German girlfriend: My girlfriend had paid sex with a thai boy

[RainerH]

Sometimes ago I went public with a rather unusual and humiliating experience in Thailand in regard to female sex tourism. During our Thailand holidays my farang German girlfriend actively looked for thai guys and was finally bedded by a young thai lover. I initially intended to find out, to how many other farang (=white) males something similar happened, either if their girlfriends went alone to Thailand or they even travelled even together with their farang boyfriends, like in my case. Some readers doubted my experience at all. It is a “tables are turned” situation in a country, which is by some considered as a sex paradise for male westeners only. Today, I can only conclude that my case is a real rare one, or it happens much more often but the humiliated farang males felt so demeaned, that none ever talks openly about it.
Nevertheless, I still believe that I am probably not they only farang, who had to accept to share his girl with a thai competitor, or otherwise lose her. Therefore I try again to start a discussion on this taboo subject and hope for some more serious and honest replies:
As a student from Germany I visited Thailand together with my girlfriend some years ago for the first time. Claudia and I were together for three years and she never cheated on me nor did I on her. But already during our initial visit I recognized how much she was fascinated by young athletic Thai guys. On the other hand she became extremely jealous when I dared to have a quick look at Thai girls or any other females.
During our second visit she admitted having sexual fantasies about Thai guys, which I had already suspected for some time! Once having ousted her fantasies and when she realized that she rather provoked a depressed reaction on my side than an outrage, I was totally surprised how she kept pushing on with her ''ideas'' with great stubbornness...to let them finally become reality! Only later Claudia admitted that she would not have had dared to ever tell me again her fantasies, would I have reacted outraged. But my reaction obviously boosted her self-confidence to try to let her fantasies come somehow true and not to bury them under feelings of shame and guilt. From day to day she showed more and more openly her interest in Thai men ...obviously interpreting my embarrassing helplessness to cope with the situation as silent consent (...which is was not !). There was less and less hiding of her sexual desires and no more false excuses for me...!
I do not like to reveal all the details, they are embarrassing and I know, a lot of farang and Thai guys will laugh at me. Claudia persuaded me to join her out to some boys bars, ..driven by her desire, but still hesitating. After long lasting and luring eye-contact with young Thai guys, it seemed to me that they quicky understood, what the young farang lady was after but were irritated by my presence. I hated it to see all this youngster queing for Claudia and asked myself, if they are more greedy for her body or our holiday bugdet. Soon we both new that my “escorting her” had became obsolete. She finally became confident enough to roam alone, but always came back early.
It was some days later, when she got a call on her mobile while we were spending the afternoon at our hotel pool at the Golden Palace Hotel, off Sukhumvit Road in Bangkok. She became very exited...and after a while asked me into my face, if I can live with the fact that she intends to date a Thai boy that night, whom she met a night before. I was very jealous but I saw in her eyes how extremely exited she was to date the guy and we both knew well ...tonight it will be for paid sex. I asked her ’Claudia, are you really sure...?!’ She swallowed and nodded silently and said ‘Rainer....it has nothing to do with you....it is simply...’.
She intended to take the Thai boy out for some romantic dinner and then come back to the Golden Palace Hotel. She as well as I felt more secure to let it happen in our place, rather then in some unknown seedy place. At the Golden Palace Hotel we were sure that outward guests are all registered, when staying in a guest’s room. On the one hand Claudia wanted to have her first experience with a young Thai stranger in secure, comfortable and familiar surroundings, but on the other hand, she wanted me to be safely excluded and not to spoil in any way what was meant to be her perfect sex. (Later she admitted that she was at this time very insecure, if I, in the end, would not lose my temper and do something stupid, respectively totally freak out in the hotel floors once after I have realised that she is naked on the sheets with the Thai guy!). Strange enough, instead of my burning jealousy, I simply assured her that I will respect her privacy...probably instinctively sensing that my girlfriend was expecting me to no longer be an obstacle to her very special sexual desire. I surrendered to the inevitable situation and hoped all will be fast forgotten after a one night stand, what will hopefully satisfy her desire for good.
Before she went out that evening Claudia rented a second room on another floor for the remaining time in Bangkok without revealing the room number to me.
Later that night we left together the Golden Palace Hotel, turned from Soi 1 on to the Sukhumvit Road. In a pharmacy near Siam Square Claudia bought the obligatory condoms. A guy at the counter gave us a dirty smile and said in bad English: “You have fun…!” I thought desperately jealous ‘....for some lucky Thai penis!’ We stepped out into the warm air of a busy Bangkok night. She checked again nervously her own room key, and the condoms in her handbag. There was something like a ‘oohh, please understand!’ in her eyes when she hugged me and gave me a hasty kiss. Then we separated. ‘There goes my girl, ‘... to meet her date...,’ I thought.
I sat frustrated in one of the cinema complexes at Siam Square and then spent a poor night in an empty double-bed, not daring to imagine what was happening behind one of the doors on an upper floor. I never asked my girlfriend what she paid for the ‘service’ she received. (Claudia remained silent on those nights and I finally respected her privacy).
After a sleepless night, I went down to the breakfast room and passed by a the reception. The two chinese guys of the night shift saw me approaching stopped immediately talking and were extremly polite to me, but when I just left the reception on to the yard they started giggling and I had the suspicion they were amusing themselves on my expense.
I entered the breakfast room and saw Claudia with her new lover at a table. I will never forget how pleased and satisfied she looked, when our eyes first met incidently. The very attentive thai guy next to her was relatively tall. I remember how his black hair fall over his forehead and covered one of his eyes. The other one was aggressively watching me.
They let me approach, looked at each other, then Claudia and the Thai gave me a humiliating smile and invited me to join breakfast at their table. The young thai was clever enough to immediately exploit my insecurity and weakness, when he touched my girlfriend openly in front of me and watched her enjoying his hand on her naked leg. He managed to shattered the rest of my self-confidence and within hours he suffocated my last resistance. What I hoped to be a forgetable one night stand turned out to become a take over of my girl for the remaining holidays. He made it absolutely clear that he would stay in the ‘driver’s seat’ for the rest of our holidays, having good sex and being paid for it by a farang girl! On the other hand I understood from Claudia that she somehow enjoyed the macho-behaviour of her non-western exotic lover and that the Thai showed no whatsoever respect for the fact that I had been her boyfriend for so many years. Claudia spoke to be for a long time and tried to convince me that it is really only a sex affair with the Thai. She tried to confort me but was also clear that he will bed her exclusively. Eventually I retreated fearing to lose my girl and his aggressivness towards me decreased. The winner takes it all!
Later I assisted Claudia to move her remaining cloth from our room to her new room. The Thai was in the bathroom showering. I saw his and her cloth scattered all over the carpet, the toilette paper on the side table and the bed sheets in total disorder. I remember how I swallowed and until today I imagine how they undressed, how he got on top of her and started thrusting my moaning girl.
It happened all so fast that after the holiday I was emotionally struggling for a long time. After our return Claudia did not cheat on me and proved that she was, after all, only interested in hot sex with a young asian. Occassionally she still sends him some money, but I can live with this.
Today I am still together with Claudia and we have engaged. We are honest enough to each other to accept that she will go out again to look for a suitable partner, if we ever go to Thailand again.
Apart from trying to start a discussion on the subject of female sex tourism in Thailand it is for me important to send this report to all those, who still believe that
1. asian guys are unable to satisfy farang ladies because of their again and again repeated “myth of smaller penis size” ,
2. who still believe that women sexuality is restricted to certain pattern / types. Claudia overcame her shyness...and finally did only that openly, what many girls, housewives, etc. might secretly think: To enjoy a tropical night with a perfect lover with no regrets.
Rainer
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/thaiguywhitegirlsex/photos/album/1857097414/pic/1968145840/view?picmode=&mode=tn&order=ordinal&start=1&count=20&dir=asc
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[Northern]

