Paint job

[Kinetics]

I like to do paint job to my wife and make horny but she doesn't really like it...sometimes she will give me excuse like she didn't wash her pussy and is smelly or she not in the mood to be painted. But then she is very willing to blow me.
Thinking aloud, maybe she doesn't like to be painted but after reading so many threads in this forum, seems like this is not the case. Maybe my skill is not good enough...very depressing. :(

Any comments from anyone is welcome !!!!

[Romany]

Don't shave for 3 days and then rub your bristles and lick her in alternate fashion and see if she likes it.

[Klklhbk]

she may not like to taste her own juice after u paint her and kiss her while fking...

[gardener]

gf giving me blowjob but not allowing me to paint her too,
she said its tickle and she is shy...

[bonkster]

I've also had a few encounters with girls i met at nightspots who refused to be painted.

Kena stopped during catbath when i spread their legs apart and about to muff dive. :p

Maybe i got lousy painter written over my head...but they don't even let me try lei. :confused:

[ah rat]

Maybe she don't want u to let see her embarrass part,when she go high. :D

[Kinetics]

But we are already married for so many years and have our own kids. I also don't know what is there to be embarrassed about ?
The only good thing is that she is still willing to bj me...:D

[juayboy79]

HeY Bro

I know how you felt. I was always refused painting by my ex-gfs fls and ons. Well sometime, they felt it is dirty for us to go and lick theier pussy. Maybe like bro ah rat said, they might feel embarasess when they go high.

Maybe you can try to coax her and tell her you will listen to her. and if she ask you to stop you will stop. It will take some time. Just let her know that she will be in control.
My current gf, last time don't like to be painted coz no one ever done it to her and feel it dirty coz she said unlike us, our love tool is external. I told her it ok and slowly cox her.

it will take some time. so don;t take it to hard

[sexualfantasi]

hey bro, at least she still give you bj.
gf also not allowing me to paint her

[Kinetics]

Hi juayboy79, Thanks have done that but always get negative response.
Seriously the only time that I really managed to paint her is when she is high after a drinking session.
Think will be quite difficult....:(

[unsung80]

I like to do paint job to my wife and make horny but she doesn't really like it...sometimes she will give me excuse like she didn't wash her pussy and is smelly or she not in the mood to be painted. But then she is very willing to blow me.
Thinking aloud, maybe she doesn't like to be painted but after reading so many threads in this forum, seems like this is not the case. Maybe my skill is not good enough...very depressing. :(

Any comments from anyone is welcome !!!!

Bro u never get into the root of the problem. Got to talk to your wife, if not sex would be a very boring action for her soon.

[Kinetics]

Bro I have spoken to her many many times liao...but she said she just don't like it.....she said she preferred her blowing me and me inside of her....
That's why in my first post I mentioned is it my skill not there that's why she doesn't like it or she belongs to the group that like to like to blow and get f**k ?

[sexualfantasi]

bro kinetics, i think it is not about your skill ... because your wife hvnt really try your paint job.
i think she just dun like it, like my gf.

[hotdick69]

some women are super sensitive at the clit..... and men dont understand... keep licking the clit..... its too much for the gals..... so learn to see their reactions when u do things

this is what i do for gals who say no to muff dive..... dont dive in.... move slowly.... she sure have other sensitive parts... like ear lobes.... once u get her engine started then u slow move down.... start fingering her 1st.... when u slow move ur head down when she says no licking.... tell her no ur not licking there just kissing her thighs.... get her all hot and horny then slowly move in for the pussy.... dont straight away lick the clit.... try the labia lips.... then see her reactions.... then slow move in.... in time to come she will learn to enjoy it and ask for it.... just my 2 cents

[jerkmagnet]

my trick to painting all my FB, GF or wife is make them really high before you go down. If you paint her too soon without some serious foreplay before that, she'll feel weird.

[ah rat]

But we are already married for so many years and have our own kids. I also don't know what is there to be embarrassed about ?
The only good thing is that she is still willing to bj me...:D

Like now I try to persuade my OC,that I going to buy a vibrator to simulate her pussy.In fact, I intend to see and make her very high,then I can feel the thrill when my dick go in her pussy.But she avoid the subject and just smile.
Another thing I suceesful persuade her is to poke her ass hole.But she said "Not that shiok!" :D

[KINGor75]

maybe TS's wife got tattoo on her pussy that she dun want to be seen, i think is her ex bf name lah. like that dun lick pussy loh, lick her toes or armpit oso can mah...

[JumpinJackFlash]

Bro Kinetics, painting a woman's pussy is not easy job in the world. I still believe it takes another woman (butch) to really perform the act of cunnilingus ....... to drive another woman to orgasm after orgasm.

