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greeny
14-12-2012, 07:43 AM
Hi guys... I'm not sure if anyone of you facing this problem....
I have no others to turn to or talk to....

I think Sammyboy bro here might be the last resource i have...

Me and my newly married wife together for 8 years, jsut married few month back... but i feel i lose sex desire toward her...

she is a small boob lady... I admit like big boob.. or rather decent size.. (she is A)

I'm very keen on overcome this problem...
any brother/sister here can give me some advise please?

taureanwoman08
14-12-2012, 07:52 AM
What skills does your wife have? Perhaps she is good at oral sex? Buy her sexy lingerie and stiletto high heels. When I dress up like that, it never fails to get my man more excited.

taureanwoman08
14-12-2012, 07:54 AM
Buy her sexy lingerie and stiletto high heels. When I dress up like that, it never fails to get my man more excited.

yangguo
14-12-2012, 08:31 AM
she is a small boob lady... I admit like big boob.. or rather decent size.. (she is A)

I'm very keen on overcome this problem...
any brother/sister here can give me some advise please?

Hmm.. how about asking her to go for breast implant to boost her cup size?

soothHerOnlyIf
14-12-2012, 08:42 AM
small boobs...mean she's slim? slim is good for you bro! :D i will prefer slim to big boobs cos big boobs will most often mean the girl is likely to carry more fats in other parts of her body too. though the best of both worlds will be great but who can really get that?

don't compromise..just accept her body! think about it..at least she's slim :o . do something about it. play with some toys (vibrator, cosplay, lubricant etc). a wife is forever.

littlepok
14-12-2012, 09:22 AM
do more doggie style while dreaming of big boobies or watch porn while sex (if she dont mind).

to be frank, she did not turn A overnight leh. unless u tell me she is D cup but let u suck 8 yrs till A then i nothing to say. u did not find out she is A now, why suddenly no interest? last time no sex?

tttk3388
14-12-2012, 09:26 AM
TS, you only excited in big boobs? If thats not the only reason for your sex desire, perhaps you should try talking to your wife (if you can't then nobody here can help you too). Communication is important, maybe both of you should try something different or be more adventurous when it comes to make love. Dont stick to the routine or have sex for the seek of making love.

My 2cents worth.

sean69
14-12-2012, 09:32 AM
Me and my newly married wife together for 8 years, jsut married few month back... but i feel i lose sex desire toward her...

she is a small boob lady... I admit like big boob.. or rather decent size.. (she is A)

I'm very keen on overcome this problem...
any brother/sister here can give me some advise please?

erm.. could you share your age with us? sometimes as we get older, our libido level drops..

also, do you still have sexual desires towards other flat chest women? If yes, then the problem is more serious...

Hanoimaw
14-12-2012, 12:54 PM
Hi guys... I'm not sure if anyone of you facing this problem....
I have no others to turn to or talk to....

I think Sammyboy bro here might be the last resource i have...

Me and my newly married wife together for 8 years, jsut married few month back... but i feel i lose sex desire toward her...

she is a small boob lady... I admit like big boob.. or rather decent size.. (she is A)

I'm very keen on overcome this problem...
any brother/sister here can give me some advise please?

Get her pregnant. Once women have kids, they will not bother you for sex anymore (till they want the next kid).

But seriously loh, why you get married in the first place if you like big boobs and she small boobs? This obviously is an issue to you.

Personally I think boobs are overrated.

startthread
15-12-2012, 07:56 PM
Don't look at the boob, just close your eyes and french kiss her.
Thanks

wally888
15-12-2012, 09:10 PM
Too much sex prior to marriage? Or u eat outside too much, too much good stuff oso not good for u....may b u need to cut down on outside food? :D

Trevayne
16-12-2012, 01:27 AM
Dirty talk ? A lot of talk on doing what and what, and some touch touch lick kiss.
That helps me :D

rat967
16-12-2012, 03:10 AM
Hi bro! Don't care big or small boobies juz enjoy Fucking..small boobies can be fun :) small boobies can be very sexy too.....

titan
16-12-2012, 09:01 AM
try to re cap what make u so attracted to her in the first encounter?

UncleKunThai
16-12-2012, 10:16 AM
Tango or Skype might help if you know what I mean!!!

swiftforce
16-12-2012, 10:22 AM
Losing interest in sex with wife happens to every married man.

It's normal! Else why do you think this forum exist!

Go for a trip, spend some time with wife. It's our duty :p

lickNpoke
16-12-2012, 10:48 AM
TS, why did you married her? Why? Ask yourself.

The reasons you two commit has much more great substances than just your lamenting of her boob size.

After such a long time then the knot is tied is a good indicator of the compatibility you have with her!

Please cherish and love her for the way she is before your behavior to her boob size makes her loss her self confidence and lead her to let other men cherish and love her in time to come if you carry on with this childish & senseless nitpicking!

Then you will have another set of problems to deal with!

hotrod10
16-12-2012, 02:17 PM
TS, you have been together for 8 years before getting married.

Ask yourself how the relationship last that 8 long years ?
I am sure you will find that for a relationship to go on for so long,
it's definitely not based on boob size or body shape alone.
Once you've got that figured, maybe the boob size will not bother you
that much.

Don't forget, she will one day be the mother of your children.

Now that you have made her your wife, love and cherish her.

Ever heard of the saying :

" A face only the parents can love " ?

Sirrus
16-12-2012, 04:44 PM
Hi guys... I'm not sure if anyone of you facing this problem....
I have no others to turn to or talk to....

I think Sammyboy bro here might be the last resource i have...

Me and my newly married wife together for 8 years, jsut married few month back... but i feel i lose sex desire toward her...

she is a small boob lady... I admit like big boob.. or rather decent size.. (she is A)

I'm very keen on overcome this problem...
any brother/sister here can give me some advise please?

try something new? maybe do it in public places will make it work for you. or do morning just wake up fuck. thats the peak of ur horniness is when u just woke up with a hardcock.

greeny
17-12-2012, 08:08 AM
Losing interest in sex with wife happens to every married man.

It's normal! Else why do you think this forum exist!

Go for a trip, spend some time with wife. It's our duty :p

:) thank you so much :)

greeny
17-12-2012, 08:09 AM
TS, you have been together for 8 years before getting married.

Ask yourself how the relationship last that 8 long years ?
I am sure you will find that for a relationship to go on for so long,
it's definitely not based on boob size or body shape alone.
Once you've got that figured, maybe the boob size will not bother you
that much.

Don't forget, she will one day be the mother of your children.

Now that you have made her your wife, love and cherish her.

Ever heard of the saying :

" A face only the parents can love " ?

Thanks buddy...... yeah... you are right..

Alf1977
26-12-2012, 10:33 AM
Make her pregnant, coz her breasts will increase in size during pregnancy n thereafter.. I know you marry your wide because if commitment rather than love .. Just live with it it can hint her for breast implant/ fillers.

extinct
26-12-2012, 03:45 PM
It is normal. But you can condition your mind to desire her again.