Hardness issue

[playboy82]

Just want to ask all the old birds here, when you having sex, are you able to stay hard through the whole session ? For me, it do get abit soft after a while of foreplay, then when want to penetrate , then will need to wake up the penis again.

Is this normal?

[doomvell13]

is it the partner? cos sometimes the partner foreplay no good, not seductive enough i will go soft too. If I get to bonk a partner with good body and skill will stand for damn long :D

[Johnston]

Hard is hard, but u want it to be hard at the correct times :rolleyes:
Some people who take Viagra end up with a LONG TERM ERECTION which is no good and u need to see doc-ter. ;)

[cheekp]

eh, TS, you must see whether your bird willing to work OT or not, also, must see if you are already sian of such stuff, need something more exciting to wake up.

[sickwormm]

During our foreplay I would caress my gf breast, meimei, ear etc and my gf would not leave my didi unattended throughout the foreplay session, I guess this is keeping my didi hard all the ways. At time she also uses very seductive actions and words I hear already can wait to bonk her.

Parden me of asking is your partner actively playing during the foreplay or you are only doing to her?

[alvin36]

Just want to ask all the old birds here, when you having sex, are you able to stay hard through the whole session ? For me, it do get abit soft after a while of foreplay, then when want to penetrate , then will need to wake up the penis again.

Is this normal?


yes, once in a while will have this problem, especially when the partner is a dead fish.

if the gal is passionate and knows how to make love, she should continue to touch the guy's sensitive area.

if your gal is not skillfull enough, then u have to do some tricks... turn yourself to 69 while licking her.. hint to her to BJ you :p

[longwinter]

Just want to ask all the old birds here, when you having sex, are you able to stay hard through the whole session ? For me, it do get abit soft after a while of foreplay, then when want to penetrate , then will need to wake up the penis again.

Is this normal?

Bro, l think the best thing is dont think too much about this hardness issue. the more u think, the more u cant enjoy and the more u cannot stand n perform. l can understand u do feel frustrated at the moment. Allow me to share my experience, Earlier on, l encountered such problem, can u believe, l went out to fuck 5 to 6 times, and all the sessions l cant managed to succeed at all. l am not able to perform or able to cum. I was damn frustrated and feelin very headache about it. The problems l encountered are turning soft when l am going to penetrate, cock turning hard n soft mode during foreplay...

But thankfully now l am alright le. l just told myself not to go think so much about it. l actually even did think of eatin those sex supplement pills to boost my cock, but after friends advices and thinkin of the side effects these pills give, l decided not to. Lucky l never take. And those pills are too x anyway.

Now l am back to normal, able to bonk happily with no problems. Well this kind of thing actually normal lah, maybe u are now on a bad patch. But no worries, who knows, the next moment u will be hitting on a good run. As long as ur cock can stand, this means u have no problem.

Having a smooth n successful sex session actually involve a no of factors. Sometime it maybe not ur problem, maybe the girl looks n body dun appeal to u? Are u feeling very tired, do u hav enough rest? Are u feeling stress lately?

[Achelouz]

I think our mentality during the foreplay is important leh, what we thinking and our mood when the girl is licking and playing. I think you need to focus on her sexy actions and what's going on to stay hardened. Of course, I think if the girl's skill is no good or if you don't find her attractive then these may be the cause of your softening la. For me, I just try to appreciate every girl that I got the chance to bed with, and only think of her during the whole seXXXion. :D

[rh8611]

Bro, l think the best thing is dont think too much about this hardness issue. the more u think, the more u cant enjoy and the more u cannot stand n perform. l can understand u do feel frustrated at the moment. Allow me to share my experience, Earlier on, l encountered such problem, can u believe, l went out to fuck 5 to 6 times, and all the sessions l cant managed to succeed at all. l am not able to perform or able to cum. I was damn frustrated and feelin very headache about it. The problems l encountered are turning soft when l am going to penetrate, cock turning hard n soft mode during foreplay... ...



