Is It All Girls Have The Same Prob!!

[tomleo]

My ger is totally not interested in sex.!TOTALLY!During sex..im the one who do most of the job(or ALL the job).she dun like to be on top of me,dun like to be on doggie,dun moan and bj and dun even let me oral her..basically she just lie on the bed and let me do ALL the job.This is getting extremely frustrating when im damn hype up before sex and getting this type of response..my sexual urges DIE down totally leaving me DRY AND IRRITATED.

tired coaxing her..having a gd atmosphere..doing everything i could.but she just dun do anything except lay there.it straining me badly and sometimes i wonder whether im the one with the problem or her..i feel like im having sex with a robot..told her thousands and one times tat in sex,both parties must be responsive.but all i get is guys should do all the job(yea right and when i wanna oral her she refused).

SOMEbODY gib me a bloody solution before i totally gib up on her.(relationship with this kind of sex is as gd as none...)

im so sad and it really strainning me....

[facial]

By the way, how old are you? Hard to comment withour getting some basic details from you.

[tomleo]

does age matters?:)im in my early twenties..

[facial]

Age doesn't matter.

Why dun you concentrate on making her song without thinking of making yourself song. I mean just concentrate totally on her and let her discover what you can do for her without getting anything in return.

After you make her song where she has never been song before, make her make you song.

I mean you have to give before you receive with girls like that. That is why i always like horny bitch. Dun even need to take off pants she already hands all over you.

[OceanEleven]

Originally posted by tomleo
does age matters?:)im in my early twenties..
Ask yourself, had you done enough foreplay, had you make her want, yearn for more?;)

[Feli]

you must make her feel that you are making love NOT SEX....
make her feel good, confident of herself.. feed her love quotes, chocolates.. touch her ... kiss her lots and lots.. feel her.. dun rush immediately to sex.. by the end of the day.. WHAM WHAM WHAM ,.. you are IN the hole... due.. hahhahahaha.. kekkek
really .. no joke

[newyorker88]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by tomleo
[B]My ger is totally not interested in sex.!TOTALLY!During sex..im the one who do most of the job(or ALL the job).she dun like to be on top of me,dun like to be on doggie,dun moan and bj and dun even let me oral her..basically she just lie on the bed and let me do ALL the job.This is getting extremely frustrating when im damn hype up before sex and getting this type of response..my sexual urges DIE down totally leaving me DRY AND IRRITATED.

tired coaxing her..having a gd atmosphere..doing everything i could.but she just dun do anything except lay there.it straining me badly and sometimes i wonder whether im the one with the problem or her..i feel like im having sex with a robot..told her thousands and one times tat in sex,both parties must be responsive.but all i get is guys should do all the job(yea right and when i wanna oral her she refused).

Did she has a bad experience b4? Or is it that she went thru some trama b4? Just a question. During sex, both parties need to communicate, not a one sided thing. You say she does not like to be on top, what abt other positions? Have you foreplay her enough? Make her cum a few times first, with your hands tocuh her breast, suck her neck, kiss her whole body first, make her feel good. Sex is not just about orgaism only, it is abt sharing the bodies of both of you. Sharing of pleasure, in a relationship. Not like when we go Geylang , bang bang and go! Of course, our gals need the attention as well. Maybe there is a lack of communication. As a brother says, you are young, maybe you need to talk more to her b4 sex. Understand her more first. Hope this helps.

[Blue_gal]

NOt TRUe.. i Love SEX...and DepeNDS who i am Hving IT wif...WeLL GErS can CONTROL better then GUYS...(SEX Urge)..and can COVER UP the NEED of IT.....

MayBE She is still youNG....Shy abT sEX and to EXpress HERSelf IN SEX..TOK to HEr...share wif her wat U Like or try watcH POrns wif her.. teach her..maybe SHe dun nOE much ABt SEX..but the waY.. itS SHOULD be Making LOVE not SEX...gerS like the worDS MAKE LOVe rather then MAKE SEX...trY TO hv MOre FOREplay..make HER wet wet then........

R/S not onli abT SEX...it lOve Making..remember thiS...GOOD LUCK

CheeR~
BitCH B|ue AUnt|E

[rawestest]

Originally posted by Blue_gal
NOt TRUe.. i Love SEX...and DepeNDS who i am Hving IT wif...WeLL GErS can CONTROL better then GUYS...(SEX Urge)..and can COVER UP the NEED of IT.....

MayBE She is still youNG....Shy abT sEX and to EXpress HERSelf IN SEX..TOK to HEr...share wif her wat U Like or try watcH POrns wif her.. teach her..maybe SHe dun nOE much ABt SEX..but the waY.. itS SHOULD be Making LOVE not SEX...gerS like the worDS MAKE LOVe rather then MAKE SEX...trY TO hv MOre FOREplay..make HER wet wet then........

R/S not onli abT SEX...it lOve Making..remember thiS...GOOD LUCK

CheeR~
BitCH B|ue AUnt|E



ms blue_gal

ur word looked so tastyyyyy....dunt really mean anything jus my feeling....

no offend.