Sometimes ago I went public with a rather unusual and humiliating experience in Thailand in regard to female sex tourism.

When you say public, you really mean public.

You posted the same thing in around 10 similar sites with the earliest date I can see at Jan 9, 2009.

One can only wonder why :confused::rolleyes:

[RainerH]

When you say public, you really mean public.

You posted the same thing in around 10 similar sites with the earliest date I can see at Jan 9, 2009.

One can only wonder why :confused::rolleyes:


I first posted my experience in 2007 with personal thailand (... on recommendation of personal thailand not using our real names to protect our privacy) Due to a mistake later our real names ,Claudia and Rainer, were revealed.
You are absolutely right, I posted my experience many times over a long period of time. I cannot believe that I am ,beside one Swiss guy, the only westener who went through such an experience. So far, as I said above, only a guy from Switzerland admitted that it had happened to him in a similar way and also he had to accept to share his girl with an asian gigolo, whom she met on the beach.
Taking in consideration how many thai gigolos are chasing white girls for sex, fun and of course money, I simply cannot believe that I and the Swiss guy are the ONLY ONES and again and again I try to find more western guys who might be willing to talk about it in public. But I am also interested how asian men think about my experience, taking in consideration that the western media pictures them very often as less male then western guys (small penis myth etc.), which I had to find out is absolute stupid. Hopefully I am not boring anyone, that is not my intention.

