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Kazaf
25-07-2012, 08:37 PM
Used to fk around have fun with girls, Having gf is like just to make out with them everytime when meet up etc, Recently im sick of all this cycle already.
want to get some real decent girls to settle down with..
end up got ditched twice, yes i fked them but this is no longer what i want..
Life is full of excitement back then.. have fun with my ex gf, her best fren. Fling and her real sister. I gain something and i lost something too..
now im all alone. Is this karma?:(

Apocalypse
25-07-2012, 08:57 PM
Used to fk around have fun with girls, Having gf is like just to make out with them everytime when meet up etc, Recently im sick of all this cycle already.
want to get some real decent girls to settle down with..
end up got ditched twice, yes i fked them but this is no longer what i want..
Life is full of excitement back then.. have fun with my ex gf, her best fren. Fling and her real sister. I gain something and i lost something too..
now im all alone. Is this karma?:(

Maybe?

Or maybe its just you haven't dated anyone without thinking about sex for a long time. Some time just relax and let it flow (not your cum lah)

Good luck bro!

ikariamsg
25-07-2012, 09:00 PM
Maybe?

Or maybe its just you haven't dated anyone without thinking about sex for a long time. Some time just relax and let it flow (not your cum lah)

Good luck bro!

Yes, I think so.
BTW, I love alone at this time :D

Kazaf
25-07-2012, 09:02 PM
Maybe?

Or maybe its just you haven't dated anyone without thinking about sex for a long time. Some time just relax and let it flow (not your cum lah)

Good luck bro!

sex is something which is too addictive..
hard to quit.

maybe u are right.. thanks bro.

Apocalypse
25-07-2012, 09:23 PM
sex is something which is too addictive..
hard to quit.

maybe u are right.. thanks bro.

A few months ago I was dating this model. I was too aggressive with her, and initiated sex too fast, I scared her away. But before that her signals were all right. Kissing and hugging and all. But kissing and hugging is affection. Sex is not. I forgot about that cos I just wanted sex.

Sometime we are used to instant sex, we need to do some detox. Not say no sex, but if its a girl you want to settle down with then you have to show her something vulnerable(not soft), and also there are some tactics to start the big fight, and also if she can tahan with u if u got no money, then can say if she can marry anot.

Don't worry so much, u will know when the right one comes along.

Kazaf
25-07-2012, 09:45 PM
My Main Concern now is Im unable to quit this sex addictive and i know that bad stuffs will just keep happens to me if i keep on walking this evil path..

too many life stories to share but i doesnt know which one to start 1st..

life is too short! live to fullest.

staplerman
25-07-2012, 09:45 PM
I believe in karma. For my case, I once got tired of having sex. And it became one of my reasons to start my blog (see signature). Sex is often taken for granted, do and shoot. Having a partner is equivalent to saying 'handjob feels better when someone else's (a girl) does it for me.' That's why we need a partner.

I was quite 'playful' last time before I really took time off to calm my mind and find what I wanted. Actually, the only advice I can offer is this 'the more you want something, the further away it will be from you. simply calm your mind and appreciate what you have, and the thing you want will be coming your way.'

Good things come to those who wait. It's just how long you can wait. I guess the breaking point is when you get impatient, you must still tahan and wait. I've found the girl I want to settle with and lots of great sex came along with it. Just hold out. Find yourself again. :)

Kazaf
25-07-2012, 09:55 PM
I believe in karma. For my case, I once got tired of having sex. And it became one of my reasons to start my blog (see signature). Sex is often taken for granted, do and shoot. Having a partner is equivalent to saying 'handjob feels better when someone else's (a girl) does it for me.' That's why we need a partner.

I was quite 'playful' last time before I really took time off to calm my mind and find what I wanted. Actually, the only advice I can offer is this 'the more you want something, the further away it will be from you. simply calm your mind and appreciate what you have, and the thing you want will be coming your way.'

Good things come to those who wait. It's just how long you can wait. I guess the breaking point is when you get impatient, you must still tahan and wait. I've found the girl I want to settle with and lots of great sex came along with it. Just hold out. Find yourself again. :)

Thanks u so much.. bros out there really give great and experience advice!
i will trying to be more positive and move on..

cuscorex92
25-07-2012, 10:08 PM
tere's another... u settled dn, hv a daughter, grows up,u start worryin tat she gt fk & dumped by others for fun.

