If I can turn back time, I would

[Coffeecans]

This is not a story ba but hope bros and sis can share their experiences here where you have hoped you can turn back the time to get your love back again that you have lost, or decisions that made you regret painfully.

Go on and share :)

Mine was the story of May and Jean. If I could turn back time, I would have already stayed with May.

[littlepok]

if i could turn back time, i will not buy that stupid stock on contra and lose 6 fucking k. ccb might as well bonk till blur or go casino.

[acidicavex]

If I can turn back time!!!! And bloody hell wish I can I would remake to choose btw a long distance and local relationship. And I would choose the long distance one if i get to go back to that moment again.

[Coffeecans]

@ littlepok. Wow. You could have a dream basketball team with a reserve :)

@ acidicavex: sounds like you loved the long distance so much. what happened then?

[littlepok]

早知道就没有白痴

千金难买早知道

[Babyrexx]

Sometime, we do deeply regret on the choices we made.. The house we bought.. Or even the relationship we are in.. But come to think of it. No matter which path we choose to take. It may not necessary take us to the destination that we dreamt of. Every decision U made will lead U to another senario in life. Some may be better but some may even become Worst! :rolleyes:

[Cunt-Sucker]

If I can turn back time, I would not have let go of my Japanese ex-gf ... As many brothers may have experienced, it's only after you've lost the person, that you realized how stupid you were to have done so ... And though I've ventured on a different path & ended up with 3 lovely kids, deep down my heart, I will still weep for the woman I love most, even till now. Now, I'm only left with regrets, remorse and an unhealed wound in my heart ... Like Bro Coffeecan's ending with Jean, I've completely lost her, and I still suspect that she's given birth to my son & continue living on, just the 2 of them ... :(

[Coffeecans]

Bro Cunt-Sucker, sorry to hear but I guess typing this off might have relieved the secret you've been keeping to yourself. Just like when I penned down the stories, it felt much better cos its not something you can share with the other partner. :)

[soldierboy168]

Bro coffeecans, your story reminds me of my ex before my wife...we were deeply in love only to have our parents disapprove for our love...i still remember her last words to me was she shouldn't have aborted our child which was a month old and she would rather have the kid and hide away from me, so to at least have a piece of me with her even when i'm not there.

It broke my heart because I didn't even know she was pregnant with my child...and the love which you felt that was the right, perfect one could not be fulfilled because of our parents...

[spidey7]

I luv 2turn back time 4all thgs be it stuff u haven done, stuff u Shd nt hv done.

[Cunt-Sucker]

Bro Coffeecans, I was contemplating on whether to pen my stories here, but having read the works of you and other bros, I've decided to go back receiving tuition from my English Literature teacher first ... You guys are setting the bars so high! How can you expect an infant like me to jump & reach the sky? :P

[Coffeecans]

hahha.. just write what you feel. it's the same for me. :)

[someonelonely]

If I can turn back time, I will tell my ex gf that I cannot live without her.

[rob_onny]

Bro Cunt-Sucker, u'r currently having 9 Power...
if u'r an infant... then i'm an embryo leow... lol... ;)
Bro Coffeecans, I was contemplating on whether to pen my stories here, but having read the works of you and other bros, I've decided to go back receiving tuition from my English Literature teacher first ... You guys are setting the bars so high! How can you expect an infant like me to jump & reach the sky? :P

[Coffeecans]

I'll be the dust particles then. :D

[Cunt-Sucker]

Bro Rob_onny, hehe ... Just look @ the # of posts & Rep you've got vs mine ... How can you be an embryo? But that's a good dig from you ... Makes me giggle like "xiao" @ my workstation ... :p

& Bro Coffeecans, you definitely can't be dust particle, 'cos no dust particle's gonna fit in those lovely cunts that you've experienced and keeps shooting warm cum into them! :D

[cncs]

If I can turn back time, I will not change anything.
I am happy of what I have now!!!
I believe everything happen for a reason. We lose some, we gain some. Only when we lose, then we will treasure what we have now.

[itiswhatitis]

if i could......................


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JK2sqTV8hbo:rolleyes:

[(o)(o) Tuner]

If I can turn back time, I wish I can go back to primary 6 and study harder, pass my PSLE with flying colors.

[Zwbff]

Bro, like babyrexx say, turn back maybe will be worse. I have multiple points to regret too but what can we do about them? Even if there is a time machine, at which point do we return to make things right? And what is the impact to other events when we made changes? The chaos theory mentioned butterfly effects and this is an important factor to take note.

