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Rooney
21-03-2004, 10:44 AM
May i know how many times u guys had sex w/o comdom? and bare blowjobs?

Ive had one time w/o condom and about 8 times bareblowjob.FL

wonder whats my chance of getting HIV. No guts to go AFA to try.......

cuz im living really fine now.............if i get +HIV, i wonder what will become my life.......

really regret doing those...but well done is done...just hope the prostitute is clean.

MitMit
21-03-2004, 11:33 AM
HI bro, early detection save life.....why wait??? The first time is the hardest i noe...but after that, I jus walk in like any clinics. After tested neg, u will cheong with more sense im sure. JUST DO IT. U will regret no doing it....not the other way rd. take care.

Originally posted by Rooney
May i know how many times u guys had sex w/o comdom? and bare blowjobs?

Ive had one time w/o condom and about 8 times bareblowjob.FL

wonder whats my chance of getting HIV. No guts to go AFA to try.......

cuz im living really fine now.............if i get +HIV, i wonder what will become my life.......

really regret doing those...but well done is done...just hope the prostitute is clean.

newyorker88
21-03-2004, 02:57 PM
Originally posted by Rooney
May i know how many times u guys had sex w/o comdom? and bare blowjobs?

Ive had one time w/o condom and about 8 times bareblowjob.FL

wonder whats my chance of getting HIV. No guts to go AFA to try.......

cuz im living really fine now.............if i get +HIV, i wonder what will become my life.......

really regret doing those...but well done is done...just hope the prostitute is clean.


Pick up ur guts to go for a check up. Do it for the sake of your health and your galfriend or your wife, or your family. Be a man, if you do it in the past, face it and go for a check up

Certain STDs can be transmitted to children also.

guy_22
21-03-2004, 03:53 PM
Bro,
Go for check up at DSC. 28 bucks for HIV/syphillis. I just got cleared. U will feel damn happy after that. I now cheong lesser already, and with condom. Going for my other stds test 2-3mths time. Currently stop cheonging for a while.

Trust me, u will feel like a new man. It is cheaper than call WLs. If too late, consequences may be devastating.

Cheers

weightlessjump
22-03-2004, 11:46 AM
With regards to HIV, I think you need to three months after your last sexual episode before doing a blood test. If negative, there is a 95% chance that you do not have HIV. You should then do a re-test at six months after your last sexual episode. If negative, than it is almost guaranteed (99%) that you do not have HIV.

With regards to syphilis, it would only show up on a blood test only 1 to 3 weeks after you have been infected. Meaning that if you do a blood test 1 to 3 weeks after you have been infected, and if it is negative, that doesn’t mean that you are in the clear (it could be that the antibodies in your body have yet to sufficiently appear enough to give a positive on your blood test). From what I understand, it is only if you do a test after 6 weeks of your last sexual episode, and if it is negative, than can you safely conclude that you don’t have syphilis.

Incidentally, if the pros gives you BJ before a FJ, it is good idea to use a new condom after the BJ, and before going into the FJ. During the BJ, the pros may have accidentally bitten on the condom, and thus rendering it effectively useless in preventing disease.

lady_08
22-03-2004, 02:45 PM
actually, wld like to some of u to clear my doubts... everyone knows tat sex w/o condom is dangerous, as in can kena STD, HIV ..this is esp dangerous when u go GL or with FL... so y is it that there are pple who still risks it? and i have even heard a fren saying tat just by looking at the girl's face, he'll know if she has STD or AIDS... i think tat is very very naive lor... so wat do u guys think?

perrymason32
22-03-2004, 02:59 PM
Because you had sex without condom with an FL, I say go for checkup at 3 and 6 months after that time you FJ without a condom.

Bro MitMit is right: early detection is important for you because of retroviral cocktails you can take early on to lower your viral load and live longer if kena HIV+ etc.
Important also because
a) if kena infected now, it's better to find out now to take those retroviral drugs early; rather than find out later years after when kena high fevers for long periods of time, dry tongue because of cauliflower like white coat on the tongue, and kena go to hospital where they'll find out and then really report you. These high fevers that happen years later are serious kinds, sweating in the bed, and a lot require hospitalisation, by which time the infected person cannot just run off and go to Thailand or something for treatment, because too weak, too sick to think right and run away from family and friends and doctors and nurses who get suspicious—because medical practitioners can see the telltale signs. And believe it or not, some other people who are not in medicine, CAN also.

