Lusty Mind with lazy body

[lawrencecooper]

Serious problem! And hope bros & sis can help here...

I am 29 this year and encountering a really worrying problem - I want sex and CANNOT have sex because it is very difficult to keep my D**K and/or mind aroused long enough to do the deed fully. Either I do it within 5 minutes or it (the interest and thus erection) will just die off after a while.

See my age? I don think i have any physical problem, more likely a psychological issue. So i think viagra and similar performance enhancement pills are not necessary. But maybe something that make me horny and wana have sex you know? Something like those pills or what not that we see in movies that gangsters always use to make their gfs horny kind... where can get such stuffs?

Sigh. Or perhaps it is just a lao period that my body is telling me not to have sex for a while... Wth?! :(

[Gerald]

Take sometime away from your work. A 2 weeks break would be good. Go to some nice beautiful island which isn't too secluded and not too crowded. Have a good time and re-charged that inner energy. I have a similar problem and I go away once every 2 months and it works wonder.

[jbauer79]

Might you have ADD??

[lawrencecooper]

Erm... what is ADD?

[NightHawk88]

You probably need a healthy diet, more exercise and sufficient rest……so that your lazy body can put your lusty mind in action.

If above still doesn’t work……time to get more proper treatment through specialist.

Worry will not solve your problem; action does.

Cheers.

[cowboy69]

I want sex and CANNOT have sex because it is very difficult to keep my D**K and/or mind aroused long enough to do the deed fully. Either I do it within 5 minutes or it (the interest and thus erection) will just die off after a while.
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You need to pin down if it's the mind or the body.

In my case, I cummed very fast whenever i make love with a new girl. With familar ones, I can "last" longer and sometimes if too long, it will die.

Your problem is with existing girl?

[lawrencecooper]

Sobs!

My problem is with every girl! Like sometimes dating a new girl (as in never lay her before), will get super turned on seeing her clevage, the teasing, the touching, etc. But when get down to the deed, the erection will die off.

Scene 1
In movies, girl gets cold, hug hug. Arm brushes her breasts or her hand put on my thigh i will get super hard cos anticipating...

Scene 2
Get into car, kiss kiss, hands roving, touch ass, feel WOW! G-String! Super hard...

Scene 3
Get into room (or some times office hee!), take off clothes bit by bit... Super hard...

Scene 4 Both naked, oral or Hj or whatever... erection will die off...

WTF?!?!

[Joris]

TS, how long have this problem been persisting u?
Or is it just recently?

[pop_odd]

Maybe you need to control your self abit. Seems like you get too excited easily. :)

[SamSeng79]

I think u need more exercise...:rolleyes:

[nottituck]

if anything i think the problem is that you are just bored with sex...

see this article i came across hopes it helps

BORED with SEX (http://www.tengatango.com/2008/11/bored-with-sex/)
source: Bored With Sex? | TENGA by tengatango.com (http://www.tengatango.com/2008/11/bored-with-sex/)

[lawrencecooper]

Erm... think it's been like that since Feb this year? Previously i was having Fantastic sex with my ex gf who was SUPERB in bed and we did all kinds of exciting stuffs at interesting locations! Thinking back, could i really be bored with sex now that we've parted ways?

Sigh.

It is true that this girl opened up my mind and let me see whatever i never tot of in the past were actually possible. So perhaps i need her back...? Or maybe i just need something to spice up my sex life? :p

What about bros here? I mean all the FLs are different of course, some MILF some SYT some even uniforms but anybody bored of doing the deed?

[Jchua]

Erm... think it's been like that since Feb this year? Previously i was having Fantastic sex with my ex gf who was SUPERB in bed and we did all kinds of exciting stuffs at interesting locations! Thinking back, could i really be bored with sex now that we've parted ways?

Sigh.

It is true that this girl opened up my mind and let me see whatever i never tot of in the past were actually possible. So perhaps i need her back...? Or maybe i just need something to spice up my sex life? :p

What about bros here? I mean all the FLs are different of course, some MILF some SYT some even uniforms but anybody bored of doing the deed?
It could be a black magiv=c she had applied on you for the split, dont discount that possibility.:eek:

[SureScore]

I think your problem may be psychological and it's all in the mind. If you cannot let go what's in the past then you will never felt satisfied with present. You will always felt that the past is the best and nothing can compare now.

If you still cannot relax yourself and enjoyed yourself even after exercise, meditation, etc. then you really need help. You may need to see a psychiatrist and/or a doctor to help with your problem.

One question, do you masturbate often? If yes, then better stop or reduce them gradually.

[sangozanji]

masturbate alot will kanna this problem meh lol

[Bangster]

Humans have already bored you, TS

Now you must try other species....

[cowboy69]

based on your response, i think it's psychological.

You probably missed your ex and feel that great sex will never be possible.

Well.. relationship come and go. You don't have to go back to the same girl if you two are not meant to be together. It shld leave as good memories.

The first gf whom i have sex with, when we broke up, i thought i will never get to have sex with another girl anymore. But i am wrong, every gf i have, we never fail to have sex. :p

Just get over her and move on. You never know the next gf can give you better head...

[Advalorum]

hey bro

do you suffer from hypertension. Sometimes taking those hypertension pills will actually deflate your little didi. In this case you have to learn some timing to get your erection just right for the action, as the stage of erection cannot be sustained.

another possibility is that you are too anxious to perform, and this can lead you to having ED.

[freezetheDB]

i think its purely psychological.

like there is so much excitement and anticipation but the level of excitement during actual deed does not exceed the initial foreplay, thus the mind start to feel sian.

Worse is the more you think about it the more often it happens.

Just take a break off work or whatever is causing you stress. Just relax and dont think so much about performance. Sometimes let yourself cum during a blowjob or handjob. Let sex be spontaneous instead of structured/rehearsed and it will make you less bored of it.

my 2cents

[doomvell13]

dude? did u have raw sex with ur previous gfs?
or maybe is the condom.

I had ur problem, the thing is, i will try to control myself not to "plan" sex and just go as a flow with my partner. Previously, almost on every weekend, i will plan my sex like going to hotel specially to have sex or going to romantic places just to have sex. Also, my partner is just as horny as me, keep sending dirty sms to each other during weekdays.

Another thing is the condom. I notice I only do well with one type of condom which is the durex extra safe. I dunno... maybe the condom fits my cock nicely and have the right amount of lubricant.


Side note, I use to brag to my partner I will give her a good sex because she like sex the ang moh style. Nowadays, I don't brag anymore :D

[Spinx]

I had this problem too when i break with my gf.
I can get hard on and do all the piling.
But i just can't cum at all.

Guess u really have to forget your ex gf.:(

[playboy82]

hmm.. it happens to me a few times too.. my mind suddenly went blank, no more the lust feeling, no more fantasy.. a very scary moment..

[fazer6s]

Alternative _ Ladyboys for a change

[lawrencecooper]

Ladyboys?

I don't know leh. They are quite pretty lah, those i see at Changi. But cannot get pass the psychological barrier of touching a fellow prick. Haha. :o