Oral sex with your partner

[Longer123]

Hi Ladies,

How many of you actually enjoy oral sex? I meant both receiving and giving it. I have received oral sex and knowing the girl enjoying it brings much pleasure into it. I was wondering and trying to know if it is seeing the person who is receiving it from you brings more pleasure or the other way around. Anyway I trully enjoy oral sex both receiving and giving provided the other party's pussy looks clean and doesn't smell. Anyway I am straight and not gay. So no gays pls.

[n30n]

Only enjoy giving if it's clean and odour free. It makes me more turned on to see his expression too, and also when his thing keep "jumping".

Receive of course enjoy la. But sometimes i feel self conscious about down there, so i won't let him do it for to long.

[SeaCucumber6]

Hi bro,

I too enjoy receiving / giving oral sex from / to girls.

I had asked them before and most of them are actually turned on by the act... they feel sexy / horny doing it... spices up the sex.

Although I had met some girls who aren't into this at all... but in general... I would say 70 - 80% of them love it. ;)

[ah rat]

Only enjoy giving if it's clean and odour free.

Want to have odour free.Eat more vegetable :D

[RedOmega]

Want to have odour free.Eat more vegetable :D

Really ah! So far still fresh for me!:)

[Hardstick15by5]

Really ah! So far still fresh for me!:)
Red Omega, any more pics of your tenants?

[billy_bonker]

really enjoy going down on a girl and eating her out.

[darkenheart]

Enjoyed giving and receiving.

Of cos, both of us have to keep ourselves clean to enjoy.

[RedOmega]

Red Omega, any more pics of your tenants?

Haha... Sure plenty. :p

[ahkang]

my partner becum wet vv fast when i give her oral

[sexy_mama]

the thrill of receiving heighten my sex drive even more while giving seeing my lover moaning like a little baby makes me even more hornier :)

[tylatan]

I like giving. Don't mind even if it's from start to finish! (Particularly ok with it if the guy can go for 2nd round after that lah.)

As for receiving... really depends on the giver. Sometimes keep missing the spot very sian. :rolleyes:

[francined69]

most gals are shy having their pussies licked :D

but once they tasted the thrill n shiokness that comes with their pussy being licked and tongue they will yearn for more n more (and that's just the beginning).

i tried a new trick when i was licking my gf pussy. while licking, i cup my mouth n her pussy lips n blew hot air into her pussy. immediately she was stunned by the feeling of warm air filling up her pussy. shiok she said. kekekeke

needless to say men will want their dick sucked ;)

[ah rat]

Haha... Sure plenty.

Got chance to see live one :p


most gals are shy having their pussies licked :D

but once they tasted the thrill n shiokness that comes with their pussy being licked and tongue they will yearn for more n more (and that's just the beginning).

i tried a new trick when i was licking my gf pussy. while licking, i cup my mouth n her pussy lips n blew hot air into her pussy. immediately she was stunned by the feeling of warm air filling up her pussy. shiok she said. kekekeke

needless to say men will want their dick sucked


Thanks for urs new trick,will try tonight. :p But she do not know how to suck :(

[TyLa_BaBy]

Thanks for urs new trick,will try tonight. :p But she do not know how to suck :(

What you mean "she do not know how to suck"?! Ask her open her mouth, put your dick inside and SUCK! So hard meh? Even amateur attempt also better than totally "don't know". (As long as she don't scrap her teeth on you. I heard from guys that it hurts very bad? I won't know lah, cos I have no dick.)

Seriously, some women just find excuse not to do it. If she know how to eat ice cream or lollipop, she sure know how to suck lah.

Brudder ah, *pat pat* don't sad ok. Give her good incentive to start, maybe she will be addicted!

[ah rat]

What you mean "she do not know how to suck"?! Ask her open her mouth, put your dick inside and SUCK! So hard meh? Even amateur attempt also better than totally "don't know". (As long as she don't scrap her teeth on you. I heard from guys that it hurts very bad? I won't know lah, cos I have no dick.)

Seriously, some women just find excuse not to do it. If she know how to eat ice cream or lollipop, she sure know how to suck lah.

Brudder ah, *pat pat* don't sad ok. Give her good incentive to start, maybe she will be addicted!

The problem is,she can't suck well & I don't feel shiok :D

[TyLa_BaBy]

The problem is,she can't suck well & I don't feel shiok :D

Oh chey. That one can slowly teach lah. No one is born a good sucker!
Or maybe is it cos you are too big so she cannot suck properly huh? :p Seriously, anything over 8 inch I feel very crippled when trying to do a good "job". Like... how to deep throat. Wanna choke and die like that. LOL.

[guess67]

The problem is,she can't suck well & I don't feel shiok :D

Ah rat, tell ur wife to learn lor :D

[Ben225111]

The problem is,she can't suck well & I don't feel shiok :D

practice daily and it will be perfected :D

[Mandin]

I definitely do enjoy oral sex with my partner. :)

[RedOmega]

Got chance to see live one :p

got bro! Pm me we discuss further in pm ok?:D

[RedOmega]

The problem is,she can't suck well & I don't feel shiok :D

Bro, got show her vids anot? I got mine to watch lotsa vids. She's really learned well now she's really good at it. Sometimes, she gives me lotsa surprise.

[RedOmega]

Ah rat, tell ur wife to learn lor :D

I wanna learn from you! Hehe....:p

[n30n]

The problem is,she can't suck well & I don't feel shiok :D

This you need to teach her.

Sucking is not just putting in your mouth and go up and down right?
I think you know this best.

Go step by step, one technique at a time.
Can role play master and servant also, and you give her orders.
Make sure you response with the correct (facial) expression so she know if she do right or wrong.
Be patient.

[San Miguel]

Most gals I have tried and also hear from my frens they do not like to receive it except giving. Maybe they find it "dirty" or they feel shy. Any sister here can enlighten us whether is that the reason or other reason? Thanks in advance ha.

[Hurricane88]

What you mean "she do not know how to suck"?! Ask her open her mouth, put your dick inside and SUCK! So hard meh? Even amateur attempt also better than totally "don't know". (As long as she don't scrap her teeth on you. I heard from guys that it hurts very bad? I won't know lah, cos I have no dick.)

Seriously, some women just find excuse not to do it. If she know how to eat ice cream or lollipop, she sure know how to suck lah.

Brudder ah, *pat pat* don't sad ok. Give her good incentive to start, maybe she will be addicted!

fully agreed...it's really fun to coach your partner to learn to bbbj properly...anyway it's your own benefits...:)

[TyLa_BaBy]

Most gals I have tried and also hear from my frens they do not like to receive it except giving. Maybe they find it "dirty" or they feel shy. Any sister here can enlighten us whether is that the reason or other reason? Thanks in advance ha.

Girls who don't like to receive simply have not received it from a guy who is skillful enough. A lot of guys like to "attack base" which is too rough. Must start slowly and gently, and only upon her request then go hard.

Personally I feel going straight for the clit is very turn off. Haven't warm up yet, please don't rev engine! Start by kissing inner thighs, then kiss her labia, gently slowly lick the outside before you part her lips and go GENTLY on the clit.

Please don't follow those porn type and suck on her clit while you shake your head left to right very fast lor. That's reserved for when she is super turned on and horny then can go "high speed" like that. Otherwise 100% sore 0% pleasure.

(Same rules apply for fingering.)

