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WhyWhy00
26-01-2011, 10:39 AM
Hi Bros and Sis,

Just wondering that is it common for a lady whom do not sex for 3 months, will not masturbate herself?

Will she easily get horny if there is some sex related topic discuss?

smokinpimp
26-01-2011, 02:11 PM
i know plenty of 20+ year old girls personally who've never masturbated in their lives and are still virgins.. think it kinda depends on the character

JHL4248
26-01-2011, 03:09 PM
smokinpimp, I don't think virgins implies here. Since they never tried it, they'll never crave for it yet!

Am also curious about this coz there's this girl I know who had been single(broke up) for a while knowing she's no longer virgin but curious what had she been waiting for.. She does seem to crave for some love making but seemed to still be waiting for some hot stud..

rhys
26-01-2011, 03:51 PM
JHL4248

I think you answered your own question, i.e. she IS probably waiting for some hot stud. :-P

Women and men are wired quite differently when it comes to sex. Women need the intimacy/feeling/emotional thing but guys just need a place.

samyboys
26-01-2011, 04:04 PM
Woman can do without sex.
Men once experienced sex, hopes to have it more often.
I feel it could be that men orgasm is much powerful and satisfying than a woman.

NextGirl
26-01-2011, 04:51 PM
Woman can do without sex.
Men once experienced sex, hopes to have it more often.
I feel it could be that men orgasm is much powerful and satisfying than a woman.

you're right, women can do without sex.

but with talks among my girlfriends(obviously none of us are virgins anymore, long past that age :P ) - we do have needs and urges like guys too. just that we don't quite "openly" with our needs plastered on our foreheads like those neon billboards!

answering TS questions...

IT is normal. I've gone through a phase where for 6 mths no sex, no masturbation, none of it crossed my mind. and have also gone through a phase where i need to have sex or masturbate everyday. but for sure, if u don't get off once in a while, u sure do get frustrated! and very "pek chek" hahahhaha

WhyWhy00
26-01-2011, 05:10 PM
you're right, women can do without sex.

but with talks among my girlfriends(obviously none of us are virgins anymore, long past that age :P ) - we do have needs and urges like guys too. just that we don't quite "openly" with our needs plastered on our foreheads like those neon billboards!

answering TS questions...

IT is normal. I've gone through a phase where for 6 mths no sex, no masturbation, none of it crossed my mind. and have also gone through a phase where i need to have sex or masturbate everyday. but for sure, if u don't get off once in a while, u sure do get frustrated! and very "pek chek" hahahhaha

icic....does that mean if we talk about sex topic , she will get aroused easily?

EyeLevel
26-01-2011, 05:26 PM
TS,

Just to add on to Sis nextgal, I personally know gals who
Have gone zero for a few years n not masturbate at all.

My 2cts
Cheers!

naturegreen
26-01-2011, 06:51 PM
IT is normal...... but for sure, if u don't get off once in a while, u sure do get frustrated! and very "pek chek" hahahhaha

It's healthier for ladies to masturbate or have sex once in a while. Imagine the drain getting clogged after weeks of fallen leaves and not getting cleared of the clog...... Sure kena flooded one of these days.... :p So don't wait until your menses do the clearing for you. :rolleyes:

WhyWhy00
26-01-2011, 11:10 PM
TS,

Just to add on to Sis nextgal, I personally know gals who
Have gone zero for a few years n not masturbate at all.

My 2cts
Cheers!

wow... do she easily pek chek as sis nextgal mention?:rolleyes:

icefreezed
26-01-2011, 11:28 PM
icic....does that mean if we talk about sex topic , she will get aroused easily?

yes and no. generally if the guy isn't someone she may be interested in, she wouldn't really get aroused by talking about sex. as one bro mentioned above, girls generally look for intimacy/feeling. not so much of talk sex then horny..

whitegals
26-01-2011, 11:41 PM
In one of my previous jobs, I accepted a bet to bed this damn famous "company virgin". Apparently it was rumoured she had never had sex before and she was about 34 yrs old that year.

As she wasn't that bad looking, had a nice figure, I accepted the bet. Dun blame me, I was young and cocky then, about 22 yrs old, fresh out of NS.

I lost the bet, as there was a timeline of 2 months, although I did eventually bed her, about 1 1/2 yrs later, it was indeed her first time, I remember she bled all over the sheets and screamed like she was being cut open. After that she cried and clung onto me tightly. :o

B52bomber
26-01-2011, 11:51 PM
you're right, women can do without sex.

but with talks among my girlfriends(obviously none of us are virgins anymore, long past that age :P ) - we do have needs and urges like guys too. just that we don't quite "openly" with our needs plastered on our foreheads like those neon billboards!

answering TS questions...