[Faidenk]

When you say public, you really mean public.

You posted the same thing in around 10 similar sites with the earliest date I can see at Jan 9, 2009.

One can only wonder why :confused::rolleyes:




Still it is a confession, so blatantly honest, not easy to make. It would have gutted me, especially when the Thai displayed his 'ownership' in the restaurant and I think I would have blew it there. I doubt I would have continued with the relationship. Samleong is right that women need a reason to have sex, and men just need a place. Men can have a ONS and forget about it right after he discards the condom, while women are usually more complex than that.

I suspect TS's posting if the experience is something of a therapy and perhaps of a closure to the episode, and I wish him well.

As much a monger that I am, it really takes a men's man to really able to take it as much as give it. My hat off to TS.

[outatowner]

i would like to know if u r still together and if so do u see other women too i mean at the end of the day claudia has a right to be happy and if this is wat she wants u cant deny her that on the other hand u need to decide if this is the kind of women u want to be with and while i do not moralize sex u also need to feel a sense of equality in the relationship which sounds like not the case u also have the right to be happy and i cant see how u feel this right now in this situation

[goodpartner]

I suspect TS's posting if the experience is something of a therapy and perhaps of a closure to the episode, and I wish him well.

As much a monger that I am, it really takes a men's man to really able to take it as much as give it. My hat off to TS.

It seems like after 2 years and many attempts to seek closure, our bro is still bothered by it given the relentless pursue of an answer to "am I the only one?".

It's either that "many" others in similar plight are simply not "man" enough to admit they have such a partner, OR it's really just so uncommon. Given the anonymity of these forums, I bet it's the latter, unfortunately.

I believe these attempts to go public is an outlet for TS to remain sane. For how long? We'll see....

[arsenal_84]

if the issue is still bothering you, then you never really get over it.
this issue will continue to resurface if you continue to pen it down.

the key issue is there are many girls around the world, she may not be the one you're looking for.

[Bangster]

Ok ok that Thai guy was me.

I love German pussies!!!

[RainerH]

Ok ok that Thai guy was me.

I love German pussies!!!

Your comment is not really helpful!

[Brera]

Bro. As I'm reading your post I feel sorry for you.. My blood was AT boiling as I was reading it.. Personally what you agreed to her will only encourage her to enjoy herself again.. I dont think you ever to get over the event so you should better move on dude..

[RainerH]

Bro. As I'm reading your post I feel sorry for you.. My blood was AT boiling as I was reading it.. Personally what you agreed to her will only encourage her to enjoy herself again.. I dont think you ever to get over the event so you should better move on dude..


Yes my blood was boiling too for a long time. But I will not move on to another girl because I want Claudia although she favourites asian guys for sex and she loves her freedom. We got anyway married early this year.

For nearly all white guys it seems to be their absolute right to go to South-East Asia to fuck the wifes, daughters, sisters of local men. I was a proud white guy with my white clean lady and I admit I thought all the same way. I could simply not imagine that an young asian guy would ever touch my lady! But it happened and moreover she enjoyed it,.....that is why the humiliation is so strong. Like many thai guys Khun was shy in the beginning when dating a white guy's lady. But after she opened her legs for Khun his self confindence boosted. He made me the next morning to nothing more as an castrated underdog right in front of her and proclaimed his 'ownership' over Clauda,...what I finally accepted when I let him become her holiday lover and he lived on our holiday budget. But even Claudia changed as I witnessed. Being normally a very self-confident western women I suspect that she instinctively liked his macho-style what made her even more horny. She let herself deliberately 'owned' by Khun, who mounted her whenever HE wanted and made absolutely clear to ME, to other THAIS and to HER that HE is the only one who beds her.

The humiliation for a white guy like me is so strong that even after years I get extremely jealous. For example I found out that watching fotos of asian penis (see my yahoo group) makes me extremely jealous, not because I am gay, but because again and again I must imagine how such an young asian penis did go again an again deep into the vagina of my wife.

[outatowner]

Yes my blood was boiling too for a long time. But I will not move on to another girl because I want Claudia although she favourites asian guys for sex and she loves her freedom. We got anyway married early this year.