For fairness' sake, some women do find that their "down there" smells fishy and not sexy. Especially when many Asian women don't have the perfect pink pornstar pussy. We get self-conscious of how our pussy looks. Like mine... must dim lights then I give my hubby "close up". Otherwise can see stretchmarks lah, skin imperfections lah, dark pigmentation lah... not pretty like pornstar at all. :(

[wally888]

For fairness' sake, some women do find that their "down there" smells fishy and not sexy. Especially when many Asian women don't have the perfect pink pornstar pussy. We get self-conscious of how our pussy looks. Like mine... must dim lights then I give my hubby "close up". Otherwise can see stretchmarks lah, skin imperfections lah, dark pigmentation lah... not pretty like pornstar at all. :(

I m sure most men would love to see pussy under full light.... scarly your hubby bobo lick the wrong hole :eek: :D

[TyLa_BaBy]

I m sure most men would love to see pussy under full light.... scarly your hubby bobo lick the wrong hole :eek: :D

Lick the other hole also quite shiok what. Hmmm now you remind me... it's been a while since we visited there... HAHAHAAH!

[ah rat]

Ah rat, tell ur wife to learn lor :D

U want to teach her :p

[Hurricane88]

Girls who don't like to receive simply have not received it from a guy who is skillful enough. A lot of guys like to "attack base" which is too rough. Must start slowly and gently, and only upon her request then go hard.

Personally I feel going straight for the clit is very turn off. Haven't warm up yet, please don't rev engine! Start by kissing inner thighs, then kiss her labia, gently slowly lick the outside before you part her lips and go GENTLY on the clit.

Please don't follow those porn type and suck on her clit while you shake your head left to right very fast lor. That's reserved for when she is super turned on and horny then can go "high speed" like that. Otherwise 100% sore 0% pleasure.

(Same rules apply for fingering.)

For fairness' sake, some women do find that their "down there" smells fishy and not sexy. Especially when many Asian women don't have the perfect pink pornstar pussy. We get self-conscious of how our pussy looks. Like mine... must dim lights then I give my hubby "close up". Otherwise can see stretchmarks lah, skin imperfections lah, dark pigmentation lah... not pretty like pornstar at all. :(

haha...fully agreed...painting skills need to practise and practised till perfect...also diff girl have diff needs and sensitivity...most of my gf who dun like to be painted are very much turned on by me after one session with full orgasm...she will cum to me and asked for it without being ashame anymore...becuz second time I want her to beg for it...:)

once there was a mid 30s thai girl...quite sometime she had no sex...so during one sexxion...she cum 3 times in one shot and said want more...she was so tired and sextified...:)

another Vn gf...wants me to paint her at least 30 mins or longer...my tongue was damn sored after each sexxion...she enjoyed being painted more than bonked...:)

[guess67]

U want to teach her :p

I not skillful :D

[ah rat]

I not skillful :D

Then U must learn :p :D

[guess67]

I wanna learn from you! Hehe....:p

Tot u practicing with ur wife :rolleyes:

[guess67]

Then U must learn :p :D

Ok, I will find someone to practice :p

[ah rat]

Ok, I will find someone to practice :p

I have one here :p

[acidicavex]

Both giving and receiving.... If they gal is shave or trim even best no need have loose hair stick to the tongue.

[guess67]

Both giving and receiving.... If they gal is shave or trim even best no need have loose hair stick to the tongue.

Yup, I like it both way :D

[yy0202]

Usually i will catbath my ex, n paint her a good 40min, she usually will cum 2 times, grabbing my hair, bedsheet etc... Practice bro... It took me 2yrs to have the stamina to lick 40 mins, but of coz in return i get a fantastic bbbj n cim or cip or cof depends on me.:p

[LovePotion]

Tongue muscles... lol

[mr_missile]

Usually i will catbath my ex, n paint her a good 40min, she usually will cum 2 times, grabbing my hair, bedsheet etc... Practice bro... It took me 2yrs to have the stamina to lick 40 mins, but of coz in return i get a fantastic bbbj n cim or cip or cof depends on me.:p

spoken like a true pro. u sure got her to service u back real good! :p

[sean69]

Ok, I will find someone to practice :p

I have one here :p

ahem.. can i join the queue? .. :D

[Hurricane88]

Usually i will catbath my ex, n paint her a good 40min, she usually will cum 2 times, grabbing my hair, bedsheet etc... Practice bro... It took me 2yrs to have the stamina to lick 40 mins, but of coz in return i get a fantastic bbbj n cim or cip or cof depends on me.:p

wah...this is solid and really long...:)

[drifand]

same for me, I did not like to give at first but later I give oral to girls now for full 15-30mins or till she cum and I actually will lick on to make her scream. To me I like her expression that she cannot tahan anymore and her plea for me to stop make me make her push on till I think is enough. I always wondered if I role play and hand cuff her she going to die lioa. lol

I do it because I want to receieve a good bbj, in any chance I will cim, I know she sometimes don't like it but her mood sometimes dont mind it especially if I gave her a good one.

Best for me is recieving 3 times in a row, all came into the girls mouth. those were the days for me.

[RedOmega]

Tot u practicing with ur wife :rolleyes:

No harm getting 2nd opinion. hopefully from you. Haha...

[RedOmega]

Yup, I like it both way :D

Ohhhh. I can give. :p

[panda1984]

Same here. I like to give and receive. But my girl dont like giving. She can receive until she cannot tahan and want me inside her. I also can paint her the whole morning and rest and continue painting. She know if I want her cow girl me. She will be lazy and lie on the bed receiving and just keep Cumming until she feel very very tired. I dont mind not receiving as I respect her. She have some throat problem also. So I can understand fully. But sometimes. I need to receive also. I need someone to help me blow. How..:(.

[n30n]

Same here. I like to give and receive. But my girl dont like giving. She can receive until she cannot tahan and want me inside her. I also can paint her the whole morning and rest and continue painting. She know if I want her cow girl me. She will be lazy and lie on the bed receiving and just keep Cumming until she feel very very tired. I dont mind not receiving as I respect her. She have some throat problem also. So I can understand fully. But sometimes. I need to receive also. I need someone to help me blow. How..:(.

If she got throat problem, why can't just use tongue.
Guys enjoy tongue action also ma. Can combine tongue and hand.
Also don't need deep throat all the time ma.



Another reason why girls don't like to receive cuz guys don't give the girl chance to clean up first.
The part is not external like guys, and it's covered over by hair. So when you pee and sweat, the hairs and skin folds may retain the pee and sweat. It may or may not smell, but the girl feels dirty.

How to let her lover eat dirty stuff right?

[drifand]

Same here. I like to give and receive. But my girl dont like giving. She can receive until she cannot tahan and want me inside her. I also can paint her the whole morning and rest and continue painting. She know if I want her cow girl me. She will be lazy and lie on the bed receiving and just keep Cumming until she feel very very tired. I dont mind not receiving as I respect her. She have some throat problem also. So I can understand fully. But sometimes. I need to receive also. I need someone to help me blow. How..:(.

Is a bit of a shame if a girl loves receiving and she doesn't do the same. As much as I know some bros say I respect her decision etc..... I say it out now, the love relationship or sexual relationship won't be as exciting and may not last. Reading your post, it sures says, I need to be blown, and if your gf is not doing it then you going to suffer later.

It is also up to the guys, I have known some guys who don'tlike to be blown which to me sounds gay.lol but thats just an opinion.

For me once I experience cim, there is no turning back. I always test my girl by "accidentally" cim and say sorry, say "I can't control, your blow job is too good." always compliment to give a good excuse. this way you also can see her reaction. If her reply is 'Is it? you like?" you know she probably is a keeper. If the reaction is she just goes to toilet and spit out and scolds you then you know where you are at.

Sounds bad, I know but if you do not like test water then you will never get your own satisfaction.

I played with some of the girls who once experienced my cim I would actually delibrately not cum and make them suck for long periods some can go on for 30 minutes most would probably be tired. Some would actually "Game On" they know you delibrately not cumming they would suck on and on and won't give up. I even met one cock teaser who sucks till she knows you about to cum she will stop, and let your cock go down and suck again and tease and stop until she had enough she makes you cum.

