[Poll] would you mind if your gf is an ex FL ?

[Thanks]

Hi.....

Not sure how guys think ....

For my personal reference ,

Thanks

[daring70]

i can accept, i have personally met a few fl over the years that i can imagine myself with ...

[MarsIswar]

The issue is not wat happen in the past but rather to say looking forward in life .. Who dun have a little history ??

[Toyota Honda]

Whether an ex-FL or not an ex-FL, so long as she is a good gf/wife and faithful to you, she is a good personal FL.

[Penislol]

Whether an ex-FL or not an ex-FL, so long as she is a good gf/wife and faithful to you, she is a good personal FL.

Bro, i agree with you. and i like what you saying. Good point:cool:

[drekman]

But u dunt forget, she has been fucked by many guys.

[ricky08]

But u dunt forget, she has been fucked by many guys.



Been fucked by many guys doesn't mean she is bad mah...

[sgpuser]

Nowadays girls outside like to get fuck hard.LOL !!if she don't get exprience how she satisfy ur lust.wahahahaha.I will fuck her till her brains cramp hahahaha!

[bastardball]

But u dunt forget, she has been fucked by many guys.

If she been fucked by many guys and you have fucked many gals, that makes it even...negative and negative becomes positive....hor say! :D

[Snuber]

If you do mind, what can u do? You can't change the past. If you really love her, you have to accept her past and who she is, not just looking at what she had done.

Should look at the present and plan for the future

[callim2]

If she been fucked by many guys and you have fucked many gals, that makes it even...negative and negative becomes positive....hor say! :D

Bro bastardball, nice quote, good saying hahaha :D

[joew2005]

But u dunt forget, she has been fucked by many guys.

hope u also did not 4get ... u are not much better.

[sean69]

If you do mind, what can u do? You can't change the past. If you really love her, you have to accept her past and who she is, not just looking at what she had done.

Should look at the present and plan for the future


bro, wise words but i think it is easier said than done... i'm not a saint, screw around too but when it comes to wife/gf being an FL, it just makes me uncomfortable...

yeah i know, freaking hypocritical of me having double standards.. but can't help it ..

maybe there are better men out there.. i'm definitely not one.. sigh....

[jsf35]

Interesting poll/question. Yes I would mind. Lets be honest about it, I doubt anyone wouldn't mind at all. You will definitely mind a little at the very least. Surfice to say, it is a negative.

However, I guess if you are unlucky(lucky?) enough to fall in love with one then I guess you have to ask yourself is she worth it.
- Do you mind that she has been with many other random guys? Remember it could be anyone, from the clean to the dirty, young and old, sick and healthy.
- Is there a risk that she carries an STD? Some STDs stay dormant for many years.
- Could her past affect your future? Her past could come back to haunt both of you. People who she been with? your reputation? Etc.

Also if you truely don't mind at all then you could break the rule most bros have here: Do not get emotionally involved and fall in love with FL. :p

[deffboy]

yes.

If bring her out and another guy approaches her for sex, then how sia??

Damn paisey.... Come to think of it.. if family member up her b4, lagi paisey sia...:D

[iojo]

i have two ex girlfriends that were in this industry .
both were ahlians .
i find it a kinky issue though .

[liberatte]

It depends.on what you want out of her and what she wants out of you. If a brother here fell in love with a FL, then love her... but the question is... and still is.. does she love you?
Be it money, sex, status and property... 1 of these may exist in this relationship.
Then also, where did you meet her? If you've met her during the time she serviced you, ask the same questions to yourself... do I really love her?

[markck]

Whether FL or any other gal. If you love her and she love you, forget the past and look forward to the future. However she must never been unfaithful to you.

[aseandude]

Iojo reply is straight direct and quite accurate, however I will be slightly elaborating it. Not being too serious giving an answer, is my gf was a fl and did with many guys and earn some income compare with sleeping with many guys for fun it depends on my acceptance, pride and situation. Subjective but she must love me truthfully. on after being together if I love her but let her continue even if she didn't want to, then I'm a bus-stard. Change shoes, if I gigolo myself in need of cash and my gf knows and allow it afterwards then she's not serious in me. Its just for funs. FOC. But if she accepts me but doesn't allow afterwards then she might love me genuinely. Nobody sane will sell his/her self in exchange of sex. Unless you can chose your clients!!! Then its a win win situation. I will be in first line!