My coach always tell us, you do, you regret. You don't do, you also regret. How? Im sure many bros here have tons of regrets but we have accepted them and move on. We may weep and misses our once loved, but we made a choice. As a man, we stick to it. Ask yourself, did you forget those times you spent with her? Mine always stay in my heart. She may hate me to core and cursing me at this moment in other parts of the globe but those time we spent, those 2 years together, were my happiest time with her. It is mine to keep, i cherish them. She may hate me but she cant take those memories away.

Socrates says, knowledge is merely a recollection, not learning, observation or studying. True knowledge is when you know nothing. So, we once have them. We cant say, we didn't cherish the women we love. We did, in those moments when they hold the smiles on their face. Thats enough already.

[Coffeecans]

I guess you are right but I guess the purpose of this is to really let fellow bros or sis who kept some secrets with them that cannot be said out, more for us to pour out what we feel deep inside us. A good way to vent out our emo side in writing.

There are some stories fellow bros shared with brings that sourish feel to our noses as we all share the same feelings. I believe after penning their feelings it does feel more relieved. :)
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Steamy Windows.
Aromatically erotic.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=313807

Days with Jean.
Sequel to What are words. The story of Jean.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=313013

What are words.
Love hurts. Sacrifices only for the sake of love.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=310476

The Floral Top.
An unexpected sexual awakening.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=302329

[see see only]

:D :p

If i could turn back time .... I would print all the past 4-D results with me before I turn back time ...

Wont be greedy win around 100k to 200k a month, make some investments at the time when they are the lowest rates

And marry the kindest girl that love me the most ... (judged from all my past gfs) :D


Enjoy the rest of my life ;)

[nightscreamer]

If I can turn back time, I would not have let go of my Japanese ex-gf ... As many brothers may have experienced, it's only after you've lost the person, that you realized how stupid you were to have done so ... And though I've ventured on a different path & ended up with 3 lovely kids, deep down my heart, I will still weep for the woman I love most, even till now. Now, I'm only left with regrets, remorse and an unhealed wound in my heart ... Like Bro Coffeecan's ending with Jean, I've completely lost her, and I still suspect that she's given birth to my son & continue living on, just the 2 of them ... :(

Bro coffeecans, your story reminds me of my ex before my wife...we were deeply in love only to have our parents disapprove for our love...i still remember her last words to me was she shouldn't have aborted our child which was a month old and she would rather have the kid and hide away from me, so to at least have a piece of me with her even when i'm not there.

It broke my heart because I didn't even know she was pregnant with my child...and the love which you felt that was the right, perfect one could not be fulfilled because of our parents...

I guess you are right but I guess the purpose of this is to really let fellow bros or sis who kept some secrets with them that cannot be said out, more for us to pour out what we feel deep inside us. A good way to vent out our emo side in writing.

There are some stories fellow bros shared with brings that sourish feel to our noses as we all share the same feelings. I believe after penning their feelings it does feel more relieved. :)
__________________________________________________

Steamy Windows.
Aromatically erotic.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=313807

Days with Jean.
Sequel to What are words. The story of Jean.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=313013

What are words.
Love hurts. Sacrifices only for the sake of love.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=310476

The Floral Top.
An unexpected sexual awakening.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=302329

I've only got 1 thing to say that is always on my mind ------ for both male & female (including myself)

The other half you got hitched with is never the one you love most.

[drslump99]

Who wouldn't
Another example here ........:mad:

[xxFTOxx]

If I can turn back time, I would not have let go of my Japanese ex-gf ... As many brothers may have experienced, it's only after you've lost the person, that you realized how stupid you were to have done so ... And though I've ventured on a different path & ended up with 3 lovely kids, deep down my heart, I will still weep for the woman I love most, even till now. Now, I'm only left with regrets, remorse and an unhealed wound in my heart ... Like Bro Coffeecan's ending with Jean, I've completely lost her, and I still suspect that she's given birth to my son & continue living on, just the 2 of them ... :(

Sigh same fate like u...lost the woman I love and still do. Even though I'm already with someone else and she's got married, I still miss her. Well everything has a reason I suppose...like the saying u will never be with the one u love most. Makes me think tt maybe my love for her was much more that she did. Heartache is a terrible and painful thing but all part and the process of life as much as I hate to admit it. And I still feel sore that she got married to someone else rather than me :(

[edwintantan]

I will bring all $$$$ that I have and buy as many land in Singapore as I can .
Now I will be billionaire

[aston68]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpcNUfqNBSc&sns=em

The title of the thread reminds me of the good old days in 80s and this song. Though my wife is my love, sometimes I will miss and wonder about those girls I
admire or love during my student life in schools. Hope they are having a good life now.:)

[Zwbff]

I probably never know how is it like to marry the woman i love. As long as many years ago, i often thought to believe, the woman i love is the woman i couldn't have, forbidden ones often is the one you can't have, hence most love.