[OceanEleven]

Originally posted by Blue_gal
NOt TRUe.. i Love SEX...and DepeNDS who i am Hving IT wif...WeLL GErS can CONTROL better then GUYS...(SEX Urge)..and can COVER UP the NEED of IT.....

MayBE She is still youNG....Shy abT sEX and to EXpress HERSelf IN SEX..TOK to HEr...share wif her wat U Like or try watcH POrns wif her.. teach her..maybe SHe dun nOE much ABt SEX..but the waY.. itS SHOULD be Making LOVE not SEX...gerS like the worDS MAKE LOVe rather then MAKE SEX...trY TO hv MOre FOREplay..make HER wet wet then........

R/S not onli abT SEX...it lOve Making..remember thiS...GOOD LUCK

CheeR~
BitCH B|ue AUnt|E



It simply boils down to the feel good factor.:)

[fun4evergood]

I have met gals who have very high sexual urge ........... :D

[darkstar]

Originally posted by Blue_gal
NOt TRUe.. i Love SEX...and DepeNDS who i am Hving IT wif...WeLL GErS can CONTROL better then GUYS...(SEX Urge)..and can COVER UP the NEED of IT.....

MayBE She is still youNG....Shy abT sEX and to EXpress HERSelf IN SEX..TOK to HEr...share wif her wat U Like or try watcH POrns wif her.. teach her..maybe SHe dun nOE much ABt SEX..but the waY.. itS SHOULD be Making LOVE not SEX...gerS like the worDS MAKE LOVe rather then MAKE SEX...trY TO hv MOre FOREplay..make HER wet wet then........

R/S not onli abT SEX...it lOve Making..remember thiS...GOOD LUCK

CheeR~
BitCH B|ue AUnt|E



dis part very interesting:

WeLL GErS can CONTROL better then GUYS...(SEX Urge)..and can COVER UP the NEED of IT.....

question -
1. y control it - dun u need it?
2. y cover up the need 4 it - again, dun u need it?

back 2 my earlier hypothesis - correct me if i wrong:
gers go 4 higher level of satisfaction - either emotional, or higher - mental or even higher - spiritual - yah the lofty thingy sometimes called luv, so they cover up their lower need 2 hav sex... since they know the guys want it so bad anyway... infact so bad she can hav it w omos any guy she chooses (assuming she at least ave lookin) so it become a game right? or a trade ... u giv me luv, i giv u sex?

my earlier question: can gers enjoy sex as much w/o the luv part gettin into the picture... actually i know the ans oredi - yes
but dats not the point here, izit, the point is y show it or giv it 4 free?

ya, go ahead n hide it, cover it up... make us pay 4 it.

soli i dun mean 2 b rude here... just stating facts of life.... correct me if i'm wrong.

[StrongDragon]

Originally posted by tomleo
My ger is totally not interested in sex.!....

My 2 cents worth:
1. Bring her out for a drink, helps 2 set the mood with live music too. Hope u enjoys dancing with her too.
2. Try holding her hands and hug her often
3. Kiss her playfully, cheekyly, passionately often
4. In private, seek out her sex points; kiss on the neck, caress her breasts ....etc or what they call foreplay
5. Only when she is warm up, caress her clit...etc
6. Be playful, only when u feel she is wet, try gentle entry and even withdrawal until she is in the real mood
Then the rest is up 2 u.

If u skip too many steps, chances is she is not wet, then she is not enjoying it, then dun blame her for 'lack' of interest, it is lack of loving touches fr u, man

[CheoNemo]

Well, i quite agree with Blue_gal that maybe your gf is still young and inexperience about sex. Yup, you can watch some soft porn with her (but pls don't watch those hardcore XXX as the scenes may be too explicit for her and even made her scare of sex - this is my own personal feeling, so may also apply to your gf). Don't stop when she refused to let you do oral on her. just go ahead and do your job. she will readily ask for more if you do it right. Another thing I can guess is that maybe she think that her vagina is dirty and don't want you to lick it in case of infection or something like that. then maybe you both can bath together before making love. I find that having sex when both parties are clean is much more comfortable than you are both sweaty and sticky. You can maybe also try a different setting, like in a hotel where both of you can really let loose and not scare of anybody disturbing.

This is just a few of my suggestion from my own experience. Hope you can work something out :)

[sony2002]

my girl used to be similar to your gf, not interested in sex at all, in fact she hate it

you can try to give her the confident that u really love her and not just for sex

remember to make her song first, lots of foreplay, fingering, licking see which she like most and try doing in different places like hotel, public places or your bed and see where she likes most

slowly i discovered that my girl like foreplay more, just fingering and licking already make her song, sometimes she also prefer doing in public places becos it make her more exciting and cum easily, but now she prefer to do it on my bed.

Anyway, it is all about communication., you have to find out what she want, probably you can substitue words like cum/tits/cock/cb with some cute names, that way may be she will feel less shy and able to tell you what she want.

now my gf is so well trained, she will beg for it instead, her bj is getting better and better until i have to ask her to stop. she getting more and more naughty too. at first we only do missionary where i take all the control, but now she take over and ride on me instead! so i just lie there and enjoy her "service" :p, she even brought some kinky stuff to play, i was quite shocked too :eek: