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lonereth
11-12-2011, 08:46 AM
I'm not sure are the guys here facing the same issue? As in when your other half or gf, makes you cum, after that you lost your mood. Do you face that? How to improve?

superk92
11-12-2011, 09:54 AM
cannot be helped, you're born lidat 1, too bad

guowei8
11-12-2011, 10:06 AM
Weak la you

justl00king
11-12-2011, 10:11 AM
No such prob, I'm a horny dude so once not enough. :p

But don't think there's anything wrong. just do once everyday is still fine. :)

X_plorer
11-12-2011, 10:14 AM
It's all depend on ur the other partner and your mood also.. Most of the time is one shot, that's it..

When you are in the mood and ur partner is a expert.. I think you will be gone sia.. No need to walk liao.. Too weak to walk..

Dun tell me you never do more than 3 -4 times or more before?

chris_lee_85
11-12-2011, 10:16 AM
I think u bonk her till very boring... Maybe u can try asking her to wear smth sexy to turn u on...

outtalove
11-12-2011, 10:39 AM
Ask you then, what if you are bonking a fling or fb instead? Also one shot?

Sometimes you are too bored of your other half, so try to spice things up a little

Rasta Marley
11-12-2011, 11:54 AM
Hmm....my view is that everyone has his off day. Sometimes, you will have no difficulty is cumming more than twice during your session; I have ever cum 4 times in the space of 2 hours. However, there will be times when you struggle to cum even once, and after cumming for the first ime, you will feel like a spent force and will just be unable to do it anymore for that day.

I think it could also be related to mental stress if you had a bad day at work/home which could translate into impacting your sex life. No 2 people will have the same experience. Just sharing my views.

feral888
11-12-2011, 12:02 PM
Does that happen when you do it with another woman?

I enjoy sex so once is never enough.

astonn
11-12-2011, 01:35 PM
normally after my first shot, of cos like dame tired liao, but if my gal simulate me again i will stand and have a second go.
if there no simulation, i think i will just wrap up and end game liao.
Last time i did it with i was like 23yr old, with my wife then, 5 shot in 2 hr. after that i was really drain. she happy i dead

CaptNeeda
11-12-2011, 04:05 PM
When I was in my early twenties , 3 shots also not a problem but as I grow older , now can only manage to have one shot.

deptrai4u
11-12-2011, 07:49 PM
I'm not sure are the guys here facing the same issue? As in when your other half or gf, makes you cum, after that you lost your mood. Do you face that? How to improve?

Try taking raw oysters 1h before the session.. i tried but confirmed does not work 100%... i ate 8 oysters and only 5 of them worked...:rolleyes:

pro.d.igy
11-12-2011, 09:55 PM
For me, after the 1st shot, I don't lose the mood so soon. Perhaps it's psychological issue for you. Why not try to pinpoint the reason why your mood is gone so soon? :)

LovePotion
12-12-2011, 02:24 AM
Same, the second shot is like doing for the sake of doing it.

Thats why i drink red bull and use performance condom to delay my climax so that i have enough energy to wack all the way.

ajlover
12-12-2011, 09:40 AM
Sometimes I game over in 1st round in few mins when I get too excited.. can get hard on the 2nd round, but 99% of the time, I cant shoot anymore... so the gal just will song song enjoy the fuck...

Once my ex told her, her other bf can cum 7x in 3hrs... knn... i felt such a loser.. fucked her a few times, too pressurised to stay hard... even have to jerk off in the morning in order to stay hard longer....

These days old liao.. one shot one kill... game over for the day (and next 2 days too) :(

Kraves
12-12-2011, 02:21 PM
Try approaching sex as a form of mutual pleasure where both parties gain. When you're spent, muster up some energy and continue pleasuring your girl. Fingers, mouth (lips), teeth, hands: Use them on your girl's erogenous zones. Bring her to climax over and over again if she's able to cum multiple times.

For guys, we might feel like tossing in the towel when our soldier has emptied his load, but hey, at least try to pleasure her with your hands and mouth, and not your penis.

But of course, if you are really spent, then let it be known to your girl that the game's over if you really don't want to carry on the lovemaking. When there is mutual understanding and good communication, only good things can happen. :)

silkypussy
12-12-2011, 02:59 PM
Dear All

I am not an expert on Men. But I had an experience to help prolong the sexual pleasure and also erection.

My exBF was like that. He was a 1 shot person and it was frustrating for me, because I am a double orgasm girl. I mean, I will usually have a first tiny orgasm and the second one which takes longer to activate, also gives me the longest and deepest pleasure.

Unfortunately for me, my exBF is not a marathoner in bed. He usually can hold off only until after I cum.

A few months into our sexual relationship, I realise I can prolong his erection even after he had cum. And so I could ride him for the second round until I have my second orgasm.

My technique is simple enough. After he comes, I make sure i clean him off with a warm wet towel. I will continue to tease him, but not directly at his penis... More towards his nipples and his face and ears.

More often his erection is now semi-hard, but not fully flat. I find after a few nice sensual tugs, his blood gets repumped back into his tool.

The other sure way that works is a blowjob.

Hope that helps.

LovePotion
12-12-2011, 03:16 PM
Hmm.... good info. However, most people will still prefer to rest first before starting second round.

Otherwise, most guy could hardly walk after several rounds straight in a row

Apocalypse
13-06-2012, 12:20 PM
how many shot dun need to count. happy more shots. tired then less shots. its how u enjoy and she enjoy and not how many shots.

this question asked so many times here le. to last longer, u just need to squeeze on your pc muscles so that when u cum, u dun release sperm. so that u get the cum sensation but u dun lose vital energy. and your girl will be in for a surprise when u finally unload. :D

Deesiaokia
13-06-2012, 01:00 PM
IMHO, as I m getting old, I prefer quality than quantity, 1-2 good round of sex is good enuff for me even if my partner is hot n wild . I will make sure I satisfied her first then I satisfied myself. Cos I strongly believe if a guy can make his partner satisfied she will also return him the favour by making him song song GAO jurong.. :D

maxman
13-06-2012, 01:22 PM
Sexual performance and appetite are closely linked to stress and exhaustion, and also age, of both men and women. Younger men with more energy, lesser work stress and lesser life concerns would tend to have little difficulty having a second or third round in the sex act. Younger men also have a shorter recovery time between each ejaculation.

maxman
13-06-2012, 01:24 PM
Try approaching sex as a form of mutual pleasure where both parties gain. When you're spent, muster up some energy and continue pleasuring your girl. Fingers, mouth (lips), teeth, hands: Use them on your girl's erogenous zones. Bring her to climax over and over again if she's able to cum multiple times.

For guys, we might feel like tossing in the towel when our soldier has emptied his load, but hey, at least try to pleasure her with your hands and mouth, and not your penis.

But of course, if you are really spent, then let it be known to your girl that the game's over if you really don't want to carry on the lovemaking. When there is mutual understanding and good communication, only good things can happen. :)

Well said advice!

slicker
13-06-2012, 05:22 PM
Nowadays old liao... Oso 1 shot per session. But few mths back, me n wifey make out on a sat morn. Who knows after dinner while showering, wifey gets too touchy and we had a second round in the bathroom. Nite time, my boy suggested to me saying:"daddy, can i sleep with u n mummy. U r the biggest(size), so u sleep on the left, mummy medium(size) sleep center then i smallest size, sleep on the right." So while my wife was back facing me patting my boy to sleep, i rub rub her bums and slowly me get erected. Then i use 1 hand to unclasp her bra while another hand slither into her pyjamas to find her love hole. Boy! She was damn wet. I Tweak her nipples and finger her at the same time. She was really high but she had to control her breathing n moans as our boy is not deep in sleep yet. Anyway hack care her and pull down her pyjamas, position myself behind her and start ramming her... The fear of waking up the little boy and oso coz she is restraining her moans really turns both of us so high that we finished it off within 10mins in that position! I came and she too came twice...

So, wat i am tryin to say is, with the right touch, right atmosphere, things can get pretty hot and yes... I can do it twice in 1 and 1/2 hrs n thrice in a day! Btw, i m nearing 40 liao...

Record during our twenties was from sat evening all the way thru out the nite till the next day noon was 7 rounds... Totally spent, legs wobbly, joints aching, but mood happy...:D

AC_Milan
13-06-2012, 05:36 PM
I'm not sure are the guys here facing the same issue? As in when your other half or gf, makes you cum, after that you lost your mood. Do you face that? How to improve?


you must train to masturbate everyday so that you can last super long in future. Once you reach that stage definitely your girl will love you forever, remember must masturbate everyday to train your didi to last longer ;)

frostiee
13-06-2012, 05:43 PM
This is happening to me as well... Regardless of ex gf or FB... I've only managed to cum twice perhaps only 3~4 times in my entire life...

I can endure for quite a long period of time but not able to cum multiple time. Max is 2hrs average 30~45mins. How on earth are you guys able to cum twice? After the initial shot.. I am pretty much wasted... Have no mood nor feel to continue for the second round...

Even if the girl managed to get me hard again... It is very very hard for me to cum... No feel at all... How?!

epicureanp
13-06-2012, 08:00 PM
Maybe you're not into her enough... for me depends a lot on the gal.