For nearly all white guys it seems to be their absolute right to go to South-East Asia to fuck the wifes, daughters, sisters of local men. I was a proud white guy with my white clean lady and I admit I thought all the same way. I could simply not imagine that an young asian guy would ever touch my lady! But it happened and moreover she enjoyed it,.....that is why the humiliation is so strong. Like many thai guys Khun was shy in the beginning when dating a white guy's lady. But after she opened her legs for Khun his self confindence boosted. He made me the next morning to nothing more as an castrated underdog right in front of her and proclaimed his 'ownership' over Clauda,...what I finally accepted when I let him become her holiday lover and he lived on our holiday budget. But even Claudia changed as I witnessed. Being normally a very self-confident western women I suspect that she instinctively liked his macho-style what made her even more horny. She let herself deliberately 'owned' by Khun, who mounted her whenever HE wanted and made absolutely clear to ME, to other THAIS and to HER that HE is the only one who beds her.

The humiliation for a white guy like me is so strong that even after years I get extremely jealous. For example I found out that watching fotos of asian penis (see my yahoo group) makes me extremely jealous, not because I am gay, but because again and again I must imagine how such an young asian penis did go again an again deep into the vagina of my wife.

ok now u married her thats nuts i did feel sorry a bit when u were just bf and gf but at the end of the day claudia has a right to be happy y dont u get it y do u torture yourself she has the right to be happy let her go she is not a wife she is a woman who goes out and fuks other men get over it and move on go to philippines and fuk bar girls for 2 weeks mate see how u will feel then be a man

[tenggiri]

This is beyond my realm of understanding! How can one stand by and allow his gf to be fucked by another guy! Are you a man? If so, stand up and be counted my friend.

[Brera]

Well... Since u both are married.. I hope both of you best of wishes.. But think you should talk to her about it that it's still huanting you.. It's ain't fair on your side.. At the same time u could pay the gay boy best friend to bed his mom.. Hahaaa.. Maybe it will make u feel better. In the meanwhile since you know what she looks for in sex u could beef up n sex her and be in control!

[hardworking48]

Rainer,

I have to be blunt with you... you are a dick head and softie to let yr girl run right over you and fxxk another guy. IF you had the balls to get aggressive and control yr girl and let her fantasy remained only a fantasy, today you wont be suffering. If it were me, and my girl insist on fxxking another guy to fulfilled her fantasy, I would hv kicked her ass and throw her into Chao Praya River. THATS the MAN she wans to see which she could not see in you.

Sorry I have to be tough to say the above but thats the way I treat my girls,and they simply love my macho demanding ways.:mad:

How can you still keep an absolutely unfaithful woman by your side even now??? I cannot comprehend. Good luck to you my friend.

[RainerH]

Well... Since u both are married.. I hope both of you best of wishes.. But think you should talk to her about it that it's still huanting you.. It's ain't fair on your side.. At the same time u could pay the gay boy best friend to bed his mom.. Hahaaa.. Maybe it will make u feel better. In the meanwhile since you know what she looks for in sex u could beef up n sex her and be in control!

I talked a lot about it with Claudia and she does not oppose if I try to find other white males via the internet, who went through the same experience.
Yes and of cause it keeps me haunting and makes me very jealous if I think how that maybe nineteen or twenty year old thai emptied his balls again and again deep into my white lady in the Golden Palace Bangkok hotel room. One way to cope with my jealousness is to watch some asian male/white female video, which help me to comprehend what has really happened. To imagine it before my mental eye is very brutal (see for example the video: http://fantasti.cc/videos/permalink/megarotic/Asian-Male-/white-Female/89594/?&id=89594#) but I simply cannot stop watching how she was thrusted by a 'stonger' asian, just like the girl in the video. I know it is horrible, but it makes me so jealous and I want my wife even more. She just smiled and gave me a hug when she knew about my watching that stuff.

http://fantasti.cc/videos/permalink/megarotic/Asian-Male-/white-Female/89594/?&id=89594#

[Bangster]

Limpdicked fucker

You think you can upload some lame video and then expect us to stupidly pay to watch it?

Go get fucked by some gay asian to satisfy yourself

[chatlovers]

Limpdicked fucker

You think you can upload some lame video and then expect us to stupidly pay to watch it?

Go get fucked by some gay asian to satisfy yourself

Bro, I think you have gotten it wrongly.. you can watch it. Do not worry about message on your screen about pay to watch.