[aseandude]

Very interesting topic. Maintain respect and treat people as human except killers and rapist. The answer will reveal itself naturally if true love is there...

[sytl0veu]

i cant accept although i love to fuck..but whn it comes to gf i would still prefer a decent girl. i cant imagine my girl being touch by countless ppl before. worse she might have illness. i had some ex who had lost their virgins or help their ex do before. to be honest i sometime still cant take it even if its their ex. its really selfish of me to actually think like. but well tht just me.

[ruki]

Imagine if you and your gf who is a ex FL go out with friends and your friend tell you he up her before , even if you don't mind but it will have a barrier between you and her . Best is if you really love , prepare a sum of money and go to another country and start anew , nobody know anything about her past

[solar_sky]

i won't mind simply because i have visited fl, had sex with gf, non gf before.. i'm not a saint either...

as long after she stopped, she won't go back to the same line while we are still together saying that because she have no $ , etc...

[alphonsus]

No point asking for opinion. To each his own.

If you can, you can. If you can't, you can't.

If you are asking such a question, doubts already formed. Better pull the plug.

[ktcabi54]

yes i can accept ... they are human after all and need someone to love and care for them ...

everyone has their own past so why cant we accept them as they are ....
i am sure some of the bros here have at one point or another had some special feeling for some FL... the heart was been moved and melt but just at the crunch decide not to take the plunge into a relationship with them ...

simply because there is so much question that is going thru the mind ... end of the day is just whether can we accept or not

i have accepted ....

[sammyboyfor]

Hi.....

Not sure how guys think ....

For my personal reference ,

Thanks

There's no such thing as an EX FL. Once a whore... always a whore. They make take a break but the lure of easy money is impossible to resist.

[1stTR]

Bro TS, when a person is in luv, he/she will not mind on whatever issue. But, when the luv slowly subsided, both will start to see 'LIGHTS' and start to 'kpkb' on issue which will incl. those they previously 'dun mind'.

[Leverage Trader]

There's no such thing as an EX FL. Once a whore... always a whore. They make take a break but the lure of easy money is impossible to resist.

Agree fully with The BOSS.

"Dated" one SG Ex-FL for about one year after she quitted the SBF scene.......

She dumped me like a toxic trash when a filthy rich Indonesian Chinese (drives Ferrari kind) started to show interest in her.

A whore is a whore, she will always look for the best meal ticket :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[smoky7]

To put in straight, I reckon everyone out there will minds this issue to a certain extent. I agree with the boss, "once a whore, always one". Even if she can swear to the heavens that she's quitting the line for good, will you believe her wholeheartedly?

Imagine you are at work, you will start wondering what the hell is she up to, is she back to her old ways? Is another guy screwing her? And if a family member has engaged her services before, it's gonna be sticky. I rather not subject myself to such a situation.

I am one who can't accept it, especially if I'm gonna consider her to be my lifelong partner. If it's just a fling or a fb, then I will say yes.

[Wonder13]

If not into marriage, i think i won't mind an ex FL as a gf.

[tafguy35]

I think take a step at time. If she was a whore and she loves and you love her, go take the next step. I will not be too worried about it as long as I am not running for public office.:)

[equal]

There's no such thing as an EX FL. Once a whore... always a whore. They make take a break but the lure of easy money is impossible to resist.

Fully agree, and the FL mindset will never change, so if i know she is EX-fl, game over :D

[Fl2lover]

This is an issue that I am particularly close to. Agree with the boss and many bros that the lure of easy money is very very hard to resist. Especially if you have no good education or other skills that could offer you a normal job with relatively good income.

People nowadays are no longer easily satisfied by the simple life of olden days and hence the greater the need, the greater the lure of easy money. To be fair, there are of course those who do it not for luxury, but for basic survival and family.

The issue here of whether it can work or not, is really to first know if you love her and if she feels the same. Then it is a question of trust. Can she be trusted and are you prepared to give that trust. Lastly, it is how much you both wanna make it work. If both ate prepared to take on whatever difficultly that comes with the relationship, it can work. But seriously it will be difficult and you will always ask yourself why dont i find someone where the relationship will be easier.

For my case, my answer to the above question is all Yes. But my problem is i do not know what is hers. And there lies the real question, is she really in love wih u, can be trusted, and willing to go thru the toughh times with u. If any of the answer from her is no, forget it.

