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babe_rena
03-04-2005, 01:56 AM
hihi. newbie babe_rena here. who can asnwer my question? keke. :)

Siam_Bu
03-04-2005, 01:58 AM
Wei Wei my dear, wat happen to u huh? yes, exist. but.....

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 01:59 AM
Wei Wei my dear, wat happen to u huh? yes, exist. but.....

keke. asking ma. past relationship fails. sad sad. :mad:

Siam_Bu
03-04-2005, 02:02 AM
me old man liao la, married with a kids, thinking of having a happy family, promise myself to look after this family dont let it break. End up? my wife wan a divorce. wat to do? luv is exist just that we havnt met the true one lo. Saw many ah pek ah po still holding hand lei.

traummy
03-04-2005, 02:03 AM
hihi. newbie babe_rena here. who can asnwer my question? keke. :)


I love my wife...

I love my girlfriend (one married and one single) from Indonesia.

I just fall in love with a teacher (divorce).

I am also attached to a Malasian girl (can die for me).

AND THEY ALL LOVE ME!!! :o

........well babe_rena.......I am sure LOVE exist!!.......... shit...wat am i doing....

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:03 AM
why do guys kept asking for sex when the relationship start? if a relationship without sex can't last ma? why are guys like that? cry cry. :mad:

inventry
03-04-2005, 02:04 AM
keke. asking ma. past relationship fails. sad sad. :mad:

yes, true love really exist.... it all depends on individual whether they believe it or not.... just 1 failed relationship doesn't mean tat true love does not exist... i have been dumped by many of my ex-gfs too.... wat to do? still have to get up n move on mah.... cheer up... baby :D

Siam_Bu
03-04-2005, 02:04 AM
Huh??? Hua Xin lei :( that life

I love my wife...

I love my girlfriend (one married and one single) from Indonesia.

I just fall in love with a teacher (divorce).

I am also attached to a Malasian girl (can die for me).

AND THEY ALL LOVE ME!!! :o

........well babe_rena.......I am sure LOVE exist!!.......... shit...wat am i doing....

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:05 AM
I love my wife...

I love my girlfriend (one married and one single) from Indonesia.

I just fall in love with a teacher (divorce).

I am also attached to a Malasian girl (can die for me).

AND THEY ALL LOVE ME!!! :o

........well babe_rena.......I am sure LOVE exist!!.......... shit...wat am i doing....

don't you think u r unfair to us? do u think u r a "flower heart carrot? please don't get angry with my answer k?

Eternity_Gal
03-04-2005, 02:05 AM
keke. asking ma. past relationship fails. sad sad. :mad:

Hmm.. Love exists if you believe. Love is all bout trust between each other. So if you ask " Does Love exist?" Yes.. To a certain extent, it may appears plain. However, if u put in a litte more effort into it, you realise love actually lies in not only ur partner, but urself..

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:05 AM
i testify that it exists.. :)

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:07 AM
yes, true love really exist.... it all depends on individual whether they believe it or not.... just 1 failed relationship doesn't mean tat true love does not exist... i have been dumped by many of my ex-gfs too.... wat to do? still have to get up n move on mah.... cheer up... baby :D

but why guys kept asking for sex? does it mean no sex than the relationship won't last?

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:07 AM
love.. isn't it just another word? :D

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:08 AM
Hmm.. Love exists if you believe. Love is all bout trust between each other. So if you ask " Does Love exist?" Yes.. To a certain extent, it may appears plain. However, if u put in a litte more effort into it, you realise love actually lies in not only ur partner, but urself..
like the previous answer. sex. why why why? why must guys look for sex rather a firm relationship?

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:10 AM
love.. isn't it just another word? :D

sex? i think guys are looking for sex rather than love. sorry if i offended the gege over here.

anvillyson
03-04-2005, 02:13 AM
hihi. newbie babe_rena here. who can asnwer my question? keke. :)

it exists, i loves this gal for 16yrs even she is married with someone now.

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:13 AM
i dont really know if i am right but sex is a way of expressing our feeling
that is what i think and it help is make the relationship stronger in some way ( apply if only the guy love the gal not for sex)

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:14 AM
sex? i think guys are looking for sex rather than love. sorry if i offended the gege over here.

guess it happens? definitely there will be some looking for sex. but we are but only human.. there are many ppl out there just waiting for some affection instead of just sex. Many of us need to be or feel loved? Sex isn't the #1 thing and shudn't be.

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:15 AM
guess it happens? definitely there will be some looking for sex. but we are but only human.. there are many ppl out there just waiting for some affection instead of just sex. Many of us need to be or feel loved? Sex isn't the #1 thing and shudn't be.

i agree with you

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:16 AM
it exists, i loves this gal for 16yrs even she is married with someone now.
than are you still single now or married?

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:16 AM
oxilary had just expressed my heart felt words.. really solid.. just like when zhuge liang read his expedition petition to ah dou.. really fei teng ler.. btw the time in sb is wrong? now 3+ already? :rolleyes:

inventry
03-04-2005, 02:17 AM
but why guys kept asking for sex? does it mean no sex than the relationship won't last?

errmmmm.......... sex is a very normal routine for humans.... everyone has got their needs no difference for guy or girls..... again it all depends on individuals... baby......

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:17 AM
i dont really know if i am right but sex is a way of expressing our feeling
that is what i think and it help is make the relationship stronger in some way ( apply if only the guy love the gal not for sex)
nice answer freedom gege. kk. give u a cyber kiss. muakkkkkk :)

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:18 AM
btw the time in sb is wrong? now 3+ already? :rolleyes:

fei teng wor.. LOL.. it's 1 hr fast..

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:19 AM
i agree with you

and loving requires action! i'm not referring abt sex ok? :D

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:19 AM
thanks
for me i think i do believe in love cause i still love my ex.
some bro have been helping me for the past few weeks or month.
i like to thanks then too.

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:19 AM
errmmmm.......... sex is a very normal routine for humans.... everyone has got their needs no difference for guy or girls..... again it all depends on individuals... baby......

i agree but really hate my ex le. everytime meet ask go sex. it really piss me off de. sex sex sex. in his mind. sex. so far so bad for my boy boy. sad sad. :mad:

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:20 AM
and loving requires action! i'm not referring abt sex ok? :D
ya action of care and showing of love.
i know what you mean :p

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:20 AM
thanks
for me i think i do believe in love cause i still love my ex.
some bro have been helping me for the past few weeks or month.
i like to thanks then too.
a. u still miss her? r u single now? :confused:

anvillyson
03-04-2005, 02:20 AM
than are you still single now or married?

single. had a few relationship but every times it failed cos just can't bring myself to love as much as her might as well just stay single

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:21 AM
ya action of care and showing of love.
i know what you mean :p

hehe.. so abt ur ex.. it's time to get a resolution on it.

tell her, find out! at least if it ain't gonna work out, you're gonna close that chapter of ur life and actually get movin' ;)

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:22 AM
ya action of care and showing of love.
i know what you mean :p
if it the case i don't mind to offer once a while rather than everytime meet liao my boyboy ask for it. zhen de heng fan de.