Kazaf
25-07-2012, 10:25 PM
Im Sorry
Anyway i guess i posted on the wrong section.
No wonder i kana zap.
should moved to ' matter of heart '

pricky77
25-07-2012, 11:08 PM
I'm not a holy person but I am a strong believer in karma. Now I am trying to do good to repent. I do not want any bad things to befall on my kids in future. God is fair, you reap what you sow.

deludedgal
26-07-2012, 12:26 AM
haha..i thought christians dont believe in such stuff. only buddhist

bimpom
26-07-2012, 12:31 AM
Used to fk around have fun with girls, Having gf is like just to make out with them everytime when meet up etc, Recently im sick of all this cycle already.
want to get some real decent girls to settle down with..
end up got ditched twice, yes i fked them but this is no longer what i want..
Life is full of excitement back then.. have fun with my ex gf, her best fren. Fling and her real sister. I gain something and i lost something too..
now im all alone. Is this karma?:(

Everything is karma ( cause and effect ) but karma is not destiny or fated.

cygnet
26-07-2012, 11:29 AM
You get to start afresh. Isn't that great to be able to start all over again?

Kazaf
26-07-2012, 03:03 PM
why ppl zap me for posting this thread? :/
*sighx* -1 :mad:

cyclone999
26-07-2012, 03:33 PM
i believe in karma ..

RockViet
26-07-2012, 11:45 PM
Used to fk around have fun with girls, Having gf is .....
now im all alone. Is this karma?:(

Hi TS
i believe so too... watch this but too bad only in chinese.万恶淫为首
it talk about of all bad deeds... sexual bad deeds rank the worst and the retribution is the worst... it was also observed that many of the porn stars die tragically & die young...this is deem to be bcos the porn they acted in spread millions of copies to the world affecting millions trillion of ppl causing them to commit adultery/rape/molest/incest/unfaithful etc etc


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2LUtuWfkE58&feature=player_embedded

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGicsSENmEM&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oBx4lgieMAs&feature=watch_response

littlepok
27-07-2012, 11:11 AM
i once liked to frequent ktv and geylang even when i am attached. felt empty with my ex. however, now i am with another girl and coming to sammyboy is mainly to read stories and tcss. no more FR no more asking for contact etc.

karma is very real and comes in all forms. cannot ask bros here to stop bonking, impossible task. just make sure u pay your dues, don't con girls into sex (with promise of lifetime commitment but aim is for sex only). lots of sluts around but good girls much more than that. don't con the good ones, have your fun with the bad ones (but must be willing parties la. u dont go to a club, make a gal drunk, rape her and claim she's a bad girl). fun-loving and willing to have sex with u is 2 different thing.

also don't run tips at ktv la, lowest lifeform. the gal service might suck but u accepted her in the first place. can pay less, cannot don't pay. u don't pay means u owe her liao, u will return in other forms. why take such risk (u dunno how u have to 还债).

for me, i do not get the most wonderful sex with gf (porn-like) but at least it is gf feel, not commercial feel. i can sleep after sex, not wash and dress up and check out. it feels different. ever felt the emptiness inside u after your fun in ktv and walk out to a quiet and lonely world outside? i did and i do not like it.

have fun responsibly, we are human afterall. totally abstain from sex is impossible. at least do what is right...

lastly, don't hurt your wife over sex or mistress, this is worst karma ever. ditching the one who suffered hard days with u and u rather spent on women outside than her. don't love her, don't wanna sex with her is understandable. but give her the due credits and respect.

btw i'm a buddhist. my point of view only

RockViet
27-07-2012, 01:07 PM
i once liked to frequent ktv and geylang .....
btw i'm a buddhist. my point of view only

Hi bro Littlepok.. thks for sharing.. i agreed with u every word u wrote.
因果报应 cannot siam.. dont do bad 因. do more good ones. we reap what we sow

t123
27-07-2012, 01:09 PM
I never believe in Karma, because I was hurt and seemed like I have LL swallow it even I did nothing wrong.

power88
27-07-2012, 02:13 PM
I believe in What goes around, Will comes around, and vice versa.

Karma is a deep word that orgin derived from India, and is later practise by many religions teaching. Different religion got different ways of teaching.