[panda1984]

My current gf is a FL who used to come to singapore and work. But now, she's not working as a FL anymore, but more of a social escort. I respect her decision even though we are together. Why? The answer is simply easy. Why would they wanted to work using their body in the first place, some are simply because they are horny. but not forgeting the fact, it's quick money and not just a 1000-2000 but a lot more..

For what i know is that, they do feel insecure when they come to relationship also. Because they wanted to have a better living in the future for themselves also. Just in case they are being left on the shelves, they still have the money to depend on.

I do know that bro's out there, some might feel that it's not wise to marry them. because of the illness that they might contract. and seriously speaking, if you ever love someone who is not into this line. but they contracted STDs because of some psycho's out there. will you stop loving and leave them? It's kinda of selfish for us to think it that way right?

My gf had never wanted me to spend money on her. Guess girls who worked in this line is kinda straightforward. Not their customer, they won't take the money. Money come's 1st follow by Relationships. I do had a hard time sustaining these. but It's all because of my love for her. so i had to work hard and earn more money for i wanted to give her a better future.

Just a piece of advice for guys who wanted FL as their gf. Respect their job. They never want to work in this line also. They do have their pride and please do not step over their pride. Thanks a lot. Even those FL we go to. they have their pride also.

Thanks.:p

[joncheong]

hi sammybros...i would like to share with you a personal experience...

i used to have a ex..it was a few years back... she was still studying at one of the private unis here....got to know her at a party through mutual friends...she was an astonishing beauty... i wouldn't have dared approach her if not my friends intro me to her...after that we spent some time away from the crowd and we chatted...we clicked...she has got those dao look but once she warms up to you you know she is a nice girl....

we dated a few times and soon went into a r/s...everything was going well and of course as part of the r/s we had sex now and then...we were a loving couple...until one fine day i got to know through friends that she fl for a period of time before she met me...i tried to give her the benefit of doubt plus i was deeply in love with her....one day i broke the topic to her...she admitted cos she didn't want to lie to me....i tried to accept her....but little did i know that i was wrong...i couldn't accept the fact that she has been banged by strangers before...(i myself is not an angel and have visited fls ...i know i am a jerk but when this occurred i just couldn't accept it) ...

one day we met up and she initiated sex at her home...halfway through the thought came up to my mind...i didn't want to stop cos i don't want to hurt her...for some reason i stopped being horny even though we were already halfway through and i was already deep inside her and she was damn high...i just released into her without any feelings....

after that i asked her to give me some time and she agreed...after that she suggested a break off since it's troubling me...she is a nice girl...just that i'm...


i'm sorry guys...i know i sound like a jerk but ... just to share with you all since ts has broke this topic...cheers

[googlechrome]

My current gf is a FL who used to come to singapore and work. But now, she's not working as a FL anymore, but more of a social escort. I respect her decision even though we are together. Why? The answer is simply easy. Why would they wanted to work using their body in the first place, some are simply because they are horny. but not forgeting the fact, it's quick money and not just a 1000-2000 but a lot more..

For what i know is that, they do feel insecure when they come to relationship also. Because they wanted to have a better living in the future for themselves also. Just in case they are being left on the shelves, they still have the money to depend on.

I do know that bro's out there, some might feel that it's not wise to marry them. because of the illness that they might contract. and seriously speaking, if you ever love someone who is not into this line. but they contracted STDs because of some psycho's out there. will you stop loving and leave them? It's kinda of selfish for us to think it that way right?

My gf had never wanted me to spend money on her. Guess girls who worked in this line is kinda straightforward. Not their customer, they won't take the money. Money come's 1st follow by Relationships. I do had a hard time sustaining these. but It's all because of my love for her. so i had to work hard and earn more money for i wanted to give her a better future.

Just a piece of advice for guys who wanted FL as their gf. Respect their job. They never want to work in this line also. They do have their pride and please do not step over their pride. Thanks a lot. Even those FL we go to. they have their pride also.

Thanks.:p

NO girls would actually go to this field, if they can choose. Unfortunately, not everyone is born rich and lucky.

