove]

I lost it during army time.. No go and was jio to go some hotel spa in JB but that was like 10 years ago.. I treat it like an experience (like experiencing what paid sex is like and I didn't care abt virginity thingy at that point of time), but come to think of it. The sex wasn't that fantastic..

Come think of it maybe should try piaking a trans for the experience.