In the law of Karma for Buddism,
It is stretch from many deeds and things that one does, and will be reflected in many reincarnations, like previous , present and future lifes..
To simplify in chinese is 因果报应, 生生不息。

If you do many good things, you will be rewarded, may it not be present life but future.
Same for bad things, you will inherit the retributions sooner or later....

But what is good or bad deed? There will be another saying.
But deep inside everyone heart, we should know the differences, just that we want to Follow anot?

Just my buddist's point of view.

RockViet
27-07-2012, 02:41 PM
I never believe in Karma, because I was hurt and seemed like I have LL swallow it even I did nothing wrong.

Hi bro... i too once feel n think like u do... but it took me so many years just to realise and understands. it does not mean u did nothing wrong mean rightfiully u should get something good.
..i am not out to argue with you or convince u but just to share with you my 2cts worth of my thoughts ...cos i wasted my time n realise quite late

- it could be your deeds commited previously (or previous life) or
- u did not realise ur good deeds you tot is actually bad deeds
- it may not be "u did not hurt this immediate case mean this immediate case should be good peaceful" ... your other bad deeds also accountable..
- it does not mean u did not conduct the bad deeds physically mean u did not did wrong. simple as a bad thoughts already considered committed thou not as serious.
- simple things like "jealous" , talk bad is also considered committed bad deeds.
- simple greediness also considered
- learn to accept that this bad encounter is due to your previous/other deeds cos if u dun accept u will grumble and talk bad about it... n causes more bad deeds..
- must be fillial to parents or elderly .. u might not it had no link to wat ur immediate trouble in your dealings but being unfillial demerited or negated ur good deed n affect your immediate dealings

CandyBunny
28-07-2012, 10:53 AM
Could it be due to your past that caused your so called being ditched? Are they aware of your past? This kind of past will definitely affect the effort being put into a relationship although it's said "what past has past" but honestly, some people might still mind subconsciously.

Toyota Honda
28-07-2012, 12:54 PM
I believe.

And I do my part to prevent getting in to it. I only do it with girls who are no longer virgins. I dun hide my horniness from them and I dun tell them lies that I will be with them forever. I usually tell them I will be with them for as long as fate permits and no one knows what will happen. I also tell them I have high sex drive. And of cos, when I am with them, I truly dote on them and care for them.

but when it comes to virgins, I will not do them even if we kiss and hug. But no to sex. That is y I have let off at least 5 good girls. They have questioned me whether they are not good for me. My reply is I dun know if we will be together forever, y waste their 1st time on me and end up not being with the guy who took their virgin?

Girls are also humans. And most girls who have slept with me are actually friends who likes me for who I am even though they know I am sleeping around. And when the opportunity comes, they doesnt mind ending up on my bed cos they know even if we dun end up in a committed relationship, the guy they are sleeping with (which is me) still dote them, care for them and be willing to do anything for them. Its a matter of how you make them trust you and giving them the assurance that you care for them to acghieve such effect and I am genuine.

Kenneleon
28-07-2012, 01:32 PM
Cuz this is a discussion for sex..not philosiphy..
Anyway..just to be zapped too,i'll throw in my personal opinion.(im sick of the 2cents term.dafuq u can do with 2cents in sg)

Karma is a system.system means there is someone that created it.so it means there is a divine power to create something so "mystical" and powerful..so either there is no such thing or the creator is unloving n insane..

Which makes more sense?
Example: is it more effective to correct a mistake immediately or give praise to a job well done?

Or

Keep quiet be it a good job or a mistake and punish/praise the person many years down the road out of the blue?and when questioned why..the only reply is..dont ask why.just think back on your life.

Karma is different from making decisions.
U screwed around previously..most probably ruined quite a few people..but that doesnt mean your life will surely be ruin too.it all depends on your circumstances and decisions.

CandyBunny
29-07-2012, 01:54 PM
I believe.

And I do my part to prevent getting in to it. I only do it with girls who are no longer virgins. I dun hide my horniness from them and I dun tell them lies that I will be with them forever. I usually tell them I will be with them for as long as fate permits and no one knows what will happen. I also tell them I have high sex drive. And of cos, when I am with them, I truly dote on them and care for them.

but when it comes to virgins, I will not do them even if we kiss and hug. But no to sex. That is y I have let off at least 5 good girls. They have questioned me whether they are not good for me. My reply is I dun know if we will be together forever, y waste their 1st time on me and end up not being with the guy who took their virgin?

