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Depressedboi
05-11-2011, 06:53 AM
hi. i hope no one will flame me for this, but i'm going to start by admitting that i'm not old enough to be in this forum. yes, im only 16. i somehow decided to start reading this forum to de-stress for O Levels (It's almost over). i find that the bros here seem to be nice people to confide in. i hope you guys can give me advice over this issue i'm harping on about.

first, i'm going to do some introduction about my life. i'm just an average 16-year-old kid in the streets. however, nobody, not even my friends seem to understand what kind of mental tug-of-war is constantly going on in my mind.

i'm very horny, sometimes to the point that i feel helpless. i need to "relive myself" quite often, usually once a day. whenever i see an attractive girl, blood would just rush through my body and accumulate down there. i accept that this is part of growing up.

my main problem is that after reading some stories about some of the bro's young sex experience, like during sec sch, i am in envy and jealous at the same time. a sense of misery also overwhelms me. i just feel that i've been missing out too much. i secretly wished that i was the one who is writing these stories, if you know what i mean. i thought my sec sch life was fun, but when i read these stories, i realized i was wrong.

you see, i'm in a neighbourhood school that is above average. hence, the people there are kind of like those who "potentially can enter top schools, but still not good enough". so, the girls that are very "guai" and nerdy type, whether they're good-looking or not. i also don't get to meet a lot of new people. consequently, entering this school will ensure that my social network remains small. so i don't get to write such wonderful stories.

to conclude, i secretly wish that i had gone through the "innocent and curious couple making exploration" kind of experience. i feel my precious 4 years of sec sch life had been dull and unfulfilled. of course, underage sex is not "right", but i'm sure at that age, you wished you could experience it. since O Level is over soon, i'm supposed to feel relaxed. but instead, i'm feeling stressed and having sleepless nights instead. sigh, i don't feel like living this life. hate it. i'm at lost about what i could do to overcome this dreadful feeling.

Xensualize
05-11-2011, 08:26 PM
Firstly, they are not your bros. They are your uncles.

Tai_zi21
05-11-2011, 08:49 PM
Xiao di di

let kor kor give u some advice here,1st u r only 16,wat kind of sex experience do u expect to have? threesome? sex in public places? how many samsters can claim that they have so much sex exp at the age of 16?

Try to build on ur circle of friends... keep in contact and u might not know wat will happen in the future? And feel confident abt urself at least

in the mean while HAPPY PCC

Cheers :)

ThaiBeautiful
05-11-2011, 08:55 PM
16yo, It's just a stage of growing out

Don't need depressed and stressed over so much things. It might just be your exam stress. Learn to enjoy life!

LIFE is too short to be worried over these small issues. When you are older, more serious issues will come to you. Be strong, be a MAN!

After exams, just go out and have fun like all teenagers in your age! SEX is just not for you... you're underaged. :D

dc1891
05-11-2011, 09:16 PM
Hey kiddo, your focus in life should be to study hard and play hard.

When you have a good education, good grades & a good attitude, a good career will come along, and that means good money. With that naturally, women will be in line for your picking.

But all being said, all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. Expand your circles of friends and have fun. Good clean fun.

What you go thru, most of us here goes thru that phase too. We also see "blue film" and fantasize and PCC too. Eventually we all jut grow out of it and seek the real stuff, when we start having money to spend.

You are normal and should not be stress about it.

ferragamo
05-11-2011, 10:13 PM
U are an example of a genuine problem the Internet is creating among human beings

At 16 you are surfing forums about orgies, no doubt watching anal sex on porn tube etc..

You and many in your generation are growing up with a warped sense of sexuality

Instead of worrying about your o levels , you are in fact fretting that your sex life is boring at 16???? What do you expect? The canteen drinks aunty to feel horny, and suck your cock after school?

I really worry what the future holds for our young. And you are a bleak depiction of it.

See my English can be as powerful also because last time at 16 after I masturbate , I went back to my 10 year series workbook instead of worrying if I can have a 3some with my teacher and principal

ddog
05-11-2011, 10:28 PM
You're filling your mind with bullcr*p. I had it worse, coming from an all boys school, my parents won't even let me mix with my female cousin! Till 20s.

golden tongue
05-11-2011, 10:49 PM
After your O evel exam, you should go GL to look for those FL to have sex. very cheap. 60 bucks only.

