Have you ever wonder how much you spent for the past years?

[kue19xx]

I started to cheong the MP/TN scene in 2006. I remember my 1st encounter is at 3rd storey of a mall in chinatown. It use to be both side of shops are MP and they will always say "帅哥按摩吗“ I really miss those days of "window shopping" This is also the start of developing my taste for MILF.

I stumbled upon SBF in 2010 and start ventured into FL and OKT scene. I starts to note down places I visited and amount I spent using acronyms using an Excel worksheet to autosum the total amount. :eek: I was shocked to see I had actually spent over $20K++ for the past 6 years of cheonging! and its still counting...

I could have go for tours or buy my fav gadgets with that amount of money. Many times I had asked myself to stop but small head always wins.

So bros...have you ever wondered, how much you had spent since you start cheonging?? I did!

[SammyNewbie]

I know I spent a portion of my education fund on bonking. Fortunately, I now have a job.

I think it's 3k-4k++ already though it's been six months only since I started.

But I no longer care, cause well, need is need, so no choice. I just try not to go too often and cut down. Once you step in...

DIY will no longer satisfy!

[Shaving_Ryan]

Only started recently for less than a month and dmg count is modest at $660 ( 3xCat150s, 2xCat80, 1xCat50 ).

Though might consider not chionging too often now coz sometimes too stress and nervous until pumping missionary style will go limp.....so couldn't fully enjoy.... haizz.....:(

[ol'coyote]

hmm...was just telling a fren yesterday...
me dun earn sgd100 per day...
yet have spent sgd100 per day since monday...
tats sgd400 aldy tis week...
with tat amt...me could live really well in AC...
hiaz...wat to do...little wolfy notti...

[kue19xx]

DIY will no longer satisfy!

Bro you are right! Jerking yourself and being jerks by someone else the sensation is really different!

Since my 1st encounter I'm hooked !:o

[easyeasy]

2006 till now $20k plus still Ok la. Why i say that? Becos i had spend way way way more than u. And i only have a modest income. When u happy u look for kangtow to celebrate. When u r down u also look for kangtow to console yourself.

[kue19xx]

Bro easyeasy, thanks for your response. I do belive there are bros out there who spent much more thn me.

Totally agrees with what you mentioned. Happy we celebrate, down we console.

The 2 main reason I cheong is to release work stress and did not get enough sextisfaction at home.

We spent our hard earned salary for our needs. I feel that we should pampers ourselves 1st instead of paying those endless bills!

[adonis]

I've spent enuf to buy a small car. My wife n her girl acquaintances spend may be more on their hairdos, beauty treatments, facials, manicures, pedicures, branded clothes, handbags n shoes... I reckon most guys reading this will rather spend money on massage girls who give good service than on branded clothes, belts n shoes.

[kue19xx]

Bro adonis, what can I say?

They could spent almost every months on clothes, bags and beauty services.

I spent on new clothes and shoes once a year only but spent on massage services throughout the year! :D

I normally is one time man. Unless the services is really good thn I will RTM or RTF.

Now I will judge services by whether it worth the amount you spent!

[adonis]

... Unless the services is really good thn I will RTM or RTF.

Now I will judge services by whether it worth the amount you spent!

And to add, if the girl is good looking enuf or not. Right u r.

[kue19xx]

And to add, if the girl is good looking enuf or not. Right u r.

You r right bro.. Looks is the next factor.. But sometimes will still came across lady with killer looks but lousy service. :(

[mseveninch]

It had been 25 years now since I frequent the WL for my miserable needs after my OC paralyze because of severe accident.

As I need to travel often or long attachment in my job - the cost of engagement are varied from one to another countries. The range started from USD 35 to USD 350 for a shot regardless ST / LT!

In the initial year when I'm still young and strong - need more release and slowly decrease as I grow old - I'm 50 now.

Mentally - I had spend a huge sums on it - close to purchase a 2 or maybe a 3rm HDB. Beside these there are others expenses to shoulder! - lone bread winner!!:o

[Marlb0r0]

I've spent enuf to buy a small car.

based on the recently COE price?:D

[kue19xx]

Bro mseveninch, thank you for sharing with us and I salute you for your 25 years of experience . I understand that it is not easy for you as a lone bread winner.

Im 38 now. Sometimes I do wonder how many years will I still continue to cheong or will I still have enough Vit M to cheong.

I belives that everything happens for a reason. We shall overcome whatever obstacles that may comes into our life.

