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DO_YOU_BJ
14-03-2009, 10:26 AM
ManInCheong, by reading your posts, you fall under this category:
1) You are definitely not an alpha male
2) You are definitely not a person of high status or high caliber
3) You are definitely someone who has many failures in trying to woo women of different status and sectors in our society
4) You are definitely not a high income earner
5) You are definitely someone who is "AI PI AI CHI AI TUA LIAP NI!"

We're all born different and that's how we make the world whole.....I like your synopsis, makes people like me have a good laugh every now and then to see people like you say such thing........amazing.......

Panamera
14-03-2009, 10:37 AM
Exactly my point to him in his previous thread bro.

Bro leecs, just focusing on a few isolated incidence is not going to help very much. You should go back to the source of the problem and identify the root cause. Otherwise, you can treat the symptoms but may never cure the disease.

Bro leecs, I re-read your posting and realized the following:

1) You see yourself as one to whom things happen in the relationship (victim mentality)

2) You harp on past mistakes repeatedly. You often bring it up in conversation or your thoughts. You bear grudges and resentment

3) Thoughtless. You are focused on yourself, so it is hard to think about others

4) You have fears that are based on the past and you have worries/anxiety about your future. This is affecting your present

5) You give love with expectations

It might be better if you stopping for a moment and listen to your wife on what exactly is wrong before getting your point across to her.

Marriage commitment cannot depends on the climate of the relationship and do not trust the voice of your ego as your guide.

Panamera
14-03-2009, 10:58 AM
RANKING
2. Accountant/Account Assistant - Yes. They will control your wallet and manage your account to 0.01 dollar accuracy. Be prepared to receive your daily "POCKET MONEY" or "PETTY CASH" :D
3. Quantity Surveyor (QS) - Slightly different from type 2. They will manage your BILLS to 0.01 dollar accuracy.
4. Admin Assistant - This type of girl will control your EVERYTHING. Wat time your wake up. Wat time you reach home...bla...bla...bla...
5. Model - They want men to earn more than them. More free than them. Taller than them. Lives in style and drive a sport car. They think their pussy got gold. Many work part time as FL or Escort.
6. Air Stewardess - Same as 5 with slightly better attitude. Except they get a stable income ranging from 4k to 6k. Before recession.
7. Manageress - Any trait. Unless you earn more than them and have higher position than them or are gigolo...dun try to get near these lady emperors.
8. Financial Advisor - They will advise you and make decision for you either you wants it or not.
9. Insurance Agent - Bros should see these in lots of local drama and local movie.
10. Property Agent - You will have lots of time browsing SBF and going out for "FOOD".

You posted in other thread complaining about PRC and now this? So how like this? Every type of women you also got problem...Buay-Tahan You... Are you a beta males (Read loud: NOT BATA) ?

Please be more assured and confident around females, no matter how we view them inside us, we love them !... :D

colins
14-03-2009, 04:49 PM
I’m also not a good guy. I have my bad points too.

I try to remember & relate what we trashed out.

Her: Are you still angry with me?

.........
Her: Then she cries & go take 5 & drank red wine.

Theres more, but this is the best I can remember. Im not hiding anything from her side or mine.

Bro leecs, actually what do you want from that conversation which is basically someone apologising and another one harping? I can imagine the way you behave before that conversation, whole day black face like wanna die unless someone give you 2 million in compensation. So she is forced to face the issue with you.

To me, at least that had a lot more purpose cos you, albeit using the low down black face tactic, managed to draw her out to talk. It was actually time for you to negotiate for a better treatment but you just dropped the whole issue away and avoided a solution. As if a child wanting to tell mummy she hurts me, cry cry then everything ok. You just want to hurt her back. You know she was looking for assurance from you that you are still with her and accomodating her faults (which you've accepted and you condoned too), yet the feeling is like you haven't complain enough, you haven't get you breath back from that lock door incident. So many issues which you haven't close (like the lock door becos she was hurt by your lateness or watever) now everything bring to table, OF COS nothing can be solved.

Worst thing is, the whole bloody issue in that conversation din get solved or close either! You just wanna whine and whine to hurt her.

You PRC girlfriend must have been a good listener to your whinings to capture your heart.

Panamera
14-03-2009, 04:58 PM
Bro Colins, I concur with you. Please see my point 1 above..

Panamera
16-03-2009, 01:30 PM
Bro leecs,

Are you the same guy who started this thread?

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/adult-discussions-about-sex/119588-wife-wanted-out-help.html

It is completely different story all together...

mike1304k
16-03-2009, 01:41 PM
Bro Leecs,

As you have mentioned yourself, you are imperfect and so are women. We are all human. The question is, when we are married, we have to compromise and then from this comes the mutual point of going forward or split or to go backwards. I must admit to you that I also had a great big fight with my wife not so many years ago. She was on board and I was racing. That night she slept in my spare room. But the next day we trashed it out and she said that if I wanted to die, I better die alone. It was a valid statement and I accepted it. It is not that I apologised so we should get back to normal. It means that we should learn from what we did wrong and not do it again.

She seems to still love you, but you are not really interested in the healing process. Perhaps she is sarcastic, perhaps she is not the best wife, so now you have to choose and see if you want to continue. My suggestion in this case is to move back, back to the time when you first dated and were together. Why did you marry? Maybe it is something you weren't too keen about, but it is up to you to make the best of your future. Like I have mentioned, many times people get together for all the wrong reasons. But in the end, they find the right reason to be together till the end of time.

My dad was also such a guy. When I was young, he had an affair. It was so obvious to me that I was wondering how my mom could still stand it. In the end, they still stayed together and my dad was one of the best fathers I could ever ask for. Now that he is gone, I am supporting my mom and I also find that he had to have a strength that was super human to put up with her. I now find myself wanting to be like my dad and to keep looking after my mom like my dad did.

It is the finding of the meaning of life, of love. It is not how happy we are together, but it is how we find happiness in each other.

leecs
16-03-2009, 04:56 PM
I’m not mad at my wife anymore. I’m trying to go back to the things they were before. It’s hard though. I agree that she’s not the best woman, but since I’ve chosen her, I’ll try to see if it works out.

leecs
16-03-2009, 04:58 PM
Sorry. Double post.

mercifullouis
16-03-2009, 05:39 PM
Hi All bro,

We are young marriage couple, My wife intend to come out to massage, as need money, She is first timer and need me to accompany her in the room, if any u guys interested pls email me can thankz,

[email protected]

Price - $150 Naked n hand job ( Sorry she first time so she scare do lot)

DO_YOU_BJ
16-03-2009, 05:50 PM
I’m not mad at my wife anymore.
Wow that's fast but its a start

I’m trying to go back to the things they were before. It’s hard though.
It's IMPOSSIBLE, what you must do is move on from where you all left off

I agree that she’s not the best woman, but since I’ve chosen her, I’ll try to see if it works out.
That's a very selfish self centered statement. Then, what makes you think you're the best man for her??????????????
If based on what you posted to date, you sure are not.
Do not bitch about what's best for you, but instead, make best of what you have around you!!!!!!!!

Panamera
16-03-2009, 05:58 PM
Sorry. Double post.

I’m not mad at my wife anymore. I’m trying to go back to the things they were before. It’s hard though. I agree that she’s not the best woman, but since I’ve chosen her, I’ll try to see if it works out.

A coins has 2 sides but its the same coin...

mike1304k
16-03-2009, 06:14 PM
How could you be angry with her, from other thread you seek advice, it does seems like you are the possessive one who fancy FL meimei, not her.

A coins has 2 sides but its the same coin...

Sometimes, I find it quite TL, after seeing all good bros posted and replied to enquirer who seek advice with no real, serious intend and half-baked story...


Bro Panamera.... Sabah sabah.... some people seem lost and no matter how much light you shine... they still cannot see the path.... They will still go around and around asking for help and asking for someone to shine the torch on the path.... (I watch too many horror movies lah...) All we can do is to say it like it is... and then let the reader take it in and accept it. If not, when our batteries fail and there is no more light... then too bad lor...

Panamera
16-03-2009, 06:25 PM
Bro Panamera.... Sabah sabah.... some people seem lost and no matter how much light you shine... they still cannot see the path.... They will still go around and around asking for help and asking for someone to shine the torch on the path.... (I watch too many horror movies lah...) All we can do is to say it like it is... and then let the reader take it in and accept it. If not, when our batteries fail and there is no more light... then too bad lor...

All time best horror movie: Sweeney Todd..wahahahaha

leecs
16-03-2009, 09:07 PM
I agree that she’s not the best woman, but since I’ve chosen her, I’ll try to see if it works out.
That's a very selfish self centered statement. Then, what makes you think you're the best man for her??????????????
If based on what you posted to date, you sure are not.
Do not bitch about what's best for you, but instead, make best of what you have around you!!!!!!!!

im sorry to write this statement... My apologies.

bud-man
18-03-2009, 07:14 PM
Hi All bro,

We are young marriage couple, My wife intend to come out to massage, as need money, She is first timer and need me to accompany her in the room, if any u guys interested pls email me can thankz,

[email protected]

Price - $150 Naked n hand job ( Sorry she first time so she scare do lot)

So what will you be doing in the room with her.......??? She naked and you give the hand job?

lambo_tan
19-03-2009, 03:30 PM
So what will you be doing in the room with her.......??? She naked and you give the hand job?

not hand job more like film job.
but most of the cheongsters here not really rich lah, not worth the effort. Later kena beaten up and charge in court for extortion i :p

Panamera
19-03-2009, 03:36 PM
Hi All bro,

We are young marriage couple, My wife intend to come out to massage, as need money, She is first timer and need me to accompany her in the room, if any u guys interested pls email me can thankz,

[email protected]

Price - $150 Naked n hand job ( Sorry she first time so she scare do lot)

You posted in wrong thread..

BTW, please go get a job and be a Man! ..