IT is normal. I've gone through a phase where for 6 mths no sex, no masturbation, none of it crossed my mind. and have also gone through a phase where i need to have sex or masturbate everyday. but for sure, if u don't get off once in a while, u sure do get frustrated! and very "pek chek" hahahhaha

hahaha... i love that! "pek Check"

cannon2balls
27-01-2011, 12:18 AM
Woman can do without sex.
Men once experienced sex, hopes to have it more often.
I feel it could be that men orgasm is much powerful and satisfying than a woman.

Bro,you have never seen a live orgasmic explosion from a woman before, right? Damn power, man!

And women can start a second round or third round immediately after cumming - not many guys can do that, and guys dun have orgasm as massive as women too :D

Btw, your crest very intimidating lah, in a forum like this one :eek:

cannon2balls
27-01-2011, 12:26 AM
you're right, women can do without sex.

but with talks among my girlfriends(obviously none of us are virgins anymore, long past that age :P ) - we do have needs and urges like guys too. just that we don't quite "openly" with our needs plastered on our foreheads like those neon billboards!

answering TS questions...

IT is normal. I've gone through a phase where for 6 mths no sex, no masturbation, none of it crossed my mind. and have also gone through a phase where i need to have sex or masturbate everyday. but for sure, if u don't get off once in a while, u sure do get frustrated! and very "pek chek" hahahhaha

Woah! U hit the nail right on it's head about the pek chek part.

A few woman friends I know of dun masturbate at all - they think it's dirty and not right.

So the built-up frustration is definitely true cos people around them always kena farked (verbally) over the slightest things - sometimes over nothing at all. kekeke

cheongsterjon
27-01-2011, 12:36 AM
men are from mars, women are from venus, they can do without masturbation while we can't

taegukgi
27-01-2011, 01:06 AM
Months? Years also no problem for a female, what are months :rolleyes:

randomF
27-01-2011, 01:13 AM
HUH i thought was Men are from mars Woman are from venus But when they travel to earth They LOVE TO RIDE!!!

NextGirl
27-01-2011, 01:13 AM
icic....does that mean if we talk about sex topic , she will get aroused easily?

To put it bluntly, if she has interest in you, then yes she might get aroused. But if she doesn't, u can talk till the cows come home also she won't get aroused. and just some "tips" also, girls don't realllly talk about sex the way guys does among themselves. so u don't go asking her stupid questions hor! hahahaha

hahaha... i love that! "pek Check"

i'm sure you've met many babes like that right? and you managed to "un-pek chek" them! :p

A few woman friends I know of dun masturbate at all - they think it's dirty and not right.
So the built-up frustration is definitely true cos people around them always kena farked (verbally) over the slightest things - sometimes over nothing at all. kekeke

Yeah! Usually you see girls who nag or short fused at you or even things like computer, shoes whatever, signs of them either not getting any, or haven't been doing any! hahahaha once i was so frustrated that i was screaming down the phone till the whole office could hear - and that was because mcdonald's delivery "pronounced" my name wrongly. I scolded him as if he murdered my mom. :P but at night went home masturbate, tomorrow go work like so happy!

and just to add on lah..i ALWAYS find it weird when girls say they don't masturbate because its dirty or wrong. if you don't touch yourself, HOW ELSE WOULD U KNOW WHAT FEELS NICE or what's the best way for you to cum? right or not??? later the guy ask you, how how how, then you also dunno how to reply him. hahahahahaa :D

Rickey
27-01-2011, 07:16 AM
and just to add on lah..i ALWAYS find it weird when girls say they don't masturbate because its dirty or wrong. if you don't touch yourself, HOW ELSE WOULD U KNOW WHAT FEELS NICE or what's the best way for you to cum? right or not??? later the guy ask you, how how how, then you also dunno how to reply him. hahahahahaa :D

Yah lah, sis, Nextgirl..well said !! :)...we never know until we try hor ! :D...but of course it must be safe for us to do so in the first place....afterall, we are human wif nerves & feelings all round our bodies...we oso have the 6 senses, might as well make use of them all...we shd know abt everything around us...esp so if its not gonna harm any1 else....Btw, sis, may i ask wat is the usual method u gals use to masturbate yourselves ??...Thanks for the information, sis.. !! :)

WhyWhy00
27-01-2011, 09:21 AM
To put it bluntly, if she has interest in you, then yes she might get aroused. But if she doesn't, u can talk till the cows come home also she won't get aroused. and just some "tips" also, girls don't realllly talk about sex the way guys does among themselves. so u don't go asking her stupid questions hor! hahahaha


Even she get aroused, she wont tell me she wet too..lol :p

Just wondering,how you ladies talk among yourselves? just chat on which guy is handsome or this guy, his bed skill is good?:rolleyes:

samyboys
27-01-2011, 09:58 AM
well from what i know, guys that have experienced sex claims they need to release periodically else its uncomfortable.

