Khmer Diary [Archive] - The Asian Commercial Sex Scene

Faidenk

09-08-2010, 05:09 PM

1st Night
After an uneventful fight from Changi T1, our Jetstar A320 landed at Phnom Penh Airport and within 20 minutes we (me and a longtime buddy, VC) were retrieving our bags from the conveyor.

The cab to our hotel costs USD9. (The US dollar is the de facto currency in Cambodia, while the riel is used primarily for small change). There were no forms to fill as we checked ourselves in. The receptionist did all the necessary and we were lead to a spartan room. The aircon is cold enough, the 70 or so TV channels include ChannelNewsasia to HBO, Star Movies. The bathtub is chipped at places and the shower head is positioned at chest level so one have to stoop to wash one’s hair. It is certainly no Shangri-La but then it costs only $12 a night.

A quick washup and we were walking down the street to a local beer garden at the next street. It is a typical beer garden that is patronized predominantly by locals. It has a stage and music is provided by a lone musician on an organ. Singers alternate between a guy singer, and a bevy of hostesses who also sit with customers between stints on stage. I am glad to report the stupid practice of buying garlands had not reach Cambodia’s shore. Quality of these hostesses ranges from downright fugly to long-legged stunners. And yes, they could be had for between $40 to $80 for the night.

Then there are the beer promoters (BG). Even before we were seated, we were swamped by a bevy of girls, each pushing a laminated card with an image of a beer bottle of one side and a Khmer beauty on the other, as if there was a relation between the two. One usually makes his choice of beer on which BG he fancies. Each beer costs $3 with $1 going to the BG. Given that the average wage of a worker is $50 a month, the BG’s make a tidy sum. Having made your choice, the BG will be your company for the evening and can lead to intimacies in your room for $30 to $50 if you are so inclined. It used to be $20 when I was there year and a half ago so it seems inflation has taken its toll.

A much cheaper alternative is a jug of house pour draught which costs only $5, the consumption of which turns one invisible to the BG’s. A JW Red 75cl costs $21, while the 1L costs $25, JW Black %25. Beers at the bars are even cheaper and we leave that for later.

One word about buying ciggies and alcohol at Changi - don’t. Cigarettes are sold here at $1 to %1.25 a packet at street corners. Suffice to say liquor retail prices at reputable supermarkets are cheaper.

Back to the beer garden, we ordered a jug of Angkor beer. We intend to stick to our game plan of stretching our dollars as far as possible but after a while we realized the futility of it all. Attractive girls were eyeing us, in all probabilities with curiosity. Who the fucks would go to a beer garden to enjoy the music? especially a couple of obvious barangs who can’t even speak a word of Khmer to save their lives. VC obviously echoed my sentiments.
In the meantime, a Beck’s BG sat down beside me. Mmmm… nice smile, lips Shu Qi would have been jealous of, high cheek bones which accentuates her smile, deep set eyes which further contributes to her exoticsm. Other than her ghastly makeup, believe me she looks much better than the photo. And she possesses a formidable rack. That alone sucked me in.

Sairuat is 24. For lack of communication, her English consists of not more than 10 words which were punctuated by long pauses as she thinks of the next word, and my non-existence command of Khmer, made it impossible for any meaningful conversation. So we downgraded to the most basic of form of communication, sign language. So in a short time, I knew she like me, I good man with good heart, and that I stay at the hotel down the road. And I conveyed to her I like her, and am excited by her (patting my heart underneath my T equates fast beating heart), and my nose bleeds, and a quick thug of her hand to my crouch. She jerked her hand back as if she touched a hot plate, glared at me for my audacity, then smiled in forgiveness. ‘Don’t do that, too many people around’ she seemed to gesture. OK.

In the meantime, she had asked another BG over. This one looks Vietnamese although she’s as Khmer as salted Toman fish. In time VC warmed up to her. Why he didn’t take her away that night, I didn’t venture to ask. All of us have our own preferences and hang-ups and I don’t make it my business to pry.

I ‘told’ Sairuat I stay at the hotel down the road and that she’s welcome to share my bed. At closing time she gestured for me to wait at the entrance for her. She changed and walked back to the hotel.

I invited her into the bathroom with me but she declined. Disappointed I showered alone. She was wrapped in towel when I came out and we sucked tongues for a while before she showered. I laid naked under the sheets waiting. The bathroom door finally opened and she slipped besides me, still wrapped with the towel.

She shivered and I put my arm around her. She shivered again, wrapped her leg over me, snuggled up real close I can hear her beating heart, and lowered her lips on mine. The love making was sweet and undemanding. The beer must have been too much for me and I couldn’t come. I meant to rest for a while but we drifted off.

It was 4.30 when I got up to pee. My condom was still wrapped over my dick loosely, I discarded it, pissed a long string and got back into bed, facing her. She shifted her body up close again so I was spooning her. My cock twitched, spasmed a little and finally stirred to life. My hand moved to her breast to play with her nipple. She stirred and moaned softly. I had moved my prick between her arse crack and applying pressure there to pleasure myself. Damn, it felt good. I moved my hand down between her legs and found slippery and warm. Her clitoris feels swollen and her thighs spread a little to accommodate my fingers. She shuddered, and got up to suck my nipples.

Women ought to know by now sucking men’s tits does nothing for them. Women’s tits are lined with pleasure nerves so suckling babies gives them pleasure, of sorts. Men’s tits are ornamental. Sucking and licking my tits irritate me sometimes. I pressed her head south, she resisted. I insisted and pressed on. Come on girl, earn your keeps. Finally she took a tentative lick at the shaft, I moaned aloud and arched my back to reward her. Pleased that she pleasured me, she abandoned all hesitation and attacked with gusto, with loud slurps and deep swallows. I rewarded her further.

The pace this time was fast and furious and ended like the last burst of fireworks, then dreamless sleep.

It was 7 when she rolled off my numb arm and went to the bathroom, this time without the towel. She came out and dressed up. Damn, I was hoping for another romp but did not protest. I felt drained.

I took a twenty and a ten and stuffed it into her pocket. Unlike many others, she took it out, looked at it and then me with expectant eyes. I peeled off another 10 and was rewarded with a smile.

She made me promised I look for her again. I gave her a noncommittal grunt and opened the door for her.

Al_an

10-08-2010, 03:09 PM

Nice post , keep it up ! Good guide of what to expect for the rest to know what is like to cheong there . Thanks for much information . Kudos to you .

blursam

11-08-2010, 01:00 AM

bro, which hotel you stay and recommend ? do they have girl-friendly/friendly rules for hotel (like Vietnam) ?

Thanks

Soopafly

11-08-2010, 10:41 AM

Thanks bro Faidenk for the FR! Been to Cambodia a couple of times but mostly in Angkor Wat. Maybe next time I will spend some time in Phnom Penh!

Faidenk

11-08-2010, 11:47 AM

bro, which hotel you stay and recommend ? do they have girl-friendly/friendly rules for hotel (like Vietnam) ?

Thanks

The hotel I'm staying is just off the Kampuchea Krom, locally owned. It is the Tonle Sekong Hotel. There are lots of hotels of this class. Most costs $15 a night but because I am a repeat customer, I pay $12.

I have yet to come across any hotel that is not girl friendly but then again I haven't stay at all hotels. Generally I would say the majority are friendly.

The front desk calls me when they see the girl leaving. That's a nice move I appreciate.

Faidenk

11-08-2010, 11:50 AM

The Next Few Days Pt 1

..was spent being shown around by a good friend (ED) who runs a IT biz here in PP. And, although it has always been my practice to go local where food is concerned, that ED made the round with us to almost all the Singapore and Malaysian restaurants did not go unappreciated. Khmer food, even from top end restaurants, is usually heavily laced with MSG and sugar, and it never fails to leave my mouth powdery.

We also spent a large part of the time apartments hunting. We searched the local real estate sites initially for leads but found most of them are not current. Frustrated we turned to the local newspapers, The Phnom Penh Daily and Cambodia Times (I think). We made 2 appointments for viewing.

At the first appointment, the guy we talked to turned out to be the son of the owner. The 2nd floor apartment was quite large, larger than the usual 4x20m, unfurnished, dimly lighted, and to cut this short, unsuitable. The price was raised $100 to $350 when we requested for it to be furnished, AC, wardrobes, the bare minimum. We left uncommitted.

The 2nd apartment, at Boeng Keng Kong 3, was on the 3rd floor. It was nicely furnished, in moved-in condition. I am apprehensive because the owner and family lives on the ground floor, and access was shared with them. It would be ‘inconvenient’ when we have ‘guests’. Rent? $250.

I would liken Boeng Keng Kong (BKK) to Singapore’s Holland V. Nice 3 or 4 storied houses lined the 3 streets that made up of BKK, away from the main streets so it was not too dusty from the traffic, and close to several small Western-run restaurants and pubs. The well-stocked Lucky Supermart,a favorite with the NGO-type expats, is 15 minutes walk away.

The second apartment we viewed, led by the same agent, had the same configuration as the first. The entire apartment block was rented out to foreigners. Ground floor - Myanmar, top – French. This apartment had just came into the market. We negotiated for the other bedroom to be AC, a wardrobe each room, a fan in the living room and tried our luck for internet to be included. I like this one. A tiny gripe is the stairway. The steps are short, barely enough for a size 8 foot, and higher than the norm. Coming home dead drunk would be a challenge.

In the evenings, we hit the bars at St 136. First was Okun Cha. Tall glass framed the entire shop front. Everything was tastefully done. The hostesses are obviously handpicked, each of them carry themselves well, speaks English more than adequately. Only problem, no hanky-panky. And the two lady owners looked like models.

Through the grapevine, I heard the previous owner is still under detention, having been made a scapegoat along with a few other bar owners, for having flouted the indecency laws. Under the normal circumstances, the authorities are paid off and its business as usual the next day but on that occasion, the orders came right from the top and would serve as a example. Never mind that all the bars around Okun Cha remained open, although bar top dancing, and ‘other behavior unbecoming’ ceased, to this day.

We had a drink or 2, and decided this was too tame for us.

Faidenk

19-08-2010, 03:29 PM

The Next Few Days Pt 2

We popped in a couple of pubs lining both sides of St. 136. 10 to 15 girls in each, and girls surround you before you make your orders. I’ve learned to be careful in the selection less the one which appeals to you escaped your initial scrutiny. Since then, also, I’ve learned also how to subtly reject the one on hand when I see another who appealed, ignore her, or simply move to another pub after a beer.

Candy, the pub we eventually stayed for more than a couple looks just like any of the other pubs except it is a double shoplot. A shoplot is a standard 4x30m. I supposed this is an inheritance from their colonial masters, France, wherein property owners were taxed by the width of the facade.

Passed the door of Candy, there were at least 30+ girls. A quick glance told me boobs are a prerequisite for successful employment and proudly flaunted too by the single-shoulder tight-as-skin low-cut T. A detailed survey, while ignoring the invariable massaging, hands on my thigh, whispers of ‘sa’at’ (equivalent of hansum man), revealed there were some pretty faces attached to the boobs. VC ordered 2 Anchor draughts ($1 a mug, $1.50 after Happy Hour, pronounced an-chor as in cheap), and I found my arm attached to a SYT, firmly wedged between a pair of 36Cs which seemed oddly out of place, given the disarming innocence she radiated. She seemed determined not to be outdone by the other girls clamoring for our attention. She seemed really taken by this hansum man, which I’m sure has absolutely nothing to do with the tips she expected.

Speaking not a word of Khmer and English, I was content just feeling her soft milky bosom on the sly, and her bum against my groin. We both bought a round of ladies’ drinks ($2 each) and since she doesn’t possess a mobile, by which I could summon her for a afternoon siesta, left for home with a $2 tip and a wet patch on the jeans.

Readers ask why am I going home alone? Well, through the years, I have come to realize alcohol, when imbibed on the excessive, gives one the bravado and urge, but nothing of the performance. More than once have I regretted the choice, and the tediousness in the morning after which she’s paid to go away. So when I want a ‘boom boom’, I go slow on the liquids.

Faidenk

19-08-2010, 03:30 PM

The Next Few Days Pt 3

In the meantime, Mr Luot, the landlord, has acceded to most of our requests - a fan in the living room, TV, AC for the other room, and a wardrobe in each, and bedsheets, pillowcases etc. He also agreed to throw in a washing machine and fridge, and that about wrapped it up. We signed the lease for a year, added a clause which states no increment in rent should we extend it beyond. This was the 11th and we were to move in on the 13th. A day would be enough for him to fix the AC and move in the rest of the stuff agreed upon.

On our part, we will pay an extra $5 a month for the cable TV, the 80 or so channels include the all the major channels - HBO, Star Movies, CNN, Channelnewsasia, Bloomberg, Natgeo, Discovery and ESPN, football, the works. Electricity is $0.25 per kW – so far in 6 days, we used a total of 46kW, $11.50 so that should work out to be about $40 or so a month. Water is $4. Trash fee is borne by the landlord.

A word on Mr Luot, he runs a small coffee shop selling cheap local food. Apparently it’s lucrative enough to own 2 blocks of apartment. He’s 50, mild mannered and apparently quite easy going, judging by the speed in which he agreed to our lease requests.

A 20L container of drinking water (oreverse osmosis, ozone-treated and uV, sic) is $1 delivered with $4 security deposit, a 24x330ml carton of Anchor is $12 delivered. We will soon find out the price for the gas when the present tank goes dry.

I had lugged along a new set of DVD player / sound system won at a club snooker tourney from home. With that, we’re almost all set for a new home in the city of Phnom Penh, Kampuchea. Now we only need the usual crockery, pots and pans, and some occasional feminine presence to dispel any funny notions neighbors might have of the 2 men living in this apartment.

The day we moved in was spent on the taking over process and making a couple of trips to the nearby Orussey Market buying mops & pails, clothes pegs & hangers, detergents, blankets. The list seems endless. After 2 days, the only thing left is the ironing board and internet connection, which is still unresolved today, the 19th.

On our first day, we moved our luggage on a tuk-tuk. On reaching the apartment, the driver feigned he hasn’t change for the $2 fare. Just on the ground floor next to our apartment is a small Massage shop. On its signboard there was a $3 amongst the Khmer characters. I went into the shop and asked the 4 girls there to change my $5 bill. A cute Vietnamese girl gave me the change. After paying off the driver, she came out of the shop and spoke to me in Mandarin. I told her I will be her new neighbor and customer, and smiled at her, friend as well. She giggled and said she will be expecting me. It’s been a week since and I have yet to patronize her. I intend to rectify the situation asap.

Pink_Flyod

19-08-2010, 05:46 PM

Bro Faident.. will bookmark your blog... keep it coming. Who knows I will visit you guys one day.

Faidenk

24-08-2010, 07:02 PM

The Next Few Days Pt 4

A couple of nights ago, after a long bus trip back from Pakse, Laos in which the bus was delayed 2 hours at the Cambodian side of the border over some ‘non-compliance’ of visa regulations by a Nigerian passenger and his Thai girlfriend, I finally stepped in the apartment at 9.

A badly needed shower later, I was ready to rehydrate. We hopped onto a tuk-tuk and directed the driver to St 136. St. 136 is a street just off the famed riverside area. Fronting the riverside, called Sisowath Quay, is a stretch of lounges, and restaurants, massage parlors, even one of those fish massage, not much unlike Boat Quay. Most of these are tastefully done up, unlike the many girlie bars in streets just off Sisowath. The street with the most girlies is the 136, with at least 10. Candy, Pussycat, which I’ve mentioned in Pt 2 are among the bigger ones here. Other smaller ones, no less popular, includes 69, Sisslers (now my fav).

Last night in Sisslers, I told this fair girl, Lina, I heard ‘gancha’ are easily available, just in passing. I was thinking more in line of trying a Happy Pizza. She excused herself for a while, came back. In about 15 minutes a Khmer guy came in the doo, she met him half way and came back to her seat, that is, my lap, with a 3 x 4 inch ziplock bag of the stuff, close to an inch thick, and asked me for $10. My hands were probably shaking as I counted the money. Jeez!

Smoking marijuana is illegal, however because of some legal loophole, consuming it as a herb is not. So some smart entrepreneur sprinkled some on a pizza and it took off from there. I also had it, it was added to a chicken stewed with banana flower on a farm a Khmer friend owns in Kampong Cham, a province. It’s a hardy farmers fare so don’t expect it served at your friendly Michelin starred restaurant.

When the pool table was available, we (VC and our 2 girls) went up to the upper deck. From there we could see the action below. I rolled a joint quickly, went out to the river bank where it was devoid of anybody due to the slight drizzle, lit up and shared the joint with VC. We came back with a wide smile on our faces and it stayed there until we reached home.

The first time I met Lina the previous week, I didn’t pay much attention to her due to a dead ringer for Zoe Tay, or so I thought in my inebriated state, who, between shots on the pool table, was fiddling about my zipper. I did however tip her a dollar when I left, which, she told me, was something even barangs seldom do.

This time, Lina was a whole lot friendlier. She’s 25, speaks English fairly well, fair of complexion, maybe 1.5m tall, with deep dimples, which at certain angles, reminds me of Jack Nicholson’s Joker, only it’s not unattractive. Actually although she denied it she looks more Vietnamese than Khmer. She’s witty and caught on my repartees easily. When another girl asked her to translate an SMS, I asked whether she received SMSes from barang as well – professing love or advising money transfer. It caught her off-guard for a minute, recovered and sweetly said she doesn’t go with barangs so how would any be sending her money? I left it at that. It was just let it be known I know the game.

We became even friendlier after the joint, she backing her impressive bum into me. Well, will you be going home with a barang for the first time tonight? I asked her. No, she replied. I was disappointed. To me principles and bargirls just don’t belong together in the same sentence if anything, it’s just a matter of price.

I had just bought a pack of Kamagra at a neighborhood pharmacy and was eager to try it out. Viagra was a whopping $33 for a pack of 4. The Kamagra was only $1.80 per pill (yes, it’s available loose). I’ll get the Cialis the next time.

Not tonight, she eventually said, monthly thing and laughed at the ‘gotcha’. My faith in humanity restored, I ordered another round of beer.

VC seemed to be getting along well with his 20 year-old but who looked younger. I was a little surprised when we walked out of the bar bare-handed.

One more thing, we resolved to hit this bar no later than 6.30 the next time. Happy hour is 1 for 1 until 9. 8 mugs to me is just about when all the girls start looking good, 10, I walk with 2 left feet. So, for $5 for 8 beers, another $3 for tips, or maybe a ladies’ drink at $3. A very good evening could be had for between $10 to $15.

Faidenk

24-08-2010, 07:24 PM

Living In Cambodia Pt 1

Well, we’ve more or less settled in to some semblance of a ‘life’ in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. There are ways to go, with much obstacles along the path.

First, why, you may ask, am I even here? As I look at it, there are simply not many alternatives for me. If you are in your 40’s, you hate being called ‘Uncle’ by your neighborhood fishmonger’s wife, who may even be older than you! You feel you’re not old enough to be addressed so, and you’re certainly not focking related in any way. Well, I am at that age ‘uncle’ sounds a lot more acceptable than Ah Pek. And the girls in Singapore? You so out of the market it’s like you’re born old to them. Thankfully, bless their cute little hearts, Khmer girls hold no such prejudice.

Second, you’re out of the job market as well. A baby boomer and not a particularly motivated student, no degree, no specialized skills with the exception of years in the electronics components sales and marketing segment, several years living in Europe, Australia and China, these are no material for even a mediocre CV.

So, therein lies my predicament. Remain in Singapore and I’ll be looking at whatever is left of my productive life as a security guard or a taxi driver. I seem to fall through every crack in the government’s sieving machine for handouts, I don’t qualify to be included in that class of citizens the govt wants to ‘help’ with the increase in GST, living in a HDB 5 roomer; it’s a depressing state of limbo to be in.

A couple of years, a close friend (LN) I know from the NS stint, told me about Cambodia. He has some friends there. Always eager to see new places and since a visit is well within my meager budget, I asked to tag along on his next trip. We did the tourist thing, Angkor Wat, the beaches at Sihanoukville, the casinos before they closed, the nightlife. I left out the torture chambers and the Killing Fields, life is too short for such depressing monuments to death and human depravity. I acknowledge it, and hope such degeneracy happens not again.

I returned 4 more times. It’s a time I get away from the wife who is, understandably so, less than happy with my inability to hold down a job, and my pre-teen boy, who is starting to give me lips (reminds me so much of myself). Apparently some of the wife’s sentiments have rubbed off and he occasionally let slip, but he’s a good boy and I’m proud of him. OMG, I’ve become a bum. But I digress.

kraphead

24-08-2010, 09:03 PM

great thread mate.
love to hear more of your escapades. planning to head to pp sometime in the near future :)

Mr MCBB

25-08-2010, 11:02 AM

If you are in your 40’s, you hate being called ‘Uncle’ by your neighborhood fishmonger’s wife, who may even be older than you! You feel you’re not old enough to be addressed so, and you’re certainly not focking related in any way.

I seem to fall through every crack in the government’s sieving machine for handouts

Clap clap :D I simply love these 2 sentences, well crafted and worded :p

Hardyboy

26-08-2010, 11:54 AM

Bro Faidenk, I like the way you write.

AssLover

26-08-2010, 01:34 PM

southaddress

27-08-2010, 01:53 AM

Wah bro, you are talking your heart.

Way to go. Keep going.

Love to follow.

How do you feel now. Happy? relieved?

Faidenk

27-08-2010, 08:10 AM

Lovely post and best reality of life! I have everything in my life but cannot find my soul...trying to find that life partner who comes only in dream....life goes on!I woul love to meet you in Cambodia!

Thanks for the comments, guys.

In the coming posts, I will try to comment on all facets of living in Cambodia, although understandably it will be focused mainly on Phnom Penh. In upcoming posts will be the inevitable close encounters of the feminine kind; what it costs to live here - housing, transport, dining, drinking; you know, on a relatively comfortable but not superscale tourist budget. Have patience boys, I need to live it first.

Faidenk

27-08-2010, 09:04 AM

There will also be an episode on a matchmake meeting between a friend and 3 Khmer girls. It still work-in-progress so will not be able to report a conclusion before it plays out.

Khun_Thai_Jedi

27-08-2010, 11:58 AM

Bro, do you mind posting a picture of a khmer beauty ? Really like to know how they look like ?

pocketrocket

27-08-2010, 04:39 PM

Mateee...You made me missed Cambodia sooo much and wanna head back again :(

Faidenk

27-08-2010, 06:07 PM

Bro, do you mind posting a picture of a khmer beauty ? Really like to know how they look like ?

I don't have the pics with me now, they're in my external drive in PP. I will post a couple when I get back this Sunday.

They're like Thai, busty, mostly tanned, some surprisingly fair. But like everywhere, there are also porkchops, but we're not talking about them here.

Quite passionate, I had one who called me every day. Because she speaks as much English as I speak Khmer, it was, to say the least, difficult. 21 years old, attractive because of her youth but not really ravishing by any standard, maybe a 5/10, I had to drop her because she says blowjob is 'ek-ek' while shaking her head. If she had said 'ek-ek' and blew me instead, she would still be on my radar.

Reminds me lots of the Thai girls of 20 years ago, not the ones now. Too mercenary.

Faidenk

01-09-2010, 04:40 PM

Guys I know this is a sex forum and I wanted to just describe my experiences from this perspective here, but felt after a while forummers might like a more holistic report, especially those who are, like me, looking for an alternative lifestyle. I not saying Cambodia is IT, I barely have been here a month so it is still WIP. So please bear with all these and I try as much as possible to sneak in some hot stuff.

Living In Cambodia Pt 2

The assessment of my future in Singapore is dismal, depressing even. I embarked in research on countries I could live in. The criteria are simple - low cost of living, friendly people, safety.

I had shortlisted China, Vietnam and Cambodia.

China is no longer cheap, unless you are willing to live in the second or third tier cities. A plus is language but the knack for cutting corners is a serious concern; one doesn’t really knows what one is eating or drinking anymore or if the apartment you live in ends up in a pile of rubble with a Richter 1 earthquake, worse, with you in it. Even fruits and veggies are getting hormones injection to boost growth, and don’t get me started on medicines. They make knock-offs of knock-offs. And they have made an art out of screwing you, the foreigner. Just ask a certain 87 year-old man.

Vietnam? Not knowing anyone there is a big handicap I don’t need, although the girls there a big plus.

Cambodia. A country of 14 million and a landmass 250 times larger than the red dot, has emerged from 3 years of Khmer Rouge rule (1975-1978) in which an estimated 2 to 3 million people were tortured and killed . Today, agriculture remains its most important sector, followed by the garment industry, than construction and tourism. The ‘Thai’ rice you eat today could well have been grown in the padi fields of Cambodia. The garment industry was badly hit by the 2 recent global downturns. Factories closed and hundreds of thousands were retrenched. Many turned to working in beer gardens, bars and massage parlors. But Cambodia is not without merits. Let’s see –

Housing. Although locals tell me prices of properties have spiraled, it is still very affordable to foreigners. A 80 sqm 2-bedroom apartment, like the one I am renting now, can be bought for about USD30K, less outside of the prime areas. I rent mine for USD 250/month. Aircon’d in both rooms, one attached bathroom and another adjoining the kitchen. $5 for cable, all channels. $4 for water, regardless of usage. Electricity is $0.25 per kW. Based on our usage so far, it should hover around $50/month, not too bad considering both aircons run during the nights, although I do not know if it’s necessary during the cool months.

Transport. Within the city, tuk-tuks costs between $1.50 to $3. For the first 2 weeks we the silly foreigners were bargaining it down from $5 to $3. Motordop, from $0.50 to $1.50, and can seat a maximum of 2 passengers, 3 if you throw in a baby. The police constantly shake down motorists for a couple of thousand riels (approx R4000 to a USD) for various offenses. Taxis’ flag down is about R4000 but quickly escalates as the km logged up. At times it can be cheaper than a tuk-tuk for short distances.

Traffic, needless to say, is chaotic at times. During the peak hours, one is inundated by hundreds of motorcycles, weaving in and out, squeezing themselves in precarious situations. The motorcycle gangs in SG will find themselves, maybe not outrun, but definitely out maneuvered.

But in chaos there is order. There is surprisingly very little serious accidents, at least not witnessed by me. The trick to driving here is to be very defensive and giving way is a good place to start. Drivers here (of all vehicles) may inch forward relentlessly but give way if the other party has an advantage, however small.

There is probably the highest concentration of SUVs per capital in Phnom Penh. I would venture 4 in every 10 is a SUV, and of that every 4 is a Lexus. It must be the knee deep floods during the rainy season. I once spent 3 hours waiting out a flash flood in a mediocre restaurant serving $3 buffet but ended up with another $5 on 4 bottles of beer.

Couple of weeks ago, on the way home from an evening of bar hopping, a car glanced the back of our tuk-tuk. Despite the impact the fragile tuk-tuk turned on its side with us inside. We were unhurt but by the time we extricate ourselves from the tuk-tuk the car was long gone. The axle between the carriage and the motorcycle was bent and will need a bit of work. There was nothing we could do for the driver so we gave him a $10 if that’s any consolation.

Drink driving is a problem here, and nobody, least the police, does anything about it. The police are only out in force during the day, shaking drivers down to supplement their meager income. I’ve seen drunks staggering to their cars, hardly able to open the door, acquaintances too.

There are regular buses running to Laos, Vietnam and Thailand, several times a day. Visas are issued at the borders for a fee. Sinkies are exempted. A word of caution, get your travel documents in proper order or it could be a expensive experience, both ways. During my trip back from Pakse to PP, a Nigerian and his Thai girlfriend delayed the bus for 2 hours, finally he was let through with a 4000 bhat ‘fine’. He could have spared the rest of the passengers a 2-hr wait if he had not mouth it out loud. Another Sinkie couple was refuse entry to Cambodia on my recent flight here, another hour delay. Well, you just try to shrug it off.

lurpsexx

02-09-2010, 12:34 AM

I don't have the pics with me now, they're in my external drive in PP. I will post a couple when I get back this Sunday.

They're like Thai, busty, mostly tanned, some surprisingly fair. But like everywhere, there are also porkchops, but we're not talking about them here.

Reminds me lots of the Thai girls of 20 years ago, not the ones now. Too mercenary.

Thanks very much for your travelogue.. its very well written and the English is above average.. hard to see this nowadays from kids... :D

I will lookout for your updates, and may pop by Cambodia if it stirs something in my loins! :D

vpn888

02-09-2010, 01:24 AM

Interesting !

Guys I know this is a sex forum and I wanted to just describe my experiences from this perspective here, but felt after a while forummers might like a more holistic report, especially those who are, like me, looking for an alternative lifestyle. I not saying Cambodia is IT, I barely have been here a month so it is still WIP. So please bear with all these and I try as much as possible to sneak in some hot stuff.

Living In Cambodia Pt 2

The assessment of my future in Singapore is dismal, depressing even. I embarked in research on countries I could live in. The criteria are simple - low cost of living, friendly people, safety.

I had shortlisted China, Vietnam and Cambodia.

China is no longer cheap, unless you are willing to live in the second or third tier cities. A plus is language but the knack for cutting corners is a serious concern; one doesn’t really knows what one is eating or drinking anymore or if the apartment you live in ends up in a pile of rubble with a Richter 1 earthquake, worse, with you in it. Even fruits and veggies are getting hormones injection to boost growth, and don’t get me started on medicines. They make knock-offs of knock-offs. And they have made an art out of screwing you, the foreigner. Just ask a certain 87 year-old man.

Vietnam? Not knowing anyone there is a big handicap I don’t need, although the girls there a big plus.

Cambodia. A country of 14 million and a landmass 250 times larger than the red dot, has emerged from 3 years of Khmer Rouge rule (1975-1978) in which an estimated 2 to 3 million people were tortured and killed . Today, agriculture remains its most important sector, followed by the garment industry, than construction and tourism. The ‘Thai’ rice you eat today could well have been grown in the padi fields of Cambodia. The garment industry was badly hit by the 2 recent global downturns. Factories closed and hundreds of thousands were retrenched. Many turned to working in beer gardens, bars and massage parlors. But Cambodia is not without merits. Let’s see –

Housing. Although locals tell me prices of properties have spiraled, it is still very affordable to foreigners. A 80 sqm 2-bedroom apartment, like the one I am renting now, can be bought for about USD30K, less outside of the prime areas. I rent mine for USD 250/month. Aircon’d in both rooms, one attached bathroom and another adjoining the kitchen. $5 for cable, all channels. $4 for water, regardless of usage. Electricity is $0.25 per kW. Based on our usage so far, it should hover around $50/month, not too bad considering both aircons run during the nights, although I do not know if it’s necessary during the cool months.

Transport. Within the city, tuk-tuks costs between $1.50 to $3. For the first 2 weeks we the silly foreigners were bargaining it down from $5 to $3. Motordop, from $0.50 to $1.50, and can seat a maximum of 2 passengers, 3 if you throw in a baby. The police constantly shake down motorists for a couple of thousand riels (approx R4000 to a USD) for various offenses. Taxis’ flag down is about R4000 but quickly escalates as the km logged up. At times it can be cheaper than a tuk-tuk for short distances.

Traffic, needless to say, is chaotic at times. During the peak hours, one is inundated by hundreds of motorcycles, weaving in and out, squeezing themselves in precarious situations. The motorcycle gangs in SG will find themselves, maybe not outrun, but definitely out maneuvered.

But in chaos there is order. There is surprisingly very little serious accidents, at least not witnessed by me. The trick to driving here is to be very defensive and giving way is a good place to start. Drivers here (of all vehicles) may inch forward relentlessly but give way if the other party has an advantage, however small.

There is probably the highest concentration of SUVs per capital in Phnom Penh. I would venture 4 in every 10 is a SUV, and of that every 4 is a Lexus. It must be the knee deep floods during the rainy season. I once spent 3 hours waiting out a flash flood in a mediocre restaurant serving $3 buffet but ended up with another $5 on 4 bottles of beer.

Couple of weeks ago, on the way home from an evening of bar hopping, a car glanced the back of our tuk-tuk. Despite the impact the fragile tuk-tuk turned on its side with us inside. We were unhurt but by the time we extricate ourselves from the tuk-tuk the car was long gone. The axle between the carriage and the motorcycle was bent and will need a bit of work. There was nothing we could do for the driver so we gave him a $10 if that’s any consolation.