I be quite frank here, if oral sex is important to you and you are currently in a relationship where your girl is not willing then you are in trouble. Very likely you end up in Geylang for a session.

[tong_tong]

Exactly. My wife doesn't like me going down there at all, although we always clean ourselves up before our sessions. She always say that oral sex is not clean. She enjoyed it when I gave it to her, but she just doesn't want to do it anymore. Probably she kept thinking about the higher risk of throat cancer if you are actively engaging in oral sex.
Why can't she understand that guys will have a greater sense of satisfaction if they can satify their partners in bed?

If she got throat problem, why can't just use tongue.
Guys enjoy tongue action also ma. Can combine tongue and hand.
Also don't need deep throat all the time ma.



Another reason why girls don't like to receive cuz guys don't give the girl chance to clean up first.
The part is not external like guys, and it's covered over by hair. So when you pee and sweat, the hairs and skin folds may retain the pee and sweat. It may or may not smell, but the girl feels dirty.

How to let her lover eat dirty stuff right?

[TyLa_BaBy]

Exactly. My wife doesn't like me going down there at all, although we always clean ourselves up before our sessions. She always say that oral sex is not clean. She enjoyed it when I gave it to her, but she just doesn't want to do it anymore. Probably she kept thinking about the higher risk of throat cancer if you are actively engaging in oral sex.
Why can't she understand that guys will have a greater sense of satisfaction if they can satify their partners in bed?

Maybe you should let her know how important it is to receive BJ? She is your wife leh, and your relationship should last a lifetime. If you're always left feeling something is missing, it can't be good for the marriage. :(

Oral sex will have higher risk of throat cancer?! Zhun boh? In any case everyone will die sooner or later, might as well go out with a bang right? (pun intended) Eat sugar also might get diabetes, so she totally abstain from it?

Sorry ah, I get very pekchek when I hear that ppl's wives are like that. Here I am wanting to give BJ but my husband often don't even let me finish with CIM (cos after that he cannot 2nd round and don't have time/energy have sex often). Then your case... really is *sigh*. Marriage is hard. (Pun not intended.)

[JOGK]

hohoho I am lucky
All swallow them so far
many complained my cum too much to swallow
even call gals said my cum is alot:D

[n30n]

Exactly. My wife doesn't like me going down there at all, although we always clean ourselves up before our sessions. She always say that oral sex is not clean. She enjoyed it when I gave it to her, but she just doesn't want to do it anymore. Probably she kept thinking about the higher risk of throat cancer if you are actively engaging in oral sex.
Why can't she understand that guys will have a greater sense of satisfaction if they can satify their partners in bed?

I know her fears for throat cancer, but for her to limit it to just one sex is unfounded.

Throat cancer due to oral sex is caused by HPV virus from below passed onto the mouth.
If you read up on HPV, it's also the same thing that caused cervical cancer. Females can be a carrier, and show symptoms later. Males can too be a carrier and barely show any symptoms.
For ladies, that's where PAP smear comes to check for HPV in their down there, for guys i don't know what procedure they'll do.
Can google more on HPV virus.

So what makes her think it's alright for you to give her, yet not alright for her to give you? If the strain of HPV is present with either of you, there already may be a chance that the virus could already be activated in both of you.

If she so worried about HPV, go do PAP smear. If not, you can shoot one of her paranoia down.
If not, get a flavoured condom to start with.

[JOGK]

maybe let her try with cap on first
At least it's cleaner she might feels:D

[TyLa_BaBy]

Throat cancer due to oral sex is caused by HPV virus from below passed onto the mouth.
If you read up on HPV, it's also the same thing that caused cervical cancer. Females can be a carrier, and show symptoms later. Males can too be a carrier and barely show any symptoms.
For ladies, that's where PAP smear comes to check for HPV in their down there, for guys i don't know what procedure they'll do.
Can google more on HPV virus.

If she so worried about HPV, go do PAP smear. If not, you can shoot one of her paranoia down.
If not, get a flavoured condom to start with.

Oh, so that's how one gets throat cancer from oral sex? But in this case they are married leh. I'm sure they also have had unprotected sex, so what's the deal with unprotected oral sex?? I'm sure he doesn't put clingwrap over his wife's pussy before licking...

Sorry if I sound unsympathetic about the situation. Just hate it when people make excuses.

By the way, flavored condoms are still gross and still taste like latex... You never tried before? :p

[n30n]

No, i don't like latex in my mouth.
But i heard people use it for oral LOL

If flavoured ones are no good for the mouth, what's it for?

[Banelement]

Same here. I like to give and receive. But my girl dont like giving. She can receive until she cannot tahan and want me inside her. I also can paint her the whole morning and rest and continue painting. She know if I want her cow girl me. She will be lazy and lie on the bed receiving and just keep Cumming until she feel very very tired. I dont mind not receiving as I respect her. She have some throat problem also. So I can understand fully. But sometimes. I need to receive also. I need someone to help me blow. How..:(.

i feel you bro. but in my case its worse.. in the early stages my girl would let me do it for her but now she totally doesnt want to let me; saying stuff like she feels its very dirty and all cause its near e pee hole and stuff. and as for blow...i only managed to get her to try it once, and it was only for say, 5s? and it was more of me moving than she blowing. and ever since then, i have never been able to convince her to try again :( i did explain to her that its impt to me cause bj is after all a guy's greatest pleasure but even when i say hopefully after marriage you'll try she just says NO, cause it feels wrong and cause she thinks its dirty AGAIN. btw, i wash everytime really thoroughly just to try to get her to even lick it. so why???:confused:

so damn frustrating...:mad:

[hentaihunter]

Btw, can i ask how to give oral to my gf?
i mean wat shud i do when i got down there?
nvr give b4 but received many times..

coz i duno how :p

[hentaihunter]

hey bro, can teach me wat to do when i got down to my gf's mei mei?
i dunno how ler..

she always give me .. sometimes wan give her oso dunno how.

[TyLa_BaBy]

No, i don't like latex in my mouth.
But i heard people use it for oral LOL

If flavoured ones are no good for the mouth, what's it for?

For the smell when you go fast and furious! hahaha
But the flavored ones really talk cock one lah. Mostly smell no taste one.

[Longer123]

Hey guys,

I really didn't expected so much replies just a simple post on oral sex. But from what I observed and saw we guys should really go for a check up on HPV virus. Anybody know anything about it for guys? Any doctors in the house?

Longer123

[TyLa_BaBy]

Btw, can i ask how to give oral to my gf?
i mean wat shud i do when i got down there?
nvr give b4 but received many times..

coz i duno how :p

hey bro, can teach me wat to do when i got down to my gf's mei mei?
i dunno how ler..


For both you "cunnilingus virgins", I gave some "instructions" here on Page 2 of this thread: http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=6961579&postcount=27

Don't just say don't know how. Google "how to pleasure your woman" also will give you plenty of results. Google is your answer to (almost) everything.

[RedOmega]

For the smell when you go fast and furious! hahaha
But the flavored ones really talk cock one lah. Mostly smell no taste one.

Why the rubber? Between bf/gf or hubby/wife no trust? How about feel?

[silentman1]

hey bro, can teach me wat to do when i got down to my gf's mei mei?
i dunno how ler..

she always give me .. sometimes wan give her oso dunno how.

follow your feeling :D

[oeinster]

Hi Hi Tyla Baby, how have u been

[TyLa_BaBy]

Why the rubber? Between bf/gf or hubby/wife no trust? How about feel?

I don't use rubber what. I'm allergic to the spermicide or latex of most brands – especially Durex. I was just replying to the brudder who suggested ask the wife to BJ with rubber on. If wanna rubber then BJ for what lor...