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:22 AM
single. had a few relationship but every times it failed cos just can't bring myself to love as much as her might as well just stay single
sometime i guess

but to our friend if he only think of that then i dont nothing to say. but if it is one of the way he express himself then both of you maybe need to work some way out.

inventry
03-04-2005, 02:23 AM
i agree but really hate my ex le. everytime meet ask go sex. it really piss me off de. sex sex sex. in his mind. sex. so far so bad for my boy boy. sad sad. :mad:

some guys has got high sex drive.... or it could be tat u r very beautiful n good tat he wants to make love to u loh.........

mugenhond1
03-04-2005, 02:23 AM
Love do exists..my dear xiao mei mei...n i wud like 2 say when in luv..u hv romance..n when romance..tats is when u hv sex..
Slowly u will find ur true love one day....cheers..

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:23 AM
hehe.. so abt ur ex.. it's time to get a resolution on it.

tell her, find out! at least if it ain't gonna work out, you're gonna close that chapter of ur life and actually get movin' ;)
ya me trying my best to move on with my life now

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:24 AM
ya me trying my best to move on with my life now

all the best then.. there is no try.. there is only do :D

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:24 AM
Love do exists..my dear xiao mei mei...n i wud like 2 say when in luv..u hv romance..n when romance..tats is when u hv sex..
Slowly u will find ur true love one day....cheers..
if that the way i really don't mind de. but not everytime meet everytime want.

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:24 AM
some guys has got high sex drive.... or it could be tat u r very beautiful n good tat he wants to make love to u loh.........

ya man
i am one too

mugenhond1
03-04-2005, 02:25 AM
all the best then.. there is no try.. there is only do :D

Bro oxi..u saying abt my signature...kekekeke

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:25 AM
some guys has got high sex drive.... or it could be tat u r very beautiful n good tat he wants to make love to u loh.........

i don't like your answer. no offend please.

inventry
03-04-2005, 02:26 AM
ya man
i am one too

i dun deny tat i'm 1 of them too..... but if my gf says dun wan then LL loh.... go PCC lor....... :D

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:26 AM
i think ur problem is he dun love u la.. i mean if u can sense that he loves u, u also dun mind sex with him ma.. u just felt that he making use of ur body.. nb.. :o

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:26 AM
all the best then.. there is no try.. there is only do :D
okok i will do my very best.
btw how many of you got msn? i got. want to start a chat in msn?

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:26 AM
i think ur problem is he dun love u la.. i mean if u can sense that he loves u, u also dun mind sex with him ma.. u just felt that he making use of ur body.. nb.. :o

maybe the guy just loves sex more? :p

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:27 AM
i dun deny tat i'm 1 of them too..... but if my gf says dun wan then LL loh.... go PCC lor....... :D
for me i wont go PCC

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:27 AM
i think ur problem is he dun love u la.. i mean if u can sense that he loves u, u also dun mind sex with him ma.. u just felt that he making use of ur body.. nb.. :o

i think so. that why we break off lo.

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:28 AM
i think so. that why we break off lo.

the next time round.. let the guy noe, u ain't no sex toy..
if he loves you, he will and he should respect u as the girl you are.

mugenhond1
03-04-2005, 02:29 AM
if that the way i really don't mind de. but not everytime meet everytime want.

Hahaha...tat is not romance.is call hungry n thirsty liao...

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:29 AM
for me i wont go PCC

than you go geylang look for WL. :mad:

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:29 AM
just relax lor
i and everyone here will try to give you the support.
right guys?
we are one family in here :D

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:29 AM
then if got someone who insists on abstaining from sex till marriage.. then wan to sex daily ler? how?

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:30 AM
the next time round.. let the guy noe, u ain't no sex toy..
if he loves you, he will and he should respect u as the girl you are.

muakkkkk. this cyber kiss for you. thanks for your nice answer. :)

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:30 AM
than you go geylang look for WL. :mad:
i wont find any other woman as long i have a gf

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:30 AM
pissing ur wife off could lead to divorce + alimony.. bad risk to take! :D

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:31 AM
then if got someone who insists on abstaining from sex till marriage.. then wan to sex daily ler? how?
:eek: like that sure die

inventry
03-04-2005, 02:31 AM
i don't like your answer. no offend please.

ok... no problem with tat baby... hope tat u r not offended by my answer too... sorry....

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:31 AM
then if got someone who insists on abstaining from sex till marriage.. then wan to sex daily ler? how?
ask him don't get married. everyday go geylang can already. no offend korkor asdfghjkl.

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:31 AM
muakkkkk. this cyber kiss for you. thanks for your nice answer. :)

lol.. thanks. hope you land in the arms of the right guy the next time round ;)

mugenhond1
03-04-2005, 02:32 AM
i think so. that why we break off lo.

Dun worry..babe rena...one of dis days u will find ur true love...

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:33 AM
ya
your ex will regret for that

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:33 AM
ok... no problem with tat baby... hope tat u r not offended by my answer too... sorry....

i don't like your answer doesn't meant i will hate u korkor. i just wanna know how you guys think only. keke. :)

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:35 AM
lol.. thanks. hope you land in the arms of the right guy the next time round ;)

Dun worry..babe rena...one of dis days u will find ur true love...

ya
your ex will regret for that

xiexie ni men. :)

inventry
03-04-2005, 02:36 AM
pissing ur wife off could lead to divorce + alimony.. bad risk to take! :D

at the end of the day.... its just tat we guys got to respect our woman and our woman got to respect us..... treat them nicely not as sex toys... but then they treat us like taxi drivers n potters leh..... heheheheeee :D

Eternity_Gal
03-04-2005, 02:36 AM
i don't like your answer doesn't meant i will hate u korkor. i just wanna know how you guys think only. keke. :)

Hmm. So u satisfied with all of opinions given? I try to tell u more if u wish.
Cheers,
Y.T

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:37 AM
Hmm. So u satisfied with all of opinions given? I try to tell u more if u wish.
Cheers,
Y.T

some yes some no. yes yes. jiejie? tell me more please. xiexie. :)

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:38 AM
now.. tis babe seems like someone.. oicic.. :cool:

inventry
03-04-2005, 02:38 AM
ya
your ex will regret for that

i'm sure.... baby's ex will regret for the rest of his life loh.......... i'm sure ur ex and my ex will also regret too..... :cool:

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:38 AM
at the end of the day.... its just tat we guys got to respect our woman and our woman got to respect us..... treat them nicely not as sex toys... but then they treat us like taxi drivers n potters leh..... heheheheeee :D

we gal never force you guys also ma. you all did it willingly right?

Siam_Bu
03-04-2005, 02:39 AM
aiya as long dont try to get many bf to show him u hv many admirer la, this is a very stupid ways of thinking. u will find someone u really luv for sure, on that day he will regret.

Sorry for my poor english :)

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:39 AM
at the end of the day.... its just tat we guys got to respect our woman and our woman got to respect us..... treat them nicely not as sex toys... but then they treat us like taxi drivers n potters leh..... heheheheeee :D

dat's right! :p

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:40 AM
i'm sure.... baby's ex will regret for the rest of his life loh.......... i'm sure ur ex and my ex will also regret too..... :cool:
we wont know only they will know

mugenhond1
03-04-2005, 02:40 AM
we gal never force you guys also ma. you all did it willingly right?

Its takes two hands 2 claps my dear....