PCC when sex is not available and of course, sex is the main dish, PCC is secondary.

Guys you agree with me?

bochapsing
27-01-2011, 11:15 AM
A few woman friends I know of dun masturbate at all - they think it's dirty and not right.


i guess there're still many such girls, esp those from conservative thinking family.. err... or those in older generation... opsss!! :p

girls can live w/o sex, let alone masturbation....
but man CANNOT!!! this is something girls will never or refuse to understand n accept.....:mad:

gotcraft30
27-01-2011, 11:50 AM
i guess there're still many such girls, esp those from conservative thinking family.. err... or those in older generation... opsss!! :p

girls can live w/o sex, let alone masturbation....
but man CANNOT!!! this is something girls will never or refuse to understand n accept.....:mad:

yeah lah, they can live without sex or masturbation. But we cannot live with them! Can you imagine your female bosses not doing any of that and taking it out on you by screaming at you for making a small mistake?

There are many times when I really hope someone will release their frustration man...

samyboys
27-01-2011, 02:53 PM
Guess woman do not need it that often does not equate to that men also do not need it.

NextGirl
27-01-2011, 03:09 PM
Even she get aroused, she wont tell me she wet too..lol :p

Just wondering,how you ladies talk among yourselves? just chat on which guy is handsome or this guy, his bed skill is good?:rolleyes:

well, that's the stupidest thing i've always encountered. it's like, what do really expect a girl to answer if you ask her "hey, are u wet?". or, if i am aroused, do i really need to go and tell you, "u know what, i'm wet". i mean of coz there are situations where u wanna be direct and take the lead. but i'm guessing majority of girls would have the thinking or equate that, if you can't even tell that i am aroused by my body language or words, then ur probably not worth going to bed with.

Btw, sis, may i ask wat is the usual method u gals use to masturbate yourselves ??...Thanks for the information, sis.. !! :)

use the internet and google lei. LOL. how hard is it to masturbate? but i can tell you, those reactions that you see from porn or cam girls, are over exaggerated. and there are many many ways for girls to get off if they're creative. i would say the cool part about being a girl is, i can be masturbating and cum anytime that i want. i mean, i don't literally need to drop my pants and take the penis out and stroke it and all that.

well from what i know, guys that have experienced sex claims they need to release periodically else its uncomfortable.

PCC when sex is not available and of course, sex is the main dish, PCC is secondary.

Guys you agree with me?

you're right! guys masturbating is like a "physical" release whereas girl masturbating is more like a "emotional" release. emotions come and goes. but if ur sperm gets stocked up too long, probably become yoghurt! hahaha. maybe that's why some dudes cum are reallly nasty tasting :p

Pilot Preceda
27-01-2011, 05:30 PM
MY OC never masturbates for her entire life and gave her virginity to me...

some girls just don't masturbate...
did I answer your questions...???

EyeLevel
27-01-2011, 07:46 PM
wow... do she easily pek chek as sis nextgal mention?:rolleyes:

hmmm... she is generally quite quick temper... hahah so dun know if its because pek chek due to her nature or because of the built up sexual tension :P

My 2 cts
Cheers

phallusman
27-01-2011, 09:34 PM
hahaha... i love that! "pek Check"

Hahaha, we all know that the typical "old maid" or confirmed life long spinster kind of behaviour - forever grumpy, frustrated, short tempered and face always black in colour. That is what "pek chek" really means, my interpretation.

sun814
27-01-2011, 10:44 PM
haha, how do u know that they are telling u the truth when they tells u that they haven't masturbate for months? :p

inez
28-01-2011, 12:34 PM
alot of it depends on the first time. I first masturbated when I was 13 or 14. Wasn't very good at it but didn't know better then. Figured out what it was by reading a dictionary.

First BF at 16 got me going. Petting is the best way for girls to learn. Many girls are NOT as experienced as boys. My then BF was pretty good at what he did so I always have good memories of masturbating and I do use it as an emotional release.

Now in a stable relationship, I don't need to masturbate as much but there are times that I'm alone that I want that personal release. I think once girls start a regular sex life, they will inevitably masturbate regularly when they don't have sex in their lives. I know a gf who sleeps with a dildo in her bed with her each night. Her last BF was very randy and wanted it every night and she didn't start having sex till her late 20s.

game10199
28-01-2011, 01:36 PM
I think once girls start a regular sex life, they will inevitably masturbate regularly when they don't have sex in their lives. I know a gf who sleeps with a dildo in her bed with her each night.