I second that! I am also like u! even went to see doc.. doc say as long can stand in the morning, means normal.. just need to exercise more and avoid deep fried stuffs

hope this helps

[longwinter]

I second that! I am also like u! even went to see doc.. doc say as long can stand in the morning, means normal.. just need to exercise more and avoid deep fried stuffs

hope this helps

ya, exercise more, do helps! Cos having sex requires good stamina. but well, for me, l only exercise once in a while, lazy lah, hahaha. :p

[playboy82]

I second that! I am also like u! even went to see doc.. doc say as long can stand in the morning, means normal.. just need to exercise more and avoid deep fried stuffs

hope this helps


huh? the doc really say that? lol
i am rock hard when i wake up..lol

[rayalpha]

bro, it means u are alright.. but take my advice.. exercise more.. it will build up ur stamina and in no time u will be rock hard and perform way beyond expectation..

try this... go for a jog or gym before your bonking session.. conserve alittle of ur energy... n then bonk all u wan.. plus lots of foreplay.. best if your gf or maybe ur FL is a wild and fantastic one u will have a great bonking session..

my 2 cents worth.. well it works for me till now..:D

[rh8611]

huh? the doc really say that? lol
i am rock hard when i wake up..lol

yeah! i swear doc said that! went to TTHS for specialist consulting.. cost me a bomb if not for polyclinic referrer.

try to exercise at least 3 time per week.. each around 30 mins.. cheers!!

[rh8611]

ya, exercise more, do helps! Cos having sex requires good stamina. but well, for me, l only exercise once in a while, lazy lah, hahaha. :p

thanks bro for the up! will return once recover

try to arrange for group exercise like weekend running or go for RT! ahaaah
for me i train for yearly IPPT to exercise!

[goodpartner]

try to exercise at least 3 time per week.. each around 30 mins.. cheers!!

Didn't they say having sex is a form of exercise?
So does having sex for 30 min at least 3 times per week yield the same result? :rolleyes:

I've this hardness problem from time to time too - for me the mental influence overrides even the effect of any pills/juice. Therefore, nowadays while shopping for FL, I'll rather leave for home empty handed (and still loaded) than to waste $ to be embarrassed.

On the other hand, if the chick can seduce my mind...blah blah blah.



P.S. This is one reason why OKT must understand the need for punters to be choosy as if picking a wife :D

[longwinter]

Didn't they say having sex is a form of exercise?
So does having sex for 30 min at least 3 times per week yield the same result? :rolleyes:

I've this hardness problem from time to time too - for me the mental influence overrides even the effect of any pills/juice. Therefore, nowadays while shopping for FL, I'll rather leave for home empty handed (and still loaded) than to waste $ to be embarrassed.

On the other hand, if the chick can seduce my mind...blah blah blah.



P.S. This is one reason why OKT must understand the need for punters to be choosy as if picking a wife :D

In the mind of okts, they just wan us hurry hurry pick their ladies and $$$$ going into their pockets.

Actually this hardness issue is no big deal if u can still stand and able to pcc. Like l say, sometime u mite be hitting a bad patch. Cannot be always ur cock on tip top form de mah. Sometimes they mite be some miss q as well. Just like a Soccer club, no matter how strong the club is, there will be some bad days for them as well.

If one tells me, that he is very strong and able to perform every single time, l will be doubting his words for sure. :D

[longwinter]

Didn't they say having sex is a form of exercise?
So does having sex for 30 min at least 3 times per week yield the same result? :rolleyes:

I've this hardness problem from time to time too - for me the mental influence overrides even the effect of any pills/juice. Therefore, nowadays while shopping for FL, I'll rather leave for home empty handed (and still loaded) than to waste $ to be embarrassed.

On the other hand, if the chick can seduce my mind...blah blah blah.



P.S. This is one reason why OKT must understand the need for punters to be choosy as if picking a wife :D

In the mind of okts, they just wan us hurry hurry pick their ladies and $$$$ going into their pockets.

Actually this hardness issue is no big deal if u can still stand and able to pcc. Like l say, sometime u mite be hitting a bad patch. Cannot be always ur cock on tip top form de mah. Sometimes they mite be some miss q as well. Just like a Soccer club, no matter how strong the club is, there will be some bad days for them as well.

If one tells me, that he is very strong and able to perform every single time, l will be thinking that he is just bull shitting. :D

[longwinter]

In the mind of okts, they just wan us hurry hurry pick their ladies and $$$$ going into their pockets.

Actually this hardness issue is no big deal if u can still stand and able to pcc. Like l say, sometime u mite be hitting a bad patch. Cannot be always ur cock on tip top form de mah. Sometimes they mite be some miss q as well. Just like a Soccer club, no matter how strong the club is, there will be some bad days for them as well.