Drink driving is a problem here, and nobody, least the police, does anything about it. The police are only out in force during the day, shaking drivers down to supplement their meager income. I’ve seen drunks staggering to their cars, hardly able to open the door, acquaintances too.

There are regular buses running to Laos, Vietnam and Thailand, several times a day. Visas are issued at the borders for a fee. Sinkies are exempted. A word of caution, get your travel documents in proper order or it could be a expensive experience, both ways. During my trip back from Pakse to PP, a Nigerian and his Thai girlfriend delayed the bus for 2 hours, finally he was let through with a 4000 bhat ‘fine’. He could have spared the rest of the passengers a 2-hr wait if he had not mouth it out loud. Another Sinkie couple was refuse entry to Cambodia on my recent flight here, another hour delay. Well, you just try to shrug it off.

Faidenk

02-09-2010, 06:22 PM

Thanks very much for your travelogue.. its very well written and the English is above average.. hard to see this nowadays from kids... :D

Kids? Hello, surely you r not referring to me, are you? Uncle here probably much older than you. But thank you

Khun_Thai_Jedi

02-09-2010, 06:31 PM

where is my long overdue pictures of cambodian gals ? :mad:

Faidenk

02-09-2010, 07:03 PM

where is my long overdue pictures of cambodian gals ? :mad:

Sorry, don't even have time to shit. Just bought over a biz and spent more than 12 hrs a day trouble-shooting. Will try to do it asap.

Khun_Thai_Jedi

02-09-2010, 07:15 PM

Sorry, don't even have time to shit. Just bought over a biz and spent more than 12 hrs a day trouble-shooting. Will try to do it asap.

Will forgive you as you need time to settle down :cool:

at least now I know who to look up if I wana try PP :D

lurpsexx

03-09-2010, 12:04 AM

Kids? Hello, surely you r not referring to me, are you? Uncle here probably much older than you. But thank you

Of course not referring to u la.. I meant those holiday school kiddies writing FRs in this forum... they where got Good Old School English Style like you, my dear Uncle.. :D.. and i meant this as a compliment too! :D

game10199

03-09-2010, 01:15 AM

Kids? Hello, surely you r not referring to me, are you? Uncle here probably much older than you. But thank you

Yo bro Faidenk,

I love to read your Khmer Diary. Written in a very "local" perspective. My first view to PP was about 15 years back - when they didn't even have taxis nor SUVs on the road. Our local partner always had to pick us u from the airport. Viet girls were difficult to find then unless we went closer to the border. Since, then I have been going back once every 2 years - for work. My last visit was a few months back.

Keep up the good work!

game10199

cooler07

03-09-2010, 03:31 AM

nice experience... i enjoyed reading it... :D
i wander if there is any low cost countries where i can retire gracefully when i am about your age... :(

boysaigon

03-09-2010, 02:24 PM

Thanks for the informative writings.

I just went back to PP after a long long break...when i was there moons back, there were UN peace keepers on the road still. Do the maths...

PP is a complete make-over. I cant recognise a sinlge road/street/building, not even the road in front of the house that I stayed for months. The monument is still there, proudly still.

Let's see if we can meet up for an angkor, Mr. Faidenk!:p

Cheers!

Bright

03-09-2010, 03:04 PM

Dear faidenk,

first of all, thank you for your hospitality last night. i did not know prior that you own a chinese restaurant along kampuche krom area. Not easy, i reckon to start a business in PP. the food is yummy, and i like your authentic singapore bak kut teh very much. Next time round, I will bring my puyings to patronize your shop.

last night was an eye opener. I went with faidenk and another of his sing brudder, bro vin to maybe close to 9 pubs to chiong nice puyings and 'peodophiles' We stopped by the famous angmoh martinis pub.. bro fai said owned by a barang.. business was good.. girls plenty. we had the famous angkor draught and three of us were eye-swooning around, readyily for our catch. but brudder vin said to move on.

we took the tuk2 to street 136, as mentioned by bro fai in his earlier post. This was fun.. all the pubs were lit up with an endless stream of smiling predators. here, we are the preys, and the girls are predators. we entered one such bar sizzler, owned by a local. girls are ard 7.0, not bad looking. Bro Vin gotten himself a 20yo chio-bu... too young for him, i guess. i nudged at bro vin to check on. she looks more like 16 yo, but claim she is 20.. we tot we r peodophile (laughingly) suddenly, we realise and laughed heartily. Bro Fai has his regular chio-bu, i guess the prettiest amongst us all.. mine was a 22 yo long-legged stunner with 33c cup, so she said. We drank and drank, with bro vin occasionally practicing his dry-out and suttured khmer words with the chiobu. bro vin could hold a khmer conversation, punctuated by oh..hw... he is so interesting.

The nite was young.. we chiong more pub along the famous bar street. next stop was bar 69, the girls are friendly and bro fai has his steady supply of chiobu waiting for him at every pub entrance. that was so exciting.. and with each pub crawl, we got a different flavour of girls. the most happening i guess was at bar 69.. here, me and bro vin tried to court a very chio bartender.. we got her ladies drink and had a great time with her.. bro, planning to come visit, plse get bro fai to bring you to this bar.. the girls are all very chio.. esp.. the two bartenders.. and they could drink very well. ask bro vin, we got her down 3 glasses and she took them in one stride. bro fai has a pretty chiobu, skinny but with voluptuous boobs. both me and bro vin try to 'xuan' her so we could grope her nice boobs. i tried once with bro vin holding on to her two hands upwards. soft and bouncy... i would say the girls are really the 'can play type' you want fun, they give you fun.. you want to drink, they drink with you.. where can you find a drink at US$1 per glass. lady drink also cheap. the 69bar has a very relax atmosphere. we saw many barangs around, some with 4-5girls each..

next, we scout more pubs with our half drunk and half high body.. chioning bars after bar.. i guess bro vin and I each drown close to 12 glasses last nite.
i will post more during our last pub crawl.. the famous darling darling with bro vin.

2 nite, at bro fai invitation, we will be heading to his local restaurant for a mouth-watering beef stew soup. thereafter, we plan to chiong more discos tonite.

bro fai, thanks for your generous time and warmth.

rockybalboa

03-09-2010, 05:52 PM

Bright

04-09-2010, 05:09 PM

last nite, another samster bro, mr sam, who has been in khmer for 18 years, brought us to several local joints or we called them beer gardens. most are open size, large size and cater mainly to local or if you can speak a little of their language. we had 5 towers of angkor beer, with ladies company and were jolting and groping several half drunk ladies. their local garden ladies maybe 5.0 looks, not comparable to those from bar street (136) those working at 136 are stunners, according to bro fai, they draw a better incentive and pay. we had many rounds of drinks, with the girls 'pounding' for lesser and lessser drinks. Sam and I just drink, with each of us drinking incessantly with the girls. bro fai and bro vin were sported with their 'naughty hands manoeuvring', occasionally drowning full glass of angkor and laughing heartily, to signal that this is part and parcel of life in khmer. the mamasan of this joint was supposed to be here to wait on us, but Sam said she got 'tapao'. bro fai and I wanted to meet her cos she has such a 'chio' figure after bro fai spotted her and sam taking lunch at his restaurant. fair skin, nice boobs and pleasant demeanour, wat's more can we ask..

tonite, we may head back to street 136 and which i would happily enjoyed before i bid them farewell, come tomorrow.

Bright

04-09-2010, 05:17 PM

Wow this was a most interesting read. I was in PP way back in 2006, and i lived there 6 months (3+3) but I was mostly at the roulette joints. I did have a chick with me (but same one always) but I noticed they were mostly Vietish? (fair)

rocky,

i guess pp has changed with every passing years. now, the ladies are pretty good with their snookers.. will catch up with you when u are down in PP

cheers

Faidenk

04-09-2010, 05:32 PM

Will forgive you as you need time to settle down :cool:

at least now I know who to look up if I wana try PP :D

And who says SB forummers are a bunch of unforgiving whiners and flamers. Not in this thread, certainly.

Wow this was a most interesting read. I was in PP way back in 2006, and i lived there 6 months (3+3) but I was mostly at the roulette joints. I did have a chick with me (but same one always) but I noticed they were mostly Vietish? (fair)

Actually there are more ethnic Vietnamese in Cambodia than I thought. They're born here, citizenship was granted to them not too long ago. It's just like the etnnic Malays in the south of Thailand.

Vietnam invaded Cambodia in 78. One would have thought they would be uneasy neighbours now, but the fact is, the Khmers are grateful for that. They drove out the Khmer Rouge and they withdrew voluntarily when the People's Republic of Kampuchea was created (royalty was brought back later).

It's a complicated situation but large tracts of land were seceded to both Thailand and Vietnam in the past and today, Cambodia retains only a fraction of its sea front.

first of all, thank you for your hospitality last night. i did not know prior that you own a chinese restaurant along kampuche krom area. Not easy, i reckon to start a business in PP. the food is yummy, and i like your authentic singapore bak kut teh very much. Next time round, I will bring my puyings to patronize your shop.

Bro Bright, you are too kind. It was nothing really and I only wish I could keep up with you youngsters. The biz is really draining me of my juices.

Let's see if we can meet up for an angkor, Mr. Faidenk!

Bro BSaigon. Anytime you're in town.

Bright

04-09-2010, 05:37 PM

Darling darling Lounge

I went with bro vin the other nite, after bro fai gesture us to move on as he needed sleep.

the lounge was next to the nagaworld hotel, very posh, i guess frequented by the local rich and famous as well as hordes of looksee foreigners. we sat down with two smiling waitresses serving us angkor tall glass. if to say the standard of the girls, esp the waitresses, i would say that the waitresses can easily beat all girls at bar street 136. here, the atmosphere is complete different. if u been to st james or the devils bar or something of that origin, u know the different. coming back, bro vin was eyeing a particular waitress, not dancing girls. i think the lounge offers eye-catching, mouth-watering stable of stuuning looking waitresses. we could see that most of the clubbers are there to oggle at the beautiful waitresses, nice boos, long legged, and smiles that will certainly drive you crazy. me and bro vin planned again, now we need to hook up any waitress and bring her to the Rock disco after they knock off. scouting around, bro vin signalled me to move up and attack the target. her name was pann, 22 years old. i ask bro vin to drown his glass so she could at least drop by our table to offer more drink. indeed, she came, knelt down to our low table, with her boobs as if to signal to us that she is ready to be-friend us after work. we ordered another angko and off she went. other waitresses walked pass us, with two other stunners ( ard 8.5 looks) highlighted hair and body figure that are just stunning. both standing behind us and often smile when bro vin turn around to check them. that nite at darling was fun-filled, the singers belted out the 90s music and the dance floor was jam-packed with the rich local. at last, we got hold of Pann, in her usual smile and stunning beauty.. she exclaim " you cannot touch me.. this is lounge policy" i turned to bro vin and we knew that that has to be the lounge policy.. cos drunkards are easily chased-out of the lounge. they employed several bouncers to prowl on. cool, we pop the question of asking her to join us at rock disco.. she agreed and asked us to wait for her after 1am.. she will bring another stunner waitress to complete the chain, with bro vin and me.

indeed, the whole experience was awesome.. i have never come across levels of girls offered like those in PP> from beer garden quality to bar quality to top lounge quality. we are like transforming a 5.0 look to maybe 7.0 and the 8.5 above look. i guess such is the environment that we are not accustomed to in singapore. here, you determine the environment you want to be in, you decide the kinds of girls you choose to be with, and you decide the kinds of "fruit platters" you want for the night.

cheers to PP

Faidenk

04-09-2010, 06:06 PM

Living In Cambodia Pt 3

Learning Khmer. One of our priorities was to speak and more importantly, understand the Cambodian language. The real estate agent who secured the apartment at a bargain price, he introduced a tutor to us.

So now we have this young man coming in to our apartment everyday at 11 in the morning, an hour a day, $70 a month. Treat us like a couple of kindergarten kids, we told him, start with numbers, colors, and nouns only. As we progress we’ll try to make sentences. Easy right? Wrong. He speaks some form of English quite alienated from us, and it’s not as though we speak the Queen’s English ourselves. Even when we make a mistake, he’ll say Yes, to everything. Later we were to learn their Yes is akin to the Japanese’ ‘Aso’. He pronounced ten as ‘tern’, windows as ‘wine-dows’. But we shall persevere.

Exercise. A 10-minute walk from our apartment is a gym frequented 100% by locals, and we had to spoil their fun. Like Thailand, a sign says foreigners R2000. On the same sign, there was a R1000 in Khmer, presumably it says R1000 for Cambodians.

A 15 minute spot on the treadmill costs another R1000, and another R2000 if you want lift the weights. I get tired just looking at these. All in, the treadmill, and another 15 minutes on the thingy with the vibrating belt and the rest of the time doing situps, backups, and other torture devices costs me more than R4000, about a dollar US.

My favorite exercise help too, I now boast a vein-bulging Popeye right hand lifting all those liquid based weights.

Meals. I think I have already mentioned somewhere the Khmer palate is very inclined towards sweet. Sugar is added in almost all dishes. In the first 3 weeks here, staying at a hotel, we had to dine out. During this period I do declare my consumption of MSG has exceeded what I consume in a year. Khmers load their food with generous amount of MSG in the cooking pot, and for a good measure, another teaspoonful in the serving bowl. Talking about this makes me thirsty.

But Khmer food’s cheap, considering the average wage is $50 a month. You see the poor hawker selling the ever popular $1-noodle soup, well, they are not poor. My landlord owns 2 apartment blocks selling this no-frills meal in a dingy shop from 6 in the morning and until lunch. Of course this dish lies somewhere at the bottom of the food spectrum. Some of their snacks include deep-fried crickets, which taste a little like crispy shrimps; some kind of beetle, which taste like crickets but with a weird aftertaste, not to mention the wings need to be plucked off first. I heard fried tarantulas are delicious, but putting arachnids down my throat brings up the butterflies in my stomach. Then of course there are the perennial duck embryos – half formed with yolk as body. Served with a pinch of salt and pepper it supposed to give you a boost not unlike Viagra.
Other roadside food includes BBQ calf on spit, costs $5 a serving, it is accompanied by a sauce made from fermented fish sauce with peanuts and some herbs unrecognized to me. BBQ chickens are not too bad. A popular coffeshop at Mao Tze Tung Boulevard attracts night birds with their Teochew muay.

I ought to mention again the Happy Herb Pizza. The Happy Herb is added as an optional topping. A quirky loophole allows marijuana to be consumed as a herb legally but not smoked.

or Western cuisines, there are more than I could name although Brauhaus is here, complete with sausages and pork knuckles. I believe they are connected remotely to the Brauhaus at United Square.

There are maybe 6 or 7 restaurants specializing in Singapore/Malaysian cuisines. Jade Palace, Singapore Kitchen, Asian Spice, Klang Boy, DP Lodge, Absolute Café, the one at Holiday. There should be more but I haven’t been there yet.

Before I forget, this is probably the funniest incident I witnessed so far. At a junction, a truck, overladen 2 times over, turned from Mao Tze Tung Boulevard to Kampuchea Krom, the driver slowed down to routinely hand some Riels to a waiting policeman who pocketed it and walked back to his motorcycle to stash the loot, parked right in front of a big white letter box that announce in bold black ‘P.O. Box for Complaints Against Corruption’.

I was told Traffic cops have to pay about $12 to draw a motorcycle from their MT line for their duties, and that petrol comes out from their own pockets. Needless to say, a police car costs more. To optimize their daily take some resort to using their personal motorbikes. Now we know why the gallant men in blue are so relentless in shaking down motorists. It would be prudent to assume promotions are bought.

Faidenk

04-09-2010, 06:13 PM

Darling darling Lounge

I went with bro vin the other nite, after bro fai gesture us to move on as he needed sleep.

Looks like you're having lots of fun without me. Way to go.

LaoHuangGua

05-09-2010, 01:05 PM

Awkohn, Bro Faidenk, for sharing the latest happenings in your life. I’ve read your past postings on China, and I can only say I wish I can write as well as you. I just love your latest Khmer thread and sharing your insightful thoughts on your move to Cambodia. I was in very similar state as you more than a decade ago when I moved to southern China, the land of many mei-meis since I was on my own and at an age deemed not so employable - but luckily no kid. I then saw the vast and furious change in China, but the greed I see in this go-get-rich-at-any-cost and increasingly selfish society, as well as the increasing cost of living is making me to think about where I should go from here. I have been considering Thailand and Vietnam where I have positive experience from my short term stays in the past, but I’ve never been to Cambodia. In fact, I’ve never thought about it as a possible option, but your postings have prompted me to plan on getting my ass there to check it out. Thanks again for the sharing and please keep posting; you have one avid follower and reader here!:)

Faidenk

05-09-2010, 03:43 PM

Faidenk

05-09-2010, 03:52 PM

Living In Cambodia Pt 4

Sex Enhancing Drugs. At the Cambodian 404 forum, someone wrote in to ask if Viagra and the likes are available in Phnom Penh. An old-timer advised that such prescription drugs are as difficult to buy as aspirin. You go figure,

So far I’ve walked into 2 pharmacies in Phnom Penh, one a pharmacy chain store and the other family run. In the chain store, the lady pharmacist (late 20s) was in a white medical-type gown and a male assistant (MA). I asked the MA if Viagra is available, he said yes and took a box out. $33 Sir. I saw, Kamagra on the shelf and asked to see that as well. This is $1.80 Sir. This is sweet. A couple of words from lady pharmacist and MA corrected himself, it is $1.80 per pill. OK give me 4. I am pleased to report all 4 worked as advertised. Oh the ladies said thank you too.

Walking to the shop one morning, I passed a family-run pharmacy, it was manned by just a guy, also in a white round-neck T. Chinese shops look the same everywhere, in LA, Amsterdam, Malaysia… Seeing he was alone I went up and asked if he has Kamagra. He turned and talked to his mother who was fanning herself in a safari bed behind the counter. Mother said something and he took a box out from the counter, also with a box of Synacis, a generic Cialis also made in India. I took both, the K for $3 for 4 and the Synacis for $5 for 4. Some ladies are going to be very grateful.

Last night we were with Bro Bright on yet another tour of duty around the bars of PP. We started with Sharky. A couple of beers and the girls seemed fuglier. There was this bag of bones with wild eyes and bad teeth, looks like a meth-head, sitting a table away, oh man, she actually smiled at me. Time to go.

I’ve come to notice a pattern. You guys know places like Nana in Bangkok are farang haunts. Although farang means foreigners it usually refers to the Westerners. Not many Asians venture in. An occasional few might but usually don’t stay for long, not because they’re made to feel unwelcome but Asians’ perspective of beauty are, well, ‘a little different’.

Here in PP, however, little of such prejudice exists. In the bars of St 136 and 104, there’s always a nice mix of barangs and Asians – Koreans, Malaysians, Taiwanese. The girls chase the green, not the white or black or yellow.

We started with Angkor beer then graduated to Jagermeister, of which we polished off a bottle and a half, at $3 a pop. That was all they had, so a bottle of Tequila was brought out. Man, Bright could really put it away, VC too, the girls were doing a good job helping us chalk up the bill. Me? I’m a very conservative drinker, hate the hangover the morning after, is why.

I caught the virgin bartender padding the bill. I let her know I know but left it at that. The others were too sloshed by then to notice. I quite like the virgin and it’s really too bad she did that.

At half past midnight, I was ready to go, and we did. Send Bright back to Naga where I expect to drop him off. Things never go as planned and it didn’t. He insisted having us at Darlin’ Darlin’. Posh décor and furnishings, a better than competent Pinoy showband, and tall slim Khmer service staff. I mean I have not seen such a gathering of Khmer beauty in one place, makes me feel so inadequate. I really wished I was taller, slimmer, handsomer and richer. The clientele was a mix of both foreigners and the local rich.

There is a hands–off policy where the service staffs are concerned. Bouncers are always at hand to ‘escort’ drunks who, uninhibited by alcohol, force their charm upon them.

Although shootings are rare now, to buck the trend you don’t want. Bodyguards of the local filthy rich and influential do carry; step on the wrong foot and you might be on the receiving end, and they will get away with it.

Another couple of beers here and it is really time for me to pack it in. It’s been a long week for me and it’s another day at the office for me tomorrow, Sunday.

jack_daniels

07-09-2010, 10:41 PM

it really is a good read the Khmer Diary. I'm actually considering about visiting Phnom Penh or Siem Reap for the first time. I want to cheong around South East Asia hehehe.

I believe you speak Khmer which is probably why you had so much fun there. As I don't speak Khmer, do you think it will be difficult for me to get some actions (be it paid sex or pick-ups)?

Read about the stunning waitresses, but if I were to pay them for sex, how much would that cost? Finally, any idea if Siem Reap would have a livelier more happening nightlife than PP?

Thanks

Faidenk

08-09-2010, 04:59 PM

Faidenk

08-09-2010, 05:04 PM

In summary, how much do I need to live here?

1. Housing - $250 rent, $10 for cable and water, $60 for electricity. $320 for 2 of us, that makes it $160/month for me.

2. Drinks – if we just go to the pubs along the riverside, it won’t cost us more than $15 inclusive of tips with tuk-tuk there and back. If we go there during Happy Hours, it should be enough to see us stagger home. 3 times a week - $180/month. There are of course other diversions, some cheaper but I won’t dwell on that. I draw a line at those $5 blowjobs in a dark lane.

The local beer gardens (BG) often yield some surprisingly good catches. The only downside is language. More often than not you find yourselves sticking out like a sore thumb, but VC and I have tried it, both by ourselves and with Singaporean BG connoisseurs. Here’s how it roughly works – there are the beer promoters (BP). BPs push the beers they work for. At $3 a 640ml bottle, it’s not exactly cheap. So you pick the beer based on the BPs’ appeal rather than the product they push. They are usually available for takeaway and subject to price negotiation. No tips necessary as they make a dollar off every bottle you drink.

Then, there are the PROs who also sing on stage, (note I don’t refer to them as singers who also sit with customers) also available and subject to nego. If, at the end of the evening, a $2 or $3 tips will suffice if no deal is done.

A word of caution, these girls drink, and how. I rate myself a moderate drinker but here I’m a babe sucking milk.

$40 seems to be the rate for takeaway, but charm can probably save you $10. It was $20~$30 a year ago. Inflation has indeed taken its toll.

Further upmarket, you have the KTVs. Vietnamese, PRC beauties, and prices start at $60 to $100. Bro Bright was propositioned for $150 from a Naga World stunner, but this is another rung up the ladder. I believe he turned it down.

These are by no means the only source for female companionship. Some knowledge of the Khmer helps no end - markers at snooker clubs, girls at shopping centers, for example. Everyone has a price and at the end of the day, a month’s wages for a night is mighty tempting.

At home, I stock up the fridge with Angkor cans @ $12 a carton, Korean shoju at $1.80 a 330ml bottle. Sometimes a bottle of Scottish King at $9.60 a 750ml bottle, it’s not Royal Salute but I don’t get a hangover in the morning.

Other poisons include a bag of Cambodia herb at $10 available along the Riverside if you’re so inclined. I won’t recommend touching any harder stuff.

3. The ladies – maybe once a week @ $40 a pop. $160/month, more if you’re a young stud. I am at this junction not factoring in any live-in or semi-permanent arrangements, they usually do cost more.

4. Food – a combination of doing your own marketing and cooking and dining out, $100/month. Note we are not talking about Cordon Bleu or Michelin star restaurants here, an occasional $3 chicken rice, pizza, stuff like that. Me? I cook my own good stuff.

5. Ciggies – Marlboro Lights, Davidoff - $9.50 for a carton. Winston - $4.90. Local brands even cheaper. So choose your poison.

6. Connectivity – At the moment I go to any of the cafes with free Wifi to go online, spending a dollar on a glass of iced coffee. However, $30 a month should see you with a 128Kb connection. This is about the only thing that costs more and delivers less than in SG. So please be understanding if I may seem a mite slow in replying until they install wifi at my place.

7. At the Central Market or Phsa Thmey, there are pretty good quality knockoffs of Burburry, Nike, Tommy Hilfiger etc for $4 to $5.

So it is about a total of $650 a month. In reality I spent less. I don’t screw around that much anymore after the initial period of euphoria. Don’t drink that much either although it doesn’t mean I go to the bars any less. Just drinking less.

Others may dispute this and of course they have valid reasons to. I can easily double this amount and still come up short if I were to frequent the more expensive places of entertainment, or like to contribute to the well-being of Naga World casino, or succumb more to the charms of those nubile and charming creatures.

That said, the mileage I am getting out of this amount of money is a whole lot more than I ever could in SG. In fact, with this amount in SG, I would probably have to ask our dear Leader for handouts from the 2% GST kitty he promised to help poor miserable fucks like me.

Also I did not factor in the cost of airfares returning to SG. Depending on the season, it can range from $120 to $250 return, including taxes, on Jetstar. Medical costs are high here, so it pays to keep fit. My preventive measure? A dollar each time I go to a local gym.

So, have I left anything out? Let’s see - a roof over the head, food and sex, and a little extra thrown in – drinks, ciggies and the internet. Nah, I don’t so.

Those who can’t live without the occasional grilled lobster, mignon fillet, abalone, a couple of slices of toro, a after-dinner Habana cigar and a swirl of a Grand Cru on the tongue, you’re reading the wrong thread. Swiss standard of living this is not.

Faidenk

08-09-2010, 06:11 PM

Just few quick pics. The first few is of a lady the first time I went to Sissler. A dead ringer for Zoe Tay, but she isn't working there anymore. Damned! Would love to have a pic of her with me in bed. Tell me if my eyes' skewed. The bad lighting caused the graininess but I'm not apologizing for that, only for not having a steamy FR.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/LinaSisslers02.jpg

Faidenk

08-09-2010, 06:21 PM

Most of these are from previous trips.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/PP05.jpg
A local beer garden. Pretty but a pity she seems preoccupied by several calls on her mobile, so I took the girl who was accompanying the driver. Not as purty but good in bed, that'll the girl sitting to her left. More of her later.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/PP04.jpg

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/PP03.jpg
This girl is a real wildcat. Met her at a beer garden in the outskirts of PP. We did some silly magic tricks and was made to drink, too much. Took her back to PP with us. She threw up several times in another KTV we went to, came out, drank some more, threw up again. A little tanned, but nice lithe body and game for anything. Pity I couldn't reach her at her mobile anymore.

hotdick69

08-09-2010, 06:25 PM

1 of the best and very well written travelogue i have read online...... makes me feel like reading a novel.... its direct and to the point.... shows how a typical man lives in a foreign land to make himself feel at home...... Kudos to TS..... i have full respect for u......

I myself will be heading to Angkor Wat next week..... but wont be able to get any gals as the Mrs is following..... maybe its time for me and my frds to get our butts out of chang ping in china.... and venture here :rolleyes:

Faidenk

08-09-2010, 06:27 PM

A very, very charming girl I met in a Pakse KTV in Laos. Very sweet and compliant, was really tempted to tell my friend to continue the journey to Vientiane himself while I stay behind. But that would make Faidenk a SOB and I ain't one.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/L02.jpg

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/L01.jpg

This one is another Laos sweetie. Man, let me tell you guys, Laos has the most beautiful girls. Very gentle, soft-spoken. It's really a pity I'm not 'settled' there.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/L05.jpg

Okay. That's enough for the day. The staff at this place are making excuses to stand behind me while I load these pics up to Photobucket and linking them here. Hope they whets the appetite for the moment. I should have my wireless up in a day or 2.

Faidenk

08-09-2010, 06:54 PM

Faidenk

09-09-2010, 03:30 PM

Padding The Bill

I mentioned in a previous post I caught a bar employee padding the bill when she thought we were too sloshed to notice, and she’s right too, us having countless mugs of draught, and having polished off a second bottle of, in my uneducated opinion, an awfully sweet Jagermeister, and attempting to do the same with a bottle of Tequila . If she had been a little more attentive she would have noticed I didn’t drink much.

Had she slipped the extra tab in with the regular orders, I probably wouldn’t have noticed it. But she did it in between orders. When I questioned her about it, there was an air of guilt about her and she squirmed uncomfortably. I told her not to do that again and let it passed.

I am sure it was done with the collusion of the management. The average customer here spends maybe like $20, and our final tab came up to $140, so you see the disparity. Were I the pub owner, I’d load the free spending customers with freebies to ensure their continued patronage.

But we had set ourselves up to be taken. We could have been more careful. Although not too expensive, it’s nevertheless a lesson learnt.

Faidenk

09-09-2010, 03:56 PM

This is the one I took after I rejected the girl sitting with me due to her numerous calls on her mobile. Not that I want her undivided attention, you understand, but..... damned, I want her undivided attention.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/PP08.jpg

One more of her.
http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/PP07.jpg

I was strongly recommended to this one on the premise she is a 'fuck machine', but I wasn't really into her but hate to disappoint the guy who seemed so anxious for me to try her. Truth be told, I didn't really enjoy the encounter that much and up to day I still think about what would have been.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/L03.jpg

This young lady was fun but was unavailable that day. The next time I went there, she was no longer working. Pity.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/PP01.jpg

Faidenk

09-09-2010, 03:59 PM

One more of the young lady.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/PP02.jpg

I still can't get this one out of my head.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/L04.jpg

yanz

09-09-2010, 04:19 PM

Really excellent write up and beautiful pics to go along.
Makes reading your diary an absolute joy. :)

Pink_Flyod

09-09-2010, 06:00 PM

Faidenk, you make me to rethink my itinerary for next month...:o is 48 hours on the ground good enough ? The laotian lady was a stunner... Hmmm next month, I think I should visit my client in PP.:D

lechlee

10-09-2010, 12:29 PM

Hey, nice itinerary!~ i am planning to go to Cambodia end of year- are all your cost stated in your report in US dollar or Sing dollar? Why do you rent the apartment for a year?? Thanks!

Faidenk

10-09-2010, 12:46 PM

Faidenk, you make me to rethink my itinerary for next month...:o is 48 hours on the ground good enough ? The laotian lady was a stunner... Hmmm next month, I think I should visit my client in PP.:D

In my opinion. the Laotian girls beats all the others hands down. The are beautiful, gentle and reminds me of the Thai of maybe 20 years back. Unfortunately the Thais have 'progressed' to greedy money grabbing mercenaries who schemed to get out of the LT contracted with 'brother accident', 'sister sick' stories. Looking at her pic again is making my right nut hard.

48 hours is good, in fact any longer and it might get a little boring. I mean how many times can a person screw before it gets saturated. Oops! I forget I was screwing something like 4 times a day for 2 weeks continuously (in my 20s).

The Cambodian girls, well, they are still fairly unspoilt but don't bet on them staying that way for too long.

Just want to clarify that I met the Laos stunner in Pakse, about 50km into Laos from te Cambodian border.

Faidenk

10-09-2010, 12:57 PM

Hey, nice itinerary!~ i am planning to go to Cambodia end of year- are all your cost stated in your report in US dollar or Sing dollar? Why do you rent the apartment for a year?? Thanks!

Yes, all prices are in USD. The USD is the de facto currency here. You used it to pay the tuk-tuk, motodop, taxis, it's accepted at the local wet markets, beer gardens, KTV. It is getting so I carry only USD in my procket with a handful of riels for the small stuff.

Renting an apartment makes sense for me as I live here now. The cheapest liveable hotel I can find costs $12 a room night, which adds up to $360 a month. The apartment costs me $160 with everything, privacy, security and no unwanted visits form would=be stalker girlfriends who find cutting off your left nut justified punishment for your infidelity.

woot

10-09-2010, 01:50 PM

woot

10-09-2010, 01:53 PM

ok and to reaffirm the laotian girl is hot, the other powered up girls are not very hot though, they seem to be carrying an inordinate amount of makeup on their faces. Guess their facial muscles get a good workout from all that weight.

Bro woot prefers al naturale

Faidenk

10-09-2010, 02:17 PM

Dear Faidenk,

I find it hard to believe that you are not highly educated =). I have a masters degree but I would struggle to write in such eloquent tones. For this, I have the utmost respect for you.

Thank you for your insight into Cambodia. Seems the girls are not terribly cheap there given that its $40 USD a pop. Is this normal or farang pricing structure?

Hope to hear from you & love the pictures

Cheers,

Bro Woot

Low education does not mean mentally impaired, I know you don't mean to say it disparagingly and no offense is taken. I study at the University of Hard Knocks and Life and reckon I'll obtain my Masters when I kick the bucket.

