Sexless single life [Archive] - The Asian Commercial Sex Scene

lilian85

30-12-2012, 02:06 AM

Max77

30-12-2012, 05:11 AM

U need to pick urself up lor...its hard to break away from a die hard routine.

Girl this type of thing very funny one, u try very hard to find cannot find but when u concentrate on other things they would find u attractive

ben78

30-12-2012, 06:32 AM

sgjoey

30-12-2012, 07:51 AM

Having sex with another is not immoral if neither party is a child and there is mutual consent.

Different people will behave differently in matters related to sex. Some can cope with sexless lives for years. For others, sex is as necessary as eating and drinking.

If you are feeling the urge to have sex again, you need not feel guilty about it, especially when you are already separated from your significant other.

And of cos, there are plenty of sex-starved males here -- you just need to choose carefully.

Max77

30-12-2012, 08:32 AM

is it just me or ...

TS is a girl for sure?....duhz

onlyhuman

30-12-2012, 02:03 PM

hi, sis i tink ur mail b full soon:D

Sorry, why is ur nick in green one har?

Mountain

30-12-2012, 02:12 PM

Some people tend to get low sex drive because they are depressed over certain things.

Meow^^

30-12-2012, 02:16 PM

But some people just can't that feeling back..sex without feeling really not the same. :(

TehGaDai

30-12-2012, 04:20 PM

I need Some Spicy Sex too... sigh! That's Why Some ppl said, Fuck a prostitute but...
MAKE LOVE to girlfriend. The Feeling is So Damn different!

Meow^^

30-12-2012, 04:38 PM

I need Some Spicy Sex too... sigh! That's Why Some ppl said, Fuck a prostitute but...
MAKE LOVE to girlfriend. The Feeling is So Damn different!

Hahaha i do agree that feeling is so dam different. You won't find it in a WL.

TehGaDai

30-12-2012, 04:42 PM

Hahaha i do agree that feeling is so dam different. You won't find it in a WL.

So How's your sexlife? :D

alphonsus

30-12-2012, 05:49 PM

TS, what exactly do you want to do now?

liang333

30-12-2012, 06:00 PM

:Dhope u'll find someone soon and bang till he bleed

Meow^^

30-12-2012, 06:30 PM

So How's your sexlife? :D
nothing fantastic since I am more kinda feeling people.

lilian85

31-12-2012, 01:22 AM

My mail aint full but thnx to those who messages mi for encouragement.

I miss sex and i jz understand what is a TS (thread starter)

it let me ponder for a while what is it.

:)

Im a lady well let me do some posting of myself to show u that in time.

So dont doubt me yet

BoinKING

31-12-2012, 01:58 AM

I think you're mentally recovering from the relationship - stress/frustration etc will snowball quite fast and there are more things to solve than having sex.

I believe it'll come back in time (sex drive), once you've recovered from your emotional one.
Takes time i guess, but ultimately the healing process have to start with your own drive..

Rekindling the kinkiness, for a lady you won't have shortage of guys who will be open to the idea.
But play safe, and have a good judge of character.. last thing you want is some stranger calling you.. while your number gets passed around frm previous hook ups.

bfreemen

31-12-2012, 02:08 AM

BMW69

31-12-2012, 02:15 AM

Sorry, why is ur nick in green one har?

Premium member mah :)

pakalolo

31-12-2012, 02:22 AM

just pick one for the bro here . take your time to choose

I don't mind being the chosen one:D

rasknight

31-12-2012, 09:32 AM

Cheer up TS, i too was sexless for afew months ever since i broke up with my ex. You are not alone here :)

fairman

31-12-2012, 09:36 AM

I almost 1 yr wirhout sex too:(. My wife keep reject me. Sign..

BiggiB

31-12-2012, 10:41 AM

I almost 1 yr wirhout sex too:(. My wife keep reject me. Sign..

Bro fairman! I feel for you! My wife rejects me quite often also, but not until 1 year...

Lilian85,

Well... at least you miss sex and not object to it! Anyway, cheer up and don't think so much. Go out with friends and take your time to get into another relationship!

This makes me wonder... will ladies watch porn and masturbate to fulfill their urge to have sex?

TehGaDai

31-12-2012, 11:26 AM

nothing fantastic since I am more kinda feeling people.

Ohh... single for quite awhile? :(

Meow^^

31-12-2012, 02:12 PM

Ohh... single for quite awhile? :(

Yeah, like a few years and had been making myself busy through work...:D

notti4u

31-12-2012, 02:21 PM

I think some of the guys here are married but without a sex life with their wife too..... :mad:

TehGaDai

31-12-2012, 03:48 PM

Yeah, like a few years and had been making myself busy through work...:D

You will meet your gf / bf one day.
During your work.didn't meet opposite gender ah?

