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Shooter
21-08-2004, 11:53 AM
I use to enjoy making love with my gf by recently i slowly realise that I am begining to lose it. Last time can come 3 times within an hour now I can only make it once and to come a 2nd time requires a lot of effort. My little brother seem not being able to stay hard even after 1 hour of rest.
Will smoking mentol affect sex drive?
Another thing is that the effect of climax seem to have diminished. Still got shiok feeling but not as strong.
Any recommendation to make it stronger?
Hope experience brothers out there can shed some light :confused:

Ganasai
21-08-2004, 12:41 PM
do u drip or shoot when you cum? hahaa, paiseh, that's my topic in another thread cos i think it will affect the pleasure...

t123
21-08-2004, 01:26 PM
Now I even can't erect. But if the girl talking to me sainai or sa jiao, I still can erect. Now whenever I see girls I am a bit cold. No feeling. I think I may ned to see a shrink.

staff
21-08-2004, 01:42 PM
Now I even can't erect. But if the girl talking to me sainai or sa jiao, I still can erect. Now whenever I see girls I am a bit cold. No feeling. I think I may ned to see a shrink.


hmm...bro maybe u have too many bonking session ....me at times do face tis problem of not able to erect ,
when i see some nice pretty gal , my manhood doesn't really respone well or no reaction compare to the past , it really respone well. maybe as age catch up , not much focus no bonking rather then in making more $$$
even when i try to bonk a chick , hardly in any successful rate .but when i did it with my regular partner , there isn't any problem ....
tot of my mental psychological problem , now also thinking of ways to have it solve

t123
21-08-2004, 02:02 PM
hmm...bro maybe u have too many bonking session ....me at times do face tis problem of not able to erect ,
when i see some nice pretty gal , my manhood doesn't really respone well or no reaction compare to the past , it really respone well. maybe as age catch up , not much focus no bonking rather then in making more $$$
even when i try to bonk a chick , hardly in any successful rate .but when i did it with my regular partner , there isn't any problem ....
tot of my mental psychological problem , now also thinking of ways to have it solve

Went to a massage parlour, try to have special but can't erect. The girl said that I might pcc too much, but since my relationship break-up, I haven't been pcc much, maybe twice a month. But I don't know why I can't erect whenever I see those WL. Really Sian.

france
21-08-2004, 04:11 PM
it all depends on mental,and mental depend on place,mood,n also having enough rest/energy is also a factor.

staff
21-08-2004, 04:34 PM
Went to a massage parlour, try to have special but can't erect. The girl said that I might pcc too much, but since my relationship break-up, I haven't been pcc much, maybe twice a month. But I don't know why I can't erect whenever I see those WL. Really Sian.

guess there's quite a nos of bro here have the same problem ......
understand how's the feel man ....ITS damn Fcuking boring...
even when see chio bu , wan on her also scare rite,
knn wait in the room undress liao no respone from didi ...wah damn pai seh and if its a pay to have service ... a waste of $$$ too

GuyonGal
21-08-2004, 09:55 PM
I use to enjoy making love with my gf by recently i slowly realise that I am begining to lose it. Last time can come 3 times within an hour now I can only make it once and to come a 2nd time requires a lot of effort. My little brother seem not being able to stay hard even after 1 hour of rest.
Will smoking mentol affect sex drive?
Another thing is that the effect of climax seem to have diminished. Still got shiok feeling but not as strong.
Any recommendation to make it stronger?
Hope experience brothers out there can shed some light :confused:

Okay, there are three possibilities:

(1) you are understress due to any reasons ...
(2) You are aging, and
(3) You health of your didi is facing deteriorate not due to aging ....

If you having either problem.... well... just check with doc.

SteelShaft316
22-08-2004, 11:50 PM
I use to enjoy making love with my gf by recently i slowly realise that I am begining to lose it. Last time can come 3 times within an hour now I can only make it once and to come a 2nd time requires a lot of effort. My little brother seem not being able to stay hard even after 1 hour of rest.
Will smoking mentol affect sex drive?
Another thing is that the effect of climax seem to have diminished. Still got shiok feeling but not as strong.
Any recommendation to make it stronger?
Hope experience brothers out there can shed some light :confused:

I think that is quite common, GF mah, every time the same holes also sian..
Last time I also have the same problem, I get bored bonking my wife.