Then one day, God decides to show me what is love and why having it may not be a good thing... I fell hard, deep, and true.. Until the point, there was no self, no ego, no esteem. My buddies asked, where is this man we used to know? Who is this boy speaking to us about love?

Then she left for the man who could provide her material happiness, love and more importantly, regain her dad's reputation so that she may return to be a princess again. At that time, there is none i may provide except love. There was no future she sees, frankly neither did i.

My life broke... I hated woman so much that it seems only drinking their blood may temporary appease my anger. My coach came along, picked me up and taught me how to recover. Then coach said this, do not be afraid to love, for it may seem weak, but it gives strength. it took me almost 2 years to pluck the courage to face woman. I started knowing females again, got to know this bubbly young girl who seems to be decent enough. Gradually, i fell in love again.. Only to realise two years later, how fragile relationship is.. And whether one is true or fake, it only matters if your love believes or not. I can be true but if her trust is shaken, all truth instantly became lies and my name get darken to a scrumbag.

The difference this time, i comprehended the teaching of my coach. If one never experience falls, the clarity sometimes do not show. The heartaches and sweet memories are gifts to tell the truth in life.

Hence, bros and sis, i hope we live our lifes in moments and cherish them, regrets are there because of options and choices we made. So long we cherish the moments share, regrets cannot bring us down. Cheerios!

[Coffeecans]

Waiting for more real stories to be poured here. Go on and unwind.

[Iemanishere]

Brother see see only.. If i could turn back time would be to as said but ToTo numbers....haha.. And study hard....

[Sugarsugar]

If I cld turn back time, I wldnt suggest going overseas with u at that last min.
All the time u took n spent on me are always forever with me.
All I hope is that she cld accept u once again for the mistake we made.

It pains me to see what is happening.
Thinking back of the every little things u did for me makes me miss u more.
Coming home to see the thoughtful gifts from u reminds me of u again.
My love will continue, but remain silent.

[Shioking]

Bro Cunt-Sucker, u'r currently having 9 Power...
if u'r an infant... then i'm an embryo leow... lol... ;)


and i would only be a zygote then.. hee.. :p

[LonerLoner]

Epic thread in the making, if I can turn back time, I would...

Not be such a nice guy and miss all the chances to be laid.

[Criminalz]

If i could turn back time, i would not fuck some of the girls while i should have fuck some of the girls. Guess it all even out.

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[kenstud27]

If i can turn back time, i wouldn't have divorce my first wife. We knew each other for 15 yrs, dated for 10 yrs and married for 5 yrs. Divorced coz of her busy work schedule and her obsession with work.

Although i moved on and am with someone else, still think of ex-wife all the time.

[missybd]

If i can turn back time, I would...

want to be close friends again.
have taken that step and be with you.
not hurt you the way I did.
not let things become what it is now.

be the happiest lady, just being with you.

[Sibiansian]

if i could turn back the time, i would throw all my money into golden agri when it is still at 0.17 cents

[menthol_kills]

if i can turn back the time, i would wish that i would have go ahead and sian all those chicks that i once liked

[siambee]

for me i will buy the correct 4D numbers... :D

[Max77]

let me answer this question with one answer MOST bro, well, might agreed

If I can turn back time, I WONT MARRY THAT BITCH!!!

[Maxico]

I would'nt waste my time trying hard to impress other people...
As the saying goes," Do what you love, love what you do."

[queeniegal]

If I can turn back the time.. I would not work 16 hours a day plus weekend!
I lost a very good boyfriend. Due to work he need to leave Singapore and I don't want leave with him cause I think I have my own career here too feeling he is selfish as he want me give up my job.

Think back quite silly shd have gone and now shd be happy ever after! But everything always happen for a reason so maybe good things might befall on me soon? Ha

[Winter88]

If I can turn back time, I would

1)took leave for on your birthday
2)went ecp with you
so that bloody bitch wouldn't have the chance to inflict damage on me

What a bitch she is. No wonder she's still unwanted and single and forever available. Let it stay that way. Cross fingers she will be single and available for the rest of her life while I enjoy my happiness with you for the next few decades till death do us apart

[java_cool]

If I could turn back time, I would have cherished you more and married you before you were taken from me forever in this lifetime ... I have never felt the way I felt for you (the excitement & feelings of bliss) with anyone else ... My heart will always belong to you ...