After that, you'll have to worry where to see a doctor after you got infected by the girl, where to get money, where to get it treated. It'll make you even more depressed and useless than now. Ha Ha.

Boy, just concentrate on your studies and score good grade. Don't fret about missing all the sex and girls.

Your time will come when you start earning big money and girls will just flock to you without you making any move.

In the meantime, study hard.

jasdude
05-11-2011, 10:56 PM
The young and the restless ! confused adolescence ! Its just a transitional stage that you will grow out of . My advise for you is to make lots of friends , study hard and stay away from SBF !

smoofdeek
05-11-2011, 11:09 PM
only 16 and already exposed to sbf? I only got to know about sbf during ns, and I was already 22 then. all I can say is, I'm glad I didn't got to know this forum earlier, or I would have missed all those "innocent" fun times, heehee.

kiss29
05-11-2011, 11:12 PM
Cheer up.
Life is ups and down.

School exams over....so naturally a student find no meaning in life.
Why not go popular to buy next year assessment books and practice.

Or play computer games.....the November and December will pass by very fast.

2centsworth
05-11-2011, 11:46 PM
Do your best in the O levels. Everything changes at 17. Why? JC girls are more fun. Poly girls even better. The girls are 13-17 in sec school, 17-18 in JC and 17-20 in poly. The older the age range of the girls, the more fun you will have in school. Personal view.

owl888
06-11-2011, 12:05 AM
Boy boy take up some ECAs or during your vacation do some part-time work. I think by socializing and networking more u will feel better and got no time for SBF and porn.

MonteCristo
06-11-2011, 12:14 AM
No need to feel helpless about being horny.. It is just a stage where many experience, if it is of any comfort to you.

How do you define your worth? You deem yourself useless just because you didn't experience sex till now?

Find another avenue to channel your energy. You obviously have too much free time to be bothered by such trivial matters at such a tender age.

James PCT
06-11-2011, 12:22 AM
boy sex is something norma la human need ma where do u came from ? u came from sex too

Ichigowaffles
06-11-2011, 12:49 AM
Get yourself involved in sports probably quit sbf...
U r seriously young.

sgm91
06-11-2011, 01:18 AM
bro dun worry too much. i started reading this forum when i was still 17, in jc2 like 2 months before my a levels. i got 1 fl's ctc from a bro and met her at bugis 81. i met her outside then went in to try and book a room. however, as my 18th birthday was exactly a week away, they refused to allow me to book a room. feeling super paiseh i went out to tell the fl and offered to still pay her. she rejected my money and asked me to eat dinner with her instead. she even went to 7-11 to buy a drink for each of us. after eating she say still got 1 hour before she needed to meet another bro at bugis 81 so we went to some staircase smoke and talk cock. she said she liked me alot even though i was 3 years younger than her and started to hug and kiss me. feeling quite attracted to her i reciprocated and we started feeling each other up. she gave me a bbbj and after awhile i cim. when it was over we got dressed and i tried to pay her again. once more, she refused and asked me to find her next week when i was 18 and could book a hotel room. a few days after my 18th birthday i tried to call her again and arrange to meet her but to no avail. i found out from the bro who gave me her ctc that she had lost her phone and not only that she had received news that some of her family members had been killed in an earthquake and would be returning to china. feeling sad that i would not be able to meet her again i decided to concentrate on my studies since there was a little over a month left to A levels. I did quite well and got accepted to NUS,NTU and SMU. Shall not say which i will be going to next august after i ORD next month.

Actually i say so much i just wanna say concentrate on your studies first. dont let your desire to have sex ruin your future. I also didnt have a serious relationship until jc1 when i met this wonderful girl and we lost our virginity to each other after dating for about 3 months. We broke up after mid year exams in jc2 and i got rather depressed and moped around feeling sad until i chanced upon this forum in august.

Finishing sec sch a virgin is okay la. nothing to be sad about. if u really want to lose your virginity try starting a relationship with a classmate after o levels over and they're feeling happy lo. noticed you didnt really say ur a virgin. anw if you are, my advice is to lose ur virginity to someone special la not a fl.

Kay la i think i type quite long alr, probably one of the longest things i've typed since entering ns and just letting my brain rot.. good luck with your 'O's and ur life

zveron
06-11-2011, 01:49 AM
Depression is a serious thing. If you are contemplating suicide or have recurring thoughts about being useless, please seek help immediately, via school, clinic or call 1800- 221 4444 or visit http://samaritans.org.sg/ or 1800 838 0100 for FAMILY SERVICE CENTRE. Bedok reservoir do not need anymore cases.