[wally888]

We shd take uncle mseveninch as our idol as he's 50 and still cheonging not to mention he has spare $$$ to do it is even more admirable :D

[mseveninch]

Bro mseveninch, thank you for sharing with us and I salute you for your 25 years of experience . I understand that it is not easy for you as a lone bread winner.

Im 38 now. Sometimes I do wonder how many years will I still continue to cheong or will I still have enough Vit M to cheong.

I belives that everything happens for a reason. We shall overcome whatever obstacles that may comes into our life.


How long a man can cheong! - it depends very much on one man sexual health - not Vit M!!! Why I says so?

So long our dick still got the feel ( working condition ) - man will do it regardless of circumstances of their financial status.

There man who goes on the loan to fulfill their urge!! - one of my working buddy are like that....haizzz!

[kue19xx]

So long our dick still got the feel ( working condition ) - man will do it regardless of circumstances of their financial status.

Thanks Bro for enlighten me. You are very right. If small head not working how to cheong? Have a fortune also no use!

[asdfghjkl]

surely more than enough to buy the attractive olam bond with free warrants to boot! ;)

[kue19xx]

Thanks bros who had shared with us. We had bros who could have afford a small car or HDB flat..Wondering what could be next? I belive there are bros who had spent much more.

We start cheonging for a different reason. May it be to satisfy our needs or due to circumstances or to keep peace at home or juz for the thrill...reasons are endless... Most important is keep it commercial only.

I started to ventures around Chinatown area..thn bukit timah and OT. I remember there is one era whereby almost all HDB neighbourhood would have MP at shop house which must enter from backdoor. Jurong West, Jurong East, bedok, yishun, bukit batok and even Tampines! I ever went to a neighbourhood MP at Tampines during 2nd day of CNY few years back! :D

CNY coming.. Wish all bros happy cheonging and HUAT AH!

[GQpopped]

Hi bro,

Stumble upon your thread after reading other post.

I have been eating out since 2005 and only join SBF after I saw the browsing history in my friend's tablet by accident. How I wish I could have joined earlier. Im stll reading FAQ to know how things works in here.

I did not really thought of how much I had spent all this years. But after reading your thread and I start to roughly estimate and I was :eek: almost or at least 20K!

This is crazy. Tat amount I could have bought many gadgets that I wanted and upgrade my PC, LCD tv etc but I spent it all on my sexual needs!!

[lechlee]

Started visiting massage palor when I was in NS and hooked onto such activity ever since. I am 27 now and I have 'officially' stopped at 23 since I got a gf 4 years ago. Am actually quite proud of it as I know I could have spent the money on other things and holiday whatsoever. But from 18-23, I estimate I could have spent 4k on massage palor and freelance both local and overseas. Haha..
Well, I do miss the good old days when you do Reece, target and aim, and execute. Recce- walk around different places in sg (never been to in my whole life and never know exist until then).. Purposely walk past massage shop and pretend to be looking for other shops. It was so damn funny.. Those days bought The Newpaper and look at the advertisement behind for where the massage palors are. Remember the time when I enter/exit through the back doors for those located in shophouses or under the HDB. See those old uncles sitting at nearby coffee shops and notice them looking at me. Was thinking at that time "I am sure one of you also frequent this massage palor, look for what?"
I always look out for dark shops.. Haha.. So long the shop is very dark and doesn't seem to have customers sitting outside at the counter area, I know this must be it! There is a confusion in me at that time which one is authentic and which one is doing those stuff. But small head really rulz at that phase in life and I always hope that things will happen even in those authentic shop, whereby I initially wanted ONLY real massage or spa treatment. That's how our testosterone is fooling around with us at that young age.
Then advance to travel overseas for excitement- good old days in BKK, Cebu etc. Wanted to try my luck in Cambodia and Laos but too bad got another person traveling with me. haiz. Then almost at the same time, i also chance upon this forum and tried the ladies here.. Then I stopped Liao after having gf.
Did go a few times to massage palor after knowing gf, usually on impulse, but somehow it is no longer as satisfying as before..
To the younger bros here, I agree with the other bro that you need to keep check on how much you spend on these activities. Do enjoy while you are still young and with not much other commitment in life. But always remember to play safe and don't end up with regrets.

[VaeVictus]

Would say I spent a lot more on my ex-gf than cheonging.
Except I get a higher satisfactory rate from cheonging than with ex-gf.

Ex-gf would be a deadfish in bed and still require maintenance such as gifts, food, living, travels, etc. Rarely satisfied.

