Sex-free for 4 years

[alwayshornee]

Hi, am new here.....
Going thru separation n under medication for depression.
Decided to move on hence, join sbf.

Not into paid sex n relationships. Just looking for friends to socialise and if women, will see if there's chemistry before going to next level.

Honestly, I do not know what I want as I only decided to come out of my shell....anyway, I m rusty n need some guidance to mix around.

PM me if u hv suggestions....gals n guys

Yes, I hv not been having sex for almost 4 yrs n DIY is once every 2 or 3 months. Used to DIY every week though

[bloggert]

You should know that many anti-depressants are detrimental to your sex-drive. Google this and see if you should try getting off the medication if you no longer need it.

[alwayshornee]

Yes aim aware but no choice. My shrink will reduce n we a off the medication by mid 2013

[laksa328]

wow....i actually been through what your suffering now....but i stop medication almost 6months already.....hmmm...been for almost 8yrs since i last have sex until recently 3 months ago lol....but DIY once in awhile...

[Hondafreak99]

You should know that many anti-depressants are detrimental to your sex-drive. Google this and see if you should try getting off the medication if you no longer need it.

Totally agree with you, bro. Dun be too reliant on anti-depressants cos they ruin ur hormones and emotions when you are eventually off it. My cousin is suffering the consequences of it now...

[alwayshornee]

No choice. I was having insomnia n could go without sleep for days without feeling g sleepy or tired. I was also starting to have suicidal tendencies hence the anti depressants.

I am feeling much better after a year of intense treatment and most importantly I have accepted the situation n stopped blaming myself.
I am moving on and decided to look after my health. My wife n I are now like friends n there is no tension between us. We lived separate lives for the past 3.5 yrs and early this year we agreed to the divorce.

Anyway, I am very tempted to go for commercial sex but the thought of STD scares me.

[mclovin_boy]

Hi, am new here.....
Going thru separation n under medication for depression.
Decided to move on hence, join sbf.

Not into paid sex n relationships. Just looking for friends to socialise and if women, will see if there's chemistry before going to next level.

Honestly, I do not know what I want as I only decided to come out of my shell....anyway, I m rusty n need some guidance to mix around.

PM me if u hv suggestions....gals n guys

Yes, I hv not been having sex for almost 4 yrs n DIY is once every 2 or 3 months. Used to DIY every week though

Hope u get well soon! :)

[brobert64]

yes TS bro take care and wish u speedy recovery!

[nfiaker]

I wish you a speedy recovery, bro Alwayshornee. May you also have a Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year.

[kgbkgb]

No choice. I was having insomnia n could go without sleep for days without feeling g sleepy or tired. I was also starting to have suicidal tendencies hence the anti depressants.

I am feeling much better after a year of intense treatment and most importantly I have accepted the situation n stopped blaming myself.
I am moving on and decided to look after my health..

Good to know you have decided to help yourself. It can only get better from now on. Dont despair.

[credible]

Pity you. You must not starve yourself. It is a sin to deprive your body of its natural needs.

[wolflust]

Well, hope you recover from depression soon, I went sexless for 1/2 year plus though I still DIY and really something seems to be missing.

Went for some commercial fun recently and yes it did felt great. There are those who say you can replace sexual joy with other stuff but I guess it depends on the person.

Have fun once you recovered and play safe.

[Bigthorn]

Sorry to hear about your divorce, TS. A new year is starting soon, hope you will be able to start a new life soon, too.

Life is too precious to consider suicide. Live well and enjoy your new freedom ;)

[crotch]

Long time never use can become spoilt.

[Shadow_warrior]

take care bro, had depression before, when my gf cheated on me

I burnt myself on the hand with cig, one huge hole to remember the pain

sat in one spot and didnt move for 3 weeks, smoke and drink beer only

felt like shit, when I got up, I said, life will change and I went out and

become a big player

Now I married, but I still remember the hurt.

[Hondafreak99]

take care bro, had depression before, when my gf cheated on me

I burnt myself on the hand with cig, one huge hole to remember the pain

sat in one spot and didnt move for 3 weeks, smoke and drink beer only

felt like shit, when I got up, I said, life will change and I went out and

become a big player

Now I married, but I still remember the hurt.

So sorry to hear abt ur past. Now u noe, that one tree in the forest isn't everything... :p

[alwayshornee]

Thanks everyone for the well wishes.
Yes...its really time to move on. Gosh, I am rusty as hell.
Anyway, i have decided to stay away from any relationships.

Just find someone nice for company and that's it. Sex is optional. :D

[amuletcollector]

You can go to spa to cheong once awhile to see if can cum or not. I used to do without sex for 5yrs too.

[DTCEPL]

Thanks everyone for the well wishes.
Yes...its really time to move on. Gosh, I am rusty as hell.
Anyway, i have decided to stay away from any relationships.

Just find someone nice for company and that's it. Sex is optional. :D

I can understand your problems completely 100%, my sincere advice to you is stay away from Anti-Depressants!

PM me if you wished to discuss it privately, if not, hope all goes well for u and wished u a healthy road of recovery!

[looney83]

Hi TS,

You can participate in charity events, do more community work to get to more people there. You will actually think that there are some people that are worse than you.

That should change your thinking and character since then.

forget about finding a pussy in SBF as its like finding needle in a haystack.

Good luck

[block11]

a quote comes to mind.... All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on - Havelock Ellis ;)

[Shadow_warrior]

Thanks everyone for the well wishes.
Yes...its really time to move on. Gosh, I am rusty as hell.
Anyway, i have decided to stay away from any relationships.

Just find someone nice for company and that's it. Sex is optional. :D

Set up a club for company, like a hang out club, sex and relationship BS

optional.

I am in....