I agree with what you said.

I have close female buddies who were married before, and they said that after divorce, they now "need" to masturbate since they don't have a regular partner now. I think their need is only that few days during the month, while guys' needs are once every few days when their sperm builds up..

regards

CuteWettie
29-01-2011, 02:13 AM
Gosh.. After hearing what all you bros say about how different the sexual needs of a guy and a girl are, I am starting to feel that I am guy trapped in a female body. When I was attached and when I use to have an fb, I would want sex and will request for sex as and when I need. Sometimes I want it so much that my guy gets shocked that a female can have such a high drive and strong urge for sex!

Well, I guess at least I am true to myself and open about my needs..

markeus
31-01-2011, 10:23 AM
so many female masturbators here:eek: ...guess that's why this is a sex forum afterall.
i would love to see a woman masturbating full-on in real life but that has never happened for me.
Even with FLs that I had, they were just rub a little niah when I request them to touch themselves. :rolleyes:

WhyWhy00
31-01-2011, 10:39 AM
Gosh.. After hearing what all you bros say about how different the sexual needs of a guy and a girl are, I am starting to feel that I am guy trapped in a female body. When I was attached and when I use to have an fb, I would want sex and will request for sex as and when I need. Sometimes I want it so much that my guy gets shocked that a female can have such a high drive and strong urge for sex!

Well, I guess at least I am true to myself and open about my needs..

I have friend whom have high sex drive too, she complaint to me that usually her hubby cant satisfied her, she need it very badly, that why she had a few FB.

freefuck
31-01-2011, 02:08 PM
I have a regular FL who masturbate herself when she blow me..She told me that he always masturabate when alone and think of my cock..wow.:)

Tripster
31-01-2011, 02:28 PM
I know ladies who have never masturbated. They got some kind of mind block about pleasuring themselves because of religious doctrine that brainwashed them into submission...

Poor thing...they dun know what they are missing...:rolleyes:

peace :p

sun814
31-01-2011, 11:11 PM
I have a regular FL who masturbate herself when she blow me..She told me that he always masturabate when alone and think of my cock..wow.:)

haha n u actually believe her? :p u have a ten-incher? :p

CuteWettie
31-01-2011, 11:16 PM
I have a regular FL who masturbate herself when she blow me..She told me that he always masturabate when alone and think of my cock..wow.:)

ur fb is a he and he think of your dick when masturbating? Gay action!

xiaoquan
01-02-2011, 04:02 AM
I think it all boils down to each individual sex drive. I have a female friend Who masturbate and a guy who doesn't. And also probably lots of factors.

tryherout
01-02-2011, 07:19 AM
Yes, my buddy SQ ex could not bump into him as he was a frequent traveller due to work load. He shared candiedly her ex will pleasure herself so much in his presence just to get him excited after long flights. Of course it works! He needed a longer rest then after long post flight phenomenon.

talismann
01-02-2011, 09:01 AM
ur fb is a he and he think of your dick when masturbating? Gay action!

Its a typo error, for goodness sake. :rolleyes:

Elle
01-02-2011, 01:51 PM
i also masturbate although i have regular sex life.. :)
y we will get horny ?

ah rat
01-02-2011, 01:55 PM
i also masturbate although i have regular sex life.. :)
y we will get horny ?

Sis,what make u so horny :p :D

Elle
01-02-2011, 02:09 PM
Sis,what make u so horny :p :D

maybe weather cold.... make me horny..

WhyWhy00
01-02-2011, 02:57 PM
maybe weather cold.... make me horny..

hmm..last weekend sis must be very very horny.

Rain non-stop on sunday and on n off on saturday :rolleyes:

Southernstar
01-02-2011, 03:02 PM
Cold weather makes everyone horny....my OC got high for two night:D

Elle
01-02-2011, 09:44 PM
Cold weather makes everyone horny....my OC got high for two night:D

wow... than u must be veri tired this two night !!! :D

Nicoise
01-02-2011, 09:46 PM
hmm..last weekend sis must be very very horny.

Rain non-stop on sunday and on n off on saturday :rolleyes:

Then let her tell us more.

Southernstar
01-02-2011, 10:34 PM
Shall be three nite. Two nite bonk OC one nite bonk outside

Torch_Man
01-02-2011, 11:00 PM
quite common, as most of my gfs will agreed.
but it depends on their sexual encounters oso, if their encounters r exciting, it will play inside their mind for weeks, months or even years too. however if its awkward, slightly rude or tasteless, they will treat it as a taboo 4ever.....

off the topic:
for me, usually i put in effort to ensure my gf cum or squirt (at least) everytime we foreplay.
u just do your part everytime, she will do the rest everytime (i repeat: everytime)
so whenever she touches her pussy, she thinks of our romancing activity.
it boils down the treatment of the guy towards them......


jz sharin

Rickey
08-02-2011, 10:08 PM
use the internet and google lei. LOL. how hard is it to masturbate? but i can tell you, those reactions that you see from porn or cam girls, are over exaggerated. and there are many many ways for girls to get off if they're creative. i would say the cool part about being a girl is, i can be masturbating and cum anytime that i want. i mean, i don't literally need to drop my pants and take the penis out and stroke it and all that.




