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Hansel
03-09-2010, 01:17 PM
Hi guys,

Everytime when i have sex it always last for afew minutes, even though i feel good but inside me i always want to do it longer.. i've seen some raw clip whereby the couple will stop for awhile and do teasing or even joking before continue, it seems to last longer. Do you guys do tat too or other method?
Care to share bros?

naturegreen
03-09-2010, 02:35 PM
A hint for you: It's all in the mind. ;)

Mr MCBB
03-09-2010, 04:20 PM
A hint for you: It's all in the mind. ;)


Does that means that "You only think that you can last long but actually you can't" :p

Okay okay enough of my lame jokes just pulling your leg there :o

KangTuo
03-09-2010, 04:23 PM
Use these...

http://www.gadgetshop.com/media/toyshop/products/Energizer/Zoom/180190.jpg

foooah
03-09-2010, 05:16 PM
It's true, all in the mind..the more you think about trying not to cum fast, the more you will...just stop thinking about it, enjoy the ride and you'll see it will last longer.

If this doesn't work, then try to think of something else, maybe football or what while fucking..haha

If it still doesn't work..2 words : Durex Performa

Mr MCBB
03-09-2010, 05:31 PM
It's true, all in the mind..the more you think about trying not to cum fast, the more you will...just stop thinking about it, enjoy the ride and you'll see it will last longer.

If this doesn't work, then try to think of something else, maybe football or what while fucking..haha

If it still doesn't work..2 words : Durex Performa


Hi Mr Fooah, have been wanting to ask this question for some time but kept slipping my mind until I read your post ;)

Does this Durex Performa numbs your penis just like the so-called "Indian Magic Oil"?:p and how long does this feeling lasts? :p

........
03-09-2010, 05:53 PM
In my opinion longer or faster is not a matter, just concentrate to enjoy your fuck till you finally cum :)

foooah
03-09-2010, 06:20 PM
Hi Mr Fooah, have been wanting to ask this question for some time but kept slipping my mind until I read your post ;)

Does this Durex Performa numbs your penis just like the so-called "Indian Magic Oil"?:p and how long does this feeling lasts? :p

I used it before, it doesnt't really numb the cockhead until u cnt feel, it's just enough for u to last, somehow when u cum, it feels stronger and more "shiok"...haha

Just give it a try...just remember to use the correct side, u dont want HER to get numb..haha

bonkster
03-09-2010, 06:42 PM
just remember to use the correct side, u dont want HER to get numb..haha

Haha...that will yield the the exact opposite effect of using Performa. :p

Guy thinks he can last longer so pump enthusiastically and cum prematurely; girl haven't feel a thing and the game's over. :D

Athenawishes
03-09-2010, 07:01 PM
the using of performa sounds "realistic"..

should ask my bf if he wans to give it a try...

but... RAW is always way way BETTER~!! ><

bonkster
03-09-2010, 07:08 PM
but... RAW is always way way BETTER~!! ><

Raw sure feels better but it also last shorter. There's always a trade-off. :p

180442
03-09-2010, 07:56 PM
Dant it. You should pick up marathon running. I run 30km a week. Sure can last min 30 mins if not longer. The problem is my wife also a runner so both of us can last long time.:)

bberry
03-09-2010, 11:02 PM
Dant it. You should pick up marathon running. I run 30km a week. Sure can last min 30 mins if not longer. The problem is my wife also a runner so both of us can last long time.:)

i also do marathon, how come it doesnt apply to me? :confused:

Absolute
03-09-2010, 11:30 PM
God is very fair. Most women cannot last for more than 90 mins anyway, and that's excluding half-time and extra time.

smalldick10
03-09-2010, 11:36 PM
Try changing positions when u feel like coming, it always work for me. Else worse case, think of some work or ur boss pressuring you....confirm last even longer :D

foooah
04-09-2010, 01:25 AM
Think of ur mother-in-law...hahaha

mvmhjki6
04-09-2010, 01:26 AM
performa is good. I used those delaying spray before and my gf says it feels different. She feels that my dick shrink after applying so not using it anymore.

freezetheDB
04-09-2010, 02:25 PM
ive a friend who confided that he feel damn pek chek coz hard for him to cum. Usually he bonk until he no mood and all it is in his mind is to unload asap

woodgate
04-09-2010, 02:47 PM
most of the time i am able to last abt 10 mins or so...
sometimes when i'm in a mood to go longer, i will stop and paint my gal... (win win suitationfor both) then i will continue.. able to make the whole love making session longer by another 5-10 mins again

enjoy!

