PRC KC trap

[ninjaball]

Guys, need your advice on something. There is one FL whom i know before she went back to dragonland, Dalian. She is very demure, we only met up 4 times before she went back. She left a very good impression on me, as she is cute and had a good figure, B cup, and a sweet voice.

By a stroke of luck, we continue to keep in touch, and i felt that she quite like me too. We would MSN and email each other. Until one day, i said, i would like her to be my girlfriend, and she agreed to it despite knowing that i had a girlfriend already.

I had enjoyed many days of bliss after all the phone calls, MSN with her. However she is coming back by End of July, being a student now. She would continue to FL in singapore. She never demanded that i broke up with my Girlfriend, as she said that it is impossible for us to be together. But she would not mind being my second girlfriend. She even said that for some days, she would not mind giving the whole day just to be with me.

So it dawned on me that when she comes back in July, how would i face her? I am quite smitten with her and probably into her KC trap. But she til today never demand a single cent from me. How should i continue? How should i go dating with her? I am quite lucky but at the same time, i am afraid next time she would be overly attached to me...how should i pre empt all scenarios??

Need advice from experienced brother!:)

[stairway]

I remembered this sentence from boss sammy's signature.

'Whores are for fucking not loving. Just fuck them and be done with it.'

Think about it.

[ninjaball]

I understand that the clear cut way is to pay and Fxxk off. Thanks bro for advice....

One reason is i think she also want someone to care for her when in singapore, that is why she accepted me as boyfriend. You guys think i should just break off with her before she comes back to singapore? Frankly she did not do anything bad to me til now. or did she demand anything from me?


Should i just treat her as a gf and fb?? In fact it is the same as treating FL dinner just that there is more KC in it. If one day she gets money faced or wanna borrow money from me, then i would leave her immediately. Can it work this way?

[ah rat]

TS Did u get free fuck :p

[飞龙在天]

bro right now you are still swimming around her bait, waiting to bite it. of course at this time she won't reel in her bait (asking you for money) but once you are hook on, you are a dead man! i have seen friends falling in this KC trap spending thousands and thousands but its only the tip of the ice berg.

[nukebomb]

PM me her number, let me takeover.:D

[alan0338]

PM me her number, let me takeover.:D

i takeover after you :D

[hotdeal4u]

I remembered this sentence from boss sammy's signature.

'Whores are for fucking not loving. Just fuck them and be done with it.'

Think about it.

You are a very fast learner.

[Show Stopper]

When it comes to love matters...ladies tend to be very selfish and would eventually want everything to herself. As for now, she might say that she dun mind to be ur 2nd gf but who knows whether in the near future she might do something funny behind ur back (confront ur gf or purposely let ur gf knows abt her existence) in order to own u.

If u truly love ur Sg gf...then pls dun do things that u would regret later and also "dun play with fire"...u might end up losing both of them. :cool:

[Corigiz]

So you want your cake and eat it too :rolleyes:

She may just want you as backup, afterall they are still human and need care and concern. But how many backups she has is another thing ;)

It could probably backfire on you, this trying to swing both sides at the same time. Since your butt itchy and go and say the gf thing already, why don't you just keep her at arm's length and gradually distance yourself from her. Save yourself future troubles.

[alan0338]

But she would not mind being my second girlfriend.

then TS, would you mind being her number ???? boyfriend? :rolleyes: :confused::D

[MoralEpitome]

LOL we all been KC before....i had also spend thousands before getting anything much back....the key if you must be in control...i have seem so many of my brudders spend money on the girl and yet controlled by them....i have learned from my mistakes and come out a better man...i think if u r single you can go ahead and go the KC shit...it may work out...but if u r married or attached unless you wan to leave your OC for her then forget it...you can let her fuck you with feelings but your feelings must always be in control! I have no doubt that any girl, no matter how she likes you...still works for money

[SMGG]

u dont need to break off with her now, when she come just fuck and pay accordingly, of course like the above bro said, dont let her control your life and $$. :D Enjoy while being together. if u can not take it then just tell her and kiss goodbye ...

[cheongsterjon]

You can continue your this distant relationship with her and like what other bros said, when she returns, continue to have paid sessions with her but with her giving more feelings like a gf..you too can bonk her with feelings but be prepared to bailout anytime you sense something is wrong...my 2 cents worth

[ninjaball]

thanks bro for advice.