If you want to know, I read like 2 books a week in my younger days, magazines in between. There are lots of uneducated men who grew up to be some of Singapore's richest men. But you're right, they are exceptions rather than the norm.

And you are right too, that $40 seems a little pricy. It is. A year ago, it was only $20. That's progress for you. A lot of people are getting very wealthy in Cambodia, the number of Lexus' on the roads is a good indication. Girls further up the market are commanding $100~$150 a night.

lechlee

10-09-2010, 02:26 PM

Pink_Flyod

10-09-2010, 02:52 PM

Bro Faidenk, If I were I go to Laos, which city it would be ? I go there to cheong...

Faidenk

10-09-2010, 04:21 PM

Thanks Faidenk for your reply.. I really appreciate your prompt answers!
ICIC..
I am planning for a 2 weeks trip in Cambodia. Just purely to look at all the places of attraction. I don't think i will visit any pubs/clubs this time unlike what i did in Bangkok. IS 2-weeks more than enough if i want to visit Siem Reap, Phnom Penh and Battambang? Do you feel that it is applicable for me to include Laos during the 2 weeks, or should i add on another week for LAos?
I do not intend to chiong girls this time as it will be purely sightseeing..
What can i do after night falls if i don't want to go bring girls back to hotel.. HAHA

By the way, according to your local knowledge, will travelling to Siem Reap from Phnom Penh and then to Laos and back to Siem Reap cost alot? and how about the travel within each city?

Thanks.. Please include more information if you want.. Thanks!!

2 weeks should be adequate. To some 2 days is enough for Angkor Wat, to others 2 weeks isn't. Angkor is huge so it depends what kind of aficionado are you. To tell you the truth I am a very bad tourist, 3 years in Sydney and I didn't even go up the Centrepoint, 2 in Beijing and didn't step in to the Forbidden City. Unforgivable.

Most everywhere you go it's temples, temples and more temples. So unless you're a temple freak, you should factor in some time with some feminine attractions. In PP at least you have the casino but out in SR and esp Batambang, your best companion would be HBO. Don't even expect any English language TV stations in Laos though.

It might be a bit tight to include Vientiane but if you're flying.... I was ferried around Laos and most of the time I don't know where I was. It took 2 days with a stopover at Pakse to get from PP to Vientiane. Probably takes longer to go by bus. Really sorry I couldn't be of much help.

Faidenk

10-09-2010, 04:55 PM

Bro Faidenk, If I were I go to Laos, which city it would be ? I go there to cheong...

I suppose you wouldn't want to miss Vientiane and be warned, Laos, although the girls are beautiful, is not really a cheongster heaven. The people speak Laos which is Issan, what is spoken by the Eastern part of Thailand. But by the close proximity, both Thai and the Thai baht is spoken here. Not much English.

The Mekong serves a a boundary between Laos and Thailand. The closest Thai town to Vientiane is a town called Si Chiang Mai. I believe they have duty free shopping there.

The weather in a month or so should be lovely, akin to spring. 20s in the day and dropping maybe to 16 at night. Great if you golf.

There are lots of sites you could search for info on the nightlife. A pretty good source is ISG. http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/forums.php
Also http://www.travelfish.org/country/laos

Sorry I can't help more. Good luck.

woot

10-09-2010, 07:35 PM

Faidenk

11-09-2010, 09:53 AM

Wow $150 U.S.D a night is definitely not cheap!

By the way $40 U.S.D refers to a night or an hour?

Considering the average wage is $50 a month thats like suggesting a singaporean samster pay $2500 (median average salary) per bonk, how do the locals afford a bonk?

Price seems disproportionate to monthly earnings. Something is basically economically wrong here. :p

There is a wide divide between the haves and the have nots. For the have nots it is pretty much hand to mouth, for the haves, they enjoy a lifestyle us Sinkies could not imagine.

Faidenk

11-09-2010, 11:38 AM

Wow $150 U.S.D a night is definitely not cheap!

By the way $40 U.S.D refers to a night or an hour?

The USD40 is for LT. ST can also be arranged for USD20, however, the girls still go off after work. Bar owners are in a limbo over bar fines now. Collect it and face the risk of being charged so instead customers buy maybe like 3 ladies' drinks in lieu.

hendri2

11-09-2010, 11:44 AM

fully agree with our bro here...in the 3rd world country, esp SE asia, the rich really enjoy themselves....any types of chicks they fancy, they just have it without any fear and troubles....here in red dot, ah pek can`t even look at the cute cute ones too long..they just call 999...ah pek runs no roads..haha!!!
wish our uncle ..ah pek bros enjoy their life in cambodia...!!!! ah pek was there donkey years ago...US$15 a night..cute..cute ones...those were the days...haha!!!

woot

12-09-2010, 11:56 AM

Sorry, what is the definition of ST = ? Short time = how long exactly and what is on the menu? What can be done? CIM? =)

Faidenk

12-09-2010, 12:05 PM

Sorry, what is the definition of ST = ? Short time = how long exactly and what is on the menu? What can be done? CIM? =)

Last night I had the fortune of partaking in the delights of a nice Khmer nymph. She's 20, slim, leggy and possesses a pair which is, in my opinion, slightly disproportionate big, not that I am complaining.

Bear with me. It comes served with pics.

Pink_Flyod

12-09-2010, 05:46 PM

Thanks Bro Faidenk for the info... I guess I will do more research when the date is near and in the meantime, I put up a camp here for more blogs...

Faidenk

12-09-2010, 07:05 PM

Finally, A Good BJ Part 1

Last Thursday night, after a couple of drinks at the Black Cat where I kissed the right bare tit of a bosomy BG having won a best of 3 pool game, we popped in at the Shanghai just across the lane. EL called from the airport, he’d just checked out of the airport and made his way to join us. A beer later and took us to the Holiday Inn. Place is run by Singaporeans, the hotel, the lounge, the restaurants, even the disco.

The hotel looks good but I don’t see their trademark Holiday Inn logo. I don’t need further clarifications. This is Cambodia and copyright and trademarks are a concept they are just about coming to grasp. Not too long ago this was a cowboy town and shots were fired to celebrate festivals like New Year.

The Eclipse Bar is located to the right frontage of the hotel reception. From outside it emits an electric blue, all glass and stainless steel. On the stage inside, a delectable PRC singer, hair dolled up Gatsby style with a matching sequin dress belts out Mandarin songs. She was brought here specially from one of their entertainment outlet in Shanghai. EL introduced us to Philip and his partner, John. Together with a few other Singaporeans they own the entire hotel. The official opening of the Eclipse is Friday and we must come, Philip invited. A beer later and Philip brought us into another section, a karaoke singalong place with arguably one of the best pool table this side of Phnom Penh. We had a few games and Philip turned out to be a superb player.

Friday came and we arrived to find the entire lobby filled with congratulatory garlands. Stupid me came with a full stomach. An array of Singaporean food lined a side of the lounge, from satay to a rack of very tender ribeye. What started as a small sampling saw me having another 3 ‘samplings’ of ribeye. Sorry Philip, for the gluttony, but that was my testament to the quality of the food.

We adjourned next to the Pure Bar on St. 104. This bar is helmed by Yong, a colorful Malaysian some 6’ something tall. 3 towers of Angkor later, we dragged ourselves next door to the Claudia. There, a young lady whose taste in men is, I must say, impeccable, latched herself to me. A good massage down her spine and around the kidneys with my elbows is my usual ice-breaking repertoire. When I finished, she said it was so good it made her want to sleep with me, her words. Shifting a gear, I asked her whether the massage made her wet. I was rewarded with a punch on the arm. Come here, I got off my stool and spooned her, standing. Turning away from prying eyes, I slipped a finger to her crotch and ran it along the clit. Damn if it wasn’t a little slimy. She squirmed away, laughing.

The young lady in question:

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/Maimai02s.jpg

Bright

13-09-2010, 09:30 AM

bro faidenk,

wow.. i can see my brother in pp has new conquers in a span of days since i touch down to sing. the pics are excellent but this recent one is mouth-watering. did u finally gotten this meat from pure bar. from pic, i could see she does have a good figure, correct me if i am wrong. wat's is this new joint at holiday inn? we were not there last time. could explore further then..
i am looking forward to visiting you in the near future.
ciao.. take care.. and i see u soon..

Faidenk

13-09-2010, 11:51 AM

bro faidenk,

....did u finally gotten this meat from pure bar. from pic, i could see she does have a good figure, correct me if i am wrong. wat's is this new joint at holiday inn? we were not there last time. could explore further then..
i am looking forward to visiting you in the near future.
ciao.. take care.. and i see u soon..

Nah, this one's from a immediate neighbor of Pure. Read more of her in next post. Finally I get a decent BJ and it's a bonus she's supple and young, enjoyed the sex as much as I did and quite cute as well. Definitely on my list whenever I need some diversion for a afternoon siesta. I am trying to have a pool of 5 I can choose from, well, 4 more to go.

Over at the pure, I nailed that one. 30 year old, flabby around the mid. While she enjoyed the romp very much, is not much of a giver, so she wrote herself off my list. Told me she had not had sex like this. Texting me everyday. Well, just had to give her the bad news - I am a butterfly. And she countered with men all butterfly same same, but I like you boom boom, so maybe one time one month OK. Hahaha

Faidenk

13-09-2010, 04:56 PM

Finally, A Good BJ Part 2

By then, we were something drunk. So I asked for her mobile. I don’t make it a habit of bringing a girl home when I had a little too much. I know, alcohol makes me horny and irresistible too but over the years I realized what they have been saying is all true, it only makes you horny and irresistible in your head. Your judgment gets impaired and many times you wake to to a nightmare besides you, I had and I did. Age, coupled with alcohol is definitely the worst combination for an aphrodisiac.

A few days of continuous party and the fatigue sets in. I had to get some quality sleep. The next day, I left the office at 3 in the afternoon with the good intention of a power nap at home. VC was in, watching last night’s soccer matches. Not a soccer fan, I find myself drifting off in the chair so I went to the bedroom. There I drifted in and out of sleep, but decided it was going to make me more tired than rested. I needed to be knocked out. I went out, rolled a reefer and shared it with VC.

Feeling good, I picked up the phone to call Maimai, the girl at Claudia last night. She would be at my place in 30 minutes. Popped a Kamagra and waited.

She arrived in true Cambodia style, 30 minutes late on the dot. I had to go down to the street to pick her up. In broad daylight, some of the tuk-tuk drivers waiting about teased her. I’m sure news will go around fast and I expect to be on the receiving end of some strange looks and sniggers. Get a life, I’ll tell them. I’m getting one.

Maimai possesses possibly the most sensitive nipples this side of the Tonle Sap. A quick flick was enough to elicit a moan. After 5 minutes teasing her, I asked if she wanted to take a shower and she said she wanted to pee-pee. OK, wash it good. She did, taking an inordinate long time to do it. I was getting a little impatient. She came back in, my bath towel around her.

Although I had already showered before she came, I went to wash again, an assurance nothing unwashed goes into her mouth. VC by then has gone to take a nap as well, the haze must be good, like I’m feeling now.

I spent another 10 minutes or so mouthing her small but erect nips, her moans more audible now. She grabbed my hands now fondling her soft breasts and frantically urged them to knead harder. I complied, she started rubbing her thighs together, and heaved her buttocks in a death throe.

I moved my free hand down, over sparse curly negroid hair, and slipped a finger into her very well-lubricated clit. I teased the clitoris with feathery, circular movement, alternating by applying pressure just at the slippery entrance, occasionally slipping easily into the love chamber and massaging the ribbed wall with my hooked finger. She was besides herself and gasping for air. When I felt she was approaching climax I withdrew, letting her come down gently, and then started the whole process again. She begged me to fuck her.

After the 3rd time, I laid down besides her, nudged her head down south. She obliged by giving me one of the best blowjob I had. Unhurried, teasing, nibbles, licks, flicks, man, this girl knows it all.

When I was ready, she capped me, impaled herself on me and rode, and grind, and fingered her own clit. I could see her turning red in the face. A minute and she collapsed on me, heaving for breath. I let her rest, still inside her.

I turned her around when her breathing stabilized and pumped for dear life. She hooked her ankles behind me and urged me all the way. Sweat drenched my forehead and dripped on her breasts. An ache is starting about the small of my back and it prevented me from coming but I persevered. When I heard her moaning again and saw her eyes rolled up, I exploded.

For the next 20 minutes or so, both of us were dead to the world. Finally she stirred and so did I. She went out to shower, came back in looking just as beautiful. I slipped $30 into her hand, plus another $5 ‘for the tuk-tuk.

As she made her way down the impossible stairs, I swore she walked a little funny. But then, so did I.

So, in short, the Kamagra has exceeded all my expectations and I got my much needed deep REM sleep.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/Maimai01s.jpg

XamXam1

13-09-2010, 06:08 PM

Kudos to Bro Faidenk for tons of information and sexy FR! Free for a drink next week? I am going around PP, SR and possible Laos for two weeks, no fix itinerary yet, except 3 days in Angkor. .

Any other bros around can PM to exchange information :D

Faidenk

13-09-2010, 06:32 PM

Faidenk

14-09-2010, 12:47 PM

hi bro Faidenk, you really write well and I enjoyed everyone of your posts.
Cambodia piques my interests now and I am really giving it some serious thoughts as an aternative place to stay in.
Would just like to ask you one silly question, if u dun mind. What sort of work or visit pass did you apply that enables you to stay for so long in Cambodia?

Looking forward to your posts and answers.

Cheers
lugi

Bro Lugi pm me this and I thought the answer might be of interest to others as well.

On arrival, visitors from Singapore (and Asean) are automatically permitted to stay 30 days. One may renew this another 30 days for USD25.00, or 90 days for USD75.00. Both of this are for single entry only. If you leave the Kingdom during this period, the visa expires. If you are planning to stay longer, it would be worth the while to apply for the 1-year multiple entry visa at USD180.00.

The 1-year visa would also be required for your landlord to register you at the local police post anyway.

You may apply in person at the Immigration Office directly across the road the airport terminal, or get almost any travel agent to do it on your behalf for a small fee (some even at the same price USD180).

The visas are renewable with no questions asked, so you may stay here perpetually if so desired.

Faidenk

15-09-2010, 06:29 PM

You may apply in person at the Immigration Office directly across the road the airport terminal, or get almost any travel agent to do it on your behalf for a small fee (some even at the same price USD180)..

Correction.

First, the price for a 1 year, multiple entry visa is USD280, NOT $180. My bad.

Second, I went to a random travel agent just around the corner from where I work, walked in and asked them if they do visas. They do. Cost? $275.

So, it's cheaper than going yourself. The first time we went, thinking it might save some $$, it costs us about USD10 in tuk-tuk fares. Stupid us.

lugi

15-09-2010, 10:31 PM

Bro Faidenk,

Thanks for your kind sharing.

Upz you!

woot

18-09-2010, 01:43 PM

holy shit, this girl looks hot! What an amazing conquest. I think the real rub though lies in the fact whether she would still sleep with you if there was no financial incentive to do so =)

ilovesingapore

18-09-2010, 03:05 PM

hey, your writing skills are very professional. I assume you must be a uni grad?

Faidenk

18-09-2010, 06:37 PM

holy shit, this girl looks hot! What an amazing conquest. I think the real rub though lies in the fact whether she would still sleep with you if there was no financial incentive to do so =)

I bet the last riel that I gave her (after the deed was done) has nothing to do with her sleeping with me. Am I not a catch? An aging although still charming (blush, blush) gentleman with a slight beer belly. Come on, any girl this side of the Vietnam border would go with me and that would have nothing to do with the 'taxi fare' I would give her.

On a less serious note, the girls need to make a buck. They probably have dependents (aging parents, siblings going to school) to support. Life is not easy here. I won't be the one to deprive them a USD30 or 40 just so I have bragging rights. But you're right, she's hot to trod.

Faidenk

18-09-2010, 06:41 PM

hey, your writing skills are very professional. I assume you must be a uni grad?

If you've gone through the thread, you would have known that I don't. Not something I'm proud of nor ashamed, it's just a fact. So I'll just acknowledge first part and ignore the latter, and say thank you. Cheers.

Mushi_shi

18-09-2010, 07:11 PM

On a less serious note, the girls need to make a buck. They probably have dependents (aging parents, siblings going to school) to support. Life is not easy here. I won't be the one to deprive them a USD30 or 40 just so I have bragging rights. But you're right, she's hot to trod.

First off, enjoy reading your insights on Cambodia & its ppl. It's almost as good as Bangkok Stickman articles. Agree with the statement above. I believe that a majority 3rd World country girls, we 'outsider' would make quite a catch regardless how one looks. Guess they are just looking for way to a better life. :o

Bright

22-09-2010, 12:26 PM

bro faidenk,

i am still in BKK... hopefully can wrap up the meetings fast and rejoin u.

2 nites ago, we met up with xamxam1, vc, faidenk and went clubbing along bar street. this was xamxam first visit to pp and had an interesting nite with us. we first had dinner at bro faidenk's restaurant, rang up vc, and we were off to our usual hangout. went early to holiday inn bar, but too early, a check with our clock and we knew we were d... early, only 8pm. but, not to fret, bro faidenk suggested we crawled back to our hunting ground. now we r back to sizzler, xam hooked up 2 busties, ard 22yo. the usual tcss followed.. but bro faidenk was so quiet.. enjoying himself with 2 other chios at the side. he smiled guiltily, looked like he is having his time... now i know, his two hands working unhurriedly upon the 2 girls cu..,, haha.. they were wet... vc and i had more drinks, more LDs, and xamxam was fun. next, we ventured across to candy bar, my first visit. ladies were spontaneous and young. we had a corner seat beside a barang who has a table full of girls. one glance and i know that the unwitting him had other girls joining his table for more LDs. the barang was jovial, old and steady. back to our tables, we were lucky to have all girls very sporting and wild.. doing all kinds of things to sprice up our moods. we were happy, laughed and down more angkor. xam exchanged numbers with several girls to cheery-pick later for the nite.

we went to one other pub b4 bidding good byes to bro fai and vc. as for xam and I, we went back to sizzler to bar-fine the long leggy girl whom xam had noticed earlier. xam then paid $10 BF, and we took the lady back to our hotel, just across the road.

kudos to u bro faidenk. bro xam sure has a good time that nite.

Faidenk

22-09-2010, 03:22 PM

A Menage A Trois In The Making?

One of the very first bars I stepped into in Phnom Penh was the Sizzlers on Street 136. It’s dingy and a little musty, but then I am describing 99% of the girly bars in Phnom Penh. The girls greet all customers as they stroll in the front door, although on our first visit did I also detect mentions of ‘hansom man’ amidst the din? Haha

I remembered playing pool with a few girls up on the ‘mezzanine’ floor, one of them was a girl whose pic I took because she resembles Zoe Tay (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=5194189&postcount=47) so much but that was also the last time I saw her. I didn’t have much of an impression of the other 2 as we descending into the cloud of alcohol. It turned out the other 2 girls were the ones I am describing below.

Well, Sizzlers is a must on my radar during our bar-hopping jaunts because the girls are not pushy with ladies drinks, although that does not stop us from buying; and there’s a good mix of young and younger girls, good looking to stunners to the mediocre and to a single ladyboy. The boss is friendly, a youngish looking Khmer in his late 30s or early 40s. The crowd is a good mix of Westerners, Koreans, Japanese and us Malaysians and Singaporeans.

There was this girl Lina who impressed me with her command of English and quick wit, not to mention the 2 most attractive attributes, namely the left and the right. She’s always quick to pick up on my innuendo laden with sexual tones, can take it as well gives it right back. We always have a good laugh and I never fail to reward her with a ladies drink or 2 topped off with a $2 or $3 tip. Finally a girl who I can talk to, although she so far she has, well, not refuse nor agreed to my subtle hints of bringing the relationship a step further. I sense she doesn’t go out with customers; a few discreet enquiries to the other girls seemed to confirm that. I like that. And so in the meantime my animal needs are fulfilled by other more willing souls.

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Lina

In the meanwhile, another girl in the same bar caught my eye, Tiep. She was sitting with VC, always wears a quiet smile. Although not exactly a spring chicken, 26, I think she is, I like her demeanor and dark handsome looks. I told Lina, had I not known you, she would be the girl I want in this bar. She said it’s a good choice.

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Tiep

A couple of days ago, with Bro Bright a couple of SG visitors, she came over, VC had already 2 girls on his hands by then, when Lina was busy at another table. She looks even better up close. I told her she’s beautiful and I mean it. She graciously accepted and thanked me and confessed she liked me, a lot. Haha, old cow still can eat young grass, I love Cambodia. We talked, her English was not as good as Lina but communication was not a problem. She’s very huggable and likes to rest her head on my shoulders.

When Lina was finally available, she came over. I turned my attention to her, while not neglecting Tiep, and the only way to that was to turn my back to Tiep, kept her hands around my waist to assure her she’s not being abandon, and my hands in Lina’s back pockets, maintaining some loin contact. I really did not know what the 2 girls thought of the situation, but I did not detect any hint of, I won’t say jealously, that would be too presumptuous of me, unease. At many stages, with a hand around Lina’s waist, the other was behind massaging Tiep’s thigh up near the crotch, the 2 girls were chatting away over my shoulder. With my back feeling soft tits and front grinding loin, it’s hard, I tell you.

It got harder as time when on. Lina whispered into my ears it would be OK for me to take Tiep home. ‘But I want my ‘first’ time with you’, I protested weakly, ‘then I try her’.

‘No, don’t do that’.
‘Hmmm?’
‘Because others think you sleep with me and don’t like, then you take another girl’.
‘Ahhhh, I see’.

So that’s the gist of how the conversation went. So in the end I summoned all the will and strength in me. And went home alone.

I do not want to jeopardize the rapport already built. I sense in her a quality, like a rough diamond that needs some polishing and nurturing to bring out the true shine, and I am willing to wait. Meanwhile, there are always others to sooth my savage beast.

More pics next post.

achw555

22-09-2010, 03:51 PM

Bravo! Another excellent FR bro. I guess you won't stop amazing us. :p

Beautiful pics. Thank you thank you.

Also got to give it to you. Not much guys can hold it out for the big picture. I for one would have been too weak. Look forward to your next FR.......

I do not want to jeopardize the rapport already built. I sense in her a quality, like a rough diamond that needs some polishing and nurturing to bring out the true shine, and I am willing to wait. Meanwhile, there are always others to sooth my savage beast.

More pics next post.

Faidenk

22-09-2010, 04:18 PM

Bravo! Another excellent FR bro. I guess you won't stop amazing us. :p

Beautiful pics. Thank you thank you.

Also got to give it to you. Not much guys can hold it out for the big picture. I for one would have been too weak. Look forward to your next FR.......

It comes with age, I suppose. I remember the urges, when they streamed through my then young veins, were almost unstoppable, and I just gotta have some. Now!

With age, now I understand what they mean by stopping to smell the flowers. There's a calm quiet, with which one deals with any emergency. Action without reproach.

So now I will depart to you this - Youth is wasted on the young. You might understand its significance when you're 60.

Faidenk

22-09-2010, 05:28 PM

A Menage A Trois In The Making? Part 2

Because bros Bright and XamXam1 are in town this week, I am resigned to hitting the bars nightly while they are here. Not that I am complaining. Really. They are fun to be with, and we get more mileage out of the experience collectively. Their youthful energy rubs off to me. Now, if only I can grow another dick.

Last night, with Bright away to BKK on business, XamXam1 and I hit the 136 bars again. First one was the 136 Bar. A SYT attached herself to Xam. She looks maybe 19’ish, tanned in the beautiful way an Indochine can look tanned and beautiful at the same time. A little rough at the edges maybe, but with potential definitely. Maybe the eyebrows needs some ‘manicuring’, hair styled different to highlight her sharp features later on in life, but now she’s Gardenia Bread, ‘good to eat on its own’.

Turned out she’s 20, first time working in the bar, maybe even a 2nd grade virgin. Xam was apparently very taken by her and negotiated a USD40 plus USD10 bar fine through another girl who spoke Anglais (I suspect a fee is exacted from her fro the service, the Khmers are enterprising this way).

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/136SYT.jpg
The SYT

Me, I was latched on by a matronly looking because I was paying more attention to Xam’s girl. The matron sneakily staked her ground and the rest of the girls faded away. Danny, a Filipino who makes the circuit in the St 136 clusters as a sometimes 1, sometimes 2-man band, whispered to me there are 2 new girls tonight. Your friend has one, the other one I’ll point her out to you discreetly and you invite her yourself, otherwise the other girls will be peeved with me. Sure.

Just then a group of Koreans walked in all the way to the back where they had sofas, and walked out 10 minutes later with a tall fair girl in tow. Wow she looks stunning, very PRC look. Danny doesn’t need to tell me she’s gone for the evening.

So I am resigned to the matron although across to the bar I see a pretty one with fairly big knockers. Nah, I’m going to Sizzlers next, just waiting for Xam to establish his presence with the SYT. Verbal foreplay, I called it. I teased her about having 2 of us tonight and she got worried, got the translator to clarify the situation, smiled when she knew we were just mucking around. I knew then Xam’s not going to get a BJ. I’ll be surprised she’d even touch his dick.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/136SYT01.jpg

Another of the SYT, courtesy of XamXam1

Anyway when I met Xam this morning, it seems all my suspicions were true. I had a good laugh and consoled him at least it was young supple prime meat he had. I like my steaks aged to perfection to bring out the full flavors, just no old cows please.

Faidenk

22-09-2010, 06:44 PM

A Menage A Trois No More

We finished our beer after what I think was ample time spent on the SYT to establish some sort of rapport by Bro XamXam1. I hope in my anxiety to see my 2 darlings over at the Sizzlers I hadn’t shortchanged Bro Xam.

Lina was with a couple of Singaporeans, I believe. Before I even sat, Tiep was on the seat behind me, smiling. I gave her a hug, crotch on her knee. She didn’t flinch this time.

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Some more pics of my darlings together

The boss came by the table and I chatted with him. Toyed with him the idea of a Singapore type food court and asked for his opinion. It might work but it’ll cost. Nothing I don’t already know. Some considerations, he added, it must have ample parking, and it has to be big. Half fucked effort gives half fucked results. True.

But he didn’t say I want a piece of the action, so much for confidence, haha. And he offered me a piece of his bar’s real estate to pin up advertisement of my restaurant, FOC, on the toilet wall. ‘There’s where customers go and they like to something to distract themselves from their dicks’. I know I would, and thanked him. For this, I’ll buy the girls an extra round of ladies’ drinks.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/TiepnLina02.jpg
See the daggers behind the smiles?

As he walked away, Lina’s guests left and she came over and gave me a passionate hug, a lingering one, as though she hasn’t seen me in, what, 24 hours? I felt a stirring in my loins. Have you had dinner? She whispered in my ear. Yes, but I am hungry for you. Good, I want to keep you hungry. I will have my revenge when you submit to me. I’m going to eat you until you are at the peak, then I’m going to have a cigarette, and I’m going to do this at least 10 times, until you beg me to do it. Hah! she retorted, you’ll be the one begging me. To stop.

Damn, I can’t wait to have her.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/TiepnLina01.jpg

Then, the 2 girls chatted away in Khmer, again with me sandwiched in the middle. I wanted to pee, so I broke up the party. When I came back, only Lina was there. We assumed our loin contact position. She told me she might not work in full time anymore, the girls are gossipy and even some of the tuk-tuk and motordop drivers are talking about her and she needed to make more money. So she’ll probably work in a restaurant (I think already interviewed and accepted) where she makes USD80/month and then freelance for ladies drinks at night.

Somewhere in here I slip in to her that I need to select one of them as I don’t feel good two timing them openly, and right now she gets my vote. You enjoy it, she said. OK, OK, I do but that doesn’t mean deep down I do. We laughed it off, but the message gets passed through.

Then I asked her what she would do if she had money. She replied probably open a hair-dressing salon, or a shop selling clothes, but she confessed she hasn’t really gave it much thought because it seems so unattainable. Her answer seems logical, honest even. Short of some dumb smitten customer giving her a lump sum of money, there isn’t any way for her out of this miserable rut.

She’s street-smart, high IQ’d, witty, popular with the customers (how you know? she had demanded), and I’m sure she will do well in her endeavors, but for the present, all I could do is more tips and overpay gladly when she warms my bed.

Faidenk

23-09-2010, 05:41 PM

All Is Not What It Seems

A bro asked me, this Lina chick seems like the real thing, if I were you I’ll ‘bao’ her. Now this is one area I’ll tread very carefully.

Allow me to relate this story. Some of you may remember it from the posts I made in my Shanghai Nostalgia thread.

2008, Shanghai. I was brought to this KTV by a group Shanghai vets. It was great, the décor, service staff, down to the xiao jie’s. Mama-san brought in batches of girls for viewing. I mentally noted one, eyeballed the rest, and although there were a couple of others who caught my attention somehow this one impressed with her mischievous and playful demeanor. So it was that I selected her.

At once the chemical mix was right and we hit off. She was 23 but had the mind much older and the body of an imp. Very fair, rosy cheeked, and when I checked her ears, my heart skipped a beat. Her antitragus, the canal between the tragus and ear lobe was so narrow it almost touched.

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Antitragus circled

A much older friend I know in Beijing, RIP, told me narrow antitragus indicates small tight pussy. I devote much effort after that to prove or disprove his theory and found, although inconclusively, that there is much to prove he is right. But the research goes on.

When we met the next afternoon we both knew the inevitable had to happen. The moment the door closed, we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. Her skin was cool to the touch and so silky smooth as though she had just dusted herself with talcum. The complexion was tint pink as were her bite sized nipples. Even at the height of pleasure her labia never protrude, and I swear the lips were unmarred by dark pigment. Her Venus mount was very fleshy and in a tight skirt, it’s almost as prominent as a guy walking around in his underwear.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/HeHuan/HHSN12.jpg

I drank of her honey that day. She climaxed many times. And yes, she had the tightest pussy I had, ever.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/HeHuan/HHTopless01.jpg

She made me promised the relationship would not go further beyond sex, that she would not see me more than during the weekends. That day she left before I even had time to slip a couple of 100s into her handbag, and called me from the KTV to ask me if I had dinner, and before I went to bed. It was blissful. I felt like a teenager in the first throes of love.

She broke the promise, many times, knocking on my door unexpectedly, maybe to catch me ‘cheating’, and never took a yuan. Yes, I bought her some duty-free perfumes, dinners, some clothes. The truth is, during that period, I was totally drained and intoxicated by her to even think about another.

This went on for about 4 months. One day, she called me, sobbing on the line. She said her bank account has been emptied of her savings by her roommate, some RMB 20,000. Although not a lot of money, some SGD 4,000, I told her to report to the police, and that all ATMs are monitored by cameras and recordings are kept by at least 3 months, and with that evidence she could probably recover a fair amount of the loss. She said OK and she’ll be going back to her hometown soon.

That was the last I heard of her. I missed her. About a month later, friends invited me again to that KTV. The mama-san recognized me and called her in. I was so surprised but kept cool, knowing I was that close to being had for RMB20K. The time passed agonizingly slow and I gave her a RMB1K tips and wished her all the best for the future.

I mean, I really would have given her that amount had she just asked. The experience jolted me back to reality and I told myself not to let my guard down again.

Now in Phnom Penh, I am not about to make the same mistake again.

Last week, while hopping from bar to bar with VC, I saw a very fair girl side-riding on a stationary motorcycle outside the bar, her long, long bare legs seemed endless. I was taken aback and said hello to her. She smiled, very white straight teeth, said ‘你好’, and continued to talk to me in Mandarin. Curious, I called VC and we went in the bar. She walked in after us. Man, she is tall. She sat down opposite me, allowing her long legs to touch mine under the table. By then she exhausted her entire Mandarin vocabulary but as I couldn’t yet speak Khmer the conversation slowly died off. It should by now be replaced with more physical communication but, I couldn’t put my finger on it, something seemed a little out of sync.

Her voice? No, nothing odd. I looked carefully, trying to be discreet as I try to look at a trace of Adam’s Apple, nothing there. Forehead? The eyebrow ridge does seem a mite prominent, but nothing that shouts Ladyboy!