When I was with my FB years ago... she was such a good fuck and I was so into her. I get stiff and start drooling through my pants just standing next to her. She's multi orgasmic and I macham felt like the duracell bunny during our sessions. Even after doing her 5 times straight I felt like I didn't pleasure her enough. Actually it was quite stressful in the beginning coz cum fast and scared cannot satisfy.

After a while it was better coz more used to her and no performance anxiety but kena accused of not turned on by her any more. Wah lau!

Anyway relax and try different things. I'm sure you can get horny again and perform if the mood is right.

cupid
13-06-2012, 10:10 PM
IMHO, as I m getting old, I prefer quality than quantity, 1-2 good round of sex is good enuff for me even if my partner is hot n wild . I will make sure I satisfied her first then I satisfied myself. Cos I strongly believe if a guy can make his partner satisfied she will also return him the favour by making him song song GAO jurong.. :D

well said bro, as we ages. quality plays more important roles :D

netjumper
13-06-2012, 10:19 PM
It is not how many shot you cum to measure how good the sex is ... it is how good the one shot is =)

One of my buddy told me and I find this so funny but true, so I have to share ... "Sex is in the mind, the rest are friction" :D

chnhubby71
20-06-2012, 06:02 PM
Bro sometimes in sex you need mutual stimulation to keep it going for hours of GREAT sex with each others. Whether we are young or OLD it will still works.

yandaoking
21-06-2012, 12:20 AM
I used to be a 2 minute man when I was in my 20s but I made it up to my partners by doing more rounds to make sure she got orgasm. As getting older, the recovery time is longer and I got pressure from my partners that they lost the fire and urge before I was ready to go for second round.

The turning point is that I was seconded to Tokyo for work assignment. I had my first bonk with Japanese gal a week after touching down Tokyo. She was my fellow colleague and she was a very horny gal in her mid 20s. We made love once every day and more on weekends. I had improved my lasting power gradually. I returned Spore for holidays after 3 months and my ex spore GF was very surprised that I turned into a different man in bed.

I am a middle age man now so I can usually go for only 1 round in 90 minutes with FLs. I usually use up almost an hour for my first round including a 10-15 minute foreplay session. With that, I do not need second round to get my job done.

So.... just fuck more and you can be a better man.....

Blakkie
21-06-2012, 12:37 AM
Maybe you're not into her enough... for me depends a lot on the gal.

When I was with my FB years ago... she was such a good fuck and I was so into her. I get stiff and start drooling through my pants just standing next to her. She's multi orgasmic and I macham felt like the duracell bunny during our sessions. Even after doing her 5 times straight I felt like I didn't pleasure her enough. Actually it was quite stressful in the beginning coz cum fast and scared cannot satisfy.

After a while it was better coz more used to her and no performance anxiety but kena accused of not turned on by her any more. Wah lau!

Anyway relax and try different things. I'm sure you can get horny again and perform if the mood is right.

I have to agree. With different gfs I feel like my mood and lasting power varies. I've been with a girl where I dont necessarily need to come to feel satisfied, but also been with a girl where she makes me cum 2-3 times and I still want to f her senseless...

Anyway it also depends on how you view sex. Is it for pleasure for yourself? For intimacy? Or just something you happen to be doing?

I find sometimes it's good to focus on pleasuring the girl. Besides, seeing a girl cum uncontrollably because of you is one of the most arousing things in the world. It certainly keeps me going for a few more rounds!

Good luck!

iron_symphony
21-06-2012, 01:04 AM
I think its a matter of how much you want her.

If you really want to do it more than once, I'm quite sure your body can keep up. I'm still in my mid twenties so I normally have about 3 shots on average. But I do agree the mood and what she does/wears helps sometimes.

Camel
22-06-2012, 11:40 AM
I think its a matter of how much you want
her.

Unfortunately age also plays a part like for me :(

RajiniKanth
27-06-2012, 11:59 AM
Unfortunately age also plays a part like for me :(

Agreed bro, its the same for me as well :(

eeemen
27-06-2012, 02:14 PM
With age comes quality rather than quantity for me!! Guess old man like me can't perform like Duracell anymore!! Keke cheers n happy bonking bros ...........

cosco
27-06-2012, 04:11 PM
With age comes quality rather than quantity for me!! Guess old man like me can't perform like Duracell anymore!! Keke cheers n happy bonking bros ...........

nv say nv and its all in da mind
for guys, age doesnt really matters when u put yr mind to it

sexcalculator99
29-06-2012, 02:14 AM
With age comes quality rather than quantity for me!! Guess old man like me can't perform like Duracell anymore!! Keke cheers n happy bonking bros ...........

When young, 2-3, 4 times in a session is possible. But cum faster, unable to control well and most of the time the partner never achieve climax.

Now more mature, 1 time each session, but duration longer each time and other half get the fun.

the usual sex don't excite me that much nowadays. Exploring new stuff makes me more horny than usual and able to keep the blood running. anything like more-to-love woman, small tits- the nearly flat kind, 3some, 4some. outdoor. Fetish..

rivergame
29-06-2012, 02:58 AM
I can share my exp too

Normally only come 1, or at most 2 times. I remember one FB said she nearly "dropped" me becos I cum too fast and too few times. That was the 2nd time itch her. And she always bragged about her ex-FB who made cum 8x once but then never repeat again. Somehow but dunno why the 3rd, I manged to last and made her cum 11x before I finally shot. And also was able to repeat a few times. Never hit 11, but a few times hitting 8-9x, and many times 5-6x. When she got sticky, I dropped her.

pcw7447
29-06-2012, 04:28 AM
Folks,

Two yrs ago when am 37, tried once 8 shots as she is tooo hot and young... 20yrs old..

Till now still can't forget... now, normally only 2-3shot..

jeff1010
29-06-2012, 09:34 AM
Really not a problem for me. I can come 3-4 time in one night. But I can be hard full night and full day so still can play and please my girl. I only soft for 5 min than if my gf, fb or what ever sTart playing with my didi I become hard again.

High Standard
29-06-2012, 05:56 PM
Normally One shot or more than one depend on who u have sex with.. I m a married guy.. I always have sex will my wife n normally is a one shot affair.. But recently I meet a girl from Ktv.. N I spend a whole day wit her celebrated her birthday n we stay in a hotel.. During our time in hotel we have sex 9 times.. N few day later we meet n spend 4 hours in a hotel again having 4 times of sex.. So I feel is all depend on who yr sex partner is..?

angrybigpenis
29-06-2012, 08:43 PM
Normally One shot or more than one depend on who u have sex with.. I m a married guy.. I always have sex will my wife n normally is a one shot affair.. But recently I meet a girl from Ktv.. N I spend a whole day wit her celebrated her birthday n we stay in a hotel.. During our time in hotel we have sex 9 times.. N few day later we meet n spend 4 hours in a hotel again having 4 times of sex.. So I feel is all depend on who yr sex partner is..?

Have you tried role play, bro? My and my regular FB always try different things and places....once we went overseas and did it in the open field next to the cabin. The feeling of grass on your skin and the chilly air really feel shiok. :p

And we did it in an adult toy shop....we used the changing room on the spur of the moment and later bought quite a bit of toys - it was late at night and only had few customers so I think the counter girl didn't mind much.

wally888
29-06-2012, 11:45 PM
Normally One shot or more than one depend on who u have sex with.. I m a married guy.. I always have sex will my wife n normally is a one shot affair.. But recently I meet a girl from Ktv.. N I spend a whole day wit her celebrated her birthday n we stay in a hotel.. During our time in hotel we have sex 9 times.. N few day later we meet n spend 4 hours in a hotel again having 4 times of sex.. So I feel is all depend on who yr sex partner is..?

Bro, dun overstretch your limit. My friend overwork now got problem.....back to One Shot ! Worst, cum very fast.....:eek: :D

callmebad
29-06-2012, 11:53 PM
not sure about your age
if you're a teenager, you can cum more than once a day
but as you grow older, if you can 'stand up' and cum is good enough already

after a guy cums, the time he can cum again (which is the refractory period) varies from individual to individual

some guy can cum again very fast, while others can only cum maybe on next day

if you can squeeze off one round and hit the target,is good enough already lah

don't force yourself by any means or taking Viagra, this will spoil your body in the long run

instead of trying to fire off so many shots like a GPMG, must as well, give it the one best shot, act like a sniper, squeeze off one round, hit the target and run

do it slow and steady (prolonged foreplay), make it mutually satisfying to you and your woman

if you shoot too much, your woman may not be able to tahan also, she can get sore down there

BoinKING
30-06-2012, 01:32 AM
I also one shot then die liao..
but i make sure she dies until surrender first then i cum.

Sometimes she die liao have to service ownself.. quite sad but it works.

reborne
30-06-2012, 03:55 AM
Normally One shot or more than one depend on who u have sex with.. I m a married guy.. I always have sex will my wife n normally is a one shot affair.. But recently I meet a girl from Ktv.. N I spend a whole day wit her celebrated her birthday n we stay in a hotel.. During our time in hotel we have sex 9 times.. N few day later we meet n spend 4 hours in a hotel again having 4 times of sex.. So I feel is all depend on who yr sex partner is..?

yeah totally agreed , when having different bonk kakis is a world of different

TedDibiase
13-07-2012, 03:33 AM
Bro sometimes in sex you need mutual
stimulation

Quite true about this as well

Lexus118
13-07-2012, 08:46 AM
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You can Do 3-4 times:D:
Negative point is your Heart may not take it and you COLLAPSE from Heart Attack;)
Thats What People Call, DIE COCK STANDING!

comics00
13-07-2012, 10:01 AM
This kinda thing varies for man to man lah. For my case so far depend on 2 factors, sex partner & aging.