[goodpartner]

after that i asked her to give me some time and she agreed...after that she suggested a break off since it's troubling me...she is a nice girl...just that i'm...

i'm sorry guys...i know i sound like a jerk but ... just to share with you all since ts has broke this topic...cheers

This is exactly what TS is afraid of herself now trapped between telling or not telling her current BF that she was a FL before :rolleyes:

I've mentioned before that anyone who is "forced by cirumstances" to work as a FL should at least give herself a definite span of TIME ($$ goal) and work in the right PLACE (not in own country).

TS, unfortunately you failed to practise it far away from Sg, a place where you wanted to start a normal family life. This fear of your BF finding out the truth will hunt you even for any future BF, regardless of whether this one leaves you.

[titan]

i think its when u know that ur gf is ex FL is the key issue here! i.e. u know her as a FL before both went into a r/s then its fine. If after gone into a r/s and find out much later, that's gonna hurt a lot. Trust level might not be there anymore..

[bonkudear]

Every one has a past. Most important is that it is really the past. Move on guys! Don't we all deserve a 2nd chance in life?

[qwertyqwer]

Hi,

Read your previous post about being a previous FL.

Honestly, for me being a guy, I would mind it if my gf was an ex-fl. This was why i did not do anything that would come back to haunt me. I would rather be faithful and be considered as someone stupid not to seek maximum pleasure. I would definitely expect the same from my gf too.

HOWEVER, that being said, if this case ever happen to me. No doubt I would be affected, but I would give it a long thought. Whether I really love the girl enough to accept her past. My advice is that if your bf can accept, he's a keeper. One that you probably can marry. Otherwise, perhaps you should just end the relationship as it is not meant to be a long term one.

Just my honest feedback.

[qwertyqwer]

Hi,

Read your previous post about being a previous FL.

Honestly, for me being a guy, I would mind it if my gf was an ex-fl. This was why i did not do anything that would come back to haunt me. I would rather be faithful and be considered as someone stupid not to seek maximum pleasure. I would definitely expect the same from my gf too.

HOWEVER, that being said, if this case ever happen to me. No doubt I would be affected, but I would give it a long thought. Whether I really love the girl enough to accept her past. My advice is that if your bf can accept, he's a keeper. One that you probably can marry. Otherwise, perhaps you should just end the relationship as it is not meant to be a long term one.

Just my honest feedback.

[tiancai007]

i have 3 thai fl gf, first gf just came back to work again, current gf just went back thailand, i dun mind they work before but when she is with me i dun wan her work again

[jessca]

NO girls would actually go to this field, if they can choose. Unfortunately, not everyone is born rich and lucky.

Even if you're not born rich and lucky, doesn't mean they have to be one. It is always a choice.

Anyway to TS, the question is can you accept that you are a ex-FL before? I read your other thread. I would suggest you to tell him. Whether he accept or not it's up to him. If a r/s doesn't even have honesty, I have no idea how long it can last.

Everybody has a past.

Be brave and good luck :)

[goodpartner]

This is exactly what TS is afraid of herself now trapped between telling or not telling her current BF that she was a FL before :rolleyes:

I've mentioned before that anyone who is "forced by cirumstances" to work as a FL should at least give herself a definite span of TIME ($$ goal) and work in the right PLACE (not in own country).

TS, unfortunately you failed to practise it far away from Sg, a place where you wanted to start a normal family life. This fear of your BF finding out the truth will hunt you even for any future BF, regardless of whether this one leaves you.

Further to my thoughts above. An aspiring FL can then treat that oversea sting as as a nightmare to be forgotten once she cum back to the home country. No familiar places to remind of the "work" and much less chances of bumping into ex-customers, even with photos taken by ex-customers can deny or call police if exposed. She can train the mind to erase that part of the memory and regard it as a bad dream.

Now, why u think those Thai/PRC WL works in Singapore or elsewhere? They too want to start a normal life in future and in fact they can easily earn as much back in the city/country where they live!

Last but not least, the problem with TS is with the mind now. It's not just about the choice to tell or not to tell. Since this image of herself as an ex-FL will haunt her forever as long as she cannot FORGIVE herself, plus the additional challenge of not being able to forgot it given this is the same city she shit-ed in. Just look at those replies from samsters like "I think I know who you are...".

TS, address your mind issue first, don't worry about making this decision on telling or not. Learn how to forgive and forget.

[Myojo89]

well if u love her u wouldnt mind her past =)

[Sirrus]

But u dunt forget, she has been fucked by many guys.

i think u should find ur wife at kindergarden.