Have a healthy body helps both in the mind and also in attracting potential mate, a well tone body with a nice abs can do wonder. (to your self confident since your are have neither career nor credential).

It is ok to fantasize, but you need to be a able to separate it from reality. Most of the porn material is staged, and no every female will just drop and give you a bj at a wimp.

Man can function till the day they drop, so that's a long way ahead for you. If you are successful in life, you may just turn your fantasy to reality!!

devilborne87
06-11-2011, 02:02 AM
Relax dude...heed the advices of the uncles and older brothers around here....
You are 16.....so what u can engage in sex activities with same age girls...can u handle the shit like breaking up, unwanted pregnancy and etc....

Just enjoy your teenager life...i believe it is one of the best time of your life....Just study and have fun.....

goodpartner
06-11-2011, 02:21 AM
U are an example of a genuine problem the Internet is creating among human beings

At 16 you are surfing forums about orgies, no doubt watching anal sex on porn tube etc..

You and many in your generation are growing up with a warped sense of sexuality

Instead of worrying about your o levels , you are in fact fretting that your sex life is boring at 16???? What do you expect? The canteen drinks aunty to feel horny, and suck your cock after school?

I really worry what the future holds for our young. And you are a bleak depiction of it.

See my English can be as powerful also because last time at 16 after I masturbate , I went back to my 10 year series workbook instead of worrying if I can have a 3some with my teacher and principal

This is the best reply IMHO.

While many, perhaps including the website owner, may argue that with the internet these kiddies can still land up in other porn sites, the fact that this is the most popular "adult" website (high search engine ranking) nowadays means that it can also help to channel these under-aged traffics to appropriate sub-forums (maybe Sexual Health) and AT LEAST lock them out of the "Adult Discussion of Sex", Gambling, FL-Dome, Geylang sub-forums. OR better still, have another sub-forum for under-age sex discussion stuffs where topics of more helpful/educational nature be consolidated.

Sure, there are no fool-proof way to filter out the real kids, but for goodness sake, at least (for a start) print it out loud during registration that under-age is NOT ALLOWED to register. Currently, there's no age limit, even a 13yo can register "given consent of a guardian".....

With power (traffic), comes responsibility...

It sucks to know that this issue is simply being ignored; ironic that it's always mentioned how this site "help" to educate us about sexual health issues & not to engage FL at heart, BUT not doing anything about this. SBF has evolved over the years, and something ought to be looked into & policies be reviewed.

justwanadoit
06-11-2011, 02:30 AM
i can only advise u 1 thing: GA GA LAI!

biozaogeng
06-11-2011, 03:16 AM
TS, if what you're saying is true don't be a dumb fuck.

lol, everyday come here read story HOPE YOU FAIL YOUR O LEVEL. then next time no job, can only PCC at home.

PLEASE LAR DEH... u want women? STUDY HARD. after your o levels go RJC, then get a scholarship to the best overseas uni you can get.

after you grad, make big bucks. top bankers can take home SGD1 mil at an associate level. you study hard now, pcc less, next time you can retire when you 35 and fuck your whole life away.

then you can write your story about fucking ass models.

kthnxbye.

zeusfist
06-11-2011, 11:32 AM
TS: Concentrate on ur education first. U have loads of time for other extra activities later in ur life.

I don't know for most bro. but when i was 16, (even though i din't score that well for my O) but i have having the more innocent fun (like going out with friends n grp, chalet, window shopping, chilling out etc...)

The adult version fun only sinked in after i start working. Stressful job, so HC to destress.

And mind you, these place is not cheap ar.. hahahahahahahahaha

So, relax lil bro. u have a long life ahead of ya :) But studies first k?