Anyway TS, why dont you pay a german hooker and do the same what your wife did. And let her know how good that girl was.

[goodpartner]

Limpdicked fucker

You think you can upload some lame video and then expect us to stupidly pay to watch it?

Go get fucked by some gay asian to satisfy yourself

Wah lan.... what a long bull story to scam people to subscribe to porn if that's the intention.

If it's unintentional, perhaps this RainerH fellow is already a subscriber to that porn site himself and thinks that he can simply post the link here without knowing that others need to pay to view; indirectly helping the site to make money. :rolleyes:

In any case, if the story is true, the BEST answer so far is this:

Rainer,

I have to be blunt with you... you are a dick head and softie to let yr girl run right over you and fxxk another guy. IF you had the balls to get aggressive and control yr girl and let her fantasy remained only a fantasy, today you wont be suffering. If it were me, and my girl insist on fxxking another guy to fulfilled her fantasy, I would hv kicked her ass and throw her into Chao Praya River. THATS the MAN she wans to see which she could not see in you.

:

How can you still keep an absolutely unfaithful woman by your side even now??? I cannot comprehend. Good luck to you my friend.

This woman has already climbed over his big head and shitted all over him.

What a fucking disgrace to all men out there; especially the white men!

[goodpartner]

I talked a lot about it with Claudia and she does not oppose if I try to find other white males via the internet, who went through the same experience.

WTF is she thinking when she "allows" you to do this? Let you seek self-medication?

Invite her to read this thread and tell us what she says.

[stephzz87]

Rainer,

I have to be blunt with you... you are a dick head and softie to let yr girl run right over you and fxxk another guy. IF you had the balls to get aggressive and control yr girl and let her fantasy remained only a fantasy, today you wont be suffering. If it were me, and my girl insist on fxxking another guy to fulfilled her fantasy, I would hv kicked her ass and throw her into Chao Praya River. THATS the MAN she wans to see which she could not see in you.

Sorry I have to be tough to say the above but thats the way I treat my girls,and they simply love my macho demanding ways.:mad:

How can you still keep an absolutely unfaithful woman by your side even now??? I cannot comprehend. Good luck to you my friend.

Totally agree with u dude, have tried to put myself in ur shoes Rainer, I can feel the pain! Seriously pain! But instead throwing her into chao praya river, I will fuck two or even three Thailand women in front of her and bring woman back to your bed and have sex in front of her! Let her know I fuck another woman in UR bed! finally dump her for good there are much more better gals that deserve ur attention! Dun waste ur time with sluts!

[outatowner]

I talked a lot about it with Claudia and she does not oppose if I try to find other white males via the internet, who went through the same experience.
Yes and of cause it keeps me haunting and makes me very jealous if I think how that maybe nineteen or twenty year old thai emptied his balls again and again deep into my white lady in the Golden Palace Bangkok hotel room. One way to cope with my jealousness is to watch some asian male/white female video, which help me to comprehend what has really happened. To imagine it before my mental eye is very brutal (see for example the video: http://fantasti.cc/videos/permalink/megarotic/Asian-Male-/white-Female/89594/?&id=89594#) but I simply cannot stop watching how she was thrusted by a 'stonger' asian, just like the girl in the video. I know it is horrible, but it makes me so jealous and I want my wife even more. She just smiled and gave me a hug when she knew about my watching that stuff.

http://fantasti.cc/videos/permalink/megarotic/Asian-Male-/white-Female/89594/?&id=89594#

there can be no doubt in my mind after considering this that u r not a victim more over u need your wife to do this in order for u too keep going with her u love it and u want her more bec of it u try to show that u r hurting but deep inside u love the fact your wife is being fuked deeply and passionately by young athletic thai guys u imagine how they shout and there young athletic bodies sweat when your wife makes them release their fertile cum inside her and they shout out in ecstacy and can do this over and over again at some point u r secretly hoping one of the young thai guys to impregnate your wife so u can feel her tummy swell with their passion and the fruit from the seed the men put inside your wife u need to feel the jelaousy and hurt or your relationship with claudia cannot function for u this is your sexual fetish and u r living the ultimate dream:p

[RainerH]

there can be no doubt in my mind after considering this that u r not a victim more over u need your wife to do this in order for u too keep going with her u love it and u want her more bec of it u try to show that u r hurting but deep inside u love the fact your wife is being fuked deeply and passionately by young athletic thai guys u imagine how they shout and there young athletic bodies sweat when your wife makes them release their fertile cum inside her and they shout out in ecstacy and can do this over and over again at some point u r secretly hoping one of the young thai guys to impregnate your wife so u can feel her tummy swell with their passion and the fruit from the seed the men put inside your wife u need to feel the jelaousy and hurt or your relationship with claudia cannot function for u this is your sexual fetish and u r living the ultimate dream:p

NO ! I do not want to see Claudia pregnant from a thai guy, but I am afraid it might happen,...a nightmare!