There are two reasons,
Maybe your GF have complain about your inability to make her sextisfy or you have lost your sex thrill as the bonking session with her is quite rountie.

If you face the 1st reason, you are under stress that you are not able to sextify her and you will try to escape and making up reason for yourself not to bonk her. To solve I think you need to pratice more and tell her your problems.

If you are in the second reason, try sometime new, see more porn movies especially JP 1, get yoursel aroused. Talk to her and try more pattern, remember it take two to have great sex!

Smokeing menthol will only affect your semen not your sex drive, sometimes if you try to control your ejculation, you will not be able to that 100% shiok orgasm. You can test it out if you want, ask your GF to do a HJ for you, with her alway rubbing your dick head and shaft with oil or lotion (or else your skin tear!!! :D ) ask her to do it until you shot and remind her continue HJing you for a while after you eject. If you still cant get that 100% shiok feeling back, too bad brudder, I think you need to see a doctor!

Hope that I have help you on that.

asjer
23-08-2004, 12:46 AM
Bro, you have the same problem as me and after consultation with doctor, he came out with some conclusions and they are, age, smoking and medication cos am on daily dosage of atenolol 100mg. In thailand, the cigarette packs have printings and one of the printings says that smoking diminishes sex drives. Think for my case, it's a combination of all the above and some of my friends have recommended that drinking guinness is a good remedy but come to think of it, if am to take alcohol to cure myself than might as well stop taking medication for high blood pressure rite? :p


I use to enjoy making love with my gf by recently i slowly realise that I am begining to lose it. Last time can come 3 times within an hour now I can only make it once and to come a 2nd time requires a lot of effort. My little brother seem not being able to stay hard even after 1 hour of rest.
Will smoking mentol affect sex drive?
Another thing is that the effect of climax seem to have diminished. Still got shiok feeling but not as strong.
Any recommendation to make it stronger?
Hope experience brothers out there can shed some light :confused:

staff
23-08-2004, 01:10 AM
Bro, you have the same problem as me and after consultation with doctor, he came out with some conclusions and they are, age, smoking and medication cos am on daily dosage of atenolol 100mg. In thailand, the cigarette packs have printings and one of the printings says that smoking diminishes sex drives. Think for my case, it's a combination of all the above and some of my friends have recommended that drinking guinness is a good remedy but come to think of it, if am to take alcohol to cure myself than might as well stop taking medication for high blood pressure rite? :p

so conculsion ..... 1st accuse .'SMOKING" 2nd accuse "MEDICATION" and 3rd accuse "AGE" .
2nd and 3rd accuse not within our control as those sick need medication and human do age ...
so the best way is to quit smoking and thus might still able to regain but of the sexual urges ....
SMOKER include myself ..TAKE NOTE of tis ....SMOKING diminishes sex drives
i think tis have been a facts for sometime just tat ppl like likeself couldn't have tis accept and still taking the risk ....guess its time to have tis number dial which i think is very familar with the smoker :1800-438-2000

MrDevil
23-08-2004, 01:45 AM
hmm...bro maybe u have too many bonking session ....me at times do face tis problem of not able to erect ,
when i see some nice pretty gal , my manhood doesn't really respone well or no reaction compare to the past , it really respone well. maybe as age catch up , not much focus no bonking rather then in making more $$$
even when i try to bonk a chick , hardly in any successful rate .but when i did it with my regular partner , there isn't any problem ....
tot of my mental psychological problem , now also thinking of ways to have it solve

One will become more insensitive to sexual arousal as he become more expose and experience in sex, comparing to their younger age. Of course, physical fitness and metabosim rate do play a critical role in a man sex health.

In the case of lose of sexual interest in WL is common as one aged, most will prefer more feeling development, slower pace and longer foreplay. It could be emtional barrier, stress, lack of rest, etc... but the biggest culprit could be the deteriorating of physical fitness, reduction of metobism rate that lower the blood circulation to your lower part which in turn require more effort to be stimulated.

