Curious about sex

[Cherrygen]

Hello bros, can anybody give me advice on having sex.
I'm 23 virgin, bf is also a virgin( 31 ). He duno how to penetrate.. Erm or is it I'm too tight? Is this a common problem ?
We wana try but end up feeling frustrated.

Too shy to ask my experienced frens as I look kinda sluty not virgin look & nev had sex !!

[waitawhile]

Hello bros, can anybody give me advice on having sex.
I'm 23 virgin, bf is also a virgin( 31 ). He duno how to penetrate.. Erm or is it I'm too tight? Is this a common problem ?
We wana try but end up feeling frustrated.

Too shy to ask my experienced frens as I look kinda sluty not virgin look & nev had sex !!


Go slow on first try and most impt is to relax and enjoy the experiencing part..

How can your bf dunno how to penetrate your vagina? Just get his rod solid hard then lubricate your vagina if you are not wet enough then slowly insert all the way in and the rest will be history... :p

Dont be stress and all will be smooth.. :)

[jazzykbk]

I think you are just not stimulated enough to get wet for penetration. Have you finger urself before?

[Meow^^]

Hello bros, can anybody give me advice on having sex.
I'm 23 virgin, bf is also a virgin( 31 ). He duno how to penetrate.. Erm or is it I'm too tight? Is this a common problem ?
We wana try but end up feeling frustrated.

Too shy to ask my experienced frens as I look kinda sluty not virgin look & nev had sex !!

Try Google it....:D

[nottiguy1]

i heard of my frens having such problem before.
maybe you can use some lubricant. Try to relax and enjoy the fun.

[littlepok]

if your bf is 31 and claims to be a virgin or a real one, he got some problem, u take note.

self-declared slutty yet no guys tried to deflower u in the past?

1 best way, buy a dildo, plenty of lubricant and condom. let your bf dildo u till wet wet and expand the pussy more. then lub your pussy and his condom. should be easy to slip in all the way.

on a downside, the dildo take your virginity and first blood, not your bf.

he should be the one asking here btw...

watch some porn too la. wah lao which cave he staying in?

[sta1100]

Your BF hot dog got problem don't know how poke

[Happy555]

Ur bf 31 n duno hw to poke? lol... u believe ah?

[Cherrygen]

Thanks all bros & sis for taking time to advise me.

He is my first serious bf. I had a few r/s in the past even with married guys but only had petting.Luckily was not raped as I was very firm in not having sex then. I have a mental block about having sex.

Guess could be the trauma I had when I was in pri 3. I like to go to my neighbor's home to play. One of the kid is of my same age & he had a older bro who was in sec sch. 1 fateful, both parents went out, I went to their place to play. They say wana play doc & patient game. The big bro is the doc I'm the patient. My fren is the nurse. I was idiotic enough to let them remove my clothes & cover me with blanket while I lie on his bed. The "doc" start to remove my panties & examine my pussy. He dig with his finger & I could feel the pain & I cried & scream " don't wana play this game!" He say cleaning me :(
I didn't really know I was violated then night time I felt so. I don't dare to tell my parents. :(

[Nomster]

Is the school holidays coming again?

[Tai_zi21]

My dear lady! Tell me when you are joking when u say ur bf is 31 And a virgin?

He might not have try a virgin before I believe! But wat the reason behind that he cannot enter u? No foreplay not wet enough for u?

[spidey7]

TS let all e bros teach u. Make appt w dem.

[bfreemen]

Come on gents which one of you is willing to provide free lessons

[aiyuhen]

Come on gents which one of you is willing to provide free lessons

HAHAHA... anyone will provide free lesson if she ask.... :D

[Cherrygen]

Thanks to all bros & sis. I posted while I was on moderation but the posting has disappeared :( just signed up & my points got deducted. Is it becos I ask too many qn?

[FastCummer]

Thanks to all bros & sis. I posted while I was on moderation but the posting has disappeared :( just signed up & my points got deducted. Is it becos I ask too many qn?

U only asked 1 qtn what, where got too many? LOL

[SammyNewbie]

I find it hard to believe that a female would magically wander into a forum for sex where the population here is predominantly male, know enough to pay money for premium membership, and then make such a post here knowing its a sex forum.