Wow !! sis NextGirl..its great to know tat there are many ways for u gals to masturbate w/o even dropping yr pants !!...n cumming so easily some more !! :):D...good to know wat these methods are...

But in the case of we guys...there is not always the need to drop our pants, draw out our penis & stroke it to pcc ...just like u gals, believe there are oso a few other ways for us guys to do it tat givs us a lot of enjoyment like masturbating against bolsters etc..

Overall, tink its generally true tat u gals hav much less need to masturbate than we guys do.. & u gals can go on w/o it for months...but not we guys...for us it can even be a daily affair !...just my 2 cents worth

lovetorn
09-02-2011, 12:31 AM
it is common for ladies to not masturbate for months. my record was almost 6 months or so. it dropped from the frequency of masturbating at least once a day to once or twice a week to maybe once a month and then not even once for 2-3 months. i won't say my libido decreased because i am just 21 years old. i put it down to stress. after all, men think of sex when they are stress but women are quite different. i am not in the mood for sex when i am stress. in fact, talking about sex when i am stress makes me more stressed out.

however, that's just from my point of view. now i only masturbate when i am feeling extra horny and that's almost always when my menses is coming.

WhyWhy00
20-11-2012, 05:10 PM
I agree that women tense to be more horny before and after menses...usually will want to have sex strongly.

it is common for ladies to not masturbate for months. my record was almost 6 months or so. it dropped from the frequency of masturbating at least once a day to once or twice a week to maybe once a month and then not even once for 2-3 months. i won't say my libido decreased because i am just 21 years old. i put it down to stress. after all, men think of sex when they are stress but women are quite different. i am not in the mood for sex when i am stress. in fact, talking about sex when i am stress makes me more stressed out.

however, that's just from my point of view. now i only masturbate when i am feeling extra horny and that's almost always when my menses is coming.

LovePotion
20-11-2012, 06:51 PM
Hi Bros and Sis,

Just wondering that is it common for a lady whom do not sex for 3 months, will not masturbate herself?

Will she easily get horny if there is some sex related topic discuss?

some girls have low or no sex drive or maybe she have not found a right sex partner to turn her aroused.

For such case, its most probably she have not enjoy sex or met a capable guy to satisfy her to make her want more

It would be tough to judge but by hinting her with related topic will help

ddog
21-11-2012, 09:47 AM
Ddog current steady doesn't masturbate at all in her life thinks its disgusting also cannot cum at all

WhyWhy00
21-11-2012, 11:05 AM
As I know usually women whom doesn't masturbate at all, they wont go masturbate themselve even they are very horny.I may be wrong, correct me if there is.:rolleyes:

Ddog current steady doesn't masturbate at all in her life thinks its disgusting also cannot cum at all

onlyhuman
21-11-2012, 11:21 AM
yes i think its normal! i had lots of female frds who does not believe in it at all! :eek:

But as a guy...sometimes i prefer pcc to the real act too..:D

kanOn0990
21-11-2012, 11:47 AM
I've never asked my female friends on topic regarding sex before,much less about masturbation, probably caz I was shy in nature ;) among my guy friends we talk about girls n sex but seldom touch on mast.. plus I do not know if its ethical for me to strike such a convo with my female friends(attached ones). But I do believe deeep down there, they need it and have done it before just that I do not know how to approach them.

Can I ask how do bros n sis here do it??

Maxico
22-11-2012, 07:42 AM
I got tis one girl tat let me finger her to make her cum we do heavy petting but won't sleep with me. Sian sia. Can any girl here explain why is it tat way?
We r not a couple but we just enjoy flirting with each other at work.

WhyWhy00
23-11-2012, 08:49 AM
Any ladies wish to share with us??:rolleyes:

xiedaz
23-11-2012, 09:40 AM
Any ladies wish to share with us??:rolleyes:
Well, it obviously depends on the woman. My wife masturbates daily when I'm travelling away, sometimes more than once during the day. She is quite open about telling me and we sometimes even link up on skype to "share" the experience.

I'm not sure, but I would guess that its not that common for women to masturbate every day (that is every day that they are not having sex with their partner), however i also think that women generally masturbate more often than they would admit to. If a woman is not comfortable with her male partner, I think her first inclincation is to deny masturbating, so that the guy wont think that she is not "virtuous" etc.