[bugmenot]

IMHO, being conscious or non-conscious of the "ex-FL" status before the start of the R/S does makes a huge difference.

I liken it to driving along KPE over 70km/h (so used to other exp'ways higher speed limits thus happily accelerate only) or beating the red light.

KPE: The heavier-footed you are (the deeper you fall into the R/S), the higher consequences you face (exceed 40km/h court case + suspension).

Red light: You jolly well knows the camera sure snap and comes with demerit points and fine. You throttled through anyway.


Just my bigger than bullcart-wheel 5 cents worth... :D

[cutepig]

It depends on how much I love her and how much she loves me.

[arsenal_84]

as long as she has completely turn over a new leaf, i wouldn't mind her past status but i will never tell anyone her former occupation.
only i should know her past, everyone else have no right to know.

[Thanks]

Further to my thoughts above. An aspiring FL can then treat that oversea sting as as a nightmare to be forgotten once she cum back to the home country. No familiar places to remind of the "work" and much less chances of bumping into ex-customers, even with photos taken by ex-customers can deny or call police if exposed. She can train the mind to erase that part of the memory and regard it as a bad dream.

Now, why u think those Thai/PRC WL works in Singapore or elsewhere? They too want to start a normal life in future and in fact they can easily earn as much back in the city/country where they live!

Last but not least, the problem with TS is with the mind now. It's not just about the choice to tell or not to tell. Since this image of herself as an ex-FL will haunt her forever as long as she cannot FORGIVE herself, plus the additional challenge of not being able to forgot it given this is the same city she shit-ed in. Just look at those replies from samsters like "I think I know who you are...".

TS, address your mind issue first, don't worry about making this decision on telling or not. Learn how to forgive and forget.

Hi goodpartner

Thank you so much, reading your post makes me realize I haven't understood myself well enough...

I have been avoiding this issue based on the excuse that I do not wanna hurt my bf... Actually I did not wan to hurt myself the most... I did not wan to face up with my shameful past...

When everyone around me assumes I had it all, career, car, property, loving family and boyfriend, least would they know I would hold such a shameful past...

Am I afraid of losing my boyfriend or my reputation ?

I appreciate your post , you showed me something new.

Thanks

[HumpBackOak]

The only serious downside is that you may end up running into someone who was a client, while you are out with her.

Man's pride will most definitely be affected.

And of cause HIV and STDS which can be cleared by going to the DSC for a checkup.

men and women sleep around nowadays. it's so common.

So she sold her body for money. And you think the girls who throw themselves at caucasians, or rich guys and try to fuck their way into a relationship is any different?

What about the large numbers of women who believe that the guy should pay for everything on dates? Soft prostitution anyone? You will be hard pressed to find a woman who doesn't think that way.

In the current dating scene, it's about offering looks, money, sex, power, to get the best deal we can get.

Plenty of girls nowadays have more than one partner, probably had sex; hundreds of times before getting married.


End of the day, if the person is a good wife/gf and she has earned your trust.

The decision is really yours. Everyone has their own moral contradictions, what they can accept and what they cannot accept.

As long as you are happy. That's all that really matters.

[Pokercard]

ops..sorri..typo

[singmarine]

If my gf is an ex FL, I will want to try all her special skills every night. :D

[scheonghk]

I've once dated a local ex-FL. She had quit the FL scene for more than a year before we started dating. We had met at a company-wide dinner and dance where staff from all divisions and locations are invited. About three months into being in a relation, she told me about her past and I accepted it. I told her as well that I engage escorts and FLs. We had a good laugh and agreed that what goes around comes around. The relationship didn't last but it was because of personality differences and how we envisioned our future together, nothing to do with her past. The bottomline is that FL is a choice people make because of circumstances or otherwise, no need to cast it as a good or bad, correct or wrong. Look to the future and all will be better.


My two cents worth. Cheers.

[passi0n]

ex was a fl...

[wolflust]

At the end of day is up to the guy whether he can take it or not. Singapore is a small place, people from social circle present or future may have been one of her clients in the past.

Some may keep quiet about if they know about the girl's past. Some may out of goodwill or just being an asshole tell you about it. They may reveal to your relatives (example parents) or to people around you.

Ask yourself can you handle that kind of situation when it happens, even though you don't mind about her past. You may not mind but can you handle it when others in your social circle finds out about it.