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:40 AM
now.. tis babe seems like someone.. oicic.. :cool:
like who? please don't keep me in suspend please. just type whatever you think over here. if you don't feel like than don't said those words that make me keep in the dark. :mad:

anvillyson
03-04-2005, 02:41 AM
sometime i guess

but to our friend if he only think of that then i dont nothing to say. but if it is one of the way he express himself then both of you maybe need to work some way out.

had tried, infact if not for her i would not be enjoying my sucess in my career now. thats the only knot in me all this while. Think thats life you gain something you lose something if given a choice i rather choose to have her and give up all i had now...

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:41 AM
aiya as long dont try to get many bf to show him u hv many admirer la, this is a very stupid ways of thinking. u will find someone u really luv for sure, on that day he will regret.

Sorry for my poor english :)

i hope so. ;)

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:42 AM
had tried, infact if not for her i would not be enjoying my sucess in my career now. thats the only knot in me all this while. Think thats life you gain something you lose something if given a choice i rather choose to have her and give up all i had now...
sorry. i don't believe there will be such a "peng nan ren".

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:43 AM
this is moving at sonic speed.. lol..

LOVEappears? :D

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:43 AM
some time i can say we do need a gal to support us
for me i have been alone and looking for a support now

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:44 AM
some time i can say we do need a gal to support us
for me i have been alone and looking for a support now
i give you my cyvber support k? keke. :)

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:44 AM
this is moving at sonic speed.. lol..

LOVEappears? :D
ya real fast like a chit chat :)
anyway i have add some of your guys in my msn.

Siam_Bu
03-04-2005, 02:44 AM
wah!!! look like start to hapening liao kekeke

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:45 AM
i give you my cyvber support k? keke. :)
thanks baby

inventry
03-04-2005, 02:46 AM
[QUOTE=freedom]ya real fast like a chit chat :)
QUOTE]

boss, not around mah..... hehehehehe...... think its becos of the interesting thread... bros, all come in to give comments lor.... also got another sis lar.. :D

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:47 AM
asdfghjkl gege? you hasn't answer my question? :mad:

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:49 AM
sorry.. u last time pm me already n thats enough..

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:51 AM
sorry.. u last time pm me already n thats enough..
i pm you? you are confusing me le. ni dao di zha shou shen me?

traummy
03-04-2005, 02:51 AM
don't you think u r unfair to us? do u think u r a "flower heart carrot? please don't get angry with my answer k?

actually...i had been asking myself this question for many many years..... Until today..there is still no answer. Unfair? I dunno babe.... U see...when couples get together initially..all started beautiful..

then one day..things just go wrong...mood just not right...unhappy..quarrel...every little things that were beautiful seems nothing at dat moment...

then come to splitting up..break off..Loving the person too much untill a deep hatrate arise...start to hate men...start to hate women...

babe..all i know is NoBody is Perfect. Live with it. So I think I may find my own answer to my own question. Since nobody is perfect then i shall take some from every woman who are with me and make the feeling perfect.

that's Hua Xin??.......

btw babe...guys dun just go for sex (maybe young guys) but uncle like me go for feelings (emotional satisfactions).. So maybe you should try to get to know older guys rather than clicking with young ones if you dun like them keep asking sex from you.

Also you should feel honored dat u have something dat guys are looking for from u....dat means you still have a certain value...and dats ur asset!

Agree? :)

anvillyson
03-04-2005, 02:53 AM
sorry. i don't believe there will be such a "peng nan ren".

but too bad i am that 'peng nan ren', and all my friends said tat too. wat the point of owning the whole world when you can't even had someone you love most....

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:53 AM
actually...i had been asking myself this question for many many years..... Until today..there is still no answer. Unfair? I dunno babe.... U see...when couples get together initially..all started beautiful..

then one day..things just go wrong...mood just not right...unhappy..quarrel...every little things that were beautiful seems nothing at dat moment...

then come to splitting up..break off..Loving the person too much untill a deep hatrate arise...start to hate men...start to hate women...

babe..all i know is NoBody is Perfect. Live with it. So I think I may find my own answer to my own question. Since nobody is perfect then i shall take some from every woman who are with me and make the feeling perfect.

that's Hua Xin??.......

btw babe...guys dun just go for sex (maybe young guys) but uncle like me go for feelings (emotional satisfactions).. So maybe you should try to get to know older guys rather than clicking with young ones if you dun like them keep asking sex from you.

Also you should feel honored dat u have something dat guys are looking for from u....dat means you still have a certain value...and dats ur asset!

Agree? :)

how long will my assets last? not for long de. i rather find a guy who is "xing wu nen" rather than sex sex sex.

inventry
03-04-2005, 02:54 AM
[QUOTE=traummy]
then come to splitting up..break off..Loving the person too much untill a deep hatrate arise...start to hate men...start to hate women...

very well said bro..... 2 thumps up..... :D

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:54 AM
actually...i had been asking myself this question for many many years..... Until today..there is still no answer. Unfair? I dunno babe.... U see...when couples get together initially..all started beautiful..

then one day..things just go wrong...mood just not right...unhappy..quarrel...every little things that were beautiful seems nothing at dat moment...

then come to splitting up..break off..Loving the person too much untill a deep hatrate arise...start to hate men...start to hate women...

babe..all i know is NoBody is Perfect. Live with it. So I think I may find my own answer to my own question. Since nobody is perfect then i shall take some from every woman who are with me and make the feeling perfect.

that's Hua Xin??.......

btw babe...guys dun just go for sex (maybe young guys) but uncle like me go for feelings (emotional satisfactions).. So maybe you should try to get to know older guys rather than clicking with young ones if you dun like them keep asking sex from you.

Also you should feel honored dat u have something dat guys are looking for from u....dat means you still have a certain value...and dats ur asset!

Agree? :)
life are like that
get use to it
in this world i think there are no justice and fairness
that is my point of view but i will try to be fair to anyone who i see fit

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:56 AM
how long will my assets last? not for long de. i rather find a guy who is "xing wu nen" rather than sex sex sex.

but honestly speaking.. if u really find an impotent guy.. he won't be able to "sextisfy" you and dat becomes another problem.

Sex is a beautiful unification of the body and soul, if the two ppl really love and respect one another.

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:56 AM
babe.. thats last time la.. *sigh* wat traummy said is absolute true.. those are immature guys.. but cant really blame them.. all adolescent victim of insidious peer council.. however.. u couldnt have forgetten confucious word: within a hamlet of 10 household, one is sure to find loyalty and faithfullness..

Eternity_Gal
03-04-2005, 02:57 AM
Rena, do not have this assumption that guys are always out there to get into ur pants. If u' still 've this mindset, I guess you 've not met up enough or fully understand what men think. Yea, it's true that most do and why not see in this way that there are actually guys who arent really lookin at only SeX. I knew fews who really commited to love. I hope you do understand wat i meant.

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:57 AM
wow chim man
super blur now :confused:

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:57 AM
but honestly speaking.. if u really find an impotent guy.. he won't be able to "sextisfy" you and dat becomes another problem.

Sex is a beautiful unification of the body and soul, if the two ppl really love and respect one another.

korkors out there! me also has high sex drive de but i can live without it. why can't you guys ne?