Max77
04-09-2010, 06:26 PM
I'll (still) say, sleep more. When u hav enuff sleep u'll feel like doing something when u wake up...(going to work not included)

sony2002
04-09-2010, 06:43 PM
If it still doesn't work..2 words : Durex Performa

doesn't work for me...cos like what other bro say..it is all in the mind.

with performa, it just make the "head" feel numb...but still can cum fast if the mind never control

TheGreatOne
04-09-2010, 11:18 PM
1stly, why do you have to hold?

you don't have to purposely 'hold' longer just to show 'You Da Man' bla bla....

for me i usually ask my partner if she is cumming, or in case she came, ask if she would want to cum again. Till she had her fill, then i cum. Or at least time well with her so-called-final-orgasm of the session and cum together with her.

If you're asking how to prolong the session on your part before she reach her big 'O'.

Yup some bros already suggested, think of nasty boss la (I don't practise this for fear of being too affected till didi soften)

I only time my breathing while doing it. As of how to time, etc (breath in while thrust in or vice versa varies I think) Once you get to know your own body timing, it's like you can hold for as long you want, while maintaining stiffness.

One of the useful method in getting your partner reach her 'O' fast is dirty talking.

Try whisper those naughty sweet nothing while doing the deed. Send her imagination into overdrive, even if it meant asking her to fantasise getting fucked by other cocks and such. (you may even get to find out what her innermost darkest fantasies are)

Don't worry if you suggest the wrong fantasy (trust me, you'll know it if you blurted the wrong one) Then try another one till you got it right.

it could be only 10mins sometimes, or 20mins... the point is, don't have to purposely hold. Love making is about intimacy between two or more persons. As long you serve the purpose, cease fire lor.

Doesn't pay if you worked your hard ass off for your own personal record but caused abrasions to her pussy.

Hansel
06-09-2010, 11:52 AM
Thank you bros for all the replies.... Will definately try some of the methods.
Will give u guys a fr to c which is the best.
Remember to up my points n I will do the same
Thanks!!!!

Iwant2fuck
06-09-2010, 02:52 PM
Think of your RSM training u,

Chow recruit, you give me 10 (mins), do it!!! You don't geng with me, F!$#@#!#!( u you do one more for the country, one more for me, do it....

I ordering u to hold it, I'm going to kick and break it then cut it off if you shoot now. 1 more minute....!@#@!( u, don't give me that face, soldier....

maxman
06-09-2010, 05:49 PM
Distract yourself by occupying your mind with something other than the sex act. Think of something boring like maths and work, or repulsive like mother-in-law or Freddy Kruger.

When you feel the slightest feeling in an ejaculation coming soon, use all self-discipline to stop thrusting and pull out. Catch your breath. Think of something boring or repulsive. When the feeling subsides, continue or change position. You could also use the vibrator on her while letting yourself go soft and when you feel that she has had a fill of orgasms with the vibrator, get her to suck you up and then sex again. Either way, you would still be prolonging her intercourse and giving her many orgasms.

If the above method aren't very effective in slowing you down, wear the thickest condom you can find (which I doubt any condom manufacturer would make). To numb the sensation on your penis, try the finger section of a rubber glove or a balloon. (I'm not totally serious about these.)

Hansel
06-09-2010, 06:39 PM
Bro u violent man... Is tat really wat u think during sex???

Peter_North
06-09-2010, 08:09 PM
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_7lvYX3ZyqyM/RyggQDekl0I/AAAAAAAAAAg/lilvD5fu2i8/s1600/SUN+dazzles.jpg

think of her whenever you feel like coming.

unsung80
06-09-2010, 08:31 PM
Practise and practise.

bonkster
06-09-2010, 08:32 PM
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_7lvYX3ZyqyM/RyggQDekl0I/AAAAAAAAAAg/lilvD5fu2i8/s1600/SUN+dazzles.jpg

think of her whenever you feel like coming.

Think i will still cum. Need a stronger dose. :D Try her:
http://static.divaasia.com/action/PageImage/24062009072651/4169.jpg

groo
06-09-2010, 09:51 PM
...Try her:
http://static.divaasia.com/action/PageImage/24062009072651/4169.jpgIf I think of her halfway bonking, my didi will definitely shrink straightaway and hide between the balls... Bwahahahahahahahaha!!! :D

To prolong the intimacy and joy of lovemaking, try varying the speed of your thrusts. When you can feel the urge to climax coming, slow down and even stop. Just kiss and french while groping and feeling each other up, of course with your little thingy still inside her lah.