To err on the side of caution, I finished my beer and urged VC to do the same, gave her a dollar for the 10 minutes she spent with us. On the way out I whispered to another girl to inquire if ‘she’ is indeed a ladyboy. She said I don’t know. Confirmation.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/LBY.jpg

Of course now looking at the pic she bluetoothed me, it's easy to see 'she' is a ladyboy. But, man, I could of swore...

So, all is not what it seems.

hotdick69

25-09-2010, 03:20 AM

really enjoyed ur updates.......... looking forward to reading more :D

my trip to angkor was lovely..... but the local ladies was even more lovely too bad OC around hahaha so couldnt do much :o

Faidenk

26-09-2010, 07:57 PM

really enjoyed ur updates.......... looking forward to reading more :D

my trip to angkor was lovely..... but the local ladies was even more lovely too bad OC around hahaha so couldnt do much :o

You're not the first, won't be the last either.

Take heart, there's always a next time.

Faidenk

26-09-2010, 07:59 PM

Living In Cambodia Part 5

In a previous post, I related how traffic police routinely collect ‘fines’ from overladen vehicles, right in front of a feedback box labeled ‘P.O. Box for Complaints Against Corruption’.

A couple of days ago, right in front of my restaurant and the clinic next door, a motorcycle ridden by two young men shot out into the traffic, as motorists here are wont to do, right into the path of another motorcycle. The woman pillion rider on the other bike was hurt in the leg. A large group of onlookers gathered around, which is a common occurrence; only here the busybodies seems more in numbers and the proceeding negotiations involves a good number of the onlookers as well.

I watch the proceedings from the comfort of the restaurant and noted although the accident victim was bleeding from her leg, at no time did it occur to her to seek medical aid from the clinic. I told my staff to bring her a chair; she was otherwise sitting on the kerb. My boys told me the young man had admitted liability and it was just a matter of compensation and the old lady did her best to showcase her agony in the hope of garnering more sympathetic support. I did not watch the proceedings and the next time I looked, the crowd had dispersed.

In this case, a party had admitted guilt so it fairly straightforward. However, in the case of ambiguity, as in China and I suspect in many 3rd world Asian countries, the rule applies, if the other party is a foreigner, he’s in the wrong; if the other party drives a car, he’s wrong as well; the underdog always win, because the crowd always almost consists of the downtrodden who indentify with one of their own.

If the police is in the vicinity, they will more often than not, look away. For a paltry $50 or so a month, paperwork is the last thing they need, unless there is some personal gain.

And the onlooker(s) who negotiated on behalf of the ‘poor’ victim, gets a cut of the compensation in return for his effort, probably a dollar or 5.

And this is the point of the story. Strangers who stop to help, they are not Samaritans. There is something in it for them, always.

The tuk-tuk driver who so kindly carries your bag into the lobby to check in, the hotel pays him a finder’s fee. The real estate agent, who after earning a healthy commission from the landlord of our apartment, takes a $20/month cut from the $70/month Khmer tutor he found for us, the tutor later revealed. We had thought that was a kind gesture on his part. Once, the tuk-tuk driver couldn’t understand where we wanted to go, so we stopped by the side of the road to try explain in our almost non-existent Khmer and his equally proficient English. A motorist stopped to translate. That worked and the driver extracted a couple of riel notes from his wallet for his effort. Not bad for a couple of minutes work.

The thing is, everybody is in it for something. I am not berating the Khmers for this, simply this is the way it’s done.

Bright

28-09-2010, 04:00 PM

Faidenk

29-09-2010, 10:58 AM

bro faidenk and our lost bro xamxam..

here's to you xam.. berry said next time you come around, plse stay longer so we can go disco..

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http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4111/5032739090_d9dc0d31cb_m.jpg

hope you like it, xam... see you next time

Bro,
I don't think you need to worry about bro Xam, after going up to Laos, he would forgotten all about her, especially so with the distractions at the border of Laos and Yunnan.

All things having been said, she's stunning in these pics. I really ought to go back there and take a good hard look at her, or is it a good look and then hard. Hahaha

pmhQ7

29-09-2010, 11:31 AM

Faidenk

29-09-2010, 08:21 PM

Hi Sir Faidenk,

Can I go eat the Singaporean food at your restaurant & u bring me to see & look hard together too....lol
Yeah, I think u really write great & thanks for giving us a good insight into PP.

My observations are through the eyes of a Cambodian newbie. Veterans, here and everywhere alike, would not notice the mundane stuff I do. In a couple of months' time, I too would also be jaded and events I think is worth talking about will ceased to be, like when your young wife gradually turns into an auntie. That's a inescapable fact of life and I can but acknowledge it.

Faidenk

08-10-2010, 08:04 AM

Some lovelies at the opening of a pub (no hanky panky) last week.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/MinaSml-1.jpg

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/MinaMH01.jpg

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/MH05.jpg

Faidenk

08-10-2010, 08:10 AM

More...

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/MatahariLineup02.jpg

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/MatahariLineup01.jpg

XamXam1

08-10-2010, 09:12 AM

Bro,
I don't think you need to worry about bro Xam, after going up to Laos, he would forgotten all about her, especially so with the distractions at the border of Laos and Yunnan.

All things having been said, she's stunning in these pics. I really ought to go back there and take a good hard look at her, or is it a good look and then hard. Hahaha

BROSSSS>>>>...........

I think I have to pen down something or else I will be from Bro Xam to Bro Lost Xam to Bro Dead Xam!

Had been exploring Loas for a week or so and spend a few peaceful days on the border to Thai. Man, that was relaxing.

Back to Khmer. My first nite in Cambodia, Bro Faidenk bring me together with Bro Bright and Bro VC. We did bar hopping, man that was fun. Had a lot of drinks and more gals swampping to us (the bros here are really famous!) And I had to say I really had fun, chatting and raba raba-ing... minimum damage is LD or USD 3.... Can you imagine?

I got the ST and LT price guide line from Bro Faidenk. USD 30 and USD 40 respectively. As Bro Bright mentioned, the first nite I went for a leggy gal, which I did not sit with me previously, but I had my eye on her. Solid body, fair skin and young! But here is one lesson learnt I wanna share with all bros....

ALL NEGOTIATE, do not ASSUME! After paying the USD 10 bar fine, she went back to my room and guess what.

Leggy gal: "my rate ST is USD60, LT is USD100".
Xam: "Thank you and have a nice day"; open door and show her the way.

Summary: I am not that affected by the act, it is just my stupidity... I had a great time knowing new bros in this part of the world, really drunk! This is what SBF is about, knowing new bros, sharing cheonging news with bros and have fun within our means!

p.s. I really miss Berry. Wonder when Bro Bright will hit PP again? :D

Faidenk

08-10-2010, 09:28 AM

BROSSSS>>>>...........

p.s. I really miss Berry. Wonder when Bro Bright will hit PP again? :D

Yo bro,
Bright will be in PP again on 12 Oct and we will fly up to Vientiane on the 14 (not confirm yet). Damn I can't wait to meet those Laotian beauties again.

samseng27

24-12-2010, 07:57 PM

hi,

I am really impress with yr experience. Will be there on 14jan to 17jan.. Care to meet? I am a Singaporean, been t0 PP many times and 1st time was abt 18yrs back. What u are writing really interest me alot as these are the places i never been before... Pls PM me of yr contact if u are willing..

Suriyothai

28-12-2010, 08:33 PM

Nice Thread. Awaiting more stories...

yves99

09-01-2011, 04:13 PM

Very beautiful girl.... and love her cleavage!!!! i am sure that you had a good time with her

Faidenk

12-01-2011, 01:46 PM

The Captain

Yes, just as I had predicted, I am jaded. The initial thrill of Cambodia had dissipated. The Khmer girls all seemed promising at first, but on the bed? they deflates faster than a popped balloon. I am sorely disappointed. However, I should not tar all with the same feather, should I? So, the quest continues.

About a month or so ago, I dropped in a local disco out of curiosity just to experience the local scene, alone. Most of my regular kaki's were out of town and after a couple of drinks at my regular bars, I was feeling a tad bored with the same old, same old.

I walked up the stairs and the doorman opened the door for me. I pushed aside the heavy curtains and had a hard time adjusting my eyes to the sudden darkness and pulsating strobe lights, not to mention the deafening dance music. I felt a pair of hands hold my arm and guiding me to the bar. Vision adjusted, I looked at the pair of hands and saw it belonged to a lady captain. She had on a black blazer and skirt, earpiece in one ear and walkie-talkie clipped to her back. I thanked her 'Or kun', that about exhausted my Khmer vocabulary. She started talking in Khmer into my ear due to the loud music, holding my arms for support as she leaned forward.
I replied I don’t understand what she is saying, ‘Orb Khmer’, no Khmer, into her ear. Hmmm, she smelled nice. She gestured drink. Angkor beer, I said. She talked to the bartender and an Angkor promptly appeared before me. She said something to me and held my hand a while before walking away. I guessed she said she had to go attend to something.

I looked around the place. Lots of 20 something. There were a couple of great looking babes in miniskirts with great legs. Girls here don’t wear panties when they have miniskirts on, I swear. They wear shorts. You know the type which expose the butt cheeks, or shortened skin-tight cyclist shorts. Whatever, it diminishes the peek-a-boo thrill. One in particular was spectacular. I learned much later she’s the boss’ girlfriend.

The captain came back every now and then to make sure my glass is topped up. It seemed to me she’s paying me some special attention because I don’t see her doing that to others. She was also extra feely touchy with me too when she comes around. A hand on mine, or my thigh or wherever. I expect this in bar, but here?

I rounded up my first visit with another beer. I thanked her and went home to sleep.

On my next visit, I went with a couple of visiting friends from Singapore. We were a little early and the night’s crowd hasn’t arrived, we were the only guests there. She wasn’t there, maybe her day off. Some of the ‘resident’ GROs were around. We played some pool, a couple of beers. One of the GROs were eyeing us. My friend and his girlfriend was playing pool and I was sitting alone when she caught my eye. I smiled. She came over. Slim long legs gave an impression she was tall, up close she stands up to my ear. Not overly pretty, I guess she’s about 20. Again my unimpressive Khmer proved a stumbling block. She beckoned the massive bouncer to interpret. The gist of the exchange was like this - the girls here can be brought out. ST is $30 and LT $60. OK, thank you, I will call you (her) some other time when I am in need. She punched her number into my phone.

We left before the crowd came in.

Faidenk

13-01-2011, 06:53 PM

36SCE - thks for the Rep points. Really not the reason for the posts but appreciated anyways.

The Captain 2

The very next day, Sairuat, the FL from the disco, called at noon. She not speaking a word of Englais, and me not more than 5 of Khmer, proved too much for me and I had to let a colleague take the call. I had not suggested she call me, I had merely said I will contact her when I am ‘needy’. Such aggression suggested she needed money, bad. I asked my colleague to say I will meet her in the evening at a designated place at 7. I normally keep all my dalliances away from work so I can imagine this dialogue through the colleague must have set tongues wagging, but what to do?

At 7 she was already waiting. She had already eaten so I suggested we go home. She was agreeable. She proved a bad choice and starfish. Another $30 and a dollar extra for her transport back down the drain. I erased her number from my phone.

A couple of nights later, I popped in the disco again, just to satisfy my curiosity regarding the captain. She was at the door and again led me to a seat by the hand, like a child being led. She seated me at the bar and ordered an Angkor without my asking. She stood very close while talking into her walkie-talkie, crotch against my knee. She spoke halting English but good enough for me to understand, very rudimentary. Ask what I do here, where I am from etc. I evaded them by saying I am from Batambang, a Northern province. She pinched my arm but left it at that.

At about midnight, I asked her when she will visit my house, jokingly. She looked at her watch and said wait. She went off, I assumed to attend to some customer. Shortly she came back sans her captain uniformand said ‘we go’, and again led me by the hand out. The colleagues at the door, by their snickers and tone, must have teased her but I detected no bashfulness.

On the bed, she proved to be quite adventurous, playful even, but did not initiate BJ until I gestured I need some oral administration. She did so without complains but obviously did not relish the act and spend a just barely acceptable period of time on it. She’s quite aggressive and rocked herself to a climax straddling me, grinding and huffing, but not overly vocal. I let her rest and she came again when I pounded her.

I had not discussed price with her. One should always agree on the price, or even the period of time she’d spend with you in Cambodia, failing to do so may cost one dearly. On reflection, I supposed I did not because she is not an FL but a staff of the disco and asking her outright for a price might have insulted her, but still I prepared myself mentally by pushing the standard asking price of $30 or $60 and not a riel more.

After the deed was done, she went to wash up. I expected her to go home after washing up. Instead she switched off the light and climbed in besides me. We slept till morning.

At about 6, just as the sky outside starts to brighten, she woke me up playing with my dick. After a while, I went to wash up. I hate to make love with morning breath, mine and hers. When I came back, she went to do the same without my prompting. Good girl. We made fast and furious love with the barest of foreplay, even so she was already very wet. We came together.

After washing up, we walked to the pho bo shop 5 minutes walk from my place. Approaching 9 am now, I hailed a tuk-tuk and send her home. I had not yet pay her, figuring she won’t protest with the tuk-tuk driver within hearing distance. Once the tuk-tuk reached her destination, she gave me a quick peck on the cheek and went off on her way, turning around once to wave goodbye. Huh? WTF?

After that occasion, I’ve been bringing her home every weekend. The only disadvantage was being a weekend, she could only come to my place after 3 am. By 11 I would wake her up, have a simple lunch, stuff $10 into her hand ‘for tuk-tuk’. I suppose I had better buy her a reasonably good dinner one of these days, maybe this coming weekend before she starts work.

She is an avid learner and her performance has improved tremendously since, and now BJ with any prompting. She is uncomplaining, doesn’t really say much perhaps due to our limited communication skills. Only once did she ask me to go to a wedding dinner with her. I showed her a wedding invitation card I had received for the same day and apologized I could not. I did however ask her how much would she be expected to pay? She said $20 and I stuffed $20 into her hand. She promptly flattened the notes and inserted it into the envelope that comes with the invitation card, hugged me and said Orkun.

I do not know her background and don't really intend to find out. She is about 28, I think. For Cambodians, a danger zone. I don't think she treats me as husband material, hell, she knows as much about me as I do her. We meet once a week, have sex, and barely communicate until the next time. Hardly any foundation for a meaningful relationship. Fuck buddies, maybe we just are, and contended with the status quo.

blursam

14-01-2011, 10:19 AM

Sounds like you have just found a regular Fuck Buddy ! :D Great one here....How I wish I can have one.....

Faidenk

14-01-2011, 12:37 PM

Sounds like you have just found a regular Fuck Buddy ! :D Great one here....How I wish I can have one.....

Was a bit randy last night even though it's not weekend yet, but I reckon Thursday night is close enough. I thought it being a Thursday she'd be able to get off work by latest 1am so called to to come to my place after work. She eventually did at close to 3.

Just dropped her off close to her home at a sarabat type of coffee stall. 2nd time she dropped off there instead of home about a 100m away, but not before I slipped $10 to her, a soft orkun acknowledgement.

Drink coffee? Nah, I'm not very convinced. I suspect to pay off a Ah Long or tontine or something, but it's not my business, really. I don't want to carry anybody's baggage. Ignorance is the best policy here.

jimmycool

17-01-2011, 12:33 PM

boysaigon

18-01-2011, 12:58 PM

[QUOTE=jimmycool;5597025]Yo Bro Faidenk
..... So I am longing for good Bak Kut Teh and I understand you run a nice restaurant that serves this gorgeous dish. If you will be so kind, I will send you a PM and request for your restaurant address please.
Thank you, again, Bro Faidenk, for your kind and generous sharing, and I hope to shake your hand and thank you in person soon.

...if Bak Kut Teh is one dish you are looking for...Look no further. Bro Faidenk serves the best in Phnom Penh, some say in the whole indochina. Brain drain at its best...I cry for singapore:(

PS: I shall see you again bro Faidenk. Still owe u a drink:D

lucifier

19-01-2011, 04:05 AM

Faidenk

19-01-2011, 12:50 PM

Yo Bro Faidenk
As I will be in Phnom Penh for the next five days to attend a conference, I looked up our sammyboyforum for some tips on Phnom Penh. My last trip was more than ten years ago. Luckily, I found your forum, and wow! what utterly awesome writing skills you have! Kudos and and hats off to you for generously sharing your experience with us and yet making it so easy for us to read and understand. The stories you have are so entertaining, interesting and they made me look forward to my Phnom Penh trip by 1000%.
I had to stop work in the office and continue reading from your first post until the end, and that alone helped me gain so much more 'experience' immediately. Many many thanks Bro Faidenk. Your shared knowledge is invaluable for all of us.
By the way, I am Singaporean and live in Bangkok, and the one good Singaporean chef I know has just left Bangkok for Macau, yikes. So I am longing for good Bak Kut Teh and I understand you run a nice restaurant that serves this gorgeous dish. If you will be so kind, I will send you a PM and request for your restaurant address please.
Thank you, again, Bro Faidenk, for your kind and generous sharing, and I hope to shake your hand and thank you in person soon.
With regards from jimmycool.

You owe this thread an FR on your and bro TJN's sexploitatio last night. Actually I already had my eye on these 2 cuties, but looks and all the come-ons, as I have found out, can be very deceiving.

The cutie TJN had was quite mad at me. When I asked her the price for the whole night, she replied 'Up to you' and that is one open-minded answer I was not looking for. When I pressed her for an concrete answer she said $100! Shock, horrors! I said it's too expensive.

She retorted that she had said it was up to TJN so why the fuss made when she said $100. I calmed her down by apologising. I am glad it was settled amicably at $50. I like her dark exotic looks, like a Malay-Chinese, and she's the most beautiful eyes. She's only been working there barely a week, I should know, I've been watching her, and liking it.

And your girl, she may not be the best looking but she kinda grows on you. Her chassis is beautifully proportioned, and the smoothest of skin. Fair, with just that little bit of bitchiness thrown in almost as an afterthought. I know it's stereotyping, but if she behaves the way she looks, I think she'd be good in bed.

BTW, I am sure you recognise the girls on above post #92 (136) and #93 (Sizzlers).

I am very anxious and look forward to your FRs.

This just goes to prove that sometimes flattery can get you somewhere, 55555.

Faidenk

19-01-2011, 01:04 PM

Hi bro Faidenk,

Thanks for showing around the bar scene near the sisowath quay yesterday night. I and my friend had a great night and hope you too. I back to sillypore and hope to see you soon when I go back to Phnom Penh. Let explore Phnom Penh together!

- lucifier

First, thanks to bro Siliconix for the Cialis. I am sure it will be hard to put to good use (pardon the pun).

I had tried the generic ones bought from a pharmacy here, Cynalis, I think, only at about $2 for 4 x 20mg, and I can report it works. Will report the comparison once I try the original stuff.

Great if you post your experience of PP here for the benefit of other bros.

Faidenk

19-01-2011, 01:08 PM

jimmycool

21-01-2011, 08:01 AM

Yo Bro Faidenk
My sincere thanks for taking time to meet with me and bringing me out almost every night in Phnom Penh. It is much appreciated.
My humble (and brief, sorry cos rushing to attend conference) FR to share;
Bro Faidenk serves excellent Singapore cuisine including our famous chicken rice. And yes, I confirm that Bro Faidenk's Bak Kut Teh is top class and you will enjoy it so much you will suck on the bones as well.
Bro Faidenk is King of Street 136. The bars and ladies all know him and everyone calls him 'Darling'. Beers are US$1.00-US1.25 and Happy Hour time is 1 for 1 too. Ladies drinks are US$3.00. For a few ladies drinks, you can touch, rub, kiss, poke, pull and sometimes even suck. The ladies are very friendly and offer most enjoyable company. The bars where Bro Faidenk brough us, there is absolutely no pressure for ladies drinks at all, unbelievable. I think it is because of Bro Faidenk's presence with us as well. He is Lord of Pussy in Phnom Penh and all the girls will take good care of his friends as well. We once sat twenty minutes with four ladies, and not once did they ask for drinks but continued to entertain us. By the way, Bro Faidenk is a 'tan-chiak' pool and snooker player so beware, you have been warned.
To bring the ladies back home for LT, bar fine is US$7-US$10, and US$50 for the girl. If you can, buy Durex condoms from your home base, cos it is very difficult to find them here. The Cambodia condoms are very dry and can hurt your baby brother with prolonged use.
A Big Thank You to Bro Faidenk, a true Gentleman who took very good care of me. Waiting for you to chiong together in Bangkok, Bro Faidenk.
To be contd.....

XamXam1

21-01-2011, 08:59 AM

Things are getting interesting again aint it? :D

Faidenk

21-01-2011, 12:57 PM

Faidenk

21-01-2011, 12:59 PM

Things are getting interesting again aint it? :D

Same old, same old.

When are you back here? Looking forward to it.

Faidenk

21-01-2011, 01:38 PM

Aiyah, no need so lor sor, haha. I think bros here more interested in the 2 chicks you and TJN brought back, and so do I. I have my eye on 2 of them, even before you came onto the scene. From your preliminaries, I understand both are performers, so get to the nitty-gritties.

And no, it's far from the truth being King, of 136 or anywhere else. It's an accolade too heavy for me to carry. I don't do anything other customers won't do, I certainly overtip. On occasions, certain ladies may have a affinity or chemistry for me, therefore allow me certain liberties, like the one at G Vine. But ultimately it's a money game.

I certainly overtip

Oops! I mean, I certainly don't overtip. Big, big, difference.

jimmycool

22-01-2011, 10:07 AM

FR contd....
The first chick for me had short hair and the type of CFM look that always attracts me. She is a little mature and seems to be in the FL game for some time now.
Goes by the name of Nikka. This chick loves to have her hairy pussy licked for hours and will not ask you to stop. In addition, if you can bend your torso enough to suck her nipples when you are bonking her, she will turn into a horny moaning slut for you. I think she cum three times with me, twice with pussy licking and once while bonking.
She wanted to leave at 6.00 am and I asked her why so early. She relented and let me have the second round which was fairly enjoyable as well. She finally left at 8.00 am, seemed to be in a hurry to meet someone or take care of the baby at home.
My Thai friend did not comment much on his girl, except that she gave very good service and was very fresh i.e. her pussy is not in the over-used stage yet. One comment though is that she liked to fuck and eat cum in the morning. Super protein breakfast, and maybe that's why she has fair and smooth skin.
Regards to Bro Faidenk again who spent many nights taking care of us.

best123

22-01-2011, 02:58 PM

I have totally missed out this awesome thread!!

Thanks bro Faidenk for the superb writeups...my humble points to you...

Faidenk

22-01-2011, 03:47 PM

I have totally missed out this awesome thread!!

Thanks bro Faidenk for the superb writeups...my humble points to you...

Can't wait for my points to accumulate to 2,000. Can change for a 46" LCD TV. Haha.

Thks and Happy & Prosperous New Year!

Faidenk

22-01-2011, 06:44 PM

Well, Jimmycool, TJN and myself, we had plans to go Darling, Darling at the Naga World last night with Saya, the beautiful creature with lovely dark features, fair complexion and huge soulful eyes, not to mention her creamy cleavage which for some reason seems to be staring at my eyes the whole night long.

Well, it did not materialize coz her phone was off the whole day. I was a little despondent having look forward to screwing her. She had seemed enthusiastic 2 days ago and I had not expect the turnaround. So we did the next best thing, look for other avenues for our collective lust.

After dinner, the 3 of us headed to Street 104, where Jimmycool and TJN had such fun the previous night on their own. First stop was the Rose Bar. We played a couple of rounds of pool in which Jimmycool showed off his run-outs in true Efrem Ryes fashion, beauty to watch, even though it was me at the losing end. Hard not to admire the skills this brother possesses.

Next we popped in to Pure Bar, runned by Malaysian Yong, amicable fellow. Too bad it was packed to the brim and the ladies hardly had time for us. We left with our beers half undrunk and went next door to Bar 104.

I spied a cutie, 2 in fact, sitting outside the door who gave me a shy girl-next-door smile. I returned my best Tom Cruise toothy but I guess it must have resembled a lust-crazed leer not unlike Jack Nicholson in The Shining. Nevetheless, she came in after us.

Ladies surrounded us, each hoping to claim a place. Standing on tiptoe I saw Ana, the cutie outside the door, trying to get through the ladies now surrounding us. I waved her through. Oooo, she's even cuter up close. Ana is really one cute package, I can't think of a better word to describe her. She's maybe 1.49m, a cute pixie look resembling a little like Cherie Chung. A little I said. Pert A-cuppers, but reminds me of those Balinese paintings, you know, those small but oh so perfect tits that pointed skywards, tiny brown nips (when I finally had a chance to scrutinize the twin beauties in my room). Hardly a trace of tummy, washboard flat it was. Her curvy ass made her already slim waist looked even smaller, and a joy to hold.

TJN had himself cornered by a lady who would not appeal to me, but hey, who am I to be a judge, I had picked dogs in my days. Jimmycool was, well, cool, and skillfully kept himself aloof, apparently not finding any anyone who meet his exacting standards.

My cutie was, when the time came, just as wishy-washy and said ‘Up to you’. This time I did not send the ball back to her. I said ‘Whole night $30’ and waited for her response. I think she did not expect my offer and kept quiet. ‘OK?’ I inquired again. This time she said $50. I made my last offer ‘$40 and we go now’. She said something in Khmer but I understood the ‘$5.25’ which could only meant the bar fine. We paid for the beers we had and I gave her the $5.25, as did TJN for his girl.

Jimmycool wanted to go to another bar to pick up a companion for himself and asked us to go off first. I sent TJN back to his hotel and proceeded home with my princess.

Back in my apartment, Ana went to the bathroom to have a shower, after pushing me out of the bathroom. I’d have loved to shower together but OK, her shyness shows she’s not hardcore.

In bed, her shyness dissipated. She loved my oral administrations and her thighs gripped my ears many times to signal her approval. I loved her restrained moans, as though she was afraid others may hear. Her hips left the mattress when the pleasure grew unbearable. I teased, not allowing her the climax she so yearned, drawing her up the pinnacle and left her there, hanging in midair.

Then the phone rang, the display says Saya. I rolled away and answered. 'Sorry, I am sick today'. Likely story but I said no problem, go rest and I'll see you some other day. 'Thank you and bye'.

I continued my orals. She beat my shoulder with her fist. After several cycles, I let her crash, and left her in a comatose state, punctuated by short heavy gasps, completely limp in my arms. I turned her over to massage her from leg up, and spent an unfair period of time knuckling the small of her back, giving her kidneys a treat, then continued applying my full weight on her back with the balls of my palm. Her breaths eventually calmed. I turned her back and started from leg up again, avoiding her genitals, knowing how sensitive it can feel after orgasm.

My massage must have been too soothing because I hear her soft snores. I went out to have a smoke, brushed my teeth again to rid the smell. She felt my movement on the bed and elbowed herself up to hug and kiss me. I put my condom on and wanted to ride her fast and furious to my climax. But oh no, it’s one of those times I just don’t feel it building up. It’s a familiar feeling, not one I am fond of – at times like this, I just could not come. Nevertheless, I pumped missionary, fast and furious at times, slow and withdrawing to the hilt at others, and because my back is quickly tiring, alternated to grind in a clockwise then anti-clockwise motion, feeling the undulating bumps of her slippery vaginal walls. I felt her orgasm building up again. She locked her ankles behind my back, and clasped her hands, at times biting my lips, almost painfully.

When I felt she was ready, I pumped at full speed ahead. When she tightened her lithe body and moaned, this time loud, I faked my own orgasm. I tightened my arsehole muscle, causing my dick to twitch, once, twice …. seven, eight times before collapsing on her.

Because I had to fetch a brother from the airport the next morning, I had set my alarm for 5.30, enough time for a morning nookie. At the first buzz of the alarm I woke, and went out to clear my bladder. Back on the bed, just a quick few licks of her nipples and teasing of her clitoris and my fingers were dripping. I intend to get my rocks off, come hail or snow. I quickly rolled the condom on, slipped in with ease, feeling her incredible tightness and rode her hard. She signaled me she wanted to be on top and managed to without me slipping out. This time she grinded against me and soon I felt that sweet sensation in my shaft. I must have gasped involuntarily because she quickened the pace. Oh yes! and spurted. The Synalis I had swallowed early last evening kept my dick hard even as my climax ebbed. She continued grinding and I remembered hoping she’d climax soon, before I go limp. She did, and collapsed on me.

After a quick shower, we left together in a tuk-tuk, she holding my hand all the way until I dropped her off.

How would I rate her? Well, my criterion are simple. Looks, body and both certainly lived up to my expectation. However the first 2 are nothing without the 3rd – response. I love a responsive woman. Unresponsiveness negates the first 2 attributes, but I wouldn’t go so far to say I'll fuck every butt ugly porkchop who screams and bucks like a bull in a rodeo.

Well this cutie, yes, I’m sure I’ll RTF. She’s one of my better lay. And I’m sure she would learn to include fellatio in her repertoire soon enough to work herself up the ladder.

Faidenk

23-01-2011, 02:24 PM

The female psyche is close to impossible to fathom. You guys notice the shopping habits of your GF/wife's? They would try on different sizes of a dress they like, run through the seams and other details, then finally decides not to buy because 'the color is not right'. Wouldn't that be the first thing to look out for before even trying it on? Sheesssh!

Now, take for instance Ana, the cutie I mentioned in the previous post. Well, I went to the bar she worked in again with a few brothers in tow. She wasn't there so I called her on her mobile. She told me to wait a while and she'll be there shortly, 'Phram na ti' 5 minutes. 15 minutes later she called again, 'Sam to' sorry, please wait a little more longer.

We as punters understand the situation these girls are in. She could be servicing a customer and who are we to stand in their way? Where I come from, she's someone I laid yesterday and, well, a good lay. Tonight I needed a place to bring my brothers to have some fun, and this bar is as good as any. Of course I wanted to see her again too.

The brothers had picked their lady companions and fooling around. Nobody came to keep me company although there were a few available. It's as though I am already 'taken'. A lady friend of hers (I think room or house mate came up to me and said Ana (song sar you, my darling) will be here shortly. I said don't worry about it.

In the meantime, my regular FB called and I arranged for me to meet up at my apartment after the disco where she worked as a captain close. So that's that.

The plan was for the brothers to pick a companion for the night, whether at this bar or another, and we'll all go home slightly pissed, and happy.

When Ana turned up an hour later, she gave me a quick hug and went off. From where I sat, I could see she went to a couple of Asians guys and spent some time with one of them. The body language told me he's probably a regular customer of hers. Don't get me wrong, I am not in the slightest pissed off that I am being deprived of her company. If anything, I felt I am the intruder here. So, this is where I am coming from - we are MEN here, in a lady bar, it would be stupid and juvenile to expect a monopoly to any of these girls here.

In any case, Ana came back once in a while to keep me company, and I appreciate that. I also take care not to display overly affection towards her, maybe to the point I might have appeared cold. In my usually frequented bars, where most patrons know me and I them, I don't restrain myself. Just simple survival skills - offend nobody.

When the brothers were ready to go, I paid the bill and Ana asked me am I barfining her? I said no, half joking I am no longer a young man. She said something in Khmer which I don't understand. Her face turned sour and I told her to get her friend to translate what she said. She repeated what she said and try as I might, I just couldn't figure out what she meant.

Am I under some obligations to take her out tonight? I don't remember even implying to her I will barfine her again today when she left this morning. Or perhaps she had boasted to her other girls I am now her sugar daddy or something stupid like that? These girls working in the bars, well, they are usually under educated and possess of low self esteem, and in this sort of environment, a sugar daddy is a great boost.

Whatever the reasons, we left the bar with her still in a sullen mood. I would have like to know what she meant. Her declination to have it translated for me meant it's something she wouldn't want the other girls to know.

Callous you may call me but I am not ready for such a relationship and all the complexities that come with it, especially if I can't make heads or tails of it.