RealEstateGuy
06-11-2011, 12:22 PM
hi. i hope no one will flame me for this, but i'm going to start by admitting that i'm not old enough to be in this forum. yes, im only 16. i somehow decided to start reading this forum to de-stress for O Levels (It's almost over). i find that the bros here seem to be nice people to confide in. i hope you guys can give me advice over this issue i'm harping on about.

first, i'm going to do some introduction about my life. i'm just an average 16-year-old kid in the streets. however, nobody, not even my friends seem to understand what kind of mental tug-of-war is constantly going on in my mind.

i'm very horny, sometimes to the point that i feel helpless. i need to "relive myself" quite often, usually once a day. whenever i see an attractive girl, blood would just rush through my body and accumulate down there. i accept that this is part of growing up.

my main problem is that after reading some stories about some of the bro's young sex experience, like during sec sch, i am in envy and jealous at the same time. a sense of misery also overwhelms me. i just feel that i've been missing out too much. i secretly wished that i was the one who is writing these stories, if you know what i mean. i thought my sec sch life was fun, but when i read these stories, i realized i was wrong.

you see, i'm in a neighbourhood school that is above average. hence, the people there are kind of like those who "potentially can enter top schools, but still not good enough". so, the girls that are very "guai" and nerdy type, whether they're good-looking or not. i also don't get to meet a lot of new people. consequently, entering this school will ensure that my social network remains small. so i don't get to write such wonderful stories.

to conclude, i secretly wish that i had gone through the "innocent and curious couple making exploration" kind of experience. i feel my precious 4 years of sec sch life had been dull and unfulfilled. of course, underage sex is not "right", but i'm sure at that age, you wished you could experience it. since O Level is over soon, i'm supposed to feel relaxed. but instead, i'm feeling stressed and having sleepless nights instead. sigh, i don't feel like living this life. hate it. i'm at lost about what i could do to overcome this dreadful feeling.

Young braddah, you are doing fine. Don't get so down please. In actuality you are doing better than 99% of the people on this board. What you need to continue doing is focus on academics as it is your pathway to success and being a contributing member of SG society. Along the way, you will meet women, not worry young braddah. Young braddah, you need to keep in mind most of the braddahs on this board do nothing but talk cock and are bad people in SG society. Also, young braddah most of the people talking cock on SBF embellish their sexual exploitations or merely pay for sex. Young braddah, you don't want to be losers like them. Young braddah, you are on the right track. Keep focusing on academics.

goodpartner
06-11-2011, 01:05 PM
In actuality you are doing better than 99% of the people on this board.
:
Also, young braddah most of the people talking cock on SBF embellish their sexual exploitations or merely pay for sex. Young braddah, you don't want to be losers like them.

So! What is YOUR animosity towards the 99% of bradday here, looking for and discussing commercial sex in a commercial sex forum??! :confused::eek::rolleyes:

Braddah, what's with you animosity animosity?

Or are u gonna say u're also just having fun here? ;)

yang punk
06-11-2011, 01:33 PM
Hi Db

Don't think you are exceptional. Most guys your age and situation can only pcc and fantasize...some even more than twice a day to get rid of that horny energy! The story tellers here are more the exception than the rule and often with a heavy doze of ego boosting embellishments.

Nobody like a loser especially girls. You may not be a looker but if you can score with your grades you can also score with the girls. How often do you see ugly short-ass dumplings with model-like damsels clinging onto them? Yes money and success make the world go round. So if you don't do well now in your Os you may not even be able to afford a third world foreign bride in the future.

I think most uncles here have the same advice for you but maybe in different words!

RealEstateGuy
06-11-2011, 03:23 PM
So! What is YOUR animosity towards the 99% of bradday here, looking for and discussing commercial sex in a commercial sex forum??! :confused::eek::rolleyes:



Or are u gonna say u're also just having fun here? ;)

Bradddah, I'm trying to help young braddah. Braddah please don't interlope. Braddah, I and you and all the braddahs have an obligation to do good and make good things happen in SG society. Braddah, it so happens that vice is not a good thing. Sex is a good thing but not GL KTV lewd public sex, sex in car, sex by coercion and deception, sex by economic leverage, infidelity, etc. that a lot of braddahs talk about, brag about, etc. Braddah its just not wholesome SG society.

goodpartner
06-11-2011, 04:49 PM
that a lot of braddahs talk about, brag about, etc.

Braddude, you're akin to preaching Christianity in a Muslim gathering, waiting to be ridicule. :rolleyes:

Braddah its just not wholesome SG society.

For as long as you ALSO push the notion of having a maid as a FB to be more "norm" than the average commercial sexual acts here, your preaching above will only sound like taunt.