Girls are also humans. And most girls who have slept with me are actually friends who likes me for who I am even though they know I am sleeping around. And when the opportunity comes, they doesnt mind ending up on my bed cos they know even if we dun end up in a committed relationship, the guy they are sleeping with (which is me) still dote them, care for them and be willing to do anything for them. Its a matter of how you make them trust you and giving them the assurance that you care for them to acghieve such effect and I am genuine.

Totally agree. Not any particular stranger who someone who is nice enough and have sparks.

RockViet
29-07-2012, 04:25 PM
..like the saying goes... 人在做,天在看

stand_98
29-07-2012, 04:46 PM
Frankly, I don't really think karma is involved here. It is all abt female psychic. Do u feel that when you are fooling around with them, they feel more desired and at ease? When you switched your mindset and wanted to have a stable relationship with her, things started to get boring and she started to look elsewhere for the 'kick'.

Man and woman are basically the same lah. To be successful, you will need to ensure a good balance between flirty, fun and commitment. Too much of any part will screw up a healthy relationship.

Apocalypse
29-07-2012, 07:29 PM
haha..i thought christians dont believe in such stuff. only buddhist

Actually Christians believe in Karma too. But talking about philosophy and religion is abit off topic to the general discussion of sex.





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Bebeque
29-07-2012, 10:14 PM
Karma (good or bad) will be realised when the appropriate conditions are present.

One comparison will be to that of diseases in humans and their manifestations. For example, a person was infected by the Hep B virus and suffered an attack of inflammation of his liver cells. Fortunately, he recovered from this attack but, he became a Hep B carrier. The virus remained in his body. Knowing his condition, he made big efforts to keep himself healthy with good diet, regular exercises and sufficient rests. He could be well for many years. However, one day, due to whatever reason(s), his immune system was weakened sufficiently (excessive alcohol intake, drug use or simply old age, etc) and the Hep B virus reactivated and causing even more damage to his liver. Eventually, he might end up with liver cirrhosis or even liver cancer. How serious he would suffer from the effects of the Hep B virus reactivation would depend on many factors inclusive of how well he took care of his health previously, his genetics, the availability of appropriate treatments, etc.

The operation of the karma can be explained in a similar manner. Good deeds result in the accumulation of good karma and bad deeds result in bad karma. Such karma, once committed remain as karma. Under the appropriate conditions, the karma (good or bad) will be realised. For a really bad karma, how much the person will suffer for it will depend on the many deeds he did after the commission of the one bad karma. The many good karma he accumulated would in some way go to ameliorate the bad karma he committed, but would never eliminate it totally.

Thus if TS knows that he has not acted in the right manner in the handling of his sexual relationships, and if he believes in karma, the advice for him will be:
a Stop doing whatever actions/behaviour that he knows are not right (for example, pursuing a relationship purely for sexual gratification and in the process hurting the other party);
b Consciously control his own emotions and actions with regard to the pursue sex if such behaviour results in hurting others, inclusive of himself;
c Start doing what he knows are the right things to do in sexual relationships (for example, being sincere, faithful and truthful to his partners);

What one had done previously could not be undone. Going forward, what is more important is the willingnes for one to change for the better, for more good karma to be accumuilated. Only then could one be assured of a certain measure of peace of the mind. All depends on yourself and what you want to sow and reap.

That is all.

Cheers.

tomcat007
29-07-2012, 10:27 PM
Yes, I believe in 因果报应. Am suffering from the worst form of 现世报 now. :-(

Kazaf
29-07-2012, 11:26 PM
cheers all!

thanks all bros for advice and discussion.

i posted in the wrong thread.

yeah karma! kana zap gao lat gao lat.

strike me gao gao also. usually 4d every mth tio at least 1 bei sai or wad..

now 3mths all jump numbers. Ibet also miss 1 digits. Never Ibet it jumps. HAIZ!

i will change my life. Throughout.

truly appreciated. :)

RockViet
19-08-2012, 07:01 PM
阴律无情此书在参观地狱之后,以比较浅显的文字写出。佛开示阿玉,叫阿玉去参观地狱之后回来写文章,让大众 明白因果,受持清净戒律让众生明白种善因得善果,种恶因受恶报,因果报应如影随形,不是不报, 时候未到。