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:59 AM
korkors out there! me also has high sex drive de but i can live without it. why can't you guys ne?

don't stereotype.. hehe there are guys who can control their high sex drive. :D

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:59 AM
it depends lah sis
sometime it is naturnal sometime is our past sometime is the place we are in

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 02:59 AM
babe.. thats last time la.. *sigh* wat traummy said is absolute true.. those are immature guys.. but cant really blame them.. all adolescent victim of insidious peer council.. however.. u couldnt have forgetten confucious word: within a hamlet of 10 household, one is sure to find loyalty and faithfullness..
o. xiexie. jiejie? i agree but when sad memories is still in my mind do you think... :mad:

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:59 AM
babe.. r u trying to pick a challenge? :rolleyes:

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 03:01 AM
babe.. r u trying to pick a challenge? :rolleyes:
bu shi. xin qing bu hao ma. dui bu qi lo.

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:02 AM
lady relax ok?

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:04 AM
u havent goto sch yet?

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 03:04 AM
lady relax ok?
wo mei shi la. xing qing bu hao ma. shou yi jiang hua you dian... zhen de dui bu qi.

traummy
03-04-2005, 03:05 AM
babe...r u in a hurry to get into another relationship?

why i ask is bcos i like to share with you a way to find ur 'zhen ming tian zi'..

a. dun get too close to any guys. Reason is : maybe there is some good fella wants to know u but bcos u are surrounded with BEES then the good guy give up (good guy always shy)..

b. give people around u the feeling dat 'ni bu shi sui bian de nu ren'..(not saying dat u are 'easy gal'...just avoid unnecessary judgement lor..

c. change the circle of friends u have right now. 'jin zhu ze ci, jin mo ze hei'..

d. avoid physical contact with any man. not even if u think 'this guy' (whoever he is in future) is worth your try...LET HIMWAIT.

e. ask urself...what u actually want.

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 03:05 AM
u havent goto sch yet?
wei he wen zhe wen ti? i already stop since 3years back already.

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:05 AM
wo mei shi la. xing qing bu hao ma. shou yi jiang hua you dian... zhen de dui bu qi.
sorry my chinese on net not that good

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:05 AM
Think alot of what we've been talking abt.. can be summarised using the definition of the word, Love..

love ( P )
n.
1. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
2. A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.

3
a) Sexual passion.
b) Sexual intercourse.
c) A love affair.
4. An intense emotional attachment, as for a pet or treasured object.
5. A person who is the object of deep or intense affection or attraction; beloved. Often used as a term of endearment.

6. An expression of one's affection: Send him my love.

7. A strong predilection or enthusiasm: a love of language.
8. The object of such an enthusiasm: The outdoors is her greatest love.
9. Love Mythology. Eros or Cupid.
10. often Love Christianity. Charity.

The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition
Copyright © 2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company.

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:06 AM
i am advising u to go back to sch la..

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 03:06 AM
babe...r u in a hurry to get into another relationship?

why i ask is bcos i like to share with you a way to find ur 'zhen ming tian zi'..

a. dun get too close to any guys. Reason is : maybe there is some good fella wants to know u but bcos u are surrounded with BEES then the good guy give up (good guy always shy)..

b. give people around u the feeling dat 'ni bu shi sui bian de nu ren'..(not saying dat u are 'easy gal'...just avoid unnecessary judgement lor..

c. change the circle of friends u have right now. 'jin zhu ze ci, jin mo ze hei'..

d. avoid physical contact with any man. not even if u think 'this guy' (whoever he is in future) is worth your try...LET HIMWAIT.

e. ask urself...what u actually want.
xie xie guan xin. i won't at this stage.

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:07 AM
nice one on the summary

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 03:07 AM
i am advising u to go back to sch la..
wei he ne? :confused:

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:08 AM
wei he ne? :confused:
easy to find better guy in sch??? :confused:

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:09 AM
ahhhhhhhhh... tell me bros... should i put back my old avatar??? lol :)

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:10 AM
wei he ne? :confused:

it's always better to be armed with a better certification. unless u live by the saying of 'i was born smart, education ruined me' :D

traummy
03-04-2005, 03:10 AM
off track abit hor.....HI BRO OXI AND ASDFGHJKL! :D

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:11 AM
ahhhhhhhhh... tell me bros... should i put back my old avatar??? lol :)

which one? 卧龙? LOL

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:11 AM
in term of working i total agree with you
how i dont misunderstand what you saying

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:12 AM
off track abit hor.....HI BRO OXI AND ASDFGHJKL! :D

HELLO BRO TRAUMMY! :p

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:13 AM
traummy - zha bor gin na, cin zai swee swee, za qi bui he ...

where, where?

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:15 AM
zha bor gin na, cin zai swee swee, za qi bui he <= can translate 4 me? :D

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 03:15 AM
.......... :mad:

plman2002
03-04-2005, 03:17 AM
now.. tis babe seems like someone.. oicic.. :cool:

think shes a reborn. maybe a male samster. kekeke

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:17 AM
.......... :mad:
why you angry?

traummy
03-04-2005, 03:17 AM
traummy - zha bor gin na, cin zai swee swee, za qi bui he ...

where, where?

haha....me tot u busy doing 'AUNTY ROSE' consultation and forgot liao.... bor kang tao lah bro... knn go taiwan can't find..

BUT will sure remember to pass u immediately once I get it!! pasti.. :D

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:18 AM
err.. pai seh.. not referring to u la.. obvious u can understand that.. good.. btw, babe.. ur chinese is top ten, that i can verify.. maybe one of these days i ask kongming out for a verbal rhetoric.. i would like to see if u r equally intellectually vacuous out there!

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 03:18 AM
why you angry?

i can sense i not trusted over here by some of the korkor :mad:
can sense "hua zhong you hua"

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:20 AM
me i never say anything in here

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:20 AM
i can sense i not trusted over here by some of the korkor :mad:
can sense "hua zhong you hua"

and why shud u get affected by dat? we've got to live with the fact that we're behind the monitor and anything goes.. :)

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 03:21 AM
me i never say anything in here
wo bu shi jiang ni la.

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:23 AM
ya sister dont be affected by it

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:23 AM
Give u eight word to gain safety:


First this, (http://3kingdoms.net/sthginterestpic/AllySunQuanWords.gif) then this! (http://3kingdoms.net/sthginterestpic/ResistCaoCaoWords.gif)

zico
03-04-2005, 03:24 AM
why do guys kept asking for sex when the relationship start? if a relationship without sex can't last ma? why are guys like that? cry cry. :mad:
I dun't ask for sex..... for me its has to be mutual.

traummy
03-04-2005, 03:24 AM
me tink this babe is abit tempremental..... BABE..we do not have many 20 years of our life...maximum is about 4 to 5 (20 years..)

So make it worth it. but of cos if u think u have 1000 years to live...then maybe u can use 100 years to cry about...another 100 years to shop about...another 100 years to play about and u realise siao liao u still have 700 years to go......

MOVE ON! :D

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:26 AM
ya try to move on

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:28 AM
traummy.. actually i wan to sleep already.. but u remind me of a poem during the song dynasty... lol.. sorry ler.. i feel i must say out:

Gan Lou won fame early, Zi Ya late
Peng Zu and Yan Hui, each a different lifespan
Fan Dan was poor, Shi Chong rich
Fortune varies for every man.

Thanks bros!