If your intention is really that good, go start another nick with that "righteous" agenda MINUS the flaunting of maid FB. This world is just so realistic, if you wanna act like a priest, you gotta behave, act and communicate like one.

master
06-11-2011, 05:00 PM
Agree. Internet has allow easy access to porn for under age teenagers too easily. Unlike during my time a porn magazine is very good and circulate among my friends and classmates. And a blue film is like an event which we need to organise to go to one's house to watch together.

For your info TS, I lost my virginity when I was 17 years old, after my O levels, before I went to poly. So just concentrate on your O levels 1st. You will have plenty of opportunity after that.

electricdreams
06-11-2011, 05:20 PM
Dear Friend,

I hope you understand that you need to first learn how to deal with your emotions.

When you say "i'm very horny, sometimes to the point that i feel helpless. i need to "relive myself" quite often, usually once a day. whenever i see an attractive girl, blood would just rush through my body and accumulate down there. i accept that this is part of growing up" - Don't ever allow this to be an excuse for you to treat it as part of growing up. The fact that even grown-ups and older men get blood rush when they see sexy girls is part of the men's psychological make-up, so this is not merely a teenage issue.

As much as I try to understand you, I hope you understand that there is nothing "gratifying" about exciting sex stories if you are treating it as form of comparison to your cravings. Do not feel helpless or dreadful about yourself - take control over your emotions if you want to have a pleasant experience about sex.

If you are to think about your less-fortunate peers in the nearby countries, teenages of your age, count yourself to be fortunate to be a little "sexless" than the sex-starved ones. So, think in the right perspective of things and do not fixate your life in a small area that cripples you from looking beyond.

Hope you feel better with some perspective to things.

Cheers.

shaver
06-11-2011, 05:58 PM
Young boy must have gone berserk taking the stories here for real . :eek:

Just read the stories with a pich of salt , if not what u wanna do ? :confused:

Do you plan to go round doing those things like the stories stated :eek: or worse go round hunting for high class maids :eek:

LovePotion
07-11-2011, 12:19 AM
Bro dun feel sad, my secondary is as pathetic as yours, no pretty girls and no adventure. I found my first love after i studied A level.

I also understand that it is hard to get a girlfriend asap but it would be foolish to waste your virgin in GL.

You should know more girls and dun be shy. Go sign up for music or dance classes to know more girls. You need to learn about their interest in order to tackle them.

Good luck...

RealEstateGuy
07-11-2011, 03:02 AM
Braddude, you're akin to preaching Christianity in a Muslim gathering, waiting to be ridicule. :rolleyes:



For as long as you ALSO push the notion of having a maid as a FB to be more "norm" than the average commercial sexual acts here, your preaching above will only sound like taunt.

If your intention is really that good, go start another nick with that "righteous" agenda MINUS the flaunting of maid FB. This world is just so realistic, if you wanna act like a priest, you gotta behave, act and communicate like one.

Braddah you are so FOS it's unbelievable. Braddah I'm not against sex just when it involves paying as its bad for SG society. Braddah it is a fundamental principle as I believe it causes great harm to SG society. Braddah as a side note I see you have been in the commercial sex scene since 2002. Braddah have you considered getting a FB instead? Braddah I hope you are retrospective and change for the good of SG society.

delix02
07-11-2011, 03:25 AM
I, Uncle Delix, had my first sex (with my wife) at the age of 28.

Before that, I relieve myself by masturbation, what we call pcc. No hurry to have sex experience, it is not a shame to be virgin till a later age. Have your first time with someone whom you really love, it is very very good.

In my teenage time, there is no such thing as Internet. How I get my porn to pcc? During NS years, I patronize mama shop in chinatown (still there) and buy hong kong "dragon, tiger, leopard" and also playboy (got still sell or not I not sure).

Some other uncles out there should know, those times we hide our porn in drawers, cabinets and anywhere which we felt safe. In the end, kenna fished out by mothers during her house chores 

delix02
07-11-2011, 03:30 AM
BTW, Uncle Delix now is 38 liao.

TS, concentrate on your studies. If stressed out, talk to someone who you can confide in. Take up some hobby or sports and spent your extra energy on hose rather than surfing internet daily. Go into Internet only if you need to obtain information, not just by habit that you should be online.

syt_punisher
07-11-2011, 03:56 AM
my brother, take my advice.
study hard, earn the money, and sex will come.

i wish i had another chance.

