citibonk
17-12-2008, 03:25 PM
This problem happens to me more than 50% of the time I had sex.
Goes like this...
= Meets a new girl somewhere.
= ... ...
= Eventually brings her home for sex.
= The tension is heart-stopping. Extremely excited to see her strip and get naked, and to be able to screw her.
= The initial foreplay is good. Gets a great hard-on.
= 1 or 2 minutes after I penetrate, I totally lose interest. It's like I have already seen the body, and there's nothing about it. I have seen the flaws on her face and her body (example small marks on face, pores on nose, the boobs slant to the side, the body too short, weight loss stretch marks, teeth not clean or white enough, hair has an oily smell ... ...).
= These are trivial flaws but they cause me to lose interest right away. My mind starts to wander, and I think about football, or about another girl I should be screwing.
= I worry about whether this is normal. The only times I maintained sex interest from start to end is when the girl is great from head to toe (face or at least the makeup is flawless, face is beautiful, body is smooth and fair throughout, nails are done well, hair and body smells great)
= When this problem first happened, I will try with the girl another day. It usually gets worse. Can't even get hard!
I wonder whether it is abnormal not to be able to have sex with girls with trivial flaws. Will someone advise me? I am inclined to think I have a psychological problem.
I am nearing 30 this year. It's not ED, because I am able to maintain a good erection for an hour or so, and go 2 or 3 times with a girl I am interested in.
TIA.
Goes like this...
= Meets a new girl somewhere.
= ... ...
= Eventually brings her home for sex.
= The tension is heart-stopping. Extremely excited to see her strip and get naked, and to be able to screw her.
= The initial foreplay is good. Gets a great hard-on.
= 1 or 2 minutes after I penetrate, I totally lose interest. It's like I have already seen the body, and there's nothing about it. I have seen the flaws on her face and her body (example small marks on face, pores on nose, the boobs slant to the side, the body too short, weight loss stretch marks, teeth not clean or white enough, hair has an oily smell ... ...).
= These are trivial flaws but they cause me to lose interest right away. My mind starts to wander, and I think about football, or about another girl I should be screwing.
= I worry about whether this is normal. The only times I maintained sex interest from start to end is when the girl is great from head to toe (face or at least the makeup is flawless, face is beautiful, body is smooth and fair throughout, nails are done well, hair and body smells great)
= When this problem first happened, I will try with the girl another day. It usually gets worse. Can't even get hard!
I wonder whether it is abnormal not to be able to have sex with girls with trivial flaws. Will someone advise me? I am inclined to think I have a psychological problem.
I am nearing 30 this year. It's not ED, because I am able to maintain a good erection for an hour or so, and go 2 or 3 times with a girl I am interested in.
TIA.