Practical lessons about Sex

[fun_n_pleasure]

Dear fellow brudders,

Please pardon me for this very newbie question... To cut the long story short, where do you guys think I can have some practical lessons in the art of making love?

I know some bros here may say gelang, but from what I've read thus far... it seems like when people go gelang, or anywhere for any paid sex, they always get serviced by the girls and there're many limitations on what you could actually do with the girls. In short, the girl can make you cum but you're "not encouraged" to make the girl cum? Like no licking, no kissing, etc... :confused:

I can understand the girls didn't want to exhaust themselves too much cause they need to service many clients continuously.

But what if I want to learn how to pleasure women? Will any of these girls "guide" me how to touch them and f*ck them, or at least give me feedback if I'm going it correctly?

I guess there's only so much theory lessons I can read up, now I want to go practical liao :D

I hope my questions make sense to the senior bros here. Please kindly advise, and thank you so much ;)

[fun_n_pleasure]

Just to introduce a bit about myself here... i'm already in my 30s and all these years, I do have opportunities to get intimate with some gorgeous ladies but had never proceed due to religious reasons. But now my perspectives have changed and I want to really start dating again and have intimate relationships with girls... before I regret at later part of my life.

Recently I've been getting along well with 2 hot chicks, both in their early twenties. We're not at the intimate level yet, but I feel a bit pressured to "perform" and not screw up if and when the metal heat up to the right temperature :D.

This is really embarrassing... still so inexperience at my age... but please "zhi tian zhi tian"...

[daring70]

hmmm, lemme think and i'll get back to you. my best mentor was dior of haru2, who is unfortunately no longer on our shores. stay tuned ...

[kenGGG]

anyway u got 2 chicks, share 1 with us. we show and u follow wont goes wrong :)

[nokia88]

Practice , Practice and more Practice .

Different women have different levels of pleasure zone at different areas .

Some like their nipples/neck/earlobe . Observe and ask the partner where their pleasure zones are and explore if they dun know .

But you must be able to last more then 10mins and fire after they come . But if u need to satisfy both at the same time good luck :D

[fun_n_pleasure]

Hey daring70, thank you. I took some initiative to do a search on "dior of haru" but return no results. So camping here for now ;)


Nokia88, I understand wat u mean by different women have different preferences... perhaps I should not be too overly concern to "perform" and just explore with the girls together. I'm afraid that if I do it badly the first time, then no more second chance liao... lol.

No lah, think it's still better to take some practical lessons first before going on the road... and luckily there's no requirement to satisfy two women at the same time... for now :D

[LauYewTee]

Dude, side track abit arh... are you a native? If you're in your 30s its quite odd that you spelled Geylang as Gelang... :P

[fun_n_pleasure]

I'm a true blue born and breed chinese sillyporeans la... I did feel odd when spelling gelang too, now i know why... thanks for pointing out ;)

[fun_n_pleasure]

Sigh... after I wrote this thread, I continued to read postings by other bros. Then I realised how simple things can actually be... There're such things as FLs right?? so if the "geylang girls" does not fit into my objectives, surely the FLs do. And surely I can find a FLs from SBF, I thought.

Then something struck me... I remembered that when I first started seeing these two gals (one about a month, the other only 2 weeks)... my intention was to get myself a FB or part-time gf with no commitment. It was meant to be just pure exploration for me... so why am I so concern now?? I now realised there already are emotional attachments... and I'm starting to worry too much.

Sharks... gotto get a hold of myself.... sorry to all the bros for my boring rumblings. Arrgghhh.... how do you guys managed it without getting emo... arrgghhh....

[ilovesingapore]

TS is trying to hook up some horny girls by acting like an amateur! :@

[fun_n_pleasure]

TS is trying to hook up some horny girls by acting like an amateur! :@

your thread is really offensive.... I believed I've already made it clear without any doubt or denial that I'm now on course to explore the sexual stuffs... but "by acting like an amateur"???

I don't know how to explain... see NO NEED to explain, also nothing to explain.

[Thunder God]

Bro just ask one if the okts to intro a girl that is more experience lah. Tell him your challenges and I am sure they can hook you up with a girl who may await you. Would recommend a sillyporean cos they speak English. All a question of $$$ you could approach bro bulldog at his johnnyescorts website and I am sure he can help you... Hahaha cos that's the way I learnt after my fucking ex say my kuku jiao so short and can't Fuck for nuts.

[gian_soong]

Bro dun mind some of the ppl here. This place is no longer what it used to be.

Just dun pressure yourself too much when u are with the gals, this will seriously affect your performance. And like many said, get a FL for a
"familiarization" run. :)

1 thing though, if it's gonna be your 1st time, I dun think you would wanna pay for it.

[cklim77]

Just remember to be gentle and go slow. The foreplay don't start after you strip. For girls, te foreplay started as early as the point she saw you. The way you dress, how you carry yourself, the conversation, how you impress her. For girls, the actual action of doing it does not help you to score more than 50% of "the points".

[nokia88]

how do you guys managed it without getting emo... arrgghhh....

Always make clear ur stance .
But sometimes things will got blurred in the process .

Pure sexual relationship?
Pure companionship ?
looking for GF ?
Mixture of them ?

[fun_n_pleasure]

A sincere thank you to the many bros here who gave their support and advice, and to bro darling70 who pm me a FL contact.

My mind is quite clear now.... It's really funny (and scary) how quickly things have evolved, from first looking for a fb/part-time gf, to now have to look for FLs first before bonking the potential fb... haha

To all the bros who share similar situation, we must constantly remind ourselves to be strong and not to get too carried away emotionally with all these things.

Thank you all and good luck to everyone.