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:29 AM
telling to say life is different from everyone else

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:33 AM
haha.. yep.. was inspired when he mentioned about 1000 yrs old.. cuz peng zu was reputed to live to 800+ yrs old.. cuz he boiled chicken soup for god.. in chinese legend, of course! :p

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:38 AM
and the still of the night sets in. :cool:

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:39 AM
no logic in here

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:40 AM
sori bout that bro freedom.. i usually go crazy when there is no liu bei around to arouse me.. :p

babe_rena
03-04-2005, 03:41 AM
dui bu qi ge wei gege. my ex call me just now. we had a fierce qurral. very tire now. we type tomorrow. zhen de dui bu qi if my words offended someone here. wan an ge wei gege. :)

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:41 AM
sori bout that bro freedom.. i usually go crazy when there is no liu bei around to arouse me.. :p
liu bei <= my chinese now that good on net can translate

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:43 AM
dui bu qi ge wei gege. my ex call me just now. we had a fierce qurral. very tire now. we type tomorrow. zhen de dui bu qi if my words offended someone here. wan an ge wei gege. :)

i find that she somehow suffer the same fate as me

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:44 AM
really got someone call u, babe? :rolleyes:

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:44 AM
wan an ge wei gege. :)

dun brood over it.. wan an~ :D

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:45 AM
really got someone call u, babe? :rolleyes:

miwa's in tha house..! :o

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:46 AM
ya rest well tomolo is a new start

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:47 AM
oxi.. how long ah.. cuz i also feeling too tired to do the thingy oso.. lol.. :rolleyes:

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:47 AM
what things?

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:48 AM
oxi.. how long ah.. cuz i also feeling too tired to do the thingy oso.. lol.. :rolleyes:

haha.. den leave it to another day lor.. it's in tha gallery.

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:51 AM
guy explain lah

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:51 AM
ur last one cannot view ler.. all words.. but i prefer the post before her.. lao chio feeling.. lol :p

traummy
03-04-2005, 03:51 AM
haha.. den leave it to another day lor.. it's in tha gallery.

bro oxi...ur last set like nothing...but the previous are POWER!!! Electricfying!!! :D Thanks!!

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:53 AM
guess it is not my topic

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:53 AM
maybe u didnt observe its posts title with the picture? :rolleyes:

anyway gd nite.. i gg sleep liao.. tml got to plan strategy for my 'zhu gong'!

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:54 AM
bro oxi...ur last set like nothing...but the previous are POWER!!! Electricfying!!! :D Thanks!!
hehe.. np :)

oxilary
03-04-2005, 03:55 AM
guess it is not my topic

we talking abt pictures :D

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 03:57 AM
freedom.. how cum u dun need to sleep one ah? interested to know.. :rolleyes:

freedom
03-04-2005, 03:59 AM
me guess i sleep to much in the day

what pic?

cannon2balls
03-04-2005, 04:01 AM
why do guys kept asking for sex when the relationship start? if a relationship without sex can't last ma? why are guys like that? cry cry. :mad:

a relationship without sex??? then the guy is either impotent, gay or sick of the gal oredi and getting laid elsewhere :eek:

oxilary
03-04-2005, 04:01 AM
me guess i sleep to much in the day

what pic?

you see the link to Gallery of Love in my signature? click on it, go to the behind and look at miwa ohshiro..

Siam_Bu
03-04-2005, 04:03 AM
Hee Hee change topic liao kekekeke all bro's, very tired liao got to orr orr nite nite :)

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 04:04 AM
ok la.. oxi.. u hereby promoted to the next shift duty.. i wanna retire early.. ah dou kept on crying the whole nite.. thats y tonite special can +++.. c u next day!

freedom
03-04-2005, 04:04 AM
a relationship without sex??? then the guy is either impotent, gay or sick of the gal oredi and getting laid elsewhere :eek:
but love dont really sex but of course sex is needed at times

oxilary
03-04-2005, 04:06 AM
c u next day!

cya...! :D

freedom
03-04-2005, 04:06 AM
ok la.. oxi.. u hereby promoted to the next shift duty.. i wanna retire early.. ah dou kept on crying the whole nite.. thats y tonite special can +++.. c u next day!
dont understand but wish you luck

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 04:09 AM
freedom.. r u local or chinese? :confused:

freedom
03-04-2005, 04:12 AM
i am local chinese
but my chinese on net is weak why?

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 04:17 AM
i wan to greet u but i afraid u scold me.. nvm la.. i goto bed wif me.. nize! :)

freedom
03-04-2005, 04:25 AM
i have pm you

antlau
03-04-2005, 04:45 AM
true love..there is..

man..very funny one..can have a lot of girls in his heart, and to all his girls, he is very true to them..

you can say its flower heart, but sad to say, most if not all men are like that..

for example, at this moment from 0400H to 0800H, a guy who is with girl A, is really truly loving her.

then from 0800H to 1200H, he is with another girl B, he too is truly loving her during that moment..it is just so strange..

sex? it is not just about sex...it is about developing relationships..if i want just sex, why go the hassle of "courtship"? Just pay and forget...

sex is just another tool to enhance the already strong relationship...

a guy going around looking for ONS, is not into relationships, he is just looking for relief.

oops..sorry..

regards.

oxilary
03-04-2005, 05:01 AM
true love..there is..

man..very funny one..can have a lot of girls in his heart, and to all his girls, he is very true to them..
regards.

attached but always available theory? :D

collin_23
03-04-2005, 05:16 AM
My dear, most of us here r due to our parents 'ai der jie jing' or love. If not we won't be in this world either. :)

Love can't work well eventually without money. The same theory of bread and water still applies. When a girl reaches a certain age the mentality will change same as guys.

Cheers

hihi. newbie babe_rena here. who can asnwer my question? keke. :)

tittyhawk
03-04-2005, 06:13 AM
I remember there was a similar thread on this subject. And I will post the same comment as I did in that thread, that is, love exists within oneself. You can't know what is love until you 'know' what it is. ;)

Eagle Hawk
03-04-2005, 08:28 AM
to mi, d most imp love comes fm famili members, others r secondary

canary
03-04-2005, 11:20 AM
does love exist? yea, there should be....though i've not found it yet. :o

orbit_beer
03-04-2005, 11:37 AM
Of coz there is.its juz that the sex part is part of it too.some may think the sex part is to 'enhance' their relationship,others may juz treat it like a relief/routine.but i do know that my parents use it to produce ME!!! :D

free
03-04-2005, 12:05 PM
When a man and a woman are deeply in love, sex is one of the highest ways to express that love for each other. I'd rather call it "making love". This I am saying from the perspective of 2 who are love and working towards being with each other for the rest of our lives.

There is really a humongous differece between making love with the one one loves and just having sex with one you hardly know.

freedom
03-04-2005, 01:27 PM
the sex part ya man

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:14 PM
wat.. the 3 of us online again! :eek:

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:15 PM
me?
anyway i got pm you you got see

oxilary
03-04-2005, 02:16 PM
haha.. tao hua san jie yi? :o

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:19 PM
pai seh freedom.. today i logon saw my mail box full.. all asking who she is.. so i remove the enitre mail.. think ur one also erased liao.. :(

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:21 PM
nvm i was asking about your sex

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:22 PM
oic.. no.. i didnt go anywhere last nite.. next time got go sure call u, ok? :p

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:23 PM
oic.. no.. i didnt go anywhere last nite.. next time got go sure call u, ok? :p
you saying to who?