Medical practitioners in Singapore are required by law to inform the MoH of infected persons, and infected persons are required to inform their spouses.

b) if find out kena infected now, can stop cheonging, so as to NOT spread to wife, hookers and casual sex partners—which may lead to infection of other unsuspecting cheongers!!!

So you may think your life is fine now and ignorance is bliss. Better to know now, clean or infected: not just for your sake, for your FAMILY's sake and for OUR sake!

Find out as soon as possible with the AfA anonymous testing!

Also, what one other brother said about the feeling like a new man after you've been 'cleared'—THAT'S TRUE!

--perry

Originally posted by Rooney
May i know how many times u guys had sex w/o comdom? and bare blowjobs?

Ive had one time w/o condom and about 8 times bareblowjob.FL

wonder whats my chance of getting HIV. No guts to go AFA to try.......

cuz im living really fine now.............if i get +HIV, i wonder what will become my life.......

really regret doing those...but well done is done...just hope the prostitute is clean.

MeiEnQianEn
22-03-2004, 06:48 PM
once you tried raw the feeling is out of the world.. however you have to take precautions if you do with pros

weightlessjump
23-03-2004, 11:35 AM
I won't deny that raw feels better. But, bro, that is a heavy, heavy, risk that you are taking there! There is no way of telling whether a person has HIV or not! Even when it comes to syphilis, there might be no visible signs of the disease on the pros' body-- the chancre might be hidden within the folds of the pros genitals, and when your thing comes into contact with the chancre, you don't stand a chance of not being infected.

gigantic_tk
23-03-2004, 12:51 PM
Are Condoms Expensive?????

You can get condoms -Soft Skin Condoms (12 x 12 box) or 144 condoms for $21.84 with Flavoured at DSC. That come up to merely 16 cents per condom. Forgo some feelings and better be safe....................:D

newyorker88
23-03-2004, 12:59 PM
Originally posted by gigantic_tk
Are Condoms Expensive?????

You can get condoms -Soft Skin Condoms (12 x 12 box) or 144 condoms for $21.84 with Flavoured at DSC. That come up to merely 16 cents per condom. Forgo some feelings and better be safe....................:D

16 cents is worth more than the sleepless nite that you are going to get from fear of STD.. :D

perrymason32
23-03-2004, 02:00 PM
Hi bro gigantic_tk:

I agree with you wholeheartedly—better be safe.

But you know, I've always wondered about the pack they sell at the DSC. First, it's not a famous brand like Durex, and second, they sell such big packs. What's up with that?

I mean, got people cheong until like that one meh? Let's say you do one BJ and FJ with one hooker each time, and play extra safe use condom for BJ (i.e. no BBBJ) and a brand new one for FJ, if you buy 144 pack, then it's like you screw 72 hookers, or at least a total of 72 screws.

But at the same time, we're told to use fresh condoms, stored properly, not kept for too long etc for maximum protection capability etc.

Unless, they sell to GL girls, who come in for regular testing anyway, I don't really see many buying them at the DSC.

By the way, Durex recently got new ones out. There's one I cannot remember the name of, but it promises a "better feel", and I think supposed to be very thin or something, for maximum pleasure or something—that one, I really cannot stand because it slips off very easily. So be careful when trying out the new ones.

—perry


Originally posted by gigantic_tk
Are Condoms Expensive?????

You can get condoms -Soft Skin Condoms (12 x 12 box) or 144 condoms for $21.84 with Flavoured at DSC. That come up to merely 16 cents per condom. Forgo some feelings and better be safe....................:D

gigantic_tk
24-03-2004, 11:23 PM
Originally posted by perrymason32
Hi bro gigantic_tk:

I agree with you wholeheartedly—better be safe.

But you know, I've always wondered about the pack they sell at the DSC. First, it's not a famous brand like Durex, and second, they sell such big packs. What's up with that?

I mean, got people cheong until like that one meh? Let's say you do one BJ and FJ with one hooker each time, and play extra safe use condom for BJ (i.e. no BBBJ) and a brand new one for FJ, if you buy 144 pack, then it's like you screw 72 hookers, or at least a total of 72 screws.