W1ck3dSecret
23-11-2012, 10:07 AM
Any ladies wish to share with us??:rolleyes:

Doubt so. But at the same time taking note not too overdo it or else would ruin a healthy sex life between couples.
Rather impossible unless she is satisfied with frequent sex. Or for some exceptional medical reason ( but so far I only heard <2 months).
Be it either gender, so long you are a human .... The desire and urge is somehow there. Go for the real action! Live your fantasy through masturbation :D

kittymae
23-11-2012, 09:22 PM
I agree that women tense to be more horny before and after menses...usually will want to have sex strongly.

Ure right here. It's the hormonal changes in our bodies
Especially before their menses (now u know when's the best time! :D)

back to the main topic, yes, some women can go w/o for months, for various reasons including maybe the lack of emotional factor, stress, hormonal changes

But, just to point out also, some women experience "wet dreams" similar to what some guys experience- so unawares they might have....

Of cos, this,is based on what I hear from fellow sistas around, not necessarily all fr own experience (:

Chilloutsex
23-11-2012, 09:50 PM
Ure right here. It's the hormonal changes in our bodies
Especially before their menses (now u know when's the best time! :D)

back to the main topic, yes, some women can go w/o for months, for various reasons including maybe the lack of emotional factor, stress, hormonal changes

But, just to point out also, some women experience "wet dreams" similar to what some guys experience- so unawares they might have....

Of cos, this,is based on what I hear from fellow sistas around, not necessarily all fr own experience (:

Agreed sis. Girls can be as horny as man. But due to societal influences, females are brought up believing that having anything related to sex is bad. But males are not as it is ok for them to do anything. That is why women are label as loose or sluty but men are considered to be normal in terms of having such as one night stand.

Honestly, this can be so unfair. Haiz. But that is life.

WhyWhy00
23-11-2012, 11:09 PM
Ure right here. It's the hormonal changes in our bodies
Especially before their menses (now u know when's the best time! :D)

back to the main topic, yes, some women can go w/o for months, for various reasons including maybe the lack of emotional factor, stress, hormonal changes

But, just to point out also, some women experience "wet dreams" similar to what some guys experience- so unawares they might have....

Of cos, this,is based on what I hear from fellow sistas around, not necessarily all fr own experience (:

Even they do have wet dreams, dont think ladies will tell their bf/fb/hubby that they having it.Any sister sharing their experience here?

kittymae
23-11-2012, 11:40 PM
Even they do have wet dreams, dont think ladies will tell their bf/fb/hubby that they having it.Any sister sharing their experience here?

It really depends...
Sometimes sharing it, their bf/fb/hubby will know what they like and it does add some spice renacting it...
But of cos, got to get e girl in so,e degree of comfort to share la...and how open she is :))

WhyWhy00
25-11-2012, 08:04 AM
It really depends...
Sometimes sharing it, their bf/fb/hubby will know what they like and it does add some spice renacting it...
But of cos, got to get e girl in so,e degree of comfort to share la...and how open she is :))

hopefully ladies able to share with their guys or guys share with their ladies what they need..then all will feel heaven :D

kittymae
25-11-2012, 09:57 AM
Agreed sis. Girls can be as horny as man. But due to societal influences, females are brought up believing that having anything related to sex is bad. But males are not as it is ok for them to do anything. That is why women are label as loose or sluty but men are considered to be normal in terms of having such as one night stand.

Honestly, this can be so unfair. Haiz. But that is life.

Yep! Totally agree on this.
Perhaps once society begins to accept that women have similar , shall we say, needs as men, then womn will also gradually be more open

Rickey
25-11-2012, 03:41 PM
Agreed sis. Girls can be as horny as man. But due to societal influences, females are brought up believing that having anything related to sex is bad. But males are not as it is ok for them to do anything. That is why women are label as loose or sluty but men are considered to be normal in terms of having such as one night stand.

Honestly, this can be so unfair. Haiz. But that is life.

Yep! Totally agree on this.
Perhaps once society begins to accept that women have similar , shall we say, needs as men, then womn will also gradually be more open
Tks to sis chilloutsex n kittymae for their views :)...but do not feel so disadvantaged, sisters...Yes, believe too tat women do hv same or similar sexual needs or urges as men do...its all part of nature's design...We all know we r all equipped wif either a male or female sexual organ, the day we were borned to be utilised to multiply n replenish the earth to continue our generation as well as for our personal enjoyment...Basically wat goes for the men shd oso go for the women as well wif slight differences as the sex organs r differently constructed as well...But women are these days alrdy relatively pretty more open compared to their counterparts say 10 or 20 yrs ago in sexual matters, if i m not wrong...in part due to women's liberation n equality in all things wif the guys..So society has actually been transforming towards tis over the years, jus tat we dun quite realise tis...but it is alrdy happening !