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 02:29 PM
huh.. u la.. u asking me for sex ma.. :)

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:29 PM
sorry i mean your gender

longthickrod76
03-04-2005, 02:51 PM
hihi. newbie babe_rena here. who can asnwer my question? keke. :)

Yes. Love does exist.

But there are some conditions that will exist:

1. He will definitely marry you if he loves you. I'm a man, I know. I love my wife. I marry her. Yeah, I do have the occasional fling now and then but I always made myself clear that I'm married and I'm here just for the fun. So no strings attached. Anything else is just plain bullshit.

2. Same for the gal.

freedom
03-04-2005, 02:53 PM
that mean my case is one side story only haiz
sad case
pity myself
wahahahaa

banana
03-04-2005, 07:06 PM
why do guys kept asking for sex when the relationship start? if a relationship without sex can't last ma? why are guys like that? cry cry. :mad:

nope not really. i didnt have sex with my ex-fiancee for 6 years when we were together. i didnt even touch her until 6 mths later into the relationship.

sex does spice up the relationship, but is not the root to the relationship. personally if i like the girl, i will want to have sex with her. if girl i dont like, i dont even wanna touch her even if she offer herself to me.

since u ask, i guess u r still young and still growing. be ur self and learn from your seniors. in your circle of friends, u should have some experienced ppl around you and ask them to be ur mentors.

oxilary
03-04-2005, 07:10 PM
personally, i know of guys who actually masturbate simply becos their gf insists on coitus after marriage.

all sorts of ppl ard..

banana
03-04-2005, 07:12 PM
like the previous answer. sex. why why why? why must guys look for sex rather a firm relationship?

everybody have their own answer. for me here it is.

if i have sex with a girl it mean i m commiting in this relationship else i wont have sex with her at all. i m not talking abt ONS. and i ask for sex bcos i want to know if she is serious in the relationship.

i dont ask for sex until the relationship has pass the courtship stage. that is we have meet each other parents.

banana
03-04-2005, 07:17 PM
personally, i know of guys who actually masturbate simply becos their gf insists on coitus after marriage.

all sorts of ppl ard..

u talking abt me? :cool:

cummy
03-04-2005, 07:44 PM
Hmmmm... All talking about guys need sex, I wonder if anyone of u have met a girl who only wans to be with you for sex ?

I got one ex (dunno considered or not), with her for 3 months, I really loved her and wanted to be with her. But then, in the end, we broke up coz one of my fren saw her with another guy.

Later on after our break up, i got to know that she's with a LOT of other guys. Guess I'm just one of her headcount for sex.

My conclusion : Love exist. But to find mutual ones, RARE! Usually is one party love the other more.

Eastpipper
03-04-2005, 07:47 PM
i wonder how old is the threadstarter?

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 07:51 PM
its impossible for two parties to love each other equally.. well.. u need to use a system of differential equations to explain that and its non-linear.. ops.. sorry.. i digressed.. :rolleyes:

cummy
03-04-2005, 07:52 PM
i wonder how old is the threadstarter?

erm, she mentioned stop school 3 yrs liao.

If poly grad, she'll be 23 this yr.
If U-grad, she'll be 25 this yr ???

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 07:55 PM
she is currectly 19 years old la.. :)

ahpaul25
03-04-2005, 07:57 PM
she is currectly 19 years old la.. :)

Wah Bro, how you know? Knn....you are his EX is it? LOLx......... She say he very wolf 1.........Hahahahha :p That y break up...

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 07:59 PM
i her ex.. no la.. but she.. hehehehe :eek:

Eastpipper
03-04-2005, 08:05 PM
she is currectly 19 years old la.. :)

must be a very hot babe!but me no chance liao.haiz!

asdfghjkl
03-04-2005, 08:06 PM
huh.. y ler? u attached liao ah? :rolleyes:

Eastpipper
03-04-2005, 08:07 PM
huh.. y ler? u attached liao ah? :rolleyes:

no,bcos by then,she already read all my FR liao! i dun think she wil be impressed!hahahaha

ahpaul25
03-04-2005, 08:08 PM
i her ex.. no la.. but she.. hehehehe :eek:

You know her is it? or else u will not hint me leh bro.....hahaha...... :D she chio bo? wonder why her bf so wolf on her?

oxilary
03-04-2005, 08:13 PM
u talking abt me? :cool:

hehe.. maybe :D

gam3r
04-04-2005, 01:04 AM
but why guys kept asking for sex? does it mean no sex than the relationship won't last?

well.. guys haf their needs lor.. u cannot expect they rather pcc demself den hafing a gal to pcc for them or let them fuck right? a guys sex drive is 3 times higher den a gal lor.. we haf our needs oso. all guys will ask for sex de.. no sex doesnt mean dat relationship wont last, if the guy willing to wait until u get married wif him den haf sex, den hes the one who truly loves u for who u are, not wad u can gif him.

Siam_Bu
04-04-2005, 01:07 AM
Hee hee dont really agree :( I think gals sex drive is higher

well.. guys haf their needs lor.. u cannot expect they rather pcc demself den hafing a gal to pcc for them or let them fuck right? a guys sex drive is 3 times higher den a gal lor.. we haf our needs oso. all guys will ask for sex de.. no sex doesnt mean dat relationship wont last, if the guy willing to wait until u get married wif him den haf sex, den hes the one who truly loves u for who u are, not wad u can gif him.

kingcailee
04-04-2005, 02:16 AM
What is love?
no one will really know the answer.
a man n a woman can get married.
but they can also divorce.
even when they are old.
therefore, only when one of them has die.
then they will be consider husband n wife.

babe_rena
04-04-2005, 04:11 AM
korkor? me very high already. knn. those guys in the pub really like wolf. c78. me sleepy also. u all take care k? meakkkkkk. :)

oxilary
04-04-2005, 04:13 AM
me sleepy also. u all take care k? meakkkkkk. :)

gd nites. take care..

ahpaul25
04-04-2005, 04:25 AM
korkor? me very high already. knn. those guys in the pub really like wolf. c78. me sleepy also. u all take care k? meakkkkkk. :)

Gd nite baby rena...........Have a gd rest......... :p

Siam_Bu
04-04-2005, 10:07 AM
korkor? me very high already. knn. those guys in the pub really like wolf. c78. me sleepy also. u all take care k? meakkkkkk. :)
Huh? high? be careful sis.

HOTDUD
04-04-2005, 10:46 AM
okok i will do my very best.
btw how many of you got msn? i got. want to start a chat in msn?

maybe tat so called galgal is a ah-gua or wat??
see u all so happily and so ON in telling her wat love?? :rolleyes:

Ecuader
04-04-2005, 02:43 PM
korkor? me very high already. knn. those guys in the pub really like wolf. c78. me sleepy also. u all take care k? meakkkkkk. :)

of cos they r wolfs.
they r looking for ONS mah

freedom
04-04-2005, 03:09 PM
wow all target her is it?

if pub no wolf then chop my head

oxilary
04-04-2005, 03:10 PM
maybe tat so called galgal is a ah-gua or wat??
see u all so happily and so ON in telling her wat love?? :rolleyes:

does it matter? unless ur intentions are not purely based on discussion.

babe_rena
04-04-2005, 07:35 PM
maybe tat so called galgal is a ah-gua or wat??
see u all so happily and so ON in telling her wat love?? :rolleyes:

who are u refering? :confused:
don't think that i don't know.

grandfather
04-04-2005, 09:09 PM
问世间情为何物,只叫人生死相徐

oxilary
04-04-2005, 09:55 PM
问世间情为何物,直教人生死相许!