Unlike in my younger days, now m usually max 1 shot a day. During my teens to early 30's ammo was almost like unlimited, record was 6 shots a nite (~6hr) there was once a short 4day 3nite trip up north my gf & me was humping like mad 4~6 shots daily after which we like avoided sex for almost a week. Through mid-late 30's thing started going downhill, can get 3shots a nite very happy liao. Until ~2yrs back sometime with correct partner & setting still can do atleast 2 consecutive shots humping non stop over an he but nowadays sight...old liao. Even with new syt partners also take >2hr to ready 2rd. Few mths back brought my 19yo fb to sentosa & I only manage 1shot after checking into Shang @2pm, 2nd shot ~11pm & 3rd shot b4 check out @12pm next day. In-between them I was limp, can hardly have any erection even when she tried bbbj me during shower :(

With wife, now usually 1 shot per day/days. Sometime if the setting is rite, may go for 2rd but I may not cum, just stay erected to satisfy her, sometime deploying my reserve force, my most trusted fingers. So to avoid an unsextify wife, I will always vary my style & speed holding my shot till she has a cum or 2 b4 I go for the kill.

NotoriousBig
20-07-2012, 06:03 AM
Have you tried role play, bro?

I tried this before, does not seem to help much at all :(

MultiOrgasGuy
20-07-2012, 08:14 AM
how many shot dun need to count. happy more shots. tired then less shots. its how u enjoy and she enjoy and not how many shots.

this question asked so many times here le. to last longer, u just need to squeeze on your pc muscles so that when u cum, u dun release sperm. so that u get the cum sensation but u dun lose vital energy. and your girl will be in for a surprise when u finally unload. :D

I agree with this. I use this same technique.

Used to do multiple shots in one night, up to 5 or 6 shots, but its too exhausting. After mastering full control over my PC muscle, i dont need to do multiple shots anymore. Just one shot, but I prolong it over a few hours of love-making, 2-3 hours without ejaculating. Take a short coffee break or toilet break and continue 2nd round, still without ejaculating. I dont need to focus on ejaculation, instead i always focus on pleasuring my partner until she gets her orgasms, again and again. I usually hold back ejaculating for 2-4 days, so I am able to satisfy my love partner many times over. I dont take any drugs, herbs or apply any medication. I always do it raw with my exclusive love partners.

Choice of love partner does matter and it affect my performance. I prefer the hot horny girl who enjoys sex, and likes to have lots of sex to get her multiple orgasms. Age does not affect me as i am still performing well now in my early forties as i was 10-20 years ago. I am still having sex usually 1-3 times daily. When on a holiday, I can make love 6-12 times a day or more, depending on my sex partner. I can prolong each sex session for 2-3 hours without ejaculating.

some_
21-07-2012, 06:49 AM
actually if you cant get us into the mood or high enough then one shot thats it is good enough and dont ask for too much :p

InternetPimp
25-07-2012, 03:33 AM
If you want you can try something called gambir sarawak. What it does it
helps prolong the ejaculation process.

I usually get it from http://gambir.99k.org or http://gambir.byethost22.com

What it basically does is prolong process so that atleast the first shot will not
come out too fast, so your mood will still be there atleast for the first shot.

My 2 Cents :)

The gambir from the above looks good, will probably try it soon :D

Camel
17-08-2012, 06:50 AM
Ku ku jio Hard like Metal Rod, Can Break Mrt Glass!!


HoHoHo :D :D :D

sideswapu
17-08-2012, 08:01 AM
TS.. go slow.. :D

risingeast
17-08-2012, 11:24 AM
With the right girl and mood, best I did was 4 times in a day. With not the right girl, can try and try until totally exhausted, also cannot do 1 shot. The girl also got angry.
Now I concentrate more on love-making and making it more pleasureable for my partner, and if she enjoy, I enjoy. From her response, and reactions, and her soft satisfied look, I felt more happy that way.

Red Blood Cell
17-08-2012, 12:06 PM
It really depends on during this 1 shot how good & how long the duration. I always like 1 shot & let my ex FB rest. cos my ex fb enjoy so much in that 1 shot, sometime she will even ask to me to stop. I am a man that will make the gal cum till she squirt, my ex fb don't know how to squirt but my training makes her a squirter nw bed is always so wet no plc to lay down.

But now things is diffrent my new gal, figure hot! Pretty face!
Problem come, this kind of body & face.. I am proud my 1 shot always good & long.. Let her enjoy BUT Problem is she 1 shot not enough will keep juicing me for more... Looking at tis kind of body & face how can don't give her again.

Good thing she don't squirt at all like my ex. Bad thing is I super tired can fuck for hours.

happyguy1234
17-08-2012, 09:41 PM
It really depends on during this 1 shot how good & how long the duration. I always like 1 shot & let my ex FB rest. cos my ex fb enjoy so much in that 1 shot, sometime she will even ask to me to stop. I am a man that will make the gal cum till she squirt, my ex fb don't know how to squirt but my training makes her a squirter nw bed is always so wet no plc to lay down.

But now things is diffrent my new gal, figure hot! Pretty face!
Problem come, this kind of body & face.. I am proud my 1 shot always good & long.. Let her enjoy BUT Problem is she 1 shot not enough will keep juicing me for more... Looking at tis kind of body & face how can don't give her again.

Good thing she don't squirt at all like my ex. Bad thing is I super tired can fuck for hours.

wow bro u're like a real pro... tts the advantage when u need to satisfy a horny girl. i feel that sometimes there is no need to shoot... and theres no real need to force 'it' to completion... alot of guys think that shooting is the shiok part but in fact it shouldnt be...i believe u can equally have great sex and not end it by shooting.

callmebad
18-08-2012, 01:15 AM
as age slowly catches up,it's normal that after one shot, that's it, whether you hit the target or fire bobo

a way to overcome this is to delay your orgasm or ejaculation

below are 3 methods you can consider:

When you feel like you're about to explode with pleasure, apply pressure to your perineum (that area between your anus and scrotum) with your fingers. The reasoning behind this is that, because the prostate gland contracts and expands during orgasm (that's why it's considered the male G-spot), and then expels the ejaculation fluid, pressing on the perineum congests the flow. You can apply the pressure yourself or ask your girl to do it.

When you feel the sensation of orgasm approaching, lightly tugging on your testicles (they tend to rise closer to the body when you near orgasm) can delay ejaculation. Remember to tug; don't yank.

The most common method men use is pulling out before they reach the orgasm. This method stipulates that men must anticipate the sensation of an impending orgasm. All men can anticipate when they reach orgasm, and at that point, they must stop the stimulation immediately. Keep in mind that every time you pull out to let the sensation pass, you can do other things to keep your woman revving, like oral sex, using your fingers or kissing her.

SluttyGirl
18-08-2012, 01:22 AM
interesting :) but mostly the guys i had all could cum at least 2 times the max a guy could cum in 2 hours will be 4 times.. :)

JohnsonHeng
05-09-2012, 07:02 AM
that's why it's considered the male G-spot

I did not know that males had G-Spot, learnt something new :)

vent
05-09-2012, 10:55 AM
practice prolong method will be better- too many cum in spate of two hour will make u look older age faster.will have weak bone before u grow old.

Shadow_warrior
19-09-2012, 11:22 PM
practice prolong method will be better- too many cum in spate of two hour will make u look older age faster.will have weak bone before u grow old.

yes bro, I study TCM and qigong. what you say is true....

Taoist used to orgasm without shooting....

JohnsonHeng
20-09-2012, 07:11 AM
With the right girl and mood

So true :D

OmarAladeen
26-09-2012, 09:10 AM
Remember to tug; don't yank.

Lol, :D :D

sta1100
26-09-2012, 10:16 AM
eat well, sleep well as for work portion it never can be finish. for me 2x a day still ok

Camel
27-09-2012, 10:08 AM
sometimes in sex you need mutual stimulation


Agreed, this is key as well ;)

PabloEscobar
01-10-2012, 09:10 AM
as for work portion it never can be finish

True, the work side can never finish but must always know how to balance it
so as for it not to overwhelm you ;)

Summerhillt
01-10-2012, 09:28 AM
Try taking raw oysters 1h before the session.. i tried but confirmed does not work 100%... i ate 8 oysters and only 5 of them worked...:rolleyes:

Bro? Eat oyster really got use ah? Like that i go buffet spam the oyster eat finish liao go bonk hahah

tttk3388
03-10-2012, 10:16 AM
For me mood plays a big part, its important to get both you & your partner into the right mood!

Anyway i would prefer quality rather then quantity! :D

comm
03-10-2012, 10:27 AM
Sometimes I game over in 1st round in few mins when I get too excited.. can get hard on the 2nd round, but 99% of the time, I cant shoot anymore... so the gal just will song song enjoy the fuck...

Once my ex told her, her other bf can cum 7x in 3hrs... knn... i felt such a loser.. fucked her a few times, too pressurised to stay hard... even have to jerk off in the morning in order to stay hard longer....