[raftime68]

Bro, when i read the whole trip in thailand as i m a guy is not worth to your girlfriend, bec to me relationship for her is nothing she want to have fun to other guy. to me u like toys that u giveing in too much and tajke advantage. Now u r engage, y not open ur mind focus your future wat will happen when she do again. can u take it to c when she do again. U r a man not toys when she ask u can do this or can do that. Stand like a man not woman control u. Sorry bro i m telling straight to u .

[RainerH]

Bro, when i read the whole trip in thailand as i m a guy is not worth to your girlfriend, bec to me relationship for her is nothing she want to have fun to other guy. to me u like toys that u giveing in too much and tajke advantage. Now u r engage, y not open ur mind focus your future wat will happen when she do again. can u take it to c when she do again. U r a man not toys when she ask u can do this or can do that. Stand like a man not woman control u. Sorry bro i m telling straight to u .

There is not a big asian community in Germany. But anyway Claudia did it already again, when she had one rare occasion: She met a young Japanese engineer during a trade fair in Duesseldorf (Germany), where she was working for a couple of days. Although the guy was married back in Japan (with kids, if it is true what he told her) they had sex in his hotel room only hours after they met. I try to live with it because I know this has nothing to do with love. She just wants it from time to time...and I found it less humiliating then in Thailand because I never got the Japanese guy to know.

[goodpartner]

She confessed to you about this Jap guy AFTER the fact? Didn't get your "permission" this round?

OMFG.... and you're OK with it too?

Oh man...this is it. You're fucked!

The next time, she'll bring the asian dicks back home and fuck on your matrimonial bed!

[RainerH]

She confessed to you about this Jap guy AFTER the fact? Didn't get your "permission" this round?

OMFG.... and you're OK with it too?

Oh man...this is it. You're fucked!

The next time, she'll bring the asian dicks back home and fuck on your matrimonial bed!

....After Thailand Claudia never asked me for a permission and it is not that she goes out targeting asian males for her desire. But if she is in the mood and the guy suits her it will happen...I may be weak but I am not so stupid to believe it will never happen again since that thai gigolo fullfilled her dreams more than she ever expected. Well I am not OK with it. I am very jealous to imagine that an unkown japanese came into my Claudia,...but the humiliation is less then it was before. Claudia is from a conservative family, for us (and I mean BOTH of us) it will be never imaginable that she brings one of her lovers home. I cannot imagine what anyone of our relatives, friends will think about her if ever someone would find out. On the other hand, like already in Thailand, Claudia will also not follow a stranger into his room/apartment/house if she is in heat. This is, and again we both agree on that, simply because of saftey reasons. That is why she will choose a hotel on the one hand for saftey reasons on the other hand because of privacy. I think it is a big taboo for a white woman to get bedded by young asians....and again I think that is the reason why no white guy dares to speak about the thing. I am sure, considering how many thai gigolos are hunting for white girls, that my experience must probably happened also to other white guys:(,...means that their white ladies got passionately fucked:p by their young lovers:D in the tropical Thailand paradise,...leaving an embarrassed looser behind:(.

[perfection89]

Lol @ TS.

1. You are giving up the forest for a shit piece of flower that has dog poo on it.
2. She needs to fuck a thai penis because you are too soft alr... she's despo for a macho man and that's what you are not.


End of the day, it's up to you to help yourself. Get another 2 or 3 thai girl and fuck them in front of her or just hide in the cloest while your wife get gangbanged. Really, it's your choice. :D

[arsenal_84]

while you do not see yourself as a victim but others view you as a helpless victim with no other choice than to voice out your opinion here.
i like to believe that you are strong enough to leave her and your love for her is just a lousy excuse for you to stay trapped in this deteriorating relationship.

[copymark]

Bro it appears that you are also into being cuckolded by ur gf. That's hot.

[jonni17]

Seems like Claudia has more balls than Rainer eh?

[sumsung]

sad.............

[BscBMD997]

Rainer,

are you seeking advice or merely sharing your sorrows for posting here?