Hi Hi Tyla Baby, how have u been

Do I know you?

[n30n]

i feel you bro. but in my case its worse.. in the early stages my girl would let me do it for her but now she totally doesnt want to let me; saying stuff like she feels its very dirty and all cause its near e pee hole and stuff. and as for blow...i only managed to get her to try it once, and it was only for say, 5s? and it was more of me moving than she blowing. and ever since then, i have never been able to convince her to try again :( i did explain to her that its impt to me cause bj is after all a guy's greatest pleasure but even when i say hopefully after marriage you'll try she just says NO, cause it feels wrong and cause she thinks its dirty AGAIN. btw, i wash everytime really thoroughly just to try to get her to even lick it. so why???:confused:

so damn frustrating...:mad:

When you give her, did you let her wash up first?
This step is very important for a girl who's hygiene conscious.
Then must always assure her that there's no funny smell or taste.
Say it taste good or smell good, so she won't scared the fluid is awful.

Before she blow you, did you wash up too?
Did you ask why she don't like? Is it a smell issue or a psychological issue that all genitals are dirty?
Guys usually don't get to smell their own didi, so they won't know that it smells bad.

If it's a smell issue, it may not be removed in just one wash.
My bf always ask me to check after wash. If still got smell, wash 2nd round. If can't remove, then no bj on the head.

For smell wise, it may reside under the fold of the skin, so wash that area well. Remove all the white gooey stuff there.
If it's in the peehole, you need to drink more water. Make sure your pee is those diluted type, as in not very concentrated yellow.
Eat more veggies and greens. Eat lesser food that has a strong smell, like seafood, curry, asparagus, coffee, junk food to reduce body fluid smells.

[RedOmega]

[COLOR="DarkOrchid"]
I don't use rubber what. I'm allergic to the spermicide or latex of most brands – especially Durex. I was just replying to the brudder who suggested ask the wife to BJ with rubber on. If wanna rubber then BJ for what lor...

Sorry sorry me not referring to you. :p

[Banelement]

When you give her, did you let her wash up first?
This step is very important for a girl who's hygiene conscious.
Then must always assure her that there's no funny smell or taste.
Say it taste good or smell good, so she won't scared the fluid is awful.

Before she blow you, did you wash up too?
Did you ask why she don't like? Is it a smell issue or a psychological issue that all genitals are dirty?
Guys usually don't get to smell their own didi, so they won't know that it smells bad.

If it's a smell issue, it may not be removed in just one wash.
My bf always ask me to check after wash. If still got smell, wash 2nd round. If can't remove, then no bj on the head.

For smell wise, it may reside under the fold of the skin, so wash that area well. Remove all the white gooey stuff there.
If it's in the peehole, you need to drink more water. Make sure your pee is those diluted type, as in not very concentrated yellow.
Eat more veggies and greens. Eat lesser food that has a strong smell, like seafood, curry, asparagus, coffee, junk food to reduce body fluid smells.

I strongly believe its psychological for her. cause intially there was this fishy odour the first few times I tried and I did tell her to remember to clean when she bathes. and yes I always make sure I wash before I ask her for bj and I dry any precum off too incase she finds it gross..but sadly, I think the mental block for her that oral contact w genitals is just wrong and dirty is really hard to get over. I have not gotten anything close to even just tongue action since :( I really have no idea how to convince her man...

[hcg_explorer]

The problem is,she can't suck well & I don't feel shiok :D

Bro.. how about licking ? I think the feel will be better if she licks till u almost cum then suck...

how u think bro...

[Hurricane88]

I strongly believe its psychological for her. cause intially there was this fishy odour the first few times I tried and I did tell her to remember to clean when she bathes. and yes I always make sure I wash before I ask her for bj and I dry any precum off too incase she finds it gross..but sadly, I think the mental block for her that oral contact w genitals is just wrong and dirty is really hard to get over. I have not gotten anything close to even just tongue action since I really have no idea how to convince her man...

play AV on your laptop and watched together...:)

coerced her to try do it with the AV in the background...:)

dun be surprised after sometime...she wants to try all the patterns in the AV...then you earned it lo...:)

[hcg_explorer]

Why the rubber? Between bf/gf or hubby/wife no trust? How about feel?

Bro, it's not a matter of trust. Rubber is not only for STD protection... prenancy thats concern... I also not confortable using rubber but somehow after 1 incident, have better becareful. NOT TO GOOD to go for abortion too many times for girls. For guys no harm but we have to consider for girls especially if she is ur GF or wife.

[acidicavex]

I think some gal no matter how you coer them they will not mean no. Try it before all sorta of excuse will come end up your dicky will go flaccid from the excuses.

[drifand]

I think some gal no matter how you coer them they will not mean no. Try it before all sorta of excuse will come end up your dicky will go flaccid from the excuses.

+1
Avoid such girls if you have high sexual needs. I have heard from a friend before and to me is just shocking and depressing.

For those who are in a relationship and you are in this boat, I seriously ask you to be real mindful of your future sex life, because you think "I love her" etc....and in the end married and you find yourself fuck up because you need this urge of someone to blow and your wife doesn't do it. Is shit. You probably end up having an affair, or get some geylang fucks that include bbj which in turn way more dangerous then having a girl who will do you as you like. I believe it is the same both ways as well.

I had a indoneasian chinese fb who had an ang moh bf but didn't lick her properly. So when I did it for her she was just over the moon and let me cum in her mouth every single time even though she spits it out but at least willing to bbj and let me cum in her mouth.

I do not believe in one sided sex life regardless she is the most chio girl you have met, means jack all to me. I rather sleep with a plum girl willing to be adventurous.

[ah rat]

Bro.. how about licking ? I think the feel will be better if she licks till u almost cum then suck...

how u think bro...

Ok, I ask her to lick me tonight :p

[n30n]

I strongly believe its psychological for her. cause intially there was this fishy odour the first few times I tried and I did tell her to remember to clean when she bathes. and yes I always make sure I wash before I ask her for bj and I dry any precum off too incase she finds it gross..but sadly, I think the mental block for her that oral contact w genitals is just wrong and dirty is really hard to get over. I have not gotten anything close to even just tongue action since :( I really have no idea how to convince her man...

Hmmm, then you need to think if she try hard to consider your needs.

Somehow, our society is rather conservative.
Girls are taught that sex and genitals are disgusting so to prevent them from losing their chastity anyhow.
For those girls who have high sex drive, eventually there's some identity crisis, and they'll grow to accept themselves.
For those girls who are more "obedient" they rather stick to cultural rules, stay "pure", and stay ignorant to this aspect of life.
For some girls, marriage may be the green light for them to be open minded for this.
But for some girls, their conservative mindset is already engraved in their bones, thus no change after marriage.

Since this culture rules thing is ingrained from young, you need to talk with her about sexual expectations in a relationship. Is she intending to keep till marriage, how she intend to explore her own body, or is she totally going to ignore the carnal pleasures in life?

[TyLa_BaBy]

Hmmm, then you need to think if she try hard to consider your needs.

Somehow, our society is rather conservative.
Girls are taught that sex and genitals are disgusting so to prevent them from losing their chastity anyhow.
For those girls who have high sex drive, eventually there's some identity crisis, and they'll grow to accept themselves.
For those girls who are more "obedient" they rather stick to cultural rules, stay "pure", and stay ignorant to this aspect of life.
For some girls, marriage may be the green light for them to be open minded for this.
But for some girls, their conservative mindset is already engraved in their bones, thus no change after marriage.

Since this culture rules thing is ingrained from young, you need to talk with her about sexual expectations in a relationship. Is she intending to keep till marriage, how she intend to explore her own body, or is she totally going to ignore the carnal pleasures in life?


+1000!