Soft rice is easy to eat but hard to swallow!

fanaticd
20-03-2009, 02:34 AM
err... if you are in the room. will the guy be comfortable with it? any hidden cameras involved? they will sure scared later kena blackmail

FL Lover
20-03-2009, 11:15 AM
Hi All bro,

We are young marriage couple, My wife intend to come out to massage, as need money, She is first timer and need me to accompany her in the room, if any u guys interested pls email me can thankz,

[email protected]

Price - $150 Naked n hand job ( Sorry she first time so she scare do lot)

Your wife coming out to be a massager AND YOU AGREED? :eek:

Somemore you have to be in the room with her.... I wonder you will get any business.. GROW UP LAH. I ASK YOU. WILL YOU GO TO A MASSAGE WITH A GUY IN THE ROOM?:cool:

Jedi
20-03-2009, 11:21 AM
Your wife coming out to be a massager AND YOU AGREED? :eek:

Somemore you have to be in the room with her.... I wonder you will get any business.. GROW UP LAH. I ASK YOU. WILL YOU GO TO A MASSAGE WITH A GUY IN THE ROOM?:cool:


Maybe he should change the business strategy, they do we see loh but price cheaper lah

mike1304k
20-03-2009, 11:57 AM
Not trying to flame anyone or say anything, but as a man, how would you feel if you were to ask your wife to massage other men? Naked? The guy or the girl or both? And what are you doing standing in the room? Get a job and get a life lah... How can you ask your wife to do such things?

Perhaps you are unable to find a job, or maybe you have a peverse liking to see your wife with other men, but not me. I respect and love my wife too much to even think of such a thing.

And FYI hor... she can do many things instead of this too. Work as a cleaner can earn at least a few hundred dollars and if you get off your asse, you can also earn a few hundred dollars.. Together and if you save... you can get through any hard times... But asking your wife to massage other guys is the first step to asking her to open her legs to get money. And sorry, you can flame me for all I care, but I find such men the lowest of the low.

Panamera
20-03-2009, 12:05 PM
Not trying to flame anyone or say anything, but as a man, how would you feel if you were to ask your wife to massage other men? Naked? The guy or the girl or both? And what are you doing standing in the room? Get a job and get a life lah... How can you ask your wife to do such things?

Perhaps you are unable to find a job, or maybe you have a peverse liking to see your wife with other men, but not me. I respect and love my wife too much to even think of such a thing.

And FYI hor... she can do many things instead of this too. Work as a cleaner can earn at least a few hundred dollars and if you get off your asse, you can also earn a few hundred dollars.. Together and if you save... you can get through any hard times... But asking your wife to massage other guys is the first step to asking her to open her legs to get money. And sorry, you can flame me for all I care, but I find such men the lowest of the low.

Bro mike1304k, no point advising a worm la...

HCKing
20-03-2009, 03:49 PM
Your wife coming out to be a massager AND YOU AGREED? :eek:

Somemore you have to be in the room with her.... I wonder you will get any business.. GROW UP LAH. I ASK YOU. WILL YOU GO TO A MASSAGE WITH A GUY IN THE ROOM?:cool:

relax bro, maybe sch holidays havent over yet.

easy way out for some lazy sch kids to dig statistics or do surveys for their final year projects.:rolleyes:

slider_72
20-03-2009, 05:26 PM
Not trying to flame anyone or say anything, but as a man, how would you feel if you were to ask your wife to massage other men? Naked? The guy or the girl or both? And what are you doing standing in the room? Get a job and get a life lah... How can you ask your wife to do such things?

Errr.... bro, although it is certainly not my cup of tea either, there are some guys out there who get turned on by watching their wives being fucked by other men. Strange fetish if you ask me but well..... 红萝卜与青菜,各有所爱。

DO_YOU_BJ
20-03-2009, 05:35 PM
Strange fetish

Wat fetish?
This aint no fetish bro
This is a mental state where pedophiles are born from
Layman term: SICK IN DA HEAD.....BIG N SMALL HEAD!!!!!!

mike1304k
20-03-2009, 08:48 PM
Errr.... bro, although it is certainly not my cup of tea either, there are some guys out there who get turned on by watching their wives being fucked by other men. Strange fetish if you ask me but well..... 红萝卜与青菜,各有所爱。


As Big Bro DYBJ states... sick in da head... If as a couple, itis over, I will not dwell upon the thought that she will one day be farked by someone and perhaps no matter how bitter the pill is, I will have to take it, but as long as we are together, I promised my wife I will love her for better or for worse... Not let someone love her for the better of myself... hehehehehe

bunnyrabbit
22-04-2009, 09:13 AM
a woman mux haf love u very deeply to even consider doong massage for other man...
do u bear to let someone who loves u so deeply doing such things?
i feel sad for her if u do..

bangbangben
23-04-2009, 01:32 AM
Hi All bro,

We are young marriage couple, My wife intend to come out to massage, as need money, She is first timer and need me to accompany her in the room, if any u guys interested pls email me can thankz,

[email protected]

Price - $150 Naked n hand job ( Sorry she first time so she scare do lot)

Are you the one who posted naked photo of your wife and say she do FL but u must be in the room? and now u say she massage u in the room?

Firstly
Common, 150 for a hand job with you around? :confused:

I rather go to a SPA and add 100 for full service, total damage only 140.
I get a hot chick to massage and a full fuck.
I get to eat at the canteen after my fuck and massage.
I get to soak in the pool and bake myself in the sauna.

Secondly
Yes it is true there are some who love their spouse to watch the partner getting laid. But most won't not take the risk as a man's happiest moment is his weakest moment as well. We won't know what stun you have up your sleeves.

Thirdly
Don't tell me you going to further reduce your prices?
100 bucks per session? 80 bucks?
I give u 1 customer per day and 30 days every day u get 1...
That is a meer 3000 dollar. whom each of you only get 1500.

Four
Go get a job and dun be lazy! Don't give excuses that you can't find... visit your void deck and see which day your MP is around. They do have job placement services for free!
Given both of you are paid 1200 per month, that give you total earning of 2748! Remember your employer contribute 14.5% cpf as well.

Conclusion
It has been from traditions that the man is always the bread winner of the family. Even in the event that the wife is required to work, the husband should never have the idea of eating of the woman.
(I am quoting on a basis where this is a regular and normal family)

To put things worst, you even allowed your WIFE to sell her body to feed you, whom is a regular and healthy person!

Come on! I won't mind earning less 252 dollar a month to exchange for the sight of 30 different men screwing my wife monthly.

Remember! There are always options in life.
Easier ones are mostly the dirty, dishonest or unfruitful path.


Lastly, Please do look for assistance if you are lost.
PM me if you need help, but no way am I feeding you nor booking your wife!

HCKing
23-04-2009, 02:15 AM
Lastly, Please do look for assistance if you are lost.
PM me if you need help, but no way am I feeding you nor booking your wife!

relax bro, maybe this fellow is just doing online survery for his final year project. no need to take his postings too seriously.:)

bangbangben
23-04-2009, 02:16 PM
relax bro, maybe this fellow is just doing online survery for his final year project. no need to take his postings too seriously.:)

It's a cyber world and if he is Genuine, he would take the necessary actions...
We have to understand that not all humans are cultivated to have the same level of EQ and IQ, hence some may be deem stubborn but I don't think we should boycott them but aid them in a way which doesn't feel harmful to ourselves.
Cheers and thanks for the advice. :)

colins
23-04-2009, 11:33 PM
It's a cyber world and if he is Genuine, he would take the necessary actions...
We have to understand that not all humans are cultivated to have the same level of EQ and IQ, hence some may be deem stubborn but I don't think we should boycott them but aid them in a way which doesn't feel harmful to ourselves.
Cheers and thanks for the advice. :)

Wah...thats noble especially for here in the cyberworld where anyone can say anything. cheers;)

Cheonging101
24-04-2009, 04:56 PM
Wah... that means a lot of you bros don't know bro peterpan (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/members/peterpan.html)? :eek:

Then he sibei heng ah! Or else kena jialat jialat by you all! :p

bangbangben
24-04-2009, 05:14 PM
Wah... that means a lot of you bros don't know bro peterpan (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/members/peterpan.html)? :eek:

Then he sibei heng ah! Or else kena jialat jialat by you all! :p

Bro Peterpan is kinda different,

He did state clearly that he is unable to satisfy his wife craving and urges for sex hence his choice of action. Infact, the whole posting did now show his wife having any objections.

Nevertheless, his actions were directed at the primary objective of satisfying his wife and not on monetary gains.

Each it's own, that's how I look at it thou.

whitegals
24-07-2009, 07:00 PM
Personally, after having spend more than a decade abroad and having seen and fraternised with the local gals, comparing with our very own local SG gals, I think that our Women's Charter has spoilt our local ladies.

No doubt that the Women's Charter was a good measure, it was implemented protect the virtue and rights of women oppressed by harsh and demanding husbands but over the years, it seems that many ladies now take that for granted and use it for nothing but their own selfish gains.

How many of the bros here have encountered SG gals who demand to be treated as equals? to be treated with as much camaraderie as other men? to be given the same measure of respect as we give to our seniors? But on the same level, to want to be treated as the fairer sex? To expect more patience when it comes to dealing with mistakes? To expect the men to give more than to take?

The differences I have learnt from being back in SG is that here you can forget about expecting them to pay on a date, forget about having them hold the door open for you, forget about having them find their own way to the cinema because your car is in servicing, forget about having the freedom to express views about other women when you're with her...

In short, they are SPOILT. period. :mad:

Sorry about the long winded post... That felt gooood! :D

NewMike1304k
25-07-2009, 11:41 AM
Well Bro Whitegals,

Wat you said is true to a certain extent, however, if you have lived abroad for so many years, you will know that white gals from caucasian countries are sometimes even worse. There is no good or bad in any country lah. We can make sweeping general statements about the gals or guys in any country, but then that view will be determined by the people we have come into contact with. The big problem comes with how the gals were brought up and how their thinking is inculcated. If I grew up in a home with maids and I did not need to know how to cook or wash, and I was spoilt till I am rotten, I will bring this into the society I live in. If my daddy and mommy insisted that I be a graceful gal who is gracious soft spoken and so on, I will also come out into society as one. If my circle of frens are like that, then my view of people in society will also be like that.