[win13win]

I wouldn't mind her past, the problem is (maybe at the start) it will be hard to know whether she really love you or out there to earn more $ from you.

I personally had a fl girl friend before, she usually won't ask $ from me, but once she need... It will be biggger amount (few thousand).

To be together with fl or ex-fl, the hardest part is to gain trust from each other

[bastardball]

i think u should find ur wife at kindergarden.

Not advisable now bro...if u go FL 3 dome today...u get to see a few FLs who are Kindergarten teachers....:D

[fishball]

Truly and sincerly i agree with Sammy Boss.. Actually, i find that the fact that she had many sexual relationship with many guys is not so fundamentally disturbing as how many of us don't like to get in the sack while we are young be it for the economic gains or feel..?

What strikes me is that if a girl can get past her emotional/ psycological barrier of earning fast bucks in exchange of throwing out her body than what is stopping her from resumng it when she meet with difficult problems in future despite you and her is true? Its the mindset of the girl that really gets me.

You might say that one might not have much options but to resort to this.. blablabla.. I remember i read a post by sammy boss saying something like: We don't remember our grannies resort to prostitution when they first came to singapore without a penny in the pocket and would rather wash plates to raise the family. i really clap loudly in my heart when i read this.

[yang punk]

We humans are the biggest hypocrites. Our values are molded by religion, custom, tradition, etc. There are societies eg in China, where chastity is highly valued, and whilst there are those where young girls are expected to prostitute herself to earn enough 'dowry' for her future husband. Then there are also 'customs' for young men and girls to socialise by having casual sex in order to find their ideal partner!

If a whore is defined as one who sells her services using her body parts for money...then it makes whores out of everyone of us who makes a living using our hands, or feet, or brain! Isn't it? It's only a matter of which body parts we use.

Who is more astute? A 'chaste' girl who gives sex hoping for love OR a 'practical' girl who exchange sex for money? Does the involvement of money cheapen a person earning it? If so doesn't it makes a prostitute out of everyone of us who 'sells' our services?

Every girl who have had sex with multiple partners without taking precaution is subject to the risk of catching STD not only fl or wl!

Which category of girls is more honourable...that you rather marry?

(a) A happy go lucky girl with multiple relationships and who wouldn't think twice engaging in ons,

(b) A virgin you marry who later get involved in adulterous relationships, or

(c) An ex-fl who comes clean with you and stay faithful to you after marriage.

Men are selfish right? Before marriage you would rather fuck as many girls as possible (if virgin all the better). Then you would want a virgin for a wife and after you deflowered her on your wedding night you want her to be a high sex-drive personal 'whore' who would be slutty for you, bj you to sleep at night and wake you up with another bj in the morning. In between let you fuck her in the pussy and asshole and swallow your cum as often as you like! Dress slutty for you and pose eip and nip for your camera so that you can show off to bros in this forum. On the top of all this she must remain faithful and loving to you.

BUT on the other hand you can stay out late to 'entertain' in ktvs and clubs, visit fls and wls for variety and keep fbs (service to pitiful married friends/colleagues who do not get enough sex from their own hubbies)

Double standards? ;)

[yang punk]

double post, sorry

[yang punk]

What strikes me is that if a girl can get past her emotional/ psycological barrier of earning fast bucks in exchange of throwing out her body than what is stopping her from resumng it when she meet with difficult problems in future despite you and her is true? Its the mindset of the girl that really gets me.

How come you don't blame the man first for NOT being able to provide for her that she have to resort to her old trade?

You might say that one might not have much options but to resort to this.. blablabla.. I remember i read a post by sammy boss saying something like: We don't remember our grannies resort to prostitution when they first came to singapore without a penny in the pocket and would rather wash plates to raise the family. i really clap loudly in my heart when i read this.

Maybe she didn't have the assets and qualities demanded of a prostitute?

Typical blinkered mindset!

[WRX Impreza]

Its a tricky situation to be in. We MAN are selfish, we can fool and fuck around, but we expect our partners not to. Some of us also got ego problem and MCP some more. Just imagine ur buddy telling u he made love to a FL and all the wonderful things they done on the bed, then u bring ur FL gal friend out and it turns out to be the gal that ur buddy is taling about. Will ur ego gets the better of you??