All I can say is trolls/young kids have alot of money to burn these days. :rolleyes:

[Funseekerguy]

Thanks to all bros & sis. I posted while I was on moderation but the posting has disappeared :( just signed up & my points got deducted. Is it becos I ask too many qn?

i guess its not becos u r asking too many qns...its becos u r asking stupid qns....:D

[NemoZai]

I find it hard to believe that a female would magically wander into a forum for sex where the population here is predominantly male, know enough to pay money for premium membership, and then make such a post here knowing its a sex forum.

All I can say is trolls/young kids have alot of money to burn these days. :rolleyes:

Unlikely a troll. Either a newbie okt who is looking for new content for his FRs.... Or he is simply really a real 31yo virgin...

TS can't be female...

[SammyNewbie]

I feel an urge to correct my post of grammar errors before boss comes here and goes:

its is used to describe something belonging to an animal/inanimate object.

it's is the actual short form for it is.

Sorry if you are reading this,boss, and got abit traumatized by my bad english.

I'm a little out of touch from not writing english reports and compositions all day. >.<"

[Cherrygen]

I'm just curious & impatient to post that's why i sign up for the premium member. The fee is peanuts what! i know this is a sex forum so a lot of bros & sis will give me guidance. The dp shows my own boobs not some fake guys as what some of u posted.

I'm frustrated i posted a long post while on moderation & that posting was gone. What i wanted to post was:

My bf is my first serious bf, i had other r/s with other guys including married men but without sex. Furthest is only petting, they are understanding & didn't force me to have sex with them even though to admit really quite high. Guess i had a mental block. I had a traumatic experience when I was in p3. I used to go to my neighbor's place to play, a kid same age as me and his bro in sec sch. 1 fateful day, i went over and they wanted to play a doc & patient game. I acted as the patient and they undress me. Told me to lie on his bed. The elder bro is the doc, he dig my pussy. I felt painful & cried & beg him to stop. He say is part of the game...I didn't dare to tell my parents about it. They will not believe as that guy is from acs, cant do such a thing. Slowly i knew i was violated..

From then on, i have a mental block & i didn't dare to have sex.. He is my first serious bf i felt so that's wana do it with him...We had foreplay, i was wet & he was hard but duno why he duno how to penetrate & it frustrates me.

[chatlovers]

U shouldnt hide such things.

But what makes u feel he is virgin?

[Funseekerguy]

I'm just curious & impatient to post that's why i sign up for the premium member. The fee is peanuts what! i know this is a sex forum so a lot of bros & sis will give me guidance. The dp shows my own boobs not some fake guys as what some of u posted.

I'm frustrated i posted a long post while on moderation & that posting was gone. What i wanted to post was:

My bf is my first serious bf, i had other r/s with other guys including married men but without sex. Furthest is only petting, they are understanding & didn't force me to have sex with them even though to admit really quite high. Guess i had a mental block. I had a traumatic experience when I was in p3. I used to go to my neighbor's place to play, a kid same age as me and his bro in sec sch. 1 fateful day, i went over and they wanted to play a doc & patient game. I acted as the patient and they undress me. Told me to lie on his bed. The elder bro is the doc, he dig my pussy. I felt painful & cried & beg him to stop. He say is part of the game...I didn't dare to tell my parents about it. They will not believe as that guy is from acs, cant do such a thing. Slowly i knew i was violated..

From then on, i have a mental block & i didn't dare to have sex.. He is my first serious bf i felt so that's wana do it with him...We had foreplay, i was wet & he was hard but duno why he duno how to penetrate & it frustrates me.

i would suggest TS to stop posting anymore.... the more "HE" post, the "FAKE-R" he is......i suggest u better go to IMH and check.... your mental is really very "blocked" now...:D:D

[consultant]

I am no doctor but read many medical journals n articles on sex n problems pple have.what you have sounds like a medical condition where the female opening contracts when penetration is attempted due to prior psychological trauma. There are female psychologists in Singapore who can help with your problem. Try asking a gynae for referral. Take care.

[Cherrygen]

I wouldn't want to start a war with anybody. :p what's wrong with paying if i can afford it. I just want to hear views of others. I did try to relax myself but whenever the dick is coming, my legs will subconsciously close it. My bf will then try to re-open it but also not successful.. I just wander why finger is ok but dick not ok?