These days old liao.. one shot one kill... game over for the day (and next 2 days too) :(

same problem here too....i after 1 shot have to rest afew days.....otherwise if shoot again will feel damn damn tired

haha...i think grow older is like that 1 lah....no choice

JohnsonHeng
05-10-2012, 10:08 AM
get both you & your partner into the right mood!

Sometimes it does help ;)

freezetheDB
05-10-2012, 07:00 PM
my second round usually can only be activated if my little bro is revived with a nice BBBJ

Putin
12-10-2012, 10:44 AM
Sometimes it does help ;)

True, its does help a little

NetRodent
12-10-2012, 08:41 PM
my second round usually can only be activated if my little bro is revived with a nice BBBJ

I had to agree with this.

A nice BBBJ after the first (with a brief rest), you would probably erect fast for a second round. If you can't, it would probably be the body limitation, but very likely mentality issue.

If one shot is all you could muster, make the best out of it..
Make it last... over 30mins is possible, mental control and momentum helps.
Your gf would love you deep deep if you extend the session.

Tease her with sudden unexpected fast and deep single thrust, she would love it surely...

Long sessions need practise, it can't be achieved overnight.. but it is attainable.. and I had reach skill level 40+ LOL...

Based on my experience, if you want a second round, try to control the first cum, don't shoot, just cum like a ketchup.. but don't hold back the motion.. do it with vigor and speed, the ladies would love it, and probably she would cum as well if you acted well..

After the rest then BBBJ, you will be ready for the real finale.. shoot it off..
Both party enjoyed a longer extended session.

At least, you could do 2x, it would look nice on their scoresheet, and won't put a dent on your ego.

My 2 cents worth..

JohnsonHeng
16-10-2012, 09:00 AM
A nice BBBJ after the first (with a brief rest)

Agreed, its always important to recover :)

Brainstorm
16-10-2012, 09:35 AM
Younger days, I used to be able to go 15-30 mins of sex for each shot. Was never able to cum 5-10 times daily like some of you guys. Even then, 3 shots is the max I can go. Because I tend to last longer, I find it hard to do quickie.

As I age, I realise sex is getting tougher. I no longer have the stamina to do 15-30 mins. I can't cum quickly so even when I cum these days, the high isn't half of what it used to be. Quite often, I fuck until too tired to continue. Tried exercising but the knees are wobbly due to sports injuries. Anyone felt pain in your knees during doggie and missionary?

I realise the penis head isn't as sensitive too as I age. I don't masterbate much so avoiding masterbation isn't going to be helpful. I think it's because I always pull back the foreskin to wash when I shower. End up penis head not so sensitive to touch anymore.

These days... really one shot, that's it.

PabloEscobar
19-10-2012, 10:08 AM
As I age, I realise sex is getting tougher.

Same here as well :o

TheEvilDoer
23-10-2012, 12:06 PM
For me mood plays a big part

These past few weeks i always seem to be in the mood, hehehe :D

Putin
25-10-2012, 11:16 AM
these past few weeks i always seem to be in
the mood, hehehe :D

lol, :D :D :D

LittleKuku
29-10-2012, 10:08 AM
True, the work side can never finish but must
always know how to balance it so as for it not to overwhelm you ;)

Correct balance is important, cannot let work take over your life :)

bitterdurian
29-10-2012, 10:12 AM
Anyone tried Juagen? Does it help?

Sevenstorm
07-11-2012, 11:52 AM
In my 20s, 3-5 rounds confirm no problem, next day reloaded some more and can chiong again.
Sometimes target also not enough, have to DIY the firing.

Now in my my 30s, firing off one round is already a massive achievement, especially after drinking.

Usually 2nd round is too taxing for me, unless the gal super horny and service sibei ho.
The last i did 3 round was in china (gal super chio + service sibei gao + super nice bonk) but the next day i was like a zombie, and that very day go to waste as have to skip all the vice cox no more bullets.

But recently i have been exercising to cut off my beer belly and i notice my performance on bed have increase as well.

Any brothers also have the same experience to share, as in getting fitter to increase performance?

maxkoh80
07-11-2012, 01:18 PM
Viagra maybe? Maybe you masturbate too much, low sperm count.

comm
08-11-2012, 11:11 AM
i have been eating some bu qi stuff that is able to help with this, but expensive at $250 a bottle

overall i feel

1) does give me more energy daily, outside the bedroom
2) more horny...

3) still can only 1 shot, just that not so tired. if i do 2 shots, next day can prepare to slp the whole day

lucifer1215
08-11-2012, 03:31 PM
Hi All bros,
I have seen most of all post, i can only sad tat, u dun need to take medication to last long, Coze it's all mind over sex, when u have sex wit ur another (as 4e younger guy), girl which a new or i shall say a fresh 1, u will sure can stand again.

As 4 e older guy, u really need something to make it harder,i can understand is not as hard as b4, my advice take some Chinese medication, it will help u alot.
And y e reason older age catching up, u will see this problem is Coze, when were young time play too much le..

When I'm young age, i could go 7x 7hr.
When I'm 20s, i could reach 20-25mins, just 1 shot. (still can go 2 or 3 round)
When I'm reach 30s, i could reach half an hr, just to reach my 1st shot (but only can go 1 shot)
And now I'm 40, i also have seen Wat e problem u guys having.
However i could go back to my 20s, as like 20-25 mins can still go for 2nd shot, u wan to know how, i did it?
I still haven't got a chance to try wit young girls again, if not will sure got more info.
I'm not a doctor but just all my past, i do even have a feeling tat can't even stand our lost mood when 1st shot, so i keep asking myself y?
Am i a Gay or wat but after, i try to understand my cock, i find tat musterbed could make me stand hard & cum, so i try all ways, so at last i know Wat is happening..:rolleyes:

Reach me & i will tell u..
Email:
[email protected]

JohnsonHeng
14-11-2012, 11:16 AM
firing off one round is already a massive
achievement, especially after drinking.

I think i am in the same boat as you :(

LittleKuku
16-11-2012, 11:34 AM
Bro? Eat oyster really got use ah?

I think the oyster thing is just a myth :o

LovePotion
16-11-2012, 04:19 PM
I only know if you drink red bull it helps to delay your climax and have a more last long sex

Anyone tried that drink before?

Uzzi
16-11-2012, 06:00 PM
Trained as a sniper.... We are taught to effectively get the job done ...

One shoot, one kill .... :D

Younger days you'll have the thrill of shooting like an M16 or GPMG , nowadays use 50 calibre more effective ... :D

JohnsonHeng
21-11-2012, 10:08 AM
Trained as a sniper.... We are taught to effectively
get the job done ...


Hahaha, i like that analogy :D

henny
21-11-2012, 12:08 PM
I'm not sure are the guys here facing the same issue? As in when your other half or gf, makes you cum, after that you lost your mood. Do you face that? How to improve?

depends, sometimes i super horny, once not enough, i guessing its the mood on that day, but usually once enough le, once i did 6 hours non stop, just once in my whole life lol!! :p

TheEvilDoer
23-11-2012, 11:43 AM
Hahaha, i like that analogy

Same here as well :D

ZondaF
23-11-2012, 12:21 PM
Used the gambir from http://gambir.bugs3.com with an FL last weekend.

The first time i used it, i was able to last around 35 mins. I also
went for a second round with the FL and i was able to last for close
to 20 mins - 25 mins for the second round :)

Also since i also now used it i can also confirm that there is
100% no side effects at all.

All in all a good product recommended for those that have an issue
with lasting longer ;)

Just brought a bottle got to try it out soon and see the effect :D

littlepok
23-11-2012, 01:53 PM
go for quality rather than quantity. women are obsessed with how many times u can cum.

nb 1 good time make u cry father cry mother ask us be bf liao how many times u want haha

PowerfulSmurf
23-11-2012, 04:30 PM
One time shiok shiok go heaven, thats enough for me.

But of course do pre-empt the girl and tell her about it , in case she expecting many rounds of bonking.

Most of us after one round will sian abit, unless the girl is super good service and will entertain us and help us get HARD again...

It take two hands to clap, not one...

If I want her, I make her horny and wet.
If she wants me, she make me horny and hard first lah.

Hahahaha

-la la, la la la

Putin
28-11-2012, 10:44 AM
once i did 6 hours non stop

So long :eek:

JohnsonHeng
28-11-2012, 01:26 PM
Used the gambir from http://gambir.byethost22.com or from
http://gambir.99k.org with an FL last weekend.

The first time i used it, i was able to last around 35 mins. I also
went for a second round with the FL and i was able to last for close
to 20 mins - 25 mins for the second round :)

Also since i also now used it i can also confirm that there is
100% no side effects at all.

All in all a good product recommended for those that have an issue
with lasting longer ;)

The gambir from http://gambir.byethost22.com or http://gambir.99k.org seems good.
Will be getting hold of the gambir from the above soon to try it

MichaelScofield
30-11-2012, 12:15 PM
i guessing its the mood on that day

I guess maybe mood also does play a part :o

LittleKuku
05-12-2012, 11:16 AM
Maybe you masturbate too much, low sperm
count.

I thought sperm is like regenerating, does not matter how much you pcc

omglol
05-12-2012, 12:11 PM
just tried 2 shots in 2 hrs with my scandal

gawd
the whole day feel so tiring and body so weak


everyday work and never exercise :(

GeylangCheong
05-12-2012, 03:38 PM
Is the gambir sarawak site down at
http://gambir.99k.org down? i can't seem to access it

Sometimes its like that, but it usually will be up soon.