Change positions more frequently. Learn to relax during the deed, don't rush. Like many bros pointed out, it's all in the mind. ;)

If you want to get her to climax earlier, the best bet is the doggy position. To make her cum even faster, try to find out where her sweet spot is when doggying her - then stimulate her sweet spot while doggying her and voila! She'll cum screaming in lust in no time! :D

Cheers and happy bonking... :p

ahdon31
06-09-2010, 10:04 PM
i'm a late cummer. always the girls will asked me issit that i always take so long to cum de. dunno y oso:confused::

bonkster
06-09-2010, 11:15 PM
If I think of her halfway bonking, my didi will definitely shrink straightaway and hide between the balls... Bwahahahahahahahaha!!! :D

Haha...that's also not good. Supposed to make u last longer, not end the action. :p:D

eeemen
06-09-2010, 11:39 PM
Think i will still cum. Need a stronger dose. :D Try her:
http://static.divaasia.com/action/PageImage/24062009072651/4169.jpg
Good one bro!! Ha Ha :D, cheers ..............

back_it_in
07-09-2010, 03:55 AM
hmm.. i don't if there's something wrong with me. but i just wear a condom to last longer. cos when fucking raw, the feeling is more shiok and can cum easily. but when fucking using condom, i have no idea why but i can just keep on fucking till my legs go tired and i have to fuck really2 hard to cum.

on a sidenote, does anyone share the same experience as me? without condom, i can last 10-15 of fucking. but with condom, i can last at least half an hour of fucking(some foreplay in between to ensure lubrication). i wonder if there's something wrong with me.

Fetish Joe
07-09-2010, 04:26 AM
Hi guys,

Everytime when i have sex it always last for afew minutes, even though i feel good but inside me i always want to do it longer.. i've seen some raw clip whereby the couple will stop for awhile and do teasing or even joking before continue, it seems to last longer. Do you guys do tat too or other method?
Care to share bros?

i use energinzer or duracell :D last longer....:p




cheers

Hansel
07-09-2010, 09:50 AM
So you are the bunny now ah~.... hahaha....

YJ17
07-09-2010, 11:31 AM
1) Practise ur ability to hold cum - hold ur pee when urinating. Do it a few times during peeing (This one i read somewhere)

2) Drink beer and make urself semi drunk / drunk. Harder to cum when drunk.

3) Press the area between ur anus and balls when u feel like cumming (my friend's method)

4) Bend ur cock in an awkard angle. This normally happen during cowgirl when the lady leans too far back. I personally kena b4. You will experience some pain and therefore cant cum.

5) Do some HJ (maybe semi rough) to numb ur cock first.

6) Change position often.

7) Alternate b/t fast and slow pace. Adopt super fast pace and when ur tigh/knees tires, u will lose the focus to cum. Den you can slow down to rest ur legs.

dechu
07-09-2010, 02:25 PM
Hi, Have not really mentioned this to people whom i know before or at least only a few but how about the otherway round....

Would like to find out how to cum faster.... i do not believe im the only one so seeking advice here....

Say cum in 15mins would be good :)

Thks

Hansel
07-09-2010, 02:46 PM
this i can tell u bro, focus on the girl and her part that turn u on the most.
ie: the breast, the ass etc....
Choose ur fave position
Some tried to masturbate till cumming b4 they do but dunno if that will work...
and lastly if that dun work think of ur fave porn movie when doing....

aLun
07-09-2010, 02:51 PM
Dant it. You should pick up marathon running. I run 30km a week. Sure can last min 30 mins if not longer. The problem is my wife also a runner so both of us can last long time.:)

Hmm is this true? Den the kenyans must last really long then lol.
But seriously if it is, im gonna jog more. Wat a good way to last. Keep urself fit and can fuk longer.. Haha

44mm
07-09-2010, 03:15 PM
Use sex toys. It helps...