Meow^^

31-12-2012, 03:58 PM

You will meet your gf / bf one day.
During your work.didn't meet opposite gender ah?

have but all hi bye friends...well kinda feel that my love life got stuck in a deep valley lol:(

BMW69

31-12-2012, 07:58 PM

It's ok la. many good guys here :) good luck!

peanut123

01-01-2013, 01:01 AM

I am sure here isnt any agony page but discussing sexual issues wise maybe.

Anyone here does undergo experiences of a sexless single life after being seperated for almost 6 months?

Is it the urge in us died down or is it because we cant let go.

To start a sexual open life again, how moral is it anyway.

If morality were an issue, this forum would be dead.

Please, it's willing buyer willing seller. Sex is just a human need, like food, water, air, pooping. No one ever condemns you for eating outside, drinking outside, breathing outside, or shitting outside. Sex is similar, except that it is subject to the whims of society.

As long as you harm no one ( hence, it's important that both parties are willing), and no one catches you (to avoid the scorn of society), it doesn't matter.

PS : this doesn't apply if you are attached, because it would harm/upset/devastate your partner.

Spermyking

01-01-2013, 03:37 AM

I almost 1 yr wirhout sex too:(. My wife keep reject me. Sign..

just try to do something to spice up the enjoyment

infinitus

01-01-2013, 11:01 AM

I don't mind being the chosen one:D

Don't worry lah... she won't choose you for sure... hahahaha

Kakilang88

01-01-2013, 12:29 PM

Blue_gal

01-01-2013, 12:41 PM

6 months only..I was SEXLESS for 7 yrss.. hahaha...since the day I left Blue Uncle....while concentrate on works...family a lot..need to move on....

But once you re READY to meet guys again..dun worry ..SEX will pick up for SURE...

SEX is like DRUG.. once u cold turkey IT ...u will not touch IT for a while.. but once U GO BACK to it... u will ask for MORE...be selective...

Have lots of FUN while u are YOUNG!! be SAFE!

Cheer!

I am sure here isnt any agony page but discussing sexual issues wise maybe.

Anyone here does undergo experiences of a sexless single life after being seperated for almost 6 months?

Is it the urge in us died down or is it because we cant let go.

To start a sexual open life again, how moral is it anyway.

peanut123

01-01-2013, 09:47 PM

I almost 1 yr wirhout sex too:(. My wife keep reject me. Sign..

Then your wife is not being fair to you. When she took the marriage vows, surely she knew that keeping your gun unloaded is part of her wifely duties, just like it's yours to keep her fed and satisfied.

If she dun cook, she cannot blame you for eating outside. If she dun fuck, she also cannot blame you for seeking satisfaction elsewhere.

Rickey

01-01-2013, 10:34 PM

Then your wife is not being fair to you. When she took the marriage vows, surely she knew that keeping your gun unloaded is part of her wifely duties, just like it's yours to keep her fed and satisfied.

If she dun cook, she cannot blame you for eating outside. If she dun fuck, she also cannot blame you for seeking satisfaction elsewhere.

Yup, you're rite, bro peanut...But its sad tat quite a no of wifeys like tis dun tink the way u n most others do...abt being fair i.e...they wanna hv the whole cake by themselves...they wanna take but not giv back in return...dun wanna giv n yet expect u to be happy n live wif it...yes, tats selfish n inconsiderate, but there's little HBs like bro fairman can do abt tis...tats why there's so many bros everywhere having unhappy marriages..sigh...if only they 'know' TATS their wifely duty

Meow^^

01-01-2013, 11:11 PM

Yup, you're rite, bro peanut...But its sad tat quite a no of wifeys like tis dun tink the way u n most others do...abt being fair i.e...they wanna hv the whole cake by themselves...they wanna take but not giv back in return...dun wanna giv n yet expect u to be happy n live wif it...yes, tats selfish n inconsiderate, but there's little HBs like bro fairman can do abt tis...tats why there's so many bros everywhere having unhappy marriages..sigh...if only they 'know' TATS their wifely duty

Fulfilling the 'duty' as a wife/husband is something that is not written when couple get married as 'both' of them knew it in the back of their mind. But when the love life turned out to be just another 'normal' and not so 'exciting' journey i guess it will lead to this conclusion.

In every relationship new sparks are needed so the journey will be more exciting and adventurous. Who don't want to live happily ever after? or still holding hands strolling the streets with your love one when both are like in their golden years? There must be some miscommunication or barrel to the address problem and is the duty of both of them to sort it out. :D

In the end of the day, we all need someone who love us and we love and we live happily :)

singlicious

02-01-2013, 12:20 AM

haha I've been single for 5 years alr. sexless life since then.