Bro, it doesn't matter where you go or which country you live in lah, it is the same every where. I lived in Aus, where even the ang mog glas could not cook and did not want to do anything for the guy. But I have also seen glas who will take care of the guy in ways that will make you jealous. I have been to Thai, where in theory the gals will pamper the guys, wipe their sweat, clean their plates and so on and have seen some who are spoilt princesses too. Just like in Sg, I have also seen some really nice and pretty gals who want nothing more than to have a good Bf and to be able to spend time and share love with them.

That is why the world is round.

NewMike1304k
25-07-2009, 08:25 PM
To the little shit who keeps zapping -3. You locked me out of my old account and forced me to start a new one, and still zap me for no good reason. Well friend. You can zap me as much as you like. This will be the last time I speak in this forum. Mods, I am disappointed that you allow such activity. It will only create distrust and also people will not want to post because they will be zapped. Thanks a lot for the good times anyway.

starstar
26-07-2009, 02:51 AM
alot of local girls are left on the shelves still waiting for their perfect knight in shining armours to come pick them up one fine day.

Local girls simply don't understand, 不是每个坐白马的都是王子,他妈的唐僧也是骑着白马

要做婊子,又要立牌坊,真受不了

BKnight
26-07-2009, 11:27 AM
不是每个坐白马的都是王子,他妈的唐僧也是骑着白马
要做婊子,又要立牌坊,真受不了[/SIZE]

bro, good one, wahahaha..long time didnt hear of this word - 立牌坊

now is 烈士骑着宝马入中原 - warriors with their BMW into PRC:D

HCKing
29-07-2009, 12:54 AM
bro, good one, wahahaha..long time didnt hear of this word - 立牌坊

now is 烈士骑着宝马入中原 - warriors with their BMW into PRC:D

hehe 烈士骑着宝马入中原 - 宝马一去不返 :D

ice-man
29-07-2009, 01:05 AM
I just have no luck with local girls since young. I wonder why. Despite arming with a degree, a decent profession and an above-average pay, they still probably feel I'm not good enough for them. Or probably they are stuck-up.

I'm no longer getting younger. My friends are having kids as old as Primary 1. Probably one day, I'm joining the "Clan of Foreigner Wives". :D

Weird right? with your qualifications n pay u r not having any luck with local gals??? maybe its the way u talk? not sweet enough?? LOL

leecs
29-07-2009, 08:22 AM
Even though qualifications, profession, etc plays a part, your character plays a bigger part in pursuing a relationship. Im not saying you are bad.

I have a friend who has many relationships & its the girl who breaks off with him. He keeps complanining how bad the girl is, but he never think about his character...

cppboost
02-08-2009, 10:34 PM
It seems like guys still would like to have a local girl to marry maybe due to living in the same environment so can understand each other better?

We cant change the fact of peoples' expectations like working for boss like like that can control expectations but hard to change.

The main thing i feel is if both do not change to suit each other or one side keeps bending over to the other whims then marry or have relationship for what.

Can dont marry or find someone else from wherever place as wife right.

Marry already really will make u happy??

Single also not that bad mah if u go home yr wife face black black then keep comparing u with other husbands u also buay tahan what.

Another fallacy i still dont understand why people think having high pay now will mean having high pay next time as well. People get retrenched or get wipped out by financial crises. So how does hooking on to well to do men gurantee their future?

Then another thing is when we choose a woman do we choose her for the wrong reasons?

If the woman is as what man perceived as want $$ want this and that is it because her age has grown her wisdom didnt?

Lastly why would a sane man marry such a woman when u know disaster will strike when money is tight.

Life already is hard to live already why make it harder.(people with high pay excluded)

Lonelygal
06-08-2009, 01:16 PM
I am not sure wat u guys think but to me most of course not all girls or parents will want their daughter to be married to someone capable so as to live a better life and to support them in their old lives.

We might be a modern society but $$$ is still the essence in life.

As Singapore Progress so does our female counterpart.It no longer surprising for girls to hold high minister and managerial postition.With this high income,they can clearly support themselves when old and need not find someone to look after them.
No longer are girls looking to have kids and settling a family.

With news of so many marriages ending in divorce this only worse their thoughts of marriage.

Thats why so many Singaporeans guys marry foreginers girls.
This girls expectations is much much lower, they only want to have a better life and someone thats able to take care of them n thier kids.(Isn't this use to be the thinking of the past)

Of course not everyone has the same expectation.And in love it is always complicated.
With our local girls so highly educated now, when its come to dispute and money matters we guys will only be in the losing end.

This trend will continue and i can say soon Singaporeans will soon lose it identity.
The figure already starts at 25% and it can only get higher so don't be surprise one day, we will be a nation that comprise of citizens from China,Thailand,Vietnam,India,Malaysia. etc.

I dare say its easier to find a China gf rather than a Spore gf now.

NoNameNoNothing
06-08-2009, 01:26 PM
I don think it is easier Lonelygal sis, just that it is easier to get to 1st base or 2nd base or even all the way faster.

However, having a Gf and having a wife are two different things. I am not slamming foreign wives, but already the image most people here have of the foreign wives from PRC, Thai, Vn and so on is not so great, esp PRC. They will also have problems fitting in due to language barriers, social barriers and so on.

Sg gals on the other hand have been brought up to want more because it is how they were treated at home. My own family was brought up with maids and how many of us are guilty of asking our maids to bring things for us instead of doing it ourselves? How many of us can actually cook a decent meal instead of relying on others to do it for ourselves? While I was abroad studying, I really had a hard time and really came to understand how spoilt we were.

Even my gf cannot cook. When we get married, she suggested that we eat steamboat everyday... So go figure. If I were to ask her to leave her job and stay home, she will not want to do so because she spent so much time studying. And what will she do at home?

So we really do need to adjust our way of thinking and also how we can contribute to our own families and soceity... Sorry to be preachy, but this thread is kinda a wake up call for me.

HCKing
06-08-2009, 02:44 PM
I dare say its easier to find a China gf rather than a Spore gf now.

nthing to do with nationality lah bro, its a matter of finding a GOOD gf or a BAD gf. everywhere u go u sure get to see good guys bad guys good girls bad girls. at the end of the day, it all boils down to the choices we make.

kurosaki ichigo
10-08-2009, 12:22 AM
I classify women into 2 categories and they are the same all over the world:

1) Woman who puts her loved ones before herself

2) Woman who puts herself before anything else

Its very sad to note that alot of local women belongs to cat 2. This is a trend that is very true for developed nations and nations that are developing towards that status.

Development brings along better life, more opportunities, finer things in life to appreciate and strive for, better education, bigger pool of men to choose from (from foreigners to well educated locals).

Women being humans strive for better things. Its only natural. A woman will always want to find a partner who's at least equal to her in achievements if not better. A man on the other hand can make do with a partner who is much lesser on the achievement scale simply because its in our genes to provide and protect.

We can't really blame the girls out there for picking and choosing since its in their genes to ensure that they find someone whom they can rely on EVEN though they are perfectly capable of doing so in this era. Its in the genes.

Simply put.. choose the virtuous girl next door type who's easily contented and not overly ambitious. These girls will give you less headaches and heartaches. Note that I said less and not nil :D

dowjones
11-08-2009, 04:25 AM
Local gals especially those chio ones very demanding, they want this and that. Always think they got class !

But then some of them follow ang moh also end up taking taxis or buses and eat at hawker centres ! Aiyah ! think maybe local guys pamper them too much. The more you give the more thay want - in my humble opinion local guys should be more practical to them.

DuaKaTsua
12-08-2009, 04:35 AM
I classify women into 2 categories and they are the same all over the world:

1) Woman who puts her loved ones before herself

2) Woman who puts herself before anything else





Bludder,

I agrees.

Man oso got two kind la.

1) Man who put loved ones before him

2) Man who put himself before anything else

Sometime we criticise n tok but we neber look in2 mirror . We not perfect oso. Wan 2 compare, we oso nothing. :p

I onli poly dip. Not fugly but not handsome. Normal lousy job not very hi pay. Job prospect oso not great . I understand mos woman here oso dont want me but wad can i do ?? I not into VN or china bride cuz I c many horror story every where. But local gal oso won't like me ? Wat 2 do?

Blame who?
My parents? 4 not paying for mor tuition whn i youngern so i neber go RI or chinese Hi or branded skool? I know my tiao jian not gd oso wat. If I sg girl oso wont choose me hor.

Can blame the past. Or worst,Blame the girls. But not their fault. They onli wan bess for them. Also who wan 2 go out wif cheongster beng who screw hooker?oso I am just tired la. So blame myself ah? But life too short aldy leh. Cheong Cheong a few mor years and i know even dat kind of existent oso bo liao liao. whores are all same. Song Song Kao Ju Long. But Waste time onli.

At dis point, I juz wan 2 put myself first. Go freelance and do my own biz. After nxt few yrs. Giv up cheong crap finally.Really pia n concentrate a bit mor. I not prepare yet 2 put family b4 career.. N Not fair 2 expect my tsa bor lang if got one to do any less 4 her oso wat rite? Why should she?So never mind lor. Can live wif it wan, whether u wan 2 or not is d pblm.,

In the end, after parents pass away, probly end up no one cuz relatives n frens oso all got own life but ok oso la, I cheong whn i cld n neber kana KC by cheat whore. Gd enough. At least wil have house n car n dog. Medisave, insurance nd bank a/c.Tink whn I look back, shld hav no regrets even got no wife or wat. Even if regret oso too late liao so no need kao peh one. If I lucky can find someone then mayb I tink agn along the way n revaluate. But until dat happen, oso hard la. No time oso. Not actively lookin oso how 2 hav luck?!