The last time i got from the seller he also told me he has a mirror site which is
http://gambir.byethost22.com or http://gambir.99k.org

The mirror sites are working :)

ErosBoss
05-12-2012, 05:58 PM
Mm depends, if it takes like 40 minutes for that one shot to come out, its safe to say you've done a good job holding it in~ number of times you can ejaculate shouldn't be used as a measurement of masculinity, if you can pleasure her to the max with just one shot, that sounds good to me~

Smallfucker
07-12-2012, 10:46 AM
I make sure my missus cums with my tongue, fingers and couple more times while riding before I released...either on her pussy, in her pussy if right after her menses ends, face or cim :)
Thinking about that, been so long didnt cum on her body and tits..maybe tonight? Sorry off topic:D

DarthVader63
07-12-2012, 02:25 PM
everyday work and never exercise :(

Sex in a way is good exercise ;)

corsiar74
07-12-2012, 08:03 PM
Would like to check any bro around the age of 38-40. After the 1st cum, the little bro can up again after rest for about 1 hour?

fictionman
07-12-2012, 10:58 PM
Would like to check any bro around the age of 38-40. After the 1st cum, the little bro can up again after rest for about 1 hour?

I aft 1 shot i lost interest in woman aldy haha...Need at least 24 hrs rest

corsiar74
08-12-2012, 12:15 AM
I aft 1 shot i lost interest in woman aldy haha...Need at least 24 hrs rest

Same here :D could be due to aging? I did noticed that my stamina (ard 38 now) are not as good as younger (18-20) time, now after one shoot like totally out of interest...:eek::mad:

pokagreentea
08-12-2012, 03:12 AM
I aft 1 shot i lost interest in woman aldy haha...Need at least 24 hrs rest

Waaaaa bro same sia.. i cfm KO in bed one. Gf open curtain, the sun shine in or wadsoever i still sleeping. Wake up after ample sleep sometime also blur hahaha
Its like sniper, shoot le main target rtn to base haha

fictionman
08-12-2012, 10:25 AM
I aft 1 shot i lost interest in woman aldy haha...Need at least 24 hrs rest

Once i CIM at a massage parlour, the gal still continue to have my semi hard cock in her mouth, wat was suppose to be a sensational feeling turns out the opposite!!!...Once I hv cum, felt sensitive to her suckin on my cock...She even lick the tip of my cock aft she took it out fm her mouth...It just doesnt felt nice to me rite aft I hv cum & my cock is being touch tt way..I just didnt feel any delight in it haha...I just wanted to run out of there haha..But I dont wat to be seen as a weirdo doin tt...Just force myself to say so nice to her haha...But aft 24 hrs, my horny self is back to its best again...Stimes I wonder am I the only guy who felt this way aft cumming??!!!

pokagreentea
09-12-2012, 01:23 AM
Once i CIM at a massage parlour, the gal still continue to have my semi hard cock in her mouth, wat was suppose to be a sensational feeling turns out the opposite!!!...Once I hv cum, felt sensitive to her suckin on my cock...She even lick the tip of my cock aft she took it out fm her mouth...It just doesnt felt nice to me rite aft I hv cum & my cock is being touch tt way..I just didnt feel any delight in it haha...I just wanted to run out of there haha..But I dont wat to be seen as a weirdo doin tt...Just force myself to say so nice to her haha...But aft 24 hrs, my horny self is back to its best again...Stimes I wonder am I the only guy who felt this way aft cumming??!!!

ermmm before having sex with my gf, somehow i like it when she suck n lick my nipple but after i hav cum my whole body especially the nipple part become super sensitive and will even jump up when she gently twirl ard my nipple. She even complain say i can let her touch how ever long she want on my nipple b4 intercourse but after that canot touchy the nipple le hahaha..
but wad to do my skin suddenly turn sensitive and feel very ticklish ma hahaha

freezetheDB
09-12-2012, 02:20 PM
one shot is better than no shot

most importantly is rest. recover. repeat

pattan19
12-12-2012, 03:18 PM
about 6 to 7 years back, 3 shots 2 hours or so no problem... after rest for about 4 hrs, anther round of 3 in 2 hours... then rest about 2 days before at it again... how i manage, my ex then was quite a playful bunny... first shot always aroused with something smooth and silky feeling, then hj me COB... seconds later again aroused with something smooth and wet feeling, the bbbj me and CIM... thirdly, she hj, bbbj and then let me feel her pussy outside and then i cum CIM again... she knows i like this routine and this went on for a few months to a year every weekend... i was feeling like an old man after a year of that... lucky now i still can make it with 2 shots in about 3 hours... :D

Putin
14-12-2012, 03:06 PM
most importantly is rest. recover. repeat


Correct, resting is very important :)

brobert64
14-12-2012, 03:49 PM
I experienced softness behind entry with FL i met the first time.. is it anxiety issue?

LittleKuku
19-12-2012, 01:53 PM
first shot always aroused with something smooth
and silky feeling, then hj me COB... seconds later again aroused with
something smooth and wet feeling, the bbbj me and CIM... thirdly, she hj,
bbbj and then let me feel her pussy outside and then i cum CIM again... she
knows i like this routine and this went on for a few months to a year every
weekend.

Sounds like your every weekend very fun :D

fictionman
19-12-2012, 02:17 PM
I experienced softness behind entry with FL i met the first time.. is it anxiety issue?

Mayb the FL not tt chio so u didnt feel the shiokness...Anxiety wont arise if the dish is wat u ordered imo

Bernanke
21-12-2012, 03:42 PM
Anxiety wont arise if the dish is wat u ordered

Hard to say because i also very fussy :p

JohnsonHeng
26-12-2012, 01:26 PM
Hard to say because i also very fussy :p

Lol, hahaha :D

4411
26-12-2012, 03:48 PM
For me with CO one shot one kill. But for scandal it's like artilery shelling the ground. I'm in my early 30s. But if capped the barrel will go softy.

Putin
01-01-2013, 10:26 PM
Hard to say because i also very fussy :p

Why you so fussy, hahaha :D

Bernanke
04-01-2013, 03:06 PM
Why you so fussy, hahaha :D

Because i like being fussy :D

Tengkor
10-01-2013, 12:42 AM
one shot is better than no shot


Sometimes we just to have more fun :o

TheEvilDoer
17-01-2013, 02:52 PM
Sometimes we just to have more fun :o

Very true ;)

iojr
17-01-2013, 09:50 PM
in my opinion, it depends on how skilled the girl is.

i once met a girl in a club,
we ended up in a boutique hotel after drinking a few bottles in the club,
she was so skilled, i cummed 4 times in around 3 hours.

AhPeh63
31-01-2013, 03:33 PM
I experienced softness behind entry with FL i
met the first time.. is it anxiety issue?

Depends, is it a one off issue, if not usually means early signs of PE usually.

MichaelScofield
08-02-2013, 03:06 PM
Hard to say because i also very fussy :p

Hahaha, :D

joncheong
08-02-2013, 03:15 PM
Sometimes if you are a many shot man ... It may be very taxing on your pocket... If you are single or your gf is not a horny lady...

My spermies recover at a sonic rate ... So at night two shots with my gf... Wake up morning one shot with her again before she showers and make up for work... Then lunch time will go budget hotel with a colleague fb ... Then dinner time if gf busy will need to go look for fl ... Sad life isn't it? If i dun release i will end up raping my colleagues ... So many chiobus in OL attire where i work

LovePotion
08-02-2013, 10:17 PM
wowww solid man... non stop... bullet wont dry up

HassanalBolkiah
14-02-2013, 04:05 PM
i will end up raping my colleagues

:eek: :eek: :eek:

lynnlammy
15-02-2013, 12:20 AM
I think it's ok! The boys I have experienced only can come 3 times at most also.. .not a lot more. I know it's tiring for guys huh~

iScrew
15-02-2013, 07:51 AM
One shot is perfect. It makes your woman work for it in order to drink your cum. I'm not entirely sure what it means by one shot given the many different opnion and replies in this thread. But for me, after I shoot my first shot, it's not easy getting me to go for the second round immediately. Not impossible, more of a matter of choice. A sex session for me usually last 45mins excluding foreplay. I just don't have the time to go second round immediately. But after rest a few hours or sometimes 1 hour I will be horny(for wahtever reason) and do it again, of course cumming just one time too. A day will usually involve 2-3 sex sessions? But each one time one cum.

I use to be able to do it repeatedly when I was in secondary shool, bonking from my study room to my room to the swimming pool and back up on my bed, literally from morning to night and back to morning again. 10 times not an issue back to back, I even torn my skin of my dickhead and had abrasion on my knee from the constant "half kneeling doggy"

Is that normal lol? tore your dick skin for banging too much:confused:

fictionman
15-02-2013, 09:29 AM
Sometimes if you are a many shot man ... It may be very taxing on your pocket... If you are single or your gf is not a horny lady...