It's shocking that despite the amount of sex depicted everywhere in a modern society like ours, there are still some women who have been raised to believe that sex is purely for procreational purposes and not recreational. For such women, BJs are something absolutely unnecessary due to its "purposeless nature" and often, disgusting. And sadly, it is truly difficult to override that mentality.

[francined69]

I think some gal no matter how you coer them they will not mean no. Try it before all sorta of excuse will come end up your dicky will go flaccid from the excuses.

under normal circumstances, these girls will not want to do oral sex.

but if they are tipsy, they become more relax and may be game to try new things. once the mindset is changed they are more willing to try new things like oral sex :D

[wondergal]

Only enjoy giving if it's clean and odour free. It makes me more turned on to see his expression too, and also when his thing keep "jumping".

Receive of course enjoy la. But sometimes i feel self conscious about down there, so i won't let him do it for to long.

So totally agree when it's clean and odour free but sometimes it can't be helped when unprepared or unplanned. I have tolerated some but not all. It's pleasing to me to see that I can please the man, and as he gets hard and long, I want to him inside.

[wondergal]

i tried a new trick when i was licking my gf pussy. while licking, i cup my mouth n her pussy lips n blew hot air into her pussy. immediately she was stunned by the feeling of warm air filling up her pussy. shiok she said.

Ohhh.... Interesting.... :)

[muscleboi]

there's one night my ex naughtily went down on me :p i got a shock and cof her :D

after that night, she will blow me every time after i lick her mei mei and I kind of believe raw bj is a really good foreplay. Every time when we don't have enough time for the full sex, i will ask her to bj me. Then that never fails to get me high for a quickie :D at times she will let me cim and then spit on the tissue. the only prob is she will get tired easily..I dont think each bj last for more than 5 minutes

but I still miss her bj~ she's the first who ever blew me.


I will always go down on her. hahah..guess its male mentality. I will always paint her until she can't take it and say, "ohh ohh put it inside me..I can't take it anymore..I want it inside.."

[wondergal]

Both giving and receiving.... If they gal is shave or trim even best no need have loose hair stick to the tongue.

Doesn't matter male or female I think shaved or trimmed hair down there is more comfy to oral. Hair gets into mouth and nose.

[ahkang]

there's one night my ex naughtily went down on me :p i got a shock and cof her :D

after that night, she will blow me every time after i lick her mei mei and I kind of believe raw bj is a really good foreplay. Every time when we don't have enough time for the full sex, i will ask her to bj me. Then that never fails to get me high for a quickie :D at times she will let me cim and then spit on the tissue. the only prob is she will get tired easily..I dont think each bj last for more than 5 minutes

but I still miss her bj~ she's the first who ever blew me.


I will always go down on her. hahah..guess its male mentality. I will always paint her until she can't take it and say, "ohh ohh put it inside me..I can't take it anymore..I want it inside.."

same my girl will beg me to f*ck her after a good lick

[Banelement]

Hmmm, then you need to think if she try hard to consider your needs.

Somehow, our society is rather conservative.
Girls are taught that sex and genitals are disgusting so to prevent them from losing their chastity anyhow.
For those girls who have high sex drive, eventually there's some identity crisis, and they'll grow to accept themselves.
For those girls who are more "obedient" they rather stick to cultural rules, stay "pure", and stay ignorant to this aspect of life.
For some girls, marriage may be the green light for them to be open minded for this.
But for some girls, their conservative mindset is already engraved in their bones, thus no change after marriage.

Since this culture rules thing is ingrained from young, you need to talk with her about sexual expectations in a relationship. Is she intending to keep till marriage, how she intend to explore her own body, or is she totally going to ignore the carnal pleasures in life?

yep youre right about the conservative mindset. she comes frm a very traditional family so the whole pre-marital sex acts thing is a big no-no. but well, passion has since overcame such values but she still is very against the idea of pre-marriage sex. never got to finish the 'act' and more of like a few minutes and she'll push away and say stuff like 'this is very wrong and she doesnt wanna get preg and all'. well i did suggest cd but dont think she's agreeable as well, once again w the 'this is wrong' reason.

for sure i know that this 'ban' on sex will be lifted after marriage, but as for the oral sex part, i m really unsure :( she used to say 'even after marriage also no.' but after repeated pleas she has agreed to 'try her best'. well for one i know previously she did try her best to overcome the whole barrier of bj but now we havent been trying for almost a yr and i think she is totally comfortable w the no-oral sex lifestyle. she's fine w hj and sex but its a big no-no for bjs:(

now the qn i pose to myself is, if she is serious about no bjs for the rest of my life, can i live w it? :confused::confused:

sigh.

[wondergal]

at times she will let me cim and then spit on the tissue. the only prob is she will get tired easily..I dont think each bj last for more than 5 minutes

I will always go down on her. hahah..guess its male mentality. I will always paint her until she can't take it and say, "ohh ohh put it inside me..I can't take it anymore..I want it inside.."

Blowjobs are really tiring especially to grip tightly and move the tongue and also our head Try it yourself on some guy and you will know. Using hand to stroke helps but I know most guys want lips around their dick doing the stroking. Appreciate that she tried and did.

[lucaspkm]

Doesn't matter male or female I think shaved or trimmed hair down there is more comfy to oral. Hair gets into mouth and nose.

agree lah trim or shave or wax is easier for both party i shave myself...and my gf love it when is newly shave.

[Banelement]

Blowjobs are really tiring especially to grip tightly and move the tongue and also our head Try it yourself on some guy and you will know. Using hand to stroke helps but I know most guys want lips around their dick doing the stroking. Appreciate that she tried and did.

true dat. must appreciate that they r even willing to try..sigh.

[Lumiere7]

Hmmm, then you need to think if she try hard to consider your needs.

Somehow, our society is rather conservative.
Girls are taught that sex and genitals are disgusting so to prevent them from losing their chastity anyhow.
For those girls who have high sex drive, eventually there's some identity crisis, and they'll grow to accept themselves.
For those girls who are more "obedient" they rather stick to cultural rules, stay "pure", and stay ignorant to this aspect of life.
For some girls, marriage may be the green light for them to be open minded for this.
But for some girls, their conservative mindset is already engraved in their bones, thus no change after marriage.

Since this culture rules thing is ingrained from young, you need to talk with her about sexual expectations in a relationship. Is she intending to keep till marriage, how she intend to explore her own body, or is she totally going to ignore the carnal pleasures in life?
Good analogy... But I think it's also down to the girls character..

From experience with the conservative and not so adventurous girls who have virgin mouths, i would take the imitative to give them a blowjob if they are unwilling to go down for me...


So far, only the ones who have selfless character would be willing to blow me back..

When I asked them how come they were it to do it.. They replied because they want me to enjoy too... They see that I don't mind the disgusting part, so they overcame it too

[Ha79]

Problem is that my wife now dun give me bbbj ever since we got married.....:(
before married, she used to give me bbbj .....

[Lumiere7]

Problem is that my wife now dun give me bbbj ever since we got married.....:(
before married, she used to give me bbbj .....
Did she give the reason?

[n30n]

yep youre right about the conservative mindset. she comes frm a very traditional family so the whole pre-marital sex acts thing is a big no-no. but well, passion has since overcame such values but she still is very against the idea of pre-marriage sex. never got to finish the 'act' and more of like a few minutes and she'll push away and say stuff like 'this is very wrong and she doesnt wanna get preg and all'. well i did suggest cd but dont think she's agreeable as well, once again w the 'this is wrong' reason.

for sure i know that this 'ban' on sex will be lifted after marriage, but as for the oral sex part, i m really unsure :( she used to say 'even after marriage also no.' but after repeated pleas she has agreed to 'try her best'. well for one i know previously she did try her best to overcome the whole barrier of bj but now we havent been trying for almost a yr and i think she is totally comfortable w the no-oral sex lifestyle. she's fine w hj and sex but its a big no-no for bjs:(

now the qn i pose to myself is, if she is serious about no bjs for the rest of my life, can i live w it? :confused::confused:

sigh.