Main thg is not 2 regret or blame urself. thing not so dark one. Cheer up. I choose dis so like dat la. :)

Boh Tsa Bor Buay Si Eh La

Guy_Smiley
12-08-2009, 05:42 PM
Bludder,
In the end, after parents pass away, probly end up no one cuz relatives n frens oso all got own life but ok oso la, I cheong whn i cld n neber kana KC by cheat whore. Gd enough. At least wil have house n car n dog. Medisave, insurance nd bank a/c.Tink whn I look back, shld hav no regrets even got no wife or wat. Even if regret oso too late liao so no need kao peh one. If I lucky can find someone then mayb I tink agn along the way n revaluate. But until dat happen, oso hard la. No time oso. Not actively lookin oso how 2 hav luck?!

Main thg is not 2 regret or blame urself. thing not so dark one. Cheer up. I choose dis so like dat la. :)

Boh Tsa Bor Buay Si Eh La

Kong liao tio! UP li but I no points so verbal support wat u just said.

suteerak1099
13-08-2009, 03:51 PM
ppl say that foreign brides r vicious n they eye for the $, they will do what they want to make sure they anchor your $ & heart as form of collatoral. so in the event that u change hearts n run road, she'll still b happy with your assets. partly bcos of their culture & upbringing... they dunno the existance of prenuptual agreement.

sg women, better educated & i would say, not any less visious. she marrys u (with woman's charter in the package). some may insist on prenupt as well. at the end, even if u're not the 1 having affair, she file for irreconsilable difference, she still gets part of your assets via woman's charter.

woman these days have a common interest.......... no longer 向前走.... now, is 向钱走

DO_YOU_BJ
14-08-2009, 03:25 PM
Aiyah ! think maybe local guys pamper them too much. The more you give the more thay want - in my humble opinion local guys should be more practical to them.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/3999411-post44.html
Of cos la, you of all people should be an expert in this area ma....you paid 800buckaroos for a local whore for a pop.......you da man lor
$800 for an 18 yo model, tall, pretty and sexy - intro by a lady friend. Very satisfying session !

The bad part is she keep contacting me after that. It took me quite a while about one year to stop her from sms-ing me.

Soul_Reaper
15-08-2009, 02:37 AM
sg women, better educated & i would say, not any less visious. She marrys u (with woman's charter in the package). Some may insist on prenupt as well. At the end, even if u're not the 1 having affair, she file for irreconsilable difference, she still gets part of your assets via woman's charter.

Woman these days have a common interest.......... No longer 向前走.... Now, is 向钱走

f*ck the womens charter ! ! !

1302
15-08-2009, 09:59 AM
Wow, dowjones, you paid 800 for a FL?
Her nipples are diamonds or her pussy is diamond studded ah?
I'm impressed wif our local boys sometimes

HCKing
17-08-2009, 01:42 AM
Local gals especially those chio ones very demanding, they want this and that. Always think they got class !

But then some of them follow ang moh also end up taking taxis or buses and eat at hawker centres ! Aiyah ! think maybe local guys pamper them too much. The more you give the more thay want - in my humble opinion local guys should be more practical to them.

dont go 4 chiobu lor -simple as that. a chiobu is just like honey to bees, u r nt the only bee attracted to her. unless u r really very the can, pampering her is the only alternative to stand a chance of winning her heart.

NewMike1304k
17-08-2009, 10:17 AM
Actually hor, I have a few local friends who are pretty good looking. What Bro KCKing said is true in the sense that bees are attracted to honey, but some of them are already wise to that fact and know that those who are attracted to them are also not to their liking. I asked them what sort of a guy they are looking for and they mentioned that they just want a normal guy who will love them for what they are and not for their body. I sat back and did a think and it is true. Most of us guys are driven by looks first then character or other aspects. If the girl is pretty, we will just be wanting to get into their panties and this is the reason why they get turned off.

Hendrix
17-08-2009, 10:20 AM
Most of us guys are driven by looks first then character or other aspects. If the girl is pretty, we will just be wanting to get into their panties and this is the reason why they get turned off.

all guys will go for looks 1st.... but then to me all girls are pretty and there's no ugly girls only lazy girls. 70% make-up and 30% natural beauty remember ?

HCKing
18-08-2009, 02:29 AM
all guys will go for looks 1st.... but then to me all girls are pretty and there's no ugly girls only lazy girls. 70% make-up and 30% natural beauty remember ?

agree. here r some 'evidence'

b4 makeup

http://www.facemaker.ca/ashleybefore.jpg

after makeup:eek:

http://www.facemaker.ca/ashleyafter.jpg

HCKing
18-08-2009, 02:30 AM
b4 makeup

http://www.facemaker.ca/bonniebefore.jpg

after makeup:rolleyes:

http://www.facemaker.ca/bonnieafter.jpg

HCKing
18-08-2009, 02:32 AM
b4 makeup

http://www.facemaker.ca/jennbefore.jpg

after makeup:D

http://www.facemaker.ca/jennafter.jpg

robert6969
10-09-2009, 06:37 PM
Hi, Is there any way to cantact this gals? If u do have a number, can u give me?

NewandLost
10-09-2009, 09:33 PM
Last week at the supermarket, I got into argument a nasty one with SG girl. She look like an auntie but was young. Not attractive but had baby in stroller. She was not looking where she was going and ram the stroller into me when I am walking by. She should apologize but I did not get mad just move out of way. Then give me stink eye and black face for no reason. So I say what's your problem, you ran into me. Then mother jumps in using cuss words and f word saying why you fight with lady? I was so mad said both have no class. After paying I look for my friend and then she walk up to me trying to strat another argument. I never fight with women but wanted to slap her and only when they see I am not playing aorund the run out of the store after paying quickly.

HCKing
10-09-2009, 10:26 PM
one of the common problem with local girls is alot of parents nwadays are overprotective of their girls end up majority of them will make a big fuss over any small matter. just look at what they had written in their blogs and u can see alot of complain queens out there.:D

Ichigo_Kurosaki
10-09-2009, 10:57 PM
Bro NewandLost, plenty of such screaming harridans nowadays, young and old alike, tiny little issues, they will fly into a rage and publicly berating others. Just ignore, smile and walk away gentlemanly, never give them the benefit of riding on the matter into a storm, after a while they will look stupid themselves...Think of it this way, they might be deprived of sex for ages, so the built-up tension were released upon you...:D

kwaychup
11-09-2009, 12:19 AM
my 2 cents for this discussion is that you have to mindfuck the local gers before you proceed going down under.



but guess i'm lucky have a local gf but not a looker and getting fat but she will make a very good wife. :)

dreammare
11-09-2009, 02:36 AM
Looks like you've migrated your postings to this thread.
Remember what i told you in your thread and this will also apply to the TS here:

You do not marry someone to buy a HBD flat like many young couples do and live to regret it FOREVER!
You do not marry someone cos you wanna have babies
You do not marry someone cos you love her
You do not marry someone cos she's a good fuck

You marry someone cos she's reliable
You marry someone cos she's got integrity
You marry someone cos you know she'll be with you through thick and thin no matter what in sickness & in health or wealth
You marry someone cos you know she will be a good mother and can take care of the family and share your burdens and contribute to the family wealth
Most importantly, you marry someone cos she's also mentally ready to settle down and have a family of her own

I think the last four points is missed out when couple get hooked up now .
okies too out of topic . local girls worse than foriegn girls...well depends ...on where u look at

69kmph
14-09-2009, 06:08 PM
I think the key point about local Singapore girls isn't so much that they are materialistic but that they have major character and attitude problems. This major character and attitude problems is reflected in the way they behave and the manner in which they relate to others.

Sad but true, even those who are working overseas carry with them the same type of character and attitude problems, again reflected in the way they behave and relate to others.

The good news is that we guys have MUCH more choices than they have. :)

Ichigo_Kurosaki
14-09-2009, 10:04 PM
Bro 69kmph, Well said. I like it, cheer:)

Ange|Boy
17-09-2009, 11:06 AM
Singapore gals think that they are God's gift to this world but many of us guys dun think so.... however to many Thais, PRCs, Viets, Indons etc etc..... Singapore Guys are God's Gift to their World...

HAHA

reaperx
20-09-2009, 02:52 AM
even let u find the most perfect girl, do u think that she will not change her mindset 3-5 years down the stretch?

Here's a short story of my ex;
We started dating when i was doing pretty ok in my work(3-5k pay/mth).
Everything was smooth and sweet when she's earning peanuts.
I paid for everything and we were happy.

Soon she lost her job and was dishearten,
i was there to help her up.(emotionally & financially)
she for a couple of months she was without a job.
That's fine with me,i carried on supporting till she finally stood up and found a very comfortable paying job.

My downturn came just b4 recession, lost my well paid job.
Had to go around looking for a similar paying job, boy was is tough..
So many ppl gg for 1 job,and i am a BTC. so chances were slim.

Here's when it started, my ex would keep on nagging, "why is ur expectation so high?
Now times are bad just work 1st lor.."
I was job skipping as pay got cut due to recession almost everywhere.
In the end due to the constant ego bashing i got, i couldn't take it anymore.
I up and left.

I was constantly thinking, why do guys think so differently from girls?
We can shoulder everything for them, but when things take a slight turn for us.
They start whining and whining, and can say the worst shit.

so moral of the story is;

if she earns more than u,she is not the one for u,Period. (just my 2 cents)

Thanks for reading guys..

Snuber
20-09-2009, 04:44 AM
Here's when it started, my ex would keep on nagging, "why is ur expectation so high?
Now times are bad just work 1st lor.."


so moral of the story is;

if she earns more than u,she is not the one for u,Period. (just my 2 cents)

I find your conclusion very weird......

Though I do not know your whole story, but I read her intentions as "Go get a job for the time being. Having some income beats having none at all. Along the way, you might chanced upon 1 which is similar to what you had"

GLHunter
20-09-2009, 10:53 AM
i think local gers have one common mindset problem which makes them so disgusting.