My spermies recover at a sonic rate ... So at night two shots with my gf... Wake up morning one shot with her again before she showers and make up for work... Then lunch time will go budget hotel with a colleague fb ... Then dinner time if gf busy will need to go look for fl ... Sad life isn't it? If i dun release i will end up raping my colleagues ... So many chiobus in OL attire where i work

Bro...I really dont knw to worship u or feel sad for yr gf 😄😄👍👍

But if i were half as good as u in reproducing cum, i would die a satisfied man!!

TheEvilDoer
21-02-2013, 03:33 PM
Is that normal lol? tore your dick skin for banging
too much:confused:

From what i know that usually happens due to lack of lubrication

sony2002
24-02-2013, 04:27 PM
for me i will still stay very hard after i cum, just that lower body will be too tired to move.

so after i cum in her pussy, i will ask my girl to continue BJ me to keep it hard, while i take a rest.

Her BJ is so good that i will have feeling again in less than 5 minutes. We will then continue with round 2...hehe

lovehandles
26-02-2013, 02:30 AM
Most of the time, mine only can shoot once, but depends on the degree of horniness. hehe

sg_boytoy
26-02-2013, 10:47 AM
I managed 4-in-a-day once, she was extra special. Long-haired, slim, full perky C+ and gave a mean BBBJ. CIP, washed up, watched TV, cuddle a bit, repeat X 4. Steam!

Tengkor
28-02-2013, 04:05 PM
From what i know that usually happens due to
lack of lubrication

Yes agreed, most probably its due to this ;)

PabloEscobar
14-03-2013, 11:34 AM
My spermies recover at a sonic rate

Supersonic and technotronic style, hahaha :D

TheEvilDoer
21-03-2013, 03:47 PM
when I was in secondary shool, bonking from my
study room to my room to the swimming pool and back up on my bed, literally
from morning to night and back to morning again.

Your growing up days really seem very sexciting :D

MichaelScofield
28-03-2013, 03:33 PM
Depends, is it a one off issue, if not usually
means early signs of PE usually.

I would agree with this as well ;)

Camel
28-03-2013, 03:51 PM
she was so skilled, i cummed 4 times in around 3 hours.

So skillful :eek:

RickADD
29-03-2013, 10:11 AM
Sometimes depends on the girl. "Hornyest" record was 7times in 3 hours with a hot fb.

Tengkor
04-04-2013, 02:07 PM
"Hornyest" record was 7times in 3 hours with a
hot fb.

Thats alot, seems like new world record set :D

HassanalBolkiah
11-04-2013, 03:51 PM
Long-haired, slim, full perky C+

I am getting horny by just imagining :eek:

GodOfGamblers
18-04-2013, 01:08 PM
7times in 3 hours with a hot fb.

7 times really alot, i at most 2-3 times before i "faint" :D

LongIslandTea
18-04-2013, 10:27 PM
Sometimes depends on the girl. "Hornyest" record was 7times in 3 hours with a hot fb.u champion. I 7 times in 3 days also got problem.

LovePotion
18-04-2013, 10:31 PM
really salute u.. must issue u guiness stout record

MichaelScofield
25-04-2013, 02:07 PM
I am getting horny by just imagining :eek:

You have a very vivid imagination :D

Punder
25-04-2013, 04:34 PM
7 times.. u make me feel i cmi..

ChairmanMao
02-05-2013, 01:35 PM
7 times.. u make me feel i cmi..

Same here :(

fictionman
02-05-2013, 02:07 PM
7 times.. u make me feel i cmi..

In cyberworld any1 can say anything they want....7,8,9 or even 10...Only the the person's own balls knws de truth coz they r de one's pumping de cum

residentgood
03-05-2013, 01:14 AM
Bro start kissing,painting and make her cum 1st than screw her 1time is more than enough,I screw massage gal more than 20mins she so steam got 2nd shot for free total 45mins.I was dead meat after 2shots had rest awhile.

illusions
05-05-2013, 03:14 AM
Dear All

I am not an expert on Men. But I had an experience to help prolong the sexual pleasure and also erection.

My exBF was like that. He was a 1 shot person and it was frustrating for me, because I am a double orgasm girl. I mean, I will usually have a first tiny orgasm and the second one which takes longer to activate, also gives me the longest and deepest pleasure.

Unfortunately for me, my exBF is not a marathoner in bed. He usually can hold off only until after I cum.

A few months into our sexual relationship, I realise I can prolong his erection even after he had cum. And so I could ride him for the second round until I have my second orgasm.

My technique is simple enough. After he comes, I make sure i clean him off with a warm wet towel. I will continue to tease him, but not directly at his penis... More towards his nipples and his face and ears.

More often his erection is now semi-hard, but not fully flat. I find after a few nice sensual tugs, his blood gets repumped back into his tool.

The other sure way that works is a blowjob.

Hope that helps.

Hey, that really works! After orgasm, my shaft feels very "spent". I used to clean with a towel and it helps. But cleaning with a warm tower does make it much better.

It kind of feels like I need to "reset" the feeling or "spentness" and "rawness" of my shaft. Yeah, not touching the penis for a while helps a lot.

Needless to say, the girl's patience in such a situation is really important.

LovePotion
05-05-2013, 11:59 PM
em... guess i must try as well :P

yeomm
06-05-2013, 12:29 AM
I think can use BUFFET as an example:

When young, I can eat many rounds and each round my plate is full.

Then as I aged, lesser rounds and the plate not very full.

And now > 40, can only eat 1 round full plate nia, stomach full liow and then totally no interest to eat. Infact, when u are full, u feel like vomitting when u see food.

So same for sex i think.. When u grow older, lesser rounds and each round is not so "full". Once u shoot, u totally lose interest. Just imagine u eat buffet 1 round until very full and u totally lose interest in the food.

BUT a few days later, ur urge for buffet will come back.

So, the key thing here is EXERCISE. If you exercise more often, u will get to be hungrier, so u can start eating more. Same for sex. Exercise more often u will be able to have sex more rounds ba..

GodOfGamblers
09-05-2013, 03:33 PM
7 times.. u make me feel i cmi..

Same here as well :o

WiseGuy
16-05-2013, 03:06 PM
I think can use BUFFET as an example:


Not a bad anaology ;)

TheEvilDoer
23-05-2013, 01:58 PM
Anyone try the water warming method?

TedDibiase
23-05-2013, 01:58 PM
Anyone try the water warming method?

What is that?

TheEvilDoer
23-05-2013, 01:59 PM
What is that?

I read somewhere where they use warm water to numb the head

TedDibiase
23-05-2013, 02:00 PM
I read somewhere where they use warm water to numb the head

Oh, i remeber they say can use very cold iced water as well

TheEvilDoer
23-05-2013, 02:00 PM
Oh, i remeber they say can use very cold iced
water as well

Correct something like that, have you tried it?

TedDibiase
23-05-2013, 02:01 PM
Correct something like that, have you tried it?

Tried it once with the warm water was not too good :o

TheEvilDoer
23-05-2013, 02:02 PM
Tried it once with the warm water was not too
good :o

You mean the warming method no effect for you?

TedDibiase
23-05-2013, 02:02 PM
You mean the warming method no effect for you?

For the water warming method none so what ever just slighly numb :o

TheEvilDoer
23-05-2013, 02:03 PM
For the water warming method none so what ever just slighly numb :o

Noted then will probably try something else instead of the water warming
method, thanks

TedDibiase
23-05-2013, 02:04 PM
Noted then will probably try something else instead of the water warming
method, thanks

No problem always glad to help ;)

MichaelScofield
30-05-2013, 03:06 PM
IExercise more often u will be able to have sex
more rounds ba..

But sometimes with time constraint with family and jobs, the time just seems
not to be there at all :(

Darknite
30-05-2013, 05:37 PM
I used to think that the number of times depends on the mood and the mind.. However my view changed after I saw a porn video..

The guy had balls the size of a papaya, no joke, almost 20cm long and big, almost the size of my head.. I will try to find the link tonight.. The guy did like 15 shots-20 shots in 30 mins.. And mind you, his shots is all full loaded, I am very sure there was at least 500ml of cum.. Maybe even more.. He cum so much that the jav porn star was afraid and beg him to stop.. It's all film in a single shot, so it's real.. And his cum was white opaque color... Sometimes when you cum too much, your sperm counts get too low.. Your semen will be watery and thin...

So in conclusion, I think doing balls massage to increase your ball size will increase the number of times you can shoot, and also the quality of your semen, pure white ( which is full of sperm)

I used to DIY myself everyday, once my FB was looking at the used condom after sex.. She commented why my semen was watery, her ex bf is white and thick.. After I stop DIY-Ong for four days, I realized that my semen became thicker and white.. I think if you got bigger balls, you will be able to produce more sperm.. And if you got enough protein.. And with tr proper mood.. You will be able to fire a few more times

Bonapartist
06-06-2013, 03:33 PM
my shaft feels very "spent"

Like an automatic rifle :D

Tengkor
20-06-2013, 03:06 PM
But sometimes with time constraint with family and jobs, the time just seems
not to be there at all :(

Correct, same family/job issue for me as well

IAmAwesome
27-06-2013, 03:24 PM
Like an automatic rifle :D

Wow like that so powerful, hahaha :D

PrinceCharles
26-02-2014, 10:04 AM
After orgasm, my shaft feels very "spent"

I feel the same way as well

leekwantew
26-02-2014, 08:19 PM
Wow like that so powerful, hahaha :D

mine feels like go hibernation, the better the quality of the fuck, the deeper the hibernation, I may get blue balls because excited, but gun barrel cannot extend.