2centsworth
07-11-2011, 07:17 AM
Little boy, end of the day, I can tell you. A lot of the older guys wish we can trade places with you and be 16 again. Imagine with the wisdom and experience we have, we can live life from 16 again. It's better to be 16 now. So easy to find girls, facebook, online games. The girls are so daring now. I think a lot of 'leaked' photos are because the girls themselves are cam whores and not because the guys want to take photos. Plus young girls know read SBF! You can accidentally show a 16 yr old classmate SBF... and then follow up with her in a week or two. No need to 'purposely' plant ideas in her head. The stories here will help you.

goodpartner
07-11-2011, 01:14 PM
Braddah you are so FOS it's unbelievable. Braddah I'm not against sex just when it involves paying as its bad for SG society. Braddah it is a fundamental principle as I believe it causes great harm to SG society. Braddah as a side note I see you have been in the commercial sex scene since 2002. Braddah have you considered getting a FB instead? Braddah I hope you are retrospective and change for the good of SG society.

Bradday! Believe it, you're a HWB you didn't know yourself too.

Again, is that the best you can do in reply with your usual hypocrite reply on being "for" SG Society? That's it? I was hoping for more. *Yawn*

LoL... thanks for the entertainment anyway. Carry on. ;)

Krazzie
07-11-2011, 04:47 PM
Actually you should feel lucky you have 0 sexperience so far... why? Cause any you had will either be breaking the law or you are helping someone to break it :eek:

If you are around SBF for long enough you should know that having sex with an individual below 16 is consider rape with or without consent so please focus on your studies, PCC if you need to and don't be too obsessed with sex.

You won't die without it, but you may really die or screw up your life with it (for now). Personally I am a virgin all the way through Uni.. but I never regretted it cause I am now enjoying myself ;)

So next time you feel envious or jealous because some bro here get to up their teacher, their neighbour, their sister friend, the girl sit opposite you in class blah blah blah... just remember everyone walks a different path, don't walk others just cause their story sounds juicy make your own.

chochochang2
07-11-2011, 05:51 PM
bro TS, you are still very young. enjoy your youth while you still can. once it's over, don't regret!

take things at your own pace, things that will happen will eventually happen. it's just a matter of time before they do.

focus on your studies now, there's a time to do everything. work hard in life and earn lots of money. as you expose yourself in the world, you'll get a lot of opportunities to meet more people. (poly, jc, working world etc etc)

most importantly, have faith in yourself!

colorwolf888
07-11-2011, 05:58 PM
bro boi boi.... i was like u last time.... now i m in early 30... when i was 15 or 16 n internet just started watch naked pics all the time want to fuck oso dunno how and somemore got to know some horny lady in 20s on dunno irc or where she send me her sexy pic to my email too say she work in some bank in shenton way.... long story cut short is.... i went to ur phase wanting to fuck but dunno where to start..... now i got wifey liao n we both very horny n keen in young bois like u becoz i guess u all r cleaner for my wife..... wonder if u keen? :D i know u must be v happy now coz i will if i were u when i was 15...... PM me ok :)

gooner8
07-11-2011, 06:04 PM
U are an example of a genuine problem the Internet is creating among human beings

At 16 you are surfing forums about orgies, no doubt watching anal sex on porn tube etc..

You and many in your generation are growing up with a warped sense of sexuality

Instead of worrying about your o levels , you are in fact fretting that your sex life is boring at 16???? What do you expect? The canteen drinks aunty to feel horny, and suck your cock after school?

I really worry what the future holds for our young. And you are a bleak depiction of it.

See my English can be as powerful also because last time at 16 after I masturbate , I went back to my 10 year series workbook instead of worrying if I can have a 3some with my teacher and principal

Wonderful post bro..
The TS needs to know that the stories here are not totally factual events, only some are. And there are a lot of fulfillinhg things to do in life besides sex.
The TS must be thinking he should have a threesome with some MILFs, namely his P and VP , while in school lolzz

callmebad
07-11-2011, 06:16 PM
Hi depressboi,

what you go through is normal
it's normal you're horny
if you don't have any sexual experience, it's also normal for your age

well, take the stories that you read here with some pinch of salt
treat it as if watching porn, which is supposed to be interesting and entertaining

cultivate more hobbies, turn yourself into an interesting guy, if you're interesting, you will be like a magnet attracting both guys and girls

if you have consensual sex, treat it as a bonus
if you don't have, please don't do anything silly or foolish that may make you regret later, don't force yourself, or being succumb to peer pressure

there are still many other things in life besides sex, which is one of the many things that make up life, not the whole part of life

木头和尚敲木鱼
07-11-2011, 06:34 PM
Xiao di di

let kor kor give u some advice here,1st u r only 16,wat kind of sex experience do u expect to have? threesome? sex in public places? how many samsters can claim that they have so much sex exp at the age of 16?