I feel that though you love your wife alot, but she has hurt your ego. She humiliated you so much it has already left a deep scar within you. This scar will remain with you throughout your entire marriage life.

So....what do you want to do about it?

The action which your wife did...simply shows that her urge for Thai guys overwrites your love for her. She can do it once...she can do it again. Do you really want to live your life like that?

There is a chinese saying "bu yao wei le yi ke shu, fang xia zhen ge sheng ling"

Literally..."dont forsake the entire forest just because of 1 tree".

All i m saying is.."get out, start afresh somewhere else. At least you wont have nitemares thinking when she will go for another Thai guy(s). Or even bring them home on your bed".

[leaseoflife]

He's fucked. Period.

[lsweetheartl]

Feel so sorry for you.:(

Yes my blood was boiling too for a long time. But I will not move on to another girl because I want Claudia although she favourites asian guys for sex and she loves her freedom. We got anyway married early this year.

For nearly all white guys it seems to be their absolute right to go to South-East Asia to fuck the wifes, daughters, sisters of local men. I was a proud white guy with my white clean lady and I admit I thought all the same way. I could simply not imagine that an young asian guy would ever touch my lady! But it happened and moreover she enjoyed it,.....that is why the humiliation is so strong. Like many thai guys Khun was shy in the beginning when dating a white guy's lady. But after she opened her legs for Khun his self confindence boosted. He made me the next morning to nothing more as an castrated underdog right in front of her and proclaimed his 'ownership' over Clauda,...what I finally accepted when I let him become her holiday lover and he lived on our holiday budget. But even Claudia changed as I witnessed. Being normally a very self-confident western women I suspect that she instinctively liked his macho-style what made her even more horny. She let herself deliberately 'owned' by Khun, who mounted her whenever HE wanted and made absolutely clear to ME, to other THAIS and to HER that HE is the only one who beds her.

The humiliation for a white guy like me is so strong that even after years I get extremely jealous. For example I found out that watching fotos of asian penis (see my yahoo group) makes me extremely jealous, not because I am gay, but because again and again I must imagine how such an young asian penis did go again an again deep into the vagina of my wife.

[RainerH]

Rainer,

are you seeking advice or merely sharing your sorrows for posting here?

I feel that though you love your wife alot, but she has hurt your ego. She humiliated you so much it has already left a deep scar within you. This scar will remain with you throughout your entire marriage life.

So....what do you want to do about it?

The action which your wife did...simply shows that her urge for Thai guys overwrites your love for her. She can do it once...she can do it again. Do you really want to live your life like that?

There is a chinese saying "bu yao wei le yi ke shu, fang xia zhen ge sheng ling"

Literally..."dont forsake the entire forest just because of 1 tree".

All i m saying is.."get out, start afresh somewhere else. At least you wont have nitemares thinking when she will go for another Thai guy(s). Or even bring them home on your bed".

..thank you for kind advice and not swearing. But I simply cannot separate from her.

[Bangster]

Feel so sorry for you.:(

Don't feel sorry for him.

It's his fetish.

He's writing here to seek like-minded people or for his own sexual gratification.

I haven't seen someone who has been disturbed by a certain event describe the whole thing so vividly.

[outatowner]

Don't feel sorry for him.

It's his fetish.

He's writing here to seek like-minded people or for his own sexual gratification.

I haven't seen someone who has been disturbed by a certain event describe the whole thing so vividly.

this is oh so true part of his fetish is to play the victim he needs this in order to feed his fetish he is addicted and totally turned on by his wife being fuked over and over again by athletic thai men if this were to stop he would be trully devastated and a big part of his sexual fetish is to gain sympathy from others people that respond and give advice are feeding his sexual fetish:D

[calvintan123]

The chinese have a wise saying...."ni zuo chi yi, wo zuo shi wu"
Meaning u do on 1st day of mth...i do on 15th of mth.

Since u resign to fate that ur wife gonna fuck khun or some other thai guy why arnt u doing the same...go get a hot thai girl...there 4 good reasons

1) u can wack bk ur wife ego
2) use the girl as ur release for all these pent up humilation.
3) discuss ther possibility of swinging with ur wife....u get one girl and she with khun and get an orgy... Together maybe it can get u closer with ur wife if ur open with ur sexual
4) having sex together can boos ur confidence if ur confdent with ur tool, skills and charm.

If u think like a winner ur a winner
likewise...losers never think of winning.