Wheh she is is right, she will say you bully her. when she is wrong, she will say why you not gentleman. In summary, she is always right. Anther point is, they are not brought up to give, but to take.

closetspacefull
20-09-2009, 11:53 AM
i think local gers have one common mindset problem which makes them so disgusting.

Wheh she is is right, she will say you bully her. when she is wrong, she will say why you not gentleman. In summary, she is always right. Anther point is, they are not brought up to give, but to take.

Bro, that's common to all women, not just Singaporean girls...

Just a quick question, do you expect women who were brought up in a Singapore culture to have the same wants and needs of a girl from the rural villages of vietnam or China?

Also, all girls are influenced by materialistic concerns. Just like you want girls with tits and ass, and a supermodel face, they want they boyfriends to be financially stable and able to take care of them. Sure there are exceptions to the rule, but are you such a great catch yourself that a girl has to drop every realistic expectation to "fall in love" over you?

Guys like a pretty face, girls like a stuffed wallet. Deal with it.

superk92
20-09-2009, 12:52 PM
I know a girl who works at a flea market. Her mobile had broken down, I gave her my spare, she didn't touch it, as it was a mid level model. She wanted a high end touchscreen one, as she tells me she's a bit ashamed to use mine, duh!

Another instance this gal earns 500 a mth, she would order high end meals when we're out, does her nails, etc then complains she's starving without $. Nothing wrong in a little luxury but... let's face it, her ideal guy? According to her, no guy is good looking enough for her, not even famous stars. She needs someone whose 100% like her in personality. As for herself? Parents works in factory, she looks like a cleaner lady.

So there..

LeongYeah
20-09-2009, 04:11 PM
Very sad things most sg women are like that. I find that their mindset and attitude really do make them very undesirable when compared to foreigners.

Haha i love that bro 69kmph posted."

The good news is that we guys have MUCH more choices than they have.

Very true, so should we men give them chance?

reaperx
20-09-2009, 10:43 PM
I find your conclusion very weird......

Though I do not know your whole story, but I read her intentions as "Go get a job for the time being. Having some income beats having none at all. Along the way, you might chanced upon 1 which is similar to what you had"
she was saying that i shuld be contented and NOT look further for a better job.(doesn't like the idea of job skipping).

but sad thing is if i were to stayed with the low paid job,she would have complain and nag all the same which contribute to the outcome today.

you know what guys, fu*k it. if we can't afford to screw the $300 or $800 FL screw the $60-$80 ones instead. Service would be same or even better. so why not?

Snuber
21-09-2009, 12:29 AM
she was saying that i shuld be contented and NOT look further for a better job.(doesn't like the idea of job skipping).

but sad thing is if i were to stayed with the low paid job,she would have complain and nag all the same which contribute to the outcome today.
Perhaps she will change her tone to "Wah lau eh...... y u got no desire to upgrade urself de??!!" :p

This applies to alot of ladies everywhere, not just SG....

tiger2009
21-09-2009, 12:33 AM
Bro,

I have dated a few SG girls, some of them are okay not too bad an attitude. However, a few of them think too highly of themselves. One of them (33 yrs old) told me that I should not compare her to other non-SG girls (especially those from China, Malaysia and Indoneisa) because it is not apple-to-apple comparison! OMG, what the fuck is she saying? Honestly, I think SG girls are generally less attractive - physically.

colins
21-09-2009, 12:38 AM
she was saying that i shuld be contented and NOT look further for a better job.(doesn't like the idea of job skipping).

but sad thing is if i were to stayed with the low paid job,she would have complain and nag all the same which contribute to the outcome today.

you know what guys, fu*k it. if we can't afford to screw the $300 or $800 FL screw the $60-$80 ones instead. Service would be same or even better. so why not?

I think you better be clear about the difference between relationships and commercial sex. Your girl was looking for security, thats why she suggested that you dun be so choosy and continue to seek a 'high-paying' job when obviously you do not qualify, esp in this economic downturn. She sees it clearer than you that you are hurt emotionally becos you got laid off.

I met a new friend during reservist recently. He was like you before, but in his case his contract wasn't renewed so he was forced to seek a job outside. Point in case is, he sign up as a cisco guard, also becos he was encouraged by his then gf. I dun think I saw anybody as happy and contented as him in our team. I specifically asked him, why din he pursue his interest in engineering and at the same time get a job which suits his qualification and experience? His reply was simple. He was also lost at that time but his then gf let him understand that she (and himself too) needed to have security. A job is not just about the pay, it is something that he can pursue, something like a line for him to walk. It is not the money which keeps the security, but the mutual understanding and his commitment to stay on the 'line'. A bit abstract but I was very impressed by him.

I think you still keep a lot of the bitterness of having been laid off. And friend, I think she used a communication style which irked you but what she said make a lot of sense. Get a job first then seek your chance. Common sense and practical.

If you look in from the outside, you'll see a guy who has got his ego bash not from his girl, not from his ex-boss but from himself, all the time. Pride makes people do a lot of silly things, including breaking off with a girl who meant well and choosing to buy sex and pride from girls of the other extreme.

Take care bro

Max77
21-09-2009, 01:30 AM
Bro, that's common to all women, not just Singaporean girls...

.....................

Guys like a pretty face, girls like a stuffed wallet. Deal with it.

Yes such gal exist everyway...not oni Singapore.

Gals like to doll up wif the basic instinct tat it'll attract more guys (most guys like pretty gals). Tat's last time thinking liao. Nowaday MORE guy who r smarter than before know the important of inner beauty as well. So no matter how beautiful and doll up a materialistic gal is, it's not gonna attract any well groomed, well educated guy to be his wife-to-be. Maybe ONS F&F still can.

Guys like to earn a lot, bcoz he who is wise knows tat an intelligent and realistic gal (such gal r the one who can go thru thick n thin wif u) know the important of being financially secured.

There's nothing wrong for a gal to look for a well-to-do guy for marriage, but when they themselves dunno wad a well-to-do guy want for his wife-to-be kind of material, they'll always fail.

Wad GLHunter is trying to say probably is that those gal (my guess was refering to S'pore gals) oni know wad they want, but hav the least idea wad the guy want anymore. In the end, it's jus full of expectation from them. There seem to be a lost of balance in mutual needs between the two genders.
(I'm not defending GLHunter, I'm defending wad he've said, so it's not anything personal here)

We've long gone pass the era of Guys powering over Gals, now it seems we're even passing the middle balanced mark even. Perhaps it's the gals' turn to learn some lessons now.

As it's definately not fair to wipe out the whole of S'pore gals, therefore I'm gonna state very fairly tat MOST S'pore gals TAT I'VE KNOWN is not even worth to F**K & F****t.

I even feel tat whereby our gals gets stronger, it's time to banish the law of having to MAINTAIN them every month when both party wake up and divorce. Since nowaday it's really not hard for a gal to survive making a livig for themselves, there's really no need to protect them so much anymore. It's time tat law itself balance itself a bit. Already seeing that tat law has been misused for so long already anyway.

closetspacefull
21-09-2009, 04:28 PM
Its not exactly us against them...

I like girls. Since I was 16 actually. Guy friends are good too, but hell, girls are cuddlier, and I sure as hell ain't gonna have an orgasm with a dude.

Why bitch bitch bitch bitch bitch bitch about girls being materialistic???
Different girls have different needs. Most girls like their boyfriends to be secure, just like most guys like pretty girls.

Local, Viet, Chinese, African-American, Caucasian, working girls, non-working girls, promiscuous women, virgins, its all the same. Everyone is a gift package waiting to be unwrapped. Some are bitchy, some are selfless, some are condescending, some are warm. Just as you ain't every girls wetdream, not all girls may be your cup of tea. If you don't like truffles, have mee siam! Just don't say all truffles are horrendous because you yourself don't like it.

3 cheers for the fairer sex. And thank god for commercial sex which allows you to get some for little effort when you just can't master the effort to bring in the real deal!

Max77
21-09-2009, 08:26 PM
1)...Why bitch bitch bitch bitch bitch bitch about girls...

2)...If you don't like truffles, have mee siam! Just don't say all truffles are horrendous because you yourself don't like it...

3)...thank god for commercial sex which allows you to get some for little effort when you just can't master the effort to bring in the real deal!...

(first of all, thanks for defending the locals)

1) huh? then we standardized lor, everybody can oni say :"i got a gem to share wif kind bro here" or :"may i hav her contact?will promise to post FR here once i've tried her"

2) situation in the case here is like, u ate some truffles fr tat particular shop, u hav diarhorrea each time u try. Guess wad u gonna reply ur buddies who suggest tat shop...

3) yes...3 cheers for those lucky dudes who do

whitegals
21-09-2009, 11:43 PM
Sad but true, even those who are working overseas carry with them the same type of character and attitude problems, again reflected in the way they behave and relate to others.


I have to beg to differ with that sentence above, based on personal experience with local gals overseas. When amongst us (from SG), they are KNN Oprah Winfreys, feminism rules, the Women's Charter rocks!

But you see them in the company of ang mohs, they turn into CB Little Miss Daisies.

These are sadly, the ignorant ones who worship the westerners but have never seen first hand of what the ang moh men can do to them if they get on the wrong side of the 'Great Whites'. :cool:

Max77
22-09-2009, 05:58 AM
I have to beg to differ with that sentence above, based on personal experience with local gals overseas. When amongst us (from SG), they are KNN Oprah Winfreys, feminism rules, the Women's Charter rocks!

But you see them in the company of ang mohs, they turn into CB Little Miss Daisies.

These are sadly, the ignorant ones who worship the westerners but have never seen first hand of what the ang moh men can do to them if they get on the wrong side of the 'Great Whites'. :cool:

Support ur whole of this post. Funny thing is, last time during attachment program, i've met wif an ang mo gal who told me she prefer S'pore guys. Guess the grass always SEEM greener on the other side ba :p

Cheonging101
22-09-2009, 09:53 AM
Its not exactly us against them...