This is just one of the points that i can think of. Many many more... You can say u don mind at this moment of time, but wat about many days, months, years down the road. I still thinl rule number 1 is to be professional and never get involved in a serious relationship with any FL. But if really fall in love, got to really consider very carefully before u commit urself even deeper.

If u have jus drawn out ur cpf, then u really got to be very very careful and not to end up being cheated of ur feelings and money in the end.

[fishball]

Typical blinkered mindset!

Don't really agree with you but i do admit that it is getting common to actually use sex as a "Currency" in various forms.

Good exchange for some mind triggering thoughts~ Upz u~:)

[onlyhuman]

Ts, u will be surprised that some gers just fucked anybody that comes along so which is worse? So why should I mind my gf is an FL?

[TwinX]

Won't mind as long as she never kena "anything".

[anotherlife]

We humans are the biggest hypocrites. Our values are molded by religion, custom, tradition, etc. There are societies eg in China, where chastity is highly valued, and whilst there are those where young girls are expected to prostitute herself to earn enough 'dowry' for her future husband. Then there are also 'customs' for young men and girls to socialise by having casual sex in order to find their ideal partner!

If a whore is defined as one who sells her services using her body parts for money...then it makes whores out of everyone of us who makes a living using our hands, or feet, or brain! Isn't it? It's only a matter of which body parts we use.

Who is more astute? A 'chaste' girl who gives sex hoping for love OR a 'practical' girl who exchange sex for money? Does the involvement of money cheapen a person earning it? If so doesn't it makes a prostitute out of everyone of us who 'sells' our services?

Every girl who have had sex with multiple partners without taking precaution is subject to the risk of catching STD not only fl or wl!

Which category of girls is more honourable...that you rather marry?

(a) A happy go lucky girl with multiple relationships and who wouldn't think twice engaging in ons,

(b) A virgin you marry who later get involved in adulterous relationships, or

(c) An ex-fl who comes clean with you and stay faithful to you after marriage.

Men are selfish right? Before marriage you would rather fuck as many girls as possible (if virgin all the better). Then you would want a virgin for a wife and after you deflowered her on your wedding night you want her to be a high sex-drive personal 'whore' who would be slutty for you, bj you to sleep at night and wake you up with another bj in the morning. In between let you fuck her in the pussy and asshole and swallow your cum as often as you like! Dress slutty for you and pose eip and nip for your camera so that you can show off to bros in this forum. On the top of all this she must remain faithful and loving to you.

BUT on the other hand you can stay out late to 'entertain' in ktvs and clubs, visit fls and wls for variety and keep fbs (service to pitiful married friends/colleagues who do not get enough sex from their own hubbies)

Double standards? ;)

Agree with you bro. ups for you.
If I really loved that person, I will be willing to accept her past.

[pro.d.igy]

Here's the thing. We judge not by our own standards, but the standards set by society. How many of us can claim to be truly "NON-JUDGMENTAL" ?

If she comes clean with me about her past, and I can envision a happy future with her, why would I let her past cloud my judgment about who she will become in the future?

I think you have to look at the bigger picture. There's always a bigger picture out there, just that society blinds us to that fact. ;)

[Thai guy]

Well, at least a FL get screwed still being paid. There r many girls ONS outside FREE. And it's so normal now. Do u nod that nowadays, to find a virgin is more difficult than to find a dinosaur. U must understand that they also worry that how we see them too in BGR. And u must nod that this job is there since in anicent times. There's a very good chinese saying 笑贫不笑伧 (laugh no money not laugh prostitution)

They also have no choice but to make a living. Else who give them $$$ to support their family? And there will be no sammyboyforum already... Haha. And without them, we brothers maybe become rapists. So we should not look down on them: Instead we should respect them. Afterall, they didn't rob, or cheat. And it's just a normal job in Thailand. So can we open our heart and accept them.....;)

[yang punk]

From the views expressed here, looks like it's the younger less experienced guys who tend to have a more narrow and unforgiving mindset. Those who have lived and seen the world, Sammyboss excluded ;), are more forgiving. It's like Jesus saying, "Let those without sin caste the first stone" (to the crowd who were about to stone Mary Magdalene, the prostitute).

One advice to men out there, if you don't want your partner to end up being someone else's FB, stay faithful and loyal and make sure you satisfy your wife sexually, attend to her needs more than your own because even the most decent and innocent looking wives have cheated and it is more common than you think! Remember...for every man with a FB there MUST be a woman!