BlueDragon193

23-01-2011, 06:03 PM

Bro Faidenk,

Nice to see your FR again...Keep it up.:D

Cheers.

jimmycool

24-01-2011, 09:41 AM

Yo Bro Faidenk
Now back in our Bangkok office, and we miss your good company mak mak liao. Thank you for your kind comment on the pool game, I recall our score was a very narrow 2-1 win, so it was a little lucky for me that night.
For the Ana issue, I believe that as she came back to her work place to see you, she thought that you 'owe' her the barfine. She probably mentioned it to her colleagues and when it did not materialize, it disappointed her. It is the same thing for me sometimes in Bangkok, the girls think they own us once we have barfined them previously. For me, I stand my ground against them; we are the customers and we decide who we like and who we barfine, regardless. If they are not happy, bye bye to them.
TJN speaks fondly of you now and is hoping to visit you in PP again soon. And this time, it will be on leisure, so we can chiong all day and night. And of course, we will get all our chiong power from that wonderful Bak Kut Teh and Singapore Chicken Rice that you cook so very well.
Thank you again, Bro Faidenk, for your kind and sincere hospitality. It is deeply appreciated and cherished.
With warm regards from hot & sunny Bangkok, jimmycool.

Faidenk

24-01-2011, 10:19 AM

Yo Bro Faidenk

For the Ana issue, I believe that as she came back to her work place to see you, she thought that you 'owe' her the barfine. She probably mentioned it to her colleagues and when it did not materialize, it disappointed her.

Owe her? Nah, owe her nothing. Normally I would pay the agreed price and a couple $ more to cover her motordop home.

There shouldn't be any barfine since I am not taking her out. And she refused a tip of $5. So, I am really not sure what is on her mind. But, what the heck, I had a good night with her, not looking for any long term relationship (certainly not after this) and shall not dwell too much on this. There's always another one around the corner.

TJN speaks fondly of you now and is hoping to visit you in PP again soon. And this time, it will be on leisure, so we can chiong all day and night. And of course, we will get all our chiong power from that wonderful Bak Kut Teh and Singapore Chicken Rice that you cook so very well.

Looking forward to seeing 2 of you. Really good chionging mates are not easy to find. And I should get a marketing man like you here to publicize the rest. LOL.

Faidenk

24-01-2011, 12:05 PM

In the meantime, my regular FB called and I arranged for me to meet up at my apartment after the disco where she worked as a captain close. So that's that.

After that Ana episode, the brothers went on their way back to the hotel. Back home, I took a shower, watch the news for a couple of minutes before the tiredness set in, the last couple of days chionging is taking its toll on the body. Then I remembered and regretted my FB date. It’s 12.30 and she should be here around 3. I drifted off to a deep sleep.

The mobile rang. Is it 3 already? It seemed like I had just dozed off 5 minutes ago. ‘OK, I’ll down to open the door’.

As usual, the first thing did was to tease me with her tits, rubbing my face between them, and laughed, then went to shower. I bared myself and went under the sheets and dozed off immediately again. Next thing I knew she was on top on me, sucking my tongue. I’ll spare you the gory details.

We are now basking in the afterglow of yet another very mutually satisfactory session. She never fails to fiddle with my now limp dick while resting and I like to play with her short pubic hair. Even after we’ve met up 6 times now, she’s still shy to show me her naked body, always switching off the lights before taking off the towel. Remarkable. I am curious and want to see how her pussy is shaped, it felt supple to the touch, and tight wrapped around my member.

I got up, switched on the bedside lamp. Quickly she pulled the covers up. I laughed and pulled it back down and we engaged in a tug-of-war. ‘I want to see your pussy’. She kept the sheet tightly clutched at her neck. OK, OK, no look, I assured her and started to kiss her neck, and suck her earlobes. It tickled her and she struggled to get away, relaxed her grip. In one swoop, I pulled away the sheet, exposing her nude body. I did not dwell on that, instead I embraced her. I wanted her to feel used to the exposure. I felt myself getting aroused again. I sucked her tits and inched my way down. She did not protest.

Her pussy is now before my eyes in living colors. The pubic hairs are cropped very short, about a tenth of an inch long. I kissed the mound and told her it is sa’at, beautiful, and pet it, like I would a little pussy, errr… pussy cat. Her pussy, from the top down to the bottom is about 2.5 inch, shorter than most of the other pussies I had the pleasure to see. Even spread-eagled like she is now, the clitoris remained almost hidden. For a 26 year-old, her pussy looks remarkably underused. No spots, scars, not even dark edges of the labia that I can see. I spread the lips which opened to reveal a perfectly formed cunt. Still glistening from our session, I was taken aback by the slight movement of the vaginal walls, like oysters just opened. I am also surprised she has put up with my probing so far. We have moved up to another level. I gave the clitoris a lick to reward her, ending my inspection.

I moved back up, kissed her, and asked,’Can I shave you?’ She nod her head. Eeeehaaa!

Suriyothai

25-01-2011, 09:03 PM

Bro Faidenk, I should be posted to Phnom Penh in a year time, can't wait to stay there. Can you advise on cost of new or used car over there.

Faidenk

26-01-2011, 11:24 AM

Bro Faidenk, I should be posted to Phnom Penh in a year time, can't wait to stay there. Can you advise on cost of new or used car over there.

Bro Suri,
You can google for Used Cars Phnom Penh, the listed sites should give you a good indication of the prices here.

Here are some examples:

1997 Honda CRV – USD7000
1997 Toyota 4 Runner – USD 7800
2011 Toyota 4 RunnerSR5 V6 – USD 36,000
1997 Landcruise – USD 14500
2008 Lexus 350 – USD 25000
2011 Camry – USD23.500

Take note of the following when you are buying used cars :

1St: Do not buy a R/H Drive car. Not only is it dangerous but they are all going to be put off the road in the next few months that is why you will find them so cheap.

2nd: If you do buy a car Private or from a dealer make sure that they have all of the paper work with the information about the VIN # etc also make sure all import taxes have been paid, other wise you could finish up having to pay Thousands of Dollars in Import Duty.

3rd: Do Not buy a Vehicle that has been an NGO Vehicle or you will have to pay the Import Duty.

4th: If they don't have all of this paper work the vehicle could be stolen.

A lot of Khmers will just say Its OK just give the cops a few Dollars & everything will be OK (They just want to sell you their car.)

Courtesy of @llo Expats Cambodia

Hope this help. If I am still around, be glad to give you a helping hand. Many people have and I'm just paying it back.

Faidenk

26-01-2011, 06:54 PM

I moved back up, kissed her, and asked,’Can I shave you?’ She nod her head. Eeeehaaa!

Much to my disappointment, she shoo'd me out of the bathroom. She hadn't understood I meant to shave her. *Sigh*.

Back in the bedroom, she needed some urging to unwrapped the towel, and there it was, one of the cutest shaven pussy I have the fortune to set eyes upon. She had turned her head to the side to avoid my eyes. Such modesty, really hard to come by. I heaped praise upon praise on her pussy, caressing and petting it.

Adulations over, I laid besides her. Eventually she volunteered that she was divorced 2 years ago. Her husband works in the government, a pretty well-paid official, that much I understood from her very rudimentary English splattered with a whole lot of Khmer. Seems like he was having a mistress, she found out and that was that. I do admire her gump divorcing him, as he obviously is a good provider, and works to support herself.

As we dwell on her personal life, it was revealed the marriage was match-made by her parents when she was 20. Were you 'original' (term for virgin here) when you 'ka' (married)? I asked. Her shyness has slowly eroded and without without hesitation nodded 'Ba'.

Then I probed deeper, in these 2 years, did you have any boyfriend? She thought for a while and said, yes, a Malaysian. And where is he now? Back in Malaysia. And how long was that ago, 2 months ago. Oh, so you didn't have any sex for 2 months. That earned me a punch on the arm.

So, who is the better lover?

'My husband is a big man, 120 kg, dark-skinned, but has a short dick. I don't enjoy sex with him. Also I am not experienced and doesn't know much about sex'.

I laughed and teased her,' K'neom orb cheah (I don't believe). Your skills' like a pro'. Another punch. 'How about the Malaysian?'

'Better than the husband' she said but quickly added,' but you best. You big'. I laughed again. 'Orb cheah, orb cheah'. The truth be known, I have what anyone would called average, probably just a little short of 6", not the thickest, nor the thinnest. Maybe it's the biggest she's seen. Or maybe she meant the horniest.

Time flies and it's almost 5pm. She needed to go home and change for work. So, I slipped $10 into her purse and bade her farewell.

Faidenk

27-01-2011, 02:01 PM

Hi bro,

I have been reading your posts for the past 5 hours and got to really agree that this is one of the best stuff I have ever read. Having to spend 10mins reading your post allowed me to learn my English better than spending 5 hours reading newspaper or any other sources, seriously.

Pardon me for this stupid question that I am going to ask. I am in my 20's and unfortunately, been a teenage in which we are exceptionally bunch of ‘sexual hunger' beast who at the same time are damn “Kia Si”. Up till now, I have had only 1 FL, unfortunately, after which, I spend most of my energy worrying for the next 3 months.

What gave you the courage to have sex with all these unknown sexual history ladies? I know that with adequate protection, we can prevent HIV… However, there are some STD cant be prevent by using condoms. I am really afraid of getting STD but yet I want to chiong. Ya, I know about the saying that goes “want chiong don’t scare, scare don’t chiong”. Hence, I would like to seek advice from you to find this courage. And ya, I have been in SBF for about 3 years reading all these stuff without having to do it.

I really wish I can find this courage to realise the “sexual hunger” in me. I hope maybe you can advise me with your experience.
Thanks BRO!

Cheers,
Xiaomeng12345

This bro’s PM has me intrigued. I've never been asked this before and I honestly have never given it much thought - where, given all the dangers of STDs that could be spread by non-coital sex, do I find the 'courage' to have sex with all these unknown sexual history ladies?

When I am overwhelmed with the urge, it is not ‘courage’ that drives me to seek fulfillment. It is a powerful primal hunger that demands satisfaction. It lingers around until fulfilled, and in this mode all else is secondary, all thoughts of dangers are put away to the back of our minds.

We are assured that the use of condoms is enough protection for penile sex, unless it breaks during the act.

But what about BBBJ, or deep kissing? The partner might have just blown someone who has gonorrhea just half an hour ago, or already have the HIV virus in her bloodstream but within the ‘non-detection’ window. I googled and this bit of information came up - studies have proven that In a test tube, saliva stops HIV from causing infection. Scientists think a part of saliva called glycoprotein causes HIV to form clumps that cannot cause infection. But exactly how this works is still being studied. It is known for a long time that HIV isn’t passed along by saliva (as in "casual contact" from sneezing or kissing (Source : Georgan Gregg, M.Ed. http://loveandhealth.worldgroups.com/Article.cfm?Topic=12&SubTopic=6&Article=245).

Now you know why animals lick their wounds, it promotes the healing process. Now I know when I’m being blown, it is doubly reassuring to know I’m protected with a coat of antiseptic.

So, Bro Xiameng12345, go forth and fuck. As long as you remain aware of the dangers and take adequate steps to protect yourself, there is, while not 100% safe, only a slight chance you’ll catch anything. As a further precaution, try not to go down on a prostitute, or sucking her tongue, or anything that involves an exchange of bodily fluids.

The only alternative, and a poor cousin at that, is to use your hand.

jimmycool

28-01-2011, 12:27 PM

crazyops

28-01-2011, 04:15 PM

seems like there isn't much happenings in siem reap. Will be going there next month. PP seems like a more happening place.

Faidenk

28-01-2011, 08:09 PM

seems like there isn't much happenings in siem reap. Will be going there next month. PP seems like a more happening place.

For a tourist town, SR is surprising, in the words of my monger friend, 'dead'. I've been there for a day trip so I can't comment on the scene but if my friend is anything to go by, it's in a state of comatose.

happy33

29-01-2011, 02:27 AM

Happened to stumble into this thread somewhat by accident. A what an interesting thread.
Long time never go there already.
Must go to PP to meet up with you soon for a tour of that street 136 and also try your bak kut teh.
Can PM me the name of your restaurant so that i can recommend some friend who visit there often but dont know where to go for good local food.

Kong Hee Fatt Choy.

jvdairlie

29-01-2011, 09:23 AM

Visiting PP in October for a week and I'd love to checkout the restaurant too. Could you please PM me the address.

Faidenk

29-01-2011, 10:52 AM

Visiting PP in October for a week and I'd love to checkout the restaurant too. Could you please PM me the address.

Happened to stumble into this thread somewhat by accident. A what an interesting thread.
Long time never go there already.
Must go to PP to meet up with you soon for a tour of that street 136 and also try your bak kut teh.
Can PM me the name of your restaurant so that i can recommend some friend who visit there often but dont know where to go for good local food.

Kong Hee Fatt Choy.

Bros,
You are welcome to PP, I'll do what I always do, meet people, make friends, show you the place. It's not something I go out of my way, so it's no big deal.

PM me when you come and I'll tell you the way to the restaurant. I am glad some bros enjoy my BKT and other stuff but if you have gone through the entire thread, I try my best not to use this forum as a advertising platform. Some bros, especially bro Jimmycool, rave about it. Frankly I think it is because he has been deprived of SG food for a long time, he working in Bangkok and all that.

Faidenk

29-01-2011, 11:08 AM

Yo Bro Faidenk
Greetings from hot & sunny Bangkok. I am still loyal to your thread and reading your wonderfully narrated stories. And I checked that the AirAsia return airfare from Bangkok to Phnom Penh is THB 6100. Wow, TG is THB 10,500 and Air Asia is still above THB 6000. Airlines will be rich in no time.
Regardless, I am saving up and another Bro in Bangkok will come with me to visit you in PP. Hope to see you soon Bro Faidenk.
With warm regards always from jimmycool.

Yo bro,
I think you need to wait until CNY is over before the prices go south. I was thinking of visiting you in BKK during CNY, but will be busy doing some renovations to the restaurant and equipping it for selling Teochew muay for the night birds (until 3am).

The next time you come, I'll put you up in a very decent hotel near Phsa Thmey, about 5 mins walk from my rest, for about $18/night. The infamous brothels around Phsa Thmey are open again and they're not more than 20m away from the hotel entrance, $10 for a ST on the premise, maybe a little more to bring back to the room.

Also, I just found out a fish tank massage parlor has open 2 months ago with about (at least) 50 girls, half Cambodians and the other Viet. Some good lookers there when I popped in to have a look yesterday. $25 for a ST.

jimmycool

31-01-2011, 05:18 PM

Bros,
I try my best not to use this forum as a advertising platform. Some bros, especially bro Jimmycool, rave about it. Frankly I think it is because he has been deprived of SG food for a long time, he working in Bangkok and all that.

Yo Bro Faidenk, so humble of you. Your BKT is solid and tok-kong, even my Thai friend agrees with me. Deprived or not, I am your permanent BKT supporter. And when we get to PP again, we shall look to you to satisfy our 'other' deprived areas. Warm regards from hot Bangkok, jimmycool.

jimmycool

31-01-2011, 05:25 PM

Yo bro,
I think you need to wait until CNY is over before the prices go south. I was thinking of visiting you in BKK during CNY, but will be busy doing some renovations to the restaurant and equipping it for selling Teochew muay for the night birds (until 3am).

The next time you come, I'll put you up in a very decent hotel near Phsa Thmey, about 5 mins walk from my rest, for about $18/night. The infamous brothels around Phsa Thmey are open again and they're not more than 20m away from the hotel entrance, $10 for a ST on the premise, maybe a little more to bring back to the room.

Also, I just found out a fish tank massage parlor has open 2 months ago with about (at least) 50 girls, half Cambodians and the other Viet. Some good lookers there when I popped in to have a look yesterday. $25 for a ST.

Wah say, Bro Faidenk, you are the man! Got Teochew Muay coming soon, yippee! What a coincidence, the Bangkok Bro (Singapore expat) I am bringing to PP loves this dish mak mak, so he will also be in a for a treat.

Wow, ST for $10; so if we bring $50, we collapse from STs, haha. Maybe tah-pow better. Or go two times to fish tank massage also can :)

Bro Faidenk, the superb way you write, the Tourism Ministry of Cambodia must employ you as Associate Chief Editor. I am sure you will bring a lot more visitors to PP. Look forward to our next round with you in PP.
Best personal regards from jimmycool.

Faidenk

01-02-2011, 01:18 PM

Bro, looking for to your visit again.

BTW, does anybody have any info for any nice place by the beach just after the Cambodian/Thai border on the Thai side?

I was thinking of a short 2 nights getaway during the CNY for much needed rest. No need to be swarming with Thai chicks or anything like that, altho it would be good. Was thinking of bringing my Khmer FB along but it would depends if she can get away during the holidays. Sun, good and cheap seafood, beer, what more can anyone ask for. Besides girls, girls and more girls.

Have spent much time googling for such info but all it has are reports of immigration scamming travelers for inflated visa fees. So, any info would be much appreciated.

Faidenk

02-02-2011, 02:52 PM

Zaryl

05-02-2011, 03:28 AM

Also, I just found out a fish tank massage parlor has open 2 months ago with about (at least) 50 girls, half Cambodians and the other Viet.

finally there is a replacement for 扬州 fish tank massage which has been closed since last year April.

risingeast

05-02-2011, 02:03 PM

Hi Bro Faidenk ! Enjoy reading your posts. Can I look you up when in PP?

asylum javelin

06-02-2011, 10:04 AM

It looks like not only the ethnic Chinese, ethnic Viets and the expat Chinese are celebrating in PP. The Cambos are also getting into the act. Everywhere I go, they are wishing me Kong Xi Fatt Cai with hand outstretched. Even a traffic cop I walked passed by. Hahaha

Just came across your post on PP. If checked your post much earlier before my trip to PP would have PM you for some nice place for massage and food. Nice log of event you had in this thread. Will PM you before my next trip.

My trip was quite rush the last time so R&R confined within PP Hotel KTV only.

AJ

Faidenk

06-02-2011, 12:51 PM

Hi Bro Faidenk ! Enjoy reading your posts. Can I look you up when in PP?

I haven't turned anyone down yet and there's no reason to start with you. PM me when the time comes, bro. Happy CNY

Just came across your post on PP. If checked your post much earlier before my trip to PP would have PM you for some nice place for massage and food. Nice log of event you had in this thread. Will PM you before my next trip.

My trip was quite rush the last time so R&R confined within PP Hotel KTV only.

PP Hotel KTV? A Samster brought 3 PRCs from there up to Vientiane a few months ago, and I tagged along. No, I didn't get to sample any one of them but I met a wonderful girl (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=218299&highlight=vientiane+encounter).

Faidenk

06-02-2011, 04:06 PM

I came back on a 2 day nothing-to-report-about trip to a nice and small resort by a pristine beach on the coast just 30 or so km from Had Lek, just across the Cambodian-Thai border. It was a 8 hr bus ride which should have taken 6, delayed by tire problem and the constant stopping to drop off and pick up passengers along the way back. It also cost $6 more because it was CNY, the thieves!

I had wanted to go to Vietnam to sample their seafood but the Vietnamese were also celebrating Tet. I heard the seafood their is excellent, not only cheap but also for their range and variety.

Anyway, this is not a post of the trip but you can appreciate I was feeling more than pooped after that exhausting bus ride. We reached the PP bus terminus at 8, had a quick bite, whereupon one of my travelling companion declared it's time for a beer. Haven't we had enough throughout the trip? The other companion said yes, but not without girls. So I was outnumbered.

I had thought about bringing my Cambodian FB along but she has to go back to her province for the day we left and even if she can, I would only make the 2 miserable and lastly, I would like to sample some Thai fares. As it turned out, there was none to be had and thereby the declaration.

With our packs in tow, we tuk-tuk our way to St 104. My regular (well, I had her once, Ana, mentioned in previous posts) wasn't there but I was assured she'd be there in minutes. Right.

One of the buddies had his hands on a lady's tits before the drinks arrived and they remained there for the rest of the evening. I felt the exhaustion bearing down on me and could not stop yawning. The other buddy found himself attached to a jovial one and she kept the party going with her lewd jokes, but my buddy had his eyes trained on another but was also feeling a bit under and not going to bring anyone back.

Well. just to be able to go home, I decided to barfine Ana when she arrives. She did about an hour later. At 10 we decided to call it a day.

Obviously she was in a splendid mood for sex, she was playful and frisky, maybe being the second time she grace my bed, familiarity had set in. I went through my SOP and she came with my oral ministrations and once again during which I came too.

I fell into a deep sleep and woke up this morning, surprised to see her still besides me. The last time she had left after the deed. I went to do my biz and shower. Fresh and alert I went back to the bedroom and wanted to jump her again. She went to shower after me and I went out to watch some TV.

By the time I got back, she was already all dressed up, ready to go. I played around and tried to get her but she have to go. She had no intention to stay overnight but felt too tired to leave. Ah well, I slipped $30 and a couple of dollars more into her bag and saw her out.

Would I jump her again? Maybe, but she had better improve her performance. My FB beats her in all departments except for her youth (the FB is 26 and Ana is 21). The FB blows, shaves, is adventurous and doesn't complain of anything, when she sees pics of strange girls in my phone and even when I forgot the usual $10 for her tuk-tuk. Only problem is she comes to my place at such an ungodly hour like 3 in the morning. If only I could just be satisfied with a contented pussy... *sigh*

hotdick69

09-02-2011, 10:47 AM

Faidenk

09-02-2011, 01:16 PM

"clap clap clap clap".... i really love your post Bro Faidenk..... its reminds me of my schooling days when i read about Tom Sawyer adventures.... always wanting to read more.... Kudos to u for taking your time to do these write up:D

If you really, really, go into my posts, what will strike you is that nothing I have posted so far is earth-shaking, they're all just observations of mundane everyday stuff. It offers an outlet for the writer wannabe in me, although I know I'll never make the grade but what the hell, I get a kick out of it, and that's the important thing. I started posting in the Delphi forum round about 1999 when I was posted to Beijing and once in a long long while I reread them to reminisce, and sometimes I go, Fucks, did I really do that?

Memories fade fast, so this is also a diary of sorts, only difference the public in general gets to share them.

jvdairlie

12-02-2011, 03:23 PM

Popiar

12-02-2011, 06:00 PM

hi anyone have nice ger in PP can speak english lah
can intro me hihi:)

Faidenk

12-02-2011, 07:30 PM

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Looking for 'Fish Bowl' type place in Phnom Penh - during daytime. Anyone know of such places?? Does Paris Hotel still have one??

Paris Hotel indeed has one. On a recce trip I saw at least 50 girls, maybe half Viet and the other half Cambodians, at least 20 bonkable, but what the fuck do I know.

I spoke to the boss, a local Teochew and he said it has already been in biz for about 2 months. I venture there could be a chance more such establishments could be opened.

The price is $25, $5 going to the establishment and the $20 goes to the girls for their services.

Paris is about 1 km west of Phsa Thmey (Central Market) on Kampuchea Krom Blvd, directly across the road from Nanjing Snooker.

I did not partake of the services as my FB and an occasional fling keeps me pretty 'occupied'.

Faidenk

13-02-2011, 03:26 PM

In a much earlier post, I had ventured a couple of words on the subject of a ladyboy. See pic below.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Cambo1/LBY.jpg

Just in the event readers are suspect of my renewed interest on this subject, I assure you my sexual inclination remains straight as an arrow.

A string of events occurred in a short period of 2 weeks which had me intrigued. A brother had called me one evening and said excitedly he found a gem in a bar I sometimes frequent. Fair, tall and beautiful were his words. I scratched my head and only the ladyboy came to mind. Not being there, I issued him a warning that the gem he mentioned could be a ladyboy. Nevertheless, the deal was done and so was the deed. I inquired the next morning and expected to be cursed at for not giving a sterner warning, but no, he confirmed ‘she’ was a ladyboy and proceeded to wax praise on ‘her’ performance. So, all’s ended well.

2 days ago, at one of the bars on Street 136, another drinking kaki brought a ladyboy home. I met him a while ago and I asked of the performance. He revealed he had had ‘her’ before, implying that obviously it must have been good enough for an encore, stupid!

So, my question is, what would prompt a normally heterosexual male to knowingly procure the services of a former man, notwithstanding of the fact the other girls in the bar pale in comparison?

A ladyboy virgin, I had not the opportunity nor the yearning to cross that line, the real ladies are keeping me busy enough. I imagine it’s just like my first bite of balut, those boiled eggs with a half-formed duck embryo, once you get past the visual it actually taste, well, not too bad. I have had fried crickets, these are easy, they’re crispy, taste like fried shrimps; as well as roasted witchetty grubs (delicious, like peanut butter), fried beetle (only once and the taste didn’t agree with me, probably because I did not know you were suppose to discard the wings) but I draw the line at the tarantulas but I heard they are the best of the insect cuisine.

So I suppose having a ladyboy is like having that first bite of a crispy insect, once you can shove the reality this delectable creature in front of you is a man and really focus on her silicon-enhanced boobs and artificially reconstructed cunt, you might actually enjoy the experience. I heard that nobody, and nobody gives head like a ladyboy.

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Last night I was invited to a birthday party. I was 1 of 3 barangs invited, the2 Aussies were the birthday boy’s business partners and I felt honored. At 8pm we boarded a 20m long boat with an upper deck. The gentle evening breeze was a welcome relief from the day’s heat.

Among the 20 guests or so, there were 7 girls. 2 in particular were gorgeous. I knew one but she was already spoken for, the other was the birthday boy’s squeeze. Well, the other girls, to be fair, were not dogs but nothing I want to get into trouble for. After some not-so-innocent probing and having assessed I am not available, their interests turn to the karaoke system on the lower deck.

The host had brought enough beers to capsize the boat, on top of my gift of a bottle of JW Black, there were bottles of gin, Chivas and a McCallan. We were served beef on skewers, cockles, steaks which one of the crew BBQ’ed on a charcoal stove, as well as salad (pickled julienne radish).

The boat left its mooring on the Tonle Sap river and joined the Mekong, then slowly, very slowly made its way back, all in 2 hours.

The cost? $13 an hour. Great value. If I had an occasion to celebrate I think I’d go this way too.

leaseoflife

14-02-2011, 01:37 AM

What a coincidence, the Bangkok Bro (Singapore expat) I am bringing to PP loves this dish mak mak, so he will also be in a for a treat.

Bro JC, do I know this BKK bro that you are bringing to PP?? :D Let me know if you guys are going. Wanna tag along... running out of excuses for visas to BKK. So, a change in destination may do the trick :D Will be an eye-opener too!

BTW, will be heading to BKK late March. Planning to go Patts. U free to go along?

softplush

14-02-2011, 02:21 AM

Faidenk

14-02-2011, 12:35 PM

bro.. where is ur BKT located or the name of the shop?.. will be at PP n friday for a 1 day trip.. probably can ask my partners there to bring me eat BKT.. would enjoy to make new friend like you that love to share..
thanks..

You and your bros are always welcome, we need any biz we can get. I am not and have never been a chef at any establishment but have always been mucking around the kitchen for as long as I can remember, always trying to 'reverse engineer' dishes I tried and liked, as well as talking to like-minded people to pick up tips and recipes.

Well, cooks and writers are the biggest attention whores I know, other than artistes, and nothing, absolutely nothing, pleases them more than to have people enjoy their food and works. And I am no exception, not that I cannot take constructive criticisms.

I will send you the details by PM, I hope you can appreciate this is not the most ideal platform for advertising my biz, also there's a need for some form of privacy.

Looking forward to meeting you guys.

jimmycool

17-02-2011, 06:25 AM

Yo Bro LeaseofLife
Long time no see, ni how ma? Yes, this BKK Bro is none other than our Tai Loh ML, aka Prince of Patts. And yes of course, you are most welcome to join our PP trip once we confirm. It will be great to have your joyful nature and personality brighten up our trip. And you can meet Bro Faidenk too, another great guy to be with and we go eat super tasty BKT in his restaurant.
Yes please, allow me to join you for Patts trip and chiong together. We love Patts mak mak.

Bro JC, do I know this BKK bro that you are bringing to PP?? :D Let me know if you guys are going. Wanna tag along... running out of excuses for visas to BKK. So, a change in destination may do the trick :D Will be an eye-opener too!

BTW, will be heading to BKK late March. Planning to go Patts. U free to go along?

Faidenk

17-02-2011, 08:22 PM

Yo Bro LeaseofLife
Long time no see, ni how ma? Yes, this BKK Bro is none other than our Tai Loh ML, aka Prince of Patts. And yes of course, you are most welcome to join our PP trip once we confirm. It will be great to have your joyful nature and personality brighten up our trip. And you can meet Bro Faidenk too, another great guy to be with and we go eat super tasty BKT in his restaurant.
Yes please, allow me to join you for Patts trip and chiong together. We love Patts mak mak.

Bro Jimmy, you are putting me too high up on the platform, very ugly when I fall. Looking forward to meeting you again.

Faidenk

17-02-2011, 08:28 PM

hi anyone have nice ger in PP can speak english lah
can intro me hihi:)

I know a couple who can speak excellent English, not WLs. One is pretty but rather young, the other about 27, and looking for a man. I avoid both as I am not looking for a relationship, just some prolonged ONS, you know what I mean.

If you have the time and patience, there are several girls at Street 136 bar cluster who speak passable English, but the problem will be your fancy will be caught by some girls who speak not a word of English. And you don't give a fuck.

Faidenk

19-02-2011, 08:25 PM

I just came back from Nanjing Snooker, just across the road from Paris Hotel, which I reported in a previous post of a fish bowl massage.

I play snooker there almost every weekend and had made friends with several local Chinese. It's also my favorite chillout joint away from the intense afternoon heat. So you ask, why am I wasting bandwidth talking about a snooker parlor?

Because this parlor has possibly the most proportion of stunning markers who also double as companions when you book the 2 karaoke rooms upstairs. I will try to take some pics of some of the girls but don't hold your breath.

Ah Chai, the boss, is in his mid-30's. The family also owns the adjacent Nanjing Hotel and which is run by a brother. Nanjing snooker used to be a casino until Hun Sen shut down all casinos within a 200 km radius of Phnom Penh in 1999 after a spat of kidnappings of prominent Chinese gamblers, with the exception of Nagaworld. Since then the family converted the site to a snooker hall.

At $4 and $5 an hour, the place is patronized mainly by well-to-do Cambodians, their scions and even high level government officials. Every other weekend or so a group of military generals come in with their bottles of special edition McCallans, foie gras or roast pigs and enjoy the whole afternoon in the VIP rooms. Most of the times we (another SG bro) and myself gets invited to join in. The room charge is waived if you consumed at least a carton of beer or a bottle of spirit, not sure about wine though.

Let's get back to the lady markers. Most of them are no older than 23, maybe 1 or 2 older but not by much. I have asked an old timer the awkward question and he said that yes, it's highly possible some of the girls succumb to the lure of a month's salary earned in a hurry, but nothing is set in stone nor blatant like the bars and KTVs. Some of the girls do and some don't. I've gone out with a 22 year-old but decide not to up her because she was looking for something a little more permanent than a 3M sticky pad.

Most times we tip the marker $3 to $5 after the game. I've seen the local bigwigs tipping $20 but then it's always when they're drunk, LOL.

Ah Chai has just recently renovated the 2 KTV rooms on the second floor, replaced the aging sound systems, a projector screen in the bigger room and a flat screen in the other. The rooms cost $5 an hour, drinks are quite cheap. Angkor in cans is $1.50, Tsingtao Gold $1.80 and Heineken $2. JW Black is $40 or $45 for a liter bottle.

When we drink, beer or whiskey or wine, he always assign a girl just to pour our drinks in addition to the marker, who we tip maybe $3 or $5. Note it's not compulsory but what are we gentlemen to do?

Why am I writing about it? Well, it's an alternative to the KTVs. In fact, I rate above the usual KTVs for its relaxed and friendly atmosphere, the attractive and playful girls.

Oh, just a disclaimer - no share in Nanjing although I love to have, and also I've been to a number of snooker halls before I stumbled into NJ.

asylum javelin

20-02-2011, 11:33 AM

I just came back from Nanjing Snooker, just across the road from Paris Hotel, which I reported in a previous post of a fish bowl massage.

Hi Faidenk

Thanks for the address of Paris Hotel MP. Went there and had number 82, USD5 for massage and FJ for USD30. Did not manage to nego to USD20. Overall very nice experience. Quite plenty of girls in pink and blue in the fish tank minus the glass panel....:D Check until eyes also blurr....kakaka

Was quite a rush trip so did not contact you for a drink. Will be there int march and will catch up with you.

cheers....AJ

Faidenk

20-02-2011, 01:02 PM

Hi Faidenk

Thanks for the address of Paris Hotel MP. Went there and had number 82, USD5 for massage and FJ for USD30. Did not manage to nego to USD20. Overall very nice experience. Quite plenty of girls in pink and blue in the fish tank minus the glass panel....:D Check until eyes also blurr....kakaka

Was quite a rush trip so did not contact you for a drink. Will be there int march and will catch up with you.

cheers....AJ

Wow, price went up $5 in just 2 weeks?