Fetish Joe
08-09-2010, 02:24 AM
Use sex toys. It helps...

yes.. dun forgrt to use duracell or energinzer .. Last longer :D




cheers

FierceCow
08-09-2010, 02:48 AM
yes.. dun forgrt to use duracell or energinzer .. Last longer :D




cheers

Even use duracell or energinzer... must also remember ur tool must not be iTool... Coz apple product battery life dun last.... so if u use iTool, half way no girl let u recharge then come back one...

better use blackberry or HTC (Hard Tool Confirmed)....!!
(btw i anti-apple product...lol)

Fetish Joe
08-09-2010, 02:53 AM
Even use duracell or energinzer... must also remember ur tool must not be iTool... Coz apple product battery life dun last.... so if u use iTool, half way no girl let u recharge then come back one...

better use blackberry or HTC (Hard Tool Confirmed)....!!
(btw i anti-apple product...lol)

bro cow... so sorry.. i forgot to tell u...
im nuclear powered... :p




cheers

BunnyTheRabbit
08-09-2010, 06:52 PM
[QUOTE=Fetish Joe;5189123]i use energinzer or duracell :D last longer....:p



Hey...!! thats my Line..... lol :D

Fetish Joe
09-09-2010, 12:35 PM
Hey...!! thats my Line..... lol :D[/QUOTE]

huh?? lol oops... sori :D

doomday123
09-09-2010, 01:04 PM
I can last very long but what is the point of it if u can't cum & your bro was exhausted after so long. Feel it's torturing rather than enjoying.

I hope to cum faster. It's really a waste of my condom by not cumming & always end up with HJ.

WiseGuy
15-04-2013, 04:41 AM
Use sex toys. It helps...

Any recommendation ?

GordonGekko
01-05-2013, 10:53 AM
Actually does kegel exercise really work or am i just wating my time :o

Bernanke
05-05-2013, 10:17 PM
your bro was exhausted after so long.

Do like what i do, have a break have a kit kat :p

chickssss
05-05-2013, 11:23 PM
anyone know if prilligy is good.

does phuket sell it? and how much...

thanx

GodOfGamblers
12-05-2013, 10:53 PM
Actually does kegel exercise really work or am i just wating my time :o

This you can ask samster shadow_Warrior, he has very good ways of doing
this including TCM ways

Dakejay
12-05-2013, 11:39 PM
I can last very long but what is the point of it if u can't cum & your bro was exhausted after so long. Feel it's torturing rather than enjoying.

I hope to cum faster. It's really a waste of my condom by not cumming & always end up with HJ.

Hi bro, me the same as you. I wish I cum fater, like 15min.

To bro TS, you can try running. The more I run the more I can last. You can start by 1.5km then move one to 3,5,7km. When u can finish 10km without going out of breath then we r talking.

TheEvilDoer
18-05-2013, 11:16 AM
Do like what i do, have a break have a kit kat :p

Hahaha, kit kat :D

KobeBeef
18-05-2013, 10:30 PM
PCC one hour before bonking. Then not so fast shoot out

TedDibiase
23-05-2013, 10:53 PM
This you can ask samster shadow_Warrior,
he has very good ways of doing this including TCM ways

I remember he used to have a thread on tghis topic, but can't find it
anymore :o

MichaelScofield
01-06-2013, 11:25 PM
Actually does kegel exercise really work or am
i just wating my time :o

Kegel exercises for me was not so effective but then again to each his own
as well, no harm to try ;)

Tengkor
08-06-2013, 12:06 PM
When u can finish 10km without going out of
breath then we r talking.

Run 10km, the cure sounds worse than the disease

tantan1234
09-06-2013, 02:26 AM
Hi bro, me the same as you. I wish I cum fater, like 15min.

To bro TS, you can try running. The more I run the more I can last. You can start by 1.5km then move one to 3,5,7km. When u can finish 10km without going out of breath then we r talking.

Haha. Will we look out of the windows tomorrow and see alot of guys in singlets hitting the road for a run after yr message?

Maybe I shld try too

joncheong
09-06-2013, 01:27 PM
PCC one hour before bonking. Then not so fast shoot out

there was a period when i was younger, i really couldn't control so i had to do this....pcc before banging ....:D

MedicineMan
09-06-2013, 11:50 PM
Prilligy is the official pill to help with ED.

GordonGekko
17-06-2013, 10:53 PM
Run 10km, the cure sounds worse than the disease

Hahaha, :D

Tengkor
23-06-2013, 10:26 PM
i use energinzer or duracell :D
last longer....:p

Reminds me of the energizer bunny, goes on and on and on :o

rtkmc
23-06-2013, 11:42 PM
'Think of your RSM '

Thats so funny!