If one tells me, that he is very strong and able to perform every single time, l will be doubting his words for sure. :D

[longwinter]

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[NikonCamera]

You're right Bros, exercise is one way to help because you help to circulate the blood flow & strengthen the heart. And this lead to better engine power to fuel our little bro. I also found that a good relax state of mind is required. I was taught some breathing exercise by a doctor to help relieve the stress level. So guys... exercise, relax and concentrate Bros... Cheers

[couple]

me and wife soft swing with a older couple before and the guy go soft after awhile when fuckin his wife and hard again whenever he tilt his head towards my wife...my conclusion everytime fuck the same girl after awhile also not much feel:)

[goodpartner]

me and wife soft swing with a older couple before and the guy go soft after awhile when fuckin his wife and hard again whenever he tilt his head towards my wife...my conclusion everytime fuck the same girl after awhile also not much feel:)

And yours remained hard throughout because you were focused on his dick while u fuck ur wife?! :eek::D

juz kidding :p

[playboy82]

hmmm.. i guess is all in the mind...

[SUser]

interesting topic... and thanks to bros for the advice in here.
i find myself going soft after awhile too and have been wondering why, not sure if it's due to performance anxiety or partner not stimulating enough.

[creeve]

i think the hardness issue occur when the partner is not participating actively. so far only got one girl (a vietnamese girl) that does not actively participate in the foreplay yet i'm able to stay rock hard throughout the entire session. reason being i'm a ass-man and her ass is kiao until you can literally put a wine glass and it will not drop. (ok, i'm exaggerating, but you get the idea.)

those who tried wenfang in gl150 before will know what i'm talking about.

[howck001]

Bro, l think the best thing is dont think too much about this hardness issue. the more u think, the more u cant enjoy and the more u cannot stand n perform. l can understand u do feel frustrated at the moment. Allow me to share my experience, Earlier on, l encountered such problem, can u believe, l went out to fuck 5 to 6 times, and all the sessions l cant managed to succeed at all. l am not able to perform or able to cum. I was damn frustrated and feelin very headache about it. The problems l encountered are turning soft when l am going to penetrate, cock turning hard n soft mode during foreplay...

But thankfully now l am alright le. l just told myself not to go think so much about it. l actually even did think of eatin those sex supplement pills to boost my cock, but after friends advices and thinkin of the side effects these pills give, l decided not to. Lucky l never take. And those pills are too x anyway.

Now l am back to normal, able to bonk happily with no problems. Well this kind of thing actually normal lah, maybe u are now on a bad patch. But no worries, who knows, the next moment u will be hitting on a good run. As long as ur cock can stand, this means u have no problem.

Having a smooth n successful sex session actually involve a no of factors. Sometime it maybe not ur problem, maybe the girl looks n body dun appeal to u? Are u feeling very tired, do u hav enough rest? Are u feeling stress lately?

thanks for you comment, but since you alright, please advice other to same...
i mean what is remady for this... what execrise required...what else ?

[asiannewyorker]

Interesting thread..

Lot's of bros here providing insight from experience.. kudo's to all of you..

I've had this problem in the past too. Let me try to give you advice on this..

1) If you are getting regular sex, try not to masterbate. If you do this too much, your penis becomes desensitized so foreplay or a soft bj won't get you hard.

2) Try having sex in the morning when you have more energy, after a long day it's just harder.

3) Refrain from too much alcohol.. one drink will get you in the mood but more then that will just make you mentally horny but physically impaired.. lol

4) If you have trouble staying hard during sex, do it doggystyle since this is the easiest position for the guy and you can control the pace..

This is just my opinion from experience and not a science..

Happy fucking bro..

[andyk]

Just want to ask all the old birds here, when you having sex, are you able to stay hard through the whole session ? For me, it do get abit soft after a while of foreplay, then when want to penetrate , then will need to wake up the penis again.

Is this normal?

=> Yo Bro Playboy82...so are U are Young Cock or Old Bird yourself ???...It's also good to know age group so that BROs here know better how to share any good SeXual advice with U !!!...Because it could be also signs of ED problems ??? :confused:

- Will be really good if U have enough rest & U are good shape & certain fitness level yourself.....of course regular exercise definitely helps especially liked jogging,running& for myself playing those "walking" Golf course...because it helps your Blood Flow to your lower body part there & most important your precious heart too !!!...

