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Forver
03-12-2012, 06:11 PM
What happened to me? I am getting tired of paid sex.

I feel empty after their services and felt no connection to them.

Is there one i still can call up to go for a simple drink, to chat be naughty?
A someone that i can care for

Maybe they call this girlfriend feel. but then the feel only lasted for as long as your session last.

I do feel horny and high when I first step into the room. but leave being lonely and empty inside.

Do you guys experience this way???

Brainstorm
03-12-2012, 06:25 PM
Do you guys experience this way???

Time to settle down, find a nice girl and marry. Have meaningful sex.

Forver
03-12-2012, 07:12 PM
whats so great about settling down, eventually u will grow sick of her also
before marriage and after marriage is a totally different scenario
lolxxx......

nfiaker
03-12-2012, 09:41 PM
Yea, I get those episodes like the TS mentioned sometimes.

But after getting to know some real life women, somehow, I just end up going back to FLs lol

callmebad
03-12-2012, 09:44 PM
yes, feel the same way
that's why nowadays never go to Geylang
practically no sex life, except DIY:o

dcyrusb
03-12-2012, 11:08 PM
After my 1st visit to GL 10+ years ago, know that I can't cum with short time. Too rush to build up the feel. Even after 'starving' myself for a whole week, same thing. No matter how good their service are. Basically just visit there with kakis nowadays.

Forver
03-12-2012, 11:41 PM
its like going there paying them and not really enjoy.
Sometimes, i just feel paying them to talk to me instead of sex.
but in the end, i know its $$$ they are after, when the time is up, i dun think they even remember who you are the moment you left the room

jptt
03-12-2012, 11:43 PM
What happened to me? I am getting tired of paid sex.

I feel empty after their services and felt no connection to them.

Is there one i still can call up to go for a simple drink, to chat be naughty?
A someone that i can care for

Maybe they call this girlfriend feel. but then the feel only lasted for as long as your session last.

I do feel horny and high when I first step into the room. but leave being lonely and empty inside.

Do you guys experience this way???

Try some variety e.g. Health Centre/Spa, Online FLs, Street Walkers, PUBs, KTVs.
The different modes of chionging does help to add some spice back to ur regular routine :)

Forver
04-12-2012, 12:00 AM
been there done that ......
at the end of the day, the feeling of bored and emptiness stills there.
gotten some numbers and tried to start a SMS chat with them.
but non worked out, after a few lines, the conversation cannot continue anymore.

limking
04-12-2012, 12:04 AM
What happened to me? I am getting tired of paid sex.

I feel empty after their services and felt no connection to them.

Is there one i still can call up to go for a simple drink, to chat be naughty?
A someone that i can care for

Maybe they call this girlfriend feel. but then the feel only lasted for as long as your session last.

I do feel horny and high when I first step into the room. but leave being lonely and empty inside.

Do you guys experience this way???

Could be that you're missing the girlfriend feeling / lonesome feeling . Try going to Thailand / Indonesia / Philippine for a 3 day 2 nite trip & book the girl LT / over nite . Very important is to book the gal that you can communiacate with . Maybe this could help for the time being . Am sure you can find some of our SBF brudders organizing trips to various destinations & guess they would not mind you tag along . Drop them a pm . My 2 rupiah / bath / peso worth .

Forver
04-12-2012, 12:14 AM
Could be that you're missing the girlfriend feeling / lonesome feeling . Try going to Thailand / Indonesia / Philippine for a 3 day 2 nite trip & book the girl LT / over nite . Very important is to book the gal that you can communiacate with . Maybe this could help for the time being . Am sure you can find some of our SBF brudders organizing trips to various destinations & guess they would not mind you tag along . Drop them a pm . My 2 rupiah / bath / peso worth .

Yes !!! i think i am missing the girlfriend feel.
but to book them, in the end when come back singapore, isn't it going to be worse? leaving behind the happy moments of 3 days

Summerhillt
04-12-2012, 12:30 AM
I think it's time to go fl dome and Bao yang a local Sg syt. Sure got feel de

natsuki
04-12-2012, 12:39 AM
Ure plain lonely...

Go sign up for courses, doing volunteering work... Maybe u will get happier...

513513
04-12-2012, 12:43 AM
Yes !!! i think i am missing the girlfriend feel.
but to book them, in the end when come back singapore, isn't it going to be worse? leaving behind the happy moments of 3 days

don't worry, just do it and try.
I tried, come back sing, do miss that GFE:cool:, that's y plan more trip go c c her lo:p... life live with no regret... LOL :D

ErosBoss
04-12-2012, 12:44 AM
Not surprising, paying for sex just gets dull and you soon regret it when you realize you could be spending all that money on something more meaningful like a nice dinner or present for a gf. May sound harsh and all but thats just my opinion

Forver
04-12-2012, 12:57 AM
don't worry, just do it and try.
I tried, come back sing, do miss that GFE:cool:, that's y plan more trip go c c her lo:p... life live with no regret... LOL :D

later kana pok by boss
lolxxxxxx

owl888
04-12-2012, 12:59 AM
Ure plain lonely...