The $20 was quoted by the, I assumed, boss. And no, I did not negotiate. Maybe you look too 'foreign' LOL. As it was a 'very nice experience' for you, it's a happy ending.

Cheers

leaseoflife

20-02-2011, 11:37 PM

Yo Bro LeaseofLife
Long time no see, ni how ma? Yes, this BKK Bro is none other than our Tai Loh ML, aka Prince of Patts. And yes of course, you are most welcome to join our PP trip once we confirm. It will be great to have your joyful nature and personality brighten up our trip. And you can meet Bro Faidenk too, another great guy to be with and we go eat super tasty BKT in his restaurant.
Yes please, allow me to join you for Patts trip and chiong together. We love Patts mak mak.

Haha.. will look forward to the PP trip once confirmed. And since everyone's talking about the BKT at Bro Faidenk's place... guess is DIE DIE must try. :D

Ok, will get Bro ML to liaise with you on the Patt's trip. I will be in LOS from 25-27th Feb. So, likely to head for Patts on 26th.

jimmycool

21-02-2011, 07:20 AM

Faidenk

21-02-2011, 12:31 PM

Yes Bro, 26 Feb is Saturday, great timing. Yes, please let me know if confirmed. It will be a great party for all three of us, yippee. Regards from jimmycool.

Ok, will get Bro ML to liaise with you on the Patt's trip. I will be in LOS from 25-27th Feb. So, likely to head for Patts on 26th.

Uh-oh! VIPs coming, busy, busy...

Have to arrange for Director of Airport Services to greet, lion dance on the tarmac, traffic police escorts, welcome banners prominently displayed along the way to the hotel, children waving mini-flags. Worse, have to source and pre-book all the tok-kong girls, at least a ration of 3 srey(s) to 1 phroh, so the VIPs have a choice or take all 3. Audience with HS, state dinner. Too much to do....

Tell you what, can I just buy you lunch and forget about all the hoohah? This way, the srey(s) won't feel intimidated and you guys can chiong incognito.

softplush

21-02-2011, 09:48 PM

Faidenk

22-02-2011, 03:15 PM

hey bro.. thank for your nice food.. i just drop by without informing as i was telling u coming for dinner.. lucky you around and my partners seems to be your regular also..
food was nice.. just that not able to meet u at nite.. was on business the whole day till nice time was at their new disco and PP KTV..
just to check with you ah.. how much is the gers there charge for overnight? local ger, vietnam ger and china ger.. wad is the difference ah? everytime i did not get to pay anything at all coz they tok in their language and settle all the payment without me knowing..

No problem, you don't need reservations, like Anthony Bourdain.

PP KTV - I assume you mean Phnom Penh Hotel KTV, the last time I was there we were with some VVIPs from Laos. They took 3 PRCs and quoted were $200 for the night which they paid without blinking an eye. But this could have been inflated since they were drinking and partying like its free.

softplush

24-02-2011, 12:41 AM

jimmycool

24-02-2011, 12:14 PM

Yo Bro Faidenk
Haha, so naughty of you to write like that, and talk about the 3 sreys to 1 phroh, mmmmm, make our mouths water liao. No VIP lah, only good friends coming to see you and enjoying together with you and thank you always for your generosity in showing us around. Hope it will be very soon.
With warm regards from cloudy Bangkok, jimmycool.

Uh-oh! VIPs coming, busy, busy...

Have to arrange for Director of Airport Services to greet, lion dance on the tarmac, traffic police escorts, welcome banners prominently displayed along the way to the hotel, children waving mini-flags. Worse, have to source and pre-book all the tok-kong girls, at least a ration of 3 srey(s) to 1 phroh, so the VIPs have a choice or take all 3. Audience with HS, state dinner. Too much to do....

Tell you what, can I just buy you lunch and forget about all the hoohah? This way, the srey(s) won't feel intimidated and you guys can chiong incognito.

Faidenk

24-02-2011, 12:42 PM

that is quite alot $200..ut i nv tk the chinese.. always tried the local. haha..
bt the problem is language whole night tok less than 3 sentence.. cannt understand at all.. body language works internationally though.
bro might want to visit my new store there at sihanouk bldv.. i would say its a pretty nice store at night.. let me know wad u think k.. then i can improve in the next store if possible.. cheers and happy partying bro.

A couple of bros who were here this week went to Paris Hotel to try it out but came away empty-handed and disappointed. They went around 10+ and it could be the reason, that's the peak hour and could be all the better girls are at work. I went on my inspection round at around 4pm and definitely saw around 40+ girls on display and there were quite a few working around or WIP.

Bro, the little time I have with you, forgot to ask details of your store. Maybe you can provide us with address, what biz and so on. Will definitely go support.

Faidenk

24-02-2011, 12:52 PM

Yo Bro Faidenk
Haha, so naughty of you to write like that, and talk about the 3 sreys to 1 phroh, mmmmm, make our mouths water liao. No VIP lah, only good friends coming to see you and enjoying together with you and thank you always for your generosity in showing us around. Hope it will be very soon.
With warm regards from cloudy Bangkok, jimmycool.

5555555!

If you do 3 sreys, I atke my hat off. Only once in my life did I do it, and even then that was on the clandestine - screwing my then GF and using my head to prevent her from seeing what my finger was doing to her friend 'sleeping' on the same bed. Maybe will write something on that.

Looking forward to seeing you again.

Glock

24-02-2011, 05:04 PM

My FB beats her in all departments except for her youth (the FB is 26 and Ana is 21). The FB blows, shaves, is adventurous and doesn't complain of anything

that is probably WHY she is better in all departments

If only I could just be satisfied with a contented pussy... *sigh*

no man can ever be contented with any single pussy

the ones who say they are either lying to you or lying to themselves

Faidenk

24-02-2011, 06:22 PM

that is probably WHY she is better in all departments

Now, she had even taken it upon herself to sweeping and moping the floor of our tiny 80 sq.m apartment. Granted it is small and doesn't take much effort to do, still she must be commended. The 2 of us (me and buddy share the apt) has so far did the chore at the most 4 times since we moved in in September last year and yes, we are pigs. Hmmm.... how to get her to do my ironing as well....

Sometimes I really wonder what is it she sees in me. I don't give her a stipend for her services, only $10 disguised as her tuk-tuk fare home. I don't buy her expensive dinners although once in a while I go see her at the disco where she works as a captain so she has at least some bragging rights. I have not yet buy her any gifts but intend to comes her birthday. I like to do more but do not want her to be too dependent on me, it makes the inevitable parting that much more difficult when it comes.

Last night she upped the ante by cleaning up my cum by licking me bone dry. We have by the 3rd rendezvous gone raw, it so happened I ran out of condoms and has since practiced the withdrawal method and cumming on her abdomen. I don't think my sperm count is high enough to impregnate but who knows, in any case I am not ready to be a new daddy.

The funny thing is, she is still shy to expose her pussy to me. I told her she has one of the most, OK, more, beautiful pussy I have seen. Now totally shaven, small, very fleshy mons, no dark lips that I can see in the ambient-lit room, and only just that little button of a clitoris peeking out. Yet she shies away from showing me when the room is lit. 2 months into the relationship, she has progress to walking around the room with tits bared, and then not always.

Maybe that's what so charming about her.

no man can ever be contented with any single pussy

Truer words have never been said. Move over, Confucius.

the ones who say they are either lying to you or lying to themselves

I have known many born-again <whatever religion> friends who were just short of fanatical who has succumbed to the temptations of the flesh and are now happier than ever before. Those who have not, I salute them but they know not what they're missing.

Rawster

24-02-2011, 10:23 PM

My dear bros, kena biz trip to PP next month and staying at Naga ... any action there to recommend?

sixthghost

25-02-2011, 02:44 AM

Faidenk

25-02-2011, 11:18 AM

Hi bro Faidenk,

I coincidently stumbled on to your thread and I found your writing on your daily life and 'nightlife' very interesting. But what I found most interesting is not the bonk part (but still this make your story interesting kekekeke :p), but the mundane details of your daily life. I like to live life at a slower pace.

Yes, I concur with that, sometimes mundane stuff gives a reader a sense of 'bring there'. I've read and enjoy many a travelogues and probably too many X-rated stories, especially here in SBY and I enjoy both. I am at a position where an amalgamation of the 2 would not be out of place. Each complements the other for a better read. I hope I have achieve that.

If I ever got a chance to visit PP, I would pay a visit to your restaurant and the great writer, maybe you could bring me around the hunting scene.

Great writer? 5555. Just mucking around in my free time, just like I muck around in the kitchen. And yup, if ever you are in PP, feel free to call me.

Faidenk

25-02-2011, 01:09 PM

Hi Bro Faidenk ! Enjoy reading your posts. Can I look you up when in PP?

No problem, give me a call when you're here. Will PM you my mobile.

Faidenk

28-02-2011, 10:06 PM

To residents and visitors of Phnom Penh, this is quite a common occurrence, motorcyclists playing cat and mouse with the men in brown.

The traffic policemen stationed themselves at major hotspots, mainly major road junctions, on the lookout for traffic offenders, like motorists who fail to wear helmets, failing to stop at traffic lights, overloading, having headlights on during the day, going against the flow of traffic, no valid license, the list goes on…

Alerted by a policeman by walkie-talkie, probably in mufti, another team further down the road apprehends the culprits. A team member stands in the middle of the road against the oncoming traffic and points to the culprit to slow down, while the other members waiting at the side are the negotiation and revenue collection team. This is where the fun starts. The culprit, on seeing himself being fingered, makes a U-turn, against the flow of traffic. Sometimes it results in an accident but most time, he gets away with the policeman standing there looking dumber than he looks.
Of course a team member could get on his bike to pursue but is it worth it for a 2,000 riel (USD 0.50) bribe, and risks the chance of getting sued if the motorist(s) are hurt? Not to mention the paperwork.

I’ve seen this at least a dozen times since I got here 6 months ago.

On the subject of traffic in Phnom Penh, and here I assume motorists in Cambodia drive the same way, I append an observation made by a member of the Stickman forum of the driving habits of the Thais which I find most pertinent to the Cambodians'.

•cut you off by passing then turning immediately into a driveway.

•merge into your lane – squeeze your position – a favourite – he will come out of a side street and once he has established forward motion in your direction then he'll just keep squeezing into your lane.

•come out of a side street or driveway on his motosy and not even glance at approaching traffic on his right.

•cut across you when you are proceeding straight on at an intersection (I'm referring to the Thai habit of doing a right hand turn in front of oncoming traffic rather than waiting till after it has passed – I wonder what the road rules say on that subject).

•stop anywhere on the road and bang on the hazard lights (which absolves him from all responsibility for holding up the traffic).

•stop anywhere and not do anything.

•stop anywhere, jump out of the car and cross the road.

•emerge from a driveway and accelerate so slowly that traffic approaching from behind has to brake hard.

•talk on the phone, even motorcyclists. Haven't they heard of hands-free sets?

•drive a bus full of people and compose then send an SMS (I have seen this while sitting in the front seat of a bus, didn't know what the speed was 'cos of the 5 instruments on the dash only one worked – the fuel gauge and the glass on the large dead speedo was broken).

•when stopped at a major intersection on his motosy - start a phone conversation, light a fag and proceed across the stream of traffic 'cos he's turning right.

•carry the whole family on the motosy - all 4 kids, the youngest clutched against the left hip with the left arm so it's only possible to have the right hand on the handlebar (and let's have them all in light clothes and flip flops).

•(one of my favourites) drive along the wrong side of the road at speed, usually on his motosy but sometimes in his car!

•ride his motosy without a helmet.

•ride his motosy with a helmet but the straps flapping in the breeze (I've seen cops do this).

•when turning right cut the corner so tightly that if I'm turning left at the same time I have to dismount mid corner and get off the bitumen.

•sink more than a few cold ones and away we go.

•take off at a lights-controlled intersection and be across the intersection before 'his' lights turn green.

•block the footpath by driving onto it and parking.

I’ve actually considered buying myself a small Honda Dream to get around, costing about $400, but abandon the idea after seeing a couple of traffic accidents and the vulnerability of the motorist, and the fact that I don’t really travel a lot except to commute to work and back, and sometimes to join the lads for a couple of beers (in which case I have to leave the bike somewhere).

Glock

01-03-2011, 04:58 PM

unless it is too expensive to hire a driver or rent a taxi , best not to drive on your own (this is the case everywhere , singapore included ).

I’ve actually considered buying myself a small Honda Dream to get around, costing about $400, but abandon the idea after seeing a couple of traffic accidents and the vulnerability of the motorist, and the fact that I don’t really travel a lot except to commute to work and back, and sometimes to join the lads for a couple of beers (in which case I have to leave the bike somewhere).

Faidenk

01-03-2011, 09:24 PM

BlueDragon193

01-03-2011, 11:38 PM

unless it is too expensive to hire a driver or rent a taxi , best not to drive on your own (this is the case everywhere , singapore included ).

I was told if you knock down a pedestrian, you better run over him again to ensure he's dead. Your liability is limited to a couple of thousand dollars if he's dead but it could be unlimited if he's disabled.

Don't know whether if it's spoken in jest.

What a policy, does that includes the family too.
Also heard in Thailand, if the public motosai or taxis driver got in an accident and are in the wrong the passengers too have to partly compensate the victims but not sure is true or not.

jvdairlie

02-03-2011, 09:43 AM

Can anyone tell me whether Hotel Paragon on Sisowath Quay is GF??

james.lee

02-03-2011, 01:12 PM

Hello Faidenk,
I just finished reading 13 Pages of your life and adventures in Cambodia, very interesting and I wished that I stumbled upon your thread earlier; I was in PP 27 to 29 January 2011 for some business presentation at Nagaworld, so I stayed there as well since it was my virgin trip.

My Cambodia partners took care of me during the trip but it was merely Beer Garden during those evenings...makan and minum plenty; nothing much to crow about compared to the streets that you hanged out frequently!

I am hopeful that I will be going back there again and I intend to try your infamous BKT, chicken rice and what have you...HAHAHA! Not forgetting the fun part thereafter as well.

I can see that your reviews are very commendable and I hope to touchbase with you real soon.

In the meantime, please PM your contact details and address of your restaurant.

Or kun.

James

Faidenk

02-03-2011, 02:16 PM

Can anyone tell me whether Hotel Paragon on Sisowath Quay is GF??

Paragon, well, if you want to bring a bed-warmer back, you first have to register the companion with the police, stating the reasons an so forth. The invoice from the hotel will show the name him, her or shim. Beyond that, yes, it girl-friendly.

Nah, just fucking with you. Have not heard of any that's not friendly, not even the 5 stars ones.

Faidenk

02-03-2011, 02:17 PM

What a policy, does that includes the family too.
Also heard in Thailand, if the public motosai or taxis driver got in an accident and are in the wrong the passengers too have to partly compensate the victims but not sure is true or not.

Not too sure about that. Will update when I find out.

Faidenk

02-03-2011, 07:22 PM

james.lee

02-03-2011, 10:23 PM

Hmmmm.... infamous....
No worries, there's always next time. Just PM me when the time gets near.

Hello Faidenk,
Oops...typo error oi!

James

GeekyMagician

15-03-2011, 12:57 AM

WOOOO HOOO!!!!

Went to Cambodia from 11 March 2011 till 14 March 2011. Was a virgin trip to Cambodia. Luckily there's Faidenk!!! He is the most wonderful host that anyone can find!!! Here will be my FR as promised to Faidenk!!! Shouldn’t say it as a promise, it’s a privilege!! It’s the least of all least I could do for all the hospitality that Faidenk had given me!!! For now at least…. Haha!! Beware, this is not entirely an FR on the girls there. It’s also a FR on how good Faidenk is as a host and the places of Cambodia that I went for the benefits of others. Life does not just revolve around sex ya....

Day 1

Arrived in Cambodia round 6 plus their local time. (Cambodia have an hour earlier timezone to Singapore.) Hotel stay is in Inter-Continental. (Don’t really know the road name thou. Kinda difficult to pronounce them… Hahaha.) Met up with my colleages who had been there for a week of business trip. (I'm just there to enjoy my R&R!!! Lucky me!!)

It’s a total of 3 of us for this trip (Excluding Faidenk & Company). Took a tuk tuk and went for dinner in a place along the Riverside (which I don’t know the road name). The price for a tuk tuk is around 3 USD from my place to the Riverside. (After negotiation ya…) It’s still quite a distance to there, so I guess 3 USD is kinda standard rate for it. For nearbys, it should be around 1-2 USD, still depending on the distance. Just negotiate with the driver and settle on a price you feel comfortable with. Main transportation there are tuk tuks for us foreigners. Metered taxis are not vastly available but can be booked with their hotline.

For 3 guys, we had chicken curry with rice, crab meat fried rice, pineapple fried rice, some spring rolls and 3 beers. Cost us roughly 30 USD. Go figure if it’s cheap or expensive on your standard. There after the dinner, I suggested to call “THE MAN”. Hahaha. Met up with Faidenk in a pub called Pickled Parrot which is a few roads away from where I had my dinner. The street number is 104 for Pickled Parrot. The place I had my dinner is 136 or 138. Can’t remember. (You will know the reason later for my memory loss…) It’s a nice place for chill out. No girls there thou. He was playing with a cowboy guy in a game of pool. Faidenk is a real good player. All you guys better watch out when u challenge him there….

After a round of beer, Faidenk brought us 3 “virgins” to the other pubs to have a look-see. 1st up is a pub opposite Pickled Parrot. Forgot the name thou (Sorry Faidenk!! Hahaha). In there, girls flocked to us like hungry piranhas. We were swamped by like 7-9 girls. Got ourselves another round of beers. You see, I tried to be a smart ass and ordered a beer for myself called Kingdom. I thought it was the one I drank over at Pickled Parrot as the beer I had in Pickled Parrot is poured into the Kingdom mug. End up, the Kingdom beer tasted like soya sauce. Singapore style. Clarified with Faidenk and was told the beer I had is Anchor. WTF!!?? By the way, it’s pronounced as An-Chor not Anchor. It’s nice and that’s what I had for my 4 days trip there.
Faidenk is a regular customer of the pubs around those streets. So naturally, you see girls flocked to him than to u first. Hahaha. Any ways, in the 2nd pub, Faidenk had this young girl attached to him. She’s one of the beautiful ones that I have seen there. And trust me when I say she’s beautiful as my standards of beautiful girls are quite high. It’s not common to see such girls in those areas. She have a nice big rack, nice body and most importantly, it’s her face. She had a face of an innocent-SYT-virgin kind. Me and my friends didn’t have any girls attached with us as none of the girls there “suits” us. But who knows, maybe one of those girls are some of you guys’ taste. One Man’s Poison Is Another Man’s Meat.

After around 10 mins, Faidenk’s friend came over to the pub and meet up with us. I don’t know if placing real names are suitable here thou. So I will be calling him Friend 1 (Don’t worry, there won’t a Friend 1-100 for you guys to keep track). Give it around 15 mins of conversations, we are ready to head out to another pub.

From 104, we head back to street number 136. One of my friend went back to the hotel first as he was tired. There’s this pub called Pub 136 that Faidenk recommend, and there we walked over. Once there, the atmosphere is different as there are much more crowd then the previous ones. Imagine the size and arrangements lines of the pubs in Cambodia like Singapore Boat Quay. Except there are more girls sitting outside waiting for you to arrive. Most of the customers there are foreigners like us and those Angmohs. Once in to Pub 136, we sat and had our round of beers. There’s this girl that Faidenk recommend as the Fuck Machine. Her looks was above average. Had a nice smile. Body is in ok shape and size. What turns me on for her is her smile and those highlighted blonde short hair. Woo hooo… But the main problem is the girls can’t really speak English there. Thou they can converse a bit, it’s not really that helpful for us to understand most of the conversations.

Anyhow, in Pub 136, we guys kept chatting on the prices of the girls from having an overnight to per hour. Or should I say we keep chatting mostly on that for the rest of my trip!! Hahaha!! Prices to bring those girls out starts from the Bar Fine. It’s roughly between 7-10 USD per girl depending on the time and place of the pub. Happy hours will be higher and after 11pm will be lower. This amount is to be paid to the pubs as the girls are working for them. After the Bar Fine, it’s up to the girls to charge themselves for overnight or per hours. Hotels rooms are cheap there if you don’t wanna use your own. (Due to some reasons maybe?) Hotel prices range from 15-30 USD per night with a check-out time of 12pm. Depending on what kind of rooms you are looking for, the prices differ. Mostly cheap hotels there are somehow like backpackers hotel standards but with individual rooms and in-room showers. More on the actual prices later.

After our 1 round of beers in Pub 136, we headed for the other pub that my man Faidenk recommend. It’s call Sizzlers. Girls there are the same. Flocked and swamp u up the first round. Haha. Got ourselves the same An-Chor beers and chatted with the girls there. The standards of the girls in pub are quite the same. But still, one man’s poison is another man’s meat. We kept playing around with the girls and surprisingly they are quite fun to be with. Faidenk as usual, will have girls who seems so familiar and close with him. Hahaha!!

We had a lot of beers in Sizzlers as the night went on. I do not know till what the hell the time is, we decided to leave the pubs and head back to rest for the next day. Faidenk and Friend 1 keep asking me and my friend to join them for Teochew porridge at Faidenk’s cafe. We rejected as we are really tired and high. Will be heading over to his cafe for lunch the next day. Need to try those Bak Ku Teh!! But nevertheless, we had a good and fruitful 1st night out with Faidenk & Company. More FR on the remaining days to come.

P.S: Guys, Faidenk is not you would expect him to be/look if you haven’t met him yet. He and Friend 1 is one hell of a drinker and they are excellent ladies charmers!!! :D

GeekyMagician

15-03-2011, 01:01 AM

WOOOO HOOO!!!!

Went to Cambodia from 11 March 2011 till 14 March 2011. Was a virgin trip to Cambodia. Luckily there's Faidenk!!! He is the most wonderful host that anyone can find!!! Here will be my FR as promised to Faidenk!!! Shouldn’t say it as a promise, it’s a privilege!! It’s the least of all least I could do for all the hospitality that Faidenk had given me!!! For now at least…. Haha!! Beware, this is not entirely an FR on the girls there. It’s also a FR on how good Faidenk is as a host.

Day 1

Arrived in Cambodia round 6 plus their local time. (Cambodia have an hour earlier timezone to Singapore.) Hotel stay is in Inter-Continental. (Don’t really know the road name thou. Kinda difficult to pronounce them… Hahaha.) Met up with my colleages who had been there for a week of business trip. (I'm just there to enjoy my R&R!!! Lucky me!!)

It’s a total of 3 of us for this trip (Excluding Faidenk & Company). Took a tuk tuk and went for dinner in a place along the Riverside (which I don’t know the road name). The price for a tuk tuk is around 3 USD from my place to the Riverside. (After negotiation ya…) It’s still quite a distance to there, so I guess 3 USD is kinda standard rate for it. For nearbys, it should be around 1-2 USD, still depending on the distance. Just negotiate with the driver and settle on a price you feel comfortable with. Main transportation there are tuk tuks for us foreigners. Metered taxis are not vastly available but can be booked with their hotline.

For 3 guys, we had chicken curry with rice, crab meat fried rice, pineapple fried rice, some spring rolls and 3 beers. Cost us roughly 30 USD. Go figure if it’s cheap or expensive on your standard. There after the dinner, I suggested to call “THE MAN”. Hahaha. Met up with Faidenk in a pub called Pickled Parrot which is a few roads away from where I had my dinner. The street number is 104 for Pickled Parrot. The place I had my dinner is 136 or 138. Can’t remember. (You will know the reason later for my memory loss…) It’s a nice place for chill out. No girls there thou. He was playing with a cowboy guy in a game of pool. Faidenk is a real good player. All you guys better watch out when u challenge him there….

After a round of beer, Faidenk brought us 3 “virgins” to the other pubs to have a look-see. 1st up is a pub opposite Pickled Parrot. Forgot the name thou (Sorry Faidenk!! Hahaha). In there, girls flocked to us like hungry piranhas. We were swamped by like 7-9 girls. Got ourselves another round of beers. You see, I tried to be a smart ass and ordered a beer for myself called Kingdom. I thought it was the one I drank over at Pickled Parrot as the beer I had in Pickled Parrot is poured into the Kingdom mug. End up, the Kingdom beer tasted like soya sauce. Singapore style. Clarified with Faidenk and was told the beer I had is Anchor. WTF!!?? By the way, it’s pronounced as An-Chor not Anchor. It’s nice and that’s what I had for my 4 days trip there.
Faidenk is a regular customer of the pubs around those streets. So naturally, you see girls flocked to him than to u first. Hahaha. Any ways, in the 2nd pub, Faidenk had this young girl attached to him. She’s one of the beautiful ones that I have seen there. And trust me when I say she’s beautiful as my standards of beautiful girls are quite high. It’s not common to see such girls in those areas. She have a nice big rack, nice body and most importantly, it’s her face. She had a face of an innocent-SYT-virgin kind. Me and my friends didn’t have any girls attached with us as none of the girls there “suits” us. But who knows, maybe one of those girls are some of you guys’ taste. One Man’s Poison Is Another Man’s Meat.

After around 10 mins, Faidenk’s friend came over to the pub and meet up with us. I don’t know if placing real names are suitable here thou. So I will be calling him Friend 1 (Don’t worry, there won’t a Friend 1-100 for you guys to keep track). Give it around 15 mins of conversations, we are ready to head out to another pub.

From 104, we head back to street number 136. One of my friend went back to the hotel first as he was tired. There’s this pub called Pub 136 that Faidenk recommend, and there we walked over. Once there, the atmosphere is different as there are much more crowd then the previous ones. Imagine the size and arrangements lines of the pubs in Cambodia like Singapore Boat Quay. Except there are more girls sitting outside waiting for you to arrive. Most of the customers there are foreigners like us and those Angmohs. Once in to Pub 136, we sat and had our round of beers. There’s this girl that Faidenk recommend as the Fuck Machine. Her looks was above average. Had a nice smile. Body is in ok shape and size. What turns me on for her is her smile and those highlighted blonde short hair. Woo hooo… But the main problem is the girls can’t really speak English there. Thou they can converse a bit, it’s not really that helpful for us to understand most of the conversations.

Anyhow, in Pub 136, we guys kept chatting on the prices of the girls from having an overnight to per hour. Or should I say we keep chatting mostly on that for the rest of my trip!! Hahaha!! Prices to bring those girls out starts from the Bar Fine. It’s roughly between 7-10 USD per girl depending on the time and place of the pub. Happy hours will be higher and after 11pm will be lower. This amount is to be paid to the pubs as the girls are working for them. After the Bar Fine, it’s up to the girls to charge themselves for overnight or per hours. Hotels rooms are cheap there if you don’t wanna use your own. (Due to some reasons maybe?) Hotel prices range from 15-30 USD per night with a check-out time of 12pm. Depending on what kind of rooms you are looking for, the prices differ. Mostly cheap hotels there are somehow like backpackers hotel standards but with individual rooms and in-room showers. More on the actual prices later.

After our 1 round of beers in Pub 136, we headed for the other pub that my man Faidenk recommend. It’s call Sizzlers. Girls there are the same. Flocked and swamp u up the first round. Haha. Got ourselves the same An-Chor beers and chatted with the girls there. The standards of the girls in pub are quite the same. But still, one man’s poison is another man’s meat. We kept playing around with the girls and surprisingly they are quite fun to be with. Faidenk as usual, will have girls who seems so familiar and close with him. Hahaha!!

We had a lot of beers in Sizzlers as the night went on. I do not know till what the hell the time is, we decided to leave the pubs and head back to rest for the next day. Faidenk and Friend 1 keep asking me and my friend to join them for Teochew porridge at Faidenk’s cafe. We rejected as we are really tired and high. Will be heading over to his cafe for lunch the next day. Need to try those Bak Ku Teh!! But nevertheless, we had a good and fruitful 1st night out with Faidenk & Company. More FR on the remaining days to come.

P.S: Guys, Faidenk is not you would expect him to be/look if you haven’t met him yet. He and Friend 1 is one hell of a drinker and they are excellent ladies charmers!!! :D

james.lee

15-03-2011, 06:57 AM

Hello Faidenk,
It looks like I might be coming over Phnom Penh next week or the week after.
I will update.

James

GeekyMagician

15-03-2011, 10:50 AM

Sorry for the double post guys....

GeekyMagician

15-03-2011, 02:55 PM

Day 2

Woke up and left my hotel for some sight-seeing around 10 plus their local time. First stop is the Central Market which was located just beside Faidenk’s cafe. The place is kinda like Bangkok Chatuchak. The difference is it’s smaller and doesn’t really have nice and wide range of stuffs. We shopped and walked till 11-ish am before heading to Faidenk’s cafe for lunch.

We reached Faidenk’s cafe before Faidenk came in. So we planned to wait for him before ordering anything else. In my group of 3 guys, only me and another smokes. In Cambodia, basically u can have your cigarette anywhere as long as there is the “No Smoking” sign. And I really mean anywhere… Even air-conditioned places. That might just be one of the perks to party there. Hahaha.

Faidenk came in around 12pm and he recommended his Hainanese Chicken Rice and Bak Kut Teh. Both dishes are damn nice. Have those Singapore feel in it. Basically to cut short everything, Faidenk’s cafe sells Singapore foods. From chicken rice to prawn noodles, from kway chap to curry chicken. He even have kaya-eggs set for breakfast!!!

We chatted and Faidenk’s Friend 1 came to his cafe too and had lunch. We left the cafe around 1.15pm to catch our chartered boat ride on the Mekong River (Excluding Faidenk & Company). Was excited thou. Wondering what we will see. Had to wait for a friend of ours to join us before we can head out. While waiting, we chilled at a place called Titantic. It’s a restaurant where they serves food and drinks. And guess how much is the Mango Fruit Juice is? 5 USD. That’s right. We tourists are the victims. Met up with our friend and headed out for our boat ride around 2pm.

The boats we had is a double decked kind. Imagine Singapore double decked buses with no windows. That’s how it’s kinda looks like. Was told the boat ride is chartered by our friend and it will finish roughly 6pm. From 2pm – 6pm? Where the hell they taking us to??

1 ½ hours on the boat ride, we saw nothing but those Riverside buildings and gazillion tons of water. Some slums here and there. Plenty of trees, cows & buffalos here and there… It’s a 3rd world country after all. Soon after we pit stop an island. My guess the name of that island is Mekong island. They brought us to this Khmer Traditional Silk Weaving House. There’s just this old landed property with like 3 girls hand weaving the silks using those old technology. Keep asking us to buy the products… Na, not what we wanna buy so end up no one buys anything. The boatman seems pissed thou… Haha.
We headed back to the boat in just 5 mins of walking around the house. The boat left that island and headed to the directions where we came from!! WTF!!?? 4 hrs of boat ride just to see that with to-and-fro??? Anyway, on the way back we saw more slums on water. Those people there really have what many Singaporeans’ big dreams of living by the sea/river. Kinda sad thou, to see the living conditions of the kids being raised like that. But that’s life isn’t it?

Was about to reach our departing area, Faidenk called to ask us guys to join him and Friend 1 to a Snooker cum KTV club. It’s called Nan Jing Snooker & KTV Club. It’s just like any snooker centre in Singapore with the exceptions of having a KTV on the 2nd floor. There’s only 2 KTV rooms for the whole place. And each room is big.

Only 2 of us 3 guys went over as the other have other business plans. Anyway, the 2 of us arrived at Nan Jing Snooker & KTV Club around 7 plus. Met up with Faidenk and Friend 1. They recommended us another friend of theirs. That’s Friend 2. Nice guy with great hospitality shown on us too. Most girls have left around that time. Not sure why so early, but who cares, the night is still young. Faidenk & Company had girls with them already and Faidenk was slapped with a surprised gift from one of the girls there before we arrived. HAHAHAHA…. We drank and played till 11 plus and Faidenk & Company brought us to another KTV place to drink. Wow, they can really drink sia…. I was like tipsy and all already…

Faidenk & Company brought us to this place called Mega I guess (correct me if I’m wrong Faidenk… Memory lost… Hahaha.) It’s a posh KTV. Like Singapore’s Tiananmen in River Valley. The place is not too much my cup of tea as they girls there are more like gold-diggers or like what Faidenk’s Friend 1 said, “Chee bye made of gold”. Hahahaha. Looks wise, they are ok. Service, na… Just sit and don’t play much. But only Faidenk’s Friend 2 is having tons of fun as he have been patronizing there for a long long time. Haha. 1-ish in the morning, 4 of us bid our goodbyes to Friend 2 and we head out to another place for entertainment.