Like the poem said ...

She was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last for ever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
For nothing now can ever come to any good.

[Coffeecans]

Thought this might bring back memories. :)

[ah rat]

Thought this might bring back memories. :)

Thanks for yours Up,Up U 2morow :D

[bus72]

If i could turn back time..

I would not end up what i am today, the end

[EnigmaofSorrow]

If I could turn back time, I would have studied harder for my PSLE. Then there would a high chance I wouldn't have the opportunity nor the experiences to appear on this forum with my stories...

[Tazzymercs]

Actually..turning back time...Haiz...

Bros..life is filled with regrets..that's why there is life...not trying to be a saint...but I too had alot of regrets..falling in love...not doing things....but hey..what's done in the past is there for me to learn in the future..

bros here bemoan love lost..lovelorn souls...me too..but if given a chance..would things work things out as per 'regretted opportunity'? maybe maybe not...wise men says only fools rush in...i prefer..wise men says only fools fall in love lo...

love is such sweet agony...can't help..maybe its better to regret beautifully as in keeping the sweet memories created by the regretted chance...or rather regret the moment you eat back the same green grass that you had earlier forgone..hmmmm...

to me...life is full of regret but rather wishfully thinking of it..i think i rather look forward to create less regret :)

[henabi]

Thought this might bring back memories. :)

It does bro...it does...

If I could turn back time.... i would cherish my 1st ex even more, love her more. Back then, probably we were both too young but if possible i would wanna do better...

When i watch "那些年" with my Wife-to-be, i cried, because it brought back so much memories...

We had many chances to get back together but it just nv happened...

15 yrs has past... she is now happily married, while i am getting married soon...

If i could turn back time...

My next story... probably after i wrap up my current one...

[lawrens]

If I could, I would fight for her again. I would have be the man of confidence that she knew me at first. Same scenario, she left me to find someone that her parents could approve. I dropped ball when I fell in love. I lost my job. I lost my confidence. She was there to comfort me but there is so much that a person can put up with.

I don't know where is she now. And I never found another one that I could fall in love with so crazily; just as much as I did with her. I miss the cuddles, the long night conversations, the times we spent. There will never be another her. Occasionally I think about her, but not miss her. For i do not know if she remembers anything about us. I take into comfort that I know she is much better off now. Can only pray for her and her happiness.

[SixthAvenue]

If I could turn back time, I wish I studied hard enough in the past :(

[JOGK]

I made the decision to get married many years ago
But if I manage to turn back the time
I might not made the decision
Married during the 70s is okay
But not good for the current time
Too much pressure
Just my opinion

[late bloomer]

While reading this thread, I was suddenly filled with sorrow.

The scenes of all my past regrets, lost opportunities, women I have loved and never dared to pursue, all flashed before me ... too many to even write here.

'Turn Back the Clock' by Johnny Hates Jazz kept playing in my mind as I recalled all these sad memories. Younger bros out there may not know this song, but for those of you who grew up in the 80's like me, I'm sure it will strike a chord.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpcNUfqNBSc&sns=em

The title of the thread reminds me of the good old days in 80s and this song. Though my wife is my love, sometimes I will miss and wonder about those girls I admire or love during my student life in schools. Hope they are having a good life now.:)

Another day is ended
And I still can't sleep
Remembering my yesterdays
I begin to weep

I wish that I could turn back the clock
Bring the wheels of time to a stop
Back to the days when life was so much better

Lying here in silence
Picture in my hand
Of a boy I still resemble
But I no longer understand
And as the tears run freely
How I realise they were the best years of my life

You might say it's just
A case of giving up
No
But without these memories where is the love
Where is the love

[Iluminati]

Dear bros,
I think there is a reason for the word “regret” to exist. Each and every one of us will have experienced regret more than once in our lifetime. For what it’s worth the word “regret” definitely have taught us a thing or two and equipped us better in facing the adversity of life. It could be a lesson of appreciating something that we no longer have or learning to make a more wise and mature decisions in our life. Let us not have these “regret” making us stagnant in our past but instead embrace “regret” as part of human nature. The only road ahead is to march forward.

I would like to end this with a quote:
“We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.”
By Friedrich Gottlob Koenig.

:)