《阴律无情》的阴是指阴间地府,律是佛律、天律、地律、人律。若人间众生触犯了戒律法律,就一定要堕落到阴 间地狱,受应得之无情果报。因此在生时,从善者一定不会堕落,行恶业者,阴律对他们就一定无情。若要避免阴 律的无情果报,必须人人行善,净心修道,生命亦必定可升华至天界。朕已委派天
Content
-判官说:“死后才忏悔已经太迟了!
-手淫大地狱惨报,判官泄尽天机!
-嫖客100000年的大地狱报应
-惩罚乱伦邪行的倒轮冰天地狱及彩花剑林地狱实况
-手淫的惨烈惩罚
-传阅分享色情书刊及光盘之地狱果报
-堕胎报应与婴灵的枉死哭城

Video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OZWYiJKkOf4

PDF copy
http://manjuvimalakirti.com/dharma/ylwz.pdf
http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_80f3a51b01015l13.html

happyguy1234
19-08-2012, 10:35 PM
TS, i believe karma is something that will keep striking us to remind us of some truths.... sometimes if u think abt it, it comes in the most unexpected forms and in the most painful way.. when you suffer from it, hold your head in your hands and cry to yourself why, u will realise the real reason for your misfortune. what comes around goes around usually much stronger and immediate than we can expect. to put it in another way, whatever effect arising from our actions can only be a logical consequence...

ahtat77
19-08-2012, 10:37 PM
TS, i believe karma is something that will keep striking us to remind us of some truths.... sometimes if u think abt it, it comes in the most unexpected forms and in the most painful way.. when you suffer from it, hold your head in your hands and cry to yourself why, u will realise the real reason for your misfortune. what comes around goes around usually much stronger and immediate than we can expect. to put it in another way, whatever effect arising from our actions can only be a logical consequence...

then what is the kamma for paid sex?:confused:

assrammer
20-08-2012, 12:27 AM
wake up bros, it's just an coincidence..........

RockViet
20-08-2012, 12:42 AM
then what is the kamma for paid sex?:confused:


reference http://manjuvimalakirti.com/dharma/ylwz.pdf
嫖客100000年的大地狱报应

嫖客分两类:
-第一类是生理需要控制不住,正室无法满足,定期找固定的妓女行
淫。生前每次犯罪折福折寿1个月,寿终入所犯之邪淫地狱受报。受报时间要看具体个案而定,一般刑罚期大多数 是800年。

-第二类是欲望炽盛,长期召妓邪淫,浪费不珍24 阴律无情惜人身,生活醉生梦死,使用助淫工具追求肉体感官刺激。此类生前犯罪每次折福折寿1月半,寿终入所 犯之邪淫地狱受报10万年,地狱报终打入畜生道受低等畜生报1000年,之后就是得转回人身, 亦
要受头脑不清醒报。

google translate

Vist prostitution will get 100 000 years of hell retribution

Divided into two categories:
The first category is the physical needs of uncontrollable lust as wife had not able to meet his demand and seek regular visit of prostitutes on a regular basis. Before his death each visit will shortened life by a month and upon death he will be transported into the Hell and punish based on case by case basis. Most of them general get penalty of 800 years.

The second category is the flaming desire, long-term prostitution, living the dream life, with help of sexual tool for the pursuit of physical sensual stimulation. Lifetime of such crime each shortened life by a half months, and upon death he will be transported into the Hell and punish 100000 years in Hell and end up as beasts by the lower to rebirth as animals for 1000years.

IwasApo
20-08-2012, 01:29 AM
google translate

Vist prostitution will get 100 000 years of hell retribution

Divided into two categories:
The first category is the physical needs of uncontrollable lust as wife had not able to meet his demand and seek regular visit of prostitutes on a regular basis. Before his death each visit will shortened life by a month and upon death he will be transported into the Hell and punish based on case by case basis. Most of them general get penalty of 800 years.

The second category is the flaming desire, long-term prostitution, living the dream life, with help of sexual tool for the pursuit of physical sensual stimulation. Lifetime of such crime each shortened life by a half months, and upon death he will be transported into the Hell and punish 100000 years in Hell and end up as beasts by the lower to rebirth as animals for 1000years.

sibeh heng I buy insurance liao, if not buy sex toy also kana 100,000 years in hell :rolleyes:

sgjoey
20-08-2012, 06:42 AM
Jesus-fucking Christ!! Wake up, folks! This is the 21st C already, and you still believe in this karma bullshit??