Try to build on ur circle of friends... keep in contact and u might not know wat will happen in the future? And feel confident abt urself at least

in the mean while HAPPY PCC

Cheers :)

I totally agree with bro Tai_zi21, at ur age my circle of frens are only my soccer & basketball kakis...(sad)...to tell u the truth my 1st sex experience only at late 20s (after grad from uni & some more during holiday @LOS)...(very sad).

I'm also having the same symptoms as u while i'm ard ur age (2IC auto steam when see some hot babes)...& ya of course always dreaming & fantasizing hooking up a Orchard road babe & have a knn wonderful sex in some hotel but kena certain restrictions:
1) shy nerd
2) no $$$
3) young & inexp

So no worries young boy, no harm releasing urself at ur age...like wat other bros mentioned as yrs gone by, u may meet many girls & ladies out there & who knows u may get lucky & .......
In the meantime, happy PCC! :D

Toyota Honda
08-11-2011, 05:22 PM
I don't know what to say. Yu think you should be privileged to have girls as nd when you want it? Don't act like a spoilt child. At your age, you should be studying and gearing up fopr you futureand not thinking about exploiting your females schoomates.

Thngs will start when you are older. Now, go and study and stop thinking so much!

juz_mic
08-11-2011, 06:00 PM
Hi little boy,

All the uncles that are giving you advices have one thing you do not have and that is youth. If given a chance, most of us would want to do something differently.

When I was 16, I do not have the luxury of advices from uncles double or triple my age. I do not have the luxury of watching naked women at my fingertip (mouse I mean). The only pleasure we have is probably as mentioned earlier by other brothers, and I can tell you that is even more pathetic than what you are going through now.

Take advantage of your youth, study hard, build circle of relationships, be confident. All things happen for a reason and a lot of time the reason is $$$. Earn the money, other things will come naturally.

In the mean-time, get a girlfriend above 16 to bonk or otherwise, DIY like a lot of us have done when we were 16 like you.

Bangster
08-11-2011, 07:08 PM
I think if you are only 16 and you keep on thinking about having sex with MILFs, teachers, 3 somes and such, you are an idiot.

And you will become an even bigger one as you grow old if you can't get these thoughts out of your mind.

Go find something to do

calex
08-11-2011, 07:15 PM
Just study and get some another hobby and forget the need for sex. Got all the time . venture into cca and work your way into a good education. Work on your muscles and charm to impress the girls around you .

Jiayou. for your o level. I never got a good result for my o so i wish you could be better than me and have better future than me..

cheekohpek
08-11-2011, 07:49 PM
I totally agree with the bros here. We have been through your stage and trust us, cherish what you have now. Study hard, build a career, and the money will follow.

Once you have enough wealth and circle of cheong kakis, gals will cum naturally. (pun intended). Confidence grows, you started to be more well groomed and more adventures along the way. As the saying goes, 男人四十一条龙。You have many more years to play, no worries, enjoy what you have first. Build a nice body, maybe go to the gym or pick up martial art or muay thai. It helps to attract the babes with a well toned body. A good personality helps too, so read up get more general knowledge, its pays to be witty and humorous too.

Then you will be really to be a Jedi warrior. May the force & mojo be with you.

comm
08-11-2011, 10:11 PM
I hope you will understand that, at 16 years old this is VERY NORMAL, Many of us here were also like you ! everyday just PCC, everyday super horny !

i think what you are not saying, is that you lack the guts to go and know girls right

starystarynite
08-11-2011, 10:11 PM
If u cant control yr desire, u r in deep trouble...distract yrself by havibg some other activities.or see a counsellor if needed.

Literatrix
09-11-2011, 12:43 AM
bro, no need to fell bad. this is natural for all guys. we "awaken" at a young age. ;)

LovePotion
09-11-2011, 01:10 AM
I think all you need is a girlfriend. Go facebook girls that does not have any relationship or matual friends.

Learn to chat with them and get a gf. start from there. good luck bro.

Evianalps
09-11-2011, 02:06 AM
I wish i can be 16 again :(