( Recent medical health news - Excessive smoking or alcohol is definitely damaging for your sex health in the long run ! )

- Personally my daily intake of Vitamins supplements liked GNC - Megamen ( Multi Vitamins ) & especially ArginMax have helped me tremendously....( it really prolong my SeXual endurance !!!...and few times i was forgetful & didn't take it a few days & it really affected my SeXual performance !!!..And sometimes having Herbal Tonic Soups helps too !!!...:o )

- Having a SeXually horny partner for SeXXion is very important too...So it really depends on U are refering to your Love ones - Gal Fren or Wifey...or FL / WL...and they definitely need to turn U ONz all the way or U will lose your interest & hardness !!!...( for me i'll lose it if the FL looks is average or disappointing or Pretty but Luv Hole is too loose !!! )....

- Personally again i will stay away from those Massage & HJ ONLY & watching too much AV...Because if U usually enjoy deep SeXual penetration & release...then U change it to HJ only then it can be quite SeXually frustrating & need to adjust mentally so vice versa i think !!!...

Finally i kept using "personally" because what works for me,may not work for U...And some horny BROs will have no problems to enjoy Top SeXual Performance !!!...So juz sharing my 2c thoughts & support this thread !!!

Enjoy Sunday !!!
Andyk :)

[playboy82]

Interesting thread..

Lot's of bros here providing insight from experience.. kudo's to all of you..

I've had this problem in the past too. Let me try to give you advice on this..

1) If you are getting regular sex, try not to masterbate. If you do this too much, your penis becomes desensitized so foreplay or a soft bj won't get you hard.

2) Try having sex in the morning when you have more energy, after a long day it's just harder.

3) Refrain from too much alcohol.. one drink will get you in the mood but more then that will just make you mentally horny but physically impaired.. lol

4) If you have trouble staying hard during sex, do it doggystyle since this is the easiest position for the guy and you can control the pace..

This is just my opinion from experience and not a science..

Happy fucking bro..


ya.. true, when doing missionary, when i am on top, its more harder to penetrate, so after a few unsuccessful tries, it get soft le.. cos usually when doing missionary position, the gal will guide my cock in..

[playboy82]

=> Yo Bro Playboy82...so are U are Young Cock or Old Bird yourself ???...It's also good to know age group so that BROs here know better how to share any good SeXual advice with U !!!...Because it could be also signs of ED problems ??? :confused:

- Will be really good if U have enough rest & U are good shape & certain fitness level yourself.....of course regular exercise definitely helps especially liked jogging,running& for myself playing those "walking" Golf course...because it helps your Blood Flow to your lower body part there & most important your precious heart too !!!...

( Recent medical health news - Excessive smoking or alcohol is definitely damaging for your sex health in the long run ! )

- Personally my daily intake of Vitamins supplements liked GNC - Megamen ( Multi Vitamins ) & especially ArginMax have helped me tremendously....( it really prolong my SeXual endurance !!!...and few times i was forgetful & didn't take it a few days & it really affected my SeXual performance !!!..And sometimes having Herbal Tonic Soups helps too !!!...:o )

- Having a SeXually horny partner for SeXXion is very important too...So it really depends on U are refering to your Love ones - Gal Fren or Wifey...or FL / WL...and they definitely need to turn U ONz all the way or U will lose your interest & hardness !!!...( for me i'll lose it if the FL looks is average or disappointing or Pretty but Luv Hole is too loose !!! )....

- Personally again i will stay away from those Massage & HJ ONLY & watching too much AV...Because if U usually enjoy deep SeXual penetration & release...then U change it to HJ only then it can be quite SeXually frustrating & need to adjust mentally so vice versa i think !!!...

Finally i kept using "personally" because what works for me,may not work for U...And some horny BROs will have no problems to enjoy Top SeXual Performance !!!...So juz sharing my 2c thoughts & support this thread !!!

Enjoy Sunday !!!
Andyk :)

hmm.. i am consider young bird lo, less than 30 years old..

[andyk]

hmm.. i am consider young bird lo, less than 30 years old..

=> Guessed some horny young BROs can share their good SeXual advice with U then !!!....Sometimes it could be stress too ???...personally sometimes i really feel very stressful in SG....to really enjoy a super good SeXXion !!!..:o

All The BEST to U !!!
Andyk :)