The situation now is should i KC with her for the next few weeks? or should i tell her directly or even hint to her about our impossibility again? What exactly should i say??

I also afraid like one bro said, she might fall too deep into it and "tear off each other face" and get ugly in future, if she realise that i am only play play.

Is there a way of telling her that i am only out for play so dun get serious with me? but that would kill off all KC liao. Any middle way out? Can experienced brother share the way to communicate effectively to these PRC?

Thanks again! :confused:

[Draculax]

My 2 cents.

Just continue to pay her, she should understand.

If want to enjoy the feel of KC, spelling things out too obvious might just screw the whole relationship. So long you F and pay, things should be clear.

[iras]

Just remember one thing: she come here again not because of u. Ask itself, why is she here for?

[B52bomber]

Be very careful, the stake is high when playing the PRC game.

Quote you an example here.. a true story.

Mike 54 of age was a manager from Lei Garden, he knows all his regular customer very well and he was a very hard working man, after his wife passed away 10 years ago, he killed his free time by driving taxi during his off days.Mike also have a son doing his NS and Mike wanted to send him for overseas study.

On one of the night, he pick up a PRC lady from Changi Airport. They strike a very good conversation on the way sending the lady to her rented flat in Telok Blangah. The PRC lady was in her 30s and was a pei du mama(study mother).. and she ask if Mike could offer her a job in the day. she is willing to take up dish washing in the resturant. However, those day it was illegal to work as a pei du mama, but Mike is just like any oridnary man like us, LUST is the urge that every able bodied man cannot reject. She took down Mike's number and they become friend.

During the first few time that they were out, Mike was very impress by this woman. She is so thrifty, on one occassion, Mike took her to OG to buy her a pair of shoes, she rejected as the shoes cost $49.90. She told Mike that she can get a shoe in chinatown and it cost around $20.00. Even when Mike try to buy McDonald for her daughter, she would be angry becos a plate of chicken rice is only $2.00.

Soon their friendship develope and they landed in bed and with his son blessing, the woman and her daughter moved in to stay with Mike. The lady help to clean the house wash the clothes and cook. She also do some part time sewing from home to earn some extra income
The happy family situation lasted for about 1 1/2 yrs. after Mike's son had ROD and is studing in Australia... One day when Mike return home... she was crying...Mike came to know that her father was very sick and she told mike that she need to make a trip home but wanted Mike to look after her daughter.

Mike agreed and even give her 1K when he send her to the airport, but again was rejected by her. After about one month, she return and Mike came to know that her father had undergone a major operation in the City, but the medical billed was high and they had no choice except to sell away her father house and land for 25k to foot the bill. Now the parent is staying in a rented house in the city as the father need to go for follow up check up.

One night in bed she told Mike that she wanted to work in those DuiNa shop (massage shop). She need to raise some money to buy back the house and land as this is the only way out.

Mike rejected her idea and told her that he will help her out. ( maike already taken his CPF when he reach 55 but he did not tell her. Next day Mike went to the bank, draw out 30K and tell her to take the money and settle her house problem and not to think about going to work. She refuses at fist but finally accepted afte Mike assured her that she can pay him back slowly if she had the money.

So everything is back to happy family..... One week later when Mike return home, he first tot was what the fuck had happen, how come the house is different, where is the TV set, when is his son computer set, where is the fridge and washing machine? but most important is where is the woman and her daughter.?????

This story tell us that PRC gals are hungry, they will do anything to set catch the fish, be it big or small...放长线钓大鱼。。。

与她共舞。。见好就收手。。。 If you really want to try, be smart, dance along with her, but stop when you had enough! The stakes can be very high for newbies like you.

[Actaeon]

Is there a way of telling her that i am only out for play so dun get serious with me? but that would kill off all KC liao. Any middle way out?

Tell her of other ktvs you go to and girls that you did and want to do. That should be a good enough hint. Can't have the best of both worlds, Bud.

[ninjaball]

Ok, i just enjoyed the moment i am with her that's all. Maybe i will tell her that i can only treat her as nice as i can. but my heart is still wif my gf and we will get married soon.

[MoralEpitome]

Ok, i just enjoyed the moment i am with her that's all. Maybe i will tell her that i can only treat her as nice as i can. but my heart is still wif my gf and we will get married soon.