Does she know how serious it's getting?

Even without bj, are there still consistent intimacy?
If yes, you still got chance, like can play the sex dice game or some app game. Those games that suggest what sex moves you do for your partner. Use those to determine your intimate action. Rig it that she always tio bj.

[muscleboi]

Blowjobs are really tiring especially to grip tightly and move the tongue and also our head Try it yourself on some guy and you will know. Using hand to stroke helps but I know most guys want lips around their dick doing the stroking. Appreciate that she tried and did.

I really appreciate it very much. there're a couple of times she will try new techniques of using tongue when my dick is in her mouth and I feel damn shiok. I will also learnt new positions and give her more pleasure.

[maxman]

Problem is that my wife now dun give me bbbj ever since we got married.....:(
before married, she used to give me bbbj .....

Hah! Sorry to say this but it sounds like you got conned.

[drifand]

Problem is that my wife now dun give me bbbj ever since we got married.....:(
before married, she used to give me bbbj .....

Better man up and do something about it, let her know you miss it or sex life will die. A lot of girls simply do not know how important is oral sex to guys. Granted some guys in the minority hates it but most of use need it.

Stupid thing in your situation is she doesn't know how bad it becomes when you finally decided to go geylang to get back the experience which imo has cause your relationship to slip apart.

To me door swings both ways, I know some girls dont like to be licked and some who gotten licked love it to death, is also how you give it to them. I suggest teasing them not going straight to the pussy, alway tease the sides and yes the warm air blowing does create an effect. when she doesnt notice lick her suddenly to give her the shoik and watch her body shake. then tease again and attack licking the pussy again. You find that she may cum real fast.

All in all a lick job can be as tiring as a bj.

[missychloe]

Hi all, i am new to this thread. Have been reading up SBF for few weeks and this is my 1st posting. :)

Guys like oral sex? Such as BJ and BBBJ? the only difference is with or w/o caps on right?

Hmm for me, I like to suck and lick my bf for easily 10-20mins everytime before we are into action. Does guys really enjoy it so much?

Yeah, I like oral sex, maybe to provide and receive? haha

[TyLa_BaBy]

Problem is that my wife now dun give me bbbj ever since we got married.....:(
before married, she used to give me bbbj .....

Sad to say, but there are women who "false advertise" themselves in order to keep a man. But once married, they no longer feel a need to keep up with it because already hooked you "for life" liao mah. (There are men who are like that also hor.)

On the other hand to be fair, is it because you guys have kids and she no longer has energy/time to pleasure you? Or maybe it's because you guys no longer go paktor so she doesn't get in the mood to be naughty?

[sean69]

Ok, I ask her to lick me tonight :p

wooo.. are we talking about ass rimming??!!! :D

[sean69]

yep youre right about the conservative mindset. she comes frm a very traditional family so the whole pre-marital sex acts thing is a big no-no. but well, passion has since overcame such values but she still is very against the idea of pre-marriage sex. never got to finish the 'act' and more of like a few minutes and she'll push away and say stuff like 'this is very wrong and she doesnt wanna get preg and all'. well i did suggest cd but dont think she's agreeable as well, once again w the 'this is wrong' reason.
.

something i came across once...... Is it still considered as pre-marital sex if you have no intention of getting married ?? :D :D

[bugmenot]

something i came across once...... Is it still considered as pre-marital sex if you have no intention of getting married ?? :D :D

It's "extra-marital" then. :D

[tong_tong]

Better man up and do something about it, let her know you miss it or sex life will die. A lot of girls simply do not know how important is oral sex to guys. Granted some guys in the minority hates it but most of use need it.

Stupid thing in your situation is she doesn't know how bad it becomes when you finally decided to go geylang to get back the experience which imo has cause your relationship to slip apart.

To me door swings both ways, I know some girls dont like to be licked and some who gotten licked love it to death, is also how you give it to them. I suggest teasing them not going straight to the pussy, alway tease the sides and yes the warm air blowing does create an effect. when she doesnt notice lick her suddenly to give her the shoik and watch her body shake. then tease again and attack licking the pussy again. You find that she may cum real fast.

All in all a lick job can be as tiring as a bj.

Dude, I remember reading an article somewhere that blowing air into her pussy can be dangerous... Something related to blockage of blood stream, or something like that which can cause stroke or death. The risk is small, though.

[maxman]

Somehow, our society is rather conservative.
Girls are taught that sex and genitals are disgusting so to prevent them from losing their chastity anyhow.
For those girls who have high sex drive, eventually there's some identity crisis, and they'll grow to accept themselves.
For those girls who are more "obedient" they rather stick to cultural rules, stay "pure", and stay ignorant to this aspect of life.
For some girls, marriage may be the green light for them to be open minded for this.
But for some girls, their conservative mindset is already engraved in their bones, thus no change after marriage.


I agree with you on this. Whether it's factual or anecdotal, Asian women have always been more conservative (than western women), and many will remain uptight about sex for many years, even a few decades, into the future, especially if their parents continue to protectively conduct their child-raising in traditional attitudes. It can't be helped since every parent wants their children, perhaps more so for daughters to be safe and chaste when young and immature. However, the problem will always present itself across most cultures where men will actively and even cunningly seek and procure sex. Sex is among the top most important emotional needs of a man, just as women need attention and affection as much to be emotionally fulfilled.

[muscleboi]

[COLOR="DarkOrchid"]Sad to say, but there are women who "false advertise" themselves in order to keep a man. But once married, they no longer feel a need to keep up with it because already hooked you "for life" liao mah. (There are men who are like that also hor.)

it's so hard to find out if the girl/guy is doing false marketing. we can only at most use telltale signs to guide us in decision making. though sex is not everything in marriage life but it's a huge portion in marriage life among sex-abled couples.

[RealEstateGuy]

Braddah both my high class maid FB and CBC expat FwB enjoy giving oral sex. Braddah with my high class maid FB I normally don't eat. But with my CBC expat FwB was hard to get her started Braddah. Braddah i found the way to initiate it was to 69. Braddah, now she really enjoys giving head so BJ comes naturally for her.

[TyLa_BaBy]

Dude, I remember reading an article somewhere that blowing air into her pussy can be dangerous... Something related to blockage of blood stream, or something like that which can cause stroke or death. The risk is small, though.

The small risk is only present if the woman is pregnant. Otherwise, no harm done blowing into vagina as far as I know.


I agree with you on this. Whether it's factual or anecdotal, Asian women have always been more conservative (than western women), and many will remain uptight about sex for many years, even a few decades, into the future, especially if their parents continue to protectively conduct their child-raising in traditional attitudes. It can't be helped since every parent wants their children, perhaps more so for daughters to be safe and chaste when young and immature. However, the problem will always present itself across most cultures where men will actively and even cunningly seek and procure sex. Sex is among the top most important emotional needs of a man, just as women need attention and affection as much to be emotionally fulfilled.

Well said! Great creampie avatar, by the way. LOL


it's so hard to find out if the girl/guy is doing false marketing. we can only at most use telltale signs to guide us in decision making. though sex is not everything in marriage life but it's a huge portion in marriage life among sex-abled couples.

That's why must carry out intensive test drive prior to marriage? :p

[n30n]

Dude, I remember reading an article somewhere that blowing air into her pussy can be dangerous... Something related to blockage of blood stream, or something like that which can cause stroke or death. The risk is small, though.

http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/blowing-air-vagina-dangerous

Sometimes this air thing doesn't only get in during blowing. I heard fisting and inserting large toys inside may contribute to this problem.