I like girls. Since I was 16 actually. Guy friends are good too, but hell, girls are cuddlier, and I sure as hell ain't gonna have an orgasm with a dude.

Why bitch bitch bitch bitch bitch bitch about girls being materialistic???
Different girls have different needs. Most girls like their boyfriends to be secure, just like most guys like pretty girls.

Bro, you make yourself sound like a butch. :p

You know, when you're right, you're right. Keyword here though is MOST and LIKE. I think it's safe to say that those not part of the MOST are homosexuals. Next is the LIKE. LIKE is not equal to LOVE. For one thing, I like pretty girls but not enough to LOVE them.

If these pretty girls are trapped in a burning building with the ones I LOVE, they should be prepared to die a fiery death if they're gonna wait for me to rescue them after I've hauled everyone I LOVE out first.


Local, Viet, Chinese, African-American, Caucasian, working girls, non-working girls, promiscuous women, virgins, its all the same. Everyone is a gift package waiting to be unwrapped. Some are bitchy, some are selfless, some are condescending, some are warm. Just as you ain't every girls wetdream, not all girls may be your cup of tea. If you don't like truffles, have mee siam! Just don't say all truffles are horrendous because you yourself don't like it.

Bro, I think you got the comparison the other way round. Mee Siam is local while truffles are temperate undergrowth fungi growing near countries located along the Tropic of Cancer. :p

You should put it like, "If you don't like Mee Siam because of its soury and spicy flavour, go have Shark's Fins because it's so much more high class, smooth and tasty!"


3 cheers for the fairer sex. And thank god for commercial sex which allows you to get some for little effort when you just can't master the effort to bring in the real deal!

Bro, I thank God for commercial sex too. Because the real deal is much more expensive to maintain on a mental and financial basis. :D

phantom010436
22-09-2009, 10:32 AM
Singapore gals think that they are God's gift to this world but many of us guys dun think so.... however to many Thais, PRCs, Viets, Indons etc etc..... Singapore Guys are God's Gift to their World...

HAHA

You are very RIGHT MAN!

whitegals
22-09-2009, 11:08 AM
Support ur whole of this post. Funny thing is, last time during attachment program, i've met wif an ang mo gal who told me she prefer S'pore guys. Guess the grass always SEEM greener on the other side ba :p

These are the ones who may have seen first hand the brutality that their male compatriots can subject themselves to. Our SG guys may probably slap their wives if she steps out of line once too often but the white men have no qualms about slicing their wives open with a 6 inch stiletto or putting a bullet in their heads.

While studying in england, I have seen for myself women being carried out in stretchers with blood gushing out of the side of the heads after being whacked by their husband / boyfriend / secret lover. This was happening on a monthly basis with different women around my neighbourhood. :eek:

NewandLost
22-09-2009, 12:01 PM
Ang Moh is the biggest loser in history as far pillaging countries, causing bloodshed, etc.

Whatever happened to that dumb fock Ang Moh who married the Pinoy hooker on the the other thread. At first I thought he was one of us but when I found out he was Ang Moh, I say go ahead.

suteerak1099
26-09-2009, 10:33 AM
my peers were recently jesting, if 1 should be keen to learn what a typical sg gal really is? just look at Miss Singapore World - Ris Low
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZO_3wokogSs

daddy's gUuUrl??

Cerberus
26-09-2009, 10:40 AM
While studying in england, I have seen for myself women being carried out in stretchers with blood gushing out of the side of the heads after being whacked by their husband / boyfriend / secret lover. This was happening on a monthly basis with different women around my neighbourhood.

SG and chinese sluts all over the world dun care. As long you are white, you are elite. They dun wan any non-white dicks to dirty their already rotten pussies.....let them be.

Ang Moh is the biggest loser in history as far pillaging countries, causing bloodshed, etc.


Angmo is the biggest winner, dude. They go around wrecking and pillaging other ppl's countries over the entire history.
And yet up to this date, they are consider the elite. SG and chinese sluts all over world fall head over heels in love with them.

naturegreen
26-09-2009, 10:44 AM
my peers were recently jesting, if 1 should be keen to learn what a typical sg gal really is? just look at Miss Singapore World - Ris Low
YouTube - Know the Truth - Miss Ris Low, Miss Singapore World 2009 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZO_3wokogSs)

daddy's gUuUrl??

Frankly speaking, can't really stand the way she tries to slang her ang mo. So fake.

Cerberus
26-09-2009, 10:47 AM
my peers were recently jesting, if 1 should be keen to learn what a typical sg gal really is? just look at Miss Singapore World - Ris Low

daddy's gUuUrl??

Act high holy n mighty innocent....Daddy's Gal eh.....
She had just been exposed of her dirty past. She is still serving her 24 months probation for credit card fraud offences.............
and yet she say still want to keep the crown.....you want this kind as ambassador of SG???
If the organisers dun strip her off the title, I really nothing to say.

colins
26-09-2009, 12:12 PM
NO, I dun think she is a typical local girl. They dun usually attend a diploma course in hospitality to study 'steel'. I had to stop watching after 30 secs, tak boleh tahan.

YouTube - [SG FAIL] Miss Singapore World 2009 - Ris Low (with subtitles) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5F74FZfdSJY)

cashier
26-09-2009, 12:29 PM
singapore woman charter is so screwed. a wife can file for divorce even the husband dun want and never commit adultery and get to have half his asset. and she can take the money and throw the kids to the hubby.. so screwed. man are punished even thou they didnt make mistake and dun want to get divorce

Ichigo_Kurosaki
26-09-2009, 12:44 PM
How disappointing and what a shame!!!!

She is studying a hospitality diploma course in "Steal"

Don't think she is remorseful nor regreted for her mistake till she was exposed as it was a leak. Anyway, we do not want a thief to represent Singapore.

Below are the questions and answers between Miss Low and Lianhe Wanbao:

Reporter: Is it true you have been convicted of misusing and cheating using illegally obtained credit cards?
Ris: Yes, it is all true.

Reporter: Do you think you have disappointed Singaporeans?
Ris: Not really, but I am disappointed with myself. If I can do it again, I will not make the same mistake.

Reporter: Will you give up your crown and withdraw from the Miss World pageant?
Ris: Of course I am not willing. I don't want to give up my dreams. But if the organisers want me to, I will accede to their request. It would only be fair.

Reporter: Do you regret entering the pageant now, since your past has been exposed?
Ris: No, how many people out there would continue to pursue their dreams, fully aware of their shortcomings, and not give up despite the pressure? If there are any regrets, then I only have myself to blame for doing those things in the past.

Reporter: Are you worried that this spate of bad publicity will affect your future?
Ris: Of course I'm worried about my career, but I'm not so concerned when it comes to relationships. I believe the man who loves me will be able to overlook my past, especially since I am truly remorseful.

Reporter: Do you have any thoughts about this whole matter?
Ris: Who does not have a past? Who has not committed wrongs? Actually, being sentenced to probation does not make it a criminal record, but it is made serious because it is a legal one. This incident has made me appreciate the love and support from my family members.

Dgox99
26-09-2009, 12:54 PM
NO, I dun think she is a typical local girl. They dun usually attend a diploma course in hospitality to study 'steel'. I had to stop watching after 30 secs, tak boleh tahan.

YouTube - [SG FAIL] Miss Singapore World 2009 - Ris Low (with subtitles) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5F74FZfdSJY)

This chick is tryin to mimic the accent of an "ang moh" tryin hard to speak like those SPG kinda of chicks. Haha... an undisputed failure for sure! Nevertheless, i never doubt that you will fail to impress me as an "ang moh" pornstar on the bed! Her body sure look go :D

HCKing
26-09-2009, 02:17 PM
NO, I dun think she is a typical local girl. They dun usually attend a diploma course in hospitality to study 'steel'. I had to stop watching after 30 secs, tak boleh tahan.

YouTube - [SG FAIL] Miss Singapore World 2009 - Ris Low (with subtitles) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5F74FZfdSJY)

"its all abt ME, everything is abt HOW I SEE MYSELF"

typical spoilt and self-centred sg younger generation. always ME, ME, ME.

whitegals
26-09-2009, 03:49 PM
How disappointing and what a shame!!!!

She is studying a hospitality diploma course in "Steal"

Don't think she is remorseful nor regreted for her mistake till she was exposed as it was a leak. Anyway, we do not want a thief to represent Singapore.

Reporter: Do you think you have disappointed Singaporeans?
Ris: Not really, but I am disappointed with myself. If I can do it again, I will not make the same mistake.



Oh definitely, of course she will not make the same mistake again. She will be FL instead, can make more money, if you're going to break the law, might as well go for the best deal.

whitegals
26-09-2009, 04:04 PM
man are punished even thou they didnt make mistake and dun want to get divorce

Oh yes, the men made a serious mistake. They made the mistake when they signed on the dotted line. The back piece carbon copy is actually a Death Warrant. :D

chen_zhen
26-09-2009, 08:29 PM
Angmo is the biggest winner, dude. They go around wrecking and pillaging other ppl's countries over the entire history.
And yet up to this date, they are consider the elite. SG and chinese sluts all over world fall head over heels in love with them.

Angmo may need some martial art treatment!!!!!!:cool:

whitegals
26-09-2009, 09:35 PM
Angmo may need some martial art treatment!!!!!!:cool:

Yes, 五师兄,please go and deal with them. :D

Sootbird
27-09-2009, 12:08 AM
NO, I dun think she is a typical local girl. They dun usually attend a diploma course in hospitality to study 'steel'. I had to stop watching after 30 secs, tak boleh tahan.