Sounds so familar...it's all a trap la....I have prc girls telling me how much they love me and ask me to break up with my gf...but end of the day...it's my gf who has stuck with me for the past 3 years and I am so near to giving her the kind of life she deserves...why ruin things with all these philandering...keep it transextional....if u get my drift... live for the moment but think of the future.

[ah rat]

Ok, i just enjoyed the moment i am with her that's all. Maybe i will tell her that i can only treat her as nice as i can. but my heart is still wif my gf and we will get married soon.

That the way.If she in needs,you entertain her.And if she want more but u unable to give,let me satisfy her urge :p

[Tucker]

Ok, i just enjoyed the moment i am with her that's all. Maybe i will tell her that i can only treat her as nice as i can. but my heart is still wif my gf and we will get married soon.

Bro, whatever you do, make sure you cover your tracks well. Better don't tell her you getting married and just distance yourself from her. Never hurts to be cautious.l

[sbftiankon]

Ok, i just enjoyed the moment i am with her that's all. Maybe i will tell her that i can only treat her as nice as i can. but my heart is still wif my gf and we will get married soon.

Bro don't put your KC in this PRC gal cause you getting married soon, so put focus on your wife not PRC gal.

May be you can become TS intro her to us :p

[BT8888]

My 2 cents.

Just continue to pay her, she should understand.

If want to enjoy the feel of KC, spelling things out too obvious might just screw the whole relationship. So long you F and pay, things should be clear.

I agreed with bro Draculax.


Be very careful, the stake is high when playing the PRC game.

Quote you an example here.. a true story.

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This story tell us that PRC gals are hungry, they will do anything to set catch the fish, be it big or small...放长线钓大鱼。。。

与她共舞。。见好就收手。。。 If you really want to try, be smart, dance along with her, but stop when you had enough! The stakes can be very high for newbies like you.

Bro B52bomber, thx for sharing.

与狼共舞.

[dloc]

A typical Singaporean life gets a little boring after a while so I can understand why people look out for excitement to break the routine. I am the same as the TS but haven't had the luck (or is that fortunate) with other girls besides my missus.

So if I am in the TS's shoes, I will be moved like him, wanting that excitement out of the regular routine, spicing up life a little bit.

Having said that, although not too ugly or poor, I am old enough to realise I don't look like Andy Lau, and not rich like Li Ka Shing. So a regular pretty girl will not fall for me. Yes one may offer to be my spare. I may accept that but I will also assume that I am her spare, even 2nd, 3rd, nth spare. If that assumption holds, then the level of commitment is controlled which means you should be able to live without her, and she you.

Advice is - make sure that assumption is set up front while you enjoy the weeks or months of eating out. Just remember to go home...

Just my 2 cents.

[Hyperion]

KC is part of the skill set of a working girl, be it in legal brothels, FLs, ktv girls or whatever. Sometimes it can confuse a guy whether if the girl is really true to him or just doing the standard kc. Can see quite a few threads in different forums in here with the same query.

Currently, I have this FL that I have patronized her I think 2-3 times a mth for about a year plus. She is just very easy going with me, letting me decide where to go, what to do and indulge me as many times as I like, altho still have to pay her, after all, she does still need living expenses. Quality wise, she is definitely a looker. With her, gfe is very strong.

However, I keep something locked and stocked in my mind. If she ever asks for money from me or wants me to buy branded stuff for her, it will be game over. She maybe real towards me or it may all be an act, key thing is that always keep your senses firmly rooted.

Before her, I have met FLs with good looks, attitude and service, and there will be other FLs with better looks, attitude and service.

We are all out to play, enjoy the KC if it is there. But don't fall for it, cos bottomline is that : If you have no money, she won't be with you in the first place.

[diputs1269]

A typical Singaporean life gets a little boring after a while so I can understand why people look out for excitement to break the routine. I am the same as the TS but haven't had the luck (or is that fortunate) with other girls besides my missus.

Advice is - make sure that assumption is set up front while you enjoy the weeks or months of eating out. Just remember to go home...

Just my 2 cents.

Agreed with what you said :) But we ourselves must also remember playing only to do not be drown when you have forgotten your original intention.

The other important thing also must take care of your homebase after each expliot. :D

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=MoralEpitome;4892815]Sounds so familar...it's all a trap la....I have prc girls telling me how much they love me and ask me to break up with my gf...
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prc kc trap is as big & as deep as their cb; many men fall into it & never able to climb out lor!
tell this to cherryQQ; borrow $$$ to how lian, tiao huay, damn siaik suay!