[Mischievous]

From then on, i have a mental block & i didn't dare to have sex.. He is my first serious bf i felt so that's wana do it with him...We had foreplay, i was wet & he was hard but duno why he duno how to penetrate & it frustrates me.

I wouldn't want to start a war with anybody. :p what's wrong with paying if i can afford it. I just want to hear views of others. I did try to relax myself but whenever the dick is coming, my legs will subconsciously close it. My bf will then try to re-open it but also not successful.. I just wander why finger is ok but dick not ok?

sorry to hear about your traumatic experience during childhood.

based on your posts above, the problem your BF is facing is not related to penetration but more about how to unlock your legs. perhaps you should seek proffesional help. its seems the issue is within you and not caused by your BF.

another option is for you to get drunk and just let him screw you silly :p

[Cherrygen]

Thanks to all bros who encouraged me via your postings & pms to me. :p
Guess it will not be an overnight thing for me to overcome but will try my best to relax & let go of the past. Feel so warm :)

[Androgynous]

consider approaching a sex counselor or psychologist, maybe both? no harm trying

[Mountain]

Hey girl, why would you want to date a much older guy? There are tons of younger guys out there for your age, but for whatever reasons, I respect that. :D

Anyway, it's just a psychological issue. You just need to enjoy and he just need to be gentle.

I suggest watching porn together, at least both of you would get to learn something. :rolleyes:

[Devil320]

I suppose ur bf gotta keep u distracted, not focused on the point when he is about to enter either thru kissing or making u feel more aroused.

Yeah like some suggestions here, watch some porn together to learn n ease each other's worries. BTW, do use a condom.

[Dexter007]

this thread makes me lol

[sean69]

aiyoh.. why u pple like that??!!.. she got a problem and is right to ask for help..

TS, i think wat you need is a small dick to help you lose your virginity first..

i remember many years ago, in my technical class, before we use a big drill bit to drill a hole, first we use a small drill bit... i think we call it drilling a pilot hole..

so, following the same concept, we need to get a pilot hole into you first, so that your bf can drill you easier..

and seriously speaking, SBF males mostly have big dick... fortunately or unfortunately, i have a small dick .. *sob* ..

out of my kind heart, i am willing to drill a pilot hole for you... for this service, i also dun want to charge a lot, so up to you to give a angpow.. :D

[ah rat]

I did try to relax myself but whenever the dick is coming, my legs will subconsciously close it. My bf will then try to re-open it but also not successful.. I just wander why finger is ok but dick not ok?

Sis, need my help to stop yours leg from closing. :p

[youngpainter]

...maybe do some painting n fingering 1st....to spice up the ( y ) ...XP ( Y ) .... enjoy the process :)

[maddog_mlvn]

Hey girl, why would you want to date a much older guy? There are tons of younger guys out there for your age, but for whatever reasons, I respect that. :D

Anyway, it's just a psychological issue. You just need to enjoy and he just need to be gentle.

I suggest watching porn together, at least both of you would get to learn something. :rolleyes:

What's wrong with dating older guys. Older guys got no dick for TS???? Or hv no experience to deflower TS???

[ellenaj]

Your boy is 31 and he claims that he is still a virgin? Hard to find this kind of guys already

[notti4u]

Your boy is 31 and he claims that he is still a virgin? Hard to find this kind of guys already

I think a lot of man are also virgin (at the asshole)...:D

Well, it is not hard to find. A few of my friends are still virgin and they only thought of making love with someone they are in love with. I ever bought one of them to the massage paulour with extra services and in the end, the girl ask me whether is my friend GAY as she tried to arouse him and he rejected her flat in her face.

Maybe it is due to the family upbringing that they must remain virgin till marriage? :rolleyes:

[Cherrygen]

A thing about me, i’m a lil weido. I’m scared of porn. Can cry! :eek:Maybe being in a serious r/s loses the thrills.

[loneyheart]

I did try to relax myself but whenever the dick is coming, my legs will subconsciously close it. My bf will then try to re-open it but also not successful.. I just wander why finger is ok but dick not ok?