You may want to try this, paint her body slowly and then move down to pubic region, be gentle with your tongue and soft kisses, never rush the job. Her inner part around the pussy you may kiss, lick while avoiding the labia and clit directly. These are sensitive and erogenous parts where continued licking and soft kissing can create a high. If and when she starts to shift her butt like directing her pussy to your mouth, you know she's ready to be painted. Contrary to general belief, pushing of tongue into love hole does not excite her as much. Should first lick the part just behind the clit but not direct contact with clit which is very sensitive, you can feel shaft of her clit with tip of your tongue . Concentrate on rapid and soft licking. When love juices start to flow and other telltale signs of her enjoying it, move to labia licking. Be gentle, when guys get excited they tend to increase momentum and strength in licking causing more discomfort than pleasure. By now you get a bit tired with your poor tongue, that's the price to pay to bring her to 7th heaven. Clitoral orgasm should follow...... then she begs for your penetration. If it doesn't work as planned, go wash your mouth and wait another day.

[KINGor75]

maybe TS's wife got tattoo on her pussy that she dun want to be seen, i think is her ex bf name lah. like that dun lick pussy loh, lick her toes or armpit oso can mah...

joking joking, TS dun angry ok...

[bonkster]

Another thing I suceesful persuade her is to poke her ass hole.But she said "Not that shiok!" :D

Wah bro your art of persuasion very good lei. :p:D

[see see only]

TS :rolleyes:,

Ask yourself is she a traditional & unadventurous type.... ???

It could be cultural issue that why she is against it, but she simply love you so much that she is willing to bj you just to make you sexisfy ;)

There are countless "selfish" women / OC / gf / FB / etc that accept paint job but refuse to do bj ... but they are also women who think otherwise ...

So have a nice small talk with her before making love and let her know you really wanted to "LOVE" her the way she loves you as well (as in she is giving you a bj) ... it may work :rolleyes: GOOD LUCK

[Vortex]

If you like to paint her, and she is shy or inhibited about it, you are going to have to sweet talk her into it. Sumthing like between man and wife, everything is natural and you would like her to enjoy too and it also pleases u when you see her enjoy as you paint her.

Following that, go slow and work on her sensitive parts, ears, nips, fingers gently rubbing down below. Work your lips from her earlobes to her neck, doing suck and lick, your hands always working to pleasure her. Move your lips slowly but surely lower and lower, taking time around her navel. Move lips to her thighs and her calfs and also kiss, suck and lick. Repeat on the other leg. On reaching up from her other leg, work on the inner thigh and slowly slowly slowly as she is enjoying your work, go for the sweet tender spot.

Worked for me :D

Not with your wife of course, on my gf who does not like to be painted :p

[yang punk]

Ask yourself is she a traditional & unadventurous type.... ???

Yup TS, as bro see see said...your wife may have been 'trained' by her mother if she is from a typical old fashion traditional family.

Go check and see whether she mixes her panties with your clothes when she does the laundry. Old fashion thinking is that female's under garments especially during 'that time of the month' is very suay to men. So old ladies would never mix their soiled panties with men's wear. So your wife's conservatism is due to her belief that it will bring you bad luck to go lick her pussy. If I am not mistaken she will not even climb over you because for your head to go below/between her legs is also considered unlucky and disrespectful to her man.

You've got to convince her that all these beliefs are nothing but old wives' tales and have no truth in it otherwise 90% of the men out there would've been very unlucky. Also show her medical evidence that a clean pussy has less germs/bacteria in it than the mouth!

Then finally when you get to relish her oyster go easy and be gentle to prove to her that oral sex can be truly most satisfying for both parties.

[fresno99]

bro, I used to have a fuck buddy like that too, but after she suck my dick for some time, she gets really wet and then I will slowly finger her and then dive down there. Get her high first then once she is well lubricated maybe she will want you to lick..

[nosealedfate]

Bro u never get into the root of the problem. Got to talk to your wife, if not sex would be a very boring action for her soon.

Agree.

T/S dude, you gotta seriously talk to her... and don't allow her to divert the topic.

It maybe could be a case of her feeling inadequate of how her puss looks to you. You know when I women feels she look fat when actually she's not that type of thinge... So this case maybe she actually has a sweet sexy puss down there but she felt it looks like a train wreck... hence her rejections.

We never know what is on their mind.

Maybe she felt that her bush is overgrown there perhaps especially when she secretly compare herself to those porn stars who are so well trim and neat nowadays...

The way to this sweet and sticky situation of yours is just to have an open communication with her and dive right down to it and have it sorted out.

Have fun!