Whereas, cheong would be extremely sextisfying. Therefore, in my mind, it's worth the cost. Far outweights dating, courtship and presents!

[tttk3388]

My guess is, those regular chiongster for ktv, massage & FL can easily spend a 6 figure for the past 8 - 15 years.

[sadfa]

But from 18-23, I estimate I could have spent 4k on massage palor and freelance both local and overseas. Haha..


Well, bet you spent more than 4k on your gf and ROI may not be as good as spending money on FL. And even worse, if she breaks up wif you!

[sundial]

I know I spent a portion of my education fund on bonking. Fortunately, I now have a job.

I think it's 3k-4k++ already though it's been six months only since I started.

But I no longer care, cause well, need is need, so no choice. I just try not to go too often and cut down. Once you step in...

DIY will no longer satisfy!

HaHa yes what I spend on myself more sextisfyinv then on my wife which I now treat her as a friend

[kue19xx]

Thanks bros for your sharing.

Im going to hit 30K soon. I already cut down from once a week to twice a month. Now most of time only go to my regular MILF.

Next month will get bonus and hope the nurse uniform joint still around as I need them to take care of me. :D

Bro GQpopped, just continue to explore and share in SBF. There are still many sections in SBF that I myself had not ventured into.

Cheers! :D

[GQpopped]

Bro lechlee, I miss those days too when MP are all over the HDB shop houses. Walking up the staircase is such an excitement! During those time if you see the ads indicate enter from backdoor, u know something fishy going on liao. :D

[LPPlol]

This thread is helpful leh... should put in Sticky mode beside the 'Bad Bonks' thread.

OK, i started chionging since 2011 so it's like 3 years... so lemme count:

WLs: about $2.3K, estimated about 24 times. Some of them can even give you discount if second or 3rd visit... that time still fit and handsome ma... now where can get??

MPs: about $1.6k - It's wayy more expensive and limited than WLs, you cannot piak too loud, can only shoot in CD, blowjob not sloppy, but sometimes I get FJ at BJ rates, so still not bad

Others:
Paid a not bad looking m'sian cleaner to have a quickie at the stairwell... $80
Piaked my neighbour's maid twice: $100.
Piaked my friend then paid her to compensate for her guilt: $500 (jewellery + Hotel + Dinner), really kenna chopped... sigh... not chio somemore! :( Lucky do many times! It was more like she rape me than I do her... LOL

Total about: $4500 leh... that's actually an amount to think about leh... about the cost of a decent diamond ring wor....

[kue19xx]

Bro LPPlol, thanks for sharing.

It like an addiction, once started cant stop. Last year I spent total of $3.7K. This year $2.5K already. I already cut down a lot. But the excitement of popping GQ and those sexy photos of FL online are so irresistible. Total for all this years is aproxx $26K :eek: OMG..I cant belive it myself! This is crazy amount of money for my sexual needs!

Sometime you got a good service, sometime bad. Be good or bad we got our needs. Other thn watching porn and PPC, this is the next most sextifying hobby as long you play safe and do not bring disease home.

Cheers! :D

[clapton]

I did count this b4 and everytime, only 1 word to myself, shit...

I start from yr 2000, so ur guy can guess... ...

From 2000 ~ 2004, visit not very often and price cheap, I think total abt 1K
From 2004 ~ 2006, more focus on gf, but at the same time start visit CAT150.. visist not very often, but monthly spend 500 should be able to meet, I think total abt 12 K
From 2006 ~ 2008, I was assinged to DONGGUAN... .. The highest I can spend 2 K per week... average out... 1.5 k per mth, so.... 36 K
From 2008 ~ 2010, I was assigned to SHENZHEN and start spend more time in HK/Macau... average... 500 pre mth, so.... 12k
From 2010 till now... Married, and ... still.. on and off.... average.. 500.. so another 24K..

So total... 1+12+36+12+24.... DAMN ...

[Jeremy Chiang]

I have spent more than 6k over these past 4 months jio-ing & then bonking a girl from a HFJ so pls dun get me started... ...

[toyotarush]

Bro you are right! Jerking yourself and being jerks by someone else the sensation is really different!

:o

Fully agreed with that statement.

[long123]

I did count this b4 and everytime, only 1 word to myself, shit...

I start from yr 2000, so ur guy can guess... ...