Go sign up for courses, doing volunteering work... Maybe u will get happier...

Yeah, u shd channel your energy to somewhere else. Maybe u can find your sweetheart there. Good luck! :D

Forver
04-12-2012, 01:06 AM
or maybe i should get myself involve with a FB....

carlsss
04-12-2012, 05:49 AM
Bro, you are not alone. Used to chiong geylang like crazy, now also sian already, its like you are feeling physically fulfilled but emotionally. nowadays unless i really got need then i go malaysia spa to relax and maybe have a good bonk, if not, your right hand is your best friend.

naturegreen
04-12-2012, 08:22 AM
It's a cycle. When you get married already, you get sick of fucking the same woman and you go out to pay for sex. Now you get sick of paid sex, you want some emotional and mental commitment. Then it goes in circle again.

Forver
04-12-2012, 09:00 AM
It's a cycle. When you get married already, you get sick of fucking the same woman and you go out to pay for sex. Now you get sick of paid sex, you want some emotional and mental commitment. Then it goes in circle again.

been trying the Wechat thingy that you had recommended .....
not bad not bad. but then, seems like its flooded with PRC and sex for money ladies..... this world is going mad

onlyhuman
04-12-2012, 09:12 AM
been trying the Wechat thingy that you had recommended .....
not bad not bad. but then, seems like its flooded with PRC and sex for money ladies..... this world is going mad

U know what u want in the first place or not?
If u want just sex only then go geylang or fl...
If u want a date or someone to talk to..get urself a date la
If u want a date and a free fuck...find a lady that is comfortable to provide u that..

Nb...there is nothing in this world that comes free...you want something put in the effort to get it instead of fucking complaining here..
Seems to me u are looking for a fb...if u r looking for one pls post it in the what orgies forum lor.

This is not aunt agony forum.

heroic
04-12-2012, 09:59 AM
or maybe i should get myself involve with a FB....

Maybe a good idea.

pfingo
04-12-2012, 10:08 AM
You think too much. It's just sex. If you can afford not to go, don't then - so you won't feel that empty. Just my two cents :)

soothHerOnlyIf
04-12-2012, 10:20 AM
I suggest TS to do a calculation..measure your need for sex and/or emotional comfort in terms of money needed. with the so-called equal rights this world is run by money measuring by money is the to-date most accurate measuring tool.

if its jus sex, go for paid sex becos you wouldn't want unnecessary trouble which may tag along with FB/married women etc. not worth it for jus sex. then you calculate how many times you need and what paid sex quality you are willing to settle for. eg. once a month $300 including hotel and cap. then you get an annual fee of $3600 for once a month desired quality sex.

soothHerOnlyIf
04-12-2012, 10:21 AM
then you can compare the above with having a wife/gf. if you have a wife/gf, sex is NOT guaranteed and along with sex comes emotional concerns and monetary concerns. hdb and allowance are just two of them. if divorce, lagi worse cos you may be paying monthly fee with no sex AT ALL. if wife begin to starve you after first few months/years of great sex, you may get worse than once a month like the above. last but not least, the thing about having a wife/gf is...the price is ????. aka you don't know how much you need to pay until the day your wife leaves you.

soothHerOnlyIf
04-12-2012, 10:21 AM
if you are bored of paid sex, think of something fresh to spice things up. for me, I will pay for someone whom I may never have the chance at under normal circumstances. eg. girl taller than me or girl much younger than me or older than me. many more examples. with paid sex, you can also ask for acts girls under non-paid circumstances will never allow you. it can be as simple as bbbj cos some girls considered it dirty no matter how many times we scrub. paid sex has no emotional baggage. it's only differentiated by service quality and how the girl looks.

if you want girls to offer emotional comfort, you must be prepared to offer the same. paid sex is emotionless for the worse. we're here for the service and they are here for the money. it's pure transaction.

in summary, paid is more calculated than wife/gf.

sean69
04-12-2012, 02:23 PM
What happened to me? I am getting tired of paid sex.

I feel empty after their services and felt no connection to them.

I do feel horny and high when I first step into the room. but leave being lonely and empty inside.

Do you guys experience this way???

I also feel empty after leaving.. especially my wallet.. :p

galore
04-12-2012, 03:05 PM
You can also get tired of having an FB.

spidey7
04-12-2012, 03:11 PM
do u tink after marriage will get mesningful sex? i doubt so. Dere is oso no free lunch in dis world. Everythg comes w a price.

maxman
04-12-2012, 04:05 PM
What happened to me? I am getting tired of paid sex.

I feel empty after their services and felt no connection to them.

Is there one i still can call up to go for a simple drink, to chat be naughty?
A someone that i can care for

Maybe they call this girlfriend feel. but then the feel only lasted for as long as your session last.

I do feel horny and high when I first step into the room. but leave being lonely and empty inside.

Do you guys experience this way???