Rickey

02-01-2013, 10:22 PM

Fulfilling the 'duty' as a wife/husband is something that is not written when couple get married as 'both' of them knew it in the back of their mind. But when the love life turned out to be just another 'normal' and not so 'exciting' journey i guess it will lead to this conclusion.

In every relationship new sparks are needed so the journey will be more exciting and adventurous. Who don't want to live happily ever after? or still holding hands strolling the streets with your love one when both are like in their golden years? There must be some miscommunication or barrel to the address problem and is the duty of both of them to sort it out.

In the end of the day, we all need someone who love us and we love and we live happily :)
Yes, totally agree wif sis Meow too ! :)...when we marry, we r jus merely signing on the Marriage Certificate which is but only a small n simply designed document the state uses to legalize n make all marriages official as proof the couple are 2 but in 1...n yes, i believe we all know at the same time, there is tis unspoken or unwritten understanding tat after the wedding, the couple shd engage n continue to engage in sex as often as possible not only for their own enjoyment but maybe oso wif the hope of producing a child for themselves in a legal environment.

We hv often heard tat "new broom sweeps clean"...after the initial euphoria n happiness of the wedding, it is normal tat problems begin to set in for the couple, as they begin to deal wif real life situations tgt... tis is when another familiar phrase takes over which is "familiarity breeds contempt"...so sis meow is oso rite to say tat "new sparks" r needed to revive marriages as "wear n tear" takes its toll in the r/s wif the passing of time...n yes, she is right too tat tis is often cos of some communication breakdown between the couple.. the problem in tis case being bro fairman's wife denying him his conjugal rights by refusing him sex...thus his is a sexless marriage n we all know he is not the only 1 affected by tis problem, after reading the sharing n testimonies of so many other bros in tis forum...

yes, ideally in all comm problems, both parties must co-operate n sort the problems out between themselves...but sigh in the case of sex in marriage, quite a no of wifeys are not co-operating n are very adamant against having to continue to hv sex wif their husbands as the yrs go by as shared by so many bros in a few other threads here e.g "Wife don't like sex" n "Wife & Sex - Going th'ru the motions only" n display a "couldn't care less" attitude to their husbands esp after the arrival of the kids n towards menopause which they do not seem to realise will drive their Hbs into the arms of other women, a phenomenon which is currently staring them in their faces as well as ours...they jus simply dun see the need nor hv the urge to do so...but its still a problem tat no1 can find a solution up to now, cos its not a easy problem to solve...if only one can find a solution which finds the HBs never needing to stray frm their wives for any reason, there would be joy for all married men n women...if tat day ever comes, the world's oldest profession will oso see its demise once n for all..

Yes, sis, its human nature for us all, to want to love n be loved n live our lives happily ever after :)...tats why many HBs still cannot comprehend the reasons (other than good ones like not feeling well at tat time, etc) why their wives are not willing to giv them the sex they r asking for, some even after begging for it...sigh :(

6 months only..I was SEXLESS for 7 yrss.. hahaha...since the day I left Blue Uncle....while concentrate on works...family a lot..need to move on....

But once you re READY to meet guys again..dun worry ..SEX will pick up for SURE...

SEX is like DRUG.. once u cold turkey IT ...u will not touch IT for a while.. but once U GO BACK to it... u will ask for MORE...be selective...

Have lots of FUN while u are YOUNG!! be SAFE!

Cheer!

Very true, wat the sis said ...Good advice frm sis Blue_gal !!...TQ

LovePotion

02-01-2013, 10:29 PM

yup have fun no need worry when u r still young... but nevertheless be safe and u wont regret later

pakalolo

03-01-2013, 12:03 AM

Don't worry lah... she won't choose you for sure... hahahaha

How you know?she's your mum? On 2nd thought I don't think so, as very unlikely she will have a pea brain brat like you as son or kateoy.However if for some unlucky reason that she is really your mum then I won't mind she is not choosing me as i don't want a pea brain brat as a step son or step kateoy!!:D

infinitus

03-01-2013, 11:20 AM

How you know?she's your mum? On 2nd thought I don't think so, as very unlikely she will have a pea brain brat like you as son or kateoy.However if for some unlucky reason that she is really your mum then I won't mind she is not choosing me as i don't want a pea brain brat as a step son or step kateoy!!:D

How you know?she's your mum? On 2nd thought I don't think so, as very unlikely she will have a pea brain brat like you as son or kateoy.However if for some unlucky reason that she is really your mum then I won't mind she is not choosing me as i don't want a pea brain brat as a step son or step kateoy!!:D