Believe many young women 2day, esp those unmarried ones, be they syts or MILFs, masturbate more often than those yrs ago do, n r more sexually adventurous, expressive n suggestive too in their dressing, views n mannerism as well.. they are no longer so shy abt sex as they used to be...they dun quite mind to tell u tat they do masturbate oso jus like the guys do ;)...so they are as horny as guys are if not more...to add further, they r more than ready to share their sexual needs or desires wif the man they fancy n r quite prepared to do anything to get sexual satisfaction wif their partners...nothing wrong at all for guys or gals to want to enjoy sex to its fullest or max provided tis is done safely n wif protection esp if it is to be done wif partners they do not know well to avoid being inflicted wif the dreaded HIV or other types of STDs... if hit by the more serious of those STIs, it can be a lifetime of pain n agony for a few moments of pleasure...and YES ! at the same time, they can oso if they decide to...go for mths w/o sex esp those who hv menopause...they hv much more withholding power than the guys in tis...jus mho...best wishes to all the ladies out there for ur sexual enjoyment, be it by urself or wif ur partners.. :)

cereal-killer
25-11-2012, 05:56 PM
TS,

Just to add on to Sis nextgal, I personally know gals who
Have gone zero for a few years n not masturbate at all.

My 2cts
Cheers!

since you know them, observe if they are always MOODY, IMPRACTICAL, Easily Aggitated :)

The girls needs to understand that Masturbation is NORMAL.

tamtam
25-11-2012, 06:21 PM
This is how i look at these issues...

For girls who masturbate, i adore you
For girls who need sex daily, i worship you.

After sucking up 30 years of realities, if i can re-live my life, i will ask all my potential girlfriends this very important question:

Do you have a Sammyboyforum account ? if you don't have, you do not qualify to become my steady or future wife to be.

This is a FACT !

This is to ensure you get yourself a fuckable wife/partner after marriage.:p

Troika69
25-11-2012, 07:48 PM
Female masturbation is so different from male, it is not a common thing, if they did not try, they will not try, know many female friends don't even think that is a good thing to do.

WhyWhy00
26-11-2012, 09:17 AM
Female masturbation is so different from male, it is not a common thing, if they did not try, they will not try, know many female friends don't even think that is a good thing to do.

I believe it is depend on generation, one of the bro/sis mention it previously. Youngster nowsday are more and more open.

deludedgal
26-11-2012, 07:01 PM
it feels very good to do so.. if they arent doing it they probably havent had orgasm before >.< i do it pretty often =X

Troika69
26-11-2012, 07:31 PM
From my experience, girls who don't masturbate, their clit would be very sensitive, and thus once you play them down there, they are a goner. My tactic is to just keep rubbing their clitty outside the undies until getting wet. Then, when they wet it, go in for the kill and tongue the clit or even suck it in and out hard, they will lose control of themselves and keep humping it to you.

kittymae
26-11-2012, 11:34 PM
it feels very good to do so.. if they arent doing it they probably havent had orgasm before >.< i do it pretty often =X

Haha...sis, I'm e opposite of u leh- as in I don't do it...oops

deludedgal
27-11-2012, 04:49 PM
Haha...sis, I'm e opposite of u leh- as in I don't do it...oops

oo is it true then u must be very sensitive like what Troika69 mentioned.. i try stopping a few weeks before s** and see whether it works a not if i can >.<

ah rat
27-11-2012, 04:56 PM
oo is it true then u must be very sensitive like what Troika69 mentioned.. i try stopping a few weeks before s** and see whether it works a not if i can >.<

A few weeks,I think u can't tahan not to masturbate. :p

deludedgal
27-11-2012, 05:27 PM
A few weeks,I think u can't tahan not to masturbate. :p

haha yah i also think so but can try ma

Troika69
27-11-2012, 09:10 PM
Try it baby, maybe it is going to make you want it even more :D

LovePotion
27-11-2012, 09:43 PM
hahaha thats a good one...