You aren't the only man who feels or have felt this way. I believe you have grown in maturity to reach a stage in life where you realize the emptiness and desire something more meaningful.

Some men are correct to say that it's time to "settle down" or find a girlfriend. They are quite right but a wife or a girlfriend is also not all smooth sailing. In many cases, when a woman becomes a mother to your children, she tends to want lesser sex, hence you see many men here who are also unhappy with their married sex lives. The happiest men appear to be those who have girlfriends, the sexually bold ones.

maxman
04-12-2012, 04:17 PM
It's a cycle. When you get married already, you get sick of fucking the same woman and you go out to pay for sex. Now you get sick of paid sex, you want some emotional and mental commitment. Then it goes in circle again.

Well said. It's mostly very true.

Max35w12v
04-12-2012, 04:22 PM
I guess TS is more in touch with his feminine side. Girls are usually less likely to separate the physical act and the emotional ones.

Nothing wrong with that of cos. So if you have a real physical need, go for it. The "empty" feeling could be the guilt playing a part. So if that empty feeling outweighs the need for physical release, then dun go. Use your hands.

If you are willing to pay the ultimate price for both, then settle down lor.

gaobuzua
04-12-2012, 04:26 PM
Its time to try something new, be a GAY!

jasdude
04-12-2012, 04:37 PM
U know what u want in the first place or not?
If u want just sex only then go geylang or fl...
If u want a date or someone to talk to..get urself a date la
If u want a date and a free fuck...find a lady that is comfortable to provide u that..

Nb...there is nothing in this world that comes free...you want something put in the effort to get it instead of fucking complaining here..
Seems to me u are looking for a fb...if u r looking for one pls post it in the what orgies forum lor.

This is not aunt agony forum.

Well said bro! TS no use whining since you know yourself best. If you want best of everything? Haha there is no such thingy.

Forver
04-12-2012, 05:53 PM
how come you guys keep thinking that i want free sex?
MONEY to me is not an issue. its not money problem now.
if money can buy that kind of feel, i will gladly pay. Just put a price tag and a guarantee money return for unsatisfied service

deludedgal
04-12-2012, 06:02 PM
because sex without any feelings is just not satisfying enough becomes like quick shower which only satisfies yr most basic pyhsiological need in maslow theory need not any emotions....

but sex with someone special is like dipping yrself in scented bathub and having a long luxurious bath makes u enjoy the moment as well satisfying yr physiological need and higher level needs like love and belonging.

pattan19
04-12-2012, 06:07 PM
bro TS... i guess it's the 'feeling' that you are after... maybe you shoud try an escort with that 'special' so that can go like on a 'date like' and end up the night with the 'exercise' since money may not be an issue for you?
For me, the feeling of paid sex became numb after more than a year and now it's a different game my desire takes me to... i agree with you that it's not always about the money... :D

jasdude
04-12-2012, 06:14 PM
how come you guys keep thinking that i want free sex?
MONEY to me is not an issue. its not money problem now.
if money can buy that kind of feel, i will gladly pay. Just put a price tag and a guarantee money return for unsatisfied service

Never heard of money cannot buy love? But at geylang money can buy sex. Maybe you should upgrade to actresses that FL part time? Since you want them to act GFE to you all the time. Grow up and face facts.

avantas
04-12-2012, 07:09 PM
What happened to me? I am getting tired of paid sex.

I feel empty after their services and felt no connection to them.

Is there one i still can call up to go for a simple drink, to chat be naughty?
A someone that i can care for

Maybe they call this girlfriend feel. but then the feel only lasted for as long as your session last.

I do feel horny and high when I first step into the room. but leave being lonely and empty inside.

Do you guys experience this way???

Hey man.

I totally understand how that feels cos I even had an experience where I get it up and was wondering if I had some physical problem but my subsequent gf let me understand I just had a psychological barrier and I was fine .

We have too many choices nowadays so sex isn't everything .

Nowadays I just spend my time improving myself and flirting with girls and making new friends to improve my social life. I sometimes bed the girls I meet FL or not and have been enjoying it

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04-12-2012, 07:11 PM
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BMW69
04-12-2012, 09:05 PM
Sugar baby!

limking
04-12-2012, 09:51 PM
Yes !!! i think i am missing the girlfriend feel.
but to book them, in the end when come back singapore, isn't it going to be worse? leaving behind the happy moments of 3 days

But at least it ease your loniness for the time being & something to look forward to on your next leave . Life gonna have a meaning right ? But just remember don't be naive & don't fall in love with them , gals ,no matter how sweet & gentle they are to you coz they're public property . Change your partner on every different trip so there won't be any chances of attachment feeling .Just a temporary paid for girlfriend on your lonesome free time .

owl888
05-12-2012, 01:09 AM
There's many sugarbaby lookin for sugardaddy, maybe u can try one since $$$ is not a problem to u:confused: :D

how come you guys keep thinking that i want free sex?
MONEY to me is not an issue. its not money problem now.
if money can buy that kind of feel, i will gladly pay. Just put a price tag and a guarantee money return for unsatisfied service