:o

Delwin
26-02-2014, 08:41 PM
I used to think that the number of times depends on the mood and the mind.. However my view changed after I saw a porn video..

The guy had balls the size of a papaya, no joke, almost 20cm long and big, almost the size of my head.. I will try to find the link tonight.. The guy did like 15 shots-20 shots in 30 mins.. And mind you, his shots is all full loaded, I am very sure there was at least 500ml of cum.. Maybe even more.. He cum so much that the jav porn star was afraid and beg him to stop.. It's all film in a single shot, so it's real.. And his cum was white opaque color... Sometimes when you cum too much, your sperm counts get too low.. Your semen will be watery and thin...

So in conclusion, I think doing balls massage to increase your ball size will increase the number of times you can shoot, and also the quality of your semen, pure white ( which is full of sperm)

I used to DIY myself everyday, once my FB was looking at the used condom after sex.. She commented why my semen was watery, her ex bf is white and thick.. After I stop DIY-Ong for four days, I realized that my semen became thicker and white.. I think if you got bigger balls, you will be able to produce more sperm.. And if you got enough protein.. And with tr proper mood.. You will be able to fire a few more times

I watched that clip not long ago too at YouTube but was removed. Bro if can find please pm me the link, thks.

Stanisslav
02-03-2014, 10:35 PM
I watched that clip not long ago too at YouTube but was removed. Bro if can
find please pm me the link, thks.

I actually remember that video as well, sadly i also cannot find anymore :(

smile_santa
03-03-2014, 03:40 AM
I think sometimes it depends on what turns u on. My last ex was the first girl I made love with so mega-excited during that period of time. When we had our 1st holiday we fucked like rabbits. I did it 4 times in a single night due to the excitement of this new experience. After that as our relationship wore on sometimes maybe only once a week, and also like the title suggests, one shot.

I think after awhile couples must do/find something different to spice up their love life or else it really just dwindles.

PrinceCharles
05-03-2014, 10:04 AM
the better the quality of the fuck, the deeper the hibernation

I get exactly what you mean, have noticed this as well for myself

TheTerminator
09-03-2014, 10:08 PM
I actually remember that video as well, sadly i also cannot find anymore :(

Can try vimeo, they usually have most of the copies of youtube videos there

IAmAwesome
12-03-2014, 09:23 AM
I think after awhile couples must do/find something different to spice up their
love life or else it really just dwindles.

This is definately true else it becomes simply becomes routine

MichaelScofield
16-03-2014, 11:16 PM
I used to think that the number of times depends on the mood and the mind..
However my view changed after I saw a porn video..


That is just a reenactment right?

Stanisslav
20-03-2014, 12:24 AM
Can try vimeo, they usually have most of the copies of youtube videos there

Thanks bro, will try to see if i can find the video over there and will post back if
i manage to find a copy of it

DudusCoke
23-03-2014, 10:17 PM
have noticed this as well for myself

Same here as well seems that i can live without sex for sometime if the
previous time was really good for me aka hibernation

TheTerminator
26-03-2014, 07:11 AM
Like an automatic rifle

Indeed, :D

WinstonCiggies
30-03-2014, 11:16 PM
That is just a reenactment right?

Should be, i don't think those porn vids are real well atleast most of them

BlackCube
02-04-2014, 11:03 AM
Same here as well seems that i can live without sex for sometime

For me its different, i can't live without sex :p

MichaelScofield
06-04-2014, 11:16 PM
Should be, i don't think those porn vids are real well atleast most of them


Correc thats my thought to else i would really be inadequate :o

Bonapartist
13-04-2014, 11:46 PM
Indeed, :D

or maybe a semi :D

milkman87
14-04-2014, 01:07 AM
Months ago I needed at least 2 shots a session. Now I think after 1 shot I KO liao.. bonk too many aldy I guess..

But kind of good la now.. 150 can be satisfied.. if not need 300 a visit to GL..

TheTerminator
21-04-2014, 12:33 AM
Now I think after 1 shot I KO liao

I am drifting towards this as well

pleasurehobby
23-04-2014, 02:09 AM
For most guys, the first shot is to get the accumulated "horniness" off. It could be anywhere ebtween 15 to 10 mins.

The 2nd shot is where the real deal begins. AFter ejeculation of the first shot, most men are able to last double the duration of the first intercourse.

MichaelScofield
30-04-2014, 08:09 AM
The 2nd shot is where the real deal begins

True enough but sometimes by the second shot a bit tapped out :o

Brainstorm
03-05-2014, 02:13 PM
The 2nd shot is where the real deal begins. AFter ejeculation of the first shot, most men are able to last double the duration of the first intercourse.

Provided you have the fitness to last the distance. Don't end up thighs cramp or worse still have backaches for a few days after sex.

4getful
03-05-2014, 09:35 PM
Provided you have the fitness to last the distance. Don't end up thighs cramp or worse still have backaches for a few days after sex.

Ya true. Last time young, 5 shots in one night, still very alert. Now old alr, I drunk beer n then 1shot, game over. Totally drain out n lost interest, fb complaining n also sick for another few days.:(

IAmAwesome
07-05-2014, 08:06 AM
That is just a reenactment right?

For sure those porn videos are reenactments

pedrodiaz
07-05-2014, 04:11 PM
Very hard to recover after first shot...sometimes I take the whole night to recover. ED perhaps?

splitwhale
07-05-2014, 08:34 PM
I can relate to the experiences of fellow Bros here. In my early 20s, I could easily make love & ejaculate 4-6 times a nite x 5 days weekly with my GF. Slowly it tapered off to max 2 times nightly x 3 days weekly as I neared late 20s...
It further deteriorated to once a night weekly due to stress of work & lifestyle etc. Resorted to daily masturbation than seeking out FBs or FLs...

It got to a stage in mid 30s where I experienced delayed ejaculation that I received a rude wake up call. Imagining taking 1/2 tab of Cialis / Viagra / Tongkat Ali & bonking for 2 hours & not ejaculating despite 5 sessions in a week. Instead of feeling proud that I could remain hard for that long... It turned to a ball busting experience.. "If u know of Blue Balls" the build up in the testicles is painful!! It also cause problems as FBs would question y never ejaculate... Did u lose interest in me? Am i not sexy enough 4 u? U dun like me? Etc etc Even FLs would also avoid my calls the second time lolz

Fortunately my family doctor was kind to render advice which I am going to summarize into
A) Age - u can't beat nature but delay the effects
B) Conditioning - eat well / excercise regularly / avoid frequent masturbation
C) Partner & Environment - having a accommodating partner in a nice environment helps 100%

7 months ago I made a conscious decision to improve my lifestyle. Eat natural & wholesome food (fruits, vegetables, chai seeds, nuts, flaxseeds, oysters & mussels) as much as possible, reduce drinking to 1 glass of red wine weekly (no beers) exercise regularly & practice yoga twice weekly.. It was a slow recovery process... It took me 3 months of abstinence from masturbation & visual stimulation from porn sites. It help increase sensitivity at my uncircumcised penis head.

Slowly but surely, I manage to ejaculate once after 3 rounds of sex with FB.. While it's not my ideal yet, it helps that my 23 yr old FB understood my condition and was willing to help me overcome my problem. My current record with FB now stands at ejaculating twice after 5 rounds of sex over a 14hour period.

Any Bros having ejaculation issues like me? How do u overcome it?

TheTerminator
14-05-2014, 02:40 AM
I could easily make love & ejaculate 4-6 times a nite x 5 days weekly

Thats seriously alot of times bro :o

fictionman
14-05-2014, 07:17 AM
Thats seriously alot of times bro :o

Dun believe everything u read in sbf

splitwhale
14-05-2014, 07:50 AM
Thats seriously alot of times bro :o


Early 20s, peak of physical fitness after 2.5 yrs of NS, just achieved sexual awakening after 2 decades of virginity; raging hormones, 80% seafood diet, adventurous GF who insists on raw every time (after inserting IUD) & cohabiting together. Why is that not possible? :p

It was a big part due to the carefree idyllic lifestyle overseas in the early part of my career that allowed me this sexual freedom & experimentation. Obviously it lasted only 2-3 months of such intense frequency before it slowly tapered down with increasing pressures of work setting in. Live life to the fullest as it was our last each & every day!

ch33zy
14-05-2014, 08:06 AM
Early 20s, peak of physical fitness after 2.5 yrs of NS, just achieved sexual awakening after 2 decades of virginity; raging hormones, 80% seafood diet, adventurous GF who insists on raw every time (after inserting IUD) & cohabiting together. Why is that not possible? :p

It was a big part due to the carefree idyllic lifestyle overseas in the early part of my career that allowed me this sexual freedom & experimentation. Obviously it lasted only 2-3 months of such intense frequency before it slowly tapered down with increasing pressures of work setting in. Live life to the fullest as it was our last each & every day!

Bravo.. well said.. enjoy each day as it comes.. u must be enjoying ur life greatly..

splitwhale
14-05-2014, 12:11 PM
Bravo.. well said.. enjoy each day as it comes.. u must be enjoying ur life greatly..