I think if you blow gently, it won't be harmful. If if you blow hard like blowing balloon, then you clamp the hole shut, that's where the problem comes in.


To test drive or not, i think it depends on the individuals.
Most importantly, it's a heart to heart talk on expectations in a relationship.
It's a matter of honesty and trust.
If she personally feel that she enjoys, there'll be no issue.
But if she doing for doing's sake, that spells trouble.
Nothing can get a girl more addicted than having a fun and exciting experience.

[maxman]

Well said! Great creampie avatar, by the way. LOL


Thank you. That's how I like it.

[Banelement]

Does she know how serious it's getting?

Even without bj, are there still consistent intimacy?
If yes, you still got chance, like can play the sex dice game or some app game. Those games that suggest what sex moves you do for your partner. Use those to determine your intimate action. Rig it that she always tio bj.

yep there is. we still do the rest of the stuff except oral sex ;) i actually asked if she was really not intending to enjoy the carnal pleasures of life and all she said was, 'not yet'. well i guess this has become a basic 50-50 game of chance. if im lucky, after marriage things will change and she will become more adventurous. but if i suay, things stay the same..but at least for the other forms of intimacy she's totally fine w them la..not all is lost :D

if only i can convince her to try the 'whole package'..sigh:rolleyes:

[Ha79]

Sad to say, but there are women who "false advertise" themselves in order to keep a man. But once married, they no longer feel a need to keep up with it because already hooked you "for life" liao mah. (There are men who are like that also hor.)

On the other hand to be fair, is it because you guys have kids and she no longer has energy/time to pleasure you? Or maybe it's because you guys no longer go paktor so she doesn't get in the mood to be naughty?

sis, u quite true in the kids part.....:(

ever since we have kids, she din give it to me even i requested for it.....

[FarAway]

Hmm how about making the idea of a bj more appealing to gals for starters? :p Any good suggestions to increasing the chance that a gal will wanna or ok to do bj?

I guess its sometimes it's the taste, otherwise it's the conservativeness nature... :(

Or simply just the lack of alcohol :D

[Shadow_warrior]

Braddah both my high class maid FB and CBC expat FwB enjoy giving oral sex. Braddah with my high class maid FB I normally don't eat. But with my CBC expat FwB was hard to get her started Braddah. Braddah i found the way to initiate it was to 69. Braddah, now she really enjoys giving head so BJ comes naturally for her.

@REG

Braddah, its quite possible the smell and juices you are eating is some other guys semen. For example some random Braddah she picked up fuck your FB raw then one hour later you offer to eat her pussy Braddah. Braddah, and she dun decline as like to be eaten. Braddah, so you go like mad man slurping up the juices thinking you making her wet Braddah. Braddah, sure enough she is wet but mixed with her juices is another Braddah's cum. Braddah, even worse is the other Braddah maybe few hours before fucking you FB raw also fucked a gal from GL raw Braddah. Braddah, and the GL gal had been fucked all day raw by more than 10 guys Braddah. Braddah and one of those guys bisexual and fucked a Thai Lady Boy up the ass raw that same day Braddah. Braddah, the point is you eating lots of stuff and its quite nasty Braddah. Braddah, and this has been going on for over a year Braddah.

I thought I would return you your advice braddah- so apt for you....

[Hawke]

Hmm so with my gf having fishy smell at her virginia does not indicate anything of her health right?? Cos I have ex gfs but all no smell.. but my current gf's have quite strong smell and it can turn me off to lick her at times.. how??

[PussyFinder]

Hmm so with my gf having fishy smell at her virginia does not indicate anything of her health right?? Cos I have ex gfs but all no smell.. but my current gf's have quite strong smell and it can turn me off to lick her at times.. how??

Bro,

Dun worry too much. It may be some viral infections where every woman will have if proper hygiene is not maintain.

[Shadow_warrior]

Can be a yeast infection if it's whitish discharge

Or if it's itchy and it's makes you itchy and moist it's maybe jock itch

Needs to see doctor

Also regular usage of female washing lotion

[n30n]

Hmm how about making the idea of a bj more appealing to gals for starters? :p Any good suggestions to increasing the chance that a gal will wanna or ok to do bj?

I guess its sometimes it's the taste, otherwise it's the conservativeness nature... :(

Or simply just the lack of alcohol :D

Do it in the bathroom, best if got bathtub.
Can play with water and everything else.
Confirm no taste.

Alcohol is also a good idea, but don't get her too drunk, or ur didi will drown in puke.

[n30n]

Hmm so with my gf having fishy smell at her virginia does not indicate anything of her health right?? Cos I have ex gfs but all no smell.. but my current gf's have quite strong smell and it can turn me off to lick her at times.. how??

If she have other symptoms like burning sensation during pee, painful sex, itchy privates, bring her to a doctor.

If not, ask her drink more water, buy cranberry supplements for her, buy plain yogurt for her, buy lactacyd feminine wash for her.

[bellagerger]

Maybe ask her to consult doc to get (neo penotran pessary). Sometimes is jus fungal or bacteria that cause the werid smell. Nothing serious.

If she have other symptoms like burning sensation during pee, painful sex, itchy privates, bring her to a doctor.

If not, ask her drink more water, buy cranberry supplements for her, buy plain yogurt for her, buy lactacyd feminine wash for her.

[FarAway]

Do it in the bathroom, best if got bathtub.
Can play with water and everything else.
Confirm no taste.

Alcohol is also a good idea, but don't get her too drunk, or ur didi will drown in puke.

Having bathtub is a luxury woh, house usually wont have bathtubs.. only hotels have higher chance.. my dream house must fit a bathtub into the master toilet :D

[Shadow_warrior]

Hmm how about making the idea of a bj more appealing to gals for starters? :p Any good suggestions to increasing the chance that a gal will wanna or ok to do bj?

I guess its sometimes it's the taste, otherwise it's the conservativeness nature... :(

Or simply just the lack of alcohol :D

try fingering her and sucking her nipples, when she going to orgase

sit up by her face, and let her suck your cock

It works for me, when the girl is cumming, they want to suck your cock....

heh heh....

[FarAway]

try fingering her and sucking her nipples, when she going to orgase

sit up by her face, and let her suck your cock

It works for me, when the girl is cumming, they want to suck your cock....

heh heh....

Wahaha this I haven try.. gotta test it man now that you say :p

[ave_joe99]

Problem is that my wife now dun give me bbbj ever since we got married.....:(
before married, she used to give me bbbj .....

Hrmm, sorry to hear about your situation, but pre-marriage, was BBBJ an alternative to FJ as she wanted to keep sex till after marriage or..?

Similarly to Banelement, my long-time ex is quite conservative in nature, due to family upbringing/ beliefs. She wasn't particularly adventurous sexually, though she did enjoy sex, she did give me BBBJs but I think she did find oral sex kinda "dirty" and would often stop or give up after a few mins, saying she's tired/jaw ached. In more than 8 years together, I think she only let me CIM once (well, she did swallow too) and she didn't like me goin down on her, citing it's not clean or whatever, and being a gentleman, I wouldn't force any girl to do anything they didn't want to.

The key thing is really discussing with your gf and deciding in the worst case scenario, would you be able to live with it. If all other aspects of life with this lady is good, besides the fact that you might not get a BBBJ outta her after marriage, would it be an ultimate deal-breaker?

If you say, worst case, go outside look for WL/FL/FB to satisfy it, then, should seriously think again about the future with her.. Just my humble 2 cents. In my case, it ultimately wasn't why my ex and I broke off, but I would be lying if I said I didn't think it might be an issue if we had settled down and gotten married as initially planned.