The origins of karma are quite uncomplicated to decipher. As someone said, it originated in India, but it is hardly a deep concept. It is a moralistic concept dreamt up by an elite that plays a similar role to belief in God.

What better ways to make people behave themselves than to make them believe that there is an all-powerful policeman in the sky watching your every move (God), OR that every naughty thing you do will somehow, automatically, result in something naughty happening to you (karma).

The origins of karma are political. Plenty of poor people, few rich ones. To keep the poor people in line, the rich convinced the poor to behave by selling them the karma idea. The incredulous thing for me is that so many people still subscribe to this totally nonsensical idea.

Those with minds, let them think!

kankachng
20-08-2012, 10:18 AM
TS, i believe karma is something that will keep striking us to remind us of some truths.... sometimes if u think abt it, it comes in the most unexpected forms and in the most painful way.. when you suffer from it, hold your head in your hands and cry to yourself why, u will realise the real reason for your misfortune. what comes around goes around usually much stronger and immediate than we can expect. to put it in another way, whatever effect arising from our actions can only be a logical consequence...

Bro. agreed with the highlighted statement:):D

jameschong1
20-08-2012, 10:36 AM
I don't believe in karma though People in the society always mention about that, but I still see idiotic people alive n kicking better than I do
==========
unlike idiots inclduing u, i believe karma. those who talk bad about me behind my back will be born with crooked mouth next life!

NiShiDaShaB
20-08-2012, 12:08 PM
Jesus-fucking Christ!! Wake up, folks! This is the 21st C already, and you still believe in this karma bullshit??

The origins of karma are quite uncomplicated to decipher. As someone said, it originated in India, but it is hardly a deep concept. It is a moralistic concept dreamt up by an elite that plays a similar role to belief in God.

What better ways to make people behave themselves than to make them believe that there is an all-powerful policeman in the sky watching your every move (God), OR that every naughty thing you do will somehow, automatically, result in something naughty happening to you (karma).

The origins of karma are political. Plenty of poor people, few rich ones. To keep the poor people in line, the rich convinced the poor to behave by selling them the karma idea. The incredulous thing for me is that so many people still subscribe to this totally nonsensical idea.

Those with minds, let them think!

Cannot fully agree with you bro, I see karma like newton's third law of motion. For every action there is a equal and opposite reaction = karma.

happyguy1234
20-08-2012, 01:46 PM
then what is the kamma for paid sex?:confused:

there is no fixed consequence... it can come in many different forms and as ive said often unexpected. but only when we reflect with honesty then we can see that what happens to us in partly caused by our own actions

lambo_tan
20-08-2012, 03:08 PM
Buddhism has a best heaven. Everything is just the way you want it to be. In this heaven, there is no reason to change anything. You are ultimately happy. The problem is that it's not permanent, as is everything in Buddhism. One day in the heaven realm is equal to 400 human years, and your stay is four thousand heaven years, so you will be there a really long time.

But, one day the karma that put you in this heaven will be used up. You are only in heaven as long as your Karma account has merit in it. You can only draw from your Karma account while in heaven, because there in no way to make a deposit. You can't practice generosity or compassion, and you're not striving to gain wisdom. When the karma that put you in heaven is used up... you will be reborn.

The second heaven realm, which is a lower one, is where things are almost perfect. I call this the Donald Trump heaven. It could be better, if only you owned one more building or house. You see, there is still some desire associated with this heaven realm, and so it can't ever be perfect.

The next realm is the human realm, where all of us find ourselves in this lifetime. This is the best place for us to be, because this is the only place we can become enlightened. We cannot become enlightened in heaven, things are too nice, and we have no reason to strive. We cannot become enlightened in hell, because things are so bad, all we do is suffer.

In this human rebirth, we have enough happiness and joy to keep us from taking our own lives, and we experience anxiety and fear to keep us striving. We cannot relax too long in any one mental state as a human, because all things are in a constant state of flux.

The next lower realm, is the animal realm. The animal realm is marked by wanting to have sex, wanting to have food, wanting to have sleep, and being totally confused. Those are the four characteristics found in the animal realm. So you can see, we are not likely to become enlightened as an animal.

A Zen question-- Does a dog have Buddha nature?-- comes to mind. Yes, a dog does have the potential to become enlightened, but only in the human realm.