Rickey
27-11-2012, 10:13 PM
Haha...sis, I'm e opposite of u leh- as in I don't do it...oops
Tink there's no need for sis kitty mei to do it by herself...believe she has got no lack of admirers n a pack chasing after her ;)...n not forgetting esp Mr T one of the 3 tat changed her :D ! ..happy for her :)...haha

But on a more serious note...believe masturbation by either sex is usually indulged in when they can't find sexual fulfilment wif a partner of the opposite sex at the time when they are horny...so, no choice lor, hv to DIY to find sexual release themselves...but YES for the more matured n elderly ladies not the younger ones, they can go on w/o sex or masturbation for mths cos like 1 fren said their 'factory' hv closed down so no more sexual urges...in fact they may not even know wat is sex all abt then...other matters of daily living pre-occupies their time n mind, not sex any more...jus mho

ah rat
28-11-2012, 07:26 AM
haha yah i also think so but can try ma

U can try,but I think u will fail because once u surf SBF :D

hahahihihoho
28-11-2012, 08:25 AM
Farked a girl pnce who havent had sex nor masturbate in years.

Lots of foreplay and slight fingering and it kind of open up her.after that,she kept telling me she felt a surge of feeling and wabted sex like no tomoro

Jescx
28-11-2012, 08:32 AM
Sure, why not? Well for me, if it doesn't cross my mind or I'm not in a relationship, it's possible.

There was once I got so tired of having sex with my ex that I rejected him for at least 4 months or so.

heypi
28-11-2012, 11:22 AM
i sometimes play w my nipples n clit at work.
the excitement of doing it without getting caught. :D

Putin
28-11-2012, 01:32 PM
U can try,but I think u will fail because once u surf
SBF :D

hahaha, so true :D

ah rat
28-11-2012, 01:52 PM
i sometimes play w my nipples n clit at work.
the excitement of doing it without getting caught. :D

Any pixs to share :p

heypi
28-11-2012, 03:06 PM
Any pixs to share :p
hehe. think u saw my other thread le right. :D

wallflower
02-12-2012, 11:58 AM
Yes. Girls dont live on sex alone so no masturbation doesnt mean end of the world.
I think girls only masturbate when they are horny. Maybe saw some hot guy or porn then feel arouse and start to imagine n self touch.

If not when im busy with work and life. It didnt even cross my mind.

kittymae
02-12-2012, 07:45 PM
Try it baby, maybe it is going to make you want it even more :D

oo is it true then u must be very sensitive like what Troika69 mentioned.. i try stopping a few weeks before s** and see whether it works a not if i can >.<

Lol. Yea sis, u shld try. But don't hold back too much leh. Don't want u end up raping the next guy u see.... *just kidding*
But yea, like Troika said, the sensitivity is higher (: at least in my own feel..

Tink there's no need for sis kitty mei to do it by herself...believe she has got no lack of admirers n a pack chasing after her ;)...n not forgetting esp Mr T one of the 3 tat changed her :D ! ..happy for her :)...haha

Wah...bro Rickey...I will shy ley, u say till like that.. Lols.
Thanks tho (:

Troika69
03-12-2012, 06:29 PM
Oh yea baby kitty, u know the feel and the feeling :D

WhyWhy00
04-12-2012, 08:39 PM
It is nice to see more sisters/brothers comment here...:)

Rickey
04-12-2012, 09:23 PM
Yes. Girls dont live on sex alone so no masturbation doesnt mean end of the world.
I think girls only masturbate when they are horny. Maybe saw some hot guy or porn then feel arouse and start to imagine n self touch.

If not when im busy with work and life. It didnt even cross my mind.
Yes, sis wallflower has quite rightly spoken on the subj of masturbation for pple of her own sex n believe tats quite true...Thx you, sis for ur sharing :)...Most women esp the mainstream women i.e. those married n maybe 40 yo n abv usually do not n can go on w/o sex n masturbation for long period of time as they find other interest n concerns in life to occupy themselves wif...so sex n masturbation doesn't really cross their minds as she puts it...

Believe masturbation is indulged in more by the younger ladies who do not hv male partners or who r w/o them at the time they r sexually hungry i.e. when they r horny...which as some ladies samsters hv shared here.. is b4 n after their menstruation...

But sadly, tis is precisely the reason why so many bros here n everywhere else are suffering sexless marriages or going thru the motions, n having to eat outside :( as their wifeys turn their interest n attention away frm them to care more for their young kids n other life's matters i/o finding time to ML wif their hubbies...tat explains many of the divorces tat hv taken place, cheating, adultery etc...sigh...


Wah...bro Rickey...I will shy ley, u say till like that.. Lols.
Thanks tho (:
Apologies, n sorry my dear sis kitty mei...din know u can be such a shy gal leh ;)...haha

but my compliments for you still stands for now, unless u prove me n us wrong...reading frm ur stories n ur interactions wif the bros here in ur thread "the 3 tat changed me" as well as ur posts in other threads...believe u r a nice, humourous, friendly n appreciative gal :) who shd not fail to attract guys, n r not a turn off to them...even ur siggy kinda shows tat too...so do help to make tis world a merrier place to live in for as many pple as possible if u can...jiayou, sis !