From 2000 ~ 2004, visit not very often and price cheap, I think total abt 1K
From 2004 ~ 2006, more focus on gf, but at the same time start visit CAT150.. visist not very often, but monthly spend 500 should be able to meet, I think total abt 12 K
From 2006 ~ 2008, I was assinged to DONGGUAN... .. The highest I can spend 2 K per week... average out... 1.5 k per mth, so.... 36 K
From 2008 ~ 2010, I was assigned to SHENZHEN and start spend more time in HK/Macau... average... 500 pre mth, so.... 12k
From 2010 till now... Married, and ... still.. on and off.... average.. 500.. so another 24K..

So total... 1+12+36+12+24.... DAMN ...

10 years X Almost every week = I dare not count :p
And I spent almost the same amount on 4D & Toto.
Imagine if I had saved all these monies :eek:

[kue19xx]

Thanks bros for sharing. Bro clapton, wow yours is really a huge sum.

Everytime I see the total amount I ask should I stop? I ever tried if everytime I feel the urge, I will bank in the amount into another saving account and see if I could accumulate a savings but failed. Small head always wins!

Now I ventured into new grounds less. Will always go to my usual MILf who knows how to sextify me. But she 2 months back to homeland. :(

Now I keep my budgets to 80 to 100 each visits. Hope I wont breaks my last year records. :D

[singleman]

I start cheong since 20 plus, n now I 40 plus.. almost 20 yrs of cheonging. go GL, health centre, tuina, social escort, etc.. think shld hv fuck at least more than 100 gals liao.. think shld have spent at least over 50k bah.. now less liao.. sian liao.... no money liao.. :D

[kue19xx]

Long time din update this thread.

Just calculated. Hitting 30K soon. Spending for this year 3K+ already.

Trying to cut down save money. But see so many lobang in SBF really muz try else regrets. :D

[kue19xx]

Jan 2016 - $200
Feb 2016 - $340
Mar 2016 - $470
Apr 2016 - $470 so far.

Year 2015 - $4.2K
Year 2014 - $3.5K
Year 2013 - $3.7K
Year 2012 - $4.9K
Year 2011 - $2.6K
Year 2010 - $3.9K
Year 2009 - $4.6K
Year 2008 - $3.9K
Year 2006 and 2007 lost count.

Over $30K already. Once start cannot stop. Most probably will still continue as long as my little bro can go...

[Franchisors]

Over $30K already.

So much :eek:

[Littlefeet]

Over $30K already. Once start cannot stop. Most probably will still continue as long as my little bro can go...

Imagine what you can do with $30000.00 .

[ggdotcom]

take it as smoking loh

1 day 1 packet = 30 day 30 packet = $300

1 year $3600

If you smoke and visit FL den...:o:o

[hakone]

I did count this b4 and everytime, only 1 word to myself, shit...

I start from yr 2000, so ur guy can guess... ...

From 2000 ~ 2004, visit not very often and price cheap, I think total abt 1K
From 2004 ~ 2006, more focus on gf, but at the same time start visit CAT150.. visist not very often, but monthly spend 500 should be able to meet, I think total abt 12 K
From 2006 ~ 2008, I was assinged to DONGGUAN... .. The highest I can spend 2 K per week... average out... 1.5 k per mth, so.... 36 K
From 2008 ~ 2010, I was assigned to SHENZHEN and start spend more time in HK/Macau... average... 500 pre mth, so.... 12k
From 2010 till now... Married, and ... still.. on and off.... average.. 500.. so another 24K..

So total... 1+12+36+12+24.... DAMN ...
Salute you bro :D

[kue19xx]

So far I hit 37K. This year I think I had over spent compare to previous years, total 5K+ this year already.

For 10 over years, going to Geylang for a bonk has never crossed my mind. My mindset for this place are low class prostitutes.

My 1st adventure to Geylang recently had totally Chnge my perception.

Will venture more in Geylang for this moment. There are lots of area to be explored. In the end, no matter you go HC for hanky panky or Geylang, what we want is left the place sextisfied! :D

[fire2014]

I also don't dare to think. last time peak period think at least 2 twice a week. each time at least 100. 53×2×100= around 10000

like that 10k. 5 years would have been 50k. but I heard of bros spending 3k a mth. 3x12x10= 360k. really can buy hdb.


really cutting down but at times still need a release. now going to "free" release place (just pay for the massage) for cheap thrill :p

[wishlow123]

Started going regularly on 9th june 2023.

Spent about $2k sgd liao including the past weekend bonking in JB with FLs.

Abit shiong la but worth it.