Faidenk, Friend 1, me and my friend went back to Pub 136 and see if we can get something out of there. Haha. I was actually interested in Faidenk’s first girl he had on my DAY 1 post. But too bad, she’s doesn’t seems to be around when Faidenk called her. Anyway, found back the Fuck Machine and keep deciding to go or not. End up after a few more rounds of beers, I decided to have her. My friend tried to get one from Sizzlers but she’s like “chee bye made of gold” kind. But, she have a tight and nice body with rack… Woo hooo… Too bad, she doesn’t want and my friend can’t find any suitable for him.

Faidenk went over to Pub 136 and help me pay the Bar Fine for her first as she was with a customer when I tried to approached her. Bar Fine was 7 USD. She’s ready to go. I paid Faidenk back and proceed to go over to Pub 136. 60USD is the price to bring FM overnight. Friend 1 had too much drinks so he went back home first. Faidenk left after. My friend and I together with FM took a tuk tuk together as I need a hotel room. The driver brought me to a hotel nearby (forgotten it’s name… too tipsy…). Booked a hotel at 15 USD for the whole night. Check-out time for all hotels is till 12pm the following day. So all in all, damage is 82 USD for a girl overnight. Go figure if it’s expensive or cheap for you.

FM service is ok. But she keeps wanting more and more. No wonder she’s FM… Hahaha. She have so much GFE shown that for a moment, I thought I was in love with her. Wahahaha. Had 2 rounds and I’ve K.O till the morning.

P.S : FM seems to be shy in the pub but she was playful on the bed. Wahaha… Faidenk was not wrong to call her a FM and I keep forgetting places cause I kept drinking non stop with Faidenk & Company!!! Faidenk & Company's hospitality is really admirable. *salute* :cool:
They are one of the best people I've know so far in my life. :cool:

Faidenk

15-03-2011, 03:48 PM

GeekyMagician

15-03-2011, 04:19 PM

This is new to me. Tell me bro, how did you imagine me to be? Honestly. LOL

Hahaha... Imagine you to be way older and bigger in size. Wahahaha...

james.lee

16-03-2011, 03:19 PM

Brother,
Wahahaha...older doesn't equate to bigger leh.

James

Hahaha... Imagine you to be way older and bigger in size. Wahahaha...

Faidenk

16-03-2011, 03:22 PM

Hahaha... Imagine you to be way older and bigger in size. Wahahaha...

This is a double-edged sword, I don't know if I'm being slighted or complimented. It's like telling someone he's not as stupid as he looks. LOL.

While you guys were drinking it up at AnyClub, I was called back to entertain an Oknha and a general who insisted I bottoms-up 3 bottles of beer and to open those bottles with a Beretta. Post it up next.

Faidenk

17-03-2011, 07:11 PM

Day 2
Only 2 of us 3 guys went over as the other have other business plans. Anyway, the 2 of us arrived at Nan Jing Snooker & KTV Club around 7 plus. Met up with Faidenk and Friend 1. They recommended us another friend of theirs. That’s Friend 2. Nice guy with great hospitality shown on us too. Most girls have left around that time. Not sure why so early, but who cares, the night is still young. Faidenk & Company had girls with them already and Faidenk was slapped with a surprised gift from one of the girls there before we arrived. HAHAHAHA….

That was a surprise all right. She unzipped and blew me right there with Friend 1 to my back. It was the last thing I expect.

Faidenk & Company brought us to this place called Mega I guess (correct me if I’m wrong Faidenk… Memory lost… Hahaha.) It’s a posh KTV. Like Singapore’s Tiananmen in River Valley. The place is not too much my cup of tea as they girls there are more like gold-diggers or like what Faidenk’s Friend 1 said, “Chee bye made of gold”. Hahahaha. Looks wise, they are ok. Service, na… Just sit and don’t play much. But only Faidenk’s Friend 2 is having tons of fun as he have been patronizing there for a long long time. Haha. 1-ish in the morning, 4 of us bid our goodbyes to Friend 2 and we head out to another place for entertainment.

KTVs don't really interest me much. I go only when I have to. The girls, usually Viets, are too mercenary and shallow for me, besides being too expensive.

FM service is ok. But she keeps wanting more and more. No wonder she’s FM… Hahaha. She have so much GFE shown that for a moment, I thought I was in love with her. Wahahaha. Had 2 rounds and I’ve K.O till the morning.

I was at 136 last night and met the Fuck Machine at the door. She told me she'd buy me a beer and came to keep me company. I met an old friend there who poured me a whiskey so I told her thanks but no thanks. I had that drink before I had to go. I palmed $2 to her but she refused to take, all out of gratitude for the number of clients I direct her way. She shoulda show her gratitude by bedding me half price, hahaha.

dirtbag_26

18-03-2011, 03:25 AM

That was a surprise all right. She unzipped and blew me right there with Friend 1 to my back. It was the last thing I expect.

hahaha bro like that i also want to go cambodia already..... i got planning a trip ,at first like normal going to BKK ,maybe this time i also come see your restaurant?? haha

I was at 136 last night and met the Fuck Machine at the door. She told me she'd buy me a beer and came to keep me company. I met an old friend there who poured me a whiskey so I told her thanks but no thanks. I had that drink before I had to go. I palmed $2 to her but she refused to take, all out of gratitude for the number of clients I direct her way. She shoulda show her gratitude by bedding me half price, hahaha.

haha bro i think she should show her gratitude by fucking you FOR FREE.......she is a fuck machine after all!!!

eh bro i only now than have time to read thru the whole thread ,your first page got post this i think not true leh

Women ought to know by now sucking men’s tits does nothing for them.

..........actually i like when girl lick my nipple!!!

what i dun like is when they like my asshole like that i feel very gay ,i dun like :p

but dunno why i like when they do my nipple..... best when one woman sucking my cock ,one woman sucking my nipples!!!

Faidenk

18-03-2011, 12:34 PM

haha bro i think she should show her gratitude by fucking you FOR FREE.......she is a fuck machine after all!!!

eh bro i only now than have time to read thru the whole thread ,your first page got post this i think not true leh

When I made my first post, I was a newbie and those were my first impressions. So you are right in that many things I said may not hold true now.

One of the problem I have with the Fuck Machine is, I held off screwing her until now we sorta become platonic, besides I got other targets.

..........actually i like when girl lick my nipple!!!

what i dun like is when they like my asshole like that i feel very gay ,i dun like :p

but dunno why i like when they do my nipple..... best when one woman sucking my cock ,one woman sucking my nipples!!!

Hahaha, whatever floats your boat. My nips aren't sensitive that way. You're lucky you have more than 1 erroneous zone, more to enjoy. As for me, it's not always about me. Nothing enhances the experience more than the partner coming first, or in the case of some, multiple times before I do, and on occasions I don't come at all.

dirtbag_26

19-03-2011, 12:15 AM

One of the problem I have with the Fuck Machine is, I held off screwing her until now we sorta become platonic, besides I got other targets.

hahaha bro ok got other target ok ,but for sure she know got no such thing as platonic lah ,got the right time come she will for sure you will still stick your cock in her one!!! all woman must know this!!! no such thing as platonic!!!!

Hahaha, whatever floats your boat. My nips aren't sensitive that way. You're lucky you have more than 1 erroneous zone, more to enjoy.

hahaha true true more is better!!!!

it is very regretable that a man has only one cock when a woman has three holes!!!

:D

Faidenk

19-03-2011, 12:28 PM

A couple of nights ago, I was at a disco across the road from my shop with bro Geeky Magician and friends. At about 1am I received a call from my staff saying my friends came and requested my presence. From across the road I could see 3 young men sitting at a table outside but none I could recognize. I approached them and asked if they were Bong’s friends (Bong is a Philippino I met in the previous week’s pool comp at the Pickled Parrot Pub). The 3 young men stared at me blankly and I apologized. If turned out they were the driver and bodyguards of the men I was about to meet.

I went into the shop and was greeted by a Singaporean, K, who comes every so often. He was with 2 other middle-aged men. Their faces were flushed with too much alcohol. I sat down and K introduced the 2 men, one of them, a Cambodian, is a General and the other a Cambodian Chinese businessman. The businessman gave me his business card. It reads Oknha XXXXXX.

The title Oknha, to simplify explanation, is similar to the Malaysian Tan Sri, bestowed to any Cambodian or foreigner who makes a financial or material donation with a value of more than US$100,000 to the state. There is a total of 220 oknhas in Cambodia in 2008. It is safe to say the large majority of them are businessmen.

The Oknha speaks excellent English and Teochew, he reminds me of a taller and bulkier Thaksin. He ordered 4 more beers. When the beers arrived, he spoke something to the General, who from his pocket took out a snub-nose pistol, a Beretta I think it was. He popped out the magazine, pulled the chamber slide back, then demonstrated opening popping the cap off with the muzzle. He then handed the pistol to me and asked me to open the remaining 3 bottles. If he thought it would faze me, well maybe it did but I sure did not show it. Us Sinkies are used to firearms. It felt surprising heavy in my hand, but good. I kept my index finger across the trigger guard, and popped the caps off.

So, the thing is this, what is the point of the demonstration? To impress? Trying to say hey! I’ve a longer dick? or trying to compensate for a short one. Drunk isn’t an excuse, not when someone is maimed or worse, killed.

I suppose this is one of the hazards working the night crowd. They’ll all be tipsy or worse, downright drunk, and driving, and nowadays I get these girls who drive in to get a bite, and without inhibitions, and asking me if I have a girl friend and so on, and for sure a couple are cute and very doable. But sometimes we just have to be extra cautious. We don’t know their background and certainly don’t want to offend anyone who can put you out of business with one word to rich and influential daddy.

Just last night 3 giggly girls, in their mid to late 20’s stopped by, slightly tipsy. One of them, the most talkative and speaks excellent English, although a tad tanned, wasn’t too bad looking at all. 1.65m or so, she’s slim and has awesome legs and a admirable rack. Nice dimples too. Looking at the dated Camry she drives, I reckon there is no rich sugar daddy in the background. There was a lot of flirting to and fro, joking about her being too attractive to be single and so on. She was in a feely and touchy mood and there was ample physical contacts, with her friends teasing her, although I don't understand the lingo enough I could guess about her being such a slut.

Well, let’s see how this develop.

lweiss100

19-03-2011, 01:49 PM

Paragon, well, if you want to bring a bed-warmer back, you first have to register the companion with the police, stating the reasons an so forth. The invoice from the hotel will show the name him, her or shim. Beyond that, yes, it girl-friendly.

Nah, just fucking with you. Have not heard of any that's not friendly, not even the 5 stars ones.

Hahaha...I like that humour, and I nearly flipped believing that one.

dirtbag_26

19-03-2011, 04:28 PM

Just last night 3 giggly girls, in their mid to late 20’s stopped by, slightly tipsy. One of them, the most talkative and speaks excellent English, although a tad tanned, wasn’t too bad looking at all. 1.65m or so, she’s slim and has awesome legs and a admirable rack. Nice dimples too. Looking at the dated Camry she drives, I reckon there is no rich sugar daddy in the background. There was a lot of flirting to and fro, joking about her being too attractive to be single and so on. She was in a feely and touchy mood and there was ample physical contacts, with her friends teasing her, although I don't understand the lingo enough I could guess about her being such a slut.

Well, let’s see how this develop.

hahhaa wah!!!!! good!!!!!

Faidenk

20-03-2011, 12:33 PM

Hahaha...I like that humour, and I nearly flipped believing that one.

If you like that, I have a better one from a barang who asked on the Stickman forum if Viagra or Kamagra is available in PP, and if so, does he need a prescription. Another barang replied these, without a prescription, are as difficult to get as Panadol.

lweiss100

20-03-2011, 12:58 PM

If you like that, I have a better one from a barang who asked on the Stickman forum if Viagra or Kamagra is available in PP, and if so, does he need a prescription. Another barang replied these, without a prescription, are as difficult to get as Panadol.

Thanks Faidenk, time to set up a Kamagra factory and licenced to dispense to all SBFers. Hehehe. At least there is a wider range of entertainment in PP than in S'bore. Never been there yet, some day will try as a group tour. Have fun and cheers. Logan.

Faidenk

20-03-2011, 01:29 PM

Thanks Faidenk, time to set up a Kamagra factory and licenced to dispense to all SBFers. Hehehe. At least there is a wider range of entertainment in PP than in S'bore. Never been there yet, some day will try as a group tour. Have fun and cheers. Logan.

Since you brought up this subject. Viagra is cheaper in reputable pharmacies here in PP, but not by much, and I am talking about the real stuff, not China-made knock-offs.

What is interesting are Kamagra and the Cialis generic, Synalis. I've tried both and they worked as advertised, primarily because they are the genuine stuff from the Indian factories. Kamagra costs USD 1.70 for 4 (100mg) and Synalis costs USD2.20 or so for 4 (20mg).

I sent some back to friends and the reactions came back mixed. Some said Kamagra gave them headaches, others said it gave them gastrics, these are symptoms of sidanafil, the active ingredient in Viagra, Kamgra and a hosts of other Sidanafil generics.

I don't use Synalis because unlike tourists who come here on a fucking binge, I don't need the duration Synalis offers. Once the night before and another the morning after is adequate.

I reckon if anyone is interested, we could set up a distribution network in SG, maybe Kamagra at SGD8 for a pack of 4 (100mg) and Synalis at SGD10 for 4 (20mg). Freight by courier is expensive ex-PP, unless I could find people like air crews to hand carry. There's no death penalty for ED medications, is there?

Anyone interested?

Faidenk

20-03-2011, 04:19 PM

Our primary objective for the trip to the Kien Svay monkey farm was, well, to get away from the madding crowd once in a while, even though it is only half an hour outside of Phnom Penh. The other people with me were Phanna, owner of a bar I frequent, whose uncle owns a villa not to far away from the monkey farm which he is keen to let; AH, my snooker kaki, is the manager at the farm, and who wants to take a look at the villa to house some of his expat staff who now resides at a nearby guesthouse. So I guess you can call me the go-between, only I don't profit from the deal. The other person on board was a close friend and drinking kaki.

After the short farm visit, it was lunch at one of the many restaurants by the Mekong river a short distance away. The restaurants were built on stilts. That part of the river is slow moving with very little traffic except for a couple of ferries headed for Vietnam, carrying people, goods even a few cars. Such an idyllic scene, completely relaxing. The service was quick and efficient, a few of the young waitresses were are quite good looking although the overall packaging was drab. Dolled up I reckon a couple of them could be stunners. Phanna told us they could be had for like $20. Hmmm…..

We had a tasty kampong chicken, a BBQ toman, very good, and lots of Angkor beer. The afternoon heat was making us sleepy and we need a place to cool off. On the way here the Cobra 2 KTV was pointed out to me and a discussion on the 'virtues' of the place ensued, how 'happening' it was and how it still is, so it looks like that’s where we’d be heading right after this.

I felled asleep immediately the moment I got in the car and prodded to wake up when we arrived at Cobra. We were herded into a room big enough for 20. 3 girls were brought in shortly, I was only focused on 2, I mean 1 who had her D-cup size melons almost barely concealed by her black ultra low-cut miniskirt. The other 3, knowing my thing for tits, called the girl to sit with me. She sat immediately on my lap, facing me. I was surprised to see she wore panties, I mean most girls, all that I know anyway, in Phnom Penh wear short pants, or do we call them hotpants, underneath. It’s so refreshing to see panties. Smooth. Thin. Silky panties.

We ordered Angkor bottles. A case came in. We drank, and we sang. We grouped, we sucked tits, we played games, 2 dice, throw 7 and the thrower fills up his/her glass, 8 and drink half a glass, 9 it’s bottoms-up. Throw double 1s and the girl gets her nipples licked, and the guy gets to lick whoever he pleases. A pair of any number and she gets her tits massaged while he get to massage her tits. Great game. All good things come to an end.

The bill came to $150+ for 24 bottles of Angkor, $2.70 for a beer and the rest for the nuts and stuff. A couple of bucks for the 2 service staff. The norm is $10 for the hostesses, but I think most of us paid a little more than that.

We told the girls the next time we come, we’ll barfine them for a day at the villa, have a BBQ, drink beer and fish in the huge pond at the villa’s doorstep. Wow, they were so excited at the prospect. Tits, I think I’ll call her that, asked me whether I live at the villa and said that she can go back with me. I said no, I live in Phnom Penh and she no problem for her as well. I told her I see her next time we go the villa, I really need my sleep. We exchanged numbers and left.

I reached home at around 10pm and was in bed by 11.30. The phone rang and it was Tits, she said she wanted to be with me and could she come. I looked at the time and it was 2.30am. I told her again, next week and went back to sleep.

When I said earlier that KTVs hold no interest for me, well, if all KTVs is as happening as Cobra, I retract my statement. With this, I stand corrected and hope this brings closure to the episode.

dirtbag_26

20-03-2011, 08:25 PM

We told the girls the next time we come, we’ll barfine them for a day at the villa, have a BBQ, drink beer and fish in the huge pond at the villa’s doorstep. Wow, they were so excited at the prospect. Tits, I think I’ll call her that, asked me whether I live at the villa and said that she can go back with me. I said no, I live in Phnom Penh and she no problem for her as well. I told her I see her next time we go the villa, I really need my sleep. We exchanged numbers and left.

I reached home at around 10pm and was in bed by 11.30. The phone rang and it was Tits, she said she wanted to be with me and could she come. I looked at the time and it was 2.30am. I told her again, next week and went back to sleep.

hahahaha this is the life man!!!!!!!

Faidenk

22-03-2011, 04:07 PM

Last night at around 1am, while we were sitting inside the shop because it was drizzling, the first time for like 4 months, we heard a loud scrapping noise outside. Our initial reactions were wow, it's pouring outside. Our necks craned outside but it wasn't. Just then a car sped by, leaving a trail of sparks.

We clambered out and managed to see the car turned the corner 30 meters or so away. Show's over and we went back in to avoid getting wet. Phnom Penh is full of drunken drivers after midnight. 2 months ago the police launched a campaign against drunken drivers amidst some media fanfare, but we know what it all means. More avenues for augmenting the income for the boys in brown. Well, I have not seen a single police check since. I could only surmise the operation is halted because too many 'important' people are getting caught.

Back to that speeding car. One of the boys came in a while later and told me the car stopped just after rounding the corner, the driver came out to extricate the motorcycle that was pinned under it, and sped off again. I walked there to take a look and saw a bashed up motorbike on the side of the road. A crowd had already formed and the police arrived shortly after. I was told a biker has been knocked down at the Sydney Shopping Ctr, a click down the road and probably killed, the driver did not stop and dragged the bike under all the way to where we were.

Cambodia has one of the highest road deaths in the world, some 2000 plus in 2010. Of the serious accidents, almost half (49%) were hit and run cases.

Trav

26-03-2011, 02:24 AM

When I said earlier that KTVs hold no interest for me, well, if all KTVs is as happening as Cobra, I retract my statement. With this, I stand corrected and hope this brings closure to the episode.

Hi Bro Faidenk,

Is the Cobra KTV near Pasteur Road?

Faidenk

27-03-2011, 12:17 PM

Hi Bro Faidenk,

Is the Cobra KTV near Pasteur Road?

No. The one I refer to is at a suburb (not too long ago absorbed by Phnom Penh, so real estate has sky-rocketed) called Kien Svay, where the Tiger Brewery is.

Yes, there's a Cobra at Pasteur. Never been there so I can't comment on it.

JouZatriani

01-04-2011, 03:43 AM

Wow, what a Diary! I found this last night and after I started reading quite soon it became clear that I'm going to do so for a while. So I decided to make a drink and continued reading. So interesting stories! Every now and then my mind started drifting and in my mind I was already in PP... then suddenly realized that I just sit here alone staring at the display but don't see anything:D

I just couldn't stop and even forgot to say good night to kids too, not to mention my wife. Yeah, I heard them yelling something but just told them I will come in a minute. After a few hours and several drinks I had read all the 15 pages through. Some time went also to google some of the places mentioned. Today I woke up so late that it didn't make sense to to go to the office at all and decided to have one of those "remote work" days:D

Faidenk, I'll come to PP on April 13th. Can't wait to get there and sample some local talent, my virgin trip to Cambodia. It would be my pleasure to meet you too. If you are interested in to have a few drinks and rounds of snooker, please drop me a PM. I'll stay in Eureka Villas, hopefully a girl-friendly place, and no joiner fees.

modusoperandi

01-04-2011, 04:18 AM

Boy, I really wish I read this thread before I went to PP to do my thai visa run. Instead I spent an evening walking around aimlessly ducking in and out of bars looking like a dumbfuck tourist. I stayed at Flamingos because they offered airport pickup since it was my first time in PP. I also visited the Shanghai bar around the corner and the ladies there told me that you had to drink $30 worth before they would entertain being propositioned. :confused:

That's a silly unofficial "barfine" so I said I thought that sounded wrong and they got up and walked off. Sigh.:rolleyes: I talked with the seedy looking canadian "co-manager" there and he claimed they had to do that because the cops were on their case for charging official barfines. I don't know what the real story is but it seems not on the up and up to me. There were a couple lookers but they were more interested in trying to get me to buy her friends ladydrinks. After 3 drinks I got up and left with blueballs and boredom.

If I go out there again I would love to try the restaurant owned by faidenk. I only had 2 days so I obviously didn't experience everything I could have and I didn't have anyone to hang out with. I didn't care much for the angmoh expats I met around there.

Faidenk

02-04-2011, 03:24 PM

Faidenk, I'll come to PP on April 13th. Can't wait to get there and sample some local talent, my virgin trip to Cambodia. It would be my pleasure to meet you too. If you are interested in to have a few drinks and rounds of snooker, please drop me a PM. I'll stay in Eureka Villas, hopefully a girl-friendly place, and no joiner fees.

Bro, the 13th is the first day of Cambodian New Year, same as in Thailand. It might be a good idea to postpone the trip as most of the service providers (girls) will be going back to their provinces, most places will be closed too.

I;ll PM you my mobile.

ddon

03-04-2011, 03:01 AM

Zaryl

03-04-2011, 03:24 PM

bro Faidenk

hope you don't mind I put up this place that is close to your cafe in case some bros may have difficulty telling the tuk-tuk the location...

http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z309/Zaryl_sg/AnyClub.jpg

Faidenk

03-04-2011, 03:36 PM

Hello Faidenk,

I've been reading your thread the whole day yesterday and it is your down to earth writing that has prompted me to register into this forum. I was in PP earlier last month to scout for some biz opportunity and will be coming back to PP next Sunday (17/4). It would be an honour to meetup with you; at the very least try your much praised BKT. Would you be kind enough to PM me your mobile, name of your establishment and address? I look forward to meeting up with you

Already PM you. If you could give me a heads-up of the type of biz you are in perhaps I could into some people who might be able to give you some insight of the Cambodian market. You may also need to know the following type of people like bankers, insurance brokers, people who can help you set up your company in a express lane if required, and so on.

Faidenk

03-04-2011, 03:38 PM

ddon

03-04-2011, 10:15 PM

Already PM you. If you could give me a heads-up of the type of biz you are in perhaps I could into some people who might be able to give you some insight of the Cambodian market. You may also need to know the following type of people like bankers, insurance brokers, people who can help you set up your company in a express lane if required, and so on.
Thanks Bro Faidenk. I got my dates mixed up an will be arriving on Sat 9/4; heading staright down to Sihanoukville for a night. I will give you a call after I arrive and perhaps we can meet up on Sun 10/4 as I will be in PP that nite. Looking forward talking to you then ...

Faidenk

05-04-2011, 04:19 PM

Thanks Bro Faidenk. I got my dates mixed up an will be arriving on Sat 9/4; heading staright down to Sihanoukville for a night. I will give you a call after I arrive and perhaps we can meet up on Sun 10/4 as I will be in PP that nite. Looking forward talking to you then ...

No problem. Looking forward...

Faidenk

05-04-2011, 04:22 PM

The Khmer New Year is on the 13th April, so for those who are intending to visit during this time, you may want to know the entire place will more or less be dead. Most businesses will be closed, and these include bars. Most Khmers will go home to their provinces for the New Year. Some KTVs, particularly if they ‘specialise’ in Viet ladies, might be opened. I suppose things will slowly stir back to life by Monday the 18th.

My FB asked me to go back to her province with her. Although it would be a wonderful break for me, I am quite disinclined to do so. Going would involve me meeting her parents and relatives. I don’t know what she has told them about me already but I am not ready for that kind of relationship. She’s 26 and divorced from her no-good two-timing husband 4 years ago and now looking to hook up a no-good two-timing SOB who still regards her a FB – me, never mind that she shaves on my asking, possesses one of the tightest pussies I have had, buys me the sweetest of mangoes 3 times a week, as well local snacks, and eats only veggies to keep her waist trim and slim. This invitation to meet the folks serves a notice of sorts for me. So, I told her I will be going back to Singapore during that period.

Sigh, why does women always complicate things? Doesn’t she know there’s a new law in place regarding foreigners marrying local girls? The new law is designed to protect the interests of the local girls and stipulates that foreigners marrying local girls must earn at least $2500 a month, and foreigners older than 50 years old are not allowed to marry local girls.

Well, I don’t qualify because I am already more than half a centenarian. Halelujah! This is probably the only time I get to appreciate the fact I am on my way to being an old geezer, never mind that my hair is thinning and that I put on weight just looking at others eat, and half the time I need a boost of half a Kamagra to stand up to the vigours of the job at hand.

There are always ways and means of getting around the law here in Cambodia and the foreigner who is dead keen on making a Khmer maiden his blushing bride ought not fret. The Khmer people’s ingenuity will surprise.

My buddy, 48 and a bachelor, has been looking at this angle to retrieve his hard-earned CPF and is downtrodden to know he has only 1 and a half year to look for a bride. He could of course pay any girl here to marry him, you know, a green-card marriage, but he reckons he's getting on in age and might as well marry for love and start a family. Men have that biological clock as well, you know, besides sex. He reckons if he got married say in a year's time, he should, with a little greasing of palms, get his citizenship in 3. So theoretically, he would be able to withdraw all his CPF and after selling off his paid-for HDB 3-roomer, there would be enough for him to live a lifetime in relative comfort here in Cambodia. There are 'fixers' who could arrange that citizenship, I was told, varying amounts of USD20K to USD30K were mentioned. I knew of a Malaysian 'fixer' who even showed me his Cambodian ID card and who claimed even the town he lives at had his name on the town's birth register, but this guy borrowed $30 from me on some excuse that the company was late paying his salary, and I have not seen him hence.

Anyway, we, my buddy and I, were just talking earlier today about micro-financing and he thinks putting up an initial $50K, he would be able to double his money in less than a year, lending a couple of hundreds here and a couple of hundreds there at 20% interest. Yup, micro-financing.

In an interesting note, Koreans are banned, according to a friend, from marrying Khmers due to many cases of Khmer girls being ill-treated in Korea or sold into slavery there. I know the Koreans have a bad rap for being rough, I’ve talked to enough girls working in KTVs from China to Philippines to Singapore to reach that conclusion, they have that sadistic streak in them but surely that doesn’t warrant the ban. I mean what’s a little handcuffing, or spanking that nice smooth ass between lovers. It must have been a little more than that, then.

modusoperandi

05-04-2011, 04:53 PM

In an interesting note, Koreans are banned, according to a friend, from marrying Khmers due to many cases of Khmer girls being ill-treated in Korea or sold into slavery there. I know the Koreans have a bad rap for being rough, I’ve talked to enough girls working in KTVs from China to Philippines to Singapore to reach that conclusion, they have that sadistic streak in them but surely that doesn’t warrant the ban. I mean what’s a little handcuffing, or spanking that nice smooth ass between lovers. It must have been a little more than that, then.
I think it's usually a case of not just rough sex (which I find SE Asian girls can handle fine) but Korean men pretending the girls are their regular servants to be treated as such even during the non coitus hours of the days. Making SE Asian girls regularly lose face like this is and being made to serve some ill tempered wrinkled kim-chi smelling Korean granny is probably like hell on earth. The rice paddy, destitute neighborhood boy, and corrugated tin field shack looks mighty fine after this sort of treatment.

Faidenk

05-04-2011, 05:12 PM

I think it's usually a case of not just rough sex (which I find SE Asian girls can handle fine) but Korean men pretending the girls are their regular servants to be treated as such even during the non coitus hours of the days. Making SE Asian girls regularly lose face like this is and being made to serve some ill tempered wrinkled kim-chi smelling Korean granny is probably like hell on earth. The rice paddy, destitute neighborhood boy, and corrugated tin field shack looks mighty fine after this sort of treatment.

Off the topic, actually I find Khmer girls quite hardworking, and quite capable too, more than the men although not to the level of the Vietnamese women.

One of the main difference I find between the Vietnamese and the Khmer - well, in HCM everyone rides a motorbike, be they a manager, supervisor or entrepreuner. In Phnom Penh there are more luxury SUVs, mainly Lexus, than you'll find per capita anywhere. A friend, on a bet, brought me to observe at a filling station, to see how many of these drivers of big SUVs fill their tanks to the brim. He won the bet, as only 2 out of a total of 20 fill it up. Which reinforced his opinion that the Vietnamese work to hide their wealth, whereas to the Khmer, face is everything, big cars, houses, never mind if they only have $20 in the pocket.

Back to the topic, in these case I think the govt's move is justified. The behaviour is just despicable.

Zaryl

07-04-2011, 12:50 AM

buys me the sweetest of mangoes 3 times a week,

speaking of mangoes, I supposed to buy on the last day yet I am hooked on this Viet gal introduced by a friend (the gal who came with me to your cafe) at Casa disco..

Faidenk

07-04-2011, 03:44 PM

speaking of mangoes, I supposed to buy on the last day yet I am hooked on this Viet gal introduced by a friend (the gal who came with me to your cafe) at Casa disco..

Hahaha! Forgo the Khmer mangoes for Vietnamese mango, I suppose you must be a very good reason. KH mangoes, although very sweet and agreeable, is more often eaten unripe, the Khmers like it sour, dipped in a salt, chilli & MSG mix (would you believe that? MSG?)

But don't knock the Vietnamese variety, they're soft, tender and act as an aphrodisiac, especially when they're hanging on a sweet and nubile Viet girl.

BlueDragon193

07-04-2011, 04:36 PM

Hahaha! Forgo the Khmer mangoes for Vietnamese mango, I suppose you must be a very good reason. KH mangoes, although very sweet and agreeable, is more often eaten unripe, the Khmers like it sour, dipped in a salt, chilli & MSG mix (would you believe that? MSG?)

But don't knock the Vietnamese variety, they're soft, tender and act as an aphrodisiac, especially when they're hanging on a sweet and nubile Viet girl.

Wow, sound advice.:D

Faidenk

07-04-2011, 07:24 PM

Sigh, why does women always complicate things? Doesn’t she know there’s a new law in place regarding foreigners marrying local girls? The new law is designed to protect the interests of the local girls and stipulates that foreigners marrying local girls must earn at least $2500 a month, and foreigners older than 50 years old are not allowed to marry local girls.

Well, I don’t qualify because I am already more than half a centenarian. Halelujah! This is probably the only time I get to appreciate the fact I am on my way to being an old geezer, never mind that my hair is thinning and that I put on weight just looking at others eat, and half the time I need a boost of half a Kamagra to stand up to the vigours of the job at hand.

There are always ways and means of getting around the law here in Cambodia and the foreigner who is dead keen on making a Khmer maiden his blushing bride ought not fret. The Khmer people’s ingenuity will surprise.

Further to the above-mentioned law that forbids men earning less than $2500, and men over 50 from marrying Cambodian girls, here's something I CnP from Stickman's site:

The Cambodia situation.