Can animals be reborn as humans beings? Yes, if they come into contact with the Dharma, see a Buddhist temple, or smell incense burning. The contact can plant a Dharma seed which takes root when they're reborn as humans. They can achieve their full potential and become enlightened, but only as a human being. So, it's up to all of us to help our pets be reborn in the human realm.

The next realm is called the hungry ghost realm. The hungry ghost is often pictured as a giant creature, with a large stomach and a pinhole for a mouth. It can never end it's hunger no matter how much it eats, it never finds satisfaction.

In the hell realm, the worst place, you find the most suffering. Your are given little hell bodies when you enter. Then, one day you might be walking through a forest, when all the leaves on a tree turn into razor blades and fall, cutting you into a million pieces. You cry out in pain, and your hell body resurrects, so you can be killed over and over again.

The only way to get out of the hell realm is to burn through the karma that put you there. Suffering is the only act of purification in hell, and much suffering is necessary before the next rebirth.

sgjoey
20-08-2012, 05:37 PM
Cannot fully agree with you bro, I see karma like newton's third law of motion. For every action there is a equal and opposite reaction = karma.

Bro, you have just shown how well you misunderstand Newton's 3rd law. Newton's 3rd law only extends to physical forces, not moral ones. The so-called moral extension of this law by way of karma is totally nonsensical. It is just plain speculation, with no real evidence to show for it.

Suppose X kills someone. What is the reaction? Karma will try to say in mumbo-jumbo fashion that something bad will happen to X. But what? And when? The predictive power of karma is absolutely ZERO! Whereas Newton's third law has enabled engineers to predict the stresses that structures are subjected to, and therefore to build these structures strongly enough so they will not collapse. Very, very, very different!!!

Newton's law vs karma -- the comparison is a textbook case of a false analogy.

DeadlySecret
20-08-2012, 09:11 PM
A few months ago I was dating this model. I was too aggressive with her, and initiated sex too fast, I scared her away. But before that her signals were all right. Kissing and hugging and all. But kissing and hugging is affection. Sex is not. I forgot about that cos I just wanted sex.

Sometime we are used to instant sex, we need to do some detox. Not say no sex, but if its a girl you want to settle down with then you have to show her something vulnerable(not soft), and also there are some tactics to start the big fight, and also if she can tahan with u if u got no money, then can say if she can marry anot.

Don't worry so much, u will know when the right one comes along.

sibeh heng I buy insurance liao, if not buy sex toy also kana 100,000 years in hell :rolleyes:

Big CANNON fairy again! why you post here, after all you had done i thought you don't believe in Karma?

Pascal
08-09-2012, 11:17 PM
Used to fk around have fun with girls, Having gf is like just to make out with them everytime when meet up etc, Recently im sick of all this cycle already.
want to get some real decent girls to settle down with..
end up got ditched twice, yes i fked them but this is no longer what i want..
Life is full of excitement back then.. have fun with my ex gf, her best fren. Fling and her real sister. I gain something and i lost something too..
now im all alone. Is this karma?:(

I can't believe I'm reading this...

deludedgal
09-09-2012, 07:28 AM
Frankly, I don't really think karma is involved here. It is all abt female psychic. Do u feel that when you are fooling around with them, they feel more desired and at ease? When you switched your mindset and wanted to have a stable relationship with her, things started to get boring and she started to look elsewhere for the 'kick'.

Man and woman are basically the same lah. To be successful, you will need to ensure a good balance between flirty, fun and commitment. Too much of any part will screw up a healthy relationship.

i think its the same with guys. when the nice girls are just there, they will be taken for granted and look for the 'kick' elsewhere.

sincere8888
09-09-2012, 08:16 PM
Just want to share a 8 mins YouTube video related to this topic.
消業障是要去經歷它? 不執著它? 還是去扭轉它? -- 宗薩欽哲仁波切

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GFs5v55CMzo&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Guess we all have to spend some time to understand the concept of karma and spend some time to study it before commenting on it ....

RockViet
02-08-2013, 10:09 PM
Hi bros .. Full soft copy of the "Cause & Effect" can be found here

https://www.yousendit.com/download/WFJWZ294Z1A3N0MwYjhUQw

hope we learn something from this

LovePotion
02-08-2013, 11:23 PM
i believe in karma.... maybe it dont happen on us ... who know it happen to our next generation..... therefore better be careful