But at the same time, we're told to use fresh condoms, stored properly, not kept for too long etc for maximum protection capability etc.

Unless, they sell to GL girls, who come in for regular testing anyway, I don't really see many buying them at the DSC.

By the way, Durex recently got new ones out. There's one I cannot remember the name of, but it promises a "better feel", and I think supposed to be very thin or something, for maximum pleasure or something—that one, I really cannot stand because it slips off very easily. So be careful when trying out the new ones.

—perry

Really can't understand what is DSC target client and wondering whether they can sell in pack of 12 for say $2.00. Remember of yester year, the S'pore Family Planing Clinic used to sell their brand of condom at 12 pieces pack for $1. That time the Govt. is encouraging citizens to reduce birthrate.:confused:

gigantic_tk
01-04-2004, 03:39 PM
Originally posted by Shearer_27
Hi gigantic_tk, If you dont wan to get from DSC, you can always get condoms online at the address below :

http://www.myintimatecare.com

I heard Bros here mentioned that wl won't like cheongster to use Durex Prefoma condom. Any special with ths type of condoms, apart from having some coated lubricant to prevent you from early ejaculation is there any spike, hooks or special linning in this Profoma condom. I believe this type mut be quite expensive then...:confused:

gigantic_tk
09-04-2004, 05:20 PM
I heard Bros here mentioned that wl won't like cheongster to use Durex Prefoma condom. Any special with ths type of condoms, apart from having some coated lubricant to prevent you from early ejaculation is there any spike, hooks or special linning in this Profoma condom. I believe this type mut be quite expensive then...:confused:

gigantic_tk
09-04-2004, 05:26 PM
Anyway I have come across this Duplex Brand - Proforma condom, is is very commonly on sales at Johor department store like Watson. At Watson it is priced at 6.45RM for 3 piece pack, for 12 piece pack something like 22.50RM. ALong the street, those mama store, most of them also carry this condoms.

But back in Singapore, I check into local department store and pharmacies, don't seem to have these Profoma type. I was wondering is this a control items meaning if it is then it is an offence to back back to Singapore like Chewing Gum. :D

posh_boy
22-04-2004, 03:41 PM
Hi Guys,

wher n wat is AFA? :confused:

cheongkid
22-04-2004, 04:00 PM
Hi Guys,

wher n wat is AFA? :confused:
AFA stands for Action for AIDS, a non-governmental organization committed to AIDS prevention, education and support.

AFA operates the only anonymous counselling and testing site in Singapore, at the DSC Clinic in Kelantan Lane. At this clinic, names, NRIC or passport numbers are not required or recorded.

collin_23
22-04-2004, 06:06 PM
Done the deed and got an itch that won't go away? Suffering from unexplained fever, sore throat, aching, headache, diarrhoea, tiredness, rashes or joint pains? Go to one of the following places to confirm if u have nothing to worry about. Finding out early means getting a head start to treatment and infection management if u need it, and peace of mind if u don't.

*Polyclinics
*Private clinics
*DSC clinic(The only public clinic in singapore which specialises in STIs and HIV.) * 31 kelantan lane #01-06 singapore 200031 * Tel 6293 9648
Website: dsc-sexualhealth.com.sg
*'Action for Aids' offers anonymous HIV testing & pre/post test counselling on Wednesdays(6.30pm to 8pm) and saturdays(1pm-4pm)
Tel : 6254 0212
Website: www.afa.org.sg

Need more information or advices?

Call the AIDS information & Counselling hotlines:
*6254 2012(Tues , thurs , Fri 6.30p,-9.30pm)
*1800 252 1324(During office hours)

Cheers

AFA stands for Action for AIDS, a non-governmental organization committed to AIDS prevention, education and support.

AFA operates the only anonymous counselling and testing site in Singapore, at the DSC Clinic in Kelantan Lane. At this clinic, names, NRIC or passport numbers are not required or recorded.

collin_23
22-04-2004, 06:25 PM
Yes, check anonymous can but found out will still need to declare than can get medicine. Wait 1 mth first b4 aids test.