道尽了世上许许多多的男女对爱情的痴迷和执着。时间的消逝及时代的变迁,并没有令人对爱的炽热 减低。

或许,有人会认为现代爱情已无须 要天长地久,一生一世;讲求的只是速度、成效,故被喻为「即食面」。因此 ,以为「曾经拥有」才合乎现代爱情观。

然而,古今中外,所有被推崇为伟大的,能跨越时间考验而被传颂的爱情故事,全都彰显一个强烈意念:生死相渝 。

如此,片刻、短暂的情爱,又岂能满足人内心,对恒久真爱的渴求呢?

Andy Lau
04-04-2005, 11:52 PM
爱情这东西。。。。谁人知 (In Cantonese)

獨唱戀歌的心誰人知
從自覺放棄了愛情開始
逝去一首首歌 彷似一聲聲諷刺
唯獨愛過痛過才能知 Woo...

全情投入去 得到了
亦已將風花雪月忘掉
當我覺得找到未來
你卻說我已失去不少

在夜欄人靜以後
燭光都再沒情調
是否可笑過去了的一分一秒
有你分享過的 我才感到重要

對酒當歌的心誰人知
難道要我告訴我自已知
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freedom
05-04-2005, 12:23 AM
wow now all the chinese come out

Siam_Bu
05-04-2005, 12:56 AM
sigh, its ok just a Q&A pls no F here F there. all here r buddies, brother & sister :)

banana
05-04-2005, 04:12 AM
I got one ex (dunno considered or not), with her for 3 months, I really loved her and wanted to be with her. But then, in the end, we broke up coz one of my fren saw her with another guy.

Later on after our break up, i got to know that she's with a LOT of other guys. Guess I'm just one of her headcount for sex.


i know gals that are playgirls and they break man's heart. when u encounter these gals, u will realise that they are fcukking u rather than u fcuking them.

one of my gals tell me stories how they flirt and dump men and sometimes ask me for suggestions and tips to deal with men, how to tempt them, how to ask for LV bags, etc.

so beware!

KoLianTai
05-04-2005, 05:10 AM
hmm... i tot last time for gers sex = love, no sex = no love. It's the guys who separate love n sex. So they say they love u and have sex with another.

Dear xmm, i give u a situation. Would u rather u guy love u and fuck another or would you want him to love u and fuck you?

I can guarantee plus chop all guys are horny, if nt there won't be sammyboy forums. 10 guys 9 horny, only left 1, impotent.

If you want your guy to be impotent, so be it. I'm sure u'd be enjoying the sweet times together but what abt nxt time? It's just that guys reach sex puberty earlier than gers. Gers reach theirs at ard late 20's or early 30's(By scientific report). What abt then? The logic i know is that sex n love both as important in an r/s. Perharps it's too early for u though.

had tried, infact if not for her i would not be enjoying my sucess in my career now. thats the only knot in me all this while. Think thats life you gain something you lose something if given a choice i rather choose to have her and give up all i had now...


Don't be stupid my boy. I was once like you. With her i had fame, power and money. For her i gave up all just to fulfil her wish. She told me if she had to choose love or bread, she'd choose love. She'd rather me accompany her all day from morning till nite like what her ex use to do. Watch vcd and huddle together. She gave me promises of everlasting love and said she want nothing but me. But in the end what happened? My business failed, i was penniless. Go out eat fastfood she started to make sacarstic remarks that at least she's able to eat here rather than wif her ex in kopitiam. She started to pick little faults of me. She started to make noise abt me not going to work. She started to say how come i'm not serious at all. She started to go out shopping with me, see things she like but dowan me to buy. She started to always say i'm broke. She started to go irc to know sugar daddy. She started to see a older guy who pamper her with money and promised that they are just kor and mei. She started to tell me the guy very good, how he pampers her, and assure be that there's nothing between them. She started to tell me that how gentlemen tt f*cker was and how he told her he won't officially woo her coz she's with me even though he's sending her thro n fro frm work and buying her stuffs. And the story ended with her brking up with me and being with the guy :D and finding me a nuisance. So as much as gers wanting true love w/o sex, then can i request true love w/o money?

Kz paiseh abit too agitated. Haven't got over her. So far i want find fl to boink but cannot do it lehz. First coz i my dick reserved liao, 2nd coz my first time fl =X. Tt's y paiseh ah bro nirvana, drag so long. Also cannot find other girls, coz cnfirm use them as substitute. So how my dear xmm thread starter? True love? Or plain stupidity? Kz lahz cannot 1 boat beat whole river of boats. But i start to think that love is only a promise at the spur of moment which lessens in time and fades. So many ppl married and yet go out for flings. What abt the love they promised at the wedding ceremony?

:eek: +++ so much. Paiseh paiseh. End my 32421541word essay with one sentence. If there's love, it'd be for a reason. If the reason ceases, so is love.

Ecuader
05-04-2005, 05:17 AM
So as much as gers wanting true love w/o sex, then can i request true love w/o money?

true. i had the impression that most sg gals r materialistic.

freedom
05-04-2005, 01:20 PM
some how love will still need bread.
but try to get pure love that is what i want

hann73
05-04-2005, 01:59 PM
I love my wife...
I love my girlfriend (one married and one single) from Indonesia.
I just fall in love with a teacher (divorce).
I am also attached to a Malasian girl (can die for me).
AND THEY ALL LOVE ME!!! :o
........well babe_rena.......I am sure LOVE exist!!.......... shit...wat am i doing....
Bro, u are my idol ;) But ain't it stressful juggling so many loves? How u do it?

hann73
05-04-2005, 02:06 PM
hmm... i tot last time for gers sex = love, no sex = no love. It's the guys who separate love n sex. So they say they love u and have sex with another.

Bro, just some advice. We learn from our bad experiences, and the thing we gain is strength from it. cheers. Hann73

alphalaw
05-04-2005, 02:29 PM
Bro, u are my idol But ain't it stressful juggling so many loves? How u do it?


A useful technology call "handphone" allows US to do so.
A useful plan call "Buisness Package Plan (825 Hours call out, Free incoming) allows US to do so.
A useful tool, call "Power Dik" allows SOME to do so.
A useful mouth with a hidden skill call "Sweet talk" allows MOST to do so.
A useful 1st wall barrier breakage and maintence call "Appearance" allows AFEW to do so.

Lastly, a useful invention call "Money" allows...... all the above to work...

Love, does exist. When it is there, enjoy WHILE IT LAST.
Love, like many others, can be created and also spoil.....
Everyone wants fresh "things" (love in this place)
Noone wants stale "thnigs" (love in this place)

PS: Has everyone gotten that High earning job yet? ^^
:p :D

banana
05-04-2005, 02:51 PM
Dear xmm, i give u a situation. Would u rather u guy love u and fuck another or would you want him to love u and fuck you?


ya! i just dont understand why gals dont think this way. so i usually rebuke them saying, "if i dont fcuk u then i fcuk who", something like that. anyway, when i have a gf, automatically i stand down and dont fcuk other gals. i dont know why, may be is my commitment to my gf, even if i sleep with another gal, i dont feel good or "just cant do it".