YouTube - [SG FAIL] Miss Singapore World 2009 - Ris Low (with subtitles) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5F74FZfdSJY)

haha i had to admit her english really really sucks man.. keep laughing throughout the whole thing

colins
27-09-2009, 03:52 AM
"its all abt ME, everything is abt HOW I SEE MYSELF"

typical spoilt and self-centred sg younger generation. always ME, ME, ME.

Personally, I dun mind her engrish, her criminal record or her self-centred-ness. These are signs of immaturity. But I am really very curious how she got selected to be represent Singapore in Johannesburg, maybe even how she can see herself as Miss World Singapore.

Its like saying 'my engrish is fuck up, I say very different things from other pageant queens, I talk like a primary school kid, but lo and behold, I'm not going to give up the chance to get my career on track now that I have a chance to represent Singapore to the world!'.

8 years ago I stopped watching any such pageants to crown any Singaporean girls as a Miss. This year it has caught the attention of so many people, including me, for the wrong reasons.

Sad man. The world is going in reverse now.

whitegals
27-09-2009, 11:33 AM
Sad man. The world is going in reverse now.

No, it has gone a full cycle. Now we are living in retribution. Even if you cannot talk properly, got no brains, no beauty, you also can take part in beauty pageants. What's more it puts you above the law. :o

Ichigo_Kurosaki
27-09-2009, 12:44 PM
Hope she wise up soon because the road ahead for her is long and no more: Rads! Boomz! You Know, You Know.
BTW, Beauty queen - animal print can look classy and sophisticated by pairing with khaki (NOT KHAKI GREEN) to create the trendy safari look.
You know, You know
F1 party rocks, ya...**Boomz**

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
27-09-2009, 01:08 PM
sigh~~.. I guess most singapore ladies out there must be cursing at her, indeed a shame to singapore image on the ladies.

My dad always tell me since i was young, when you have no standard, dont try to act class until you improve.

When you know you have no class, dont try to enter this kind of peagent, somemore shown on YouTube - An international website, how will foreigners look at us here..Indeed a pathetic bitch :p

How the hell did our singapore judges get her in the during the audition?? She must have slept with some of them to get through ba...Sigh...Sibei no standard..:(

Ichigo_Kurosaki
27-09-2009, 01:22 PM
sigh~~.. How the hell did our singapore judges get her in the during the audition?? .:(

This will be a case for Fox Mulder and Dana Scully under "X" filename: BOOMZ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S1w1A3n-Eww

whitegals
27-09-2009, 08:28 PM
How the hell did our singapore judges get her in the during the audition?? She must have slept with some of them to get through ba...Sigh...Sibei no standard..:(

Maybe we are missing something here lah bros. Maybe after so many years of sending gals to all these beauty pageants and peanut also never win back before, the judges also dulan leow. So this year, they picked the worst to send, something like their middle finger to the international pageant organisers.

Becos sure won't choose us right? OK, so this year we send one f**ked up one to go and mess things up for you in South Africa. I think she may be the one who will put the Singapore modeling scene in the limelight. :D

HCKing
28-09-2009, 12:09 AM
Personally, I dun mind her engrish, her criminal record or her self-centred-ness. These are signs of immaturity. But I am really very curious how she got selected to be represent Singapore in Johannesburg, maybe even how she can see herself as Miss World Singapore.

Its like saying 'my engrish is fuck up, I say very different things from other pageant queens, I talk like a primary school kid, but lo and behold, I'm not going to give up the chance to get my career on track now that I have a chance to represent Singapore to the world!'.

8 years ago I stopped watching any such pageants to crown any Singaporean girls as a Miss. This year it has caught the attention of so many people, including me, for the wrong reasons.

Sad man. The world is going in reverse now.

think its time 4 the interviewer to also interview the judges who selected her to understand y they chose her. be prepared for some BOOMZBASTIC explanations frm them.:D

Ichigo_Kurosaki
28-09-2009, 12:31 AM
As per her F1 party meetup, hope she got it right, it's Hamilton not 虾面汤 (Hokkien) :D

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
28-09-2009, 12:31 AM
Maybe we are missing something here lah bros. Maybe after so many years of sending gals to all these beauty pageants and peanut also never win back before, the judges also dulan leow. So this year, they picked the worst to send, something like their middle finger to the international pageant organisers.

Becos sure won't choose us right? OK, so this year we send one f**ked up one to go and mess things up for you in South Africa. I think she may be the one who will put the Singapore modeling scene in the limelight. :D

Ya man, soon our Miss Singrispore will be like our ping-pong girls liao, needs to import from China whom i think should have a better command of engrish than Ms Low...:D

think its time 4 the interviewer to also interview the judges who selected her to understand y they chose her. be prepared for some BOOMZBASTIC explanations frm them.:D

Very true indeed..
Our Mr Lee wants us to speak more Mandarin, now our engrish alrdy so screwed up..haiyo...we really not here nor there...thats the spirit of Singaporeans man...:p

Sootbird
28-09-2009, 11:39 PM
i think our mr lee saw this clip, immed he will suffer heart attack lo.. and he be left thinking how come her english so screw up..damn paisei if she went international sia

ludified
29-09-2009, 12:13 AM
Its a pity that as Singaporeans, we are quick to judge, pass comments and unforgiving... The art lies in not being perfect, but how to be forgiving... I hope she will learn from her foolish act and if given another chance, treasure it... Anyone who made a mistake and is remorseful deserves a second chance...

colins
29-09-2009, 12:56 AM
There is a difference between a public figure and a private citizen. There is a difference between a normal girl and a Ms World Singapore. The difference is the willingness to be judged by everybody and this means everyone in the world. If you ask a single person for a judgement, the person will give you a negative or an affirmative. If you ask the world for a judgement, you'll get a whole range of comments, some baseless and unforgiving, some objective or even encouraging. A public figure counts his/her votes, not look into each comment to see which one hurts which one beautiful.

Personally I dun think she is suitable. Bro ludified, as a Singaporean, will you give her a chance and say she should represent Singapore?

Ichigo_Kurosaki
29-09-2009, 12:18 PM
International beauty contest is a sort of national branding. Singapore has consistently aspired to be world-class and is always in the international branding game. For example, the ferris wheel and world-class F1 races to generate international interest and exposure for the country. Since she would be representing and serving as an ambassador for Singapore, her presence @ Miss World pageant in Johannesburg will put Singapore in a bad light. Whether she should give it a miss or not, we will know this friday.

HCKing
29-09-2009, 12:56 PM
her latest pic here,:p

Miss Congenialiar Ritz (Yes, it was suppose to be Ritz but she can't spell) Low! - Sam's Alfresco Coffee (http://www.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?p=316750#post316750)

chio? doesnt look chio to me

classy? nope (can wear bikini with jeans go orchard rd)

elegant? nope (the way she speaks tells it all -booms, u knw, u knw)

intelligent? oh well.......:rolleyes:

confident? nope (looks nervous and blur through the entire interview)

vain? yes (credit card fraud)

seriously there r no better contestant in the pageant meh?:confused:

TheSpecial-One
29-09-2009, 01:21 PM
I tink the jokes about her zipbla prins and her boomz, u'noe....will continue nong nong nong. Vely nong, I sure. :D

Soul_Reaper
29-09-2009, 01:53 PM
haha i had to admit her english really really sucks man.. keep laughing throughout the whole thing

actualli it's on par with our $million NTUC Ministar Lim Sia Suay :D ..... both of them speak and pronounce sama sama pattern :D

Roman city
29-09-2009, 05:11 PM
Ris Low has resigned as Miss Singapore World 2009.

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
29-09-2009, 06:59 PM
Ris Low has resigned as Miss Singapore World 2009.

should not even have consider it in the 1st place.
How can we allow 2nd grade ppl to represent us internationally...the 1st runner up better be a good one, because i havent seen her before yet :p

whitegals
29-09-2009, 10:20 PM
Ris Low has resigned as Miss Singapore World 2009.

Watching the FL scene impatiently leow... :D

HCKing
30-09-2009, 12:01 AM
should not even have consider it in the 1st place.
How can we allow 2nd grade ppl to represent us internationally...the 1st runner up better be a good one, because i havent seen her before yet :p

1st n 2nd runner up pics here.:p

Credit Card Fraudster Ris Low Forced To Give Up Miss Spore World Crown - Sam's Alfresco Coffee (http://www.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?p=317028#post317028)

as long got no booms, u knw u knw kinda speech can go africa liao. wont win anything there anyway.:D

whitegals
30-09-2009, 08:16 PM
Eh that Claire Lee looks better leh! Not super hot lah, and a little bit chubby, but ok mah, if both standing on Tarma Road, I think I will pick Claire over Ris. Although her english is not much better, but at least listening to her didn't give me goosebumps. :D

Roman city
30-09-2009, 08:43 PM
Eh that Claire Lee looks better leh! Not super hot lah, and a little bit chubby, but ok mah, if both standing on Tarma Road, I think I will pick Claire over Ris. Although her english is not much better, but at least listening to her didn't give me goosebumps. :D

Agree with you bro. Claire Lee is definately a better choice :D

Max77
30-09-2009, 09:02 PM
at first is the talented shows...now is the beauty pageants...soon the nonsense might spread to the parliament...

Scary...

whitegals
02-10-2009, 12:12 AM
at first is the talented shows...now is the beauty pageants...soon the nonsense might spread to the parliament...

Scary...