Now I see yr problem ... At 1st I thou u r a Stone Girl 石女
Drink some Red Wine .... Try Blind Fold yrself n put on some Soft Music ... Light up some Fragrance Oil .... Start w passionate frenching n heavy petting .... ask yr BF give u a good pussy lick until super wet n high .... then open up yr both legs bend w yr BF in between or hang on yr BF shoulder ... if can put a pillow under yr butt ... use yr BF dick to rub yr pussy 1st then slowly enter .... if unsuccessful ... try doggie w yr BF in between n use his legs to tahan yr legs fm closing

If t abv fail see a doctor

[gabriel80]

I think the problem may be because your partner is not entirely erected when he is trying to penetrate you. If he is not completely hard, it will be very difficult to penetrate the vagina, especially if your hymen is still intact. Maybe you should stimulate him more before attempting penetration. ;)

[Darkknight007]

I did try to relax myself but whenever the dick is coming, my legs will subconsciously close it. My bf will then try to re-open it but also not successful.. I just wander why finger is ok but dick not ok?

I can say both of u nothing wrong. just relax n enjoy. you dont need to scare when his rod closer to u. cause u scare he will feel too and he will stop it. it will feel pain at first when he poking in jz relax n hold the pain awhile. relax him too and tell him to insert hard when in it...yes u still feel abit pain but after few stroke u two will feel the feeling of each other. my advice dont feel scare n pain go for it aand relax.

fingering cos finger smaller than rod

[nottiguy1]

You might want to relax and get arouse first.
Maybe abit of wine will loosen you up.

[BrandonNg]

hard to believe this problem exist.. most guys instintively knows how to do it. and most girls when the heat turns up, will be open up :D

if getting into relax mood did not help, then try getting into a high mood by some drinking... or if all else fails, i am sure a long queue is forming to teach u.. ;)

[saustin316]

Drink some Red Wine/whiskey/beer/whatever your poison is .... ask yr BF give u a good pussy lick/finger until super wet n high ....
If t abv fail see a doctor

true story on all above esp last line. no joke, just trying to help :)

[Cherrygen]

We have some improvement but not the full depth..
About 2 cm then will meet obstruction follow by drop out.Seems like my body will build a defense wall if he wana push in. I'm wet & he is hard ,This is not considered as a penetration rite..easier if he has a shorter penis ?

Do I really need to see a doc ? The doc see me sure question mark.

[saint_1979]

I remember the time when I took my gf's (now my wife) V, there was a blockage when penetrating. I have to keep adjusting the position of my manhood and slowly gg deeper. And finally went thru. But my gf was screaming pain....pain.
After a few strokes, all went well.

Of cos, must keep the girl comfortable at all time.

[naturegreen]

A thing about me, i’m a lil weido. I’m scared of porn. Can cry! :eek:Maybe being in a serious r/s loses the thrills.

Don't worry. I am not interested to be in a serious r/s with you so we can have all the thrills you want. :D

[ellenaj]

Best suggestion is to get a dildo urself and break ur virginity. Or try to stimulate urself and relax more?
hopefully there's gd news from u. Goodluck!!

[geckoSG]

Obstruction cos of the virgin wall... try adjust position for him, can try doggie position with you spread legs wide. Happy bonking

[ah rat]

We have some improvement but not the full depth..
About 2 cm then will meet obstruction follow by drop out.Seems like my body will build a defense wall if he wana push in. I'm wet & he is hard ,This is not considered as a penetration rite..easier if he has a shorter penis ?



Sis,did yours BF enter the wrong hole :D

[JavX]

Be prepared for pain and don't look at where he's penetrating. Something like taking an injection. It should help if he does it quicker instead if trying to push in slowly.

[Happy555]

I once had a FB who was a virgin, tried a few seperate occasions n cldnt cos she was too tense, so my trick is to park the cock at the entrance of the pussy then suddenly change topic n talk about something else. Then wen the girl is not paying attention, i shove the cock right in.... settle the damn issue once n for all!

[ellenaj]

I once had a FB who was a virgin, tried a few seperate occasions n cldnt cos she was too tense, so my trick is to park the cock at the entrance of the pussy then suddenly change topic n talk about something else. Then wen the girl is not paying attention, i shove the cock right in.... settle the damn issue once n for all!