Cheers

posh_boy
22-04-2004, 08:10 PM
Yes, check anonymous can but found out will still need to declare than can get medicine. Wait 1 mth first b4 aids test.

Cheers

hi bro, do you mean i have to wait for 1 mth b4 i do the test? i read in the other forum that it is best to wait 3 mths b4 to do test n wait another 6 mths later to do test again. so which is which?

collin_23
22-04-2004, 08:13 PM
It goes like 1,3,6 mths. The 1 month is the minimum requirement to get a so called accurate test. If u can ta han till 3 or 6 mths better still more accurate.

Cheers

hi bro, do you mean i have to wait for 1 mth b4 i do the test? i read in the other forum that it is best to wait 3 mths b4 to do test n wait another 6 mths later to do test again. so which is which?

wanderer23
22-04-2004, 09:35 PM
May i know how many times u guys had sex w/o comdom? and bare blowjobs?

Ive had one time w/o condom and about 8 times bareblowjob.FL

wonder whats my chance of getting HIV. No guts to go AFA to try.......

cuz im living really fine now.............if i get +HIV, i wonder what will become my life.......

really regret doing those...but well done is done...just hope the prostitute is clean.


So far i only do it raw with my GFs.... if it's a KTV or HC girl (i dun go for pros or FLs) then i'll make sure i use condom... Well sometimes it's all about luck although of course prevention plays a part... I think if i am not wrong you wun 100% get HIV from a HIV carrier if you had sexual intercourse just once... dunno whether I'm right or wrong on that

Rof|maoxz
30-04-2004, 08:20 PM
So far i only do it raw with my GFs.... if it's a KTV or HC girl (i dun go for pros or FLs) then i'll make sure i use condom... Well sometimes it's all about luck although of course prevention plays a part... I think if i am not wrong you wun 100% get HIV from a HIV carrier if you had sexual intercourse just once... dunno whether I'm right or wrong on that

That's depend whether her virus load is high enough to infect you.

BigBoy123
04-05-2004, 12:04 PM
Just wonder let say a person kena HIV maybe in the last 3 month from a pros.
is it possible he will not have any kind of sysptom like fever ,rashes at penis ,etc at all ? then maybe after a year the sysptom all come out?


If not
If a person kena HIV when will the sysptom be out?after 1 month?

collin_23
04-05-2004, 12:06 PM
check out the thread by 'big sexy', think got say.

Just wonder let say a person kena HIV maybe in the last 3 month from a pros.
is it possible he will not have any kind of sysptom like fever ,rashes at penis ,etc at all ? then maybe after a year the sysptom all come out?


If not
If a person kena HIV when will the sysptom be out?after 1 month?

collin_23
04-05-2004, 12:18 PM
Got another worst case scenario. A new girl come sg work. Everything swee swee than day b4 she come here she f**k someone who kena HIV. Come here cause early cannot detect. Bros who think she new so no prob...habiz liaoz.

No symptoms many years also possible. Try use protection lor. :(

Just wonder let say a person kena HIV maybe in the last 3 month from a pros.
is it possible he will not have any kind of sysptom like fever ,rashes at penis ,etc at all ? then maybe after a year the sysptom all come out?


If not
If a person kena HIV when will the sysptom be out?after 1 month?

collin_23
04-05-2004, 12:24 PM
Threadstarter rooney, hope u go for test liaoz. Waiting to hear your good news. :)

Best is don't come back here lah. Temptation alot here. :p

Hope u get new look at life.

perrymason32
04-05-2004, 12:33 PM
Symptoms are not a good way to be sure if a person HIV+ or not. The data on symptoms of primary HIV infection is not good enough to suggest anything.

The only thing we can be sure of is some HIV infected people (whether 'most' or not is debatable) show symptoms of primary HIV infection. And that some (whether 'most' or not is debatable again) HIV infected people show no symptoms at all.

And there is currently no data that suggests primary HIV infection symptoms actually show up only after a year. First and foremost, the common test for HIV--which looks for specific antibodies--will already show results within the six month period. Antibodies occur after seroconversion--which is after the primary HIV infection symptoms, if any, appear.