Before everyone gets up in arms over the new Cambodian law forbidding marriages between Cambodian women and foreign men over 50, it is important to note the following: Foreign Ministry spokesman Koy Kuong said, "We are preventing fake marriages and human trafficking," adding that the government was aware of cases, documented by rights groups, where Cambodian women were sent into prostitution or "used as slaves" in their husband's home country.

Cambodia imposed a temporary ban on foreign marriages in 2008 to prevent human trafficking, amid concern over a sharp rise in the number of brokered unions involving South Korean men and poor Cambodian women. That ban followed an International Organisation for Migration report that said many Cambodian brides suffered abuse after moving to South Korea in marriages hastily arranged by brokers who made large profits. So, fat western slobs in t-shirts, relax! It is only your North Asian cousins the government is worried about. Besides, you only have to leave the country with your fiancée and get married elsewhere as the law only pertains to marriages within the country.

So there, if you're not Korean, you can still marry that 'song-sa' of yours.

Damn! I thought I had it good.

maddog_mlvn

08-04-2011, 12:41 AM

Bro Faidenk, check ur inbox.

Glock

08-04-2011, 04:27 PM

never mind that she shaves on my asking, possesses one of the tightest pussies I have had, buys me the sweetest of mangoes 3 times a week, as well local snacks, and eats only veggies to keep her waist trim and slim

haha ... can i borrow her ? :D

Faidenk

08-04-2011, 06:47 PM

haha ... can i borrow her ? :D

Haha, I would if I could. Come to think of it, I didn't say that in jest, and I wonder why I feel that way. She's a 'good' girl, doesn't smoke, drink once in a while, doesn't ask me for any money but accepts the odd $10 or sometimes $20 I give her in the morning. Hell, she doesn't even let me see her pussy, even after 3 months. I am sure it looks cute, having been shaved at my prompting by our third 'outing'.

Why do I feel nothing for her? Why do I feel nothing for the rest of the girls I have screwed in Cambodia thus far? Is it the language barrier? That didn't stop you guys for falling for Viet, Thai or Khmer broads without a word of the local language. Must be the age then, mine. Age clads one's heart with a protective coating making it impervious to those butterfly flutters. Call me callous, call me heartless but that's the way I feel. Mind you, not that I treat them disrespectfully, I do, just that, well, the moment the little buggers are released, I sometimes wonder what the fucks was all the fuss about. She even commented on it once.

Because of our working hours, we haven't been anywhere as a couple, not that I think we're one, I'm sure she thinks we are. Not dinner, not a movie. It's home, shower (not together), then it's the bed. Have my evil ways with her, then sleep. I send her home by late morning and I don't call her until I feel a stirring in my loins some days later. Anyway in the event she is entertaining the thought of us being a couple, I hope I'm doing a good job dispelling it from her head.

Having said all that, she's a good girl and deserves a better deal than a old heartless unappreciative coot like me.

maddog_mlvn

09-04-2011, 11:20 AM

Bro check Ur gmail. Anything PM me in SBF, seldom log into that email a/c.

modusoperandi

09-04-2011, 07:07 PM

Having said all that, she's a good girl and deserves a better deal than a old heartless unappreciative coot like me.

Here's something that worked for a friend of mine who was "intimately" involved with his ex girlfriend for 3 years..

He managed to engineer a relationship between her and another friend of his by passing her along down the road thereby absolving himself of guilt and giving them a relationship that turned into something long term. He told me he was already bored after year one but stuck around because she was a good enough girl and fun to hang out with at times. That wouldn't always work out but it's better than breaking some woman's heart who has played fair.

So find some lonely dude who fits her criteria (as well as yours) and do some behind the scenes cupid social engineering. :D

Faidenk

09-04-2011, 09:41 PM

Here's something that worked for a friend of mine who was "intimately" involved with his ex girlfriend for 3 years..

He managed to engineer a relationship between her and another friend of his by passing her along down the road thereby absolving himself of guilt and giving them a relationship that turned into something long term. He told me he was already bored after year one but stuck around because she was a good enough girl and fun to hang out with at times. That wouldn't always work out but it's better than breaking some woman's heart who has played fair.

So find some lonely dude who fits her criteria (as well as yours) and do some behind the scenes cupid social engineering. :D

That's going to take some 'engineering', and what happens if the friend I pass her to turns out to be an even bigger son-of-a-bachelor than I am. 'Tainted goods' (I mean it in a 'good' way) even though she is, I think she deserves better.

I think the best way is to let the relationship die a natural death. I ended many of my relationships this way - meet less frequent, prolonging the interval each time without any confrontation or arguments and before long it's over without any animosity.

Giving her as little as I did is part of my strategy - so she wouldn't be dependent on me as a source of steady income and to save me some $$$ (didn't I mentioned I am a son-of-bachelor?). I give sporadically, most times a $10, occasionally a $20 (coming holidays, birthday, New Year etc) and sometimes none at all. Damn, I make myself so dispensable.

Maybe I'll post 2 Stickman threads on How To Be A Player dated 2005. This guy is a master. Later.

Faidenk

09-04-2011, 09:47 PM

As promised ...... CONNED by Anonymous ... 21/10/2005

http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader/reader2067.htm

Over the months I have read many stories about this Farang getting “hurt” and that Farang getting “hurt” and this one being drained of cash and that one catching his prostitute girlfriend with a different customer and blah blah blah. Please, why does it seem that everyone wants to play the poor victim and sing the sad songs after they knowingly, and willingly, get the very treatment they permit? Remember one can only be conned if they allow themselves to be conned. Any nickel grabbing street corner chicklet peddler with lice can tell you the basic fundamentals of self preservation. Why does it take a bargirl with no education to make you feel as if you were born yesterday?

Anyway in the hopes to help some of you guys save a little pain and cash I would like to introduce and share some of my experiences and rules with you. If you begin your journey with the approach that you want the most bang out of your vacation, and the least cost impact then listen closely. I have been to Pattaya three times this year alone and plan to continue as long as the statistics stay in my favor. When the tide changes I’ll simply alter my venue, change cities, sounds easy doesn’t it? The truth of the matter is it really is simple.

To begin with learn to play “their” game. When they tell you they like you, you tell them how much you like them. If they say the “love” word then you use it equally and as liberally but generously dust it with enthusiasm. After the first night which in all likelihood you’ll pay cash, tell them how much they mean to you and how much you want to be with them on a relationship level. Trust me they’ll home in on you faster that Opra on a BBQ. They’ll label you as a potential savior and give you more loving than you may want. All the sex for the duration of your stay for free. Imagine that?

To begin with no matter what don’t tell them when the bye bye flight lifts off the ground. (Comply with Stickman’s basic rules of privacy and providing real data). When the day comes say you need to go to BKK for the afternoon on business. Tell her you’ll see her tonight at Tony’s and ask her to dress sexy for you when you get back. Ask her to wear that special black mini dress just for you. Catch your flight and realize your savings. You can imagine the number of crying Text messages and voice messages that you’ll get after that. All claiming that you lied to them….but back up a minute, who lied to who?

Generally speaking, I usually pay the 1000 baht for the first night but have yet to open my wallet for sex with that particular bargirl after that. Other than buying meals which is dirt cheap because they usually hate Farang food and always want that crappy Thai spicy green roadside stuff. Find a good restaurant that serves both and budget in an extra couple bucks to fuel the skank. Also don’t forget to give in once and a while to the guilt burden on your back and buy her the occasional cheap pair of shoes. Always with the promise to go to the designer malls later. She’ll wet her pants.

Usually what I do is get one on the string like this, I keep telling her how much I love her and cannot imagine life without marrying her and asking if she will have my babies and wanting to support her family only after I get to know her a little better and anything else she wants to hear. Remember, play their game.

When I need a little variety I’ll approach her with caution on the subject of threesomes. If the initial reaction is not harsh then I press the issue. I sometimes even cry telling her how much I love her and her only but my life time dream has been to try it with two women at the same time. I don’t want to continue into my years without trying it at least just once. Oh just once and never again. Usually with a little reluctance she will agree as long as she picks the girl or calls her friend for a second opinion. After she hangs up the phone chances are ones already grabbing a motorbike taxi and breaking speed limits to get to your hotel. If she consequently picks an ugly one that particular night tell her that even if she wasn’t your true love you could not have sex with that particular specimen.

I have yet to see anyone of them decline to fulfill my deepest desires as long as I only try it once and not want to make a habit out of it. You see, Thai ladies are very resilient and no matter how angry or hurt they appear, they don’t have the ability to take the crosshairs off your wallet and will be very forgiving. Even to the point of asking for your forgiveness which is usually accompanied with a lot of tears and words like “I no believe you”. Good God I could retire if I have a baht for every time I heard those ones.

You see as long as you give them an inkling of hope that they will be included in your will or you’re about to declare her your power of attorney complete with all your immediately liquidable funds they will hang on. Good God will they hang on. And hang on with a vengeance. They hate the thought of saying goodbye to your stash when another bargirl might get what they have invested so much time on. Hence the jealousy and insecurity they all seem to share. The realities are they only see you as “time invested” and “return on time investment”. If you can get one to spend more than two days with you she will not let you go easy. All part of the game.

I advise you to slowly withdrawn your affection, if they ask you what’s wrong? Tell them “nothing” Darling, why you ask. Tell them you “love her today more than yesterday” and want her to be your bride. She will consciously hear your words but internally she will sense something is wrong. She will work even harder to get back what you initially gave her. Tell her maybe the first threesome happened too fast to know if you liked it or not and wouldn’t mind trying one more time. If she objects don’t get upset, just act a little depressed. Again she will see this and connect it with the “something’s wrong” syndrome and want to find a way to make you love her again.

Hold out until the threesome happens otherwise your efforts are wasted. In fact I had one bargirl in July pleading with me to have sex with her and her two friends at the same time as long as I loved only her and helped her with her visa.

Another cool tip is when you’re at a bar with her, single out any other bargirl in the area and send her a drink. Whatever you do don’t accept to tap glasses with the bargirl but just send her a drink. Most girls will come over and offer to tap the glass with you but graciously decline. Tell her you love your girlfriend and only wanted to send a drink. No more, don’t even look again in the other bargirl’s direction. Let your soul mate think her fortunes may disappear in a flash. Just smile and watch the expression in Princesses eyes. This confuses the crap out of them. But yes indeed her effort into oral sex will amplify like never before. You’ll be exhausted long before she is.

If you don’t get the most enthusiastic sex that night after listening to a couple hours of tears and “I no believe you” and how she could never love another man again after you, then you didn’t get it right. Keep practicing until you get it going, find your zone. You’ll know you own them when they approach you with a butter knife or something equally as ridiculous and ask you to kill them because they cannot live like this. That’s when you introduce the concept of what “true love means” i.e.: Tell her for you true love means she must worship your penis or arrange sex with her sister. Whatever you can imagine. Might even be a good time to ask for anal if you’re into that.

Anyways, I could go on and on forever. I think you get the concept. Give all your heart in the first two days and slowly withdraw it until she’s a babbling submissive sex object. Ready to do whatever your craziest desires can conjure up. Do you remember the reason you came to Thailand in the first place?

If you still feel like you’ve been taken for a ride by Princess bargirl then try this one for points. I executed it myself.

This waitress at Tony’s kept smiling at me and showing me all kinds of attention. I asked her to meet me the next day and she said yes. She had some excuse to not keep the appointment. We exchanged mobile numbers and after that she called me daily but never seemed to be able to actually meet. The calls and texts continued much to the dismay of the current bargirl I was working. I explained it off as attention from just a friend. Like I’m sure you’ve all heard it from them when their phones ring. We all know what a “friend” is. Part of the game.

Anyway the story was the same every time, she cannot meet me but she needs money from me because she wants to quit work at Tony’s and go back to school. One day we actually met at the beach and we talked for hours. She told me she wanted sex with me as soon as we could. She talked so sweet I even felt movement in my pants. She explained that she will call in sick that evening and spend the night with me. She just needed some new clothes on the way to the hotel so I thought why not. She immediately went to the most expensive stores in the plaza and picked out whatever she wanted.

Continued.....

Faidenk

09-04-2011, 09:52 PM

........ Continued

CONNED by Anonymous ... 21/10/2005

http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader/reader2067.htm

Continually I declined to purchase the goods for various reason such as too big, I no like the color, looks funny on you etc etc. Eventually I agreed on a cheap pair of shoes and paid the 250 baht. As we were leaving the plaza she told me she now needs to go to work. I said no problem and waved goodbye to both her and the movement.

Everyday the same thing, all kinds of text messages on the phone telling me how much she loves me and misses me and wants me. I had to put my phone on silence to not distract Princess and her investment. However I did tolerate it because I thought she was cute and wanted one day to see her naked.

Shortly thereafter I returned to work in Europe and the texts continued. The only deviation was the escalated desperation for money. In fact she told me she quit working at Tony’s because of me and will wait for me only if I gave her $1000usf. I figured why not capitalize on the situation and “play” their game a little to see if I could score one for the Farangs.

So I told her I was working in Bangkok and only had time tomorrow at 13:30 to meet her at the airport to give her the money. If she came I would give her not just the $1000usf she asks for but $2000usf if she took the 2 hour bus ride to come and get it. She was so excited she had her friend that spoke better English call me to confirm and secure such a fortunate hit. I could feel the screams of eureka via satellite throughout my body. I’m sure they thought “pay dirt”, oil, hitting the big one, even possibly “bingo” in whatever language they really use.

The next day my phone started ringing at approximately 05:00 local and didn’t stop until at least noon. Then the text messaging began with “I no believe you” and “why you lie me” blah blah blah. I took it she was a little annoyed.

In the end, I’m counting 1-0 but she keeps sending me texts crying for me to see her. Tell me how much she could do for me if I let her love me. If she wasn’t so damned cute with those long legs I would ignore them but being a Farang I am tempted to succumb to the abyss. I guess the games not over yet.

Faidenk

09-04-2011, 09:54 PM

CONNED Part 2 by Anonymous ... 21/10/2005

http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader/reader2067.htm

Good God, what’s wrong with you guys? Have none of you ever played any sports or simple games like Poker, Chess or Checkers for that matter? What about Marbles for Christ sakes? Do you tell your opponent the game plan in the middle of the 2nd because you have “feelings” for them and you want them to kick your ass royally and shit you out because of such feeeeeeeeelings?

Wow, please send me an email because I have investment property in post hurricane New Orleans. I have for sale at a good price. Bring your own snorkel and flippers or simply send me your money, I’ll even get you laid almost free and I will arrange someone to tell you they “love” you at no extra cost. Same same as the others but different….. sure.

Why at any age does your edge for a challenge and competition drain out your dicks like a good piss after 7 Singhas? Can’t you remember the exuberance in your youth when you won and the feel of success? Dad clapping his hands and everything accompanied with the subsequent adrenaline high? Did anyone say this must stop at a specific age? Tell me who told you victory is for other people.

I suspect a lot of you have also declined to compete at work as well and watch the brains pass you but while you cry in silence about imagined discrimination because of some kind of inherited defect or whatever politically correct issue is popular at the moment. God gave you balls, use them. Never say “die” and remember no one wins until the 8 ball drops.

Iiiiieeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!! I read some of the Reader Submissions and want to slit my wrists. Have men been reduced to this I ask? Please tell me who ever in your life told you that if you’re good to people they will be good to you? Who ever said the world is easy and you must permit everyone to kick the crap out of you? Whoever told you to believe whatever you hear or bend over and take it with a smile? Even my mother used to say “believe nothing you hear and half of what you see”. Who I ask told you to choke up your hard earned dollars for a piece of sugar coated ass. Certainly no commercials I’ve ever seen.

More importantly, who in your life told you that you cannot have what “you” want and it is wrong to take it when and where you want it? Weren’t you were raised to succeed, have you ever hear the words that it’s not “polite to be successful”? Don’t get sucked into believing you “must” be nice.

The “do onto others as you would have them do onto you” thing only applies to Victorialand, not Buddhaville. When in Rome do as the Romans. Learn the game or get cut to third string and watch from the pines but please do throw your wallets when you’re told exactly when the time is right. I could use a few sucker friends like you to hang out with. God Damn I wish my ex-wife’s lawyer was as complacent as some of you bitches.

You think you have problems, let me share my current No. 1 dilemma. My last Submission titled “Conned” described the “practice round” from the BG with the long legs that I managed to get to hike up to Bangkok from Pattaya for pocket change. By the way she’s still singing the blues via satellite and still wants to love me long time. If only I would forgive her and give her a chance to be my woman as she misses me so much. Ha, I scored one for the Farangs and she wants me to forgive her, go figure. Anyway what she can possible do to me when/if she ever sees me cannot compare to the risk round I dare to accept.

What are the odds?

The field looks like this: I have Sue or I think she spells it Tonnsoo or some other strategically distractive crap like that and she “loves me like no other man she’s known in her life”. We met on Walking Street and we went to Lucifer’s for the initial pre-game negotiations to get things started. When her friends recognized her at a distance they approached with the usual BS broadcast interview questions like “where you from” and “what you name”? I felt like a cash flow celebrity fat cat in a peasant feed fest contest.

Unbeknownst to me someone pulled the trigger on the starter pistol before I could get into position because she maneuvered me like a real pro. Just like “Man O War” at the fucking starting gate, a real thoroughbred with inherited bloodlines and flanks to prove it. I believed this one could such start a snow blower in a sand storm. I even felt movement and accepted the game.

Anyway we spent a week together in September before I had to return to Europe for work. To prove her undying love for me she escorted me to the big BKK and in front of me purchased an airline ticket to her home community to stay with her family, away from the evils of Pattaya. All in the name of proving to me she wants to stop working and will wait for me to return. She even had the gall to give me her mothers phone number so if I wanted to check to see if she’s home I could call it late at night for confirmation points. Damn this ones good, for all I know it might be her mama sans number at a fish bowl but who cares it’s gotta be worth something not previously accounted for. I accepted the challenge and thought “let the games begin”.

My situation may only sound simplistic to most but please let me ramble. She calls me everyday telling me how she wants my babies and can’t wait to marry me. She tells me she’s in some Northern Thailand mountain jungle village or whatever waiting for me to return. (which of course I promised her I will get there “as soon as I can”). Jeez, she makes me feel like Tarzan hyped on a crack enema. More jitters than Huston gone hypothermic. I wake up in the morning thinking about her with wood under the sheets and everything.

So for fun I have indeed call her at 03:00 in her morning just to see if she is as good as the billboards promise. Gotta give her extra points for the effort and energy to move to a quiet area before she presses the “talk” button on the mobile. This ones happening, considering some BG’s are stupid enough not to think this through beforehand while all the time explaining the loud noises you hear in the background with claims to be her TV or family talking with gusto.

Anyway, I will be returning shortly and made a strategic error by telling her what day my flight arrives. I mentally write off this drop of the left hand or error because of me being without sleep due to the recent adjustment of time zones, jet lag some may call it. No worries though, it can be recovered. I just can’t permit my moral to drop at this critical moment, I need to stay pumped, I need all the focus I can muster. Focus, stay focused. Let me explain why.

The situation is, I have this other Hotel Receptionist waiting for my arrival. Let’s call her Rita the Receptionist for now. Rita is in a whole different league but the net results are the same. She claims I’m her first boyfriend in 5 years and only gave in to me the night we met because I’m special. In the room she played it good. She stood there like a deer in the headlights with all eyeballs and undressed like a virgin before the sacrifice. But naked she got nevertheless. All the time pleading a rare Pattaya innocence. She explained she came to Pattaya only because of her undying love for beaches.

Anyway in the end you can take away points because she used words in bed such as “most men like this” and “most men like that” so without a blink I thought “is this woman stupid or am I imagining she speaks such fundamental errors”? Keep your cool I thought; just remember the first one to break the game rules is the first to loose. My strategy remained steadfast, score some sack time for free, move on and accept the next challenge. “Extra points if you can get her to invite a friend”.

Challenge – Supremo Ultimo Grande Numero Uno por favor

They both know when I arrive. Is this a maneuver of a fool or the strategy of a real player? Remember who made up the rules? They lie to me, I lie to them. The one thing Thai’s taught me best was the ability to lie and not look away. Keep the eyes centered and don’t change your facial expressions. Never and I mean never look down at your feet or touch your face while spinning your yarn. Maintain eye contact and wait until they look away. Cry as required. Trust me it works.

Then to continue, my aspirations are to somehow avoid the arrival of Jungle Jane (Soo, Sue, Shoe, Poo or whatever) for a couple days and honk around town with Receptionist Rita. Invent a reason why Rita makes me sad and tell her I need some time to myself to ponder our future in the imaginary prosperous land of plenty and go make hay with Jane while Jane shines.

After a day or two I’ll tell Jane that I need to go to BKK to arrange for her bank account transfer on my own because I need space to think as our future is so important to me, what with babies in the schedule and all. Whatever it is she wants. But I can’t simply jump into this situation without a little soul searching. Then I’ll skip over to wine and dine Rita for a day or two possibly with the boost of some cheap Viagra. I pretty much figure by then I will need some help and I can justify it all by reminding myself some athletic pros use steroids. Don’t forget one must always give the impression they are with their soul mate with enthusiasm and could never drain the snake with different horrible evil bargirl. Get it up at any cost or they will suspect.

I do have a confession though; I am trying to imagine how I can find a way to connect the two of them together. One on each arm for free. Especially the way they both “love me so much and could never be with another man”. One even claims she loves me “too much” and she hurts of the thought of not being with me.

Continued......

Faidenk

09-04-2011, 09:55 PM

....Continued

CONNED Part 2 by Anonymous ... 21/10/2005

http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader/reader2067.htm

I think I need to work Jane first, she seems to be a little distant at the initial proposition when I tabled the threesomes issue in September. Then I’ll try to slow bleed Rita into the forum with the utmost delicacy. After all, I am the first man she’s been with in five years. I must try to figure a way to get her to believe it was her idea and I am only going along with her to make her happy.

Oddly enough, and I may be dreaming, but I do believe the trophy goes to the one that can execute this without getting physically maimed or the involving the police, judicial system or her family. Lets call it the coupe de grace, the executioner’s song, the “GOLD” if we may. But what else is there to shoot for, I missed out on their virginity? They tell me no but I find it slightly difficult to swallow.

In the end, again, don’t place any bets until you hear from me. No one told me insider knowledge is illegal in Thailand. May be in NA but here I’m talking Rome. Please guys, stop being the victim and start using the very chromosomes God gave you. Learn the rules like any other game you embark upon and do your best to win. Don’t bring your “feeeeeelings” to the ring. Kick ass and kick it large. Big big stakes such as your self esteem and hard earned cash are on the table. Win when you play and only bring what you’re prepared to loose. Or loose the mega boom boom and cry like your sister in a rainstorm.

Think!!!! in sports, at work, in life or in Thailand, remember being the second Farang on her list is only the first looser in a race full of other loser’s. Lock and Load with full knowledge of the game and be prepared to take a hit now and again all in the name of the game. Who can tell me they’ve had a “bad” orgasm? You still won.

Work hard and play hard, if you’re going to reach out then reach large or go play with your sister. No more victim “mummy she hurt me” shit. Try or die trying but stop the belly aching for loosing. If you were a Gladiator they’d be dragging your sorry ass off the field while bleeding from your nostrils. This loss can only train and encourage you for the next game. What doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger.

Clichés retain impact for a reason.

Not that I want to be him, but a lot of what this Anonymous chap says hits the nail, who says we have to play by their rules. There's really more than a lesson or 2 to be learned here, especially for all those sad fucks over at the Matters of the Heart forum.

Maybe I C&P these 2 parts over there as well.

maddog_mlvn

14-04-2011, 07:33 PM

Bro waiting for more update. Hv U try that recipe? Will know the result in a week time.

Faidenk

18-04-2011, 07:31 PM

Bro waiting for more update. Hv U try that recipe? Will know the result in a week time.

Bro, not yet tried due to hectic work pace. Will update you once I start. Thks.

Faidenk

18-04-2011, 07:38 PM

New Year In The Cambodian Countryside Part 1

The Khmer New Year falls on the 13 of April this year and, faced with a Phnom Penh that will soon be emptied, I agreed without any hesitation to go with a few friends to go visiting some of their employees who hailed from Preah Veng Province. I know, I know, there will be no electricity, lots of mozzies, no bars even though ironically, the provinces are the source of the majority of the bargirls who work in the capital, but I have to be somewhere other than Phnom Penh. Remember I told my FB that I will be away when she invited me to go visit her hometown? to meet her family? where I will be under scrutiny from the entire clan? Hell, the parents are younger than me! Heaven forbids, I might even be going to my engagement party.

Haven’t these natives heard of the new ruling forbidding foreigners over 50 from marrying their women?

So it was to be that Thursday morning the 5 of us Singaporeans packed ourselves in a rickety 10-sitter van, Sam, a long time buddy, and who’s been here in the Kingdom for like 15 years. There were 3 other new arrivals - R, T and RL, semi-retirees on a mission to see if there’s anything they can invest in. The others in the van are Cambodians, the driver, who works for Sam; the driver’s fiancée; Chhan, Sam’s manager and also his right-hand man, Chhan’s uncle.

How is it that so many of Sam’s employees are going to the same kampong? Yep, you guess right, all his employees hail from the same village. 10 years ago he hired his first employee, Chhan, who, as the company expanded, got more and more of his relatives and friends to work for Sam. Now, almost 80% of the employees are related or childhood friends.

The distance from PP to the village isn’t that far, to be fair. The first 2 hours of the journey was travelled on the Highway No. 1. This 4-lane road, although unlit except in towns, is fairly good, all built with money from grants from foreign countries. The rough going starts on the 3rd hour when the van turns off the highway, from then until the village proper, it’s a 2-lane dirt track. If we were going slow, I can imagine how much slower it would be in the rainy season. When the rain comes, it pours for days on end, lasting like 2 months. The entire countryside, now browned with cracked dry padi fields, would be completely flooded as far as the eyes can see. From the air, it’s like a giant lake criss-crossed only by roads and peppered by housed built on stilts. All roads in Cambodia are raised by a good meter or 2.

After another hour or so, the van turned into another smaller road, more bumpy, less cars. The van’s air-con was acting up and we had to turn it off. The windows were slid back and first whiff of the countryside permeates the van. The earthy smell of dung, from cows, pigs and occasional pony. As we passed houses after houses, it seems a lot to me these country folks are animal lovers, there are cows under their houses, peacefully cohabiting with a pig or 10, and chickens, lots of chickens and the inevitable dogs. Now I am beginning to wonder, if I can smell them from a moving vehicle….

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Preah%20Veng/PVeng24.jpg

Eventually we reached our destination at around 11am. Chhan’s uncle has agreed to put us up at his house. We unloaded our overnight bags and hauled them up to the house. As you can see from the pic, the house is built on concrete columns although I came across some that are, I’m sure out of cost considerations, fashioned of wood.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/Faidenk/Preah%20Veng/PVeng22.jpg

The entire house measures 150sqm, with 3 tiny rooms about 3 x 4 m, 2 of which are bedrooms and one’s a kitchen, which is odd, considering there’s no sink nor plumbing. The rest of the house is quite bare, a small cabinet of sorts, on top of which sits a antique 16” JVC TV, I’m not sure if it’s a CTV because, well, there’s no electricity supply. The rest of the space is one big living room. The uncle has already prepared our ‘beds’, 6 mats on the bamboo floor from which we can see the ground below through the slits between the bamboo strips. Each of us gets a cushion for pillow with a blanket. Ah, good, the blanket can be doubled up for a bolster. Other than that, the house is tidy and nicely kept.

All of us are now ready to take a shower to wash the grime and dirt of the journey off. There’s only one outhouse so we had to take our turns. When it came to mine, I negotiated carefully the 10m of ground generously littered with cowdung. The bathroom was quite pleasantly tiled. I had expected it dark and damp, pieces of rotting planks over ground for floor and horrors, cobwebs everywhere and mosquitoes. The toilet was of course squatting type, OK, I can live with that. I looked around, the bathroom was illuminated by the pre-fab bricks with holes patterned in and wondered what if I had to take a dump in the middle of the night.

The portion of the small room was bricked up to store water for the shower, how the uncle gets the water in I can only guess as I don’t see any plumbing, and where does the water comes from? I don’t see a well outside. Anyway the water is a good relief from the 35 degree heat outside.

OK, everyone is done and we’re ready to start the New Year celebrations at Chhan’s house.

Vigilant42

20-04-2011, 06:47 PM

Off the topic, actually I find Khmer girls quite hardworking, and quite capable too, more than the men although not to the level of the Vietnamese women.

One of the main difference I find between the Vietnamese and the Khmer - well, in HCM everyone rides a motorbike, be they a manager, supervisor or entrepreuner. In Phnom Penh there are more luxury SUVs, mainly Lexus, than you'll find per capita anywhere. A friend, on a bet, brought me to observe at a filling station, to see how many of these drivers of big SUVs fill their tanks to the brim. He won the bet, as only 2 out of a total of 20 fill it up. Which reinforced his opinion that the Vietnamese work to hide their wealth, whereas to the Khmer, face is everything, big cars, houses, never mind if they only have $20 in the pocket.

Back to the topic, in these case I think the govt's move is justified. The behaviour is just despicable.

Bro, any Khmer girl to introduce? I already divorced and hope to settle down again.

Thanks.

Regards
Vigilant42

Faidenk

21-04-2011, 02:09 PM

Bro, any Khmer girl to introduce? I already divorced and hope to settle down again.

Thanks.

Regards
Vigilant42

Bro, any Khmer girl to introduce? I already divorced and hope to settle down again.

Thanks.

Regards
Vigilant42

This is interesting, so here's my 100 riel worth (USD0.025).

Many people, barangs mainly, come to Cambodia looking for love but lost focus because there's a multitude of distractions, mainly easy access to beautiful girls, cheap sex in the form of KTV hostesses, bargirls, brothels, beer promoters and the likes. So, the first thing one needs to do is steel oneself from falling into the 'bargirl trap' because once you're here it will be impossible not to indulge a bit.

Looking for a potential life partner is not something we want to rush into, and the last situation one wants to be in is falling for a girl who's 'exposed'. The term 'exposed' does not comprised only of the above-mentioned group of girls. There are the Khmer version of Sarong Party Girls, girls who are interested only in foreigners. These girls are obviously slightly more worldly, educated, with better IQ as well as EQ, with better language skills, but nevertheless just as mercenary.

But let's not paint this group with the same brush. The spectrum in which these SPGs belong to is wide, and the girls at opposing ends of the spectrum differs vastly. On one end, the line between a SPG and a 'exposed' is faint and grey. On the other end, she could be a office manager or executive, and might even prove an asset to the husband with her better social skills. Nevertheless, they all have their eyes fixed on the foreigner who can provide a better standard of living for her family, and does selectively sleep with those with potential.

Well, that's nothing wrong with trying to improve one's family's lot, is there? I would venture to say it's noble, even.

Then we come to the group of 'ordinary' girls. The spectrum for this group is even wider. At the bottom rung we have the lowly educated, country 'bumpkin', with very little or no language skills. Further up the ladder, girls with better education but no better language skills. The game of marriage is tricky enough with a girl in your own country, marrying a girl with whom you can’t communicate boggles the mind.

As in Thailand, Vietnam and in fact, most improvished 3rd world countries, the family comes first for these girls, you marry the girl, you marry the family, and you are expected to, for want of a better word, ‘support’ them, built them a better shack, buy them a adjoining piece of land, a motorcycle, support the siblings in schools and so on. The actual cost of marriage may be cheap, or at least cheaper than in your country, but know you that the costs doesn’t quite end there.

I am not discouraging anyone from marrying a Cambodian girl but one better be aware of all that entails. Cambodian girls are nice, they are sexy, bigger tits than Sinkie girls, longer legs. They are subservient, kind although I have not seen their dark side yet. Even the bargirls are not as mercenary as the Viet, Thai and the PRCs counterparts. So go in with your eyes completely opened and do the due diligence.

I know this is a very generic reply but having said all that, I think you would do better marrying a Cambo than the others, with all due respect to them.

Still want to marry a Cambodian? Come here for a stretch of time, it’s cheap, mix around, get to know the people. There are people who can and will introduce you good girls but ultimately, you are the one who will be stuck with a wife, good or bad.

I can introduce you a few 'bad' girls for the sake of your 'research', so you have some point of reference. The least I can do, haha.