OMG. this is terrible. i can imagine her screaming due to shock and pain :(

[block11]

hmmmm.... i think its a misconception that pain and/or blood is always involved when girls lose their virginity. not true laa :p

plenty of information around, just google it. for example http://www.wikihow.com/Lose-Your-Virginity-Without-Pain-(Girls)

just sharing :D

[Cherrygen]

My bf sleeping. No actions tonite. :x

[Cherrygen]

I once had a FB who was a virgin, tried a few seperate occasions n cldnt cos she was too tense, so my trick is to park the cock at the entrance of the pussy then suddenly change topic n talk about something else. Then wen the girl is not paying attention, i shove the cock right in.... settle the damn issue once n for all!

Wew.. It sounds painful. Have u seen pple eating monkey brains. The monkey still jumps white brain is cut open & hot water pour over... Cruelty!

[Cherrygen]

Sis,did yours BF enter the wrong hole :D

I don't dare to see .. I also dunoo frankly !:confused:

[Cherrygen]

Be prepared for pain and don't look at where he's penetrating. Something like taking an injection. It should help if he does it quicker instead if trying to push in slowly.

Needle poke no pain at all!

[Cherrygen]

Best suggestion is to get a dildo urself and break ur virginity. Or try to stimulate urself and relax more?
hopefully there's gd news from u. Goodluck!!

Dun wan to give my first time to a toy. Hehe !hopefully I can share soon if there is. ;)

[Cherrygen]

I remember the time when I took my gf's (now my wife) V, there was a blockage when penetrating. I have to keep adjusting the position of my manhood and slowly gg deeper. And finally went thru. But my gf was screaming pain....pain.
After a few strokes, all went well.

Of cos, must keep the girl comfortable at all time.

I feel ticklish as well & will giggle.... Fear in the form of laughter perhaps.

[Spicy98]

Dun wan to give my first time to a toy. Hehe !hopefully I can share soon if there is. ;)

Jiayou lah sis. Break it break it break the V Spell!!! :D

[ah rat]

I don't dare to see .. I also dunoo frankly !:confused:

Ah ya,confirm wrong hole liao :D

[Cherrygen]

I have a qn: is it normal to have a banana shaped like erection ?
Tried to google but didn't really get much understanding.
Why is the dick head pointing down?

[waahaa]

Perfectly normal. We're all human, so it's rare to have a perfectly straight woody as if it was a pipe. Most fellas bend a little in any particular direction


I have a qn: is it normal to have a banana shaped like erection ?
Tried to google but didn't really get much understanding.
Why is the dick head pointing down?

[looney83]

get yourself semi drunk.

works wonder. my wife used to drink sometimes and came back rape me from my sleep.

[TehGaDai]

get yourself semi drunk.

works wonder. my wife used to drink sometimes and came back rape me from my sleep.

hahahah! well, for guys, don't get too drunk. Cock can't stand. :D

[gotnotime]

hahahah! well, for guys, don't get too drunk. Cock can't stand. :D

Or worse still, drink too much to the point of alcohol poisoning, that one really diecockstand lol XD
On the other hand, staying sober is still the best way to enjoy the satisfaction, no?

[Cherrygen]

Perfectly normal. We're all human, so it's rare to have a perfectly straight woody as if it was a pipe. Most fellas bend a little in any particular direction

Thanks bro ! I thought my bf is v & that's y it bends.
Looks diff from other dicks I saw.

[4411]

A thing about me, i’m a lil weido. I’m scared of porn. Can cry! :eek:Maybe being in a serious r/s loses the thrills.

Wow! Cry over a porn show? Thats serious!

[Cherrygen]

Wow! Cry over a porn show? Thats serious!

Yah ! In fact, my ex used to take kinky shots of me. I screamed when I saw my own waxed pussy hole The view top down I had is diff from bottom up! Insane !lol.

[4411]

Yah ! In fact, my ex used to take kinky shots of me. I screamed when I saw my own waxed pussy hole The view top down I had is diff from bottom up! Insane !lol.

Send the shot to me. See i will cry anot. LOl

[Cherrygen]

Send the shot to me. See i will cry anot. LOl

Not used to seeing my own reproductive organ. Lol.

[ah rat]

Not used to seeing my own reproductive organ. Lol.

Sis,u not use to see,but we love to see and hope can share pixs with us :p

[iceman10]

Sis, why not share your pics ? I'm sure it's a beautiful looking organ

[Melchizidek]

go to eroscoaching.com
she can help you