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27-08-2013, 05:00 PM
An honorable member of the Coffee Shop Has Just Posted the Following:
This can be about anything. About your job, exercise etc.
The premise is like this. You set about to achieve a goal let's assume in exercise. Say you're not that fit and you want to be fit again so your target it to be able to do 6 pull ups or in your job your sales target is to say get 3 new clients per month. In each case achieveing these feats isn't eye popping but it gives you confidence and it shows that you are close to attaining your goal after all a long journey of 100km is made up of small steps.
Anyway you tell this to this mean spirited person. This person then puts up new conditions for you to attain that is rather out of reach for you not because he wants to encourage you but hopes u fail. So you tell him/her hey i have 3 new clients for this month or hey i managed to do 6 pull ups today hoping to hear some encouragement.
Mean spirited person: Chey! 6 pull ups only do 12 then come and talk la! In work place: Chey! just only 3 new clients get 10 new clients then come and talk la.
Now it's quite difficult to accomplish 6 pull ups and then hit 12 on your next target it's like going into a slow jog and then suddenly going into full sprint mode.
Any of you guys here ran into ppl like this?
Click here to view the whole thread at www.sammyboy.com (http://www.singsupplies.com/showthread.php?161184-mean-spirited-ppl-that-set-new-conditions-hoping-you-will-fail&goto=newpost).
This can be about anything. About your job, exercise etc.
The premise is like this. You set about to achieve a goal let's assume in exercise. Say you're not that fit and you want to be fit again so your target it to be able to do 6 pull ups or in your job your sales target is to say get 3 new clients per month. In each case achieveing these feats isn't eye popping but it gives you confidence and it shows that you are close to attaining your goal after all a long journey of 100km is made up of small steps.
Anyway you tell this to this mean spirited person. This person then puts up new conditions for you to attain that is rather out of reach for you not because he wants to encourage you but hopes u fail. So you tell him/her hey i have 3 new clients for this month or hey i managed to do 6 pull ups today hoping to hear some encouragement.
Mean spirited person: Chey! 6 pull ups only do 12 then come and talk la! In work place: Chey! just only 3 new clients get 10 new clients then come and talk la.
Now it's quite difficult to accomplish 6 pull ups and then hit 12 on your next target it's like going into a slow jog and then suddenly going into full sprint mode.
Any of you guys here ran into ppl like this?
Click here to view the whole thread at www.sammyboy.com (http://www.singsupplies.com/showthread.php?161184-mean-spirited-ppl-that-set-new-conditions-hoping-you-will-fail&goto=newpost).