I can't say that I am enjoying life greatly yet.... ... Now older, I m still doing my best to overcome my delayed ejaculation issues. Fortunately I do not have issues in getting hard... It's staying hard long enough to ejaculate b4 stamina runs out :mad:

Frequent masturbation was a key cause of losing the sensitivity on my penis head and I am still working to regain it. Nowadays I refrain from porn and seeking out WLs as I can't get orgasm easily :confused: I am grateful in having an understanding & patient FB in my slow treatment process. Once or twice weekly sessions are currently the norm for me. It offers us both sufficient time to recover and crave for each other.

I welcome suggestions from other experienced brothers or sisters in overcoming delayed ejaculation... Eg does circumcision improves sensitivity? Any diet or supplements to help in ejaculation? Does authentic juagen help? Pls share your experiences..

asdfghjkl
14-05-2014, 12:19 PM
it helps that my 23 yr old FB understood my condition and was willing to help me overcome my problem.

wow, this is just :eek:

lrjk1985
14-05-2014, 02:28 PM
My Suggestion is to do more cardio bro. Last time I didn't, I also one shot man. Then I ran every day, after a few months, I can go two or three time alr. Good luck!

TheTerminator
18-05-2014, 10:59 PM
80% seafood diet

Why so much seafood, does it really help?

michkim2
18-05-2014, 11:55 PM
Previously when in my 20s, I can do 14 times with 14 ejaculations within a 12 hours period. Generally the later sessions will take longer to recover and get hard for the next round but the sessions are usually 10-15mins.

Now in my 40s, the stamina has dropped. Will manage about 2-3 ejaculations in 4 hours with probably 3-5 sessions. Usually the second or third sessions onwards will have me "raining" my sweat onto my partners. Although so far no one compliant as I understand from them that they have multiple orgasms from each sessions. Even now, my recent marathon is more than one hour with my partner.

Not likely I have the delayed ejaculation problem like splitwhale as I usually the one in charge although occasionally I will lay back to enjoy while my partner take the lead with cow-girl position. Also I can at times ejaculation pretty fast as well, to my partner's disappointment.

BlackCube
21-05-2014, 05:51 AM
Will manage about 2-3 ejaculations in 4 hours

This is still good by any measure

AllInObama
26-05-2014, 12:06 AM
Why so much seafood, does it really help?

I only heard about oysters

TheHornyDevilz
26-05-2014, 11:40 AM
Does it matter if it's only one shot, if you take your time to enjoy it to the max and it lasts about an hour or so, with massive amounts of jazz at the end of it?

fictionman
26-05-2014, 11:50 AM
Does it matter if it's only one shot, if you take your time to enjoy it to the max and it lasts about an hour or so, with massive amounts of jazz at the end of it?

Couldnt agree more...

splitwhale
26-05-2014, 03:26 PM
Why so much seafood, does it really help?

Well the job posting was near coastal area. Hence having live prawns, oysters, diving for mussels, seaweeds, spear fishing for fish & lobsters weekly was part of the fun I had then. Having more seafood increases zinc and potassium counts that help in sperm production & raised testorone levels. Personally I never had erection or ejaculation issues while on mainly seafood diet back then. I guess the Japanese male population are a close reference point? Lolz

IAmAwesome
02-06-2014, 12:15 AM
My Suggestion is to do more cardio bro

Cardio workout i definately important, would agree to that

NigelFarage
04-06-2014, 07:20 AM
with massive amounts of jazz at the end of it?

You think like me, the more the merrier :D

jaguarbkk
04-06-2014, 08:29 AM
Cardio workout i definately important, would agree to that

Bro,

See that you are selling Gambir. Urs is bark form or liquid form. Many years back I always used the bark form. Result is very good.

Cheers
Jaguar

ThePirateBay
18-06-2014, 04:02 AM
You think like me, the more the merrier :D

Exactly my sentiments as well ;)

PrinceCharles
25-06-2014, 04:05 AM
You think like me, the more the merrier :D

kekeke, indeed ;)

Spend
25-06-2014, 02:36 PM
camping...

TheTerminator
09-07-2014, 06:37 AM
Having more seafood increases zinc and potassium counts that help in sperm
production & raised testorone levels.

Never knew that about seafood :o

BlackCube
16-07-2014, 06:03 AM
Very hard to recover after first shot...sometimes I take the whole night to recover. ED perhaps?

It seems like that for me as well, its like on and off

CaramelChoc
23-07-2014, 07:05 AM
Very hard to recover after first shot...sometimes I take the whole night to recover.

I in a way also seems quite similar to you as well

NigelFarage
30-07-2014, 07:51 AM
kekeke, indeed ;)

You and i think alike :D

RonBurgundy
03-08-2014, 11:16 PM
It seems like that for me as well, its like on and off

If on and off maybe something else?

KennyKing
06-08-2014, 02:34 AM
Never knew that about seafood :o

I think its mainly due to to its zinc content

pleasurehobby
06-08-2014, 01:48 PM
I'm not sure are the guys here facing the same issue? As in when your other half or gf, makes you cum, after that you lost your mood. Do you face that? How to improve?

Chances are guy might be horny, but lady is not really her type. So after released he is no longer aroused. ;)

IAmAwesome
13-08-2014, 03:33 AM
Bravo.. well said.. enjoy each day as it comes..

This is a good motto to live by ;)

PrinceCharles
27-08-2014, 04:44 AM
You and i think alike :D

Most likely bro :p

ElNacho
03-09-2014, 04:50 AM
I think its mainly due to to its zinc content

Actually would the zinc supplements works also?

genji81
03-09-2014, 11:33 AM
I think most guys like myself have the trouble of recovering once cum for the first time on the night , so i tend to control my cum even better ... i could go up to 1 hr of licking and playing and having sex without cuming then rest for an hr or two, have another round , so is like having two rounds but only cum once .
We just have to train better to control our cum . the number of times we guys cum doesn't matter as long we are doing the right thing to make our woman satisfied :)

TheTerminator
10-09-2014, 05:51 AM
So after released he is no longer aroused. ;)

This is a possibility as well

69Sniper
10-09-2014, 05:25 PM
I think most guys like myself have the trouble of recovering once cum for the first time on the night , so i tend to control my cum even better ... i could go up to 1 hr of licking and playing and having sex without cuming then rest for an hr or two, have another round , so is like having two rounds but only cum once .
We just have to train better to control our cum . the number of times we guys cum doesn't matter as long we are doing the right thing to make our woman satisfied :)



brudder, those like me go for paid bonks got no chance be like dat :o 1 shot is over liao, if try to drag sure kena complain by wl :o

MonoTones
11-09-2014, 12:34 AM
Does that happen when you do it with another woman?

I enjoy sex so once is never enough.


Bro. I had with my gf for the first time after a bloody damn tiring day, and we had 5 times from 12am - 5am. In very cold weather, snowing during that time... and I was sweating...

Really missing the day, when I blow out air from your mouth and see "Smoke" in the air, and I am sweating.

PrinceCharles
14-09-2014, 11:27 PM
brudder, those like me go for paid bonks got no chance be like dat :o 1 shot is over liao, if try to drag sure kena complain by wl :o

Very true bro, i face same issues here as well :(

BlackCube
17-09-2014, 06:45 AM
as long we are doing the right thing to make our woman satisfied :)

Could not agree more with you

KennyKing
24-09-2014, 05:51 AM
Actually would the zinc supplements works also?

So far i would say zinc tablets are hits and misses

ElNacho
05-10-2014, 11:18 PM
This is a possibility as well

True enough, that could also be a possiblity

Bitcoin
08-10-2014, 06:49 AM
the number of times we guys cum doesn't matter as long we are doing the right thing to make our woman satisfied

I like the way you think :D

PrinceCharles
12-10-2014, 10:50 PM
we had 5 times from 12am - 5am.

Thats alot, i even 2 times also difficult :o

ElNacho
15-10-2014, 06:25 AM
So far i would say zinc tablets are hits and misses

With the zinc tablet was more hits or misses?

BlackCube
22-10-2014, 04:41 AM
I like the way you think :D

same here as well bro ;)

IAmAwesome
26-10-2014, 10:53 PM
This is a possibility as well

Thats very true, sometimes that could be possible as well

Bitcoin
29-10-2014, 05:31 AM
same here as well bro

For me sex simply means pleasuring myself first :D

KawasakiBikes
02-11-2014, 10:53 PM
With the zinc tablet was more hits or misses?

For me the zinc tablets had more misses actually :o

comm
03-11-2014, 11:08 AM
chinese TCM worked for me...not so tired after shooting, the days i take to recover cut down alot and more feeling when shoot

AlexJones
05-11-2014, 05:56 AM
Thats alot, i even 2 times also difficult :o

It seems the same as me for well, and my PE seems to get worse with time

SimonOng
10-11-2014, 12:03 AM
snowing during that time

I like this type of weather but too bad our country don't have :(

BlackCube
12-11-2014, 06:44 AM
For me sex simply means pleasuring myself first :D

Maybe that should take on first priority ;)

PrinceCharles
17-11-2014, 12:28 AM
It seems the same as me for well, and my PE seems to get worse with time

Your PE is just started or something that you have had long time already?

IntelPentium
19-11-2014, 09:06 AM
Anyone tried kegels before, is ist effective?

ElNacho
23-11-2014, 10:35 PM
For me the zinc tablets had more misses actually :o

Ahh, good to know, zinc tablets are actually more of a supplement right?