You mean we will get Parliament members speaking in their biginis? Wah lau eh, dowan lah, I really dowan to see Lee Bee Wah in her Boomz khaki print bigini! :eek:

HCKing
02-10-2009, 01:11 AM
1st runner up Claire's interview,

YouTube - Miss Singapore World-2009-Pt 5 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9k_OeLRJc4A)

looks aside, her eng is 10x better than booms low.:D

cashier
02-10-2009, 01:24 AM
1st runner up Claire's interview,

YouTube - Miss Singapore World-2009-Pt 5 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9k_OeLRJc4A)

looks aside, her eng is 10x better than booms low.:D

the real chiou bu dun join the competition

PowerTAN_P_W
10-10-2009, 09:24 PM
i still find local girls the most chio and classy and intelligent in the region.

cashier
10-10-2009, 10:31 PM
i still find local girls the most chio and classy and intelligent in the region.

frog in the well ?quess u never see th educated msian gal n e taiwan gals

HCKing
23-10-2009, 12:31 AM
chanced upon this vid on another forum and tot of sharing it here. cant imagine her saying KNNCCB on TV.:D:rolleyes:

YouTube - The Shan + Rozz Show: EP9 - The Boomz Girl (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fpHoHJ4DFIQ&feature=player_embedded#)

AustinPowers
19-01-2010, 06:31 PM
there is absolutely nothing wrong and nothing embarrassing with joining the 'Clan of Foreigner Wives' even if the wife is from a third world country like Vietnam, Thailand, etc. if u think u r not young anymore and r sick of SG gals, go for it! don't bother about how ur relatives and friends will think about u.

but it is also not easy to find a good foreigner wife. u need to know people in the country. people u can trust who can introduce u to good girls. and u need to spend some time getting to know the girl. at least a few weeks. and of course, u need to know some of the language unless it is china. talking about china, there are good girls in china too, but u have to have the good fortune to meet them.

marriage is just like any other commercial transaction. men will go for looks, youth and decent reputation in a woman. men don't care so much about a woman's wealth or career. women don't care so much about a man's looks or whether he has had a lot of girls before. women care more about the man's wealth and career and performance in bed.

because singapore is more developed than most countries in asia, many singaporean men are able to attract quite desirable women in other asian countries. women who, if they are born in singapore, will only be within the reach of the very rich and successful men in singapore. in economic terms, singapore men have a comparative advantage over than the men in less developed countries. so u end up marrying a foreign girl who has far more superior genes (looks or intelligence depending on what u want) than the singapore girl u can attract in singapore. however, not trying to be racist here, but the people in some less developed countries can be quite stupid - and so ur kids can be not as smart. so choose carefully if u want ur kids to be smart.






I just have no luck with local girls since young. I wonder why. Despite arming with a degree, a decent profession and an above-average pay, they still probably feel I'm not good enough for them. Or probably they are stuck-up.

I'm no longer getting younger. My friends are having kids as old as Primary 1. Probably one day, I'm joining the "Clan of Foreigner Wives". :D

suteerak1099
27-02-2010, 09:18 AM
the difference between foreigner & local rip-offs:

foreign chick:

she'd never fully comprehend the financial system here, n u have liberty to stach personal savings
she'd never fully comprehend the "woman's charter", n her rights to alimony if she decides to call it quit
a hefty dowry is probably 1 of the largest some of cash u'd ever need to squeeze from your pocket.
maybe occassional strawberry stories about some critical illness stricken n.o.k. (how many n.o.k. can she have??)
at max, she'd empty u out on some credit cards, unless u're stupid enough to give her unlimited access


conclusion: damage incurred for foreign rip-off, has room to recover (bankruptcy is possible, only if u r silly enough not to have any reservations)

local chick:

she knows the financial system, n u'd probably have no chance in having a hidden stash
she can use the "woman's charter" to her benefit, just by calling it quits, n splitting your bank, cpf, ass into half
no need/ minimal dowry for marriage, but u pay back in full + interest bearing when she throws the trump card "woman's charter"
despite her financial independence, her crutch mentality will still set u back on her extravagance & redundant expenses (if u fail to accede to her requests, u r not a gentleman)


conclusion: damage incurred for local rip-off, has little or no room for recovery (bankruptcy is possible, n not within your means of control)

Max77
27-02-2010, 09:27 PM
slowly...i...see...the...picture...

may all the 'suitable candidates' falls into their 'suitable places' respectively.

we can't let our home grown demure and talented goes to waste in some useless beauty pageant when we all know wad's goes in, dirt comes out :p

Super White
01-03-2010, 12:14 PM
It's typical of Singaporean to treat their daughters like princess... not as many treat their sons as a price.

Naturally not enough prince for the princesses.

The average guy, has no use for a princess.

PowerTAN_P_W
24-01-2011, 08:46 PM
hw to approach a local pretty and sexy hotbabe on the street?:confused:

Ah he
25-01-2011, 07:24 AM
hw to approach a local pretty and sexy hotbabe on the street?:confused:

Just go infornt and apporache her. No need to use those stupid methods.Anyway they are use to it. They give you their number dosent mean interested with you. :):D

Ah he
25-01-2011, 07:39 AM
If you are targeting a girl more atas than you, I wll suggest both of you start as best friend first, then slowly move in. Thats the only safe way, and it wont hurt anyone. Thats what I did last time, but too bad her parents mai.
So lan lan have a last fXXk and say bye bye.
For TKB you have to watch out. My friend kana before. Married with her and have a kid. After she gets the citizenship and passport, she MIA. Our local passport easy to fly here and there mah. Case 2 : She gets her PR and work at HC. Coz now PR only last for 5 years. She told my friend she wants to upgrade herself ( study ) ,so not going to give birth for the time being. If she has higher education lvl easy for her to extend her PR. After she earns enough money MIA liao. SAD.....

TKB ( tiong kok bu )

newhere
25-02-2011, 05:48 PM
Between foreign and local, I'd say the difference is in the odds of getting a dud. Also, foreign women who on their own account, come to Singapore to study/work have already gone through the $$-minded filter and certified "higher-maintenance" compared to those willing to settle for far less back in their own villages.

To me, it's all just market supply-demand dynamics. You want a good deal value for money buy, you have to do your own legwork and pay a visit to those villages where men of your pay check is scarce.

makemecum
27-02-2011, 11:19 AM
:D:pHi all brothers, please share your thoughts and experiences with local girls in this thread. Are they as demanding as people think? Does the average man still stand a chance at landing a local graduate. What causes 40%(according to a Straits Times article) of Singaporeans to marry foreigners?? What do local girls expect from men etc etc. Please share your true thoughts and feelings.

u from the garment com here survey Sin City falling birthrate?:D

nothin to do with edu
mor to do wih society bein mol d and develop the way by garment

if ery other day from young 9from my mallied colleagues) ery one is worry about their kid s edu n future survival,,, how to find true ol love where pple meet, get to know pple, time to ponder about the birds n bees den the economy melting pot about
paper chase, social standing, hdb flats, etc etc


Sin City gals wan good material life and FT provide the means.
Sin City guy earn less den FT, have to seek oversea less materialistic (not not materialistic, but less den local gal) FG... (
(FG - foleign gals)

hw to approach a local pretty and sexy hotbabe on the street?:confused:

hey pretty babe, wanna go H81 mate???

batty
01-05-2011, 01:59 AM
Any one knows why that local Chinese singer, Stephanie Sun married a Indonesian Muslim man? She sold more than 10 million of her music CDs. He is an orphan who was adopted by a Dutch couple. He has a Dutch surname.

Kyser Soze
01-05-2011, 07:19 PM
Local women go for foreign men. Foreign women go for local men. :D

RealEstateGuy
02-05-2011, 04:03 AM
Hi all brothers, please share your thoughts and experiences with local girls in this thread. Are they as demanding as people think? Does the average man still stand a chance at landing a local graduate. What causes 40%(according to a Straits Times article) of Singaporeans to marry foreigners?? What do local girls expect from men etc etc. Please share your true thoughts and feelings.Just want to chime in and say that in my own experience, I have dated majority local SG women of Chinese descent. Most classes but mainly upper class women, university educated locally or abroad (Cambridge, Ivy, USA, etc.) Also have dated a few expat women (AUS, UK like that) of Chinese and Caucasian descent. A few educated Indian women from the UK. Don't understand the problems some other brothers are facing in the dating arena as I find it easy to hit up local SG women.

I think some of the problems brothers might face and this goes for any man is maybe you are on paper (ie NUS grad, good background, good white collar job, nice apartment or condo, BMW of MBZ, sporty dress) but you don't have an A personality and maybe poor hygiene? Social skills can be learned. Also, investing in a better hairstyle, washing more often, switch to contacts or lasik from Coke bottle glasses, sportier clothing (instead of nerdy look) would be a wise investment. You can win a woman with personality alone. The other stuff is just accretive.

batty
02-05-2011, 02:02 PM
Kyser Soze, women seek men who are financially well to do; not just any sort of foreign men. I have not seen any local women with a foreign worker from a Third World Country yet.

RealEstateGuy, I have seen local girls and Westerner girls with boyfriends and husbands of other ethnic groups in Singapore. Yes being able to communicate well and being romantic are good points. Having the 5Cs (cash, condo, credit card, career and car) helps too but are not prerequisites.

Kyser Soze
02-05-2011, 07:09 PM
Kyser Soze, women seek men who are financially well to do; not just any sort of foreign men. I have not seen any local women with a foreign worker from a Third World Country yet.

Oh, certainly. I don't think the local women are dumb enough to do that. :D
I do see many women going for caucasion men. Perhaps they based on the generalisation that the ang mos are rich people. But the hard truth is not many of them are. In any case, there's a term called SPG for such women. I think it is not difficult to understand why. :rolleyes:

angmoguy
05-05-2011, 09:41 AM
you local boys have done it for yourselves. a girl's handbag is a girl's handbag why are you carrying it for her. act like a man. that's what all women want.
All this metro-sexual male nonsense is just advertising rubbish, why do you want to carry a "man-bag". No woman wants a whinny mummy's boy. Grow a pair.

flowerboy888
09-05-2011, 09:58 PM
Agree, the man has to work harder btw

AUDIFAN
10-05-2011, 08:06 PM
Singaporean here, and just a few tips on how to date local girls, foreign girls and also to boost the reputation of singaporean guys. Go hit the gym and build up ur body. One of the reasons local girls prefer foreign guys is because they are better built than us. Foreign girls, esp caucasians, and even local girls prefer better bodies. I see so many singaporeans so skinny, nerdy. U tell me la whose fault they go choose foreigners.