Do check out bro BigSexy's thread thoroughly after this. But in brief:-
1) know the difference between primary HIV infection symptoms AND symptoms of other opportunistic infections that come with the HIV+ condition.
2) know that the use of symptoms for diagnosis is too unreliable for HIV and that only the antibody (in blood) test can really tell if a person is HIV+ or not.

Live long and prosper!

--perry

Just wonder let say a person kena HIV maybe in the last 3 month from a pros.
is it possible he will not have any kind of sysptom like fever ,rashes at penis ,etc at all ? then maybe after a year the sysptom all come out?


If not
If a person kena HIV when will the sysptom be out?after 1 month?


Just wonder let say a person kena HIV maybe in the last 3 month from a pros.
is it possible he will not have any kind of sysptom like fever ,rashes at penis ,etc at all ? then maybe after a year the sysptom all come out?


If not
If a person kena HIV when will the sysptom be out?after 1 month?

collin_23
04-05-2004, 12:44 PM
woo....good for him. :)

Ha ha i just call Big sexy he is in thailand bonking mad..... :D he says must remember to use rubber funny guy..

virginboy926
14-05-2004, 11:05 AM
Just wonder let say a person kena HIV maybe in the last 3 month from a pros.
is it possible he will not have any kind of sysptom like fever ,rashes at penis ,etc at all ? then maybe after a year the sysptom all come out?


If not
If a person kena HIV when will the sysptom be out?after 1 month?


Yes, The incubation period can be 2 to 3 years before any symptoms Appear. Because the HIV 1 or 2 virus need time to break down ur immune system or gene in order to let the Virus fully infest in ur bloodstream .

muzchat
19-05-2004, 06:32 AM
meaning b4 we go for check out, we cannot have sex?(since 3 or 6 mths after sex is best to go for chk out)

anyone can tell me, does a raw bj will pass virus to us or to other gal if infected?

DSC only test blood or have something else?(need to test sperm?)

Nataku_Taishi
19-05-2004, 07:56 AM
It will not be accurate if u did not restrain yourself b4 a check.

Yes, RAW bj will pass viruses to us and KILL us and many others.

DSC test other stds also, got the urine smear also. U won't have such good luck to test sperm there unless u want to be arrested. :D

meaning b4 we go for check out, we cannot have sex?(since 3 or 6 mths after sex is best to go for chk out)

anyone can tell me, does a raw bj will pass virus to us or to other gal if infected?

DSC only test blood or have something else?(need to test sperm?)

newyorker88
19-05-2004, 09:38 AM
meaning b4 we go for check out, we cannot have sex?(since 3 or 6 mths after sex is best to go for chk out)

anyone can tell me, does a raw bj will pass virus to us or to other gal if infected?

DSC only test blood or have something else?(need to test sperm?)

There are a lot of topics on these liao. BBBJ can spread STDs as well.
DSC test for STDs. Sperm test? Why? You want the quality of sperm tested? Becos u go problem having kids?

Please read up b4 asking questions and kana flame

nuoyah
19-05-2004, 10:46 PM
Prostitutes are never clean. If a ONS can be a risk...how much more a working girl ?

I recalled someone who bonked a ONS he picked up from a disco. Kenna HIV and he cursed the girl who gave it to him. How could he know....she was a teacher and he thought she was clean :confused:

It goes to show that you just cannot tell....so why risk it ? If you really have to do it.... dun let your dick rule your head. Bonk wisely ;)

newyorker88
19-05-2004, 11:58 PM
Prostitutes are never clean. If a ONS can be a risk...how much more a working girl ?

I recalled someone who bonked a ONS he picked up from a disco. Kenna HIV and he cursed the girl who gave it to him. How could he know....she was a teacher and he thought she was clean

It goes to show that you just cannot tell....so why risk it ? If you really have to do it.... dun let your dick rule your head. Bonk wisely


Good posting! hehehe, sometimes we rule our body with our big head. Sometimes we rule with our little head :D

humsuplow
20-05-2004, 03:54 AM
Good posting! hehehe, sometimes we rule our body with our big head. Sometimes we rule with our little head :D

beh kia lang tu lan ! :D

newyorker88
20-05-2004, 10:53 AM
beh kia lang tu lan ! :D


Hahhahaa. That is true wat! Sometimes our little brother tell us wat to do. But the big head must use a cap on the little one lah! If not how?