My humble 2 cents

[dustzee]

I first posted my experience in 2007 with personal thailand (... on recommendation of personal thailand not using our real names to protect our privacy) Due to a mistake later our real names ,Claudia and Rainer, were revealed.
You are absolutely right, I posted my experience many times over a long period of time. I cannot believe that I am ,beside one Swiss guy, the only westener who went through such an experience. So far, as I said above, only a guy from Switzerland admitted that it had happened to him in a similar way and also he had to accept to share his girl with an asian gigolo, whom she met on the beach.
Taking in consideration how many thai gigolos are chasing white girls for sex, fun and of course money, I simply cannot believe that I and the Swiss guy are the ONLY ONES and again and again I try to find more western guys who might be willing to talk about it in public. But I am also interested how asian men think about my experience, taking in consideration that the western media pictures them very often as less male then western guys (small penis myth etc.), which I had to find out is absolute stupid. Hopefully I am not boring anyone, that is not my intention.

Well, I think the only reason why others don't share such an experience is because they simply won't let the gf do it. So the gf would either dismiss the thought or do it without the bf's knowledge.

So in a way, you let this happened

[flameon]

If i will u talk to her if by alking is not working time to get even. She can bed a guy i can bed two ladies infront of her. She stopping u hving ur fair share of fun. She ask for ur understanding ask her the same question ask for her understanding.

[callmebad]

smell some racism here!
what's wrong with a white woman having sex with a Thai guy?
just like everyday we eat Chinese food, sometimes we go for fast food at MacDonald
this German woman just like a lot of white guys like to go for exotic sex with other non-whites
when comes to sex, we shouldn't complicate things by bringing in the racial element
I ever met a German woman who told me she only liked black guy
there is this white superiority thinking here

[wells]

You have lost the control. How can you possible let a stranger fuck your gf and going to be your future wife??:mad:

This is totally unacceptable!! I will not let this happen to me. :rolleyes:

[cooldude1982]

Thank you for providing some entertainment although must be said that the basic idea of your thread has racial undertones. Seems like what you find disturbing is not that your wife got screwed by another dude but that the dude happened to be a "'thai boy".

Never mind - to help you out a little bit. Understand you've been looking without much success for people with similar experiences. I think maybe you expand your search to include guys who got cuckolded (sp?) by a black guy rather than asians. I am sure you'll have lot more success ;)

[yesscenter]

There is not a big asian community in Germany. But anyway Claudia did it already again, when she had one rare occasion: She met a young Japanese engineer during a trade fair in Duesseldorf (Germany), where she was working for a couple of days. Although the guy was married back in Japan (with kids, if it is true what he told her) they had sex in his hotel room only hours after they met. I try to live with it because I know this has nothing to do with love. She just wants it from time to time...and I found it less humiliating then in Thailand because I never got the Japanese guy to know.

Claudia is a fucking bitch, hope to meet her one day, maybe she and me can also click.

[mcyeoh]

Claudia is a fucking bitch, hope to meet her one day, maybe she and me can also click.
only a tiny nasty new generation singaporean guy like you think that way..pathetic and fucked up..no wonder ALL NEW GENERATION SINGAPOREAN guys like you are the moles of humanity

[divedeeper]

I almost can't believe this story. I don't understand why TS felt it necessary to ask for her permission to find out if others had the same experience. WTF?!? Ask for permission?!? If my GF told me she wanted to be fucked by another guy, whatever the race, I don't care, I would be fucking another girl at the same time, and the relationship would be over. Why TS married her is beyond me. I would never marry someone like this, except apparently TS has an inner fetish for being cuckolded.

[MoJoe313]

Rainer,

Your writings reveal traces of racism. I also think you are sick mentally. Go seek help.

[justwanadoit]

F king useless thread without pic of Claudia

[autoroam]

Why u guys pickup an old 2011 thread:mad:

[skinny191096]

I will also be arranging a paid sex session for my wife too during our next trip overseas.

Think my constant mentioning of wanting her to enjoy another penis, have really went into her head.

The last few sex session, she was asking about it.....

[RainerH]

I will also be arranging a paid sex session for my wife too during our next trip overseas.

Think my constant mentioning of wanting her to enjoy another penis, have really went into her head.

The last few sex session, she was asking about it.....

Please carefully rethink it. If you do as planned there might be no way back for you and your wife and your relationship will be changed for ever. Discuss it openly with her and plan ahead (contraception!). Think about, if she will start liking it :p and the guy enjoys it:D, how will you feel..:confused:

[freezetheDB]

i suspect its a fantasy similar to peterpan's which is being cuckolded by hotwife

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