I must say, there's hardly a better turn-on for a guy then to be awakened by your partner wrapping her lips around your rod with a cheeky/lusty look on her face!

[Sirrus]

i enjoy giving as long if the girl is worth it?

[maxman]

I must say, there's hardly a better turn-on for a guy then to be awakened by your partner wrapping her lips around your rod with a cheeky/lusty look on her face!

I'm with you on this! I couldn't agree more.

[wondergal]

try fingering her and sucking her nipples, when she going to orgase

sit up by her face, and let her suck your cock

It works for me, when the girl is cumming, they want to suck your cock....

heh heh....

This sounds like a good start to turn on women and get us in the mood to be dirty. Personally it is effective to me. When I get horny I want the man's penis inside me anywhere.

[uglygirl]

My bf only receive but don't give, disappointing eh. Never tried before:(

[n30n]

My bf only receive but don't give, disappointing eh. Never tried before:(

Did you wash yourself out clean?
Make sure no smell?

Is that area hair free?
Guys like it hair free cuz it's makes the job fuzz free.

[QQBoy]

I enjoy as long as he is the one I love ;)

[QQBoy]

I mean she.... heh heh

[kokochan]

I love giving but dont really get a chance to because my partner somehow dont like BUT she does seem to enjoy.

Giving also the same. she dont really like to give. damn sian feeling to always ask for it and she says ulcer tired no mood :(

what i did a few times was when we quarrel, i deliberately act like im very angry and act as though im sleeping but although i really fell asleep most of the time :D i get awaken by bjs. the feeling super song :p

[uglygirl]

Did you wash yourself out clean?
Make sure no smell?

Is that area hair free?
Guys like it hair free cuz it's makes the job fuzz free.

Ya brazilian, ex have no prob with that. Maybe some guys not comfortable:(

[Ha79]

Ya brazilian, ex have no prob with that. Maybe some guys not comfortable:(

mine is totally different from you, i willing to give but my wife is not so willing...:(

[dasreich]

I like going down south ...

As long as we keep clean .

[Asia1]

Ya brazilian, ex have no prob with that. Maybe some guys not comfortable:(

find one comfortable with your liking, otherwise regret for life :D

I like to lick a clean pussy, and let her sit on me

[FarAway]

I love giving but dont really get a chance to because my partner somehow dont like BUT she does seem to enjoy.

Giving also the same. she dont really like to give. damn sian feeling to always ask for it and she says ulcer tired no mood :(

what i did a few times was when we quarrel, i deliberately act like im very angry and act as though im sleeping but although i really fell asleep most of the time :D i get awaken by bjs. the feeling super song :p

Ya I think it's a conflicting feeling some gals have.. they enjoy it but doesn't like to have it often, like they feel that it's dirty down there or it's too kinky... but when u flick the beans she gets high and sure looks like shes enjoying it.

And for giving bj, also same, don't like to give. Dont seem to understand that we all enjoy it so much it's so impt for us! :D

[local24f]

Hi Ladies,

How many of you actually enjoy oral sex? I meant both receiving and giving it. I have received oral sex and knowing the girl enjoying it brings much pleasure into it. I was wondering and trying to know if it is seeing the person who is receiving it from you brings more pleasure or the other way around. Anyway I trully enjoy oral sex both receiving and giving provided the other party's pussy looks clean and doesn't smell. Anyway I am straight and not gay. So no gays pls.



Me me me!! Lol.. So long both of us is clean, i like giving n receiving.. But to choose between kena finger or painting.. Sometimes i like being fingered somewhat roughly.. Keke.. :o

[LooseCannon]

local24f, so when can i finger and paint you? :D

Me me me!! Lol.. So long both of us is clean, i like giving n receiving.. But to choose between kena finger or painting.. Sometimes i like being fingered somewhat roughly.. Keke.. :o

[illusions]

Blowjobs are really tiring especially to grip tightly and move the tongue and also our head Try it yourself on some guy and you will know. Using hand to stroke helps but I know most guys want lips around their dick doing the stroking. Appreciate that she tried and did.


I totally agree about appreciating. One of the best feeling about recieving a bbbj from my gal, even though it might not be as out of the world as some sbf brothers describe, is knowing that she is doing for me cos she loves me. Unlike during sex, where the pleasure is mutual, when a gal does a bbbj, she has to put ur cock into her mouth, and it surely gets tiring as wondergal pointed out. And we like the gal to use her mouth to stroke us instead of her hand, and some guys even like their gal to kneel or squat down on the floor.

And why is she willing to do something that only results in your pleasure when u could have a similar pleasure in a mutual way in during sex. I think she's doing it only cos she loves u and she is excited doing it only cos it makes u feel good.

even though it sounds depraved, yet love is something where u and your partner are willing to give of something to the other even at your or her expense.

[ave_joe99]

even though it sounds depraved, yet love is something where u and your partner are willing to give of something to the other even at your or her expense.

Good point, if its between a couple (and not paid or FB) there should be appreciation to what our partners do for us, especially if they do something (like BBBJs) for us which is against their normal inclinations, but do it coz they know we enjoy it, and so they do it anyways. /respect!

[Xwing]

mine is totally different from you, i willing to give but my wife is not so willing...:(

me too, she refuse and reject all my approach, even I told her I love painting.

[ionu]

i'm okay to be on the receiving end.
but not the other way round , the thought of her being fucked by other men in the past simply turns me off.

[nedy77]

My wife gives me blow jobs for 2 reasons( I am just guessing)

1: keeps me away from paid sex outside
2: she like to see me in ecstasy as it turns her on


On certain days she even licks my asshole. The only things she doesnt like is CIM coz she doesn't like the thick sperm "stucked" in her throat. We known each other for almost 10years and she only gave me CIM two times(both time high on Alcohol).... Although she tried to blow me at every sex session, sometimes I reject coz I just want to go inside her soon

[FarAway]

My wife gives me blow jobs for 2 reasons( I am just guessing)

1: keeps me away from paid sex outside
2: she like to see me in ecstasy as it turns her on


On certain days she even licks my asshole. The only things she doesnt like is CIM coz she doesn't like the thick sperm "stucked" in her throat. We known each other for almost 10years and she only gave me CIM two times(both time high on Alcohol).... Although she tried to blow me at every sex session, sometimes I reject coz I just want to go inside her soon

Man, you are so lucky.... :D

[Hurricane88]

My wife gives me blow jobs for 2 reasons( I am just guessing)

1: keeps me away from paid sex outside
2: she like to see me in ecstasy as it turns her on


On certain days she even licks my asshole. The only things she doesnt like is CIM coz she doesn't like the thick sperm "stucked" in her throat. We known each other for almost 10years and she only gave me CIM two times(both time high on Alcohol).... Although she tried to blow me at every sex session, sometimes I reject coz I just want to go inside her soon

haha...very good wife...wish you and your beloved enjoy much more...:)

[5ag1_Boar]

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i tried a new trick when i was licking my gf pussy. while licking, i cup my mouth n her pussy lips n blew hot air into her pussy. immediately she was stunned by the feeling of warm air filling up her pussy. shiok she said. kekekeke

...

Errr... blowing air into the vagina is DANGEROUS!!!

It may be rare situation, but I don't think any one of us wants appear in the news as the guy who killed the gf/wife/mistress by blowing air into her vagina.

Read: http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/blowing-air-vagina-dangerous

[yabayaba]

Good point, if its between a couple (and not paid or FB) there should be appreciation to what our partners do for us, especially if they do something (like BBBJs) for us which is against their normal inclinations, but do it coz they know we enjoy it, and so they do it anyways. /respect!

do agree, my girl will always give me a bbbj, before we do actual sex, sometimes after blowing for a while I will stop her and massage her jaws, I will take turn to paint her back