MrDevil
23-08-2004, 01:53 AM
I use to enjoy making love with my gf by recently i slowly realise that I am begining to lose it. Last time can come 3 times within an hour now I can only make it once and to come a 2nd time requires a lot of effort. My little brother seem not being able to stay hard even after 1 hour of rest.
Will smoking mentol affect sex drive?
Another thing is that the effect of climax seem to have diminished. Still got shiok feeling but not as strong.
Any recommendation to make it stronger?
Hope experience brothers out there can shed some light :confused:

For a quick fix, you can try Magix which could overcome this barrier and improve your performance pretty effectively but bear in mind, it is never meant to be the cure.

milkman
23-08-2004, 10:06 AM
I use to enjoy making love with my gf by recently i slowly realise that I am begining to lose it. Last time can come 3 times within an hour now I can only make it once and to come a 2nd time requires a lot of effort. My little brother seem not being able to stay hard even after 1 hour of rest.
Will smoking mentol affect sex drive?
Another thing is that the effect of climax seem to have diminished. Still got shiok feeling but not as strong.
Any recommendation to make it stronger?
Hope experience brothers out there can shed some light :confused:
Smoking menthol won't affect your sex drive lah...

Role-playing can be fun... take out the handcuffs, whips and costumes and i'm pretty sure it'll spice things up :D

Hope you find what you are looking for soon enough.

staff
23-08-2004, 01:41 PM
For a quick fix, you can try Magix which could overcome this barrier and improve your performance pretty effectively but bear in mind, it is never meant to be the cure.
bro devil , wats tis MAGIX tat u mention

bongster
23-08-2004, 01:41 PM
Can try Territis Tribulus.. ur testorone level sure go up like no body biz

perrymason32
23-08-2004, 02:19 PM
Hi bro Shooter:

The question you asked: Am I losing my sex drive?
Answer: Yes.

Moving on to the next question: What can I do about it?
Answer: Depends on what the problem is. Some other bros have already cited the main areas where your problem may come from: age, drugs, stress etc.

One thing though: I've not heard that smoking menthol affects your sex drive, but that it affects the quality of your sperm in the long term.

Stress and other such factors affect the level of your stimulation. So if you cannot get it up as much as you used to or whatever, it could be your work/occupation, lifestyle and other matters that weaken you in less than obvious ways. The fix: learn to relax, maybe space out your sex sessions a little more so that every time you do it you can be performing at a peak: this will add to the enjoyment of sex and damn good climax when you come.

Age can have something to do with lowered sex drive too. But I seriously doubt it is that severe in your case that you need viagra and stuff like that.

Of course, don't expect to be able to do it like you used to in secondary school or something. Those days got something to your advantage (depending on how you see it): younger and presumably fitter and definitely hornier with hormones raging, sex was new, it was also more difficult to find opportunities to have sex so you made the most of sexual encounters. Plus it was more difficult to find places to have sex, so ended up in carpark or toilets in office blocks, in the swimming pool, the prefects' room etc, so more thrilling and therefore heightening the sexual experience.

Now that it's easier to have sex you may be having sex more often and under less 'exciting' circumstances.

Long term drug usage also has impact. Particularly, some instances of erectile dysfunction or ED, have to do with long-term drug usage.

What should you do? Something that will add to stimulation. And maybe have it less often. (One other thing that helps me, and I don't know if it works for others. Eat a lot of eggs and oysters. After I whack some of that shit down, damn horny for the next 24 hours or so.)

MrDevil
23-08-2004, 03:31 PM
bro devil , wats tis MAGIX tat u mention

Click on the banner at top of the page and you will find the full info about it. Each forum has also a sticky thread on Magix. I guess you are probably the few not knowing about Magix.

staff
23-08-2004, 04:00 PM
Click on the banner at top of the page and you will find the full info about it. Each forum has also a sticky thread on Magix. I guess you are probably the few not knowing about Magix.

soh des ne ......ty
never really notice those banners ... :p

Shooter
24-08-2004, 10:05 PM
Wow brother Perrymason32
Thanks for the wonder reply haha 100 points for that essay. answer straight to the point.
Thanks for the advises from brothers here. :o