Don't be stupid my boy. I was once like you. With her i had fame, power and money. For her i gave up all just to fulfil her wish. She told me if she had to choose love or bread, she'd choose love.


my ex-fiancee left me bcos i dont make enough bread. i cant blame her bcos she is a high flyer. among all her guy friends, i m the weakest and the poorest.

in our present society, i dont think u can find love without money. if u do, pls treasure your relationship. even PRC gal also love u for money. well, i think i will be a single till i die. who knows, wat comes next?


If there's love, it'd be for a reason. If the reason ceases, so is love. ur statement make sense, but the reason to love a pserson for a reason is wrong and the relationship will never last.

true love is unconditional love (agape) , not love as in "phileo" love for a reason.

when a reason is gone so is the love. but if u love a person unconditionally, the love will last for eternity. so how u get ur self into this agape love?

i type to long liao, so interested then i cont' else i stop here.

my 2 cents.

banana
05-04-2005, 02:54 PM
A useful technology call "handphone" allows US to do so.
A useful plan call "Buisness Package Plan (825 Hours call out, Free incoming) allows US to do so.
A useful tool, call "Power Dik" allows SOME to do so.
A useful mouth with a hidden skill call "Sweet talk" allows MOST to do so.
A useful 1st wall barrier breakage and maintence call "Appearance" allows AFEW to do so.

Lastly, a useful invention call "Money" allows...... all the above to work...


well said, well said. bravo!

medicheng
05-04-2005, 05:08 PM
Baby Rena let me answer you.... I was once with a girl, who was my gf... she told me she dun like her bf to touch her often, and i trusted her... thru out the whole half a year being with her without touching her, except perhaps holding her hands 3-4 times.... in the end wat happen? she two timed me... so does it wrong for guys from the start to ask for more?

asdfghjkl
05-04-2005, 05:21 PM
medi.. wat actually happen? :o

medicheng
05-04-2005, 05:29 PM
haha in the end she two timed me song song....

asdfghjkl
05-04-2005, 05:34 PM
i mean after that.. did u 2 get married, else? :rolleyes:

gam3r
05-04-2005, 06:29 PM
[QUOTE=KoLianTai]hmm... i tot last time for gers sex = love, no sex = no love. It's the guys who separate love n sex. So they say they love u and have sex with another.

brother.. u oso abit sad lor.. now i noe tat i shall nvr sacrifice for women unless she sacrifice for me.. lol.. of coz every guys are horny, even if cannot fuck.. we still haf our natural gift from heaven.. OUR HAND!!!! of coz.. im sure all or most us brothers started the fist step towards sex pleasure is PCC.. yea.. make good use of ur hands.. haha

cummy
05-04-2005, 06:32 PM
one of my gals tell me stories how they flirt and dump men

so beware!

I muz really learn the skills of playboy... :D

gam3r
05-04-2005, 06:33 PM
[QUOTE=banana]ya! i just dont understand why gals dont think this way. so i usually rebuke them saying, "if i dont fcuk u then i fcuk who", something like that. anyway, when i have a gf, automatically i stand down and dont fcuk other gals. i dont know why, may be is my commitment to my gf, even if i sleep with another gal, i dont feel good or "just cant do it".

yah lor.. tmd.. since my sex left me.. i got quite a few flings... but nvr fuck la.. juz touch touch and kiss kiss nia.. but hor.. i juz dun feel good lor.. when i french wif my fling.. its like no feeling de lor.. really.. wont feel good de.. dun feel like doing it.. when she touch my dick.. my dick will tell her dun touch by laying limp or no feeling.. lolx.. mayb im the type who is damn commited to my gf de bah.. its like only when i kiss or fuck my ex, the feeling will come back..

oxilary
05-04-2005, 06:35 PM
den i guess u're really looking for love and not sex? :D

KoLianTai
05-04-2005, 06:35 PM
hmm... i tot last time for gers sex = love, no sex = no love. It's the guys who separate love n sex. So they say they love u and have sex with another.

brother.. u oso abit sad lor.. now i noe tat i shall nvr sacrifice for women unless she sacrifice for me.. lol.. of coz every guys are horny, even if cannot fuck.. we still haf our natural gift from heaven.. OUR HAND!!!! of coz.. im sure all or most us brothers started the fist step towards sex pleasure is PCC.. yea.. make good use of ur hands.. haha
yah lor.. tmd.. since my sex left me.. i got quite a few flings... but nvr fuck la.. juz touch touch and kiss kiss nia.. but hor.. i juz dun feel good lor.. when i french wif my fling.. its like no feeling de lor.. really.. wont feel good de.. dun feel like doing it.. when she touch my dick.. my dick will tell her dun touch by laying limp or no feeling.. lolx.. mayb im the type who is damn commited to my gf de bah.. its like only when i kiss or fuck my ex, the feeling will come back..

Bro cannot... now i pcc no feel eh... cannot have the volcanic organsm... But still gt do lahz, to relieve my bank. Tt's y i thinking of fl-ing... but can't seem to bring myself to it... actually all i want is someone to hug in bed to smell her hair,but spend $120-200 to hug someone for 1-2hr abit chor hor? :D

Siam_Bu
05-04-2005, 06:38 PM
Than I think philippine pub in paramount suits u hee hee can drink n hug longer

Bro cannot... now i pcc no feel eh... cannot have the volcanic organsm... But still gt do lahz, to relieve my bank. Tt's y i thinking of fl-ing... but can't seem to bring myself to it... actually all i want is someone to hug in bed to smell her hair,but spend $120-200 to hug someone for 1-2hr abit chor hor? :D

KoLianTai
05-04-2005, 06:41 PM
Than I think philippine pub in paramount suits u hee hee can drink n hug longer

Wei mai saboh me... wait hug hug i hard "she" also hard u come settle for me :eek:

asdfghjkl
05-04-2005, 06:43 PM
i never expect so many bros here to be so appealing to the sentiments ler.. KLT.. i wish u gd luck in ur search n hope u can find a good wife! :p

KoLianTai
05-04-2005, 06:47 PM
haha still long still long. Get my bread first b4 i get a wife. Once bitten twice shy. LOL... nowadays SG guys are known for SNAG... bo bian lol the world has changed

asdfghjkl
05-04-2005, 06:57 PM
whenever i hear my female friends asking for SNAG, i would answer they are no more than pi fu xiao er.. lol.. :)

oxilary
05-04-2005, 07:28 PM
whenever i hear my female friends asking for SNAG, i would answer they are no more than pi fu xiao er.. lol.. :)

pi fu xiao er?

gam3r
05-04-2005, 08:21 PM
Bro cannot... now i pcc no feel eh... cannot have the volcanic organsm... But still gt do lahz, to relieve my bank. Tt's y i thinking of fl-ing... but can't seem to bring myself to it... actually all i want is someone to hug in bed to smell her hair,but spend $120-200 to hug someone for 1-2hr abit chor hor? :D

lol.. exactly.. u can nvr subsitute ur love one for a pros de la.. even if u hug her in bed, smell her hair, smell her cb, smell her armpit.. the feeling is nt the same.